Setting Boundaries 101 - PRETTY BASIC EP.148

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[@dudulovesbubu6]

Can we all say HELL YES and YES PLEASE to get a pod swap with Ashley and Taryne?!?!??? I would LOVE to have Taryne and Remi together to talk about body image and loving yourself!

[@gracecarlton95]

i feel like that's lowkey backhanded bc they're both not as skinny as alisha + ashley but i also agree. ugh like compliments are so hard ab like body confidence bc you never know if they're being mean or genuinely nice 😭

[@alextroy9202]

@@gracecarlton95 it’s not

[@themotivationmermaid6647]

It's so awesome to see Alisha fully out of her shell and confident AF.

[@adrianaquin]

I read in a book boundaries isn’t about keeping stuff out it’s about keeping the good stuff in. Highly recommend “Boundaries” by Dr. Henry Cloud. A life changing book!

[@alisiahart7360]

this was definitely a pod I needed right now. I had a friendship breakup recently and it was mainly because we didn’t set boundaries and kept letting things slide. the whole thing blew up in the end.

[@chloe_evans]

you guys talking about topics like this is why pretty basic means so much to me as the advice is always so helpful tysm❤

[@baileysteeele4984]

setting boundaries is a reoccuring theme in my life right now, so thank you for speaking on this i love you guys.

[@angenaytamia]

Thank you for filming this video on setting boundaries !! I totally feel about the cold mornings and the warm days !

[@TaylorLee]

As a 25 year old woman who is dealing with similar issues, this podcast spoke to me.

[@milenaalvarez3518]

Remis jacket is giving "Are you from New York even??" vibes 😂

[@Samjams1234567]

This entire podcast is so so relatable!!! Ugh so good needed this today

[@courtneycreatista7089]

Alicia’s laugh is so ASMR & I also love remi’s voice it’s soothing lol & is it just me or is watching the podcast 1000x different than listening to it lol love you girls my fav pod

[@krystalgalaz2168]

hiii I loved this episode so much, I appreciate y’all for having such an important conversations. I was wondering if maybe Alisha could go into depth on her journey with anxiety and taking SSRIS I know she’s touched on it a bit on the pod but if she’s comfortable I’d love to hear more!

[@Blazysammie]

REM in a big ass jacket and leesh over there like hot girl summer ready🤣

[@parisalena]

26:50 oh my gosh i felt this so bad, one time I invited one of my close friends to come over to my house, bc I feel like we kinda drift apart.. we're still talking but just not as close and I want to talk heart to heart with her. just us two. she said yes, but then also told me, "is it just me? how about we invite some of our friends you know the more the merrier." ofc me back then would say yes to anything. after that, our friendship didn't get better obvs bc we didn't find the time to talk and after that, we went to different schools.. it's a shame and for a long time, in my heart, i put the blame on her for ruining it. but now i realised i should've told her and i could've said no :(

[@nicoletteinez]

Snaps to Alisha’s Spanish

[@lydiarux7950]

Thank you for this podcast! Currently struggling with this right now! Communication is so important!!

[@alyssamazzu1447]

Omg I was dying laughing about pretending to not notice money in a birthday card, and just start reading the card out loud hahah thats so me 🤣

[@hivyfalou1393]

I really love how Remi doesn't make her friends feel bad for things they dealt with in the past like making excuses and how she makes others feel comfortable and totally fine to be that way

[@kaitlynlee15]

oh i LOVE the new thumbnail style??????!??!!?!?!!!1

[@prettybasicpodcast]

AHHHH YAYAYYAYA!!

[@callmedora41]

The biggest tip I have is when you begin to set boundaries the people in your life who benefited from your lack of boundaries are not happy. It is essential to stay strong and once the dust settles both parties are happy; the party who learns to respect the boundaries and you that now you are respecting yourself and enforcing them. Boundaries are 100% needed!

[@deborahriveraleal2753]

Hey guys! I actually started setting boundaries in my relationship and my family and I’m getting used to not feeling bad about setting boundaries. But I love the fact you guys are talking about this topic

[@jaelynsloan6194]

Washington is so beautiful, we get every season and have really hot and sunny summers!!

[@claudiasquires3704]

Oh my god I’m early! Love u girls & the podcast. Love from Australia 🇦🇺

[@og.hails27]

It’s really not so bad here in Washington! We get a bad rep, but really we just get every season. A lot of rainy fall days, amongst the crisp cool ones. Usually a snowy winter, rainy with perks of sunshine spring, and a legit summer. Its really not so bad here, I promise! 😂💖

[@mellaniekristen]

Love learning from you guys!! Also I listen to this on Apple Podcast and now watching. 😂💕

[@SuperTeammeatball]

Being from Spokane Washington. We get every season lol. It’s 32 degrees right now. Lots of snow and rain.

