What My Wife Really Thinks

[@gdsadventures8166]

It’s troubling you more than you suggest my friend. Your voice tells a different story in this video. Do what you need to do for both you and your wife to stay happy, forget us for a minute. We will stay watching whatever happens because you are an awesome guy

[@dexterweb]

I had the same feeling. You can see from his bodylanguage and voice tone that its a troubled decision. But I'm sure you both will find a solution

[@allengrant]

@@dexterweb : Agreed. I noticed as well. Hopefully, I'm wrong, but starting at 14:25, body language, lack of eye contact, carefully searching for the right wording, speaking of 'man cave' & modern features (that he doesn't seem thrilled about), etc..... seems to affirm your observation. A precarious situation, to be sure! 'Course I'm old, what do I know ??

[@wwaxwork]

Change is always scary, I think people are reading too much into it. It sounds like they are both willing to work toward a compromise & support each other which is healthy.

[@DIGPLatinodriftking1]

Here here

[@niyadapanpreecha1225]

I like your comment. you are an awesome person too.

[@lynnwoods4965]

As a quilter I am amazed that one of your followers sent you a beautiful handmade quilt. Reading the other comments regarding the quilt I agree with them that it was an act of love that it was sent. I hope you cherish it.

[@LB-eh5fz]

Lynn Woods agree quilts can take a year to make and sell for many hundreds of dollars,,,I have several I paid $1,200.00 dollars for each

[@patodaful]

L B interested in beautiful homemade quilts? A friend of mine makes them and is willing to sell... let me know, i will send you her details.

[@jonothandoeser]

When a person gives you a handmade quilt, they give you a part of themselves.

[@lynnwoods4965]

@Snow Angel KZbin has lots of videos on quilting I would start there. I originally taught myself from reading books long before the internet. When you said they use sewing machines at the local classes are they using the machines to piece the tops? I sew my tops by machine and then I hand quilt it. You should go to a class and check it out. They may be able to help you get started. Also check to see if your area has any quilt groups, try posting on Facebook to see if anyone knows of a local quilt group.

[@carylhalfwassen8555]

Snow Angel In your community there is probably a quilting quild group that meets regularly and includes members of all experience levels and styles. They offer meetings and speakers and opportunity for exchange of information. There is a modest annual fee usually.

[@linedanzer4302]

The quilt is beautiful. She even captured your bear! I crochet while watching your channel since your channel makes me relax and be still.

[@linedanzer4302]

@Stephanie LeDuc Vanderyacht Love it. Watching Shawn's channel I have crocheted 58 beanies and 22 scarves and 8 shawls! LOL! I feel like a spider with that yarn! Glad someone else is "hooked" on crochet like me.

[@jaxdaniels1562]

I love your videos, I love your honesty, I love how you can talk to us and show your vulnerability without hesitation. You are a good man Shawn James!

[@worldpeace42069]

I second that!

[@nakithompson5303]

I totally agree.

[@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123]

Agree.....I wish I was his wife !!!

[@siminghalehtaki6083]

@@rnupnorthbrrrsm6123I agree too

[@gjef9971]

Well said.

[@JustinBarbournlexplorer]

Really appreciate the shout-out Shawn . Enjoy the book, hope it keeps you hungry for the woods and waters. All the best from Newfoundland. Keep er going

[@ladyofthemasque]

I've been in the midst of finally getting my own house sold, so you & your wife have my deep sympathies on the cleaning & clearing out, the downsizing, the choosing (sometimes all too rapidly) through what to keep and what to sell or donate. With that said...I think it's both brave and wonderful of you to open up about these things. You're leading by example. You clearly feel there is nothing wrong, and everything right, with being able to change plans, make compromises, and have a close, loving, and utterly healthy relationship between two people who aren't identical in tastes and needs (since it's healthy to have your own interests as well as common interests with your beloved). That's a really good role model for other relationships to emulate, even if the actual details will be different in their own lives. You're both willing to try, both willing to bend a little, and both willing to realize that these things make you stronger, not weaker, as a couple. And you, Shawn, are exemplary in your emotional strength, being willing to share these things for the sake of others.

[@DillRidge]

ladyofthemasque I once heard a quote I never forgot, “Every marriage has its own dance.” I love that.

[@Jeff-jg7jh]

@@markv151 Yes.

[@highenergyog]

Hello Shawn , I just finished making and having dinner with my wife , now I'm having coffee and watching your latest video . Life is good.

[@cplrey]

Shawn: If you really don't need a quilt on your bed at this time, I can tell you from personal experience that they really make great wall hangings and look great on log walls! You must have really impressed the sender as the quilt she sent to you is both gorgeous and well made!

[@salomewilson9032]

Mr. James, everything you said you wanted to do to make life more comfortable for your wife weoulld be things i would want a husband to do for me. I don't know your wife's age but I'm 60 yrs old and I know I want life easier, not harder. I know she will enjoy and appreciate those changes/additions you talked about. God bless

[@thrivingnow7843]

Are you for real? Nature lover, considerate husband and father, a neat and well organized man, takes care of tools and things, very self reliant .....not to many men out there who are all the aforementioned. Nice commentary.

[@ShawnJames1]

Lol, thanks.

[@tyrarenae3486]

He's a blessed man! I admire men like him who loves, provides for, and takes care of his family- humble, hard-working, and handsome!

