Self concept won't manifest your specific person

[@lezgoddess6031]

I think SC shouldn't be done for anyone but yourself. Somebody compared SC to software - the more upgraded (vrsion) the faster it works. But agree with you on this point. For specific desires we need to have specific intentions. 🎯

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

very true! It should be to improve your own self image not because you think it will speed up another manifestation, your assumptions come first

[@arina3322]

I totally agree! I have manifested two different SPs twice in the past and they have thoroughly confirmed my affirmations. But I had a really hopeless self concept back then, so these relationships quickly broke up unfortunately. I fixed it again with affirmations, they came back again and went away again. Back then, I was involved in the law of attraction and had no idea that self concept was so important. Currently, 1/2 of affirmations is self concept, 1/2 is SP and the effects are spectacular, and what's more, I can't relate to other men either! 😝

[@melody.melody]

What do you affirm?

[@arina3322]

@@melody.melody I have three affirmations for my self concept: I’m gorgeous and goddess, I’m always first best, I’m always everyone priority And three for my SP: SP always loves me, SP always desires only me, I’m in a happy relationship with SP and sometimes I add something like this: I’m so adored and loved by SP And that’s all, I think it should be short

[@dedikurniawan5058]

Do you listen to 8 hour night taps . How do you affirm this and any techniques or something. I’m new to this world

[@arina3322]

@@dedikurniawan5058 I repeat my affirmations in the morning in the bathroom, in the shower, while applying makeup and styling my hair. Then while making breakfast, I say it aloud all the time. Sometimes I pretend that I call my friend and tell her on the phone that SP loves me that I am the only one, etc. During the day I try to repeat affirmations whenever 3D starts to bother me, then I often say that everything is always in my favor, that I am God and only I decide. When I drive a car, I affirm sometimes singing out loud to my favorite songs. While walking, I listen to recorded affirmations in the Parrott app. I don't listen at night because I can't sleep, and then I start to feel anxious.

[@dancingcloud8557]

It seems to me that it would be hard to keep something long term if don't have confidence in one's self

[@CurvyCass1982]

My SP loves me exactly as I am. I get my desires no matter what.

[@Truthbetold630]

Reputation is your friend, repetition is the answer, but repetition is the number one key to it all!!! Persist in that.

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

yes!!

[@Truthbetold630]

@@alexa.wyrwicz thank you. ❤️

[@CurvyCass1982]

Yep!!

[@Truthbetold630]

@@CurvyCass1982 Thank you ❤️

[@Lisa-kh6cy]

Thank you so much for posting this. Once I shifted into this mindset, I saw so much movement with my SP because my SC in relation to him was changing. With all the talk about “SC” I can’t tell you how many times I spiraled because I thought I was not perfect and doing something wrong. NO I am perfect. My SC is perfect.

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

💜💜

[@meggiegolden4310]

I definitely agree self concept is more to keep your manifestation not to gain it. Even though I've heard other coaches say you could work on self concept alone and not ever manifest for your SP and you would get them. I don't believe that. Mainly for the fact that I barely worked on self concept and only on SP and I manifested him back within 8 months. Now that hes back I plan to work on self concept because I want to and I want to keep my manifestation but I didn't need it to manifest him back

[@tessgroenewegen1343]

This might have become an assumption now... but I always agree with you... or you always agree with me. Either way, your advice always puts my mind at ease/validates what I had already assumed! 🥰😃

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

awww great haha

[@hazardpie9650]

Concise and helpful, always find you soothing and uplifting to listen to. I really look forward to getting in, making a hot chocolate and watching the latest upload! ☕🍂🍁

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

Thank you so much!

[@fehermarcell6826]

I've said it once, but let's say it again: you can have the best SC in the world, but if the story you hold about the other person does not change, well..

[@artbygilik]

Can we please talk about seeing so many other people getting our desired manifestation? 🙂 I always tell myself that I'm happy for them and that I am worthy and can have that now too and now it's my turn

[@24awesomesttlovenlife14]

🙏 for sharing your POV! Yes it’s true that people with low self esteem manifest relationships. Self-concept will help with the longevity of the relationship. *+*

[@24awesomesttlovenlife14]

Self concept work can manifest sp as many have proven. And you are right in saying that the specifics require targeted sp affirmations. Or something blanket like I always get what I want from everyone. Everything works together for Awesomeness! Best of luck to everyone here and this channel. *+*

[@kmr8642]

Makes absolute sense 👏👏👏 Regards manifesting an ex back - when in no contact but affirming & manifesting the return of the relationship - does this clash with the concept of withdrawing your energy from the ex/sp? Thanks!

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

No, it’s your repetition that manifests so whatever you’re affirming is what will manifest

[@kmr8642]

Thank you 🙏

[@adin833]

Woww. This was one of the best videos about self concept I v ever watched. So far I have been confused on which one is more important, self concept or SP/Desire affirmations. This answered to all my questions and ambiguities. You are the best Alexa. 💞🌸✨

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

Thank you so much! Yes, if you feel balanced in your self concept and are not “starting from scratch“ then your focus should be on your desire if that’s what you’re trying to manifest

[@Weiii0925]

I think self concept is important. How u see yourself the world will response u , with a good selfconcept getting a lot of benefis and insurance. However , main desire should work in parallel.

[@sabordelicia8811]

Great video !!! Thank you

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

Thank you for watching!

[@tattoedtattletales9288]

So in case of a 3P, which does make me waiver a bit, should I affirm 'SP chooses me' or 'I have always been the chosen one?

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

I would recommend I have always been chosen by SP. This technically revises the 3 p from ever being with them

[@tattoedtattletales9288]

@@alexa.wyrwicz Thank you

[@iwillnotcomply5945]

Yes, I know people with lousy sc, inferiority complex and depression having dream relationships.

[@Mellyxoxo25]

Could you do- or is there a Video about „living in the end“ and „sp affirmation“ ? Cause if I‘m lvining in the end then I would not say „he s texting me/he text s me even if he s busy“ its clear he does/would if we‘re 2gether or 💍 Right? So I either do the aff. Or I do the LITE „thing“ or both?

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

I have a video on the topic but I can do an updated version

[@Mellyxoxo25]

@@alexa.wyrwicz 😍😍😍 that would be the perfect Birthday gift 🎁 thank you Alexa🤗

[@xoxia7758]

I have thought this am glad to hear it

[@nidsosenginh]

what if my sp still not fully conforms and there’s one thing i cannot accept and already ask him to do for me, but he’s not done it yet. in the the meantime, he’s telling me he misses me etc? can u just ignore the texts coz i dont wanna entertain the 3d that is not my version i want? i always think it would be rude and he might lose interest etc

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

You’re creating negative assumptions by thinking he will lose interest, you ignore what you don’t like and persist in the new story

[@MK-ey2rr]

What is the magical answer then ?

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

There is no magical answer, I discussed what you need to do in the video x

[@christos9586]

How to focus on my desire when the mind runs to other directions ?

[@alexa.wyrwicz]

Take time out to sit quietly by yourself and dedicate some time to affirming