It's so incredible, how Ash always manages to talk about these things without being cringy or making it uncomfortable to watch. Sex positivity but without making it feel "weird".
@emmilayyyy5 жыл бұрын
CookieWithChocolateM. >ash, not cringy uhhhh
@kryptonson5 жыл бұрын
No, he's actually very cringy.
@goodimprovisedname7395 жыл бұрын
Lmao 666th like Is this bad luck..?
@fullmoonfury14635 жыл бұрын
Krypton Son they, not he
@IxiaRayne5 жыл бұрын
I know right? I loved it!
@babyboiblue45385 жыл бұрын
Me, a very single virgin: ah YEs, I will use this information
@ProfessorSassypants5 жыл бұрын
babyboiblue haha, relatable
@caaaaarlz5 жыл бұрын
Oof lmao same
@forgetmenotasmr59095 жыл бұрын
YOU SHOULD apply this to all sexual encounters. You may not know everything you like yet because of having not had sex. But you do have curiosities and intrests, and when you try them you may infact not like them. And you must be able to comunicate that to your partner(s). Boundaries! Confidence! Readiness. :)
@SnowTheKitsune5 жыл бұрын
I'm virgin and I find these videos informative!!!
@pennyhamman96705 жыл бұрын
Same😂
@rowanmercedes88085 жыл бұрын
“Bada boom, bada bing, it’s *THE SEX* “ literally my favorite thing ever said
@vinnyvice57975 жыл бұрын
Chris Colfer Is my god I’m already making a song...
@jim64182 жыл бұрын
Sexo é a melhor coisa💞💞💞💞😄
@Bee-br4no5 жыл бұрын
As an ace virgin who does not want to have sex, this was actually really cool and informative and interesting. :)
@scouttyra5 жыл бұрын
Same!
@kryptonson5 жыл бұрын
What's an ace virgin?
@scouttyra5 жыл бұрын
@@kryptonson Asexual (little to no sexual attraction) person who haven't had sex.
@_an_infinite_universe_28195 жыл бұрын
Im biromantic ace and I really dont know why im watching this... but oh well! It's still a good video!
@cedarbeck83245 жыл бұрын
Same!
@ninayee63615 жыл бұрын
This channel has really helped me get over a bias I never knew I had. Probably as a combination of being a momogamous person, and seeing societies portrayal of multiple sex partners, I used to think polyamoury and multiple sex partners at once was almost like an immoral thing. But now that Ive been given a script to show that poly people can value dignity, equality, and respect as all people should, it has helped me to realize this prejudice I had. Im so glad to be able to learn from this channel and constantly be reminded that people really do care about consent and respect. As an assault survivor, this channel has helped me through so many days where I was and am all on my own.
@b3b3j4y5 жыл бұрын
man.. i never thought ash hardell would be talking about group sex honestly.. i don't know why. like good this shit needs representation.
@tudormiller88985 жыл бұрын
This video is overdue. I love the Doggy Train.
@pythonjava62285 жыл бұрын
I don't know why my asexual self clicks on these videos. I usually regret it. But I love ash's channels and most of their videos. Plus I guess education is good
@lostforever7735 жыл бұрын
Same, asexual here and dunno why I'll drop off I think But education is good
@lostforever7735 жыл бұрын
What they said about confused society though Definitely right
@ryh.55895 жыл бұрын
you’ve probably seen it by now but: kzbin.info/www/bejne/eZPNd35uhqmbjK8
@DeadNotSleeping7895 жыл бұрын
Ace but educated
@rowanschmitt79915 жыл бұрын
Same (or atleast I think so). Idk :)
@1peantbutter5 жыл бұрын
I! Love! Sex! Education! Videos! It can be so hard to find quality advice online and it's so exciting when trustworthy people post genuine content that also shouts out other knowledgable people!!! Thank you Ash!!!
@deathbypony20015 жыл бұрын
man my mom has never been more confused walking into my room
@over00lordunknown125 жыл бұрын
Dang, that would certainly be awkward. XD
@deathbypony20015 жыл бұрын
@@over00lordunknown12 nah, shes walked in on worse
@bonepaste_33365 жыл бұрын
Death by pony ????????
