She 21.Her rich man wants her to be a stay at home mom + She will cheat on her rich man for bad segg

[@prettiilexii672]

Babyyy a mom is 24/7 work!!!!! People need to stop taking being a mom lightly!!!

[@nekev9036]

There's no protection for a stay at home girlfriend if he all of a sudden changes his mind about being with you. At least as a wife, you can get some type of settlement or alimony.

[@humbleheart2650]

Good comment! People don’t realize this. When got divorced, I got my payout because I was a wife!!!!!

[@roni-yah9342]

she just wants to be a stay at home! No a stay at home mom!!! LOL that part was funny !

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

Pretty much !

[@Remember-Death]

These chicks are lazy. And then they wonder why a Matriarchy doesn't exist.

[@JayLawson]

Stay at Home Mo-ooch.

[@l0venathalie]

she should've said she wants to be a stay at home girlfriend

[@Chikou14219]

Hmmmm, this might be an unpopular opinion, but she should not be a stay at home gf who does NOTHING. She better be at home reading books, journaling, developing herself - if not building a business in alignment with her passions If they break up, a 2 year gap in employment AND knowledge because she stayed at home doing nothing is not a good plan

[@yogigoyi]

Exactly,il use that time to do short courses.

[@humbleheart2650]

Not unpopular to me! She seems lazy and doesn’t want to work. If a man is a provider, you stay home wants a child and you are staying home you should give him a baby! Bye Felicia!

[@Simeon1212]

They want advice, but can’t handle the truth 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@Remember-Death]

They want to be told that they are right and everyone else is wrong.

[@msblackberry09]

Always. These girls are young and they don’t want wisdom.

[@Tfolife528]

A promise is just that ladies. Nothing is guaranteed.

[@Babyleejunior]

She needs to grow up. She isn’t mature enough to make any decisions at this time. She doesn’t need to get married or be anyone’s girlfriend, just find yourself love.

[@lamonttaylor3293]

You're broadcast hero is a man lady's. And why is she shiny like that and all that dam makeup tell her your I dare you..

[@StylishlySaved1]

Being a stay at home gf/wife/ mom in theory sounds good until you gotta pick up the pieces if he decides to leaves. Nobody really wants to work but what choice do you have if you want to maintain your own lifestyle?

[@Tionaintown876]

Open a business. Have side hussles to pay for yourself. Collect rent money etc etc

[@Sam-zr3ly]

It's bad idea for a young woman to be with a man. She needs find herself and enjoy her freedom and peace. She doesn't need a man. Men are awful has no benefits to a woman

[@StylishlySaved1]

@@Tionaintown876 true, I agree but it sounds like that would still seem like work to her.

[@VeeKayGreenerGrass]

It works if you have a retirement fund he pays into and pays you an allowance monthly that would be equivalent to what you would earn each year. No problem.

[@StylishlySaved1]

@@VeeKayGreenerGrass this is based on what the man is willing to do for you so convincing him to do so will take…..work…….especially if he hasn’t already thought to do so.

[@emeraldkaysgarden]

When she told the girl she has fun girl energy that is exactly what i got from her too.

[@s.crockett5457]

"Add JUST a SPALSH of seriousness." That's SO ME!🙋🏾‍♀️🙈

[@Remember-Death]

She forgot to add: And drizzle in a Gym membership. Her "fun girl" energy was not the issue; her weight was why men don't take her serious, and don't feel like they need to take her out in public.

[@querenm3303]

People think being a stay at home is easy....i wish

[@rekanova3757]

I work from home and it's not easy with the expectations. I can only imagine not working at all. I can't! Wheeew 🤭

[@lmusima3275]

He wants a stay at home woman who’d cook and take care of the house

[@fatmanscoop6595]

They do not understand it is WORK!!!

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

She’s more than likely a side piece to her “much older boyfriend.”

[@briasworld8]

Exactly. 🙄

[@lmusima3275]

I thought the same thing. He’s probably an older rich married man and has her on the side.

[@humbleheart2650]

Right and when he gets tired of her she will be @$$ out

[@meloran2571]

I find it hard to believe no one told young women to lose the outrageous lashes, be serious, and dress appropriately and you might attract a different kind of guy. this is shocking.

[@icygyal2555]

You’re not lying. I think the short lashes look good and plus they can think that dressing classy can’t be sexy which is far from the truth

[@larose5028]

⁠@@icygyal2555I’ve found that a lot of women (especially younger women) have lost the ability to present themselves without being somewhat extreme. They can’t dress “classy” unless it’s all beige colored blazer outfits. They have no sex appeal so “sexy” to them is simply showing as much skin as possible.

