Sexual Compulsionist interview-James

[@manifestationnation]

I feel like one of his fetishes is telling people about this stuff

[@sammystank7174]

100%

[@Ammut6]

He's just very open about what he enjoys in life. You can tell how interested someone is with something just on how they speak about it.

[@foreverchained9070]

He's an exhibitionist so 100%

[@brandonjoseph1489]

You can tell all of these stories are fake as hell. Mark is dumb for falling for this guy. This guys such a square

[@brandonjoseph1489]

@Harmony May yes. These are all lies. He made all these stories up in his mind. So cringe

[@CR-db4qf]

To hear about mutual consent, respect, hard limits and finding a partner who accepts one's kinks......was not what I expected to hear from him. James seems like an insightful and genuine person. Thanks for sharing.

[@thecommonsensecapricorn]

Y’all are totally missing where he said he cheated on his ex girlfriends. He doesn’t have respect. He’s a sex addict.

[@AliciaM5555]

Please 😕😕

[@evi9929]

But he recorded his girlfriend having sex without her consent and then acted like he didn’t know.

[@__M738]

@@thecommonsensecapricorn he also seems like he lies

[@perzonne6302]

Seems hard to pull off

[@khalilahd.]

It’s insane how you post everyday RELIGIOUSLY. Your consistency is unmatched. You deserve all the success you have and I love how you continue to help people in situations like this 🙏🏽💜

[@myeyeswentdeaf6213]

@perk 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Good call.

[@Bartgoeschurch]

Ikr!

[@Price245]

It's not like there's a shortage of interviewees

[@riorosario1]

Eventually he will step in front of the camera and talk about his life as a porn camera man.

[@Yellowbootz]

The thing is he has thousands of interviews. Only 365 days in a year so he’s able to upload them every single day for years lol

[@AudiophileTubes]

The utmost HONESTY content of your channel is unparalelled! Incredible interviews.

[@ashleyhump6385]

I just admire how honestly he speaks about himself while being recorded for all of us to see... And judge. Live your life man. As long as you're not harming or taking advantage of anyone. Great interview Mark!

[@doogiehouse889]

Thanks it means a lot

[@ashleyhump6385]

@@baublesanddolls Do you personally know him? Or are you just mad? Jealous maybe??? 😂😂😂🤷🏾‍♀️

[@doogiehouse889]

@@baublesanddolls I am no legend just a guy with experience a willingness to talk about it. Yes I used to watch a lot of porn but real life is far superior as is change which is inevitable.

[@jhuntley575]

@@doogiehouse889 you sir are my hero. I'm gonna be 13 next month. I want to be like you when grow up. Gonna get all the girls.

[@doogiehouse889]

@@jhuntley575 whiLe I appreciate the complimentary trust me you don't want to strive to be me

[@genesis9589]

Just the other day I was telling my hubby that it’s a shame when boys are sexually abused by women outside of their family it’s like they’re vindicated or praised but when it’s a girl it’s automatic abuse. When children are preyed upon by adults, it’s disgusting and it shouldn’t be laughed about just because of their gender or age difference. I hope he heals from his trauma.

[@cw6621]

All the movies from the 80s always seemed to portray a young boy falling for an older woman. Weird Science comes to mind. And its always as if it is seen as a social boost and high fives all around.

[@genesis9589]

@@cw6621 there you go!! The “social boost” is what I was thinking of but didn’t know how to say.

[@genesis9589]

@@EchoBravo370 say what!? I didn’t know about that, it’s something worth looking into thanks!

[@kevindelgado7252]

Naw. Boys are fine. Men can't get raped.

[@stocktonca6586]

@@kevindelgado7252 exactly

[@jodykurt9935]

This guy reminds me of my cousin so much. RIP 🙏..... He too was molested by a 19 yr old female when only 11years old...it set his whole life in sexual addiction / deviance which eventually took his life. He left behind twins that were only a year old and died 'chasing tail ' while leaving his beautiful wife and babies home alone....fellas- it's NOT COOL when teen girls or young women fool with you sexually when your just a kid... I wish as a culture we could finally figure this out

[@kendraphic]

So sorry. How did he pass. Did he catch something?

[@incantationsbykaryn]

Agreed. I'm sorry for your loss.

[@janecoe9407]

did he die of aids?

[@tamzenkarma]

This subject needs to be exposed more. It's huge. My son was raped at 11 by a 17 yr old Men are not just rapists, So ARE women ........ Open your eyes people

[@girlfromlondontown.442]

Exactly! It's not cool at all. You hit the nail on the head.

[@olddays6733]

Why do i feel like this guy is a compulsive liar

[@MeisterburgerBurgermeister]

He actually might be both. Someone who’s experienced some fucked up stuff, and learned what people want to hear when listening to a good story. It’s a common technique for compulsive liars to over exaggerate while keeping a humble attitude so to speak to not risk their credibility and act like a total chad. There’s a good portion of sociopathy included as well. Whatever that guys agenda is when telling other people this stuff, talking so casually about sex with anyone opens up the chances of sex actually happening to a certain degree, at least in his mind. It has a manipulative characteristic to it that enters from the back door. No pun intended.

[@jgruen1066]

Why? He likes to be watched (not that uncommon) and those that like to be watched do like to share their experiences.

[@kizzyharding6597]

Just because he tells his story perfectly doesn't mean he's lying tho. He's just good at expressing himself which most men don't do.

[@brianalbano9005]

Cause he is. Basically he's a loser.

[@M1978-p8j]

My comment was this guy is so full of shit. Guaranteed!

[@lauriedmills7581]

I've heard of other men who were raped when they were very young and they too became fixated, or imprinted, in what happened at the time of the rape and continue being aroused by the events within the sexual assault scenario. It is very hard to heal from esp since sexual pleasure is involved but then, it's not pleasure either... a tough situation to be in. I feel a lot for you, James.

[@shaunross2995]

I don't recall him saying anything about being raped when he was young. He was seduced at 15yo by a more dominant female, and says he loved it. Just because she seduced him and they were young doesn't mean it was rape. He did say he was sort of sexually assaulted as an adult but he can't really remember it.

[@goldbridge]

@@shaunross2995 yh he says he was

[@stevend481]

​@Shaun Ross no its arguably rape 100%

[@shachede6828]

@@shaunross2995 are you stupid? He was raped, that’s why he said he repressed it and doesn’t count it because it is rape. It’s natural for your body to react. That incident has messed him up it was not consensual. He was a child!

