Ingrid Nilsen on Coming Out | Shay Talk

[@ingridnilsen]

Had so much fun with you!!! See you soon :)

[@maryam.90210]

You guys are so cute!!

[@MADEbySOUL]

"...because you can't point out the Lesbian on the poster?!" YES! Finally someone said it!

[@EmmieClassix]

MADEbySOUL shay has been saying that since PLL premiered though. And Marlene I think.

[@MADEbySOUL]

EmmieClassix I haven't seen a lot of the interviews or episodes.

[@ivyyang7752]

A celebrity interviewing a youtubers. That's awesome

[@christendominique]

love Ingrid Shay!

[@termaliali3437]

+Shay Mitchell woohoo!

[@MyMomentswithMom]

Yes!!!

[@ManoosaFar]

Shay has always been my fave PLL girl

[@ВероникаМаринова-м9ш]

Same

[@lanajoswig5695]

Same

[@namegoeshere8108]

Same ⬆️

[@asfhavntaxrsfbg8745]

Same but I also love love love Ashley benson and her character 💓

[@userx18028]

Same and Spencer

[@DancingDann]

Shay is such a lovely person and I loved this video so much. Love how open and honest Ingrid was

[@lexaniw7132]

I started watching pll and when Emily turned out to be a lesbian I knew that I was not the only girl in the world who felt this way. I have always knew that I liked girls since 2nd grade and when Emily came out I did too, my mother told me I am going to hell and that my father would have hated me for this ( he died ) . She sent me to connecticut to my aunts house and has not spoken to me since then, I am just glad that You gave me the courage to come out and now I know who my mother really is. What should I do?

[@alisaurss]

omg that's so terrible, stay strong and just be yourself

[@iveydeaton6538]

Even though I am straight and a strong christian, I still think that is wrong of your mother to do. Even though I don't like the fact that there has to be people who go against the Bible and be gay or lesbians, they shouldn't be harassed for it. I really don't know what to say. Even though it is your mother, that is really cruel. I don't know what I can do to help.

[@Pufc.]

Wave.of.sorrow you poor thing, how are things now? I hope your mother has changed her ways. X

[@aliceramos1840]

Wave.of.sorrow sometimes the people close to you don't understand things the way you do. I think especially when it's a parent who's supposed to be there for you no matter what it's beyond hard to keep going. But you have to know that even though she is your mom she's not your whole life which sounds horrible. But I think love is love and you should just keep doing you because you couldn't change the "type of person" you love. And whether or not you reach out to her is completely your choice and if you don't want to don't feel guilty because family who doesn't treat you like family doesn't deserve your presence in their lives sometimes. And if you do reach out to her just don't be disappointed in her response because she may start to understand or atleast try to hang out with you and disregard the gay thing but she may never. Sorry if this was so negative it's just that I know what it's like being let down by family and it's hard to keep trying and it's hard to know when to stop trying. I hope this was helpful somehow. ❤️️

[@josep9016]

Dalka Riverhurricane at leat you are honest

[@LauraFernandeez]

You guys are so articulate. I'm striving to one day be like that.

[@lexyheartsbeauty]

I am already OBSESSED with this series! I love you guys!!!

[@lexyheartsbeauty]

😍😍😍

[@chloetfr4499]

+Shay Mitchell je t'aime my idol💘🍕

[@miley1231]

+Chloe Tfr oh france

[@chloetfr4499]

Mahora YESSS French fans love her so much💪😍😘

[@sophiaallister8761]

+Chloe Tfr Yup I totaly agree 😍 !! I would even say both of them ! Ingrid is so inspiring and so cute wheras Shay is gorgeous and seems so sweet and funny in her videos :)

[@Sabrina-nz8ot]

shays real good at looking interested in a convo like i could talk to her for hours and feel like shes listening and id never know if she was or not

[@sadesimpkin2268]

You still need to go on a Shaycation with Lilly!!

[@Joslebish]

YASSS

[@andrrrrxxzz]

yaaas

[@simranmann]

OMG yeah

[@anijahyoung704]

Yessssss that will be so good/funny

[@kpp0517]

yesss

[@ericadelgadillo7598]

You two together is so amazing! I've been watching Ingrid for at least 4 years and PLL from the beginning and it makes me so happy to see you two! Can't wait for your Shaycation together!

[@fernandamena9461]

I totally agree on the fact that there should not be any more "coming out" videos, after all like Shay said it is just the person you love by the end of the day. I love the way you talked about this huge theme like it was something normal because there's nothing wrong about it!

