Women, stop worrying about whether he'll cheat, worry about if you can trust YOURSELF to leave that toxic environment if it happens. It's pointless to get ulcers and stress about things you can't predict or control - no one can see the future.
@rispathequeen3 жыл бұрын
Very true
@tinachristine45733 жыл бұрын
And if you know your can't leave, please don't go looking for evidence.
@iamaleo2473 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this answer! This is IT right here! 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽💯💯💯
@celebrityupdatezone23902 жыл бұрын
@@tinachristine4573 wooow i just live it
@immacshirley2332 жыл бұрын
Wow love this .. thank you ❤️😭
@Blackmandeze3 жыл бұрын
I got enrolled in this college and I will graduate but not leave 🤣🤣🤣 Zulu masterclasses.
@kahilukamangala41943 жыл бұрын
The two of you laugh about everything and drag me along 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ruthgitau12853 жыл бұрын
Aki Zulu and Bramwel,the way you comb us.God bless
@wawereholyabigail94513 жыл бұрын
Ayi Zulu this man very knowledgeable just found him and my God his wisdom is worth my time sent by God Thank you for hosting Zulu you are definitely saving some souls from going through nonsense
@ruthmutinda65223 жыл бұрын
I learned to listen to the gut feeling...it's always ended up being right. 🤣🤣🤣 B.zulu, right and on point. Emotions don't think, you have to think for them.
@PK-hz6kg2 жыл бұрын
After learning through this show, there’s hope for us who are divorced. Searching for the right partner.
@paulineoside24252 жыл бұрын
Yes just have hope in everything,may God guide you
@armelleziza69593 жыл бұрын
As women we really sometimes forget or decide not to listen our gut...thanks benjamin for this reminder..
@phoebemukhwana30583 жыл бұрын
Very true Zulu demon og lust, Once a cheater always a cheater, polygamy is a no to me, one man one wife that's it
@ayiechaanne67563 жыл бұрын
I remember one day I dreamed that he has married another wife,I sat down with him,but he said I won't 😔 hurt you,but guess what,he went ahead en married 😏 that's when i knew that 😃 the earth is really hard😢😢😢
@wawereholyabigail94513 жыл бұрын
Ohh dear soo sorry my dear but you know before something happens physically it happens spiritually God shows us these things
@catherinechawe74093 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣sorry sis
@ayiechaanne67563 жыл бұрын
@@catherinechawe7409 I pity myself 💔😌
@catherinechawe74093 жыл бұрын
@@ayiechaanne6756 😢😢😢
@juliuskulokhoma80203 жыл бұрын
No problem of marrying many wives
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
Am in my early 20's but zile heartbreak nmelishwa😂😂😂Jesus is my savior😂😂😂
@miannegoro80063 жыл бұрын
Wololo.. sad but funny
@miannegoro80063 жыл бұрын
Wololo.. sad but funny
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
@@miannegoro8006 😂😂😂
@makaveli52543 жыл бұрын
Pre 25 madness
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
@@makaveli5254 alaa😂😂😂
@masalamugwari74122 жыл бұрын
The way they laugh about everything it's contiguous I found myself laughing on this serious matter hilarious. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@pstleilaciku71713 жыл бұрын
Notification gang, here again to learn from these great men👏👏
@jackychela46383 жыл бұрын
It's the intuition for me, it works every time for me. ❤️ Nawapenda Zulu and Bram.. You are the best. 💪💓💓💓💓 I learn a lot from you.
@durbansaladyinaccra21733 жыл бұрын
"...open tabs..." 😂😂😂
@ceciliandiritu79143 жыл бұрын
All qualities of my youthful unfaithful husband James. Glory to God It don't bother me anymore. A disaster in waiting 🤓🤓🤓
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@lydiadavis28733 жыл бұрын
😂😂you still with him?
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
@@lydiadavis2873the earth is hard akii...
@phoebemukhwana30583 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@millicentwanjiru19633 жыл бұрын
@@lydiadavis28739 I
@thembakhumalo31133 жыл бұрын
Benji-star as always...👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
@maggiedoublenofficial9813 жыл бұрын
Yeah..i was constantly accused of cheating by my x- little didn't i know that he even got married to a friend...it was crazy...but now 2 and half yrs..he is chewing his bitter pills...i flown out the country coz i was so sick of seeing not only him but even his clothes
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
😢😢😢
@missmwai31242 жыл бұрын
My exact experience dear. How do I get in touch with you please 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏. He accused me, called me names and I immediately left. 5 months later am seeing my friend posting him, it's still a dream
@lineaemvula34 Жыл бұрын
Welldone my lady... you did exceptionally well.
@winniegikunda55583 жыл бұрын
I got married traditionally to him but then have finally decided to leave....he hides his phone,wea also in a distance relationship,saves he's single on Facebook infact when I confronted him he blocked me.we have three children.but I have to quit for my peace of mind,...I wish I can contact you benjamin.its isn't easy but am strong gal💔
@joanmiksabel35983 жыл бұрын
What are you waiting for? He has already spoken. You are nothing to him. How can he block you for asking the obvious? Why single on social media? Leave already girl.
