Self Love Made Easy! | Anita Moorjani - Speaker & Best Selling Author

Tea With Anita - Episode 1
6th October, 2019
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[@payalk2898]

Love yourself from the way Sources would do 7:56-12:30 15:31- watch the language in which you talk to yourself Even your family has gone through a journey, just love yourself and then you can give them 28:48-31:20 Learn to live as a healthy person for a week, that's what people do on retreats

[@astralcat4880]

Yours is the most helpful way I have ever heard as far as developing self-love. I did what you described and iimmediately felt love for myself, my soul which is on this journey. I cried, but it was good because it was like, “I’m still here. And I learned, and I grew, and see clearly who I am.” There was more, but I felt and feel love for myself, my soul which is in this body right now. Truly beautiful, Anita. Thank you. I will always remember this❤️🙏🏼

[@Paula-wp7bk]

I just read your book Dying to be Me. LOVED IT! It changed my life and perspective. Thank you so much for sharing your amazing experience. I'm blown away. XO

[@Artyangel3]

I know this is an old video but I came upon it today. I am going through a painful body issue & working my way through. I’m on my 3 rd Tea with you today, Anita! A moment ago I watched a hummingbird out my window & then turned back to the tv to watch you & what do I see in the background.... a hummingbird flitting about in your pink flowers!!! Hummingbird is Joy! I am Joy!! How beautiful & a wonderful sign I’m on the right path!!! Thank you for being exactly who you are!! I absolutely LOVE how real & gentle you are. I connect to so much of what your journey has been.... ie being bullied & not feeling accepted etc. You even speak similarly to me ❤️ Oh! & Danny! Your voice is absolutely beautiful!!! We can hear the gentleness & love! You two are adorable!

[@ROSE-jb5gt]

Danny needs an asmr account 😂 such a relaxing voice 😌😂😌

[@angelikadiamantova5001]

Dear Anita. Thank You for the quite time with tea. You are so pretty today. Your hair, your clothes and everything around you - that space is very harmonic and pleasant for me. Thank you for this experience. And I prefer the peacok web design, because I love the rainbow, peacoks and fairies just like You. Many greetings from Slovakia.

[@berniek4461]

thank you Anita and Danny. your love 💗 to us is the doorway xxxxx

[@forestsoceansmusic]

Note to myself: start watching at 7:56 in.

[@debra832]

I've been through so much and it's very hard to love myself.. I love others and I know how to show them love.. but it's hard for me to love myself my soul has really been through alot.. I just started to hold myself at night when I go to bed I either fold my hands or I gently brace my arms around myself I'm working on loving myself I can honestly say I feel love when I embrace myself Debra

[@dubissokomisch]

This is exactly what I needed to hear these days.

[@mariamichalinos2224]

I am so grateful to you for sharing all your beautiful and precious thoughts! You and Danny are an amazing team! Thank you! ~Namaste~

[@FairyTheGreenOne]

Determining what your true needs and wants are in life and in a relationship and not compromising is a vital part of self love. Listening and trusting your gut intuition and acting on what you intuit with courage (and not overthinking) in spite of your mind fears, is a part of self love. Learning to say no and being faithful to your inner knowing is a part of self love. Self love, unconditional love of self will create a healthy, intact ego which is your sense of self, your sense of self esteem and your self worth, (which are moderated and guided by your conscience..and your gut intuition). Self love helps us to navigate through the human condition which we are meant to fully experience, even the miserable lows as well as the highs and everything in between. That's why we were born into this life, I believe... God learns through us and our experiences and is enriched by us and...likewise we are enriched by our connection to Oneness. Recognising and integrating the lessons learnt through the difficult and the easy times, helps us to develop discernment, self and other awareness, better self protection and self care and self compassion/forgiveness and self love so that we can evolve and eliminate negative patterns of thought and behaviour, so that we can gain in self knowledge, discernment and wisdom and move forward rather than relive the past. Now that's mature self love. 💛🌞

[@viviengeorge2824]

Loving yourself is loving your soul. So true! I've learnt so much from you dear Anita. There are so many messages out there for a world full of people. Your messages have resonated for me in my life, replacing the need to love all others and do for all others at all costs with loving myself and filling my soul with what it needs, at all costs. Thank you dear Anita and Danny! Look so forward to my Sunday mornings with you guys

[@denisesarjant1912]

I'm from England now living in the U.S.A I'm drinking Yorkshire tea right now. I love you and your book, and these podcasts. You are an amazing person, Using your time and gift to help others . I making Jewelry from broken pieces of porcelain tea cups I will send you a couple of photos by email.