[@Remember-Death]

They were told how outrageous they look. They don't care because they still get attention from men, AND will call you "insecure" or "controlling" if you mention *ANYTHING* about their appearance.

[@Roccofan]

It’s as if everyone under 35 wasn’t raised to believe there a consequences for how they carry themselves in the world.

[@CarolG-y5h]

Hellooooo how?? When you have Plastic Cabbage patch doll giving the "Advice" as fake as can be tryna tell us what men really want or how to be a woman.

[@iamsadeashley]

The first young lady just doesn’t want to work. I feel her but a lot may come with that lifestyle that she may not be ready for.

[@Remember-Death]

Right. One way, or the other, she will still have to "work." Either in the home or at a regular 9-5 job. No sane man will just allow a woman to do nothing (especially if they don't have kids) and expect to have all her bills paid.

[@StylishlySaved1]

@@Remember-Death Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I made a comment but this is my exact sentiment!

[@mizzmolly7649]

She needs to keep working for now and invest her money. That stay at home girlfriend stuff is foolish.

[@Gotinks]

Yeah, If he Proposes Marriage to you then Accept, but get married in a couple of years. Then have your kids a couple of years after that. You will be 25-26. Focus on your family first and continue your education, emerging markets, and news throughout this process. As a wife, you will be valued counsel when major decisions come about. Do not do all these things as a girlfriend!

[@Sam-zr3ly]

Stop advising young to marry. Marriage doesn't worth it. It suppresses women

[@Gotinks]

@@Sam-zr3ly You trippin! She wants a family. You rather she be a baby momma taking care of kids of her own? If she is going to have kids get the commitment first. Dont have kids by NO MAN without a commitment. O

[@sammywilliams6]

Get married/Get them kids out the way asap at a younger age simple 💯

[@womenstriving8960]

@@Gotinks 🎉

[@capturedbyshelly]

Exactly@@Gotinks

[@JozelleRenia]

Man these lives shake me to my core because I never imagined that these words would come out of a young woman’s mouth. I’m happy that Ashley has this platform to teach & guide these girls ☺️.

[@zhinningenge1754]

I like the informed consent question at the beginning. Very professional and classy, Ashley!

[@hellothere8347]

I usually don’t like the kind of videos but Ashley be real with these girls that’s why I watch! ❤️ a lot of people with these types of channels entertain the crazy things they say! I’m 23 and I’m really taking these things in thank you!

[@sparklesp9304]

I honestly think she cares. I like the grace she has for women, regardless of where they are.

[@AjasAura]

I can’t get over how amazing and glowy your skin is

[@Roccofan]

2:54 “How do I put a filter on…” That is a massive level of insecurity. Run for the hills, my brothers, run for the hills. 😂

[@rororidley5829]

Stay at home wives/girlfriends better have their personal Roth and traditional IRA fully funded. You need to have invests in your name so if and when he gets tired of you, you’re not broke with a huge gap in work history.

[@jennynotfromtheblock]

Ashley gets down! She don’t play!! 😩

[@mrshappilymarried1]

"I need a splash of seriousness" 😂😂😂I love it!!

[@LetsTalkTelevision]

If you’re with a guy and he’s allowing you to stay at home and not work. If he’s wealthy enough. Ask him to get you a piece of rental property. And the deed should be in your name. So just in case anything goes wrong you have something to show for it. And that piece of rental property can generate you income for the rest of your life. Don’t be stupid. to just want to stay at home and do nothing? With no security? You’re setting yourself up for failure!!

[@humbleheart2650]

Yes I agree and at least get a monthly allowance so she can stash it away WHEN he kicks her to the curb

[@butterflyygyrlsworld5106]

ASHLEY!!!!! You bout to make me get my bob back!!!!! You been ROCKING THIS BOB!!! 🤩😍🥰🔥

[@UpscaleCleaning-m8c]

Just found the channel.I like the realness & classiness in the delivery of the message.🌺💕🌺

[@mikemushipe6023]

This piercing trend is getting ridiculous......

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

She looks insane

[@Remember-Death]

And she'll turn around and wonder why certain high caliber men don't take her serious.

[@canaryblack5871]

Girl keep the man that's reliable. I use to think just like that. Need a man that pleases sexually. Sex is over-rated. If you can find a man that reliable and can put it down, then beautiful. But do not go looking for a problem, when you know the best solution.

[@VitaInDC]

@4:30 "fun girl energy". That's a great description of it.