[@joesmoe1347]

A serial tyrannosaurus Rex huh..... he watches a lot of story driven porn

[@liv9353]

As a woman, as well as a sex addict. (8 years of therapy) I've never had a drop of alcohol or partaken in any kind of abuse of drugs. Yet I can completely relate to these stories, the scene, the juxtaposed lifestyle that we tend to experience and share are so fascinating. I was never sexually abused, raped, or experienced abuse of any kind within my childhood or adulthood. Some people are inherently more sexual, therefore interests peak with a stronger, and almost insatiable desire. Most sex addicts tend to be men, but of course sexual identification has nothing to do with one's desire to immerse themselves in their own sexual interests. I take from this yet another humans story, a pulchritudinous blend of what we seek for our own interests. Thank you for sharing.

[@Wendypretty1]

There has to be something that opened up that door for you though. Perhaps a sexual experience that happened too soon or something.

[@visualreaction9738]

You’re a problem to young women the philosophy you spew, you understand that right?

[@wsreferencia]

Funny enough, most men think they are nymphomaniacs, or at least highly sexually driven. This personal remark lasts until the day they connect with a woman who really is a nympho, it's no match.

[@cosmoosefarms5440]

How do you find the time????? I think I might be a sex addict but have no idea because i am literally working 16 hours a day

[@kobyjames122]

Why do you feel we need to hear what you have to say?

[@Currency999]

only truth is when he said he has a lot of psychiatric issues and drugs will always be a part of his life

[@mikeobrien288]

Lol

[@BengisuAyse]

he was raped. and the trauma of it made him into "milf"s. this is easy to analyze when you have education on trauma psychology. it is so saddening that patients never know the very early traumas shape the rest of their lives. and of course the evil so called "people" commit a crime for a moment, just to ruin the rest of a huge life of their victims. I hope he gets sober. and maybe better, if he ever seeks treatment one day. which, he might not. cause he seems very deep into it. even like a lover of the abuse he went through.

[@dimplesp4046]

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@BengisuAyse]

@@JoshTheTechnoShaman you might have other and not-unhealthy reasons in YOUR case, but looking at what he told in detail, that isn't the case for HIM. being into older women isn't an automatic trauma response for everybody, that wasn't my comment. my comment regards only the info he gave about himself

[@ChicaPaquito]

100% agree. Some people have no idea how one moment of “pleasure” for them will likely have negative consequences for the rest of the other person’s life/sex life. Did for me. I can’t believe how prevalent sex abuse/violence is these days. Sickens me and saddens me.

[@chaseriderthetruthchaser5988]

I thought he liked sexed a lot because he love drugs .

[@VULGARxRM]

@@JoshTheTechnoShaman I agree with you 100%. OP is definitely drawing her own conclusions from what appears to be some sort of bias, possibly an unconscious one. I also think that when she says - "this is easy to analyze when you have education on trauma psychology" - indicates a certain condescension, presuming her own educational background gives her some sort of credit to leave such comments, while simultaneously giving her the authority to dismiss the opinions of others whom are different than her own.

[@nicolesawyer7117]

A lot of people think he is lying but there are a lot of people like this in Los Angeles. There are underground sex clubs and a whole scene for people like him. It is possible that his stories are true.

[@ericsierra-franco7802]

Not just in Los Angeles.

[@abellabarbie]

I'm from Miami and there are definitely underground sex clubs like there are in LA, but that's not why most people believe him. He seems incredibly disingenuous.

[@transmaniandevil]

I wanna join

[@drb2k580]

Eh, you’d be surprised how many people are into this. People that you’d never guess. I know several swinger couples who swing on a regular basis and I was shocked to learn it.

[@feelnrite]

You can tell he is not lying. No pausing and the stories are just flowing.

[@BexEvans]

He speaks so candidly. He clearly respects hard limits and has his boundaries and respects others. But I think he’s right, some of the kinks he has are much more common but we just don’t talk about it so openly. I bet a solid 90% of the people watching this video likes the idea of being able to take part or have fantasised in at least 1 of the positive experiences he’s had. Hats off to him for been so open about a taboo subject.

[@bruce8321]

My wife and I went to a swingers club many years ago and I still fantasize about it all these years later. She found she was bi and seeing her with another women was a huge turn on for me. I discovered most women who swing are bi and a few men. Seeing her enjoying men also was a turn on for me. I am so glad we did it as I still love dreaming about it.

[@doogiehouse889]

Thanks!!

[@BexEvans]

@@doogiehouse889 it was really interesting listening to your truth and your story

[@smome777]

@@bruce8321 Is there any reason why you too did not continue to visit the club? (since it seemed like such a positive experience)

[@bruce8321]

@@smome777 I guess having kids got in the way. I still get hard just thin king about some of what we did. lol

[@greasemonkey060]

It’s refreshing to hear a straight face conversation regarding sex or even ideas of any sort of situations. Especially with the extremities that are easily access online presently, it still seems unspoken about. Maybe it’s still suppressing on my own end, as I don’t find these conversations regularly or outwardly discussed about. Even amongst my closest friends or peers, there’s still a lot of taboo around what others might consider typical or normal. Thanks for introducing these subjects through your content. It’s definitely made a lot of folks do some thinking.

[@Existential_Dread]

You have to think that at least some of what they speak about isn’t true.

[@chestnut4860]

Where are you from? I feel (thankfully) that I can have those conversations quite easially. I'm scandinavian with geeky friends and hang out on internert porn sites specifically for drawings. Loved ones and those comment section have little taboo. One interesting/annoying bit about the culture on those sites: When you praise good things (eg, very affectionate sex) everyone agrees but if you say something would be creepy behavior irl everyone gets annoyed. I guess they don't like "complainers"?

[@jdawg414]

Just have to find the right friend . I’m the one to love talking about all this stuff. Like you said even just for the ideas aspect.

[@thefatcoolguy]

@greasemonkey060 you’re just old bro. Maybe you’re from a more conservative era like the 50s or 60s or sumfin before the whole sexual revolution/ hippy thing happened.