[@fongyow6583]

@@tyrarenae3486 handsome n beyond awesome photography skills - I was sure it was all faked but nah..James can actually be real. Just rare though, only met cads so far..

[@mtn_linda364]

I think Shawn humbly underestimates his wife's devotion to him. She agreed to give up the house so I'm sure she is a real trooper.

[@tyrarenae3486]

@@YorkshireGirlinDarwin His wife's no fool ! 😉She's a very smart woman! She's moving out to the cabin with this perfectly awesome man who adores her! I dont blame her! I'd haul ass down there to be with him too!! 🕵

[@lynnepierce3676]

Would like to add, the fact that you’re willing to compromise speaks volumes about the kind of person & man you are. Thumbs up for you and your wife👍👍😊

[@wisconsinfarmer4742]

I do think they will figure it out.

[@sandravanlankvelt7975]

I am a quilter here and that is a beautiful "lap quilt" perfect size for sitting in a chair with your feet up and reading a book. A labor of love and many hours to make what a blessing. Wow beautiful knife. So many beautiful GIFTS from people that really appreciate your video's, your vision and your gift of love for nature and creating. Thank you Shawn for sharing with the world....your world. God's blessings.

[@robinr1714]

That quilt is absolutely beautiful!

[@gerrie2477]

at the cabin you are living the exact life SO many of us wanna live but for one reason or another is not possible. we live vicariously through you when you share how you spend your time alone at the cabin . . we get to go along for the ride. it is very special and you truly have no idea how therapeutic your videos really are . . they really do save some of us.

[@lindsaylittle6535]

Shawn, after 42 years of marriage, it was my wife's idea to move to the woods. Go figure. Marriage is all about compromise, and there is nothing wrong with it. I think the mutual respect we have an you have for your wife show through. Glad Cali was in the video also. (what a neat companion) . Winter storm up here this Thanksgiving week. Our log cabin is snug, so let it snow. More splitting wood for the days ahead. Greetings from the Arrowhead of MN!

[@bobobrien8968]

Your candor, honesty, and even your humour is so appreciated. Like so many have said, you can bring a person out of a funk. You have such a natural gift of gab. I like to chat in a similar way but most of my long time friends have past at an early age and not everyone gets my humour. So thanks for chatting, displaying some of your cool gifts and giving us a bit more knowledge of your plans with your family. I love that you are using Huntsville as a centre for mail etc., simply because it’s maybe my favourite town. Best wishes to you for ongoing happiness, peace and good health.

[@ellendicks5843]

Shawn, Thank you so much for the personal views. It means everything that you put your relationship first. You are a Real man.

[@stephanieluigon5192]

With over 1 million subscribers, the overwhelming majority of whom like you almost as much as Cali, you're going to eventually have to say "please, no more gifts". People are generally wonderful, and very giving when the feel a connection, but many do not understand that "lots of stuff" is one of the things about modern life you are trying to escape. You are a terrific guy, Shawn, and I know you'll likely never do that to people, so you had better make the next project the Log Cabin Museum and Storage Facility. About 50' by 30' should do it, with a 12/12 roof pitch to support a South facing solar panel array which will make NASA proud. I estimate that will keep you busy for at least the next 2 1/2 years, and I doubt anyone would criticize you if you went with timber framing instead of the solid logs. God Bless you and your family, and Good luck with the empty nest situation.

[@selfsufficientnic7112]

I thought the same thing, watching this video!

[@mindyvaughn8217]

Stephanie Luigon So well said.💖

[@DatsWhatHeSaid]

@Tony Lopez He has worked and supported his family. He's actually a millionaire, as he stated before. He doesn't need or solicit any of this. Also, it's "Shawn", not "James". In Germany, we have a saying: If you don't know the facts, *shut the fuck up* ..

[@dlspiritdancer9548]

@Tony Lopez what exactly is your problem? Why are you even on this ch.? Are you illegal & finding it quite difficult to hide & prosper? Or do you just not like your life & the poor choices you have made? These reasons, or any other, do NOT give you the right to verbally abuse others (whom you do not even know!). You must be extremely dissatisfied & unhappy with your own life. Everyone can tell by what you are spewing out of that vile mouth of yours. If you can only reply with venom flowing thru your teeth, veins, why do you watch it? We dont like your vibes or jealousy, so pls stay off this ch or at least refrain from sharing your toxicity b/c we DO NOT want to hear it! We come here to share a part of this man's quiet, simple & beautiful life along with his family when he choses to share. So please, people like you do not belong here. You mentioned God but He is far from your heart b/c..."As a man thinkith in his heart, so is he; for out of the abundance of the heart, his mouth speaks." Prov 23:7. Go find a devils ch to spread your negativity & venom. I am sure if you look long enough, you will find one. But it is NOT here! Or better yet give your heart to the Lord Jesus! We dont appreciate your remarks AT ALL, so pls kindly leave & dont let the door hit you in the ass on your way out!

[@71kaye]

@SmellyCat exactly. or he could do a give away to his subscribers after he has gleaned what knowledge he needs from the books or after the tool or gear is no longer needed...lots of options.