@deathbypony20015 жыл бұрын
@@bonepaste_3336 thats my name dont wear it out
@deathbypony20015 жыл бұрын
@@sambarr9439 well i watch a lot of weird stuff and my mom has walked in on just weird things like how to program a furby. So its just general weird
@Whatzebeck5 жыл бұрын
Your videos have taught me WAY more than I ever learned from the public school system!!! Thank you ash!!!
@In_TheMoonlight5 жыл бұрын
“We have so many orafaces to stick things in”
@cookoo4cocopuffs2215 жыл бұрын
😒😒😒😒😏😏😏😏😏😏😏😏
@forgetmenotasmr59095 жыл бұрын
7:52 "can I touch your pleasure nub?" 😂🤣😂🤣😂 I spit the salad i was eating out. 💕
@sunflashfuturesailor5 жыл бұрын
I nearly spat my coffee out all over my bed lol. Like I really had to stop myself 😂
@haikuhaikyuu81245 жыл бұрын
Kirsten rhodes I laugh every time I see that and almost spit out a drink at lunch with my brothers one day lol
@lemonmations4765 жыл бұрын
As a non-binary person, I found that really funny 😂😂
@lilliehoran37195 жыл бұрын
Sun Rise wait u were able to eat a SALAD
@leahthebeliever5 жыл бұрын
Ash, you are my favourite sex/gender educator. While some of your videos do not apply to me personally, I love learning about these things and to educate others! Keep doing what you're doing
@CountryWatchdog2 жыл бұрын
Except she is neither. Ash can speak on gender because that's an issue that's very real to them, but they aren't educating anyone about sex in this video. Unless I'm incorrect and this KZbinr has a license to teach and particularly this topic. (And I may very well have missed that announcement that they have.) The bottom line is that this is not good information. Group sex is nothing to take lightly. Monogamy is the best chance to reduce broken bodies and broken hearts. Who's having all this group sex all the time? Guarantee they have some STI or another.
@leahthebeliever2 жыл бұрын
@@CountryWatchdog the definition of educator is a person who provides instruction or education. Ash provided education in this video and others. I haven't watched this video in 2 years so idk how well it stands now, but at the time I, as well as 193 people, agreed that Ash was a good source of information regarding this topic.
@Cakeontheroof5 жыл бұрын
Anti-shame squad applauds you
@reglissh9525 жыл бұрын
I like the name "fouple" for a 4-members couple.
@e1eventeen1485 жыл бұрын
Aoyumi what the fouple
@algalcat5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you guys feel comfortable with sharing these sort of things, people need to be educated and not just assume things as it can lead to bad rumours (which nobody wants apart from a trouble maker)
@Ed_Lothia5 жыл бұрын
An important note I feel is that it's not cool to be a straight couple going to queer dating sites or clubs etc searching for a unicorn. It often leads to us feeling fetishized and over sexualised. I'm not a spice for a straight couples sex life :(
@jennahyser72454 жыл бұрын
They probably wouldn’t be straight tho if they’re looking for another partner, I mean at least one of them isn’t straight
@abracadabra23954 жыл бұрын
This! I just posted above about the term, "unicorn" and its history of predatory couples being called, "unicorn hunters." I totally agree with you and I'm a bisexual who has had a threesome with one couple and gone on several lovely dates with several other lovely couples. Most of them weren't unicorn hunters and I'm not a unicorn, because I exist as a complete and whole human with needs! This term has a long history!
@nhsypher98165 жыл бұрын
*quick video cut* “i need a beer” i felt that😂😂💓
@kaighnyne4 жыл бұрын
I was like BEER AND A CHAT
@camlock11915 жыл бұрын
This video is so good and informative. Love it ! Thanks, Ash ! ❤
@Nachtlicht5 жыл бұрын
amp puts puns even in other peoples video i cant belive xDD
@felixsanchezaguiar51595 жыл бұрын
Woah, this is such a good video. 10/10, i love the way you use your platform to educate in this "taboo" topics, also in a normalizing way
@jk-jl2lo5 жыл бұрын
i'm a 17 y/o single virgin and yet i watched this to the end
@benjaminblaire45105 жыл бұрын
Jordan the Shitlord Same. Literally same.
