Sex and Intimacy Was our Biggest Struggle | Our Marriage Journey |Ben and Gathoni Kiruthi

[@JudyOwen-us5qk]

They just touched on areas that are seriously affecting my hubby and i..thanks for such knowledge,nimesaidika na wengine wengi.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow. Thank you for watching..

[@gracenjoroge7295]

I love the show..marriage is God ordained and beautiful..God bless the Kiruthis.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you

[@mukamipamelamigele2178]

I had always looked forward to Ben to do my wedding photography but didn't manage.I love how's he professional and how rooted he's to the word of God.Gathoni inspired me to have a custom made wedding gown,I love how composed and balanced she's as a wife, mother and a business partner

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!!

[@emilymathews9299]

The best thing I have watched As a young wife, headed 4months 😊❤ I am really learning alot from this, Thanks to this amazing couple, we want more vulnerability and openness like this, by this young marriages are not left wondering what they came in to😅 Thanks Rawder for the work you are Putting on marriages, Marriages that are not working are too loud, it's high time we be louder on those that are working and happy because that is what God desire from marriages. Can't wait to one day sit there and share our story too. Rawder kindly share your email or how I can reach you , thanks😊

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you so much dear, I'm so encouraged. Yes we need to be loud!!! whatsapp me on 0703866243

[@BlessedHandsKitchen]

I'm slowly becoming an addict of your shows, oh! Thanks for such a show Rawder. I've learnt a lot

[@Munguyupo_]

Rawder you are a blessing to us!your shows are very educative and highly needed in this generation!much love from Tanzania.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you so much!

[@favourkinyanjui9467]

I can't believe I have followed them since engagement to doing a wedding in a African themed wedding gown to getting 4 babies..❤❤

[@gladysmuthoni8700]

Same😂

[@carolesymon3954]

Me too

[@elizabethmungai1554]

Same here..... their unity and willingness 🎉is compelling to say the least

[@mercymwangi907]

And they dont even know or recognise you 😮

[@favourkinyanjui9467]

@@mercymwangi907 tunajuana .I go to their studio for photos now and then

[@eunicenyaga2662]

The authenticity in how they are sharing their story is very inspiring...just being real

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True!!

[@lizkabange]

High school schoolmate ❤ And Ben is right .Gathoni was always too mature for her Age. Thenk you for sharing your journey. Very inspiring ❤❤❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!!

[@nelliediemo]

Thank you so much for this, such an inspiration. They remind me of Pastor Kingsley and Mildred Okonkwo. Their ministry is on Love, Dating, Marriage and Intimacy!!

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes, thank you so much for watching...

[@ANM657]

Loved watching this ... I agree with Gathoni, if I was also to redo my wedding, I would do a smaller wedding (50max) and also do away with the bridal team and only maintain the best man and best maid.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Baaas! The way that day stresses us 😂😂😂😂

[@ANM657]

@@RawderKidulaShow that day is pure stress. All I can remember is thanking God it was successful despite the obstacles and wanting to sleep 48hours straight with no human interaction

[@kadollymercy6122]

Manze this is me right now,,, iii planning inaniua

[@ANM657]

@@kadollymercy6122 all the best

[@janemghambi3377]

I love their body language. The way they look at each other. They truly are in love.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes, they are so in love!

[@Pixnplaces]

Yesss gathoni was eyes fixed on him..he held her hand😊

[@rennishmboya9840]

the introduction......this man is so engrossed in the wife's life.......i love that.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes, he is in love!!!

[@Sylvia20-cl7]

He's learning

[@emmanjoki7567]

This couple is doing a good job.I feel like its the spirit of God talking through them.Just continue with the good work.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

wow! Thank you! Glory to God

[@ngenoevans3235]

Proverbs 24:3-4 New International Version (NIV)By wisdom a house is built, and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you!

[@estherwamalwa3961]

He who finds a wife, FINDS is a continuous present tense...that is profound.

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

Ohhh I love Rawder ‘s reaction everything is natural

[@RawderKidulaShow]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 thank you!