[@ZiKiKi]

So true! I totally agree with you!

[@sonja4908]

please interview sasha 💯👅 love you, have a nice day ! ♥️

[@luciar.9789]

👍👍👍

[@maryam.90210]

Ayyyyy Emison!!😂

[@queenval1738]

Yes please Sasha

[@yazzlol9584]

*cough* EMISON/SASHAY *cough*

[@yagirlsyd8269]

EMISON SHIP SAILING

[@cpms1d]

When I get the notification that you posted a new video I drop everything I was doing to watch it. You're such an inspiration for me❣ and hope one day I'll meet you😣

[@jadedidcott8892]

Same😍💗

[@LunaVespertine]

So cool that you're crossing the boundaries between tv and KZbin, and acknowledging the KZbin community :) Your videos are really interesting and inspiring!

[@Billabonglova]

What an awesome combination!! I love YOU and I love INGRID! Together, amazing!!!! Can't wait to see who else becomes a part of this series!

[@beautyescape_cz]

I'm one of the newest viewers of your channel, I've discovered it quite recently (about a month ago) and I have to say something. I liked and still really like to watch you as an actress in the Pretty Little Liars, but I never thought of the day when I'll get a chance to know you as a person. In real life. Even if it's through the camera and the internet. And that mean so much to me. I feel really honored. And I'm so glad that I discovered your channel. I really like your videos, your ideas, your personality. You are so down to earth, honest, natural and so positive human being. Every video is pleasure to watch. I'm also so glad you decided to sit down and chat with Ingrid. She was one of the first youtubers I've started to watch and who brought me to this amazing world full of videos and different kinds of people. It's nice to see two favourites in one video. Thank you for that, Shay :) I'm really looking forward for your next video :)

[@brigettemarold2050]

My two favorite people in one video?! Love it! Emily has been my favorite character on PLL since the pilot and I've watched Ingrid for years!!

[@riom9302]

The best thing about this video is that they talk like there's no camera. So genuine. They just really understand each other. Shaycation with Ingrid!!!! yes.

[@Mspreciousmarie]

I agree! I was so shy when I first started my channel. KZbin has definitely helped me become less shy👌🏽Love you Shay😘

[@AllThingsImanix]

Shay is so sweet and genuine. Absolutely love her and her attitude towards everyone and life itself

[@ericamartins8846]

Shay, I love you so much💕

[@ericamartins8846]

😍😍😍 I'm from Brazil.. I love yours snaps💕

[@JessicaLorc]

Wow Shay answered you! 😱😱😱 Omgosh!

[@ericamartins8846]

Jessica Lorc​ 😍😱😍 I do not believe too.. She is so cute and amaaaazing💕

[@JessicaLorc]

I know! 🙈 I'm 14, and I'm her fan since I'm like, what? 10 years old, when I start to watch PLL ❤️ I love her so freaking much haha, and all the cast from PLL.

[@JessicaLorc]

Lucky you girl, greetings from Mexico! ❤️

[@StrictlyP0tential]

These two are so positive and so genuine and caring. I love it. They're chemistry is awesome. They just seem so excited about life and really feed off each others energy. A super cute duo.

[@BrookeMakenna]

Shay you're such an amazing interviewer 😍 CAN YOU HAVE BUTTAHBENZO ON THIS SERIES?!

[@BrookeMakenna]

Need a smile? I post motivational films :)

[@beckrose9693]

YES PLEASE

[@katnissmellark6011]

That would be amazing!!!!!!!

[@forevermorezanessa]

I love how you guys were so open about everything. This is why I love watching your videos because you don't hold back on certain topics because of how others will react to them. It infuriates me how people expect people to look different/dress different because of their sexual orientation and it confuses me so much as to why they think like that. You both are an inspiration and amazing role models for so many people including me. Thank you xx

[@katieklly]

Plz do a void with Lucy Hale like u agree👍

[@katieklly]

Vid

[@lindsayandrade3245]

👍

[@wilhelmiina229]

I love how Shay listens to Ingrid with such interest and patience. YOU INSPIRE ME SHAY

[@ImaginaryHeart]

You're both amazing, I love you. I'm gonna come out to my parents...

[@helloeveryone9]

good for you :) xx

[@ImaginaryHeart]

♥

[@ImaginaryHeart]

+Ainsley Ray Could've been worse. :)

[@sofiaselstam]

+Imaginaire do they support you?

