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[@CaptainNick]

Ab Tak it wasn’t necessary but aaj kuch logon ko yeh video samaj ne mein difficultly horahi hai. Let me write the video concept also since video ke through yeh kuch log abhi bhi nahi samaj pa rahe. The idea of this video is really simple - 1.It is against the negativity of society, jo 4 log aapke ghar ki baatein bahar discuss karte hain, and rumours spread karte hain. 2. Jab family, unnecessarily aapke private family matters ko relatives Tak extend karti hain, jahan se woh baat dusre relatives tak jaati and aise hi sabko aapke ghar ki baat pataa chal jati hai. 3. Shaadi ki umar na nikal jaye bas isliye, bina background check kiye ladki ki shadi karva dena. Although, being feminist is not a wrong idea, but mere videos ke through I’ve never said ki bas career banao, shadi mat karo, akele raho, men are bad or anything like that, cz I don’t believe in these ideas to promote them in the very first place. I make videos jahan 10 out of 8 times my only message is, ki family ki baat family tak rahe, bahar waale toh bolenge hi, unke darr se apne ghar ka mahol na bigaadein. 🙏

[@niharikagupta1085]

So.. Much right Niharika didi❤you are best nd your opinion videos are so.. Good ❤‍🔥love you di🖤

[@fashion_with_komal]

Its true dear.

[@lostandfound504]

Same situation going with me, real life 😘

[@richasingh547]

Meri to 30 nii hui h didaa phir b life me un so called char logo ki wajah se jingi narak ho rkhi h🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ family b nahi smjhti yarr apki to phir b understanding h!!!🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ Bs paisa dekh lete log to fek do ldki ko uske yha.... Pta ni kb un char logo ki maut aayegi

[@richasingh547]

Ekdm dil se nikala h na di?!!!! Smjh rhi mai jbb aap mataji ko smjha rhe the tb

[@vaibhavk0084]

Maturity is realising that this is not only funny content. The truth of society and message for society included in video 🥰

[@promitapal9609]

Agreed from the core of my heart

[@sharmilidatta2263]

Yes

[@nj-vl3ke]

@@tanujajoshi1362 what's ur age?

[@madhurikumari7302]

True

[@parsisimran4095]

You missed one truth and message about marriage (for my life my rules girls) : difficult to find good grooms for marriage due to overage ( they realise marriage is important after 35 and being ready for marriage but eligable grooms aren't available and boys want yonger girls for wedding)....

[@rituahmed2875]

As a 31 year unmarried girl I can relate this so much !!! I literally cried

[@shweta2299]

As a 32 year I m also unmarried bahot tress hota hai rona bhi ata hai kya karu samaj nahi ata bahot frustration hota hai

[@diyamoni563]

Aur yaha 18 ki hu or family aise karte hai jaise 30 ki hu 😫😭😭

[@bangtangirl8784]

@@diyamoni563 SAME am 23 and rishta aate h said no to them..meri masi mami mujhe haa khne k lia smjhate h but we do not know anything about the boy....my mom and relatives say " when u cross 19 and become 20 u r already old"..."abhise ldka dekhna shuru krna chaye"..etc etc....good marriage is good luck

[@Snata93]

Same. I can totally relate.

[@shweta2299]

@@diyamoni563 25 tak shadi kar lena varna ager der ho gayi to der hi hoti rahegi

[@katysmakeup222]

“Saare ache ladake nikal jaayege”this line is fited in every girl’s life…😢😢😢

[@Rudrapratap27960]

🙂yeah

[@biologylife6619]

Damn true 😢

[@Anushri234]

Or ye khi na khi sach bi h😢

[@katysmakeup222]

@@Anushri234 sach me????

[@parsisimran4095]

Damn true

[@tanularis7693]

She is damn talented. Huge respect for her. How beautifully she brings out society norms. Hatts off to her hard work and great contents.

[@AMARSINGH-sg8el]

Hats off to you Niharika....... your way of demonstrating evil social practice and telling it's harsh reality is epic..........This really gave me chills in the backbone

[@nishatsvlog01]

Evil practice?

[@ayushibiswas6557]

Shruti ka story mein boli naa... forced marriage,extra marital affairs... her mental health getting neglected...

[@adithirao3901]

@@aelenak no....extra marital affairs are.....

[@ManishaKumari-ie1sr]

Practical bt boli h😑😑😑😑

[@riseshinehub1805]

Yes really, I have seen her 1st time.. Each and every things was so particular and correct things.. So real.. these things really happens...