[@johnhurtme]

Why would you ever want anything to be "normal"? In sex or life in general; normal is boring. Be brave and dare to be weird. "They laugh at me because I'm different, I laugh at them because they are all the same" Kurt Cobain

[@celizbish]

I had a lot of sexual maladaptive behaviors when I was young. Extremely dangerous and unhealthy sexual patterns. I deal with some trauma due to that lifestyle and choose to be celibate today. I'm interested in a follow up interview to see what has chanced since he's been going to church. Thankyou!

[@GabrielXDrums]

Sounds like my friend of a long time 8+ years, due to sexual trauma as a child one has that in their subconscious and it manifests in hyper sexuality. Thankfully she too, has in a way decided to stop doing things and rather “wait for the person she’s going to be with because I deserve to enjoy sex and not be with men who only care about their own gratification”. In her words to me, guess she realized she deserves more. As all women do.

[@celizbish]

@@GabrielXDrums I can 100 percent relate to your friend. I feel her pain. Trying to have a healthy sexual outlook is extremely hard. I hope she finds what she is looking for and her patience pays off.

[@celizbish]

@John Smith it's all about self discipline and not putting yourself in situations where you know you'll give in to impulses. It's so hard. I went 6 years with no sex then for a year I gave in and I felt like I was dying bc of the shame and guilt that came with it bc I knew I shouldn't be doing what I was doing. It was so hard pulling myself back out of that pit but in just a few days I'll have a year celibate again. it's a constant daily struggle. But I want to explore healthy sexual desires with someone I love and care about and am committed to.

[@GabrielXDrums]

@@celizbish you guys would prolly be good friends 😩😭

[@alexandrajunikka1642]

Same

[@AveChristusRex789]

Why do alot of people think he’s making it up? Some of his stories may sound crazy but reality is often worse than fiction

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@Vwoods27]

I say it all of the time. The truth can be wayyyyy stranger than fiction.

[@myeyeswentdeaf6213]

@YOUGONPAYFORTHECIGGI? Dude, stop with the weird music all the time. Don’t u ever have anything helpful to say?

[@allie9312]

People commenting on this channel always accuse the interviewee of lying and more than half the time I’m sitting there, with my litany of strange experiences, thinking “idk sounds legit”

[@sidda3262]

This dude is an unattractive dork & always has been. You’re really believing all this? It’s not that the stories themselves are crazy, it’s him.

[@cameraobscura2379]

Let's say that some or all of these stories are made up. The need to publically lie on that scale would still be an example of someone dealing with mental/sexual issues, which is, in itself, a case study.

[@scattau41]

I read once that everything, including lies an outburst, are the patient trying to subconsciously tell their story. I’m aware that this is not psychotherapy, but the quote seemed relevant.

[@cameraobscura2379]

@@scattau41 The running theme to many of these stories is that sex happens TO him, without his agency. The camp experience, the threesome, the hockey team deciding to film him, "falling into" escorting and being taken to parties and events. He is wanted, pursued, and desired. Could speak to what's missing in his life. You'll notice that for part of the interview he claims to be speaking honestly and openly about his experiences, but his hands are resting in front of his pelvic area, obscuring it. Words say yes, body says no.

[@thesupergreenjudy]

What makes you think that the majority of these stories are made up? (although his story sounds a but outlandish - I am more talking about the other stories on this channel)

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@cameraobscura2379]

@@thesupergreenjudy By "these stories," I mean to indicate this subject's stories, not other interviews.

[@bredaobrennan9993]

As usual, fantastic content. I didn't expect to like James, but his respect of others boundaries shone through and he won my affections. God bless you both 💜

[@Hana.Behl-Lecter]

People actually believe this guy? I've always approached these interviews with an open mind but this one not so much. That vibrator story didn't happen, certainly not the way it was told anyway...You also can't just take medications like doxycycline long term as some sort of STI preventative. He talks about mutual respect but then admits to filming a partner without her consent and crossing the line as a paramedic.

[@KennediFord]

Other people watching as a turn on is one thing.. Others watching without her consent is disgusting. To go behind her back and ask the guys about putting up the good footage is one of a thousand examples of how this “fun” can get dangerous and toxic and ruin lives. I don’t glamorize it at all.

[@haroldrodriguez9418]

All I can say is I've watched your channel grow from 1k to 3 million Mark!!! It's awesome to see brother!! God bless stay safe mark and thank you for the therapy cause your content has helped me threw some dark times myself.Thank you

[@kyla6538]

Hope you're doing ok Harold.

[@mandy7xmm]

1k gang

[@leneo1731]

I'm very sceptical to therapist who find these suppressed memories. That can be a real dangerous place to go! The worst example is the therapist who made the famous Thomas Quick find his suppressed memories which ended up with Quick remembering a dusin murders and being convicted of a handful of those murders. A decade later it was revealed there were no suppressed memories. At least of no murders. You can lead people to believe a lot of things that never happened to them during different forms of therapy. It's extremely scary.

[@laleebee1597]

You are correct. Suppressed memories are bullshit. The therapist hypnotizes the patient where they are highly suggestible. The therapist creates a story and after the hypnosis is over they “review” the session and create a story out of it. It’s a lie.

[@edwardcarrington3531]

This dude is literally projecting a fantasy onto all of us

[@YulicXI]

what do you mean

[@YulicXI]

you don’t believe him?

[@tracyd693]

He's full of shit

[@amypesceone]

Exactly!!!

[@danielhope92]

There is not a woman on the planet paying this man for sex.

[@samfawcett5738]

This guy can LITERALLY say "this one time, at band camp" and kick off a gangster story...😅

[@bohemia9956]

NEVER LET THE TRUTH GET IN THE WAY OF A GOOD STORY....

[@gregquante8864]

One of my favorite sayings

[@bohemia9956]

@@gregquante8864 he said it though ;)

[@greplink]

Men get abused as children and apparently it's their imagination. These comments are incredible

[@thewolf2153]

No. The Asian therapist sucking on a lollipop like she’s out of anime kind of subtracts from this guy’s credibility.

[@MrKrushgutz]

Women typically don’t have empathy towards men. They see men as disposable and sometimes not even human.

[@cherryhazard8002]

Very very sad actually

[@MJ-qb5ph]

@@MrKrushgutz Yep

[@violetaviana1888]

@@MrKrushgutz just because you been rejected by women it doesnt mean we dont feel for u.

