Self-Dependent Hone Se Rishta Strong Banta Hai Ya Kamzor? | YourVikas

[@bhartihazare6478]

and this interdependence should be respected and taken care of from both sides one should not take advantage of that fact

[@aramsingh3928]

That will not happen.. One day other person will take advantage

[@PRIYASINGH-gc5zw]

Two self dependent people can also be interdependent on each other.it only depends on their willingness to be together 😊

[@bhumika65]

correct... we can be interdependent on each other even after being self dependent for some times

[@sourabhs14]

Thats the point. If the only thing that is keeping you together is willingness, then that is not solid foundation. If tomorrow you fight and your mood changes, then your willingness will also change. Thats why we need both willingness and interdependence.

[@user-starshine13111]

Absolutely right ❤......

[@shubhangijoshi4692]

1000% true

[@futuredoct]

Yess emotional level pr they can be interdependence on each other despite being self dependent ❤

[@99stranger]

Isko majburi kehte hai, love kabhi ni ho skta dependency me, toxic life ab kisi ko nahi chahiye, emotional dependent thoda rehlo but chijo ke liye kisi pr dependent mt rhna.👍🏻

[@snehakasera8477]

Ye baate tabhi acchhi lgti hai jb aap male hai , agar female hote fir sayad kuch aur kehte 😅

[@sreejaraj8052]

Sach hai ye, jab bahu ko kitchen me jalakr maar diya jata tha, tab bhi interdependent the. Fir bhi bahu ki jalkr mrne ki khabrein bhot thi, newspaper me Wo to ab laws strict hai thore

[@shalini8160]

Abhi mahilaye kaise padh likh le rahi hai job kar rahi hai to in mardo ko pach nahi raha hai isliye dekho aise bol rahe hai ye ,agar ladkiyan naukri karnr lage to ladkiyo ko mardo par depend rahna hi nahi padega kabhi kyuki wo khana banana bhi janti hai aur bachche palna bhi mard sirf kamata raha hai sadiyo se aur ab ladkiyan khud kamane lagi to wo mard ke sath kyu rahegi kyu khana banayegi uska ghar sambhalegi uske maa baap bachche kyu sambhalegi .

[@rituchahar3153]

Ab b na jaane kitni females ko maar k jldi dah- sanskar kr dete h police tk bt hi nhi jati ....pr ha kanoon ka dr to h logo m phle se to km ho gya h ye sb

[@goldylife304]

Aajkal itni baatein isliye aagayi hai kyuki pehle aurat adjust compromise acceptance tolerance sab kerti thi. Mudda sirf financial dependence ka tha. Admi kamakar lata tha , to uski dhons dikhata tha. Aurat yehi sochkar ghut ti rehti thi ki agar mein kama rahi hoti to ye tiraskar nahi jhelna padta Aaj kamarahi hai to kyu adjust or compromise kare. But males ki to puraani conditioning hai, waha koi badlaav nahi hai

[@payalsharma7864]

Sahi hai...humari society mein salon se yeh bakwas baatein karke females ko pagal banaya jata Raha hai..aise bol ker unhe kichen mein bitha dete hai or phir torture karte hai...

[@subhashreepurohit9609]

Now days girls must be independent

[@elsa2885]

Everyone should be independent.

[@user-vi4ee]

​​@@elsa2885you mean financially independent Har field m independent nhi ho sakta insan Aap k partner aur ek random stranger m kya difference rh jayega fir Agar aap ek dusre p depend nhi ho Aap low feel kr rhe ho you need somebody to listen you that is dependency Aap ko cooking nhi aati your partner cooks for you i am not saying wife kyunki kuch ladkiya cook nhi kar sakti to ladke bhi cook karte h Aap nature p depend karte h bahut si chizo k liye Even apne aap ko express karne k liye koi listener chahiye 😂😂😂 Har chiz dependent h is duniya m dusri chiz p

[@proudtobeindian6594]

और उसे इंटरडिपेंडेंसीज में जिसके ऊपर फाइनेंशियल जिम्मेदारी होगी वह अपने आप को ज्यादा महान समझता है😂 सच तो यह है कि जब किसी को किसी की कोई जरूरत ही ना रहे तब भी वह लोग साथ रहे वही सच्चा प्यार है

[@shreishthasinghsingh7774]

Ye baat sach hai. Jab kisi se kuch na chahiye ho or bas saamne wale ki smile important ho, wahi pyar hai.