[@Mkalita]

Today I've realised one thing that youtubers are also contributing so much to the society ❤....and Niharika di has done her part through this video...🙏🤗... And I request the parents and families please keep things to your immediate family only and don't bother by others...🙏

[@aman_dhiman8823]

Niharika's obsession for shaadi contents 🗿 Edit : I have never got these many likes.. Thank you so much 🤪💖

[@saikik3073]

She slays it everytime so why not?

[@meow5692]

Kyuki bhai wahi chalta hai 😭also this is my favorite topic

[@improveyourself1654]

Gher wale sach me shadi shadi hi krte rhte hain

[@aman_dhiman8823]

@@improveyourself1654 true AF

[@notdiscreet957]

Hope it never leaves her tbh

[@lakshmirani3898]

That line about break of girls confidence when girls are rejected by their photos........it hits me so hurt......... I'm facing all the these shit about more than 3 years 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@shamalabs9527]

who are seeing only looks for marriage are most stupid people.... wether its girl or boy.... looks is just temporary when we love any person he or she automatically looks beautiful

[@deekshadwivedi4507]

Sending a very tight hug to you. Stay strong. Things will get better for us. We will come out from this shit, stronger and better. But I'm gonna be honest, society's bitterness is highly contagious like I feel irritated becuz of these standards all the time. Their rejections leaves us guessing what's wrong with us. I totally get u. I wish all the girls dealing with similar situations get a non-toxic partner soon.❤️

[@lakshmirani3898]

@@deekshadwivedi4507 Thankyou so much dear ❤️❤️❤️

[@importfun7192]

@@lakshmirani3898 its the biological law by nature for straight persons which is a women is primarily a beauty object for men and men are primarily a success object for women. So not only women got rejected for their look , men also rejected based on their financial capabilities in a huge manner , mainly during arrange marriage system.

[@anniemidha3371]

Bro it's their fault who are rejecting you. You are beautiful in a unique way.

[@minaldange383rdyr6]

This is exactly what happens in every household. The part where you got serious in the conversation, trying to communicate with mom. And also the words ' kya me bojh lagti hu' really touched me. Lots of love to you❤️.

[@krishnasahoo4598]

I honestly cried a little bit after watching your monologue....more than 3 years..daily ka struggle hai bhai..sahab....daily ...my question changed from "kab sudhregi ye duniya?" to "nhi sudhregi ye duniya "...I just accepted the fact.

[@nidhi4360]

Same ..

[@NavgunKhurana]

Same here

[@Fiaaaaa323]

More power to you. You’ll get a good guy InshaAllah dont worry

[@Muzz374]

Same here😞

[@kcb_baebae5885]

Us bro us

[@sumanjethwany4379]

I literally cried , i m 31 this year nd fat , photo se reject hona nd attitude dikha rhi is common hurtful things i listen everyday 😭

[@stillwithyou_kookie2977]

You said everything I wanted to say... I have been in this situation for th past 2-3 yrs where I used to fight with my parents almost everyday. I wish I could have expressed my feelings better like you. But finally my time came and I found a guy and everything is falling into places slowly. I think we as parents will behave better than our parents generation. We can't do anything about this society now.

[@tamalikaadhikary1710]

Maturity is when you realise that this video was made out of frustration and the daily situation that a girl faces everyday. Thanks for sharing and making a video on this topic.

[@ombhosle9270]

"Shruti aapko call kyun nahi karte "? That silence was really loud dude.

[@swapnilbondade1503]

I am 26 year old ,married..feel bad for those who have to hear shitty things from society about marriage.. beacause just getting married is not important but getting married to right man or right woman is more important.. otherwise living peaceful alone life is better..🙏

[@cyclosporine-a2829]

Khud married ho aur dusro ko salah de rhe ho .mat kro.....waah didi waah

[@DrRohiniM]

@@cyclosporine-a2829 she probably found right person early

[@bsachdev492]

@@cyclosporine-a2829may b she understood the consequences of marriage early🤭, anyway jokes apart, i think u didn't get the comment she never said shadi mat karo she said shi insan se kro , there's a difference between them baki to sab apni marzi h ap chaho to 16 sal me karlo shadi

[@cyclosporine-a2829]

@@bsachdev492 are koi na dii....Maine toh aaise hi faltu me comment kr Diya tha 😁😁......waise Mera mann'na hai ki Hari 🙏 hme manpasand chij nhi dete h Jo milta hai usse khush rehna chahea

[@ananditakumari5249]

7:45 the part where you got serious and tried having a simple conversation with your mom but she ended up dragging you back to square one was so infuriatingly relatable. I admire you a lot for your talent of conveying a strong message while entertaining us at the same time, Nick!

