Sex, Lies and Secret Texts | S04 E11 | Full Episode | Fatal Vows

Life moves fast when 22-year-old, two-time divorcée Cassie Golonin marries Brent Cotta-a 32-year-old father of three. Cassie’s a free-spirited bartender, while Brent’s a wallflower with a secret addiction... It’s a rocky relationship, filled with obsession, jealousy and betrayal, all posted daily to social media for the whole world to see- until one day, when Cassie and Brent’s high-speed connection goes tragically offline.
Dr Stacy Kaiser, a psychotherapist and relationship expert, Dr Brian Russell, a forensic psychologist, explore real-life stories of divorces which have had a deadly aftermath.
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[@katerinagiannioudi401]

What?? At 22 she was already married twice? He at 31 was also divorced with kids! How Immature of both to re-marry again! That should have never even crossed their mind. Our decisions define who we are.

[@fraukie1598]

Its most about the time frame. Of course, I plan to leave it at one marriage but anyone does I guess.. I just seem to be one of the lucky ones who might get "the fairytale". We married at 24 and it has almost been 20 years now, so fingers crossed. My father and my surrogate mom both got lucky on their third marriage. But both had a happy "last marriage" because they didn't remarry in that haste. Both married really young like it just was expected at this time. My father's first marriage ended shortly after their 5 year old daughter died in a tragic accident. She was grieving like one would say it is "normal" while my father was that desperate that his only way to survive was living like this child had never existed at all. They never were mad at each other or stuff.. but grieving differently is something a lot of marriages don't survive. He married my mother I think 5 years later? He just didn't know who he was if not one with a family to love and care for. When my mother separated from him after 20 years he was devastated but I think he loved more the idea of having a family. Even to us kids it was so obvious how different our parents were. They stayed close friends until he died. He and my mother remarried one last time in their 60's.. So after they had (and took) the chance to figure out who they actually were. And my mothers second husband was perfect for her just as my stepmother, my fathers third wife was for him. My parents stayed close friends. When my father was dying we all were together in hospital, my mom joking with my father and giving him a massage while my stepmother and my stepfather were talking and laughing.. It was a wonderful sign how people can find themselves and how this is the only way to create an environment free of any bitterness. My surrogate mom married very young some guy her parents did more or less choose for her.. And separated shortly after it dawned to her that she is an adult now and should be in charge of her own life. She then jumped into a relationship with the "bad boy her parents never approved of" a smart but difficult artist. They made it work quite a while had a great son (I consider him my brother since his mother raised me) but even though I liked her husband it was always some sort of "protest marriage" so it didn't last. Then she did the right thing: focused on really making her life hers. And so just like my father in her 60's she finally found this love of her life. But I agree with you. Going through marriages at that young age like those two here.. that screams "person who doesn't even know what a good relationship, let alone a marriage is about" and so even the 5th one would not work out how they want. Just people who have a rocky live and make questionable choices can and deserve to find happiness in a second or even third marriage, but only if they don't miss the point where they need to stay on their own and figure out who they are before they are even fit to be a good partner to someone else.

[@katerinagiannioudi401]

@@fraukie1598 Thank you for sharing. What I cant understand is why some people rush to marry instead of maintaining a relationship for a longer period of time or just living in with partner. Where I come from, few people get married before 30. They focus on education, work, having a good time prior to settling down. In the US it seems that many marry after highschool, have kids, divorce, re-marry and the story goes on and on. Girls go out looking for a guy for financial security & prefer to play housewife instead of working. All this is quite strange to me as I was raised to stand on my own two feet. I was happily married for 30 years (at 30), had 3 kids, a career, a life.

[@DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights]

He was her second marriage.

[@katerinagiannioudi401]

@@DarkDreamsAndMoonlitNights he was her 3rd husband

[@ssppeeaarr]

ya it sad what happens native americans driven out of their lands... 😞

[@jordanalwanger1993]

These shows help me see the red flags before I marry . I'm glad to say I haven't seen any red flags from my girlfriend and it's thanks to these shows . I love watching every episode that comes out and I'm such a big fan of the show. I bet I won't even get one like or comment on this post . That's why I love KZbins algorithm. Much love and peace all the way from Africa Zimbabwe 🇿🇼.

[@ken4722]

Hehehe bro red flags are so many, some are even yet to be put into words cause the world keeps on changing. But its true we learn a lot from the show. Much love from Kenya

[@kathrynbillinghurst188]

Good luck to you! 🫶

[@smith077906]

Here's a like & a comment. Keep winning. ❤❤❤

[@justviewing1793]

When you meet a prospect, meet her friends, ask for her last relationship ask how her childhood was, meet family and coworkers (if possible). Cross check whatever she says with people and exes and revisit conversations you have with her. If he changes the story: red flag!!! 🚩 Oh and check on family history: any abuse or mental problem that can be genetic! Good luck!

[@karinlinakrauchi65]

Hi from Switzerland 🇨🇭🕊🕊.

[@kouldbanyone4983]

Women still don’t seem to understand that the most dangerous times is when they’re about to leave their partners. So instead of doing it swiftly and quietly, they linger, argue and even continue to live with them. It so so dangerous.

[@iunnbrynveig3309]

"She loved that he was a family man...he was stable" Making babies doesn't make one a 'family man'.He was divorced with three little kids, how is that a family man, let alone "stable"? "She seemed really "happy" because he showered her with attention and gifts?"That's not happiness, that's excitement. He really loved her...then he killed her.It had nothing to do with love.When you listen to people here describing the shit show relationships, it's so clear how many problems are caused just by not defining emotions.