[@TulikaGupta-ru4kx]

Absolutely true, this is the main pain of Indian women..😢

[@sonaljoshi1724]

Yes true

[@vartikaparihar5316]

Exactly

[@user-vi4ee]

Emotional dependency hi hui ye bhi

[@sunshine-ms6wk]

Rishte interdependence se nahi majburi ke karan chalte hai jiske pass income ka koi source na ho to wo dependent hi hoga. Isme jyadatar females torture hone ke baad bhi rishte nibhati hai.

[@TulikaGupta-ru4kx]

Very true, u disclose the real face of Indian society...😢

[@vartikaparihar5316]

Exactly shyd s interview dere is uncle ki smjh mei nhi ara bvkuff

[@aditisharma56-b9v]

True love is when people are so mature that they live with the other just for emotional dependence. No other dependence.

[@aridammathapa8995]

concept of interdependence katam nahi ho rha , but uska prospects change ho rha h Pehle jo interdependence physical aur financial needs ki jyada hoti thi, usme suffering and emotional baggage hota tha. Society, family, bacche jyada important the. But aaj log aapne aap ko bhi importance dena sikh rahe h But aaj kal intellectual and emotional needs ki ho gyi h Pehle couple ke bich me baaki sab ata tha but now they trying to seek their happiness first.

[@imamhussain7544]

Two people should stay together because they enjoy each other's company and love. Not because they have dependency. Relationship based on dependency leads to harassment and molestation.

[@prachikate7951]

दोनो की मर्यादा हैं, interdependentcy के नाम पर रायता मत साफ करावालो एक दुसरे से. और self dependant हो तो आगे वाले को भी उसकी आझादी देदो, छी नो मत 🙏

[@poetrylife8854]

Sirg...dependency is never love....there should b mutual understanding respect of each other's feelings...it is far beyond from dependency.....dependency hmare parents jhel re the...

[@futuredoct]

Yess emotional level pr they can be interdependence on each other despite being self dependent ❤

[@Mainu-e9w]

Pyar wo nehi jo depndnt banate hain..pyar uncnditionl hona sahiye..

[@anonymouse05]

Exactly

[@aramsingh3928]

Hona chahiye jaise book me hota hai.. Real life me kaha hote hai

[@deekshaprusty]

Women became a little bit self dependent financially and we are hearing these BS.

[@vrindakapoor60]

Because these men have no idea what the generation of our mothers, grandmothers and so on have lived through

[@payalsharma7864]

Because they enjoyed fruits of patriarchy for generations...but now their shrewdness is out and women are not falling for this BS anymore

[@SM-hk6ff]

He never said only women should be dependant on husband.. he said both should be interdependent on each other.. If there is desire to be self dependent, then don't be in a relationship.. Be single.. Who cares you live or die ?

[@SandeepKaur-c9n]

Sahi hai bhai sahab,kisse kon sa rishta,samay badal rha hai....akele aaye th,akele jana hai...

[@vrindakapoor60]

True. Marriage ek social construct hai. Isse zabardasti sabki life ka part bana diya gaya. Zaruri nahi har koi achha spouse/parent ho, ya ho sakta hai kisi ki khushi kisi aur cheez mei ho par sabko ek template chipka diya jisme Kai log majburi mei jo rahe hain

[@seemathakur5400]

बिल्कुल सही और सटीक बात,,,,

[@SoniyaUpadhyay-f5f]

Sach kaha. Aapne sir ❤❤

[@alizahqadri6456]

Absolutely true bro

[@niharikarana6483]

Yess.. Best thing and new thing i have heard... Tired of watching this thing.. Strong independent women...

