Hayley Kiyoko's Guide to Dating Involves Sliding Into Those DMs | Date Night

Praise Lesbian Jesus: Hayley Kiyoko is willing to date a fan. We followed along as she prepped for a first date, and she revealed SO MUCH about her love life. The "Girls Like Girls" singer gave so much dating advice, like how to slide into those DMs, how quickly you should text after a date, what she's looking for in a girlfriend, and more. She even revealed how to score a date with her (you're definitely going to want to arrive on time, with gifts!). Spoiler alert: She loves a girl who smells good.
Thanks to One Blue Slip.
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[@SeventeenMagazine]

How would you get ready if you were going on a date with Hayley Kiyoko?

[@ashlynn1984]

Probably take some chill pills😥😍😏

[@luaraalvarez]

I think I obviously would be very nervous, but I'll want to show myself calm. And I would want to her to be calm too and comfortable to say and act however she wants. I basically get ready the same way she does 🤣 Like, I eat some snack first, get a bath, dress up nice, I put a lot of my favorite sweetest perfume (cause I like to smell nice, for any occasion). So I take a profound breath, and then I go out. That's it 🤣🤣 (I'm just thinking now "OMG what if she sees this 😱" . OK, Hi Hayley, I'm 20 my Instagram is @luaraalvarez) OK byeeeeee 😂😂😂😋😋

[@xBarksx]

Doll up to the 9s, take anxiety meds and bring food lmao.

[@sunshineeekrystal]

Seventeen get dressed up real cute, probably wear something comfy yet cute...I feel like I would wanna go on a date with Hayley in LA cause so much more to do and we could end up at the beach at night ;)

[@maddieg188]

I wouldn’t get ready because I would literally past out

[@papercrown2]

hayley: "I believe in love at first sight" marla:" Yeah, but you wouldn't do anything about it" only a best friend can burn you like that ahahahahahahahah

[@annalese135]

That'd be me

[@lauramorrison7528]

Thats me too lol

[@jenniferj9345]

This is SO me!!!🙄

[@nigarjafarli5887]

“As a woman, you are just in pain” Hayley Kiyoko 😄agreed my friend

[@lockheart619]

hit me right in the womanhood 😭

[@nigarjafarli5887]

lock heart same*

[@sumeyo1172]

Yup I'm watching this while having cramps and I agree

[@amandagarcia4341]

You mean 5 minutes and 57 seconds of Hayley admitting she’s a bottom

[@AllAboutJulez]

Really? i always thought she would be more like the "on the top" person... 😅

[@sidney7418]

@@flyingdogsnails3217 how do u know

[@sidney7418]

@@flyingdogsnails3217 i still cannot relate

[@i.waldron9581]

She's clearly a switch...

[@sidney7418]

@@i.waldron9581 thats what I thought too

[@thecoolestgingerkid]

Plot twist, Hayley’s date was Marla & they just waited til off camera to have Marla go out the door

[@tinadavis9942]

@Sinead Dowling so is spaghetti..at first lol

[@alaynaroney4126]

I ship them SOOOOOO much

[@porschefoster999]

@@tinadavis9942 😂

[@stevietricks4954]

She dates fans; get out of my way.

[@lockheart619]

I dunno if a girl looked at me cause she thought I was cute or because I did something cringy and wasn't conscious of it.

[@happyrat1131]

ME

[@simplysailor4976]

SAME I SWEAR

[@evenspookier]

i dunno if a girl looked at me i think i would die-

[@Andreaalvarcila]

Ok but her best friend IS SO DAMN PRETTY WTF

[@KP-dt9ol]

We all know she just walked out the door to walk right back in 😂

[@Nusia250]

Yeh, i agree

[@xanbell7723]

lol "she's here!" opens door to no one.

[@linnaewillis8737]

" if she didn't text me after the date, I'd be upset". But seriously who wouldn't text Hayley Kiyoko? She's my dream woman , her sense of humor gives me life😀😍

[@sierragzk]

i’m not saying anything but.... hayley and marla have good chemistry....

[@vamplex]

YESS

[@Gayredheadbitch94]

That’s best friends for you

[@mjnona]

Okay "bestfriends" ship is bec we have a good chemistry... if yall gonna say that for each "tow friend" like shipping them there wouldn't be friendship ever

[@kaseycarpenter9670]

I love that this date was totally with Becca a couple years into their relationship, but she committed to the “first date” bit 💙💙💙 so cute!

[@iamsoweirrd]

No one: Me: **takes notes** 👀📝

[@kataaaa6203]

Hahahhaha😂😂 nice one

[@HerzoginLina]

She had a date with headphone girl ^^

[@AnonyMous-lv8sw]

ayeee i like your thinking

[@amandamemoria7930]

Hayley seems like a cool girl to have a crush, i would defently have a good time with her

[@Bubblyzora]

Its my dream to go on a date with hayley 😔

[@love23music1]

Same

[@yeolmylove7569]

SAME.