[@lcct635]

I'm Glad I see your comment, they Tell us he was a family Man, but no one say she was a family women If was The women with 3 kids. He's good on making kids, being a family person takes more. He spend money a Lot, he take Drugs, what kind of family Man was he?

[@broandrew2523]

Did Cassie's friend say Brent really loved Cassie? Really? What kind of love is that? Woman don't be silly. You don't murder someone that you love!!!

[@maurapaganelli]

Maybe moving on so fast and being so open about it with him still in the house was not a good idea.

[@gabriellestevens6726]

I’m lknoo

[@KrystalK-rm5ey]

Too much of anything is poisonous

[@Counterbalance_]

How can people be so immature about their spending??? I honestly don't understand it. It you only think about instant gratification, you pay dearly for it later. In the other news, water is wet.

[@lcct635]

Why everyone thin a man with 3 kids is a family man? A family man take actions more than having kids, his spend habits on her tell us that he wasnt a family man. A family man spend his Money thinking about the Future and his kids. She has no kids, she could walk away any time.

[@christaorr]

Hey Trinidad here again 🎉

[@johannesstemmer585]

Hello from South africa

[@MandyDikeni-cm4ef]

Where about....I'm in Durban

[@johannesstemmer585]

Pretoria

[@chantallvardas]

Jo’Burg

[@rent7142]

Who does that??? Weak men who can't control their emotions do. It's disgusting.

[@imeerashid3850]

Hi I'm frm durban south africa😊

[@RoxxiG]

Jozi vibes here 👋

[@chaneb8272]

The wife was disrespectful, she was flirting with that guy and wanted to post those provocative pictures of her, man when can people understand when you are in a relationship you need to show some respect, the husband should have left her alone and moved on with his life. the issue here is they started to date when she was still married to someone else and of course, she repeated the act with the other guy, this is not a catch but a problem, people destroy their lives for a rock that they mistake to be a diamond

[@stacym2201]

Hi from Trinidad 🇹🇹

[@nancysimon5330]

I am from Arima ,hi

[@nanakmetova3463]

that what every woman or man should do if your partner hits u only just once relationship should be over no more chances it always only get worse anyway be careful and have more self love and self respect

[@karinlinakrauchi65]

...and don't go from one relationship to the n'est...

[@grahamnewton3637]

Stacy and Brian should have kept an eye on them.

[@asher2648]

😮Hi from Croatia 🇭🇷❤️

[@Tikaq]

Hello from 🇹🇴

[@msnorway79]

😊 Hi from Norway 🇧🇻

[@dagmar_1]

Hello from Belgium

[@katja951]

Hello from Finland! 🇫🇮

[@minasokhangoo7120]

Hello from Iran😊

[@patiencencube396]

Enjoying the show from Zimbabwe

[@Annie-Grace.]

Love this show

[@brendamuthoni984]

Hi from🇰🇪 Kenya

[@lynnkesh254]

NBO

[@matabanekeff1976]

Enjoying the show from Botswana 🇧🇼

[@mssramsunker4820]

Mr Socks😢😢 cruel to kill, if he did 😡 sad case 😢 OPEN MARRIAGE, rubbish concept for man's lust🙄😟👿 RIP Cassie

[@soca0111]

Hey from Jamaica

[@johnalden6584]

They started out in a Rebound Relationship… first was ecstasy… but when the cracks begin to show… all else follows.

[@kimberlybadayos260]

More uploads please 🙏

[@RITMAN30]

NO to lies

[@brendavanrensburg5032]

Stop smoking, and you will have more money.

[@lentjj]

Hello from the Netherlands 🇳🇱

[@Marjolein27]

lol ik ook breda

[@LamijaBegic-w6s]

Hello from Bosnia, Sarajevo! 😊

[@jehan_7550]

Marriage is sacred. It should be for better and for worse. Why dare other men even though it's just "friends" unbelievable! The actor doesn't look like a killer. Omg 😳

[@asahel980]

stereotypical thinking, what does a killer looks like? because someone is good looking doesnt mean theyre not a killer, a killer can be look like anything.

[@tarindekurakenneth7716]

Hullo. Enjoying from Uganda

[@margaretnjeri6071]

I’m from Kenya❤️.

[@adrianahalmi3337]

The woman was trouble that’s for sure, no one is allowed on this earth to take someone’s life that’s for shore… he wanted security… mother to his children, but hooked with the wrong person… she was just living a trash life…

[@chantallvardas]

I am devastated re Mr Socks… 🐾

[@navapon5996]

😢

[@ShamieShaw]

She provoked him

[@carolynemohamed7056]

How so?? She sold all the gifts to pay his depts,she supported him when he started using and lost his job,he killed her dog,accused her of infidelity though she didn't do anything. Bartenders are supposed to be friendly,thats how they keep their customers. She didn't provoke him in any way. He just felt like Cassie belonged to him.

[@ShamieShaw]

@@carolynemohamed7056 apparently we watched different episodes....you dont tell your husband that you are going out with another man....that alone is recipe for murder.

[@soca0111]

He was a looser...

[@ShamieShaw]

@@soca0111 yes he was...she should have left him quietly

[@nilgiridreaming]

Must agree that fathering 3 kids does not define ‘family man’! Nor does a man who does not ‘beat’ a wife define a ‘good husband’! As for the woman in this story;?she was an exhibitionistic type. With other partners, these 2,could have had enjoyable lives. Compatibility tests should be mandatory before getting hitched to the wrong wagon. 🦘