[@connor7048]

Your interviews have furthered my passion for starting my academic journey into Social Work and one day starting a career in the field. And your interviews continue to do so every time I watch. Thank you :)

[@tishreni5183]

Unless you have time to get a masters degree you won't make any money.

[@connor7048]

@@tishreni5183 I will be getting a masters degree and the average salary of a LMSW is around 60-80k a year in my state. I'm pretty confident I will be fine and it's my passion.

[@tishreni5183]

@@connor7048 best of luck.

[@jb2166]

Life experience is the best teacher. One person at a time.

[@connor7048]

@@EchoBravo370 People have the capacity to change but change only occurs when the person is able to put in the work to do it. What I want to do is be someone who can offer the path, show the way, and be encouraging to people, if they choose to not change that is completely out of my control. But I understand what you mean and thank you. :)

[@jacquelineloveselvis]

I think this guy is a fantasist.

[@num7088]

A real life Glen Quagmire. There are a lot of these guys out there. This man is just more vocal about it.

[@AnyoneAnywhere82]

He’s only saying all this stuff so others will want to gagoogidy his gashmoygan.

[@reverendlowdown3982]

I definitely feel like he's blurring the lines between truth and fiction. I dont know him and can't say forsure but it seems to be embellished a bit.

[@alexanderbayer4348]

This guy gives me Macaroni Grill waiter vibes

[@AtLast1218]

I laughed a little to hard on your comment, I agree!!!🤣

[@yazarc4598]

This is the most spot-on comment I've ever read on KZbin in all my years of coming here.

[@amytempel1137]

He REALLY creeps me out. Sex with the 16 year old, video's made (with or without consent) just cringey.

[@barrywolf2145]

spot on and also this dude is full of shit!

[@erikasolorioo7313]

What does that mean

[@mrbrownroyyal]

I get the sense he's been with more men than he's willing to admit...and not that there is anything wrong with being with men...it’s just interesting to me that he kind of skirted around it...

[@allie9312]

Yes bro people in the comments are like saying he’s lying but my hunch is that it’s actually a lot MORE severe than he’s saying LOL

[@mrbrownroyyal]

@@allie9312 I hear that!

[@renny3816]

He’s afraid of being judged, that’s what I assume.

[@Ch-vl8bg]

He stated he did not care to have intercourse with men. He mentioned oral sex and if you listen, he states if it turned on the female of the couple he did things to turn them on. Which implies an infers a active swinger would have multiple men.

[@fetishisticrose]

I concur

[@lesliepaternoster1896]

Amazing! Look how much fun he is having telling you about his sexual experience. Very unsettling

[@StopPanakinAnakin]

I always feel humbled in a sense after your videos. I have a perspective on my life that "Hey, you have it pretty fucking good. Enjoy what you have and what you've had and what is yet to come because, thankfully, it's much better than MANY people."

[@thecommonsensecapricorn]

The thought of sexual deviancy, being around sexually deviant people feels unsettling to intuitive, centered people. That’s how I know it’s wrong and shouldn’t be “normalized” and glamorized by mainstream society. Like another commenter put well - this man has some deep rooted issues that he’s managing with sex instead of getting help to live a healthy, truly fulfilling life. It all comes from my spiritual views that most do not share but to me, this is the overexertion of the sacral chakra. In balance, our sexual nature empowers us, it helps us to connect deeply with our bodies and to connect deeply with another. It allows us to connect to unmatched pleasure, which brings our focus to the present moment. And of course it creates life. But excessiveness and overindulgence always causes an imbalance in our lives. It will never bring growth or healing. People in our society are far too focused on sex and money and status and CONSTANT PLEASURE, and it’s fucking sad. It’s why we live in such a toxic and sick world. Nobody knows balance. Nobody knows the difference between wants and needs. Nobody knows themselves at all. Constant distractions, addictions, unhealthy coping mechanism & they try to normalize it so they don’t feel shame instead of trying to just HEAL and do the hard work to GET BETTER.

[@renny3816]

What are “sexually deviant people?” I’ve been called that, but I’m a guy, who’s only been with ONE GUY, in a MONOGAMOUS relationship, while straight people my age sleep with too much people.

[@whatchamacallit70]

Go judge yourself

[@evanwilliams8627]

For some reason, whenever I first see the thumbnails to your videos I think “meh” and sometimes scroll past. If I watch the first 5 minutes though, I’m hooked every time!

[@jessicaellina3878]

He obviously sees himself as a charasmatic gigolo.... and he knows how to spin a yarn! But l found him beningn and despite the content, spoke respectfully . Each to his own.

[@evi9929]

Umm he literally committed a crime of recording a person withou their consent

[@omilett]

"Nothing ever happens"

[@GN-ge5ft]

Charismatic gigolo he is NOT . I know guys like this , trust me he is full of shit . This is all an act …

[@kirkmartin2223]

@@GN-ge5ft kinda what I thought. Dude is living in a fantasy world developed from watching too much porn! Like none of his stories are "normal" or "regular". Every single story is exaggerated and cranked up to level 11 for the camera. If he were telling stories about combat/war I'd be screaming stolen valor!! He's a sexual "navy SEAL" ...... in his own mind.

[@ericgil1266]

Girl you read him for filth but you ain't wrong

[@daydreamerz]

I feel for him. When someone eats compulsively, people know something is wrong and suggest they get help. Same with compulsive drinking, drugs, exercise, plastic surgery, gambling, shopping, hoarding, even sleeping. But when it comes to compulsive sex, commenters give a pat on the back for being sexually open-minded. Say it's just a harmless fetish. Weird world we're living in.

[@schneedgod]

This sums up how I feel about it. I'm all for sexual freedom and you know having fun but.. there is a line that crosses over into degeneracy that will effect your life & relationships. This dude is FAR past that line. He and anyone like him truly needs help.

[@hclariceee]

i wish you hired people around the US to find people to interview! I live in florida and am in school to help people talk about and heal from their traumas. i absolutely love your videos, they teach me so much. i get see people from all walks of life who have suffered in different ways but are so similar too! keep it up mark you’re truly amazing! 💛

[@zairaisamazingg]

Why would you need to be hired? What’s stopping you from reaching out to those in your community now? ❤️

[@laurieblanchard1171]

@zairaisamazingg hey friend, she's probably saying to extend Marks work even farther and on his platform to more easily spread the stories. She obviously could do interviews on her own, but equipment costs money, editing skills and software is needed and takes A TON OF TIME, PLUS her work alone wouldn't have the audience that SWU does.