[@MizzzTake]

Dont let this one go Shawn! Having a spouse who loves you just as you are, loves you enough to 'let you go' so to speak, speaks volumes about her. She's a rare one buddy, build her a hydro electric system, where you harvest and purify rain water for her lion foot bathtub that you heat with your hydro system. This channel should be your 'Ode to joy' channel for your wife and we get to watch you guys' love story 😇

[@kirkdustin3930]

Not sure how this awesome display of privacy can have SO many "thumbs down", for goodness sakes! Love y'all Shawn, Cali, & family. Thanks SO very much for all you do. God is so awesome and has blessed y'all with good health & strength, & LOVE! 🎣🔥🏊🌳❤️

[@robcondit8488]

Thank you for being vulnerable and honest. From previous videos I have sensed an unease with the arrival of your wife. To me it seems you are following your souls path and there is no doubt about the love for your wife and children. I'm undecided whether improving the amenities will make it easier, I'm also curious what she will be doing with her time. We shall see, I've truly enjoyed watching your journey and truly appreciate you sharing it with all of us. BTW, I knew there was no way she was walking to the out house at minus 20, lol!

[@DillRidge]

You’re a good man Shawn. I really enjoyed this video and the sharing of your thoughts about the future and how you care about your wife’s comfort. I hope she can be happy there. I think now that the house sold, (congrats on that too) it’s getting real. January is not too far off. God bless.

[@joansommerfield8419]

A very heartfelt video, Shawn. I don’t know how long I have followed, but have found great solace in all of this as I miss the cold snowy winters of Michigan, forests and lakes and the smell of the pines and other things too numerous to mention. Of course viewers know you don’t film everything about your life, but I have been concerned for awhile about the adjustment for both you and your wife as she comes into what essentially had been your space. For most women making a home is part of her DNA and it will interesting to see how this plays out. Also leaving a more social life in town may be a relief or it could leave a great void. It sounds like you have both learned the art of being thoughtful and supportive of one another and I trust you will find a way to navigate these new waters. The gifts you were sent are very touching and indicative of how these channels touch people. A friend used make beautiful quilts and I know the one sent to you must have taken countless hours. A lovely and thoughtful gift. Blessings to you, Shawn, your wife, and Cali.

[@mrwes100]

Joan Sommerfield I thought it was one of his best videos. IMHO.

[@itsmekaren1884]

What a beautiful quilt!!!! Absolutely amazing and so heartfelt from one stranger to another. This person has taken minutes-and hours out of their life to make you such an incredible gift with no expectations in return..

[@heatherpage2237]

Thanks for sharing your life with us. Such a blessing as we all shift our thoughts and lives to what really matters in our near future.Glad for your example.Prayers and thanks

[@robertpotter5810]

You're a good person, Shawn. Thank you for all your videos. Obviously you are much loved by so many of us!

[@helenehenson7191]

I wish you and your wife all the best the best for the future.

[@fromcalifornia2822]

To find out where one’s passion (outside what we do because of the business of living) it helps to reflect on what one did as a kid, when given the choice - say after school. With that said, there is probably a way to augment your property to support your wife’s, maybe yet undiscovered passion. For example, would the wife like an art or craft studio, a gathering place for women in your area, a place to play music, or maybe a personal library. Looking upon the changes as a unique and great opportunity to attend to a passion, instead of, or in contrast to what is being given up (creature features) seems to be the way to go. I for one as a ceramics (Potter) would love to play with every aspect of the art, whether it be building ones own kiln all the way to digging ones own clay and even sorting through natural events to make glazes. Or, maybe your wife would like to become a herbalist, or who knows what? The point is, there is so much opportunity ahead for her there. Hope you both capitalize on a cross section of opportunities you have and haven’t even considered yet. That said, for every age and mindset, this has got to be the best channel on KZbin. It surely gives so many a place to go to for relief from the complexities and hassles of life. And, who doesn’t love nature, building a dream, the peace that comes through your channel - AND Callie? Yup, you might have to build an art, music, craft or some other studio, and maybe sooner than you think. 😂

[@annecasillas5402]

I agree, and being from California, I double agree! Do what makes you both happy and celebrate the differences as you both age together! Much love from California to Shawn and family and to you From California! 😘💜😘💜😘

[@bayridge3569]

I hope it works out for you, a lot of times women leave you high and dry in the best of circumstances, never mind this different lifestyle. We all know you're going to to accommodate your love and her needs to the best of your ability. Good luck and God bless, good things happen, but genuine and real love is the main ingredient in all of this

[@robertinebuckley4245]

From California well said!👏👏👏

[@davemi00]

Gotta hear this ! Honestly - those sauna hats were awesome

[@Ghostiification]

Gotta be a foreigner thing.. Just saying this as a Finn.. Nobody uses hats or any other pieces of clothing in sauna. It's a cool hat don't get me wrong, but it just feels super weird.

[@danaskubic2145]

@@Ghostiification Yes, weird. I use cool water on head when hot in a sauna as most everyone else does. Cute hats though .

[@noocemiller6005]

I Googled “sauna hats” and they seem to be Russian. Funny looking things!

[@davemi00]

Nooce Miller - Lol, it must be a long cold walk, to russian saunas 🥶

[@TheKatelinn]

@@Ghostiification as a Norwegian, we use badstu, which is the same as sauna..I have never seen those hats either. Yeah, looks strange, but cool hats.