[@shalutekriwal6102]

Tbh the part where u were discussing with ur mom, i literally was crying, big heart to u ma'am. U spoke everything which I m just keeping inside me

[@vipratiwari9275]

Am a mother of a teenage girl - must say u prorated me to deal with such sensitivities 🙏🏻. U r a gem niharika

[@CaptainNick]

Means a lot 🙏❤️ thank you

[@tee26_05]

The mother-daughter conversation over marriage in the beginning felt like it's me and my mom 🙂

[@sathimallick2932]

Us bro us🥲🥲🥲

[@knoor8866]

Same here

[@iffat9896]

Same here Being 25 and unmarried is too difficult.

[@asmaparveen9562]

Same Mei guarantee chiki hu is truma se.... By God's grace now I'm happily married...Alhumdullilah

[@itsrakshithaks]

Hats off to you captain ❤️ No words to say how damn relatable this is.. the pressure and the emotional blackmailing.. The way you brought the frustration out of all the girls, Respect 🙌

[@bubblebratart1298]

The way this girl made our life so much better

[@rishikasinha1101]

7:00 I literally cried after seeing this scene 🙃

[@shreyanema5159]

Same yrrr

[@tanujajoshi1362]

Meee tooo yar.....

[@Aquawomen49]

Me too yaar...

[@polymajee5142]

Me too

[@sabihanajinee2772]

Me too yr

[@godsunfailinggrace1988]

For the first time she made me emotional. Yes, I did cry...very relatable. Reality exposed with a realistic acting. 💗

[@learners_zone007]

Its so relatable..I am in my 30s and same issue..reject hote hote self confidence ki dhajjiyan ud gyi..Thankgod my parents are not pressurising me and I am doing my Ph.D successfully..really need break from "shaadi" thing 😒 Really appreciate your content🙌🙏

[@sydneydiaries8470]

Hope u will meet your special one soon ❤

[@learners_zone007]

@@sydneydiaries8470 thanks dear but mere parents hi interested nhi hain 😅 khud hi dhundhna padega koi 😢

[@importantstuff3370]

@@learners_zone007 omg same kind of issue with me

[@learners_zone007]

@@importantstuff3370 all the best dear

[@learners_zone007]

@@importantstuff3370 focus on your career and then find someone..that's the option we have 😅

[@crazy_relativestories]

I think this is what goes on in every household that has an unmarried girl in the age group of 27-35. Thank u for putting this out for us. Sending it to mum and mamaji ASAP. And that cousin angle is damn spot on. Thanks a ton. This video really left me thinking about it for hours. Why aren't we able to find the so called true love like our elder siblings did? And why aren't we even ready to settle for something less than that like our parents did? Alike many others, I too have tried and failed. So even when I want to settle with someone, why am I too lazy to look for that someone, and if I do then why can't I find the one? I finally realized that the 90s kids are basically undergoing a collective form of disillusionment! We are aware of the impending dystopian world that is dawning upon us. We don't want to bring children in a world that's polluted, filled with crime and might end soon! We also don't want to compromise because why would we? We don't need anyone to rely on. We have bought ourselves comfortable lives and houses. So, altogether I feel that we are aware of the need to find someone, but too lazy to look or too lazy to work towards making it happen. If we try, we are not ready to compromise or let someone into our comfort zone. This hyper independence combined with the feeling of not wanting to settle for less or the awareness of the world nearing it's worst can be a reason that we want to be able to enjoy whatever life we have left on this planet in peace. And I think it's true for all genders alike. #fragments of my thoughts.

[@madhumitaPaul1998]

Bahi mei 24 ki ho phir v pareshan ho gyi hu

[@crazy_relativestories]

@@madhumitaPaul1998 that must be such a pain. Forward this video to them to slap some sense into their stubborn heads.

[@ritujain2411]

True, I'm 26 now... Me and my parents daily have these conversation, words are exactly the same in this videos..

[@kruparajanita1425]

jitna agree karu utna kam he!

[@shrutijain6767]

Exactly

[@dipikamistry1994]

I am 29 and getting married next month. That line "meri umar nikal gai aur sab achhe ladke shaadi karke bachhe paida karne me lage hai" I felt that😅 ab jo bacha hai usse kar rahi hu shaadi🤣

[@niharikabisht769]

Same happen with me.. at the age of 28 . Jab koi ladka mujhe pasand nhi aaya to jo ladka meri family ko shi lga use se kar rhe h. Jbki wo ladka merko acha nhi lga..lekin bina mere puche rista pakka kar diya.