[@RageshRmane]

Jab tak wife dependent hoti hai wo saath deti hai jaise hi wo indipendent ho jati hai use kisi ko zhelna pasand nahi aata 😂😂😂🎉

[@THEABHIJEETSHARMACHANNEL]

#Truly deep

[@karunakhurana1543]

Thankyou for sharing fruitful contents

[@positivitymahi3613]

2 self dependent logon mein jhagda nai hota….co-dependency se divorce tabhi hota hai jab one person demands too much from the other- it’s the imbalance in give and take! Self dependence avoids this- so it’s good

[@NehaChandra-vy5ij]

2 self dependence log sath rhte hai jb jhgde hone pe bhi bs respect ho ......respect nhi h to mt he brdast kro mt jhelo mt chlao riste....riste chlaye nhi nibhaye jate hain sir

[@chitrakashyap2630]

V well said n quiet true also. 😊

[@poojabhatnagar4160]

❤❤

[@JagsirSingh-zc2ux]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Vildug4287]

❤

[@Bushra969]

Absolutely Right 👍

[@sushmadhawan7590]

❤

[@manishachoudhari4759]

Yes I completely agree Sometimes nd for somethings it's okay to depend on anyone

[@mamtahooda435]

Right sir👍👍👍👍👍 bilkul sahi Kaha

[@sanjanapanda1997]

Attention- This rule is applicable on both Man and woman. It's a mutual partnership not a business deal.

[@user-mg7yh2hs5n]

Pehli baar kisi ne itna sach bola hai.

[@khushalikashvi6408]

Shared

[@gargipanda4401]

Not completely agree. Love binds us together. Even if we don't depend on each other.

[@rubysaini4982]

Sahi hai

[@Bloom05.23]

You're absolutely right sir..!!!

[@poojavermaverma7739]

Actually sir true

[@anuradha220]

Sahi baat hai ye ekdum

[@ngupta3330]

Bahut accha kaha.

[@sarojdewasi5573]

U r absolutely right but could you please notice when u say me q jelu me q compramise kru all we can imagine is women u see... Otherwise we are too mature enough to understand mutual dependency is the best u know mutual compramise...

[@Spaneditz]

Sach kaha aapne

[@kakoliboro5796]

Not agree sir.... only sunne main accha lagta hai par reality kuch aur.... Yehi soch k maine job nahi kia par jo "Ijjat ka falooda" hua, No respect at all how much work you do ghar ka bahar ka... bangla gadi sab mila per respect nahi..pair ki jutti samajhte hai 😢..so girls don't do this mistake

[@PragyaSrivastava-yo9oj]

Right 💯

[@NikitaMaheshwari-2804]

Wow 🤩 very well explained 👏🏻

[@shivanimdgl511]

Majobbori mein q rehna hai kisi k saath…self dependence is imp…you will still stay because u r dependent for each other’s love…fights dont diminish love

[@bewakoofiyan.ofmylife6217]

Right sir

[@rkdesigner4144]

Bhai dono m pyar hona chahiye nirbharta nhi nirbharta ko majburi hi khaten hain...

[@mohdnayeem38]

Kaya baat hai buhat kuoob

[@ummemmm4600]

True

[@radhikaShingote]

Absolutely 💯

[@iamup1]

So true ,

[@sushmitadey2428]

You are simply The best❤

[@AbhikBasu-f8s]

Self dependent hain agar economically to rishta chalega qki emotional dependency b ho sakti hai. But humko bola jata hai rishta tabi chalega jab ladki k pas koi economic independence na ho.