[@DavidWJoyce]

Hey Shawn, I watched this video yesterday and as I was out working on my place today I was thinking about what you shared. First, I would not ever suggest that you should do what I suggest if it does not meet your dreams for your life. Not that I believe you would take another's opinion above your own. Especially when it comes to your venture there. Let me just share a couple thoughts. I first moved to my land and started to build my home in the mountains 20 years ago. I was still working full-time and only retired a couple years ago. For the first 10 years I lived with only oil lamps for lighting. I was perfectly happy with the lamps, but 10 years ago I put in solar. And I don't regret it. I have 6 -- 45 watt poly-crystalline panels with a 48 volt inverter. I have no problem running my refrigerator and all my other electrical needs. In fact I have just put up a small guest cabin and rather than putting in a whole new system I am running the the small cabin off the same system. As for the conveniences of indoor bath, toilet, running water, and other; I would say do it.... I am assuming you would prefer to spend the rest of your life in your cabin. Not only will your wife be more comfortable, so will you as age begins to creep up on you. Believe me, I know what it is like to live with only and outhouse and limited water. In my late teens and early 20's I rented an old farm house that had only an outhouse, and a hand pump in the kitchen. This was in Minnesota. where temps can drop to 20 below (F) and stay there for for over a month in the winter. One can live this way; but even I disliked having to trudge out to the outhouse in the middle of the night. I currently have a 1100 gallon water storage tank and am able, for the most part, to have enough water supply for my needs with a cistern. And my solar system can easily runs a pressure pump. Since I was single when I moved to my land there was no issues with how I chose to live. But there aren't many women who want to rough it. Take my word for it, (lol), even though it doesn't seem to bother guys so much. And since I am still single it still doesn't matter how I live since I am more than happy and comfortable in my small cabin; but I am glad of my small conveniences of electricity, and indoor plumbing. My advice - make you wife comfortable; don't even think about it. Put in indoor plumbing, and electricity, and as you get older and less able to do the things you do now; you will be glad you put in the little conveniences.

[@miscelaneosymas9923]

David W. Joyce good advice.... I am 39, I grew up in a log, in the same conditions he wants to live, no electricity. .. etc..,. but we realized that we do need other stuff.... if his wife wants to be with him, both need to sacrifice something....

[@donnypark4385]

David W. Joyce, Very well said good sir!!

[@nicholastautuhi5031]

Sage advice there.

[@orangestoneface]

wonder if need to go to outhouse if night or weather, just pee in a what plastic bottle and solids in what and put it outside the door remove it later , or keep indoor in tight container airtight. bring later to outhouse when convenient.

[@charlotteskiftun753]

There are q lot of us ladies who want desperately to live off grid....out of the city....we re busy working n researching n looking at bush land for sale to 1 day fulfill the dream.....time marches on

[@Laurie_Tinsley]

My husband and I both had different dreams...He wanted to live on a homestead/farm and I wanted to live on a houseboat. After we found out that my husband had terminal cancer I decided his dream was more important than mine. I have to say I actually love living on our homestead. Caring for the livestock brings me a pleasurable and rewarding experience. I love being able to raise our own food and living in a cabin style home has been really fun to decorate. Being surrounded with trees and away from the city life has been peaceful and way less stressful. Hopefully in time your wife will feel the same as I do. I am so glad that I can spend the last days with my husband living his dream.

[@blackmanops3749]

You're a good woman. I hope he appreciated your sacrifice.

[@wadepg]

You touched my heat Laura. God Bless you both.

[@donnamount151]

Great Life...

[@moonlesslamb]

Made me cry so selfless 🥰🥰🥰

[@danielmorse6597]

I am happy for you.

[@calvinlawrence1250]

I am very late watching this video but overly touched about the support in the community. The hand made gifts are so deeply moving. Thank you for sharing your life and keep the videos coming. Blessings.

[@j.t.4072]

I think you'll find that having your wife around more will compensate for the compromises. I know my wife is worth everything to me, so good times will be had by all, I'm sure! God bless, brother.

[@joannm6558]

From another wife, thanks for saying that. I would give my hubs any life he wanted, and he has done the same for me. We have 38 years in, so I think we are good.

[@katiea.584]

Mrs. James is a lucky Lady to have a person like you as a spouse. That being said..I hope not to much is changed/modernized. Harmony and Happiness to you and yours ☮

[@granteditslifeoutdoors.9194]

Shawn I’m seeing you coming to grips with keeping part of your life in the urban world. Perhaps a small apartment in a nearby town would help keep your dream alive without too sharply truncating your family from mainstream lifestyle comforts. Your skill set would be an easy sell as a handyman to help offset this cost. I take my hat off to you for your honest reflections on this forum. Best wishes.

[@bcb2585]

You are living my dream. Even if I have to, for now, live it vicariously through you, I still feel a certain satisfaction watching these videos and imagining I am there in your place. Your videos are inspirational, and provide a feeling of purpose and well being. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us. I hope your wife supports your vision, and also manages to stay true to her goals in life.

[@sheilarogers2771]

He is living my dream too. It sounds like his wife supports him as an individual but she is not "the outdoorsy" type....which is too bad because she may not have a desire to be in the wilderness for long periods of time. I hope she can adjust as he has put in a lot of time and effort. They'd likely have a longer life together in nature as it is not only beautiful but very healing....they'd also be in connection with the Earth's Schuman's resonance.