[@meetu7817]

Are you guys doing ok? i am in a similar situation. i found a guy, who is a good man, but I don't like him that much. We have no connection,but just because I know he will not turn out be abusive, I am thinking maybe this is it! Too tired of waiting for the right guy.

[@Wonder_Voice]

3:13 that photo dekhkar rejection wali bat hitted very hard 😥😥 No matter how many people tell me that looks don't matter, I know that they do. Throughout my life, my family has constantly reminded me that I'm not attractive which has caused me to have low self-confidence even though I have achieved great things in my life such as being a topper in school, having three years of job experience, writing a mystery thriller novel that has gained 170k+ reads, and coming second in a national essay writing competition where 40k+ students participated. Despite all this, at the age of 21, I still feel like no boy will be interested in me because of my appearance.

[@dikshasuman]

What ! Your parents are forcing you to marry at the age of 21 ! Behen apne parents ke chakkar me apni life kabhi mat kharab karna. Isse accha koi job dundo aur alag raho apne parents se.

[@Wonder_Voice]

@@dikshasuman After my graduation exams were over, I was able to secure a job with TechMahindra within 4 days of last exam. Unfortunately, after working there for 3 months, I was forced to leave the job by my family. To stay afloat, I am currently doing internships and part-time work without informing them, as they do not want me to work.

[@Homosapiens0804]

You are too young dear, don't let these kind of experience pull u down. Society wants everything in a girl, Beauty with brains as well as money.....if it will be beauty then also chances are not good may be better than the so called non-attractive ones(acc. to society), then also there is possibility for girl facing difficulty in marital life. You just focus on your part, I hope u get to meet someone who in many ways will suit u well. Don't leave you financial opportunities for anyone....fight for ur life dear girl., no one comes for help in difficult situations, God help those who help themselves try to stick with it.

[@nevermind7383]

You know what these things are even forbidden in islam . Watch nouman ali khan lectures and try to make your parents understand that through them ............

[@saminaparveen5394]

@@Wonder_Voice beauty lies in the eyes of beholder!!! Always remember this. Allah created everything and everyone beautiful. No one is worthless . Every person born on this earth has a meaningful purpose.Stay strong girls.

[@Ukiyo0423]

I like how she brings a serious topic in a funny way ❤️✨

[@anushka9166]

I'm just grateful for my parents, they're the coolest ever. They've never told me that marriage is compulsory or anything, always have put my career and studies first, taught me to be independent. Shaadi is totally on me and completely my choice.

[@NishaKumari-pd2qo]

7:35 totally real story of Indian society....truth said brutally

[@aqsasiddiqui28]

Pakistanis also have to face the same situation..😥

[@palakthakur4050]

She literally cried explaining the whooleeeee situation to her mom 👀💖

[@ms009]

So relatable.I got bit emotional.Being into a family of four daughters,I can completely relate this.Even though My parents tried their best to obstruct the societal pressure of marriage ,at times it became so difficult for them and it’s really heartbreaking to see your parents so helpless 😢

[@divya_raushan_1829]

Being a girl I can say each and every word u said is so damn true...that picture one which boys put on profile of 8-10yrs old is damn true...being a girl we put latest pictures but men don't..

[@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma]

Men have to be rich.. who have generational wealth .. proper job.. "sarkari naukari".. it's not like boys have it easier

[@paraathakare1851]

@@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma no one is saying that bro. We agree that both men and women have to face these stereotypical implementations that women should be pretty and men should be wealthy. Pls dont see this as an attack

[@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma]

@@paraathakare1851 I am just clarifying.. because nowdays Men hate is trend lol..

[@CaptainNick]

@the fear files - it’s been since decades, but this video is not intended towards any kind of hate for men. It’s in general for “society” and the video is from feminine view point because I’m a female and I could portray this better bas.

[@dikshasuman]

@@BhaktManomandirVihariniUma bhai men are mocking and hating women by memes like women ☕ & glorifying eve teasing, perverts, harassment against women by memes like "men will be men", I have seen hateful comments by men even on periods related content. Hm women ko defend nhi kar rahe par Hate to bhai men hi phaila rahe hai.

