She attracts dusty men who want her money + Her Clingy Energy Runs Men Off & Dating Pool Has Pisss

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Ashley L Dalton

Ashley L Dalton

Күн бұрын

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@Janiece3
@Janiece3 Ай бұрын
One thing woman do is TALK TOO MUCH. A man doesn’t need to know your traumas, your plans, your accomplishments, your accolades, you mad at your best friend, your mom needs her hair done, your period on, your knee hurt, etc. (I’m being sarcastic) Share those things later when y’all official. HAVE FUN on your dates. Everything will be revealed overtime.
@Keiaradise
@Keiaradise Ай бұрын
“Your mom needs her hair done” STOP 😂
@autumnanderson-g3b
@autumnanderson-g3b Ай бұрын
@❤Janiece3 Facts!!! 😂😂😂
@Janiece3
@Janiece3 Ай бұрын
@@Keiaradise 😂😂
@Magique88888
@Magique88888 Ай бұрын
Yup and its kinda a red flag if they press you for all these details.
@earthzone85
@earthzone85 Ай бұрын
Lol yes they do talk way too much and I know men be turned off fast 😂
@876me7
@876me7 Ай бұрын
She’s in law school, she should date ppl who are in law school or in grad school.
@thelessons3768
@thelessons3768 Ай бұрын
They are not interested in women who are (like them) in law School
@876me7
@876me7 Ай бұрын
@@thelessons3768I’m a lawyer who went to law school. That’s not true at all🙄
@thelessons3768
@thelessons3768 Ай бұрын
@@876me7 Yes it is. 13% of lawyers marry other lawyers so 87% AVOID female lawyers. If you are a lawyer then you should have to wherewithal to understand that outcomes are bigger than just your view. But naturally as a woman you only think about your world.
@jdglen24
@jdglen24 Ай бұрын
@@thelessons3768what does like them mean?
@yourgirl_abena6329
@yourgirl_abena6329 Ай бұрын
Aesthetics probably​@@jdglen24
@laj4186
@laj4186 Ай бұрын
When people ask for advise but defend against every piece of it
@shenrillbaylark6163
@shenrillbaylark6163 Ай бұрын
I so agree!!!!
@shirleycollins2296
@shirleycollins2296 Ай бұрын
Yep! The sad part is they don’t even realize they do it!
@p994able
@p994able Ай бұрын
Exact reason why I stopped giving advice for the most part. Frustrating as all h3ll.
@msblackberry09
@msblackberry09 Ай бұрын
@@p994ablesame. I don’t offer advice unless I’m directly asked
@JustGio1111
@JustGio1111 Ай бұрын
Like a Lawyer 😂😂😂
@UpdatedView
@UpdatedView Ай бұрын
I met my wife while she was in law school. She presented herself very professionally and conservatively from day one which is who she is at her core. Ashley is giving the best advice. The tattoos, nails and nose rings are a detractor for certain men(not all). I never recommend anyone change who they are, but you are going to be approached by a certain guy. I’m a corporate executive and most women have to present conservatively within our circles. Men in the entertainment field might go for her look versus guys like us. I’m sorry but it’s the truth.
@taylorthenatural5509
@taylorthenatural5509 Ай бұрын
How does she wear her hair? I don't want to assume she's black but when I hear conservative in these spaces I think straight weave or flat ironed hair. What can I tell a natural hair girly that wants a white collar man, about how to attract one with her locs, afro, braids etc? Or is there no room for those styles in the professional world? My man is blue collar/entertainment stage hand and he loves my natural hair. Is this only the case with blue collar workers?
@UpdatedView
@UpdatedView Ай бұрын
@ Thanks for asking, she is black. I’m not certain of what you would call the hairstyle, but it is straight and the length is to her shoulders. I think braids and locs could be okay, but I don’t know any of the men in my circle wives that have them. It’s not really a style that I like, but I’m only one person.
@taylorthenatural5509
@taylorthenatural5509 Ай бұрын
@UpdatedView Okay thank you for your answer 😊
@p994able
@p994able Ай бұрын
As much as people will say that you’re “judgmental,” you’re right. This is why for example I’ve never gotten a tattoo and never will. Not for the men, but generally as much as I hate how people especially women with a lot of tattoos or visible tattoos are judged, there’s sadly a trademark that comes with having a visible one or several visible ones. It gives off that you’re the “edgy, fun GIRL.” Yes, I wish it wasn’t like this, but that’s what society sees when they see tattoos. So I’ve just kind of played the game and stayed away from them. I was also raised in a Christian household where they were forbidden growing up. But it just stuck with me. The same for piercings. The only two I have are one in each ear.