[@wendy54321]

Digging a Well for indoor plumbing would make a big difference in your comfort level. God bless you and your family

[@tessk7950]

Wendy a Christian yeah with manual pump , that would be good... I grow up with it

[@almadeckard8360]

Too many big rocks there. Needs rain storage and pump system.

[@the1000master]

it's 1 am here and your videos really help me relax. I love watching them before I go to bed.

[@peggynicholas9825]

Reading the thoughtful comments makes me realize just how important the viewers are in this special story!

[@sharonb.7867]

What you shared in this video about your wife is a testament to the strength of your love as a couple and your willingness to sacrifice your dreams for each other. It is beautiful. God bless you both as you find your way in this path that demonstrates TRUE LOVE - sacrificial love! I haven't watched in a while, but so glad I caught this one!

[@conniehowe5421]

You are being real and that’s what makes it so special .... it’s great to hear about your family and how important they are ...

[@riff2072]

The sauna hat is a good thing. Your head will heat up faster than the rest of your body. The felt hat insulates it from the heat allowing your core body to heat up without you 'feeling' over heated. That was a thoughtful and good gift. +1 Ricardo

[@4philipp]

You tried really hard in this video. Good opening, presents, feel good moments and then BAMM ! Sledgehammer to the head. There will be some uncomfortable decisions in your future. You have to look deep down into your own soul and find out what your spirit demands. In the meantime, enjoy the next few years and make lasting memories. A few amenities won’t hurt. You will be old one day and might enjoy some of them.

[@sonnydalesandro4746]

"Hopefully she doesn't watch this video"- The ice in Canada just got a little thinner! All seriousness, thanks for the honesty. Interesting dynamic.

[@QuIeT_KhA0s]

Keeping her busy is going to be your biggest challenge. Having daily tasks help cure boredom. Best of luck to you both!

[@jacklyndlask-hickman734]

People are so kind to send you gifts! I hope all of them will fit in your new room.

[@richardrich4320]

Shawn - your cabin is in the middle of nowhere (with no internet connection ) and yet your cabin show is being watched all over the world... it is remarkable !!!...and btw you know the saying that a Man is the head of the family but his wife is the NECK who makes it to move ...so just make her happy to feel comfortable...even if you have to build a nuclear power plant there - you have built a beautiful cabin so you'd enjoy it together forever !

[@cindirice5295]

I have NEVER heard that clever comment about husband being the head but wife being the neck that makes it move. Love it! 💁‍♀️

[@pattihawks8514]

Cindi Rice Oh, I’ve heard that a few times! Grew up in the Baptist Church!

[@ksingleton101]

I would really like to see a bedroom added onto the cabin. I believe that is what Shawn has planned, think his wife would love to have a room she can fix up and add a woman's touch. Thanks Shawn for the thoughts and the mail review. God Bless!

[@jmartin2778]

Had a feeling you were in the Huntsville area. I've been to Dotty Lake, ON many times. That's some beautiful country up there. Thanks for taking us along.

[@crispy63]

mrjoeyzaza I’ve been having fun trying to find where the cabin is located. Think it’s near Dotty Lake in the P1H postal zone. Google Maps are old so it’s near impossible to figure it out. One day I will 😊

[@Judy.LoveandLightAlways]

Your relationship with your beautiful wife is a strong one Shawn and Mrs James. I can see that when your together, Distance will Always make both your hearts grow stronger. Your "two wings flying together Always" same for your two beautiful girl's and "cali" hugs from Australia xx

[@thepennsylvanian9280]

We all hope to be watching your videos for a very long time, so please make the cabin as comfortable as possible!🤜🤛 It's been wonderful and inspiring watching your journey 💯

[@Dacos127]

Communication & Compromise are the two tools of a successful marriage.

[@alexandrasalvador9672]

The first time I watched one of your videos, I got intrigued and I really liked it,spontaneous ,effortlessly building your log cabin and you just smiled talking to your dog,it was lengthy but I never skipped or forwarded, it’s just captivating watching you hammering,sawing,gathering logs, it’s relaxing watching your videos, soft spoken,talented man,best of luck!

[@bellamylittlegirl1029]

Such wonderful gifts and kind people. You and your family are very nice. So happy that you and your wife will be together at the cabin. I follow your daughter and she’s an amazing young women. That says a lot about you and your wife. So enjoy your videos. 😊

[@monkeywentbananas]

Thank You Shawn for the Frank conversation!! I appreciate your honesty!

[@woody2009]

A happy wife.... happy life! My sweetheart has put up with me for 32 years. We live off grid in the Ottawa Valley. People ask all the time.. what does your wife think? I have to be honest and admit it is I that have a harder time with the outhouse and heating water on my wood-stove to have a bath She catches me grumbling and says “Sean James wouldn’t complain about that”. 😁 we so enjoy the encouraging videos. Sincere regards to you and your family. Kerry and Faith

[@jameswulzen590]

you have come a long way since i started watching you 2 years ago. I live in a very rural area of the Bic Island of Hawaii, I'm in a wheelchair after having 3 strokes in December of 2018, but i'm on my way back to walking as soon as I can. Your show helps me overcome my situation and gives me extra drive to keep going, I'm 80 soon to be 81 in July. Aloha Nui Loa

[@SwirlingSoul]

It's okay to both share a love of being a hermit, one of you mostly outdoors, the other one in more comfort, but both preferably not in the middle of the city. Cool, right?! Your palacial cabin complex is wonderful and I can't get enough of watching you develop it.