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
Ak men...may his soul Rip nkt..
@wendymkhwanazi98623 жыл бұрын
He left a long time ago. You are alone in that marriage
@joanmiksabel35983 жыл бұрын
@@wendymkhwanazi9862 sorry it wasn't you.
@NS-ru1yf3 жыл бұрын
@@wendymkhwanazi9862 ooh very sorry my sister, forget about him & build ur economy then get one ,keep on searching for Benjamin u can heal earlier and have the most happiest life.
@bettybeauty70033 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂you feel like you are rapping her,that cought me.
@joygicharu65303 жыл бұрын
Five qualities out of those you have mentioned were with my ex husband but I thank God I was able to came out. I totally agree with Zulu.
@itoroonuoha49612 жыл бұрын
God bless you Mr. Bramwell and Mr. Benjamin for this mind-blowing session. You talked about having friends that you can share life issues with and you know for sure, will be able to relate to the challenge at hand. I will humbly ask if Mr Benjamin can be one I can confide in to open up my issues to? Watching your videos, you have addressed a lot of issues that I am currently battling and I will appreciate the time with you to discuss on the way forward for me or possible solutions. I hope this will be workable. Thank you again for what you do and the value you are adding to people's lives.
@puritytianta55603 жыл бұрын
Benjamin zulu has helped me alot
@virginiahnjoroge45433 жыл бұрын
Mr.Zulu,I love your energy
@HellenofTroy897 Жыл бұрын
If only Benjamin could stop giggling unnecessarily...
@Miss-kl6jl3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin when do we start buying loyalty badges...
@elinalinus273 жыл бұрын
Intuition is always true it's only we don't have prove over it. But if you keep a close eye to it u will see that what u r feeling is true and even if u try to confront this person will deny and make u look as if u r a wrong one. I think my intuition tells me the truth always and before something happen I dream of that specific situation
@iimiafrica3533 жыл бұрын
Same case here😂😂
@Vee_K962 жыл бұрын
Mimi dreams tell me everything, I had to learn how to interpret them and feel them in spirit
@Vee_K962 жыл бұрын
Intuition and dreams, they tell a lot that is unknown to us
@sheilachepkorir27113 жыл бұрын
In love with the show
@wangarivirginia95472 жыл бұрын
Actually rebuke yourself and cast out some few demons😂
@armelleziza69593 жыл бұрын
If its was allowed to like several times will have done it...you are right benjamin...assante sana
@lindasrealitytv68943 жыл бұрын
If you signed you must deliver😂😂😂😂
@annnjerimwangi31193 жыл бұрын
God bless u guys
@evelynchibisa75413 жыл бұрын
I love the show
@veronicahndungu43533 жыл бұрын
Intuition.
@sebony_3 жыл бұрын
I had that strange feeling 21 years ago but was too naive to comprehend the meaning or interpret it.
@afrigal_88172 жыл бұрын
The laughter 😁😁😁
@jy-n13762 жыл бұрын
What tribe is Zulu, just asking?? is he Luhya?
@wam15492 жыл бұрын
Hapo kwa friends... 💯
@paulinewairimu23472 жыл бұрын
Did you have to mention Pauline 😂😂😂😂😂😂?
@maureenkemei92542 жыл бұрын
If you sigh can you deliver??? Oh my goodness, its call marriage.
@murugisnjoki33062 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂zuluu
@gikarangugi10593 жыл бұрын
Not too late
@MISS_SHERRY2 жыл бұрын
Ty
@scotscot56573 жыл бұрын
1. When they say all men cheat, even if it is the woman saying that 2. For marriage mates- unavailable sexually, the polite brothers repeating ugly things is funny🤣🤣🤣 3. Sudden secrecy on phone, complex patterns, password everywhere etc. hand them your phone whole day if you discover they are too nosy into your phone... 😂😂😂. Differentiate secrecy from privacy 4. Mentioning someone of the opposite sex too much, when they state to take the role you are taking 5. Stalking, tapping into communications 6. Open terms with previous relationships 7. Change friends to ones with same mind and in the same phase
@tfa47823 жыл бұрын
Life saver
@Aritul3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@frenchygigi2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@wangarivirginia95472 жыл бұрын
There are some skills you need in this life 1st is preaching sometimes you need to preach to yourself
@supernintendorog98893 жыл бұрын
Maneeeeee
@rispathequeen3 жыл бұрын
I ignored at fast sight and know am regretting to death and 🙉
@hellenchepy7723 жыл бұрын
No need to regret, you can always move on at any age... Wanaume wengi
@wisdomlife3 жыл бұрын
Following as usual...
@marthawairish82332 жыл бұрын
Nothing BH pure truth
@susanatieno103 жыл бұрын
Wisdom
@jy-n13762 жыл бұрын
Polygamy is polished promiscuity! oh oh la la la!
@shikoyaya11623 жыл бұрын
I like the show but please consider redecorating your set.