@BeauTCravez
@BeauTCravez Ай бұрын
I have to agree. You attract what you put out. I was married to a Pharmacist and I was conservative yet classy when he met me. When we went out I’d sexy it up for him which he loved but when in public and around social circles I always dressed as some would say “old money”. Which was also nice because I switched it up depending on the date and kept him on his toes. I knew when to pull out the red dress and when to pull out the blazer.
@Kimberly.T
@Kimberly.T Ай бұрын
Wanting a change and actually changing are VERY DIFFERENT! She wants to change but doesn’t want to change ✨
@p994able
@p994able Ай бұрын
Love this. You can always tell that’s the case when you give advice that was asked for in a respectful way, and people still want to debate you on the advice that THEY asked for.
@theehardpill
@theehardpill Ай бұрын
Her saying she's in achool but doesn't want disclose until she gets to know them better is fine. Strangers dont need to know all your business.
@DeeDeebing
@DeeDeebing Ай бұрын
That is very true. I don't know why people fight against having mystery.
@MaryThiboudeax
@MaryThiboudeax Ай бұрын
It’s sad many don’t want to accept what their appearance says about them. Social media makes ppl believe everything goes but it doesn’t. Tattoos and nose piercings will always be looked at as trashy.
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
Facts, although there may be exceptions… what you said is still facts.
@6time686
@6time686 27 күн бұрын
As well as maroon hair. Most men DO NOT want that but women never pay attention to what men want.
@Rennisha
@Rennisha Ай бұрын
Giving men money is a scam!! They are scamming you 😭
@bsamy
@bsamy Ай бұрын
So do u believe giving women money is a scam as well?
@abigailzii5342
@abigailzii5342 Ай бұрын
@@bsamythank you!!
@l0venathalie
@l0venathalie 27 күн бұрын
@@bsamymen are not supposed to ask women for money
@l0venathalie
@l0venathalie 27 күн бұрын
@@abigailzii5342i know you be getting used 😭😂😂😂
@bsamy
@bsamy Күн бұрын
@@l0venathalie so you're ok with using men. But a man should just give u money is that what you're saying
@T_Amara257
@T_Amara257 Ай бұрын
I am in business and studying my MBA and the truth is sometime we rush to tell men our qualifications and careers so that we impress them and try to set ourselves apart. We are looking for validation. And only dusties will come running cos they will be seeing money and a “strong” woman.
@thelessons3768
@thelessons3768 26 күн бұрын
Facts... All a successful and busy man will do is see you as a cool person, colleague or like one of the guys because the limited time you have and "possible " career over family mindset is a turnoff. The duties will be more attracted as they typically are ok with step kids or fine with her trying to wait til late in life, like 35 - 40, to have kids. They take what they can get.
@LifeAsLesley
@LifeAsLesley Ай бұрын
“How do you not have a wall?” You heal your wounds and your trauma. Remember you’ve got take the wall down and replace it with a fence. Also too many women keep saying I cant be in my feminine energy bcos of the man, your energy is IN you its for YOU lol. If you keeping picking and choosing when to turn it on and off, its not flowing naturally lol. Heal ur masculine wounds so you’re not so guarded all the time. There is a difference between acting feminine and being feminine. ❤ I also love how Ashley said she grew up in NY too, and that she should unlearn the agression.
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Ай бұрын
how exactly does a woman "heal" and what is the trauma she is "healing" from?
@LifeAsLesley
@LifeAsLesley Ай бұрын
@ the trauma that made her masculine in the first place, e.g. being raised in way that makes you hyper-independent. Also being guarded with everyone is a trauma response, it usually stems from ppl abusing ur trust/cheating on you. Heal those wounds so you can become softer. In response to how do you heal, you forgive the people u can, so u can FREE yourself, you forgive yourself for what you allowed, and the parts you played in your own suffering. You shift your mindset, if you view all men negatively then you’ll have to change the way you see them so that you can be open to actually being in love. You go to therapy, you read books about healing etc. You also walk away from the ppl around who trigger you. You continuously choose peace.