[@marcelalarsen3969]

I could see your happiness when your wife is around and you show us two plates , and some candles on the table. Wish with my heart to both of you the exactly middle point . Enjoy together all the effort of your hands, blessings.

[@Proteusbound]

I have great respect for what you're doing. People really don't appreciate the environment in Canada in the winter. When I was twelve my boy scout group went to Algonquin Park in February to go for our Gold Camp Craft badge. We dug through the snow until we hit soil, and built a lean-to as a shelter/heat reflector. There were 7 of us, and we took turns being awake at night to make sure the others were still alive. Dreadfully cold, and a hell of an environment to not only be in..but to also do the requirements for our badge. We were there only a week, but you never forget that kind of a damp cold. But when those Arctic winds start blowing down from off Jame's Bay, it's another story altogether. All I can say is, your cabin looks mighty accommodating to someone that's felt that cold.

[@zaadinandsetsunarose4966]

Man, I found your channel a while back while looking for something interesting to watch with my father in law and have been watching pretty much every video since. I love the way the cabin has grown and to see how you make this patch of forest home. The way you talk about IF someone would want to watch this or that, is just silly. We Are watching it, sharing the experience with you and enjoying the journey. You're all the way up there but you're not alone. :D

[@rmacsrmaddog2192]

Shucks, I wouldn't stop watching even if you put a swimming pool in. Iol

[@LR-vg4et]

uh oh... 🤣

[@hyacinthbucket3281]

rmacsr maddog Funny, I have been looking into building my own.

[@Babarudra]

hot tub.

[@multiio1424]

Don't give him ideas 😅

[@lookeron2467]

He's got one. A bush-craft version, called "the pond" . LOL

[@altonmedcalf5790]

Thanks being so honest with us. You're a straight shooter Sparky. You're wife must be as remarkable as you. Your path will reveal the future. Keep up the good work. (Put in an extra toss for Cali tomorrow.)

[@mikerocklin9282]

Okay, who else would like to buy a quilt from that nice woman?

[@anniewildmush1284]

Me!!!

[@timothysmith30]

I damn sure would!!!

[@electrictomato8667]

Absolutely

[@ScottysBackYardBBQ]

yes it was amazing

[@scotta71]

Me too. That quilt was really nice and took a lot of work to make.

[@Latina4Life]

Your work, your passion for detail to all you do leaves me speechless. I have a lot of catching up to do and I'm enjoying every minute of it. Your dog Cali alone could have her own channel, she's simply loveable.

[@ruthfrantz8205]

I'm enjoying your series. Watching you use tools that were in my father's garage is delightful. I played with them as a child and asked my father all about them. I do recall watching him use them. My great grandfather was a shoe maker born in Prussia. The schnitzel bunk was a key tool in shoe making and there you had built one for your woodworking. Too cool. Glad for you to live your dream and letting me enjoy your journey. Thanks.

[@vicki4801]

It's so helpful that you are willing to share here, in this way. The thoughts you express in this honest vulnerable episode are very real ones for a lot of us as we transition into the stage of life after those busy child-raising/providing/householder years. Something shifts internally, too, and we begin to reevaluate who we are separate from those roles we so fully inhabited for those years, and also reevaluate who we are now as a couple. Old dreams resurface, alongside new ones. Radical simplifying is often a part of the shedding that takes place for a lot of us in the autumn of our lives, even if we don't take it to the extreme that you did. For myself, it seemed there was a part of me waiting for the time and space to come forth, if that makes sense. It was like a powerful instinct rising in me that now was the time, that change was here. Even if the impetus/stripping seems to be outside of yourself... a career/financial collapse, a forced retirement, children emptying the nest... there is something internal that also pushes your into the next stage of human growth. Of course, the hindus identify this 3rd stage of life, fittingly named the 'forest dweller', as a time of letting go and ripening. I think that's what we're doing. In my marriage, I was the one who longed for the more primitive rustic lifestyle, away from modern culture. My partner does not thrive to the degree that I do 'out there', though he had come along out of love for me. Now, he feels more at home on a wilderness trip than he would've ever imagined, and the intimacy/rhythm that sharing such a extended journey with him fosters has deepened our marriage. I long for more of that, find myself wanting what we have 'out there'. It's still not perhaps what I dream of, but, like you, our marriage has both of us compromising, without feeling compromised, if that makes sense. We too are still a work in progress, evolving, like your cabin perhaps. I don't know where it's heading but I know I want to share it with him, so I keep listening.

[@rEcOiL1971]

I really hope everything works out for you and your family Shawn.

[@gia777gia]

"Every great adventure starts with a single step" and "behind every great man is an even greater woman" living vicariously through you...

[@edwardbickford4666]

I’ve been watching for awhile now and have enjoyed the channel. Appreciate the change in format. I find it quite interesting how you and family remain close and still maintaining your individuality. Thanks for sharing your story!

[@gloriakoch4242]

I have made quilts on my own and as a group at church. It is very satisfying to create something of beauty.