[@aygereem9973]

getting a notification for my fav podcast just brightens up my day! sending all my love to u both - alisha and remi💗

[@chloe_evans]

I say this like every week but the outfits😍🔥

[@morganmomo101]

I can't get over how Remi said "not midwest, cause I feel like it's not that cold over there" ...um...mam... 😅 Come join us for winter & we'll talk 😂🖤

[@user-rm6un1hq3m]

the thumbnail style looks so good 😍

[@YoureInMyBox777]

Remi, I know you probably get this a lot but.. I just want to thank you for being so vulnerable and open about your past friendships and the friendship breakups you’ve experienced. Watching and listening, it’s opened my eyes that a bitch (me being the bitch lol) deserves better. I am a good friend and I know it. So I’m working with my therapist on how to put up boundaries with my friends I feel that don’t appreciate me and my friendship. Sadly, I’m also getting ready for any friendship breakups this may bring. Thank you. With all my heart, thank you. Also, as a born and raised Washingtonian, your puffer jackets would THRIVE in this environment. It was 29° this morning. 😂

[@catherineberrecloth9270]

I love watching pretty basic because it makes me laugh every time

[@deannafelton3389]

Omg I extra loved today's podcast I was laughing the whole time because of how much I could relate to literally every topic 😂 was just amazing and you want to talk about embarrassing moments I have alot of them that would make you feel soo much better about yours!!! Haha lmk if you like to hear some haha 😄 love yous xoxo

[@nadia9938]

Love this topics what you guys taking about. I have watched all of Pretty Basic, videos. I love Harry Styles. Love this video. You guys so beautiful you guys so pretty with and without make up. Love the studio. xx

[@kyleepsongs]

eating a banana killed me hahah!

[@asmaa_vlog_85]

When I get a notification that you have downloaded a video, my happy time begins 📸❣️🍊♥️🥳😘 🥰🤩❤️

[@Mitcchl]

ALISHA SAYING “HACER” perfectlyyyyyy omg I love

[@juliamarie9781]

I relate to Alisha’s social anxiety so much

[@shaeunscripted]

It's crazy that I just sat in church talking about boundaries and now you guys come out with an episode about boundaries....ok I get the whole picture lol

[@kyra6744]

remi, about the novelty of rain -- my mom was born in burbank and raised in newhall and she wanted the seasons, rain, cold weather but then she moved to washington and hated it after a few years and now she moved back (the novelty of rain does wear off, at least for some people)

[@Jearim]

next Podcast pleas talk about the hard is make an vlogmas!! please thanklsssss

[@VenusManson]

i need a pretty basic recipe book of y’all’s favorite snacks ☹️☹️☹️☹️☹️

[@lynae777]

Watching you guys is like having friends. I’m sure a lot of other people can relate

[@breheh]

Idk if you want a day that is cold all day, I'm currently watching this during a blizzard hahhaa! Would love to be in LA rn 😂

[@carleylaird5221]

love y’all so much 🥺

[@stephaniesegura42]

not related but Alisha during the Mcdonald’s ad made me proud. love to see the latino representation even tho it’s something so simple, and she pronounced hacer so well!

[@lachlanbaker5623]

melbourne in Australia has the same weather!!!! we have literally all 4 seasons in one day

[@eeveechi743]

Off topic but this thumbnail is great, it's the first PB video I've been drawn to click on (because of the thumbnail)! Every other time I click is because I see remi lol. The thumbnail really made me want to watch though!! Keep the pretty basic logo on it like this with the pics of you two!! It looks so cute and easily clickable lol

[@anmolbhatia8983]

All the Canadians watching this be jealous of California weather and Remi and Alisha be wanting a Canadian winter day

[@emmaweb2006]

Love the show girls PS stay safe ❤️❤️ x

[@kalooskievlogs]

Omg!!! Do a pretty basic episode where you talk while putting your makeup on!!

[@hannahhollingham6309]

This was an amazing episode! You know what's crazy?? I literally started listening to Pretty Basic a few months ago and I started right from the beginning. Listened to every episode and now I am all caught up :) thank you queens

[@ElizabethAlexandra33]

idk why but alisha makes me die laughing every podcast she’s so funny without trying 😭😂

[@summersalamone3478]

Omg I feel so embarrassed leaving a grocery store not getting anything because sometimes they just don’t have what I need then I feel dumb 😂😂 omg SAME!