@markcity1343
@markcity1343 Ай бұрын
I agree. I know plenty of Japanese women that work 7 days a week, walk and bus to work and are super feminine. Stop blaming the men
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
@@markcity1343damn that’s deep
@ItsMeMsAlpha
@ItsMeMsAlpha Ай бұрын
I can listen to Ashley's voice all day ❤
@moniquew3603
@moniquew3603 Ай бұрын
I need to know the details on Ashley's hair. Im loving the layers, so beautiful!❤
@victormuhammad2678
@victormuhammad2678 Ай бұрын
And what about the show content ?
@lelele3
@lelele3 Ай бұрын
I love the interaction with the First Lady. I could relate so much and what you said Ashley was so helpful. I've been hearing a lot about finding peace within yourself and embracing who you are. And radiating feminine energy.
@jojoco9840
@jojoco9840 Ай бұрын
What does she mean “I’m studying to try to become a lawyer.” She is not a lawyer but she’s trying to use the I’m trying to be a lawyer thing to raise her value in the dating market.
@hellokittyshitt
@hellokittyshitt Ай бұрын
Bingo!!
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
😂
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
@@jojoco9840 That doesn't raise their value in the market to men ma.
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 Ай бұрын
Yup. She sounds like an aspiring lawyer, pre law, got a LSAT book on her bookshelf. She’s definitely using it for clout.
@jojoco9840
@jojoco9840 Ай бұрын
@ lol I didn’t even peep the book. That’s her entire personality I bet
@Meee32123
@Meee32123 Ай бұрын
Ashley this hair is beautiful on you
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
FR. Guys Know who to prey on. FR. SMH
@sg5720
@sg5720 26 күн бұрын
OMG my husband said the same thing. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@BeauTCravez
@BeauTCravez Ай бұрын
Im so glad that I am newly divorced. Im in no rush after a decade of being married to hop into a relationship. Im not sure how serial daters do it because this is the peace and freedom I longed for for so long. Men approach but the lessons I’ve learned in a marriage allows me to not settle for just anything. I guess what I’m saying is ladies, I feel you to the core esp about wanting a man/husband and provider. Im here to tell you you can have all those things but if you don’t have a standard and stick to it you will settle for anything for the sake of being married only to be divorced and traumatized. Genuinly have fun when you date and reserve your peace, energy and body for someone who displays your standards. Anybody can get a husband but want you want is a successful marriage or at least one where if you divorce him you left with way more than what you came with. ❤❤ yall are so beautiful and im tired of these men making yall believe you have to settle! Take it from us who did settle and regret every moment of it. Thank God im free! I don’t mind being single in my bag even if it’s forever
@sg5720
@sg5720 26 күн бұрын
You said on another comment you married a pharmacist and said you know how dress etc. sounded like you knew the deal. WTF happened that now you divorce 🤔
@Dhdc999
@Dhdc999 Ай бұрын
I am an attorney and I would mention it because you can get connections. The problem is she is dating dusty men
@ItsMeMsAlpha
@ItsMeMsAlpha Ай бұрын
Not immediately
@riosworld700
@riosworld700 Ай бұрын
That’s your ego. Show your 🍆
@blacklionmystic6948
@blacklionmystic6948 Ай бұрын
She is not a lawyer she said she is trying to go to school to become one.
@JustGio1111
@JustGio1111 Ай бұрын
It’s always everyone else’s fault lol okay
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
You don't have to give eye contact if you're not comfortable with it. Whatever you're comfortable with ma. All shorty gotta do is vet good. Of course most frogs gonna come to her...but all you need is 1. Dont complain who you attract...just keep doing you, and the right man will come. You not doing anything wrong. You're very beautiful, and you have your head on right, and you got the right mindset. You're young & beautiful, so just keep vetting them and weining them off, and You WILL Be Good. Facts!
@ToriUptown
@ToriUptown Ай бұрын
what a nice comment ❤
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
@ToriUptown Its true
@christinabivins3839
@christinabivins3839 Ай бұрын
Been hearing that same advice all my life! Smh 😒 and I still get bums!!
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
@@christinabivins3839 80% are dating casual. So just keep vetting until you find the right 20%..then date those 20 and find the best ones out of those that you like and connect to.