@babahers5 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminblaire4510 i'm joining this squad, cuz.. same xd
@desireenicole35065 жыл бұрын
Same. 17 virgin and asexual
@ClownGutzz5 жыл бұрын
Ew wtf you guys are children
@rancidprince31334 жыл бұрын
Same plus I’m ace lmao
@thecardsharp_5 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much for making this. My gf and I recently started playing with another couple on the reg, and this really helped give ideas for how to talk about things and enhance things. I’ll be sharing with my partners. Thank you thank you thank you!!!
@jagjosh1035 жыл бұрын
I'm not only impressed with your wisdom, but with your cleverness in inclusive phrasing and use of comedy. This is a beautiful video.
@fynnsternis64325 жыл бұрын
I find it so important to talk about sex and stuff, and I love that you keep everything so genderneutral. Keep it up, you are doing a very important work and I am very grateful that you do this. I really appreciate your effort and passion for this topic ^-^ Although I was a little bit uncomfortable with the heckin amount of sex toys. But that's why I am here: Getting more comfortable with that stuff myself.
@emilybrown65875 жыл бұрын
Thank you for smiling, laughing, and joking--sex and sex topics should be fun! Sometimes I think people feel vulnerability, nervousness, or even shame because they believe they are to be serious and unflinchingly deep in their concentration on their every move. Being able to laugh, even mid act, has always made me feel closer to my partner! Thanks so much for the video ♡
@CountryWatchdog2 жыл бұрын
Totally disagree. Sex is serious. And joking about promiscuity is not "fun." This whole video was a misfire.
@irismacaulay61955 жыл бұрын
I'M SO SICK OF ALL THE GOOD VIDEOS BEING AGE RESTRICTED
@isabelledoodles61005 жыл бұрын
Notifications: * Ash Hardell has posted a new video * Me (a 14 year old child): Ooh KZbin: * Adult * Me: * writes a comment then hastily leaves *
@paulabam58955 жыл бұрын
Sweet. You're one of the few people that actually do that I think haha. I'm only 16 myself but KZbin thinks I'm like 20 or something so whatever
@sadisticsweet31405 жыл бұрын
I have no idea how old youtube thinks I am but irl I'm 15 and really curious even tho part of me thinks this might happen never lol
@melododie5 жыл бұрын
I watch these vids anyways 😂
@melododie5 жыл бұрын
@Jeremy West I'll watch what I like thanks. We're not kids, we're teenagers and we should know basic sexual education (even though this is not "basic"). How dare you call them an evil witch. They're doing great things and expanding on the normal relationships and sexual education. At least we're more educated than you. I don't want to start an argument but I'm just saying that I think it's okay for people at a reasonably young age to watch this content.
@trashlord64475 жыл бұрын
Don't give away your ages online, kids.
@DianeJasmine5 жыл бұрын
ash, immediately shouting something in a VERY strong Minnesotan Accent: I become a New Yorker when I'm stressed out.
@todorokishoto30585 жыл бұрын
I become an angry southerner XD
@cedarbeck83245 жыл бұрын
It jumped from 6 watching to 130 watching in like .2 seconds oh my gosh
@leeawnadeary26485 жыл бұрын
This video was amazing! I’m going to file it away for future reference because it was really helpful. Thank you so much, Ash! You’re the best!
@HauntedSwimmingPool5 жыл бұрын
I just want to say how much I appreciate how much effort goes into your content. It’s so wonderful to see you use your platform as a place for good, as well as a place to highlight a huge range of experiences and voices. And, might I add, the editing is beautiful, as always.
@HauntedSwimmingPool5 жыл бұрын
Jeremy West I’m actually fully awake and aware. I think content like this is good - I’ll never see education and the broadening of perspectives to be a bad thing. Sure, maybe some of the viewers are on the younger end of things, but those younger viewers have every right to watch this. There are a lot of really highly educated young folks in the world, and yes - a lot of them can maturely handle this information. Others can’t. But, I personally feel like Ash has cultivated an online space where we can all talk about things, regardless of age, in a mature and thoughtful way, which is one thing I truly appreciate.