[@morgansandiego]

Social media has ruined some of us. People out here idolizing social media lies 😮😮

[@zhinningenge1754]

The 21 yr old wants all the financial benefits of a homemaker without the responsibilities that come with the position.

[@AuntieCheri]

Promise ring? Promise ring? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@tw7127]

🤣

[@Mythoughtsin2024]

She’s 21 😭😭😭 omg bless her

[@Remember-Death]

@ 12:42 - She said she's *NOT* bringing ANYTHING to the table! *WTF!* Everyone must bring *something* to the table. If you're not bringing anything to the table, you need to stay by yourself and remain single. A high value man is not going to accept a woman who brings nothing to the table. He has too many options! And the other women are more than willing to bring something to the table in order to *GET HIM.* Will somebody let women know that they are in competition with OTHER women.

[@humbleheart2650]

I hate that statement but it applies in this case. Women bring themselves to the table! When men take a woman out it is a flex to have a beautiful woman on their arm. No man can deny that.

[@Remember-Death]

@@humbleheart2650 And when women are out with men, it's a flex to have a tall, dark, and handsome man on their arm. No woman can deny that.

[@vedales8670]

Seminars, workshops, Community, public service and fundraising events. Take your son, little brother, cousin or stranger off the street (lol) to the Barber Shop without an appt, just hang out. Get together with your girls and learn how to play Golf and more.

[@shawniecechristine260]

One thing she is missing is being a parent is work!

[@FlavorsbyJess]

Literally!

[@briasworld8]

A 24/7 Job that you DON'T get Paid for. Fact.

[@sparklesp9304]

These parents are 😮 I don't know who is raising this generation. They don't know the rules of basic engagement with men.

[@VWHNeal1018]

Ashley is so right.Be healed so you can be open to the possibilities of meeting a man at anytime and anywhere. Be pulled together and smile.

[@gregb1374]

And definitely don't think 1 man taught you about men! The last caller really thinks 1 man taught her about men. She needs to heal, take time to herself, leave the past in the past and move forward. 1 man teaching you about men, is how the next man ends up paying for the last man's mistakes.

[@LuxLife24]

Ms .Ashley you are a breath of fresh air. You season your words with honey and agave all while letting us ladies know what we need to correct and that's coming from me, a woman of a certain age..over 50.😂

[@DigitalMarketing04-p5w]

Ashly is an expert she knows everything wow. I love her advices they are perfect for every problem

[@juanderuano8969]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@juanderuano8969]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@juanderuano8969]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@malcolmbenjamin28]

Scam. I saw this same damn message on 2 diff videos 🤣🤣

[@FlavaNYoEar]

@@juanderuano8969😂😂😂😂😂

[@FlavaNYoEar]

@@malcolmbenjamin28😂😂😂😂😂

[@sparklesp9304]

I honestly don't think any black woman should have kids before 27. You need time to come into yourself, know what's wrong with how you were raised, and learn enough to teach your kids how to navigate this society as a black woman.

[@clementine4133]

👏👏👏 Ms. Ashley. You need to have a goal and reason to be home cared for for most people in the long-term.🎉

[@icygyal2555]

Who’s really ready at 21 tho?

[@mamat1213]

Right but then why tf would you expect to be “sat down” or put up without a plan, at 21? Why date a much older man who wants that

[@trombonefellow]

You won't be anymore ready at 31, the game never slows down it only speeds up

[@sparklesp9304]

​@@trombonefellowAre you speaking as a woman from experience? Or a man?

[@whatthe3504]

You need to be you have a biological clock once it’s over can throw away any expectations for a serious relationship outside of old men that just want someone to take care of them when they get sick.

[@RafaAldez]

The rich man needs to let the 21yo go. She wants the benefit of marriage without wanting to sacrifice and reciprocate

[@trombonefellow]

Marriage as a rich man will always be a bad idea.

[@breanna834]

Love this content Ms Ashley! Keep it coming! ❤

[@rogerringold616]

Nose ring thing gaining popularity. It speaks before your mouth does. It says ...you will led around by others....you already making offensive decisions for behavior...influenced BY AND FOR OTHERS....ALREADY. DECISION MAKING ABILITY is in another gear.

[@Babyleejunior]

For Natalie…take him to the “toy store” and you would be happy❤❤❤❤

[@palesamampa]

Love love your content Ashley❤️!

[@ashleyldalton]

Thank you lovely 😊

[@taz9234]

Me to and I am wearing my waist trainer and drinking my water 💦 🤣🤗

[@rekanova3757]

Ashley is right about the gym. I work out with my man and this guy came over to me when he wasn't around and gave me his card and says "I wanted to tell you how gorgeous you are" 😊

[@TheFlowbetter]

Isn’t that disrespectful to accept “a card” from a man who’s complimenting you while you’re in a relationship?