[@ImaginaryHeart]

Not really... They always talk about boys...

[@coreyanne8]

I love how real you both are. It makes watching your videos that much better. The topics you brought up were very refreshing. Thank you for sharing!

[@amindofonesown]

Shay's a solid interviewer and gives off such a genuine and aware and sensitive vibe that I really value in videos like these. Love this heaps x

[@TheFlabbergaster123]

shay your hair is so nice and healthy! could you like a full video on what products you use to treat your hair and keep it so healthy?

[@missdemicarla]

This was so informative, I love the strength you both have, I think you're both amazing!

[@evelynlopez9017]

@ Shay Mitchell , I admire the fact that you seem so invested about what Ingrid is talking about . You are witty and outspoken. Great job.

[@oliviaemma3015]

YOU LOOK SOOOO PRETTY SHAY !!!!💃🏻 Looking forward to this series 🎬😄 Ly💕💕💕

[@KandiLand84]

I know you are busy and probably want see this but I absolutely love Ingrid. I'm glad you had her on. she is such an inspiration. Shay I love you too. you are such amazing person I love how connected you are with your fans. never change

[@AJGrunwald26]

YASSSSS, LEGIT BEEN WAITING FOR THIS 😊

[@sullivanflanagan9786]

sameee

[@sullivanflanagan9786]

sameee

[@milyasmilyas8099]

hi

[@monseratsanchez6293]

i could sit here and hear your guys conversation for hours. Love you both very much, you are both such beautiful human beings and so inspirational.

[@JackieWyers]

wow I love this!!! both so genuine & natural with one another! really nice and interesting to watch xox

[@jennynk6646]

I found this video at the right time. I just didn't know enough that strangers can pick u up when ur down, it doesn't sound true when u say I was inspired by a video of a stranger. But it's true when u really need positivity so badly. Am having my friend/gf struggling with terminal cancer and she is the only person I have that really means a lot to me, who understands me, has been there for me through it all. She watched over me and she loved me beyond dought. Am scared am losing her. She knew my secret and I knew hers so we didn't need to come out. But what will be my world without her. That puts me back in the box of not being understood and having to seal pains and emotions deep down... That kills me.

[@Aziiio]

Part of me feels like there's really no need to "come out". You shouldn't have to announce it. You date who you date, you love who you love.

[@TaelurAlexis]

I think its because of the discrimination and abuse a lot of the LGBT community had to face for hundreds of years. So it's brave and courageous of them to come out now

[@Tinyminh]

sadly its bc its society's norm for ppl to be straight

[@RuchikaRajpal]

Ali Ow and that's very well said 😃😃

[@michael-rayortiz4371]

Ali Ow k

[@linam.5804]

the way both of you are so passionate about this is truly beautiful

[@phoenixsun5205]

Love seeing both of my favorite people in one video!

[@Mylove_94]

Thank you so much for talking about the subject matter of coming out. I had a horrible time when I did. Props for your support and kind words.

[@jordanbrock3017]

You should interview Sasha or Ashley 😁 p.s. You are so inspirational. You just seem like the most genuine person. You have a lifetime fan out of me, ma'am. Keep being yourself, and everyone will continue to love you for it.

[@97BaF]

It is so great to see two such beautiful and inspiring beings sit together and take the time and effort to talk about important topics! Both of you have huge influence on young people, and you both use your "fame" make a difference and inspire people around the world. I loved this video, it was beautiful! Wish you both the best of luck in your lives. Stay positive and keep on inspiring us!

[@maligoebel4002]

You should talk to Halsey. Not because she's my favorite singer but because she's inspired me so much

[@abbielopez98]

You guys are such an inspiration. Love you guys. Shay your the reason i came out. Watching your character helped me be comfortable with myself. Thank you

[@georgiamoore6975]

What I love you so much and you are such an inspiration to me, and a lot of other people I'm sure💘💘

[@georgiamoore6975]

*shay

[@Curlyanac]

+Georgia Moore shes soo adorable👍💕

[@milyasmilyas8099]

+Georgia Moore helo

[@lizlezamaramirez9224]

You're such an inspiration and positive person. I really hope I get the opportunity to meet you one day, I love you Shay! 💗

[@HaleyIvers]

Aww I love Ingrid!!