@GreenNectarines5 жыл бұрын
Please remember toy cleaner!! Soap leaves soap scum and can cause infections. I used to work at a sex shop, it's often forgotten.
@CatCaffeine5 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you had Amp involved in this
@eleanorcherry8725 жыл бұрын
Ash you are amazing. So many people would never even think about posting a video like this. I know some people need to see this. It may be weird but it is informational to people who need it.
@kylie59165 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy that you openly talk about this because my public school system DOESNT!! talk about this at ALL
@thelazyomegawolf9395 жыл бұрын
Catch my future SO’s asking: “Matress(this is from a reddit post), may I rub your pleasure nubs?” In case y’all couldn’t tell, I’m non-binary 😊 🖤💜🏳️💛
@laince81625 жыл бұрын
Ash: I become a New Yorker when I’m flustered Me: I am a New Yorker... Why does that sound exactly like me
@kas17945 жыл бұрын
I love this! My partner and I casually talk about this sometimes so it might happen and I'm glad I now have so much more information and tips! Also I really love how you use your platform to include/uplift other voices, Ash. :)
@abi52545 жыл бұрын
ash works so hard on their videos, thank you for educating me!!!
@annacricri135 жыл бұрын
I just love you Ash, such a fresh and easy way to explain things.
@phuonglinhho31975 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one laugh so hard at "The human centipede" 😂😂
@AH-rb3nf5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. This really helped me understand and feel more comfortable with my own thoughts. This truly helped me. Thank you Ash, you are such a helpful and genuinely kind person!!!
@amber11645 жыл бұрын
I missed ash’s videos! It makes me more understanding of sex and how beautiful it can be. I love learning!
@charlottelowe4215 жыл бұрын
Ash: This is gonna be the most sexual video I've ever made Me: *gets up to close the door*
@DevilishlyDutch5 жыл бұрын
I was wondering what my ace ass is doing here, and then I remembered... I’m a writer. 😂
@unspokenvoices33995 жыл бұрын
This was rlly informative as always,thanks for making this ! This definitely isn’t as talked about as much and I appreciate it being made
@MissJazz0045 жыл бұрын
I am currently watching this while wearing headphones in the corner of the living room with my Mother and siblings about 15 feet from me. Thankfully my face is constantly red, otherwise this could potentially be very awkward.
@it.90765 жыл бұрын
Hey Ash!! I'm a big fan!! Your my goal as i recently found out I'm trans :) Your videos help me through alot and the first video i watched of you helped me discover my identity and now im forever hooked!! Thanks for all you do and keep living your best life!!
@mackiive41075 жыл бұрын
Sam_Thing_Else you look like your 8. you shouldn’t be watching this trash
@it.90765 жыл бұрын
Bean; sorry to break it to you but I ain't 8. And also, this ain't trash.
@makenzileg5 жыл бұрын
The beer in very beginning gave me major "Beer and a Chat" vibes! Lol Also, even though I identify as asexual, I greatly enjoyed this video!
@stefaniaditerlizzi19855 жыл бұрын
I love this video ❤️ you're the only one I know that can talk about this stuff so spontaneously and be so chill! I wish I could have these tipe of conversations with someone... 😔 Keep doing what you're doing, you're amazing!
@ashlaughs7905 жыл бұрын
I love how open you are with every subject! It’s great to here...even if you aren’t gonna use the information!! ❤️
@mialikesoup58435 жыл бұрын
When a stranger on the internet is better and less judgemental then your sex education teacher
@GoNoAMMo5 жыл бұрын
It's meee ^_^ Thanks again for letting me be a part of this project. Happy group sexing, everyone!
@Minx_Jinx5 жыл бұрын
I'm a virgin... why am I watching this lmao
@algalcat5 жыл бұрын
Relatable! Mainly because I hate my body so don’t let anyone do anything 😂 the joys of dysphoria!
@ipurpleyou52275 жыл бұрын
It's good. Because knowing how important dignity, moving slowly and accepting each other is beforehand will help you if you are in the situation. My first time mainly was good because I beforehand informed myself and learned that sex should not be pressured or rushed. And that I can say no or stop at any given time. It also gave me the much needed courage to talk to my partner. Without it I may have been totally lost 😓. So take this info and it will help make beautiful memories when the time comes.