[@gunjansharma6853]

it's 101 percent relatable to my situation right now, it literally felt like she just came to about my life and nailed it here ..... but still there is no choice left at the end , everything is just and fair for sake of marriage according to Indian society

[@mnail5901]

Me too

[@jyotirai4714]

i didnt get a single smile while watching it . its very heart wrenching reality!!! i faced all this at the age of 23 and *the worst inhuman thing in whole toxic process is when girls is getting rejected for any nonsense reason, girls family also start blaming their own daughter*

[@Disha_J06]

This is so true!!😔

[@jyotirai4714]

@@Disha_J06 i can feel it personally!! you should be strong Disha.

[@jiyamehta1628]

Niharika, you are doing a great job. Marriage is not a necessity, it's just an option. Girls are not a pressure to family and settling with a guy is not an only motive of girl's life. Thank you for discussing this topic in this way.. thank you so much ❤️

[@Sunflower_Diary670]

I agree with you and totally support your thoughts .....bt today's family and society doesn't understand this 🥲 they all are ready to throw the girls into their so called reputation and all those nonsense thinks...😔

[@torque7742]

Yeah Marriage is not necessity It's just an option.

[@merilamendes]

Loads of respect and love Nick 💗💗💗💗💗 literally the same arguments at home everyday n yes M 32 and literally koi ladka nahi bacha hai iss duniya main mere Umar nikal gayi for the society 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@poojaanimallover8720]

Same here..

[@creationrecreation527]

I am 30 and unmarried and now decided to be like that coz I knw it’s not possible to make everyone understand my point of view and what I want. I live my life I do my work I pursue higher studies and I am happy.There is no point of getting married just because everyone is doing that.Jab tak samajh me na aaye mat karo.Peacefully rehna is more important. It is not easy for people to understand ki sirf package k liye shadi nahi ki jaati hai.Everyone is earning well these days.

[@user-drspace]

Exactly my point yaar

[@zeenatkhan2358]

me bhi boht torture jhelti shadi ko lekr.. me khud success hona chahti hu

[@nehabhatia1885]

Great 👍 thought

[@chandrimamandal5060]

Very well put up Even I am about to be 30 and yet pursuing UPSC CSE And well...i am happy this way😎

[@parsisimran4095]

Jab budhapa ayega tab ye earning bhi kam nahi ati jitna life partner kam ata he... end me tum dono hi reh jaggery...pese dene par do din koi kam karne ayega badme pese Udine par bhi koi nahi milta budhe logo ke Kan ke liye ...abhi young he to hath per chal rahe he jab hath per nahi chalenge sahi se to ek iodex bhi nahi laga paogee khudse isliye wakt rehte achhe riste karlo.. married girl...

[@__Neelam_2]

Being 18 year old girl i think this video was totally a good message to our so called society

[@drishtee8994]

You literally portrayed my life Nick.😂😂

[@jannatn2828]

Meri bhi yrr

[@sunitakumarisingh5711]

Same 🥲

[@nidhi4360]

Same

[@Muzz374]

Same

[@createwithkirti8034]

Same 😔

[@surbhichattkara9138]

I have had a similar conversation with my 'mama' years ago. And with my mom too. I could identify with all the points in the video. Very recently, I was arguing with a friend who mentioned 'ladkiyan bohot nakhre kartee hain...they keep rejecting boys" And my response was "why not. If boys can reject girls because well, their eyes are brown (type reasons). Why should girl not have the right to reject for things she does not like" Really good content!

[@mastiwithfriends1285]

I knew you couldn't live without marriage content😂❤

[@surbhibajpai7611]

I wish i could show this video to my parents such a brilliant message i feel like crying and also having tears.. facing same issues..

[@preetiarya9498]

Dam this made me cry it's so true and relatable , Parents consider society first then their own kids

[@shrutigupta4252]

Damnnnnnn, was waiting for thisss only. 😍😍This is what weekends feel like, laughing and spreading happiness by sharing this with everyone....

[@nipumoniboruah9150]

True🥺 so relevant at the age of 29 I can totally relate to this ❤️

[@rnv6261]

Same

[@kalyanigajbhiye6720]

Same.how you are dealing with this?

[@rnv6261]

Bahot zyada tough hain.mere younger siblings ki marriage ka pressure bhi muj pe aa raha hain.