@user-ec9rz7xh7e
@user-ec9rz7xh7e Ай бұрын
Ashley i love how you make everyone feel comfortable !
@Stillwatersrndp
@Stillwatersrndp Ай бұрын
She's too full of herself such that she appears to be bragging about who or what she aspires to be rather than who she actually is inside.
@sandraa.7794
@sandraa.7794 Ай бұрын
If you can’t tell the man that you are going to law school, you are talking to the wrong man. Perhaps that should be your barometer. Do I feel comfortable telling this man what I do? No? Then don’t take things further with him.
@vivicas1247
@vivicas1247 Ай бұрын
She is not ready to date!
@ItsMeMsAlpha
@ItsMeMsAlpha Ай бұрын
Shw needs to wait til after she passes the bar.
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
When's the next YT Live Ashley? We like those.
@Ah_Leh
@Ah_Leh Ай бұрын
In short, be mysterious.
@Queenlife101
@Queenlife101 19 күн бұрын
I feel like when you have social anxiety it is hard to seem relaxed or to even relax for that matter. I have that issue. I may seem mean and withdrawn, but really I’m nervous as hell lol
@jamipty
@jamipty Ай бұрын
👉🏽 I love when I see a new video on KZbin 🔥 Keep them coming Ashley! 😊
@PNAMIRACLES
@PNAMIRACLES Ай бұрын
Ladies do not sleep on simply 10- if you have that store. They have good workout sets only for under $20 total. Idk the name I like but they have different types of sets. They are so cute and feminine.
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
Nessy got the perfect energy for me. I was about to say that I like a little spice with my women. Then she says she's from NY, so that makes sense. I was just walking down the street thinking about women I knew that a few was too ratchet, so I definitely cut them off, but 1 was the Right Amount of hood & spice, and this shorty look just like her...and probably got that same energy as her....that I kinda miss, and wondering where she at now. Lol. But maybe that's why I like shorty. They look very feminine on the outside, and are very feminine to their man, but other's may see their spicy side If pushed. I Love it! Lol
@NoraHeartfix
@NoraHeartfix Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂ashley is the best❤🎉
@Iam123-i5j
@Iam123-i5j Ай бұрын
😂😂
@PorshaGomez
@PorshaGomez Ай бұрын
Southern people are far from soft lol… most of us are just kind and have manners.. don’t get it twisted though 😅🤣
@larose5028
@larose5028 Ай бұрын
That part! A southern belle is not a woman to be played with 😂
@PorshaGomez
@PorshaGomez Ай бұрын
@ No, fr! Will eat you all the way up and be strong as hell! Then turn around and pray for you 🤣
@L0stW0n
@L0stW0n Ай бұрын
Ashley is doing the Lord's work. Thank you Goddess!
@riosworld700
@riosworld700 Ай бұрын
Finally, Ashley giving solid advice to listeners even if it hurts their feelings. Some of us need therapy and it’s not a taboo. Well done 🎉
@Selenadork
@Selenadork Ай бұрын
2nd woman sounds like she doesn’t know what she wants
@temporamoresque
@temporamoresque Ай бұрын
“Don’t bring it up” is crazy advice. It’s a huge part of her life. Any normal human being would share what they do for a living. Why wouldn’t she? She should ignore this advice and only date only other professionals on that caliber
@sierra4763
@sierra4763 Ай бұрын
Men don’t really care about your career especially if there already rich
@temporamoresque
@temporamoresque Ай бұрын
@ Then it doesn’t matter to share it, does it
@sierra4763
@sierra4763 Ай бұрын
@@temporamoresque you literally explained why men don’t care about a woman’s money.Her money is her while a man’s money is to support the family and her🤦‍♀️
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 Ай бұрын
Exactly. How long can one be evasive about how they spend a large part of their day?
@Yeagerx2012
@Yeagerx2012 Ай бұрын
She acts like that’s a flex, they are running from the extra challenge. No real time & the demands of work
@CharisproductionFenix
@CharisproductionFenix 5 күн бұрын
Attitude is a huge one in a lot of women.
@prettiilexii672
@prettiilexii672 Ай бұрын
The red hair has to go once you leave college, ladies!!
@talkswithsinead6130
@talkswithsinead6130 Ай бұрын
Why though
@prettiilexii672
@prettiilexii672 Ай бұрын
@talkswithsinead6130 Ashley already explained why.