@EllieRose19975 жыл бұрын
same. LOL
@osukai78384 жыл бұрын
I'm asexual & have no interest in a polyamorous relationship yet I still enjoyed this
@Rainbow_Bite3 жыл бұрын
Ikr I’m asexual to!!
@KS-md4no5 жыл бұрын
I love that you got so many people to talk on such a broad subject
@sillymanmcgee5 жыл бұрын
What HASNT Ash talked about?
@Minx_Jinx5 жыл бұрын
Also, if anyone knows more channels like this that are LGBT oriented or friendly, and doesn't shy away from topics like this could you link them to me?
@ely_wannadie5 жыл бұрын
Ash McDonald Stevie!!!
@helenm10855 жыл бұрын
Dr Lindsey Doe (featured in this video) has a fantastic channel called sexplanations. It's p great at staying LGBT friendly :~)
@pelicanprincess13625 жыл бұрын
Chase Ross! :)
@townesking91335 жыл бұрын
Ash McDonald Watts the Safeword (he was really briefly mentioned in this video!)
@catgal2225 жыл бұрын
I’m so mad I didn’t watch this yesterday. Great vid Ash. Also off topic but Andy’s hair is so cool and I want it.
@alex95585 жыл бұрын
Ash is litteraly the most adorable creature ive seen, the little voice , the cute little face, i cant , its so adorable
@DragonDancer5 жыл бұрын
Random, but I'm obsessed with Dr Powell's earrings.
@breeannaposhek7055 жыл бұрын
I'm in a kink ace/aro Facebook group and I think you would do a really great job making a video covering this intersection people usually dont understand, if you're interested 😊
@lostforever7735 жыл бұрын
Kinda did that, just not too kinky I personally am not into kinks and I'm ace, but their educational videos definitely matter
@lostforever7735 жыл бұрын
So fingers crossed for you that they make that kind of video
@scouttyra5 жыл бұрын
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@townesking91335 жыл бұрын
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@HypnoLuna5 жыл бұрын
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@ranch54115 жыл бұрын
Me being way asexual
@IxiaRayne5 жыл бұрын
Oh I love love love you!! I enjoyed this video SO DAMN MUCH. It‘s so fun an lighthearted and so damn free of any kind of shame. ♥ Thank you!
@borislavnikolov62404 жыл бұрын
Great video, so informative, thought out, detailed, helpful! Loved it!
@Canemikat5 жыл бұрын
Wow, this video came out right on time for me. This is so informative and helpful Ash, thanks!
@tudormiller88985 жыл бұрын
Hi Ash. This video is seriously overdue. I always wanted to know the important stuff regarding multiple sex partners. Watching from London UK. ♥️🇬🇧
@donbrackenreg22705 жыл бұрын
Hey, I just saw your selves on a post by Sexplanations, she spoke very highly of the both of you.
@hackeraids42815 жыл бұрын
I like how i'm only 13 and i understand all of this i love being part of the LGBTQ+ Community because it's not judgemental like the world is now a days...Being Pansexual is just amazing..
@phoenixacxf5 жыл бұрын
Ash I have been watching you for literally only a few weeks and you are such an inspiration. I am heteromantic asexual and I am still in the closet (mainly because my parents will call it a phase) but you have made me very confident in my sexuality and I will be ready to come out in a few years thanks to you Ash Hardell. I might be a young teenager, but you are a great role model.
@phoenixacxf5 жыл бұрын
Honestly I am thinking of making a coming out video. Not to put it online, but to be ready when I do come out.
@alt3r3dst0rm35 жыл бұрын
Great video and loved the shout out to Pup Amp.
@sammhannah5 жыл бұрын
“Bara boem, bara bing ITS THE SEX” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@monicafrances92835 жыл бұрын
Makes me so sad when your content gets age restricted.
@reallifewithray27075 жыл бұрын
Hey there! I just found your channel and I wanted to tell you that I think you are absolutely amazing. You are so funny, it seems like you have an amazing spirit and a heart of gold. So glad I found the channel, your smile could seriously brighten anyone's day! I am so glad you have the strength, courage and maturity to stand up for who you are... The people who dislike these videos make me sad or rather I am sad for them because their minds are just so closed... In my mind I just don't understand why they even watch if they are not going to try to become a bit more open-minded and learn something. Keep shining and thanks for just being you. Group sex is definitely not my thing LOL but the where you put together this video and the respect around the topic is great.