[@CynicalRealist8488]

@@rnv6261 Same situation as mine

[@deepikasaini8550]

Same yr 27

[@salonibaid9652]

I really don't know how you spoke everything that a girl wants to voice out so easily❤️

[@syedsaba5210]

This video has spoken on behalf of tens of thousands of girls across world....u raised the standard of this platform.... A piece of art.... take a bow queen!!!! 👑

[@shridancediaries]

This is exactly my situation at home right now. All i did was cry looking at this , because i cannot talk any of this infront of my parents. I really feel like all my hard work , efforts, achievements everything is not even seen or appreciated just because i do not agree to get married right now. EVERY SINGLE DAY i just listen to this and feel like a burden at home.

[@Abhilasha.Ever95]

Same here dear😭😭😭😭

[@hurricane19]

Just move on from your home 💀

[@shridancediaries]

@@hurricane19 I wanna stay here and be there for my parents, Yes I'll eventually go when things are better here. I don't hate them , but i would love to have some appreciation that's all.

[@be-spoke7712]

I also didn't agree to get married and now I regret every bit of it.

[@mukubeautyworlds5201]

Same here 😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@ritujaiswal7493]

Believe it or not....ekdummmmm simmilar things happening with me....even the line " main ghar chor dungi" ,"am i burden to u"😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 ...I can relate perfectly... Every facts are exactly the conversation I had with parents 💜💜💜👍👍

[@bhumikabhardwaj3187]

I also think the same some time😢

[@subhalina8606]

Oh man, I am around your age, and I literally hear all these experiences from my friends and cousins! Hats off to you! I have been following you for so long, you have grown so much! Lots of love!❤

[@kratikavarshney3034]

As a 26 year unmarried girl, I can relate to this... I want to send this to my mother

[@easylearning4132]

31 unmarried

[@himania8229]

26 only 🙄🙄

[@bookshoot1653]

Only 26??your family is obsessed with your marriage??

[@ituxsoni]

Turning 30 this year and shaadi woh kya hoti hai?? 😂😂

[@bookshoot1653]

@@ituxsoni same,and still not ready for marriage.

[@saumya6312]

Aap har baar hasaa deti ho.. Aaj rula diya!! 🥺🥺

[@mipbeacon81021]

Niharicka you portrayed the problem of generation gap & marriage related stereotypes in such a realistic & relatable way. Amazing yaar! ☺🌻

[@payalsavla6956]

Conclusion- don't take stress of marriage,just let it go 🤣🤣😂

[@kdramaaddaoppaunnie6592]

💯💯💯 On point Niharika.. I'm 30.. you put my thoughts in words.. also, we are two sister.. my younger sis is just 16.. i want to support (financially/physically/emotionally) my parents all my life.. never been in a relationship.. so want to fullfill that aswell.. But apart from what you said, I would point out .. 1. Dowry was like lumpsum, now they need salaries of Wife/DIL as dowry in emi/instalments 2. No freedom in upbringing the child..the thought of school we want to inculcate in them.. we can't.. 3. No freedom of living life as the lady wants.. whether she want to work or be a homemaker..

[@khushisavlani1610]

This content is soooo relatable, same exact same conversation between my parents and me. I am 24 and this is what i face everyday in my home. Finally someone said it loud. Kuddos to you! ❤

[@Alishaan26]

Niharika di frustration dil se nikla tha aisa lag raha h 😂 mast video ek ek baat sach the har family mei same scenes 👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻😂

[@hafizamonaseher1085]

As a 30 years old, I can relate to it. 😢 Love from Pakistan 🇵🇰

[@marryangel9212]

Tu bi kuwari hai kya Mulli tu log to apne bhai se shaadi kar leti ho hahahaha 🤪🤪😁🤣

[@meghadixit1276]

Disclaimer - This channel is very addictive. Love you niharika di 💖💖

[@jyotipandey8877]

Thoda emotional ho gya mere liye......I hope every parent should watch this episode. Lovely Niharika di.. 😘

[@dhwanigohil5267]

I can't describe how accurately you have expressed the emotion of a woman! Matlab seriously...Kudos to your acting! Legit amazing! 👏

[@tipsy_tina25]

This is what exactly happening with me.. Dialogue to dialogue, world to world, situation to situation and emotions to emotions... Everything ditto on point.. You know how to connect with people's hearts ❤💞. Just love your work.. Thoda samadhan mila video dekh ke😌

[@kiranKumari-qf8xc]

Literally tears in my eyes... Totally releatable reality..... Going to show it to my family... Hope they understand ✌

[@shivanirai2870]

This is so relatable to me because i am 28 now and all this conversation goes on daily basis in my house. I don't even visit my hometown because of the relatives.