[@maryannegitau5681]

I think am getting addicted to your show,,,it's such a blessing to this generation. God bless you

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow. Thank you!!!!

[@terrykavutha4324]

Very amazing insights. Thanks Rawder for this show... Intimacy in marriage is such a Deal keeper all the way! Great wisdom there.....

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you for watching! Very true, intimacy is very important!

[@carolinemangicho7201]

Rawder am glued to your shows....

[@janenjeri3671]

Wow what an inspiration in this couple and the wisdom ❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@mercylenah5293]

Thanks Raw. Learnt there's differences between intimacy and sex.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Most welcome. Thank you so much!

[@chelagatkosgei6285]

Amazing couple followed their love story from their wedding and they're still amazing 😍😍

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow! Thank you!

[@milientshiresi8699]

There's quite a lot to learn from them. I like their openness

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes, we thank God for them..

[@lydian.mutuku8908]

Wooow wooow....niko hapo kwa intimacy ❤❤this is sooooo me🎉🎉🎉the small small things make me extremely happy 😊😊#Whilewewait😍

[@RawderKidulaShow]

❤❤❤❤

[@robertellihchangulo]

I really love the insight.... have learned alot.... blessings rawder

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you!

[@damarismutanu2767]

Beautiful story!Oh if only all couples would watch...marriage should be enjoyable!!

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True!!

[@binzari1003]

Definitely they spoke about I and husband. 8 yrs still learning each other

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow. Thank you!

[@sheilahjeruto7237]

Am learning more and more daily....This episode is interesting ,full of knowledge and scripture well elaborated.Thanks Rawder

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Most welcome. Thank you so much!

[@maryannmbugua1227]

I love them saaana🎉 Halafu naomba saaana ndio watakuwa photographer wangu wa My wedding 💍.Amen

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Baaas!!! Mungu amesikia maombi... Thank you so much!

[@lyndaadongo6016]

I'm.glad I found this channel through Facebook reels and I thank God for you guys. Ill definately recommend it to my hubby. Keep up the good work Rawder

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!!!

[@OliveMummyMentor]

Lots of wisdom here for marriages. Barikiweni

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you!

[@damarismutanu2767]

Oh yes, its the small things that men/couples ignore....,you guys are speaking it real!!

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True!

[@celestineamwayi]

Thanks Rhowdar for bringing this couple .I love their wisdom and am learning alot ,be bringing them more often to teach us

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Most welcome. Thank you so much for watching..

[@nastanjamlunje]

❤ i have enjoyed every moment in this 😅😂😂😂 Thank you for being naked enough for us to be clothed. God richly bless you for me, ''us''.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you!

[@evahmuchiri4000]

Great show Rawder thank for bringing this great couples we have learnt something.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you so much!

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

Wow am enjoying these guys

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@mukami_kinyua]

Ah you can tell they really love each other! Thanks Rawder for having these conversations❤.

[@Munguyupo_]

I have watched,liked,subscribed and shared!Karibu Tanzania Rawder!

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow. Thank you! Tanzania here i come..

[@Munguyupo_]

​@@RawderKidulaShow❤❤❤

[@sharonmahomani3160]

I love this couple i was following them way back the time they wadded was still single then ..they inspired me a lot

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow! Thank you!

[@druscillahenry3224]

We are glad to learn from the Kiruthis

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Glad to have them .. thank you for watching

[@judymaneeno2443]

Wow,quite blessed listening to this God bless you rawder

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you so much!

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

Wow this gentleman is very serious he knew what he wanted

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True,,

[@lillianthuku2732]

Nephew congratulations with your lovely family

[@findinglela]

And how is yours?

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow. Thank you auntie for watching...

[@derekgichanga2669]

wow ,,one of the best episodes

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@catherineimbuka7645]

Have learned alot from this weeh quite interesting 👌

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@carolinenduku9282]

This was indeed a good one to listen and Learn.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@millicentatandi]

Thank you Rawder.... am not married but this was 100% helpful. Their openness is topnotch and your reactions are 😅😅. Thank you maa❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 Thank you! People shock me on this show...