[@Milioem]

Make your own money

[@plantinghope5193]

@@laurieblanchard1171 thank you. I think many of us would "do more" in general if we just had access to resources.

[@elaineandrepont]

@@plantinghope5193 Exactly!

[@Kellib420]

I swear you find the most interesting people to interview that is why I love watching all of your videos

[@romazzeojr]

I am pretty sure 90% of those stories are results of his imagination which makes it even more interesting. Not that they are lies, but that there is a mix between friends stories, his stories and what he wished his life was (and possibly what creates the gap)

[@myeyeswentdeaf6213]

I don’t see why a lot of people think that he has to be lying. That lifestyle is not that hard to live if u wanted to. Sex feels good, some people go overboard with it. It’s the same with drugs. But nobody ever says ‘ yeah right, like he really did a bunch of drugs with a bunch of people, no way!’

[@romazzeojr]

@@myeyeswentdeaf6213 I am not saying its impossible, but the way he describes makes me feel his story is clearly affected by the porn addiction he has. Not only that but the sentiments he is expressing as he describes it just shows a lot is on the imagination field

[@F-Andre]

@@romazzeojr jealous?

[@romazzeojr]

@@F-Andre sure bud

[@peterwhitaker71]

I know what you mean. I've met enough b**lsh**ters to recognize one. Good luck to him, either way.

[@gennibee]

Reading these comments the stark contrast between male victims versus female victims is readily apparent. There are so many critical comments about how much this poor guy disclosed, everything from calling him a liar to accusing him of bragging. Also, if interviewees don’t tell enough, they’re accused of not being forthcoming or dishonest/hiding things; if they’re explicit they’re criticized for being too graphic. These criticisms are always much harsher towards the men. After watching this interview I see a very apprehensive, anxious, insecure young man who’s very confused and seeking understanding and/or approval. I see a person who was deeply and adversely affected by a sexual assault as a juvenile adolescent. We as a society need to stop being critical of victims of intimate violence and abuse. The acts perpetrated on others, regardless of age, gender, are disgusting and unnatural, abnormal acts and there’s no “normal” reaction. Men deserve the same support, kindness, help and compassion as women. Treating boys and men as if they should not be upset or view themselves as victims when someone abuses them is so inherently wrong and this is precisely why crimes against males that are perpetrated by women are grossly underreported and our opinions and attitudes has to change. I wish this young man the best.

[@BanjoGirl101]

I find a lot of people don't know the extent of people's sexual experiences. Some people have only done so much so when someone tells a story of their sexual impulsiveness it appears fabricated. When we are young, we hear other people making up stories to appear cool. This guy I feel is telling some truth but also feels fabricated also. He has a lot of psychiatric issues, as he said. He loves sex and I can tell he enjoys talking about it. Some people watching this video love hearing someone talking about sexual experiences. It arouses them as much as him. They don't call it out as its not hurting anyone.

[@Lady-Carmakazi]

I recently heard someone say they've been thinking about getting back into the dating pool but I'm pretty sure there's pee in it. That's exactly how I feel about it. Even men are having things slipped into their drinks, that's scary. Glad this guy's at least getting tested.

[@Yassin.ibn.farouk]

Lol

[@catebartley9865]

Bahahaha

[@briananthony9955]

OMG. 🤣🤣

[@hospitalcakewalk]

What you and other women do not understand is men get stimulated externally. For some reason yall think it's hard for men to get raped but forget how easy it is for them to get hard :(

[@mr.mitchell6374]

@@hospitalcakewalk coming from a man myself I don't understand what the hell ur talking about 😆imagine that. What makes you think you know about the male "area" more than a man himself. I'm just saying. Try to understand what my point is please.

[@none11ification]

Like he said....."there are lots of regular people that are into a lot of things" that people have no idea about....my dating fears confirmed

[@gregoryreeves8586]

The constant eye closing when he is telling certain stories is giving me the "He's full of $hit vibes ". I try not to judge an maybe I'm wrong just going with my gut... 🤷

[@thebusinesswoman23]

I feel like he's drunk or high during the interview too. He is constantly slurring , especially towards the end of the sentences... 🤷‍♀️

[@RetroPlus]

He's also umming and uuuhing extremely frequently

[@jtl909]

@@EchoBravo370 People who say they can spot liars through body language are themselves full of shit. Go check out some FBI videos on here. They’ll agree.

[@peterashby-saracen3681]

I completely draw the line at the use of drugs, pain and abuse of any kind including non consensual sex, but if the activities this guy is describing are "unusual" then I think that there are many hundreds of thousands of us who are also unusual. I don't share his experiences gender-wise because I am gay, but I am left thinking: what precisely is odd or different about what he's describing? I'm reminded of the Kinsey reports when a lot of people probably claimed to be shocked by his findings but a lot more were undoubtedly saying to themselves, "Oh, is that supposed to be unusual...? But I've been doing that for years..."

[@timothyj1966]

gay man -- his "stories" are pretty damn tame... yawn

[@peterashby-saracen3681]

@@timothyj1966 Precisely...

[@JCarty-dw3vr]

No because I'm like 10 minutes in and I'm really sat here thinking same thing, also a gay man here. This guy in the vid is not giving what he thinks he is.

[@5milemacc737]

step your game up gay internet man

[@chestnut4860]

Yeah I'm baffled, is the coming on that girls chest supposed to be "shocking"?

[@ShockResistor]

Imagine you give your kids the best life, cause no trauma, and someone comes a long to change that. Then you are blamed for them turning out as they do. I'd be so upset! This is one of the reasons I will not have kids. Adoption is one thing, but I refuse to bring anyone into this world.

[@liberty3928]

Schools are doing that very thing to our children today. It's become almost impossible to protect our children thanks to the government.

[@shadow.banned]

"I'm not a fan of condoms." Safety first.

[@myndfulretro]

Prep

[@Jason.cbr1000rr]

But the idea of it... it blocks you both skin to skin touch fluid to fluid and etc... id rather effing myyself than wearing one btw....

[@Skyforger23]

Can confirm, nothing beats ER / hospital stories. Very own universe with high potential for really strange barely believable situations/ happenings. Can´t be told to the rest mostly for reasons.