@Vhhandle
@Vhhandle Ай бұрын
@@prettiilexii672stripper vibes ? Or other reasons?😅
@talkswithsinead6130
@talkswithsinead6130 Ай бұрын
@@prettiilexii672 I’m asking you why, what’s your reason for saying that. Are you saying it because Ashley said it or do you genuinely believe that ?
@illegallygorguz
@illegallygorguz Ай бұрын
@@talkswithsinead6130it’s statistically proven that men of certain tiers do not take women with unnatural red hair seriously. They may sleep with them but that’s about it. Think of the most successful men in the industry you know and look at their spouse. 👌🏽.
@tilly012011
@tilly012011 Ай бұрын
I stop tell men what I do because the same thing was happening to me. Guys would hit me up for money or not send me cash apps. Just because I have my own don’t mean o don’t want to be provided for by a man. And no I am not a gold digger. I am very giving and down to help out my man if he down but I don’t want to be put in this independent woman box.
@thelessons3768
@thelessons3768 Ай бұрын
🧢
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
What do you mean provided for by a man?? Like if you have your own money for hair and nails would you still reach out to him even though you have more than enough to do it yourself? Just want to understand.
@larose5028
@larose5028 Ай бұрын
⁠@@DawgyjoeIt’s the same thing as how people never check on the “strong friend”. Just because a woman is perfectly compatible of paying for her own nails for example doesn’t mean it wouldn’t still be appreciated if her man was to offer.
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
@ I understand, but even if a man doesn’t offer then it is still a problem, so what’s really the point 🤷🏿‍♂️?
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 Ай бұрын
Just because he asks for money doesn’t mean you have to give it. The solution to being used isn’t hiding what you do for living, it’s saying no to requests for money.
@Iam123-i5j
@Iam123-i5j Ай бұрын
Shout out to the SBC Nation✊🏾
@malcolms3220
@malcolms3220 Ай бұрын
🫡🫡🫡
@workingonmyself
@workingonmyself Ай бұрын
🫡
@kekelavan8688
@kekelavan8688 Ай бұрын
I totally understand what she's saying about school. I had a guy tell me a run down of what men think of women's careers. Almost like the more successful the more promiscuous. Not saying it's right but it's just a first impression
@backho5882
@backho5882 Ай бұрын
Was he a black guy?
@cindymann3673
@cindymann3673 Ай бұрын
Sound la like a regurgitation of a former dating podcast facilitator.
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 Ай бұрын
That’s stupidity though. Those aren’t the men women should want anyway.
@backho5882
@backho5882 Ай бұрын
@@iriemo721 lazy women love a man who dont care bout her degrees.
@lovelyicy6395
@lovelyicy6395 Ай бұрын
Most wealthy men are married to other highly educated women with a working backgrounds. They don’t marry dummies and trophy wives with no brains. This is false
@donellsmith3539
@donellsmith3539 Ай бұрын
When you’ve been that person , going out putting what you do on display is unnecessary, when you’ve came up and never got attention the first thing a person like yourself wants to is showoff, a man or whom ever who’s there there can recognize it and they will not still mess with you
@laj4186
@laj4186 Ай бұрын
It's You, Not Them. Caller 1.
@TMCLLNH
@TMCLLNH 23 күн бұрын
New York makes sense
@MiniMovie005
@MiniMovie005 23 күн бұрын
Why would she think going to law school at 28 is a positive to a man? Humans don’t read the room. She better find a classmate
@nadanalia3000
@nadanalia3000 Ай бұрын
The second girl is so adorable ❤️❤️
@LindsayAmelia
@LindsayAmelia Ай бұрын
Her ego is provoked bc of her past experiences. She said it. “I used to tolerate xyz but now I’m studying law, don’t come at me unless…”. She should focus on God as she said in the beginning..not a man right now. She has a chip on her shoulder. She needs to develop the humility to be a good partner. Lots of pride. That needs to heal.
@taharqa332
@taharqa332 12 күн бұрын
She should focus on her education.
@shawntanash9720
@shawntanash9720 Ай бұрын
Hi I just want to know what time does Ashely go live on tik tok everyday ? Thanks
@ciciIBe
@ciciIBe Ай бұрын
In order to get a certain type of Man, Women should want to lead with God, Love, and Meekness. Leading with “Boss” gets you used or not taken seriously. I’ve seen it too many times.