[@TulikaGupta-ru4kx]

Very true, but if two r interdependent & living together this is not love only because of helplessness😢True love is when u r not dependent & living together

[@anjanaDutta-p9x]

Koi zaroorat v nei hein ,koi shadi kerne k liye peida nei hota hein .shadi kerke ,ek doosre k pitdh per cherdke ,ek doosre ko barbaad kerne k liye peida nei hota hein . Samay samay per jeewan badalta hein ,ub Bhatiya bibah mein v bedlaw ki zaroorat hein .ub shadi k naam per rishton mein tanaw accha nei legta .log shadi k baad maansik tanaw mein aaker bimar ho rehe hein ,ghut ghut ker mer rehe hein . Shadi nei kerke. Swasth rehna ,apne sunder jeewan ko anubhaw kerna ,ye zaroori hein , phir aayu kum ho to v chelega

[@farhanashabbir6565]

Finally someone said it .....🎉

[@PinkyYadav-ps4sn]

Wow❤❤❤

[@niveditagupta2584]

True❤

[@aramsingh3928]

Hard truth, still people are marrying someone for having kids.. Though in that relationship no love, no respect nothing

[@durgeshnandinisahu2741]

you right bhaiya🎉

[@Kusumshi4076]

Is ka matlb, jo samne vala aap ki galti n hone par aap ki disrespect kr rahai to bhi life usi insanke sath Adjustment mai nikale

[@starking81]

Sahi bola

[@sweety5761]

I heard about this first time .. absolutely woww thinking

[@farheenhaider2480]

Well said ,that is true 👍

[@bablihardeep3834]

So true

[@Option_trader_77]

Dependent rishta tabhi smooth chal sakta hai jab log usko majburi ke jagah responsibility me convert kar de matlab agar ek kama raha hai to wo samne se ghar chalane ke liye jitna paisa chahiye wo usko de dede taaki wo baar baar bheekh na mange aur jo ghar sambhal raha hai wo time to time usko khana wegera aur ghar achhe se manage kare. Tabhi rishta achha chalta hai mene mere ghar me yahi dekha hai meri dady kama ke ek specific ammount mummy ke bina mange de dete hai aur uska hisab kitab nahi lete aur mummy unko time to time khana wegera hamara school sab kaam sambhal leti thi isliye unke bich kabhi jhagde nahi huye.

[@neha5706]

Beautifully said

[@shreishthasinghsingh7774]

Dependents are not respected by the provider, that's why everything on sharing basis is important. Meaningful relation needs repect, love and care. A relation in Which any persons growth ceased in any way is detrimental to personal happiness and society.

[@NehaSharma-qw2nd]

Right

[@yoorachel7696]

He means to say humans can never be adjusted with each other anyway and that even if you are self -capable be dependent 🤷🏻🤷🏻

[@khushboo0786]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ finally someone said it

[@manindernarwal5749]

Well said

[@akshitagoyal1314]

Self dependent best है ✌️

[@drrichajain]

Very true

[@dollytiwari4828]

Jhelna ldko ko jyada pdta hai isliye ldkiya is chij se bachna chahti hai

[@Sangeetamadam-g6j]

Kyuki financially independent person ne khoob exploit kiya dependent ko. Chaahe wo family k liye kitna bhi kare. Ab sab financially independent rehna chaahte hain. Ab wahi rishte chalte hain, jinka adhaar pyaar aur sammaan hai. Shohan nahi

[@nishasharmamishra8334]

Would you be the person who depends on your spouse, especially in terms of money, household works?

[@Prime-xh7cm]

M bhi yhi sochti hu ki ek insaan sb kuch kr ske apna..pr

[@souvik9124]

Fir rishte chalana bhi nhi😂 mujhe to mil gyi ab tum log samhalo

[@ananyamajumder4235]

Well dependency isnt love. Agar self dependent hai aur uski wajayse rishte nahi ban reh hai to unn rishto ko banna bhi nahi chahiye. Pyar apko azad aur ucha karta hai. Pyar me aap uss admi se wo jaisa hai uske liye pyar karte ho usse aapko kya mil raha hai uske liye nahi.