[@Megaman8880]

I'd say the same about prison stories. I was a Sergeant in a state prison for 8 years and I can't even tell people some of my stories because obviously prison is about as anti-PC as it gets :P

[@supanova4126]

For a suppressed memory he remembers a lot and can recall it well. I’ve been through a similar memory issue and am not a therapist but…not sure I actually believe him.

[@oceanaw5198]

I had surpressed memories for over a decade. It first came back in a flashback and then full memories later, and when they did come back I could remember it in complete detail.

[@richardjenkins8366]

@@oceanaw5198 That’s very unusual, not the norm.

[@oceanaw5198]

@@richardjenkins8366, thanks for the insight. You are saying this from experience or observation or education...or otherwise? I'm interested

[@richardjenkins8366]

@@oceanaw5198 Cognitive Science PhD. specializing in Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience.

[@oceanaw5198]

@@richardjenkins8366 got it, thanks :)

[@lauraeeeee]

I hope he can reflect on his want to “put up” a video of a girl without her consent. That is disgusting.

[@alexbien8831]

He didn't say without consent. He goes on to say his main thing is 100 percent consent and pleasing women. Out of that whole video, this is what you took away?

[@docyagamikiko]

The way he talks, deals and respect each individual he encounters shows you how he was brought up. Good lad with an open mind being honest and accepting his fetish. And bravely sharing his story, for us to know. That hospital story tho is insane! Like a perfect comedic scene in a medical place.

[@elinaanagnostakou2788]

he did not respect the individual who was having sex with and others watching.

[@hallman321]

Mark, I love what you do and been following for a couple of years. I'd love for you to do a "live" with just you taking questions. I'm sure so many of us have questions about your experiences with these beautiful people and your travels. Thanks for what you do.

[@QueensofVirtue]

That's a good idea

[@luxbookplanners]

100%

[@robertedwards9861]

hes done that a few times to an extent

[@crystalterry20]

this channel is teaching me a lot of stuff

[@kayray4858]

I’m finding out a lot more about people, and how destructive we are to ourselves..

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@fullbinky]

It is incredible, some of this stuff I would have never heard of without this channel

[@throwaway5521]

Agreed, like who to avoid 😬

[@cce8632]

If anything i appreciate this guy's brutal honesty.

[@SubZeroJill]

Well, I guess THAT's my new favorite anecdote out of all the others I've ever heard in this channel. Absolute gold of an EMT/ER story XD

[@ritamccomas9271]

Don't guess you caught the one EMT stating there was a vibrater after looking, but yet the nurse didn't find it until that chick's pants were cut off🙄

[@latashatate7224]

Sad part is a lot of girls have similar experiences. Those PTSD flashbacks are horrible. I felt every word, cry, and tear that came from her. The pain is so deep and until she gets out of skid row were she is not consistently reminded of her abuse, she is going to continue to experience the childhood abuse in real time. It will never go away but if somehow she got the help she needs her PTSD can be less intrusive. Unfortunately, from personal experience getting therapy to work through the abuse is hard to come by these days.

[@s.d.mitchell9505]

Sorry but I think he has a wild imagination. He just likes to talk dirty. He doesnt have the looks to have that many opportunities. imo

[@tquasa07]

Depends on if he made up the college sports fraternity part, entirely

[@paytonsimone]

I’m honestly a little shocked everyone is believing all his stories. A trained nurse has never dealt with removing objects from vaginas or anuses while working in the ER? Yeah right, let alone “screaming” after the removal of such an object. Unless of course he was 18 or 19 years old in the 1920s lol

[@maureent8653]

James is a legend… in his own mind…

[@anniemarie1987]

Serious ill-managed trauma here ... Sending prayers and love to you , have a feeling this guy hasn't experienced real love in a very long time.

[@maryelizabethmcgregor413]

I agree too!

[@backtoasimplelife]

Yes, I wonder how counseling helped him.

[@adamwright4135]

he said at least twice he had the time of his life ... and repeatedly said he had a blast. dude is doing just fine

[@katjaxxx7353]

@@adamwright4135 yes agree

[@backtoasimplelife]

@@adamwright4135 He still has an addiction, and he still experiences depression and lack of connection. Fleeting moments of hot sex do not compensate for all that.

[@kt114]

How often is this dude taking antibiotics? He said he’s sexually compulsive but doesn’t like condoms so he takes doxycycline(antibiotics) to prevent STI’s. You can’t constantly take antibiotics though. That would not be healthy. You’ll also build a resistance to those antibiotics.

[@lucindahunt3383]

Another fascinating one! I wonder how many of this man's stories are exaggerated for effect and how many are fully genuine - find it hard to imagine nurses physically screaming at the sight of a v*br*t*r......... But maybe I'm just cynical of this man's anecdotes! Either way thank you for another fascinating window into humanity.

[@valeriephilmore1870]

Me too He’s definitely not that hot to start off he’s just obnoxious

[@deewood5127]

Could you be projecting?

[@SkybabyandStar]

@@valeriephilmore1870 you just wish he'd bend you over

[@Invalid.Argument]

mark calls him "James" in the intro, and then at 3:43 he calls himself "David"

[@F30586]

I thought I was the only one who caught that…

[@justnell9249]

Yep. And again at 18:02

[@babyzizi1]

@@justnell9249 🤣🤣🤣

[@babyboyy207]

Damn lol

[@sseldog]

He is David.. I actually know this guy.. lol

[@emchammer1815]

Cool interviews. Can you do one with a bodybuilder? Always been curious about what goes on the inside of their mind.

[@justindchaney]

Yeah especially since there’s been quite a few passing away recently from taking bodybuilding too far

[@gracie99999]

yet I notice he brings on people who have some sorta addiction or complex or whatever.. But a bodybuilder? 🤔

[@gracie99999]

@@justindchaney roofs?

[@gracie99999]

@@justindchaney shhht sorry roids?

[@myeyeswentdeaf6213]

@Fart Knocker me too. I once met a roid head that was so big that he couldn’t reach his lower back to scratch it. He made his girl do it. So if he can’t wipe either…..then I feel real sorry for her.

[@JamesJohnson-bp6ct]

Crazy to hear everyone’s different life stories

[@KarunaSatoriASMR]

“There’s some normal ish appearing people that have a lot of things they do in the bedroom that would surprise you.” yes.