@jessicacarron81175 жыл бұрын
I loved this. Practices I’ve used for years. As a poly pan person (sounds like a superhero ability with that alliteration lol) I have worked with communication, consent, safety, and joy as the cornerstones of multiple partner play. Great resources, great advice. Thanks Ash, you rock!
@eveyb311_95 жыл бұрын
This video is the best thing on this website holy SHIT
@willowshaffer44545 жыл бұрын
Omg I love you your so sweet and selfless
@Drummerdudegirl5 жыл бұрын
I have real trouble concentrating for long videos..but honestly ash was so interesting and articulate..the words really flowed I didn't get bored and I learnt a bunch
@verogunn82725 жыл бұрын
Love how entertaining your videos are. Beatiful how you get off all the shame of this topics away. Thanks, sending hugs from South America
@Desirsar5 жыл бұрын
Shout out from the "needs a video on how to get into group sex but not what to do once we're there" camp.
@NotesFromTheVoid5 жыл бұрын
CUDDLE PUDDLE. Also bondage sounds fun. imagine a cuddle puddle while tied up :). No sex though. Being ace and kinky is super weird.
@Koutouhara5 жыл бұрын
That sounds so good!
@Adonys_Alyx_Andy4 жыл бұрын
That moment when you have to turn to KZbin because you live in the south and they don't teach anything but monogamous straight sex classes
@psychicplebalien5 жыл бұрын
I've thought I'm bi or pan, but maybe I'll just watch on the side with the vibrator lol don't mind me being a creep
@MintTeaEdits5 жыл бұрын
Andy's hair and eye styles are beautiful
@ShinyEvergreens5 жыл бұрын
Ashhh how is your content so good. Thank you for the work you put into these videos. It does not go unnoticed.
@mariewikiwaka38515 жыл бұрын
So literally all of my favorite sex educators are involved in this video. God bless.
@nienkepeet92415 жыл бұрын
ASH!! This video is really good and educative! Thank you so much😍
@princenotsocharming18405 жыл бұрын
I love when people turn into a giant centipede.. XD This video is amazing I will use this info eventually
@SnowTheKitsune5 жыл бұрын
Oh no... Amps puns are invading other videos!!!!
@chaosunderlying5 жыл бұрын
13:39 "cuddle puddle" I love that term and I'm going to use it 😝❤
@beefrail71964 жыл бұрын
thank you for the sex list on 13:30 as a virgin I literally dont know what I do or dont want and this is a really good starter point :) thank you teaching me the importance of communication and consent
@waynekeyser9795 жыл бұрын
Love your editing, and you're pretty. Anxiety - attach wrists and ankles to bed? - Sorry, I can't get GERALD'S GAME off my mind.
@uwu-vg4wo5 жыл бұрын
Me, a very ace individual: ah yes, I will use this information.
@rinbrown4725 жыл бұрын
Hey Ash... Happy pride moth from a new subscriber and closeted bi girl. I hope you and you wife have a great June. -Rin
@MermaidQueen855 жыл бұрын
Basic information that makes sense, but I love Ash’s videos, so I watched it and loved it! And that discount! 💖
@vinnyvice57975 жыл бұрын
I stopped a very important bootleg for this... and I’m not disappointed
@todorokishoto30585 жыл бұрын
WHAT WAS THE BOOTLEG
@vinnyvice57975 жыл бұрын
Todoroki Shoto dear even handson you can find it by searching “sad tree boy makes a friend” yw
@todorokishoto30585 жыл бұрын
@@vinnyvice5797 omg you're awesome! I love DEH!
@vinnyvice57975 жыл бұрын
Todoroki Shoto me to :)
@livelaughlove24545 жыл бұрын
I know this doesn’t have to do with the video but happy birth day grace ♥️
@oicuff16353 жыл бұрын
This is basically a commercial for Adam and Eve.
@cloudii56095 жыл бұрын
5:08 is the word that best describes this whole channel. 👏🏻😁