@backho5882
@backho5882 Ай бұрын
No. Please dont lead with love when it comes to men. lead w common sense and knowledge on men.m and their nature
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
@@backho5882 should us men do the same? Cause men leading with love seems not to work too 🤷🏿‍♂️
@ciciIBe
@ciciIBe Ай бұрын
@@backho5882 do what works for you
@VariJStylez
@VariJStylez Ай бұрын
It’s crazy people telling women to not be proud of their accomplishments… not that Ashley said that but to not be willing to say what you do because it make scare someone off means they aren’t for you anyways
@ashleyldalton
@ashleyldalton Ай бұрын
Or people will count your pockets…
@tasintamron
@tasintamron Ай бұрын
I think it’s deceitful and I don’t really see the harm in telling someone what you do for a living (unless you’re a celebrity). I don’t see the harm in being honest. This is first date information, no?? If that scares someone off, they’re not for you like you said!
@bigtank6465
@bigtank6465 Ай бұрын
A woman can be proud of her accomplishments, but she needs to be very mindful of the energy she projects when interacting with a guy. This has nothing to do with scaring someone off. It's about the woman ensuring that she stays in her feminine role so that she can properly mate with a Man.
@Valley__
@Valley__ Ай бұрын
Hun you do know that some doctors/lawyers don’t tell ppl because they don’t want to asked several questions
@markcity1343
@markcity1343 Ай бұрын
It's so ironic watching women fall into the same trap that they themselves said was a turnoff from men 😂😂 "leading with accomplishments and their pockets" Modern womens ego and pride is getting so out of order they dont even know what turnoffs (or ON) the opposite sex.
@jasonhb1281
@jasonhb1281 Ай бұрын
Tina's ego is getting the best of her. She not geting bored of no man.
@laj4186
@laj4186 Ай бұрын
With the second caller you totally put words in her mouth from how long they dated to why it ended. Please let them talk so they can actually learn. Many of the girls that call in are not being honest.
@brittneymarshall2278
@brittneymarshall2278 5 күн бұрын
I never mention what type of school I’m in
@pro-muffins2721
@pro-muffins2721 Ай бұрын
Feminine energy on judgement while dating expecting to work towards education but not effort towards a committed relationship leading to marriage. 😢 4:15
@T_Amara257
@T_Amara257 Ай бұрын
The lady is giving “I’ll fight you” energy and I’m a woman 😂
@tatijas
@tatijas Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣., supposedly all black women give that energy.
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
I respect Ashley opinion, but I kinda disagree. Even if it's slight...it's not standoffish or unapproachable. She got the Right Energy for the right guy. If a guy is scared to approach her, that's on them. She seem cool to me. And I've hollered at women who always walked around with a mean face on...a few like that tbh. This shorty here aint even half like that. Her energy is Just Right to me. But that's just me. Fellas, chime in, to see if ya'll agree with me.
@betty568
@betty568 Ай бұрын
If you want her to win, you wouldn’t be telling her she’s fine the way she is, especially if it isn’t working for her. Ashley actually wants her to get better results
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
@@betty568 Well she didn't say she had a problem attracting guys. She just want to attract the right guys. And all she have to do is what she's been doing...vetting. Vetting and being patient. She wasn't doing anything wrong. Ashley was giving good advice that may attract more men...but those same type of guys won't stop hollering at her...cause she's already very attractive. If she takes that advice, she will definitely attract more of those dudes. But she will definitely attract more men, so maybe she can have a bigger pool to choose from then. But tbh, All you need is 1. I like her just as she is...based on what i see so far. My only thing with her is the lawyer thing. I'm very big on honesty..and lawyers lie for a living. I don't want a liar....so that's my only thing. So she isn't for me. But other than that, nothing wrong with shorty. We don't all have to be the same. It is what it is.
@betty568
@betty568 Ай бұрын
Would you see her as wife material if the lawyer aspect wasn’t there?
@whatthe3504
@whatthe3504 Ай бұрын
That’s cause u a simp masculinity isn’t good In a woman that’s why she single she ain’t on here for no reason.
@markcity1343
@markcity1343 Ай бұрын
Unfortunately, you prove the callers point and she is trying to NOT have men like you approach her. Are you so enchanted by her looks and energy that you did not understand the memo she just put out 😂
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 Ай бұрын
How far will someone get without saying what they do or in school for. That comes up early.