[@sanjanaraju4045]

I love how you smile when you look at Danny🧡

[@eohglobalventuresllc3059]

Anita, my special thanks for this session of "Tea with Anita." It was very helpful for me, especially as you discussed several very specific and concrete actions to take to love oneself, which primarily equates to love of one's Soul. You discussed how to set the stage for repeated, and increasingly effective, practice, and the use of music to raise one's vibrations during the practice. I really appreciate your ongoing discussion of maintaining oneself at the highest vibration possible, so that others must first be at such a high vibration in order to interact only with respect and love. Thank you for requesting that viewers send pictures of their favorite coffee/tea mug. It was wonderful to see all that were submitted! You are an angel amongst us. I also send my gratitude to Danny for all that he does to provide such love and support for you.

[@loveofinquiry3839]

Thank you Anita and Danny, your shows always make feel good💗

[@lizasauniere5145]

Thank you dear Anita! Thank you for the light of your soul, it is loving and uplifting ! With love from Elizaveta in Florida

[@lissoerensen1752]

Thank You and Danny. Both off You are maling my Day lovely . Lods off love from me 🙏🙌🦋💜

[@ellar5450]

I really admire you , Anita! my friend from Slovenia told me about you and I started to listen to your lectures and it really speaks to me . You put very complicated things so simple , easy . it is really mind blowing , how with different thoughts person can change his/her perception . For example video about money, I really do not like taking anything from anyone , but always give , and yes, most of the time we deplete ourselves leaving ourselves with no money. I jsut want to tell you how much I have respect, admiration for you. Thank you for being on this planet with us ! God Bless

[@kaliwander3479]

So sweet. And the man has a very beautiful voice. Wow

[@daynaclift2276]

Much love to you Anita and Danny! Peace.

[@shayr8384]

I find such comfort from your messages 💛. Everything makes sense in the ways you explain.

[@sharmashwetaUTube]

Love you Anita..your work has changed my life

[@bassay3598]

What a gorgeous backdrop.

[@anncrompton2114]

Loved this as always, thank you Anita and Danny 😘😘

[@vectormatrix477]

Good morning Anita & Danny. I really struggle with understanding the concept of how to love myself. I like my character & who I am...but I always put others wants or desires above my own & I often feel very inadequate. Thank you for your efforts to clarify how to love ones self it really helps me. I needed to hear this.

[@Jahrhcy]

You are just simply amazing!

[@laurirusso1]

Deuter! Yes- tracks traveling the stars & immortalle album

[@priyadharsini6638]

Thank u soo much for ur great guidance.. 😍sending u loads of love❤❤❤❤

[@carladandy2433]

This was beautiful and helpful. Thank you xx

[@marapruak3917]

I love listening to you..........you make things so so simple. I use to ask myself; what is self love and here you gave the answer. Thank you..........an easy way explained that I can keep referring back. The soul in me need loving and care............loving the whole.

[@beautyinsideout6422]

Anita Mam you are a God send I am truly blessed to have your videos in my life. I am following what you said, it’s a paradigm shift for me, I feel wonderful loved and honoured by myself. I finally feel like home…

[@siimplyvegetariian]

Thank you so much !

[@apoorvaagarwal7732]

Much required for me in my current situation... thanks a ton, love u🥰🥰

[@janakigopalan1992]

My God. Everything is so true. Thank you Anita 🙏

[@greenenergywhale]

I've watched almost of Anita's video everyday, again and again but always I have new learning from everyday.Thank you so much! and I like danny's cup so much!!😂 from Tokyo.❤

[@jindramandova3911]

Thank you Anita for such a nice words you are sharing with all of us.