[@Gayredheadbitch94]

Yessss ❤️

[@nefertariwinchester3177]

I wish, I wish, I wish. :)

[@lillianmauldin]

0:39 Hayley is a vers confirmed

[@KylieJenner2]

The entire time my vers ass was screaming "SAAAAAMMMMMEEEEE"

[@ericcarrluvr]

“As a woman, your just in pain.” So true though.

[@ImaniJaleah]

Wow I would marry that girl.

[@chloemartinez8237]

Just when you think you can’t love her more, this video happens. “Basically a creep”😭😍🌈🙌🏼

[@sandp6900]

I’m not gay but Hayley is such a cutie with a lovely personality, so there’s no way I’d turn her down if she slid in the DMs😂 plus a Yamamoto dating a Kiyoko sounds kinda dope😂

[@sandp6900]

haleysrebornbabies I’d be on board with this😂 yo, Hayles! DM me! We already got the names sorted😏😂😂

[@mariottabuttalapasta]

I just praise Lesbian Jesus everytime my friends and I have any luck with a date

[@KP-dt9ol]

The big sis we all wanted and needed

[@JasWritesInDarkness]

“She has to be on time, so I’m on time” YESSS!! 🥰🥰🥰😍😍😍😍

[@cupcakekiller7545]

0:27 The eye and the music,😂

[@summer9671]

2:31 Hayley’s friend looking at her😍 And endless flirting from her

[@breecullins]

I loved when she said “I’ll probably eat it off,” and, “I might smooch, I don’t know.” 😂😂😂

[@cartmanpilled]

Thumbnail: date night with Hayley Kiy- Me: *CLICKS FASTER AND HARDER THAN ANYTHING EVER*

[@adilee626]

I hugged her on my 18th birthday😍

[@evelinenangura6501]

Locking eyes is goals basically...

[@krizziaudtohan2154]

Took note of everything just in case I'd date Hayley. 😂😂😂

[@krisg6480]

Anyone else thinking of her and Shaggys first date in Scooby Doo?

[@sineadcosgrove8072]

Awww I hope her date went well. She deserves someone who loves her just as much even more than she loves them. 🥰🥰 Beautiful person. ❤️

[@yalitzahernandez6358]

It’s me. She went out with me

[@luthientinuviel101]

Wait she went out with you too?

[@yalitzahernandez6358]

@@luthientinuviel101 I'm so heartbroken, I thought I was the only one

[@arukhan02]

So how was it?

[@oleander46]

SHE TOLD ME I WAS THE ONLY ONE

[@celiap4122]

Excuse me what?? Hayley is cheating on me?

[@capucine9791]

I slid into a girl’s dms with “Hey” (I highly regret my choice of words). She has seen the message but has not replied and now I’m just trying to avoid her at school (we’re not in the same grade) and I feel awkward af 😖

[@Liuxingjohnston]

I hope everything turns out alright for you!!🤞🏽🤞🏽🍓✨

[@mandyb5167]

Just say you were trying to make friends with her she won't know the difference lol

[@onedayatatime444]

Don't ever start anything with a "hey" only boring ass guys do that shit, if you tryna be better and actually interesting send a nice warm, relaxed and relevant text saying something like "I saw your ad/dc shirt and couldn't help myself but to say hi because I love acdc!" Or something like that, you need to seem interested to be interesting, a simple "hey" tells you nothing, is vague, sounds creepy if it's somebody I don't know, and it's just....no. That's all good luck bitch✌️😌✨

[@zaprollerblading5526]

@@onedayatatime444 'good luck bitch' 💀💀💀💀

[@cherries630]

we need updates tho

[@anaamaro50]

Ok. Not gonna lie. I'm jealous.

[@victorianadine4307]

This is like a mom helping her daughter get ready for her first middle school dance 😂😂

[@cpain148]

The edits are funny 😂

[@shirosh809]

Actually i do most of these tips! also-the blonde looks so good on her!

[@kendal3602]

How tf does she only have 5 shirts??

[@linnaewillis619]

Hayley is my dream woman, I love her sense of humor! "She can't be late on the first date, She has to bring me gifts😂 I died

[@hage8945]

Thank you for the list now I can win over Haley 💕

[@kataaaa6203]

Bell rings, "shes here" Door opens - No one is there, Hayley kiyoko walked out. Am I the only one who noticed that ? Haha

[@eunhaxyz5578]

AHHH MY CRUSHIEE

[@ellie8872]

It’s so funny looking back at this knowing it was becca 😂

[@emmvids6920]

Haley, WE LOVE YOUUUUU💗💗💗💗

[@katysullivan4059]

I’m ok but that view tho😍

[@l3loop571]

the edits kill me 😂😂

[@nicc4102]

im really thankful for these tips, firstly i should probably find someone to take on dates who likes me (is that a sentence ?idk)

[@michellechetrit4057]

i love this! great advice :)

[@praisevee3952]

i love this gal❤

[@sumeyo1172]

This way we need Hayley Kiyoko my favorite type of Hayley.