[@MDcinematic]

Hey Karuna! ✌🏻❤️

[@TheGspoters]

This guy is a gem! What a story teller, well done Mark!😅

[@djtall3090]

@James that vibrator story was hilarious!

[@rebareebs]

I can’t see this guy being an escort whatsoever.

[@MJ-qb5ph]

Yes. He has no personality at all

[@MH-ds8cb]

A legend in his own mind…

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@gracie99999]

Lol

[@TheEpicHitmarker]

Gotta admit that ER story is pretty legendary

[@lisaburroughs7847]

Yep

[@fvckgoo9le242]

What are you in your own mind? Less than a legend? Sounds like fun

[@johnnyconsumer]

People with sexual compulsion generally lie about what actually happened in their childhood. Guarantee the story about when he was 15 never happened. More than likely abused by adults as a child.

[@jpark28]

Yeah his crush walking in to watch and play with herself seems pretty far fetched

[@angelsocrazy6269]

@@jpark28 exactly

[@anthonylucero6458]

Dude has a far out imagination.

[@carmagurl317]

@@jpark28 dude crazy stuff happens at camp.

[@jpark28]

@@carmagurl317 you have any stories?

[@joesmith4050]

This guys hyper sexuality has him so confused he can’t tell the difference between reality and porn. His story contradicts himself so much I don’t think it happened like he remembers.

[@laurasince1986]

I hate talking to people who close their eyes when they talk. Makes me instantly not trust them....

[@probiotic1]

I agree with you.

[@OolongG952]

He may be high

[@MsTygame]

I agree. I usually think people that do that are trying to concentrate on the story/lie they want to tell. Also avoiding eye contact because of their deceitfulness.

[@Picoteful]

Sometimes is just to avoid perceived judgement, while remaining truthful.

[@getnails_byjen2726]

It’s also because some people are shy or have insecurities that they avoid eye contact. Not to say that’s the case with this guy. Just that it’s not always deceit that causes it

[@shelbybrown8312]

I'm always looking forward to this right before work ends this gets me thru my last hours

[@seesnap]

Love to have a job like yours

[@myeyeswentdeaf6213]

It’s kinda cool that ur work day’s over when everybody else is botching and groaning about dragging themselves to work.

[@Alex10daysago]

what do you do for work?

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@NaNa-re3wc]

Some of these comments baffle me, I’ve read multiple defending that men cannot get sexually assaulted. How disgustingly ignorant and invalidating to another human being’s suffering! It blows my mind that people still willfully believe such ignorant things. They should be blessed they never had to figure things like that out the hard way…

[@adamfoddy9851]

Anyone else think that camp story was completely made up?

[@adamfoddy9851]

@@MyLovelyDeadFriends 🙄

[@hunterbidenscrackdealer3753]

100 percent lies….

[@DocterKankle]

what makes you say that? Everyone keeps saying similar things but I'm always slow to pick up on these things

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@adamfoddy9851]

@@DocterKankle Just doesn't sound at all believable. It's like something straight out of a porn mag erotic writing section.

[@LizC-hq6tt]

A nurse acting like that is so incredibly UNPROFESSIONAL!!!. How embarrassing for the patient and then to scream and THROW it like she didn't know what the F it was acting like it was about to eat her GF arm... I really hope someone had a chat with her... Medical professionals see a LOT of st*t but it's their job to keep their composure not scream (like she didn't know the thing vibrated) My mom was a nurse and had she pulled a foreign object out of a dudes... The. Screamed and THREW it towards other patients, she said she would have gotten in some shit not only that she said the patients are usually embarrassed enough as is without having someone doing stuff like that...

[@lucydee1234]

I can't wait for the day when people start being more honest about sex, like this. It feels to me like most people have some sort of sexual 'quirk'. It's just normal, eh? Love these videos - 'soft white underbelly' is the perfect title. In addition to how beneficial it is for people to recognise the importance of the impact adverse childhood experience has on physical and mental illness, there's a real beauty in seeing vulnerability exposed.

[@ChauncyCharm]

Yea me too. What are some of hour kinks?

[@doogiehouse889]

I'm glad I am not a hideous monster some have made me out to be. Thanks for the kind words!

[@adeolaadebiyi7618]

Most people don’t

[@doogiehouse889]

Vulnerability is what I aim for all the time I have a desire to make all these pansy ass people "judge" me for participating in non vanilla consentual sexual acts and then they are SUPER afraid to try ANYTHING that makes them even lower their inhibitions and would NEVER admit that they almost ALWAYS HAVE non monogamous non missionary sex once a week for the rest of their lives or are so damaged they are petrified of even trying something "taboo" which is basically sex under any vulnerable state.

[@karanjorgensen3175]

I think most people do but its often curiosity and the unknown that draws people in and then once tried it can be over. It's often the case that the fantasy is better than the the reality as well. Especially if it involves multiple partners. There is nothing wrong with sexual exploration as long as it doesn't harm others or yourself physically or emotionally. I think most women would not be able to do what he does in the long term. As he says it leads to depression, loneliness and can create a feeling of emptiness.

[@patrickk4180]

Man, great interview Mark. This guy spoke in a distinct, articulate, manner. Very interesting interview. Thank you.

[@ThatsTheWayItGoes]

*Fact* *Check* • Paramedic at 18? I thought he was in college at that age?

[@ThatsTheWayItGoes]

@@nikk_nobody This was almost agony to watch. The lies seem so blatantly obvious.

[@deezhole]

He was 19? a paramedic and the administered Narcan? How old is he? Narcan has not been on the market all that long. He is a drug user paramedic too?? I call B S

[@skyking228]

I thought my 10 year high school reunion was wild. Now I have a bunch of new terms, words and meds to research. Always interesting, thanks!

[@TheEricj1337]

I just looked up tri mix or whatever it's called and yeah that's gonna be a no from me dawg. Ain't nobody injecting my dick. Needles near dicks for only 1 to 2 hour boner NO THANKS. I'd have to have a serious problem to go that far 😄

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@plutoplatters]

I think Grant Kirby said the same thing !