[@inner4power]

That’s a wonderful recommendation. Thanks 🙏 great

[@juned5442]

Omgoodness I saw a fairy tending your pink flowers. that is just wonderful 16 mins 13 secs in - Love it. Just love meeting with you for tea :D

[@bassay3598]

Hi❣️ Wow, it most not be chance that brought me to this channel for the first time today and the topic of her discussion is self love and good choices.

[@majaprorocic3043]

I keep watching this video over and over again!☕️🍵🍺🍹🍸🍷🍻🍶💙💜💕

[@Bamboos2011]

Anita, you are so gifted at guiding others. It would be lovely if you could do this in reoccurring classes (maybe u already do) so people can learn how to do this themselves. Just when you start talking about going to a quiet place for inner work, i find it soooo healing right away. From beginning to the Now of a soul's journey. if you already do then im sorry, maybe im a lil late to the party. :)

[@silviaklahm2604]

this was soooooooo helpful! thank you :)

[@miawilson903]

Thank you so much for your sharing Anita.xo. Also ..I love the Buddha cup the guy from Switzerland showed.

[@ginaiosef1634]

❤️ Love you Anita and Boo!❤️

[@edinaalic4500]

Thank you 🙏 so much for helping me love myself. I love you ❤️

[@marilynmoney2771]

Music can change your state indeed But if your work is music Then you must be careful It can pop you into a Melon holy place So Positive Motown music 🎵🎶 For me No music that's without Lyrics Positive upbeat music That's for me

[@JessicaIsegran]

Love you Anita! Watching you always makes me so happy 😍 Love Danny too. When is your book coming!? Looking forward to it so much.

[@rebella5769]

You have the most beautiful tea mugs I've ever seen. I would love if when you are showing off your mugs, if you would mention where you get these amazing artful teas.

[@lizasauniere5145]

Thank you dear Anita. Can you please create a topic on the ways of self love which other people practice and share the experience with you. As for me, the best way is to enjoy time with my daughter and listening to your videos , they fulfill me.

[@JyoSco007]

The cats and dog story. I can think of myself in both versions. And can think of other people with those two versions.

[@JS-ld2qd]

Such a fun and inspiring session

[@funnyanimals1111]

Thank you so much 🙏🏼

[@Soul-Energy-Janeal]

Thank you 🙏🏼

[@viviancheah2081]

Hi Anita, thank you for putting up all these videos. I watch them and find answers and comfort. Can you do a. Video on soul contracts? Did you have a chance to find out about this when you had your NDE? I am keen to know if contracts made between lovers, family and enemies. Thank you

[@nivessvajger262]

Dear Anita and Danny...i think we arranged that I would read your amazing story and looking at you, when I feel alone and not heard... I will try you advice. Thank you. I feel I am going to be even more grateful when I'll look back at this challanging times i am in. You 2 aree sooo cool and calming ❤❤

[@gouloune1]

To love yourself, do EINSTELLEN according to the teachings of BRUNO GRONING. He teaches about HEALING through the natural (spiritual) path. The practice is clear, simple and most importantly IT WORKS.

[@marlena.vestergaard]

Thank you ❤️

[@ddm0147]

Hi Anita!!! Do you have a podcast? You should have one if none yet. Itll be so easy for us to listen to you :) more Love and Power!!! ❤❤❤

[@bassay3598]

I often ask why people abuse me, and treat me with disrespect.

[@claireslattery7]

I ❤️ you Anita and Danny 🦋

[@papermoon1]

Good evening from the uk!

[@sharmashwetaUTube]

Will love if you come for a workshop to North Carolina

[@chris7921]

I’ve been doing this to myself for a long time now, especially with finding a better paid job. I have felt for a long time that I’m not good enough to get jobs that I apply for or fail.

[@mealewis4698]

When I do thing for myself it does not make me feel the way I feel when I'm doing it for others.I don't know why.

[@ettaflynn1272]

Anita, could you tell me the name of the background music by Barry Goldstein to your global mediation. Thank you to you and Danny.

[@soundtherapy4082]

My Angels and Guides came to me and told me that I didn’t love myself

[@turquoisewitch.wild-owl]

I'd love to be a part of your sanctuary, but it's most likely going to be in CA. I have no desire to live there again. It's a nice place to visit, but I live in MA. At this point, the only states I'd be willing to live other than MA are: Maine, FL, Washington (after having gone on the Alaskan cruise, or Sitka, AK (I loved Sitka and Ketchikan). If it works out wherever you try it and decide to expand, I'd love to be a part of it out here in the eastern part of the country.