[@rekanova3757]

No worries the card was left in the gym and we also had a good laugh about it over breakfast (my man and I).

[@lasaviabrown7920]

Iam sorry but these damn women are horrible

[@blackcoffee151]

Where are these men lol I need one😅 great advise Ashley

[@taz9234]

Me too 😂😂😂😂

[@Tisha-oi5yn]

That’s true.. when I was going to gym I used to meet men ALL the time and they was attractive.. I wish I could go to the gym these days to meet men cuz Lawd I don’t meet men I am attractive to at all 😂😂.. but it’s like I don’t want to get a gym membership just to meet a man .. but I might have to cuz I can admit I am getting desperate 😂

[@siesies000]

5:52 she KNOW she needs to BURN those darn lashes 😂😂😂

[@Tisha-oi5yn]

That’s not true men be asking women no matter how they dress to come back to they house on the first date .. when I wore my hair naturally no makeup on my way to work.125 pounds I will meet a man .. the first phone conversation was to come back to his house.

[@tatijas]

What type of men are you meeting.,? A man shouldn’t even feel comfortable asking a woman certain questions based off how the woman looks.

[@trombonefellow]

Of course, there is nothing wrong with sex on the first date. We wouldn't take you out if we weren't trying to take you home in the first place. If you wanna wait that's like him insisting you go dutch even though he invited you out. Only one type of woman dates a man she isn't sexually attracted to. A respectable and respectful woman will let it be known she don't see you that way in the first place

[@whatthe3504]

She talking about dress for what you want nobody wants their wife dressing like she’s for community use. The respect won’t be there it’s like wearing a sign for fun only.

[@anxie_teaa]

The last girl is so pretty 😍

[@goddesslivy]

When it comes to smex, I feel like a lot of women are just looking for male validation. Because tell me how majority of heterosexual women cannot achieve pleasure with men but they still cling on to the idea that they like/want smex?? It doesn't make sense to me.

[@Clearbluesky771]

Great advice Ashley to the 2nd girl

[@Roccofan]

10:01 Metal face is not a wife, she has no financial stability.

[@iliketotrade]

Wtf😂😂😂

[@biankaum]

21 is not too soon. A girlfriend finished a four year college degree at 20 and got married to an older man and been happily married. She continued her studies and is now a college professor at a well known university. It's all about a maturity level. It's sad how immature these women are

[@splashaffects]

Ashley keep it coming ash!!

[@IceyIcey2023]

Omg Ashley I’m luving you more and more 🥰🥰🥰 help all of us! Young and old 😊

[@sammywilliams6]

A lot of girls give off that fun energy and then get mad at a dude for wanting what he wants at the end of the day 😂😂

[@Clearbluesky771]

Exactly she should already be a stay at home girlfriend, like that agreement with her boyfriend should have been done. Seems like he hasn't agreed to that.

[@leataylor9277]

I’ve had men ask me out on dates at the gym. One of them took me out for Valentine’s Day 😆

[@TO-nl4gx]

I haven’t heard nobody say they want a Man who LOVES GOD 1st 🤔

[@ashleycampbell8025]

Yes that is no lie!!! LA Fitness do not play if they want you they are comingggg for youuuu 😂😂😂😂

[@MissTreStar]

I understood where the 21 yr old was coming from. If she was 35 then no question-stay home, you’ve worked all those years. However , she’s 21, so she’s wondering if she SHOULD be out there working, building a career being that she just became an adult. Of course you don’t have to be a mom to desire to stay home and not work, you simply need $$$…and the bf has it. So she should save 3-5 months of bill $$, then quit. If they break up b4 the “promise” turns into a “solid” (marriage) she can comfortably look for work 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@madisonLNM]

I love what Ashley is doing here. Where do I watch this live ?

[@KENZIIE_lol]

Average looking 31 "fitness fanatic", who is overweight, is looking for a high-value man. You can't make this stuff up.

[@mfsmit01]

Good advice to the young lady

[@christyspeed4995]

Am I missing the Lives 😩. Is it still Wednesday and Friday’s?

[@humus4000]

Good content sis👍

[@travelnomad9281]

Wouldn’t it be good to know what a high value man wants? Serious men will not take you seriously with all those tattoos

[@vet4life]

Tattoos dont mean anything. It's the person's personality, character. I know men who are very wealthy w/ women that have numerous tattoos. I know wealthy women who wouldnt even date a man who works a 9 to 5....its preference but once ppl look past vanity they can find a mate that fits their lifestyle.