[@Itsjutorres]

I remember when I saw Ingrid's video. I was at school and I just felt so proud of her and I even cried a little bit. I loved this new video series your doing Shay! Love you both, xoxo 💕

[@ItsMaarrr]

That awkward moment when Ingrid's name is misspelled in the intro...

[@dun.and.josephdun.and.jose1687]

Marissa Antoinett i thought i was the only one who noticed

[@amazzinganne9693]

Im not sure i think that might be the font of the g

[@josep9016]

oh dear

[@victoriamcdonald664]

lol me too

[@nicole._.sunshine]

Amazzing Anne no its in her last name there's an extra e after the i

[@anouskaallison9872]

We need more people like you on Earth, such an inspiration for people to look up to and take advice from! 💕Love you xx

[@aaliyah661]

Ingrid always wears that top whilst talking about being gay

[@josep9016]

lol good eye

[@ZiKiKi]

lol TRUE

[@emmakaylynn2369]

The love and support just radiates off of you and I love it.

[@CelesteAngelica]

Love this. My only issue though, is that it's frustrating to me how social media works. You and Ingrid are both well known, so it was probably easy to reach out to each other and gain friendship. Me, however, I would love to reach out to you & discuss worldly things and make videos together and gain friendship, not as a fan but as another woman just as you two. It's depressing knowing I'll never be able to contact you because I'm just a little fish in a huge pond. Either way, you are both very empowering and I love it!

[@annagreene3232]

Yeah, I agree. Sometimes I just wish I could just be someone's friend and just talk to them like this.

[@CelesteAngelica]

Yeah! But if you were to try, it just makes you seem crazy because no one knows you, ya know?

[@annagreene3232]

+Celeste Angelica totally agree. Just because we don't have millions of followers on social media doesn't mean we don't make good talkers and listeners.

[@CelesteAngelica]

Amen girl

[@Boelenius]

I'm SO happy that Ingrid could finally talk about the hate somments on her coming out video! They still blow my mind utill this day

[@martablanco5608]

do you know shay? i love how you spend time on us, your fans. I truly apreciate that 😉❤

[@martablanco5608]

+Shay Mitchell aww that's so sweet! that's why I love you so much 😍❤

[@emilyheller76]

Two of my favorite people collaborating together? Yes please!

[@kat4360]

Do a vid with Ashley benson 😩😩😟

[@aracaitleen]

I love you Shay. I love you Ingrid. Because of you two I came out to my parents. Thank you for helping me gather up the courage 💕

[@iAreMunkiiz]

ugh i am so tired of this statement! “you don’t look like a lesbian” ... and its been pointed out a lot but people still don’t get it at all ... if i could count how many times my girlfriend and i have been asked “so who’s the man in the relationship? you both look girly” i wouldn’t know where to start ... there is no man. thats the whole point! just two women in love.

[@bethanieburgin1599]

With Shay saying that Ingrid's coming out inspired a lot of people it honestly did, before I watched that video I had come to terms with myself about who I am and had felt comfortable with my own sexuality for nearly a year. Once I saw Ingrid's video I was inspired to be truthful to the people who I cared about in my life with that part of me and after I had what Ingrid had said rang true with me. I know that this is something that should be commented elsewhere but sometimes a little comment from a stranger on the internet could inspire everything and make you realise that yeah maybe I should tell them or even at least help you take that step towards coming out and being truthful about who you are and honestly a little comment like that can go a long way.

[@maireadmccann6269]

So early! Love form Ireland xxx

[@maireadmccann6269]

From*********

[@CL0DAGHHH]

Hello fellow Irish native😂

[@ShannonDoheny]

Haha me too!

[@chloemordaunt2059]

Me too !

[@ciara5412]

Im from Ireland too!

[@kaitlincardona5696]

I've already loved you as an actress, but your videos make me love you even more as a person. You seem to have such an amazing and kind personality. that is a hard thing to find in celebrities these days.

[@AliGiavanni]

Two strong women

[@marissaarmas4355]

You are both the most sweet, well-spoken, knowledgeable and adorable people! Spending an hour with the both of you would be beyond fun!