[@oleander46]

Hayley is my spirit animal

[@sukirtigupta9059]

She so....my spirit lesbian !! 😂

[@lalalalayn_]

Imagine having a friend like Hayley who'd give you all the best tips when you start to like some girl. Like,, hAYLEY I NEED YOUR HELP I CAN'T DO THIS ALONE. Istg, I'm the type who's so awkward when there are cute girls around :< So yeah, I need someone like Hayley. Or Hayley herself, if it's okay sksksksksks

[@katebrousseau7890]

Shes so cute ❤🤗

[@thaissete5391]

maravilhosa 🤧❤

[@simplysailor4976]

I relate to hayley so hard

[@niamh3254]

god hayley and her friend are so attractive

[@bigdayafan2882]

Plot twist when marla exited the camera, she went backstage and actually went with Hayley as her date Im sorry I just ship them so muucchhhh

[@mariacimpan4286]

We stan Lesbian Jesus.

[@shffer3590]

if yall could see, my eyes are going 😍

[@karlachavez4238]

She was on a show on Disney channel and the fosters

[@ritatim1732]

Yeah lemonade mouth , she played velma on Scooby doo

[@mamahanjiishere8501]

" I have.... 5 ITEMS" *Meeeeeeeee*

[@CtrlVicky]

I can’t tell if she was really going on a date I-

[@love23music1]

She's Cute 😍

[@badmoonsoul2019]

i dreamt we were best friends and i'm sad that i woke up :'(

[@yunuenmorenoprado3914]

I died 💀💀😂 1:36

[@leahryder4027]

I'd just be myself, you can always use tips etc but it's better to do things how you feel is food, I'm crap at dating and fail but there's still hope 😁 p.s hayley you are amazing! X

[@cloud1697]

Need a friend like Marla tbh

[@birsenvarsn7211]

What i need Hayley?

[@graveyardsoil]

00:45 🤣

[@yajairasalinas4632]

Slide in the DM’s... lmao hope she responds

[@3Oh3metrostation]

Don't get your hopes up guys, she taken

[@sunshineeekrystal]

Erica Peterson by who?

[@3Oh3metrostation]

@@sunshineeekrystal Becca Tilley - podcaster/influencer/former contestant on the bachelor. She cool

[@love23music1]

Are you sure? I believe she's single

[@3Oh3metrostation]

@@love23music1 100%. There's montage videos on KZbin of their relationship that you can search. Becca and Hayley have been dating for more than a year now!

[@Ranga3595]

Erica Peterson except that isn’t confirmed at all...

[@jesst.3930]

According to the tips I got a solid chance 😆

[@sorayakeller8688]

not me taking this advice from my own celebrity crush 🚶🏽‍♀️🚶🏽‍♀️

[@lauren4751]

Hayley look at me goddamnit

[@miaakbenn4388]

ok ok so I'm 16 and I've never gone on an actual date before, but I really want to ask this girl out, and I feel like she would say yes if I did... should I? the idea of rejection terrifies me

[@broccolicum]

I saw this and fucking screeched and then my WiFi went down

[@CrayCrayJay]

*all hail lesbian jesus*

[@kanekiwhite7827]

Dont praise a woman who does not preach the truth of the bible. There is only one jesus and he is the lord.

[@CrayCrayJay]

Robert Hernandez i’m gay

[@yaboybrandon5601]

Hi

[@rushleenvalenciano1376]

6th.. still earlyyy

[@noas4586]

היי

[@aquariumdreamer7087]

Anyone else curious about who the date was?

[@berryjunmill9029]

I think about going on dates and it stresses me out since I always do groups but one on one I'm like what do I wear?? What do I say?? Does she like me??

[@marylancelot]

Can she just skip the dating business and marry me instead??

[@DJWOWW100]

I wonder who was her date 🤔🧐

[@kristinealongi2105]

gaysus Her girlfriend who she’s been with for over a year

[@mariapalitho]

@@kristinealongi2105 Walt. Whooooo

[@kristinealongi2105]

Paula Beltran becca tilley

[@kristinealongi2105]

haleysrebornbabies it is pretty much all but confirmed.

[@kaih615]

Kristine Alongi I didn’t know she was dating someone

[@yaboybrandon5601]

Lemonade moth

[@cameronjessiesmit8079]

Why is she me😂💔

[@christinasaunders7164]

I wish u would go on a date with me I’d love u and ur music is great and u r so beautiful u don’t need make up ur perfect to me 😘😍

[@datw9868]

she needs to give the eyes like that 😏

[@crystal6900]

Let me date her

[@marieagnespilon]

Who was the date? 😉

[@jessej.m.e8430]

How many dates does Hayley/you go on?!?!? She's like the perfect woman for me haha hook me up SEVENTEEN!! 😅👌💯🔥💚🍀🍀

[@irishlaguador8625]

*it's hard to be female* you make me confused??? im filipino you're songs is my favorite and im 14 yrs old

[@user-cs4ef4wu2b]

Y jus tex ur date after y not call after the date

[@breecullins]

Does anyone else hear a country accent or is it just me??

[@dakotaduffer5926]

Lesbian jeuse

[@deoranjed8118]

I think it's just unnatural for a successful famous singer to be so genuine and likable as Hayley Kiyoko, it's a little disturbing 😨

[@jenniferascencio1474]

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