@jayo3074
@jayo3074 Ай бұрын
Red hair and tattoo
@brittanyb5942
@brittanyb5942 Ай бұрын
She’s a very pretty girl 😍 I think she should focus on finishing law school and worry about dating men after 🤷🏾‍♀️
@thelessons3768
@thelessons3768 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂 That's horrible advice... Women are clueless on how to advise women when it comes to men
@Gabby_glow
@Gabby_glow Ай бұрын
Nose ring , hair color, tattoos and attitude need to be changed
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
@@Gabby_glow Not necessarily. And she didn't have an attitude.
@stephaniemcdowell2368
@stephaniemcdowell2368 Ай бұрын
She’s not even in law school is she?
@starahmed8360
@starahmed8360 Ай бұрын
Nose plus the hair color doesn't work. It's a hair color I use to have early in my highschool day. It's not a hair color someone in late 20's should be having.
@szaszathebore8096
@szaszathebore8096 Ай бұрын
Looks busy and cheap
@malcolms3220
@malcolms3220 Ай бұрын
That hair color in one of the most conservative professions around plus the tattoos and nose ring….. probably not going to the upper tier law schools. It just looks…bad
@benaberry9252
@benaberry9252 Ай бұрын
Those things can be hidden , once she gets 2 the school, her overall scores, application, intelligence gets her in the school interview ​@malcolms3220
@AP-pm9qy
@AP-pm9qy Ай бұрын
I agree but at the same time - she has a lovely personality and she gives me “cute” vibes. I’ve seen people like her be in happy relationships. They tend to be really down to earth and sweet. I think she needs to be more assertive. She doesn’t give masculine energy. I feel like she looks like someone who is sure in herself but her energy gives me “uncertain” and “insecure”. Maybe because this is a video - but she comes across as nervous. Her confidence needs to come from who she is as a person. Created in the image of God. If she only sees value in herself because she goes to law school or cares for others - it is a shaky foundation and men can tell.
@19katsandcounting
@19katsandcounting Ай бұрын
@@AP-pm9qyshe may have social anxiety
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Ай бұрын
Men that are successful do NOT care about you trying go be a lawyer!!!!! edit: nothing about this woman says, "I'm a wife". This is a fun chic
@mrmoe110
@mrmoe110 Ай бұрын
They don’t understand that a man has to REALLY see you as someone special to put in the daily work to be in a long term relationship. The more demands she has, the less likely a man will want to actually deal with her. Most men are okay with just sleeping with a woman for 5-6 months then moving on to another. Most of the men that want to get married are men that have never been married. Men that have been married before are almost unanimously choosing to just date around.
@backho5882
@backho5882 Ай бұрын
When did black males become men?
@Omaccount-z6t
@Omaccount-z6t Ай бұрын
I think God is definitely giving me a hint 😂😂😂
@Pinkberryblue23
@Pinkberryblue23 Ай бұрын
Amazon sets
@ShannontheDivine
@ShannontheDivine Ай бұрын
Hey beautiful Ashley
@tasintamron
@tasintamron Ай бұрын
I don’t agree with the seeming mysterious vibe. No, I don’t think you should tell a man everything about you on the first date, but why not tell him you’re a lawyer? “What do you do for a living?” is one of the first questions that come up on a first date, so why not be honest? I personally see no harm in that, unless you’re a celebrity. I think that’s a little deceitful. If he/she draws conclusions about it, that doesn’t involve you. 🤷🏿‍♀️ Nothing is wrong with your energy! Just get out of your head!
@AP-pm9qy
@AP-pm9qy Ай бұрын
She should mention that she is in law school but make it sound like it’s not a big deal. Allow him to swoon for you. If he doesn’t act impressed (i.e wow that’s amazing, tell me more about that) move on.If she tells them she’s in law school and already makes it sound like it is a big deal - it doesn’t leave much room for him to get excited for her. And she will attract men that will want to “humble” her.
@CC-vv8zp
@CC-vv8zp Ай бұрын
I'm not saying she caping but my sister in law is a lawyer and I'm not saying she lying ... trying to be a lawyer and getting a bachelor or associate's in criminal justice is not the same as being in law school . Men don't date potential and no men are waiting for you to finish .. especially if you already have kids .. 28 and in school ...