[@Sarahsemails09]

Hi Anita and Danny Do you have any guided meditations that I can buy? I have just found you and I believe the teacher arrives when the student is ready. Much love Sarah 💕🐨(from Perth Australia)

[@marilynmoney2771]

So true when we 💕 love Others unconditionally They have in my life Totally abused me Wherever we got that Unconditional love message That was a HUGE MISTAKE WHERE ELSE DO WE DARE ASK TO AGREE WITH ANYTHING UNCONDITIONALLY! WE DONT EVEN ORDER AN ICE CREAM CONE WITHOUT SAYING WHAT KIND WE WANT WE NEVER SAY: OH GIVE ME ANY FLAVOR NO WE HAVE THE CONDITION THAT WE WANT A SPECIFIC FLAVOR THE SAME IS TRUE ABOUT EVERY SINGLE THING IN OUR LIVES

[@peacekeeperkorea]

Thanks

[@sharmashwetaUTube]

Anita,would you say that self love is interchangeable with self acceptance with being self affectionate too

[@cindyarmstrong4379]

Is there somewhere i can send a letter to? I have something i need help with and it will be difficult for me to explain through texts. Also, I just want you to know...I just love you so much! You have been such an encouragement to me!😍 You and Danny are both beautiful spirits!

[@sabineharskamp6315]

🙏🏼💞🙏🏼🌍💞 thanks ✨

[@user-ol5ie5fh5w]

❤

[@liabeachy]

Ty I just listened late but a question is what if nobody in my life growing up no parents grandparents family friends ever said anything loving or supportive just indifference anger judgement blame and shame . I can’t think of anyone only a psychologist and she got paid to help me and support me . Where is my point of reference to help me have an understanding of even knowing how to feel love for my soul ? It’s depressing to not have any point of reference of loving kindness ☹️

[@TheJess4484]

Danny is cool!!!

[@comicmanga888]

How to deal with crossing over of Husband.... How to love myself in this situation please help

[@Cariad247]

Deeply sorry for your loss. Be your own best friend and parent in this very tough time. Sending you blessings and a hug.

[@FairyTheGreenOne]

Comic manga. I understand grief. It is traumatic. I too have had a NDE. Grieve/weep as you naturally need to. Releasing any regrets and longings is important, as well. Please remember that although your husband has passed on, he can still feel and hear you because- I promise you - he is simply in another form and he is experiencing your pain and continues to love you. Know that his energy is genuinely with you. Talk to him, in your imagination or aloud when you are alone and ask them for guidance and comfort. He knows that you love him very much. Yes, it is very difficult to rediscover or reinvent yourself as an individual after such a terrible ending but do it a step at a time, with hobbies and interests and maybe meditation and volunteering to help other people so that the anguish and sadness gently diminishes in intensity and your heartache naturally eases into acceptance and you will have made new friends along the way. Your life will be full again and you will feel full again. You will once more love your life and you. 💛

[@nokiaaaa8368]

Hi Anita, There's something that I don't understand and need to ask you /your husband regarding connection between loving yourself and having/maintaining a relationship/marriage... So many people say that when you don't love yourself you can't love another and you are not able to recieve love from another. You attract love by loving yourself, being the best version of yourself and giving that love. When you don't love yourself, you attract people that use you, or leave you because you are too needy... It makes sense, but then again, when I hear your story it makes no sense. You totally put everyone else on a pedestal and still your husband stayed by you till the end. Can you explain please? Thank you and sending you both love and joy 😘

[@nokiaaaa8368]

@Knock Out I watched it. Thank you 🙏🤗

[@bassay3598]

How can I empower myself?

[@kristendawson273]

Hi Anita!

[@MegaHealer]

Does Anita have a video on “past lives”?

[@MegaHealer]

Linda Lai According to Anita or in your experience?