[@cbass2755]

Your building this for yourself, but you keep your family in the forefront. Loving....so loving of you

[@brianspencer4220]

Hi Shawn: For the last year I've been wondering about how your spousal commitment will evolve. My wife's idea of the ideal camp out is the Royal York Hotel. After 54 years I understand That her expectations from life are not necessarily mine but the love endures & the mutual concern is very strong. The relationship is still evolving as I believe it always will. Come walk the road with me , the best is yet to be. Thanks Brian 79

[@brianspencer4220]

Looks like it's still working Thanks Brian 79

[@westmeathguy]

An apartment getaway for your wife in Huntsville may be an idea after the novelty wears off.

[@dedwin8930]

Best all around idea! Come and go as u please for both...

[@micwilliams7743]

Good idea, would hate to see Shawn give up his dream and at the same time would help the situation in the long term if things came to that.

[@mickthealcoholicbear8311]

yeah or if they have a house somewhere they can sell they could downsize to a condo

[@westmeathguy]

@@micwilliams7743 Everyone knows most women don't want to be isolated and that they want decent amenities and room. I give her a year at the most. I sure hope it works out for them though and I'm sure it will.

[@micwilliams7743]

@@westmeathguy Me too. It's a real nice cabin.

[@pamelas1561]

I'd feel the same way as your wife. I had a cabin and I loved that it was completely off-grid, but I felt happy too when I went back to our life in the city. I do like modern conveniences too. I love a nice hot shower. -perhaps someday you will build a nice quasi modern log cabin with big glass windows and a huge central fireplace, with a modern kitchen.

[@sammyacosta5442]

For the most part it's awesome you were able to start over in a beautiful place. All those beautiful Animals and atmosphere such a blessing!

[@mikeklamer9322]

people are so nice. i am hooked on your building and lifestyle . im stuck working at 65 wishing i could be like you.

[@daisygirl111975]

I am so thankful my husband and I met when we were older and share the same dreams and we do not have to compromise much. It’s just easier that way. I hope she loves it! I hope she shares her sour dough skills 😉

[@davidmcgregor4691]

I can hear it in your voice. I think you know it will not work out with her there. Long cold winter, then bug season, then hot as heck. Zero amenities, no on demand heat or AC, no fridge, no space to do anything.......My wife is the same. Up to trying and giving it all, but when it comes down to it, it's our thing, not theirs. Hope you prove me incorrect, but doubtful. Best of luck, and amazing you are trying. My wife would give it a go, then say, nice place to visit......but I'm not living there.

[@davidrobertthomas1515]

@@ramit439 As long as no one sends them a rolling pin Shawn should be ..... ok!

[@ramit439]

@@davidrobertthomas1515 Ha ha.

[@donnacole4227]

Oh come on guys,,, let's think positive here.I don't think Shawn needs to hear any negative feedback at this time cause he seems worried enough about the situation .

[@ramit439]

@@donnacole4227 Very true no offense intended

[@sikkinixxmc]

I think if she can get out enough, it will be ok. I also think Shawn May have to give up a day or 2 to live a “typical” life with her. Perhaps alternate between 2 places ( the cabin and an apt) would be a perfect compromise.

[@claramullen]

I see a future of his rustic cabin and hers with more modern conveniences lol.

[@micwilliams7743]

Why not, just more projects for Shawn.

[@treylem3]

Great to hear you speak on the compromises and arrangement you and your family work thru. I'm sure many others, like myself, have wondered about it.. I appreciate the honest talk about the personal/family element. Also, great attitude to have, calling it an evolution. It will all work out Shawn, when we put what's truly first, first. For me it's God, wife, others, myself. Thanks for sharing all you do.

[@LouiseQuoVadis]

I love your honesty. I like that you realize that your wife may or may not want to do this lifestyle. I know that I wouldn't want to do that, but it's good that you seem to recognize that. You know what they say:"Happy wife. Happy life." I will continue to follow your adventures. Wishing you all the best.

[@cherylmailloux9647]

I hope it all works out well for you all, I would not want to give up that tranquility 😊😇

[@parkski3]

I am so tuned into this way of life. But you must consider the wife and her needs. Add the conveniences of a modern home and you both will be happy. God Bless. Love the work you have done.

[@Rockxenez]

Build an exit upstairs. Here in Finland, three children died in a cabin fire. They sleep upstairs.

[@trailerparksupervisor7046]

He is not in Finland.

[@Rockxenez]

@@trailerparksupervisor7046 So, what you mean?

[@trailerparksupervisor7046]

Rockxenez it’s not related to him. He’s in a completely different country

[@randomelephant4476]

@@trailerparksupervisor7046 Are you being serious right now? Are you suggesting only in Finland and nowhere else cabins catch on fire?

[@trailerparksupervisor7046]

Daniel Kysilka sir, it’s a totally different country. Are you a dunce? Completely different situation

[@sharileeengle5204]

Men can live more rustic. In 1974 my husband and I and 4 kids lived in a cabin for a year. No electric, no water. Remote location. Saturdays we went to the laundromat for fun. After a few mos I couldn’t handle it. I hope your wife can do it, but I understand how hard it is to try to live someone else’s dream.