[@NobodysGh0sT]

Tremendous. I had to 👍 this comment just cuz I wanted it to have an even 50 thumbs ups. But really it's because I have never been to a single high school reunion. I never really tried to keep in touch with people afterwards and I honestly don't know what happened to most of the people who were my friends. High School was a dark time in my life that led to an even darker one. The me that people meet today is far different than who they think they know and I honestly know I will disappoint them and that's why I truly have never gone. I'm sure they wouldn't know who I was and things would get awkward. They had no clue what was happening to me and I'd like to keep it that way.

[@NobodysGh0sT]

@@TheEricj1337 Yeah that's common in the Adult Industry today. Guys pop pills and inject themselves in their pee pee to keep it hard longer. I would rather say *Would You Like Fries With That?* as a career than inject my member with some concoction that could lead to long term damage in the short and long term. I could never do porn. It takes a special person who can perform under the confined conditions in porn. You have cameras and a boom mic guy and you have to stop and let them come in and take pictures and you have to come on command and that doesn't happen for me. Besides, if you do that as a job you'd probably find that you wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with someone as most women want monogamy and adult work isn't suited for that type of lifestyle.

[@sweezy7455]

I swear every interview is just fucking amazing. How do you go about choosing who you are featuring? Do you meet people or do you post adds or go find people?

[@Ch-vl8bg]

For you having a hard time believing the ED story, you really need to speak to a group of nurses/doctors at a social gathering after a drink or two.

[@celestialasmr9624]

Haha yeah im a doctor and I was wondering how many people would believe it, but I can tell you now, its true. The stories I could share... 😂😂

[@viciousdope66]

This guy reminds me of a documentary called “Chickenhawks,” which is available on KZbin for free. The first guy in the documentary, I think his name is Leland, talks freely about people offering themselves for different sexual situations…This guy definitely reminds me of Leland. Especially the little “glint” in his eye.

[@chriskyle9713]

That guy is an absolute creep, a weird meek fucked up guy.

[@ianbridges6040]

It might be good to hold the judgement, you may have became him given the same circumstances.

[@chriskyle9713]

@@ianbridges6040 nah the Leland guy from the documentary he's talking about. He's not right in the head dude.

[@ianbridges6040]

@Chris Kyle oh okay I understand now, I’m not familiar

[@birdflipper]

I keep expecting to see someone I know on this channel. These are my kind of people!

[@mikebb1000]

Funny you should say that I was thinking the exact same thing the other day. I think it’s only a matter of time 👍

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[@lonewolf319]

Uhhhhh……I call bullshit.

[@mattghostly5261]

Not even 5 mins in and I agree.

[@DocterKankle]

what makes you say that? Everyone keeps saying similar things but I'm always slow to pick up on these things

[@Forgiveiolord]

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[@gentlemanmob]

@k-man you want to blow him don't you

[@karllager2214]

Dude is a legend in his own mind.

[@petyachakarova]

in his own kind - that's the key. 😂

[@leshgooo1016]

Absolutely. What a loser he is

[@MrsTessWren]

Absolutely. heard a lot of missteps, back steps and seeming lies.

[@Anonomo-d3d]

Right?!?!?

[@MsCharity333]

Agreed

[@DavidMccallister65]

Again, mainstream America tells us that porn is "normal" and healthy but that could not be further from you're truth.

[@njandrews4105]

Really I’ve never heard that ever.. especially “healthy”

[@kennethnewman1055]

It funny that mutual acceptance and respect is his key to success. I have been in the best relationship of my life for the past 12 years and those 2 factors have made it wonderful. Great story and amazing lesson.

[@evi9929]

How can it be, when he literally recorded his girlfriend having sex without her knowing and other people watched

[@tempesttking5715]

💕🤗

[@BeautyIsMyLife]

Regarding why he closes his eyes when he talks, I looked it up and found that it's called Eye Blocking. I do this sometimes, it's a way to recall something and concentrate on the memory by picturing it in your mind. Closing your eyes can help some people to do this.

[@shannonsmith2642]

Even when his eyes are open they are half closed, it’s hard to tell which is which.

[@jaydkay30]

😆 The story about his hot Asian therapist sucking on candy 🍭 during their sessions had me dying 🤣💀

[@gracie99999]

Where!!!!! joke joke Hahah

[@gracie99999]

but in all seriousness I’m improving so High 5!!! 😐

[@FCTHETRUTH]

Lol

[@paige3691]

@@JoshTheTechnoShaman 🤣🤣🤣

[@peterwallace4964]

Aw come on seriously..that’s a bullshit story that he created in his own mind

[@lizleb8932]

Mark, I love your content. This channel has been very therapeutic for me! Thank you

[@Protolamna]

There are two truths I can pick up from this interview so far, I didn't go to the same summer camp and I didn't go to the same college.

[@matthews5704]

This was without a doubt one of the best interviews yet how you keep a straight face and stay on task is extraordinary I was laughing and like wtf he just say all at once you deserve a Pulitzer I wish the rest of journalist and news agencies were as raw honest and unfiltered and asked the questions you do keep up the amazing work

[@matthews5704]

How's your parents have you without 6 fingers and toes?

[@ritamccomas9271]

​@@matthews5704🤔huh?

[@EaglesWind1]

Cap. So many of these guys claim they can't keep women off them and women pay them etc

[@MrKrushgutz]

I’ve known guys like that. They exist and have been witness to how easy they have it with women. Women don’t necessarily want relationships with them but definitely want sex with them.

[@fvckgoo9le242]

"I get no women so it's impossible for women to throw themselves at anyone else" - Guys with no game

[@nicolesawyer7117]

When did he say women pay him? I must have missed that. And I’ve met plenty of men who get tons of women. They don’t even have to be that attractive if they are a good talker.

[@ohtomi5021]

Speaking with his eyes closed so much of the time.

[@abyz1467]

Porn has ruined many lives, including this one.

[@micahwright5901]

Yep

[@Bubs-ew8tj]

a totally normal guy being honest about what most guys like or think of

[@calirose8617]

I don't know. From the very beginning it sounds more like his imagination than reality.

[@scattau41]

Fantasy can be a reality coping mechanism.

[@wesleyAlan9179]

Oh, I believe him all the way. I've experienced the same thing about 20years ago

[@AdidasGvng]

You live in Lala land if you think the things he says are too excessive that it makes it fake, is he possibly lying? Yes, everyone lies but this stuff does indeed happen

[@DocterKankle]

what makes you say that? Everyone keeps saying similar things but I'm always slow to pick up on these things

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