[@TaylorElizab]

so remi where is that reaction video? lol i love y’all!

[@Robynshaylene]

I’m screaming at the banana story! 😂🖤

[@mirasfanfiction]

Listening to this as I photoshop. Thanks for being my entertainment!

[@darleneruthh]

lol remi thinking the same thing, I want to move to Seattle cause of how gorgeous it is and the weather

[@raemae2198]

Lol I live in Austin, Texas and it has almost never been cold enough to wear a puffer jacket😂

[@morganmomo101]

😂 when she switched the midwest with Texas. I live in Iowa & can say, puffer jackets are a necessity lol

[@emwaz5594]

Remi we would love to have you here in Seattle!!!

[@iceyiana]

Just was talking with my bsf about how I need to start setting boundaries with men

[@karliestidham]

Omg eating bananas 100 percent lol😆

[@notpaaola]

MISS REMIIIIII 😂💀🍌🍌🍌🍌

[@yaquelingarcia5843]

My day just got a whole lot better

[@quincylin6706]

I’d like to say the Midwest is actually very cold in the winter, like negative temperatures 😆

[@sarahouellette6022]

I love Alisha’s top! Where is it from?

[@dudulovesbubu6]

Fellow fans, who do we think Remi was talking about?! Who did she see at Saddleranch? Do we think it was Leigh?

[@remitaylor9896]

THATS WHO I THOUGHT

[@zsofiastrbka2030]

fiiiirst love this pod

[@valeriatrujillo1456]

Guys! When you’re going to upload the video Wednesday or Thursday? Serious question 😊

[@xtraacrispy]

Feeling proud of alisha for pronouncing hacer correctly

[@jessiirees]

The amount I related to this eipsdide is crazy, I loved what remi said about if she did not go through the bad relationship she would not be were she is today, I need to start looking at things that way, I currently am going through a huge friendship break up, and I am scared to trust myself again that I would mess up again. Also the part were alsiha was talking about guys lying to not wanna hang out that is why this friendship of mine went down because he would always lie and I would catch him in his lies and he would just make excuses for it. Like just say you don't want to hang out its not that hard. anyway I hope you had a great day thanks for listing to my rant, also would love to have a fan as a special guest on the pod that would be amazing. also I could not stop laughing when remi said "I'm gonna need to pee again, like me too I always have to pee so much when I drink a lot of something. haha loved this episode so much!!!!! please make pretty basic merch!!!!!!!!

[@missjoy2925]

Friends come and go , but those friends who are like family stay with you longer

[@ainsleyjoyce4653]

WOOT WOOT SEATTLE

[@jordynwhitehouse]

See, Canadians try to be cute in the winter, but the cute stuff is never warm enough when it’s -40 degrees Celsius🥶

[@sophiewatchesyt]

secondd ahh I love pb!!

[@jackyl7939]

vibes off

[@amberspade15]

yesss!!👏🏽💗💗

[@AllStylesMori]

i LOVE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU

[@rachelm8347]

REMI MOVE TO SEATTLE IT IS THE BEST PLACE EVER

[@miadiaz8700]

love thiss

[@Mitcchl]

SKSKSK I AM REMI I GO SHOPPING AT TARGET RANDOMLY

[@pooja2407]

Awesome !

[@JasmineDonor]

Remi, ily but you’d hate it here (Seattle). 😂

[@DesertMermaid]

The sleep thing reminds me of my depression. All I wanted to do was sleep ☹️. I didn’t even realize it was depression till I talked to my Doctor. Functioning depression sucks! 😞

[@aadyadas6543]

skip to now that Miss Taylor Swift dropped her Red album with 10 mins the short film I bet you think about me music video directed by Blake Lively and a SADDER version of All Too Well 10mins version LIKE I WAS NOT ALREADY CRYING TO ALL TOO WELL

[@BeautyKilllz]

FYI they still sell frozen bananas lol

[@AngeleeCeline]

Hey guys!!!

[@Yashkumar-oh4mb]

2.56 kiwis listening to this like 👁👄👁

[@casslouise1983]

*clicked so fast ☺️

[@Opalthompson]

❤️❤️❤️

[@mirasfanfiction]

Let’s goooooo

[@susannamelnichuk429]

first hour like button

[@alexandracope9606]

Hey rem feel free to send me a puffer lol I live in Midwest from south. I have beer but yet no real coat. I’m cold.

[@jennanicolevlogs]

💝💝💝

[@nick_434]

This pod felt so short.