[@debasmitapattnaik9295]

I'm so blessed in this matter so so so blessed.... I'm 30 and still struggling in my carreer and ofcourse my parents wish me to get married.. but they never never forced me or nagged me for marriage... They even say if you don't wanna get married no problem just be happy ni matter what.

[@sk-fp9md]

In middle class family noone says so,☹️😭

[@debasmitapattnaik9295]

@@sk-fp9md that's why I thank God for blessing me with so understanding parents despite being middle-class

[@sk-fp9md]

@@debasmitapattnaik9295 Really u r much blessed...since 3 years my parents have made so much pressure ki i don't know what to do😭..

[@aayushisatle1149]

The way you described it..every unmarried girl can relate..you did it very well Niharika 🔥

[@snehachintala9080]

Your content is totally disclosing our societial structure and there behaviour towards youngsters. It may also help in the changing the thinking process and behaviour of old minded people. You are amazing diii 👏👏👏 We want more videos on societial evil practices. Love you di ❤️‍🔥🤩🥳 Thank You

[@missmamatapatil9355]

Literally cried and laughed in this video.. Such a outstanding acting and voice.. Hats off to you niharika di.. You are such a talented actress.. Lots of love ❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@CaptainNick]

Lots of love to you to ❤️🙏 Thank you

[@haripriyaparamanik]

Her acting is soo powerful.felt like her true feeling....

[@shamimakter6549]

Harsh reality , the monologue is the actual feelings of mine and many more 🥺 , lots of respect to you Nick ❤️

[@bossgirl9587]

This happens truly with me...just same condition happens...I was totally depressed..but I keep preparing for my carer..and now I am happily engaged to my love of life....girls just keep focus on ur goal and believe in God...

[@abhipsamishra6189]

Comedy k sath sath aap k video main sikhne ko bhi milta hai ..salute to you di .you are the great .

[@poojaagarwal4871]

This is so true. Proves that not every girl is a gold digger. And even guys are demanding not just girls. And sach bola toh jyada bolti hain. Ppl just want ho jaye bas and baad main, ' beta jhel le thoda, chalta rehta hain'.

[@suchayeetachakraborty3530]

I was expecting something funny but this is actually eye opener for some people..... love you Niharika Di 💝

[@kka08]

Its a harsh reality and another mental torture..love you nick for bringing this to table❤️❤️

[@CaptainNick]

Thanks ❤️🙏

[@tabs12]

I'm going through same situation...you literally put my situation in this video... unfortunately i can't send or show this video to my mother because I'm not talking to her for just same quarrel like tujhe koi psnd h to bolde ya fir humn jisko psnd kiya h usise kr... keep it up nick... every mother should take a look at this video seriously for sake of their daughters.

[@monikavaid5083]

All 25+ girls can relate to this 😂

[@cosyappy7115]

You meant women not girls

[@priyaparul]

@@cosyappy7115 shut up

[@surbhimishra1649]

​@@cosyappy7115 lol. Do you know the difference between a girl and a woman?

[@cosyappy7115]

@@surbhimishra1649 😊

[@bhagyashree-yt]

Damn realistic 👍🏻 That scene btw maa and beti is just perfect, kabhi discussion possible hi nahi ho paata, it always automatically gets converted to arguments..uff

[@mufismaldar1921]

Hats off to you Nick ❤️ thanks for choosing this concept I think 90 % of girls are struggling with this

[@shamalpatil914]

After watching first 4 mins only m shocked ki kaise etna relatable ho skta.. actually yahi scenes yah dailauges yahi jhagde roj ho rhe ghar pe.. n tensions pressure me humari halat kharab ho rhi.. it's like mai khud ko n meri family dekh rhi samne.. very relatable.. thank you so much Nick.. it's like we got our voice.. koi to he jo Hume samjhe

[@hajirahajirasherif3462]

You even changed my opinion on marriage I was thinking that shaadi is like having rich guy and luxurious house and all these kind of things but I never think of genuinity Thankyou Niharika

[@AN82945]

What are you ? 16 ? High level of idiocy. There's a life beyond K dramas. Grow up. Or life will slap you so hard that you can never imagine.