[@RawrItsAMonSTARR]

If you're going for a talk show type video, I think you should have a really comfy sofa and sip tea/ coffee hahaha. Love this concept, deffo the next Ellen or Oprah ❤️

[@chloerobertson8604]

Shay and ingrid are both so down to earth. Beautiful human beings inside and out❤️

[@cazmenaidoo9334]

I am a big fan of Shay and I love her acting, videos and I'm obsessed with the way she looks but I just felt like awkward watching at certain points because Ingrid is so fun and bubbly and would smile and giggle and I feel like Shay just had a straight and serious face the whole time while Ingrid giggled and stuff :/

[@cinthyalechat8543]

You two meeting and becoming friends is the best thing ever. You are so beautiful, smart and positive

[@queeneva3]

Next? Ashley!!! I need a video of you two!!!

[@angeluvcbable]

I love shay's dress so much her whole look is flawless

[@soccerhottie1010]

Please do a video with Colleen Ballinger!!! And obviously I want to see a video with Sasha too :)

[@BraveNewBatsheba]

Yes Ingrid yes!! I kept seeing all the negativity towards your coming out and, honestly, I was so angry, but I am so proud that you're taking that and fighting against people who think that way. Love you both

[@BudderBaccaFTW]

Ingrid makes me think of Alexis G. Zall

[@alisaurss]

omg yeaj

[@kellilandry3207]

Love you both! Thanks for being so much fun and so positive for all of the awesome young women that follow you!

[@ZahraSahebzada]

I didn't even know Ingrid was Gay Until his video I been watching her On and Off Still love her equally if not more ☺️👌🏻 Good For You Ingrid

[@isabellamarie4820]

Shay you are honestly so inspirational to me! I love that you made a KZbin channel. Your videos make me so happy!

[@ItsJustJoanna]

Watching this video wondering if it's acceptable to go back through your videos binging them, having what I'm gonna call a 'Shay Day' ... 🤔😍💗

[@StyleMeChummy96]

I remember I was in class when Ingrid posted that video and I waited for my class to be over and straight went into the library to watch it, I was shock actually but I'm so happy for her to finally come out as who she really is 😊

[@AndreaLissette]

love this friendship! :)

[@emiliagustavsson4662]

Gosh, you two are the most inspiring people I know. I really love both of you. Much love

[@taylorlee4390]

Ingrid's outfit is PERFECT. You're both cuties (Shaycation to England??😉)

[@shannonhealey4276]

Shay! I love how positive you are, you generally seem like such a sweet person! Love you💕

[@ivanas442]

Love this! you should interview lucy hale :)

[@AliceCaillinWinchest]

I already loved Shay but I love her even more after this! 😫 this friendship is life

[@ibbyg509]

Did anyone else realize that it said Nielson in the intro or am i reading it wrong?

[@artist45]

You're reading it correctly. Either a typo or a spelling error...either way, it is incorrect. :)

[@ibbyg509]

artist45 ok..thanks

[@rileyperril7159]

You are both so so inspiring. I'm so happy that I've watched this video and it just proves how supportive Shay is! Such a lovely person xx

[@ripmyfictionalfriends]

how about an interview with Katie Stevens?

[@stephaniehutchings3673]

Shay and Ingrid are very inspiring people. I completely understand what they are saying. Being an "out" person and "looking" like a lesbian it's very hard. People do show love and support but there are still haters out there, and watching Ingrid's coming out video and to see them talk about how lesbian are suppose to look, and talk about stereotypes, I hope that people can learn from these videos and become more open to the thought of people love in different ways.

[@sinemguclukol1932]

Interview Gigi Gorgeous next please!

[@CottonCandy-yk8ci]

Two of my favourite humans in the same video? Why am I seeing this now? It's so late! I love you both!!

[@sal_8748]

Please do video with Ashley Benson!

[@jess_k6281]

I think she already has

[@sal_8748]

CoolDog1515 It was a vlog. I mean like a sit down video. :)

[@jess_k6281]

+Saule Simonelyte oh ok sorry:)

[@Anonymous-cq5dl]

I know I'm just another subscriber saying this but I truly love what you guys are doing with your platform and you make me so proud of myself, I love you❤️

[@mariaisnotcool]

couldn't help but notice ingrid's last name spelled wrong at 0:18😂 btw love this new series💕

[@paigeg5852]

awkwardlymaria Daniel the Spaniel

[@lourdesfloresesquivel5323]

I love you Shay seriously you're just like the greatest friend anyone would wanna have! You should totally do a ButtaBenzo talk to me episode!!

[@tanuxox28]

Please interview Ashley Benson and Superwoman! ❤❤

[@kelly1248]

It actually amazing how both of you have brought so many lgbt people together or even just encourage to them accept yourself. It's inspiring how you both are such strong advocates