[@user-yk5xu8gr1e]

Basically rishta sirf weak logon ka chalta hai 😢that is toxic

[@vraddhi3556]

Basic rule is over dependence leads to exploitation be it financially, emotionally, physically, mentally and so on. Traumatic relationship suffer karne se accha hai alag ho jao. First females didn't have option to walk out of marriage because they were not supported by their parents after getting married and mentally tortured by in-laws due to poor conditioning of men.

[@goldylife304]

Interdepency = selfish greed Relationship = love n selflessness

[@HusnaAiman7716]

These are deep lines .... Young generation must understand this ..... ❤

[@JasKaur-vq7lq]

Self dependent k baad jo ptar hoga voh selfless hoga Phir ik sath is vjh se rhe ga k 2 acche insan rehna chahte h Akele b reh skte h per sath mai rehna jada accha smjhte h kyu k ik dusre ko admire respect krte h … Interdependence slavery h

[@jencynadar19]

I love your voice sir 😍 ❤

[@SantoshKumar-wp7ro]

Wo chije kya hai give me strong genuine that you depend on her Bachha ka care koi v krlega Family cooking koi v krlega Etc we can manage without her . Please 🙏...

[@PoonamSingh-eg5oh]

Main self depend nahin hun isliye hi mere husband ke sath rah rahi hun 😂😂

[@elsa2885]

Srsly?

[@kiranyadav744]

Kyu ab jab ladkiyaan aage badh rhi hai to ye naya concept la kar fir unko peeche kheencho, just interchange the dependency roles aur fir dekhe aap interdependency k baare me baat karna chahenge ki nahi

[@shiprasharan3913]

Inki channel bahut jyada grow up honi chahiye . . Kyuki aaj kal ke generation ke bacche relationship ko mjk smjh rhe h . . Lkin Iska asal ehsaas sukh or dukh dono k saath saath chalne me hi hai❤

[@h...b298]

​@@Sbi.officer Bhagwan aapki aatma ko shanti de🙏💐...💀

[@priyanshiprajapati7993]

Me sochti hun aap all time jab v bat karte ho hamesha smily face hota hai kese 😊

[@ishusingh8875]

Kyuki kahi na kahi inka bhi chalta hoga 😅misunderstanding but logo ki nazaron mein sahi rehne ke liye krte hai yeh baatein jo sach mein bilkul bhi dekhne ko nhi milti

[@neina6812]

Asa rista chlana hi kyu ake ko nokrani bna diya jaye aate hi vo sab ki khusi dekhe but uski kushi ka dhyan koi nhe deta ha but bahr samjh me dikayege ki hme apni bahu beti ka bahut khyal or admi bhe but asl me uske liye ake aurat ka jism or nokarni ka roop pasand bas sachhai yahi hai

[@naina81485]

Satya vachan 😢😅 brother

[@user-mq8el4mf3q]

After we become independent does we live our friends, parent or sibling they are not dependent on us and nor we are , stop making toxicity and najburi name of relationship

[@beautyshubhra]

Bss inter dependent rhte huye chahe mental trauma and depression hi kyu naa ho jaye

[@aditigarg7329]

Adjustment is the key of relationship we understand bt if it should not be forced or it should be by choice bcoz u don't want to loose that person........nd it doesn't come from dependency it comes from love ,care , respect, loyalty.❤❤❤. ............ ............... So plz stop 🛑 spreading this stupid thoughts in this today's world 🌎 u should be independent at any couse so work hard ......❤😊

[@pawanrathor4620]

बात सही है मगर, साथ में पुरुषों का एहसान जताना भी तो बढ़ता जा रहा है। अगर किसी चीज के लिए पत्नी पति पर ही निर्भर है तो उसको ये जताना कि तू मेरे बिना कुछ नहीं कर सकती और जब बात खुद की आती है तो तुरंत उसको ये जता देना कि इस दुनिया तू ही थोड़ी है जो मेरी जरुरत को पूरा कर सकती है, और भी बहुत महिलाएं है, तू एहसान मान की तुझे घर में रख रहा हूं।