[@vet4life]

@@myronbourne6937 Lol not the men I know that I stated in my original post love.

[@larose5028]

⁠@@vet4lifeThere’s exceptions to every rule but it’s important to not try and push that as the rule itself. In a dream world people wouldn’t judge others for things like tattoos, but the reality is a lot of people still do.

[@vet4life]

@@larose5028 This I know that's why I said what I said. It's all about preference vs perspective vs perception. Lol

[@ginaloveslife632]

That young lady with the tattoos is gorgeous natural Lee gorgeous she could have any man that she wants ….trust… once SHE believes it

[@TheStamps]

If he ain’t your husband don’t play house!! Go back to work girl until he put a ring on it.

[@brandygee8062]

Mr Reliable for me, that reliability will make everything seem amazing ❤

[@leelee5593]

Wth😂😂😂 you need kids for the stay at home mom part she better be careful ppl don’t like being misused. She can go to work and come home she’s choosing to go out and do all these things 😂

[@rogerringold616]

They asking how much cuz the meat in the display window. If its not for sale, why is it showing? Its on sale or for rent.

[@lisaevans6000]

Where is this young girl’s MAMA!! This is too scary!!!! 🥴

[@pickmeisha]

What GROWN man out here giving away promise rings…? Foolish.

[@PlayboiBreezeTV]

What does your father say or the male leadership in your life say about this? You don’t marry and then decide if you want kids. Chaos and trauma on the way 😓🥴

[@dalucci3757]

Black women want everything but they only give you just the bear minimum . Bad deal

[@Sam-zr3ly]

Allow the ladies to show whatever they want to show

[@Remember-Death]

And allow men to treat women however we want to treat them. 1st impressions matter. Appearance matters.

[@sayitaintso7544]

The first woman is confused. Confused people dont need to be married. I hope the guy realizes what hes in for because it could be a bumpy ride with her.

[@stevenhenry123]

Wassup with all these sugar babies this is crazy

[@MsLawless_lifestyle]

Never cheat on Mr Reliable for Mr “Good D”. Never! Mr. Reliable will be there for you in hard times, etc. Mr “Good D” never has it and he thinks he’s the prize🤭🤦‍♀️

[@rogerringold616]

She wants to be kept....and be able to run around as just a girlfriend un accountable like a wife should be. It looks a lot worse than I thought.....its a horror movie...zombies ....cant be healed or fixed.

[@miked7350]

This is the 2nd video I've watched of Ashley Dalton. She's classy, sophisticated, brilliant, and no offense intended I say she is the new female Kevin Samuels and I project she will be just as successful.

[@glamourdarling]

how u gonna call urself a stay at home mom and not want kids. the point of being a stay at home anything is that your job is at home with the kids and maintaining the house while your man is in the workforce. its not an excuse to be lazy and taken care of without contributing anything back to the partnership. if u wanna be a bum do that by yourself.

[@ORIGINAL__ONE]

That's the problem women want to be boss chicks when a man is trying to marry them to be a stay at home mom and take care of them for t rest of their lives What y'all going to choose

[@kayaa1645]

I love your videos ❤

[@victorialee7223]

Ashley I definitely have some questions!!😩

[@lamont238]

Leave that man alone. She playing games

[@CinemaDoll137]

first girl is too childish. i'm surprised she even pulled a rich man, honestly.

[@sparklesp9304]

The second girl needs to get a different group of friends.

[@kenyareid]

Why does she remind of a female Kevin Samuals and has distinctive urban vibe

[@hellothere8347]

She’s nothing like Kevin Samuel’s and idk what distinctive urban vibe if that means total opposite of him then you might be on to something but please don’t play in her face

[@Remember-Death]

Because Kevin was effective and knew exactly what he was talking about. You notice how she's not telling these women what they want to hear? She's telling them *some* (but not enough) hard truths.

[@vedales8670]

So what's the rose?

[@nikkicook3351]

A vibratory

[@Clearbluesky771]

Natalie isn't honest with herself. The sex is more important to her. For me the reliability is more important to me. Everyone is different and that's ok.

[@damarish.torres145]

Ashley, why are you single if you don’t mind me asking

[@thelastgoodmaninjersey]

If the world works the way these women talk, there's a million rich men on every block available for them. More rich men than you can shake a stick at. Take your pic.

[@jamarthomas3773]

She sounds like Nicki manij ..lol

[@thomasharris5151]

31?!?! THIRTY ONE….😮 noooooo..! 🤔