[@hajirahajirasherif3462]

@@AN82945 Exuse me what are you saying Iam not saying about my marriage Iam generally talking about the topic and Iam myself a IITian cse in final year how you can say that still now I didn’t watched any of k dramas I don’t even know that I asked my friends about it and I too know about the life as a jee aspirant I hardly know that how tough life can be and you please keep your mufthka gyaan I don’t need it and Iam not 16 dear Iam 22

[@aayushmajerung3831]

I felt the frustration when she was trying to convince her mother. Iknow this day is gonna come soon for me

[@khushbusahu4506]

I literally cried on mother-daughter conversation😢.. going through the same situation right now 😅 gharwalo ko ye samjhana bohot hi mushkil hai, especially mummiyon ko, hume suna ke khud emotional hoke beth jayengi wo alag 🙄🙄

[@sannasharma8577]

Well done Nick. This truly portrayed a harsh reality of our so called 'society'.

[@prerana.shenoy]

Very nice video, you have blended your creativity, wit and humour to bring out the hypocrisy of the mindset society is carrying about the marriage. I hope everyone finds a partner they are truly compatible with even if it's a little late in life. Let's not forget Blessings are always on TIME. ❤❤❤

[@Glowing_Girl]

No words....you nailed..it nikk.....🫡♥️ you gave words...to every single girl...who want to.arry with her..choice with parents acceptance....you smoothly spoke out the patriarchy going on in shadis ... ❤️Lots of love to you

[@samrozfatma7744]

I can feel her frustration...hats off nick❤

[@shreyashidey9590]

I can relate... I'm lucky that my parents never forced me but neighbours relatives had lost their sleep just to marry me off.. almost every Durga puja reunion they have one same question " kire kobe bie korbi...boyes to chole jache" (when you'll get married? You're getting older) another most annoying thing is telling to marry just because of status.. it's just so frustrating that now I stop visiting my relatives on any occasion.

[@divyametri753]

OMG this is exactly what I'm going through thanks a lot for this video and please make more such videos..In every dialogue I felt I'm watching my own reflection..

[@mokshisworld8489]

Same here behen😂

[@jyotimasih1738]

Same here behano😂😂

[@divyametri753]

@@mokshisworld8489 @ Jyoti Masih yeh sunke acha lagra hai chalo mai akeli nhi hu 😂😂😂mere behene mere sath hai 😜

[@sugarmyy7]

This was such a great video seriously such a great topic well done 👏👏i felt so emotional and everything 🧡✌️many women are going thru this depression for this shaadi matter...

[@priyanshimathur2702]

Didi u r absolutely an amazing actor plus script writer..... Can feel every single word of yours 🙂🙂

[@Fatima-tf5cj]

So God damn relatable! Phenomenal work 👏 Congratulations on the excellent content progression. You are on a brilliant trajectory. Wishing you more success.

[@aakashagarwal6076]

Dude! You have a lot to unleash is what I realized today... Although we know you have a great sense of humour and a beautiful screen presence but the emotion of pain, frustation and helplessness were portrayed in a very efficient and effortless way today... I ain't a girl but maintaining calm while making parents understand certain things sometime seems to be the toughest task... I could relate to that situation and how eventually you get disappointed that why did you utter those words in first place when they brush it under the carpet is such a real thing... Huge Respect Nick🙏💙

[@paraathakare1851]

well said sir. she is definitely much more than just her sense of humour and skits

[@svm1848]

Niharika lot of love.. aapne kitne acche se hum sab ki is situation ko beautifully convey kiya h👍 thnx..

[@Poojabalgude731]

When Marriage is most important thing in our society than career 😤

[@shobhanagadan704]

What ??are you serious career important nhi hai sirf shaadi important h gajab baat ki apne

[@jagritikumari4012]

@@shobhanagadan704 say that you're being sarcastic......

[@mariyam3382]

Society Message with Comedy Sketch, only Captain Nick wins it on her channel, kudos to you and your hardwork, team👍👏😃

[@pooja554]

Hats off di..What u have show cased in this video is the reality... Almost while watching half of the video am crying... I have shared this video to my family too... hope they understand this. generation

[@roshnii003]

I'm in a same situation and totally relatable 🙂

[@fareeehafatima7016]

its fine ... dont be stressed

[@meerabano238]

Mai bhi yrr

[@ankitaverma8639]

Same

[@meerabano238]

Mai akelii nhi hu sun ke thodii himmat Mili😀

[@nishabisht6021]

I was so stressed before marriage for the same thing but now i realised tht before marriage it was easy to fight with ur parents and avoid this topic but after marriage its very difficult to tell them wts happening in our life. Now i think that before marriage der was only 1 family pressure but now we hv to handle double pressure. It's so frustrating at times uh cnt even share wth any1. Bcz uh only get to hear tht its very common uh hv to adjust with each n every single thing😔 n uh should look happy even if uh r not😏