[@nellykorir3005]

What a show. This is amazing! Deep topics!

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@_thechristaroma]

Such a wonderful conversation.. . thank you Rawder . Blessings.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you for watching!

[@lilianchybire9610]

I wish I could subscribe more than once. I love wholesome conversations on marriage. #Marriage works. ❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you so much for the support!

[@esthernakabugo]

We must always tell our children that they are beautiful and handsome so that they do not hear it for the first time from strange people.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True! They should know from us that they are valuable...

[@mugandah8551]

Beautiful Couple! Awesome interview! Thanks for the insights... We'll share this beautiful message with friends in the entire world 🌍

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you! Yes please share!

[@bilhahnjeri6427]

Wow amazing couple episode was awesome

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@dorcasesmeralda369]

Wueeh, lots of lessons, beautiful couple ❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@christinemumbua5329]

Thank you very much Rawder

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Most welcome! Thank you for the support!

[@rahabmuthoni5901]

Wisdom packed 👏🏽👏🏽❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@nderitulucy5579]

Being intentional in everything is very important in marriage, almost 5 years in marriage and I agree with the couple, thanks Rawder for the conversation

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Most welcome. Oh yes intentionality is everything!

[@simonwainaina7360]

Very outgoing couple 🙏

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Yes, thank you for watching!

[@MdawidaMdawida]

Lovely couple and their story is beautiful..

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@tabithawanjiru9390]

I love this ❤️ . Wisdom

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@chaoomondi6677]

I enjoyed every bit of it. Thank you Rawder for slidding into the DM. Baraka sana. Thank to the Kiruhi's for honoring the invitation

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank YOU for watching!

[@Chue.Nyawira]

So much to learn from these two 😊

[@RawderKidulaShow]

oh yes, thank you for watching!

[@nellysikoyo1391]

Good job Rawder. God bless you

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. God bless you too!

[@marymackori-wd3hz]

Rawder this episodes are saving marriages out here. On the intimacy part Saying Men focus on one thing he has really helped me, my hubby was focused on me during courtship after marriage he switched to money ati ashanioa😂😂.Hee now i get it

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wuueh! 😂😂😂😂 watch na yeye! Thank you for the encouragement!

[@elizabethlusesi6125]

I saw this guy on Facebook and I thought about his story on this platform Wow glory to God they are here🎉🎉🎉

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow! Praise God!!! Thank you!!

[@salmamuya9603]

Wow,So uplifting

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@KwelikaMthaniyaPodcast]

I love how she looks at him...❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Love!! Evident love!

[@josephinewatiri]

They are so real.i love them

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@felisterwambui3075]

Wow I love this couple I have been their fan since time in Memorial

[@findinglela]

immemorial 🎉

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow.. this is great!

[@catherinenyoike8746]

Followed this two since before their wedding.. 4 babies later wow❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

WOW!! Thank you for the support!

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

Ohhh I saw a flip on Facebook I decided to come here and watch

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you! please subscribe..

[@christinekclare]

Lord, I pray i am enough for my husband, sexually & intimately both emotionally & physically 🙏

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen!! May the Lord hear your prayer...

[@tishachero]

Lets grow this channel to 50k subs please. Rawder you are doing a great job!! Powerful ministry ❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you so much! To God be the glory!

[@moyowangutu1774]

Just Subscribed ❤

[@AMAJILINTERFREIGHTLIMITED]

I was watching them on tiktok two days ago and I thought about how they should come on here!🥳🥳🥳

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Wow! Here they are!!

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

Ehhhh weather for two ❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

😂😂😂😂

[@rispergichohi3535]

@rawdar kidula please bring pastor Ewagata

[@RawderKidulaShow]

I saw this comment while planning their shoot .😂😂😂😂

[@joycetirop]

The whole episode is interesting, more so the kids keeping us in check 😅😅

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes, thank you so much for watching them..