[@marilynmoney2771]

Luv Phil's cup I prefer the more artistic mugs Not the humorous ones

[@lizasauniere5145]

Dear Anita. Another question. How do you recommend to react when someone of so called friends devaluates me telling that I am a looser and no good place would hire me and that I am too slow, doesn't matter that I am brain cancer survivor and struggling for health and well being, she say that people do not die from cancer these days, I stopped being her friend but we meet at work, every time I see her, pain comes back into my heart.

[@jackyleblanc6460]

You are a survivor!Love yourself...feel the feeling her presence evokes...welcome it bc it's yours and and release. Soon it won't happen. You are a beautiful spirit. Remember that always.

[@FairyTheGreenOne]

Liza Sauniere. Because your ex friend says such deliberately hurtful statements, does not mean that they are true. Do not accept those demeaning comments and stand your ground. Next time maybe simply say, "I hear what you're saying but I'm not accepting your opinions..... And maybe you'd like to repeat those opinions in front of the boss? I wonder what s/he would say to you about your negative behaviour? " Bullying and intimidation is not acceptable in the workplace nor in a relationship. Keep working at your own pace. Keep believing in yourself. Talk to a welfare officer at your place of employment and discuss your discomfort about the unpleasant interaction. If you can afford therapy, I recommend assertiveness training. Talk to your family doctor about the situation and how you are becoming anxious and depressed. Listen to online positive self affirmation meditations (just ask google). Make new friends away from the work environment. Keep up your hobbies and interests and connection to positive people. Go out and have fun - movies, hiking, bookclubs? Your self worth, esteem and self belief should not be dependent on one person's opinions. If you are concerned about your work performance then speak with your boss or workers' welfare officer or Human Resources officer. 🙏

[@janiemiller8706]

Liza Sauniere She sounds very neg energy Don’t take it personally Distance yourself from her 😉

[@coldwhitespring5004]

Yes, do a video on music! And I understand so much better what you mean by self love now, what you talk about has a big component of compassion , which you also mentioned. Love is easy when everything is going smoothly, but compassion sees you through those hard times. Anthony William says that love is not much use without compassion, you need to have it in the mix for the love to last, which is true. Hey, can't you and AW do a live on this? He did one on self compassion actually, it's on soundcloud. And can you do a live on your NDE and your soul's multiple lifetimes, if you saw them?

[@poojabhat4269]

❤️🎉

[@sharmashwetaUTube]

How is self love different from self compassion in a situation when we are suffering

[@verogarcia6757]

Anita I 💝💝. U

[@readu100]

This isn't related to self love but How do you let go of someone who no longer wants to be in a romantic relationship . How do you know who the one is?

[@vetiverose128]

There is no such thing as "the one". You are the one. Cultivate a loving relationship with yourself first. When you love yourself fully, you'd realize that you don't even need to be in a romantic relationship. You'll be fulfilled from within.

[@readu100]

Do you believe we choose our sexual orientation before we come to earth.?

[@tulikarastogi2561]

Hi Anita, I am Tulika from India, I am struggling to find out my purpose in life, am all the time thinking about what should be the career and goal of my life, plz help me, can I have a counseling session with you so that I can understand my purpose in life.

[@fatimaart4152]

Hi Anita, I want, you personally to read this comment. I believe you and believe what you have gone through. Of course that you are fortunate that you learned about life. However, the method you mentioned for self love is like( my personal belief), empathy. To feel empathetic for what you have endured and gone through but it cannot makes you love yourself. Perhaps, you know that you were not enough or you did not enough. “I am going through it myself”.And Knowing the fact that I was unfortunate, doesn’t justify this that I could not deal better with things. I really don’t know how to express the feeling but I hope you get at least some points. I request you to reply me back and let me know where I am wrong Thanks

[@laura.ibarra17]

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[@liabeachy]

What if you’ve never had anyone treat your with unconditional love . No parents family or friends that ever have said beautiful things to me ever . Lots of abuse but no real genuine love . Don’t know how to feel what I’ve never received. It’s just theory .

[@bethanyriver8232]

Hi

[@lionlove6302]

What if you think your soul sucks and is evil. Would if you think your life has been one failure after another and hit just want to die

[@beenashah6865]

plz can you make your videos in Hindi language too ...

[@debra832]

Hello Anita from Massachusetts can you see my text