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
That’s fair because if women won’t date potential then men should deserve to have the same mindset 🤷🏿‍♂️
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 Ай бұрын
😂 associates in criminal justice. Sounds pretty accurate.
@chevelleclinton582
@chevelleclinton582 Ай бұрын
@@Dawgyjoe yes I agree!
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
I didn't sense any masculine energy. But I hear ya. Shorty look good though. I would get to know her if I could...but idk about dating a lawyer...cause they lie for a living. A big thing for me is 100% Complete Honesty. So I would find it difficult to look at my woman as honest...if she lies for a living. Why? Cause certain jobs people Can't Do. I'm too honest, so that's not a position that I would thrive in or be successful in, so idk. Hmm 🤔
@markcity1343
@markcity1343 Ай бұрын
I see it 1000% and when she was called on it.. she throttle backed the word rolling and tumbling and then automatic went back to her default lingo a minute later The fact you wrote "I hear ya" and "Shorty" just means you are more accustomed to the energy.
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
@markcity1343 Yeah, she said later that she's from NY...so that makes sense now.
@iriemo721
@iriemo721 Ай бұрын
Stupidity. So the men who lie in relationships are lawyers? Judging people based on their profession is so stupid
@jayc5756
@jayc5756 Ай бұрын
@@iriemo721 Slowness FR. SMH 🤦‍♂️
@jl6523
@jl6523 Ай бұрын
Your hairs purple. Thats why.
@ItsMeMsAlpha
@ItsMeMsAlpha Ай бұрын
😂
@Dawgyjoe
@Dawgyjoe Ай бұрын
😂
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp
@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Ай бұрын
ladies, learn to be FEMININE and accept the fact that your man is the HEAD. This means you are subordinate to him. This is why older men want you on their arms. Older men do not see women as equal. you are not getting with that man UNLESS he is BETTER. So, why would you get with him an then think, "we're equal". You are NEVER equal to a man in a relationship. NEVER. you accept that at work with your boss. why can't you accept that with your husband?
@Luver4lyfe
@Luver4lyfe Ай бұрын
What is actually going on with people’s senses? How could you honestly say, that that which you and everyone in this world is BIRTHED FROM, is beneath a male? That is just ridiculous and insane. I’m sure you support abrahamic religions with this sort of talk points. Your spouse, is NOT YOUR BOSS or SUBORDINATE. What an awful correlation to make.
@Blahblahblah-b2d
@Blahblahblah-b2d Ай бұрын
Can someone give me advice on my skin I have acne scars and they are kinda deep 😢 I wear good makeup but I feel like I can probably use something else like a good primer or something to help me ! That’s my only skin problem 😢 but that’s brought to take me out
@tasintamron
@tasintamron Ай бұрын
My advice is turn to the internet! We have sooo much information at our fingertips. Do your thorough research, try a few products, nothing too extreme bc I wouldn’t want you to worsen your scars, and if nothing works-Go to a dermatologist!
@Blahblahblah-b2d
@Blahblahblah-b2d Ай бұрын
@ nothing has worked not even expensive products ! I don’t get pimples any more it’s just the scars
@Blahblahblah-b2d
@Blahblahblah-b2d Ай бұрын
@@tasintamron thanks 🙏
@tasintamron
@tasintamron Ай бұрын
@@Blahblahblah-b2d could be genetics, could be you picking at your breakouts, I’m not sure! If you’ve tried everything, keep trying. 😭 Or just learn to love your acne scars! That sounds cliche but once you do that, no one can ever tear you down about it.
@Blahblahblah-b2d
@Blahblahblah-b2d Ай бұрын
@ I’m 36 and yes they are old acne scars they aren’t going anywhere 😔I used to pick at my face a lot when I was younger I do love myself but I just wish something would help my skin
@AaliyahAmourr
@AaliyahAmourr Ай бұрын
last girl is so beautiful thought she was wearing a face filter. unreal
@Luver4lyfe
@Luver4lyfe Ай бұрын
She really is ❤
@MoiraPraline
@MoiraPraline Ай бұрын
Haitian
@laj4186
@laj4186 Ай бұрын
With the second caller you totally put words in her mouth from how long they dated to why it ended. Please let them talk so they can actually learn. Many of the girls that call in are not being honest.
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