[@TheWayWalker]

I think it is a very thoughtful expression of your love and value for your wife's comfort that you are willing to compromise your original plan for the cabin to have her there with you. I think that life is better when you are able to do it with the one you love even for a loner who enjoys his alone time. What deep value is it if you live your dream without the other half of your heart on a permanent basis? She may catch on more to your passion and be able to share your joy on a deeper level if she is there more. I think you may find you will have more gain from your compromise than you will loss.

[@SparksofOhio]

Shawn, check out Life Uncontained, they did a solar panel using used Tesla car batteries, I think something like that might be a good setup for you to use up North. Great episode as always, keep up the great work and say hello from Ohio to Cali, love your doggie. ❤️✌️😎

[@jacksg1809]

Love Life Uncontained ,can't wait to see their finished result 😂

[@LadyintheWoods]

What a blessing to have mutual respect for each other, I pray things work out according to what your dream is. I can tell you that my hubby and I have struggled tremendously through our move to the woods. The love can get strained but its still 100% there and worth "the work". Your also blessed to have so many friends and supporters. Have fun!! Love watching the changes and things you learn while doing them, helps us here! :)

[@martinzeddy]

"Hopefully she doesn't watch this" LOL That pretty much guaranteed she will!

[@kristyjennings-rebarjinkie3078]

Especially with this title hahaha. Yup, she'll watch it

[@angelad7757]

That picture will look incredible in the cabin.

[@Rogerthat777]

Shawn you are truly blessed of God our Creator with a wonderful family, with a spirit of adventure and you are a blessing to many of us who are unable to be with you physically but live your adventure vicariously alongside so to speak. I am envious but in a good way.☺ Thank you sir for letting all of us ride along to watch - and learn much including of that of your most private inner-man & mancave Henry David Thoreau would approve me thinks... Godspeede sir ! PS : Your film / audio skills are A+++ second to none in hollywood.

[@stellmitchell2593]

I'm a 79 year old woman who admires you and your life style. Have always wanted to do what your doing. I was raised in a logging camp and would give anything to go back to that life style. I can tell you enjoy your life. Never take your age for granted. Thanks for sharing all of this it's amazing. I love your dog. Glad you have her no better company when your alone. Sorry you had neighbor trouble, sad their are jerks e every where. Keep up the excellent work

[@sandrahuckaby2618]

Great that you and wife are willing to Make All Things Work for your future together....most important especially since you are empty nesters. Blessings to the both of you!!

[@carylhalfwassen8555]

Sandra Huckaby This is working out his future, her compromises.

[@timberdogz]

Beautiful Knife you got!...quilt was awesome too! My wife works around two hours from home, so rather than have her commute, we decided to make arrangements for her to have a place to stay near work and see each other on weekends. It works well for us, a strong relationship makes things work! Thanks for the interesting video!

[@ksweet696]

Thank you for your honesty. Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy, especially in a relationship where the goal is for everyone to still be able to live their dreams.

[@fukyoindigoblossoming5087]

Maybe a walk in closet off the sauna for organization of essentials.

[@DinoNucci]

... I'm right on top of that Rose

[@GiGi2012ize]

I really love to see how you appreciate each gift and taking your time to explain it. One can see its real appreciation!

[@sts1541]

Shawn, you built a great cabin in a beautiful wilderness. Watched several of your videos and like them all. As much as I love camping, fishing trips, boating in wilderness, a week trip is all I can handle. How can you or anyone handle being all by yourself, 24/7, day after day, night after night without anyone to talk to (except your dog), what do you do all day when there is 2' of snow on the ground or it's raining for several days straight? We're in the middle of winter here in the Midwest and already have cabin fever, I want to go out, enjoy bike riding or driving my old car etc. I guess it takes a special person to be able to do that. BTW, I've ridden my motorcycle through Barrie and surroundings several times on our trips around the Great Lakes. Great places to visit for sure.

[@noname00775]

In love with that quilt.. I have lots of quilts but that was a lovely one for real x

[@Musashininja]

Sounds like Shawn you will need a fold-down bunk bed in the tool shed to let the ice melt on occasions. I live a good life but maybe at 62 anchored to home with a 14-year-old daughter whom I adore and a beautiful wife who even though when I announce I'm heading off on a motorcycle trip with my Harley mates I can tell she is not impressed lets me go anyway. I love her dearly as she is not only my wife but my best friend the one I trust totally and rely upon for almost everything. But life can change in an instant. Two weeks ago I was heading out and as I was stepping out the front door a slipped on a small piece of wet plastic and ended up in an ambulance and hospital for a week with a ruptured quad tendon and three muscle tendons gone. So I'm looking at up to six months of recovery time and now out of work as I was a casual employee. My wife has been my absolute backbone ever since I just don't know how I can ever repay her I am just a lucky man to have her by my side.

[@normnilsson7208]

Me and my wife are best friends and if i needed to do what you did she would support it for sure. My Dad did exactly what you have done with your cabin, built a cabin in the forest with some friends, no power no nothing, i set him up with 12 large AGM batteries, all being 12 volt and LP, it was amazing, he used trees to hoist water talks, when i think of it today im just amazed, my Dad past just a few months ago but when i see you life i think of his, my Mom still stayed working for Harley Davidson as he built the cabin (Northern California/Reno area) I believe you are doing the right thing.