[@princessjossey907]

Lovely Couples

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@Rhoda_Wangare]

Raw authentic marriage talk between two Godly people…Rawder,good job 😂

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you! Its good to have such conversations in the presence of God

[@nelliediemo]

"Finding is an everyday activity" Gathoni Kiruthi!

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes, for daily favour!

[@susananyango764]

I love these two..the Kiruthi's.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

They are such a lovely couple!

[@HomeMade-pg1gx]

Women hormones play a great deal in her up and down, postnatal depressed does not help.Im menopausal now, its difficult. But i adore my husband, nothing to do with lack of love. 😊

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True, our bodies go through alot..

[@magdalenerose5528]

Did I just hear that pornography is not wrong, but what it leads to? pornography is completely wrong in all ways.

[@nyambujess2950]

He said dangerous

[@florencekariamuiruri7301]

I think you got it wrong, there explanation is awesome, they don't support porn

[@magdalenerose5528]

@@florencekariamuiruri7301 ooooh

[@bonajmusicbonarerijoshua9805]

Kindly listen well. You misunderstood them

[@Rhoda_Wangare]

Ebu listen attentively,I didn’t hear anything like that!

[@wacera-l5n]

Hawa nawapenda since their wedding❤

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Baas! ❤❤❤❤

[@kennethmuiruri4794]

Yes, Abraham married his half-sister Sarai, Sarah. They shared the same father but not mother. Genesis 20:12 specifically states this. Genesis 20:12 KJV: And yet indeed she is my sister; she is the daughter of my father, but not the daughter of my mother; and she became my wife.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!

[@evansonmairura345]

Lacking intimacy leads to other outlets

[@RawderKidulaShow]

💯💯💯💯

[@milientshiresi8699]

How Gathoni is looking at Ben as he brings out a point...wow

[@RawderKidulaShow]

I know! Wuueh, this ones are in love..

[@Candyma338]

Ben has a radio show voice

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes..

[@DenisMuchai254]

Awesome awesome couple... Very great session indeed Rawder. May God continue using you in this generation...

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you so much!

[@mirriammbithenzivo7487]

So encouraging for me as single as a single woman. There is so much negative talk on marriage and so we just need this to know there is hope. The couple was very vulnerable, am blessed. Thank you Rhoda

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!!!

[@minnehmburu1100]

This was my husband and i...our best sex is when we were pregnant..weeeee that thing akii

[@RawderKidulaShow]

😂😂😂😂

[@wanjush]

@rawder kidula I love how you sip water when it gets hot😂😂😂

[@RawderKidulaShow]

😂😂😂😂

[@wanjush]

@@RawderKidulaShow even the ones you interview 😂😂😂 I will be taking mine too as I laugh and learn

[@gracewathima3419]

When you love a woman the way she feels loved she will reciprocate it back and it will be by submission

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True!!!

[@nabukenyadianamasengere391]

Ohhh that revelation they had to follow God by choice not obligation hhhhmmmmm

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Oh yes... deep!

[@druscillahenry3224]

Happy anniversary Rawder k.k.

[@drusilahnyambura9775]

Hello Druscillah.. Am also Drusilah. Excited to meet my namesake here

[@druscillahenry3224]

@@drusilahnyambura9775 oh my goodness, hello sis. Am glad to meet you. Our name is very unique, and we have watch similar things...how nice

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Thank you!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@wambuacatherine177]

I love how he calls her 'Gathoni' mmmmh

[@RawderKidulaShow]

❤❤❤❤

[@DupreMutuma]

Hey, could you pin the details of the Book, for my beautiful Teen Girl. or maybe the page to pick it up

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Please whatsapp [phone]

[@howtodoit7802]

its an awesome video but on intimacy why are we talking about women receiving it only , men need it too.

[@RawderKidulaShow]

True, thats why we said the woman should know her husbands needs as well and fulfill them..

[@wambuimwania]

The scream I scrumpt when I saw the guests!! 🥳🥳🥳🎉🎉🎉 Rawder God bless you! Your bills must be due 😅

[@RawderKidulaShow]

Amen. Thank you!!! Screeeeeaaaam!!! I love them too..

[@wambuimwania]

😂😂😂