She Exposes The Sad Reason Why Women Hate Average Nice Guys

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J.R. Wisdom

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@JRWisdom
@JRWisdom 6 ай бұрын
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@357Amun
@357Amun 4 ай бұрын
Women respect the ass holes.
@Expunge6667
@Expunge6667 6 ай бұрын
If you need to be checked and put in your place, you're not mentally stable enough for a relationship
@cgrphenomics7990
@cgrphenomics7990 6 ай бұрын
Bingo!!!
@RickyMoss
@RickyMoss 6 ай бұрын
That's just the cover up. A lot of it goes into the guy's features as well.. If the female isn't physically attracted to the guy Then it doesn't matter how nice he is. She will only link up for the safety net of getting stuff paid for her or being taking out, but she will still slide with the guy she finds physically attractive behind the other guy's back
@Expunge6667
@Expunge6667 6 ай бұрын
@@RickyMoss Yes, exactly. Guys like me will fall for it hook, line and sinker. I'm just not a mean guy. I'm boring. Too easy to get along with.
@mariefatime7628
@mariefatime7628 6 ай бұрын
Spot on! Honestly people are damaged. Protect your heart at all cost. Develop discernment to identify when someone is being manipulative and learn to walk away peacefully 💁🏽‍♀️ it got nothing to do with you being nice but you need to have boundaries regardless
@Expunge6667
@Expunge6667 6 ай бұрын
@@mariefatime7628 yes, exactly. At a certain point it's my own fault for not walking away when the signs are obvious. It sucks that so much manipulation exists but it is what it is.
@chrisdooley1184
@chrisdooley1184 6 ай бұрын
I’m a nice person. She has some valid points but bottom line is I don’t want to be with someone who I have to constantly ‘check’ and chase around.
@JohnWilkes-mg8di
@JohnWilkes-mg8di 6 ай бұрын
I used to be a ppl pleaser when I was young and desperate but life taught me how to adapt. Nobody's happiness is more important than your own because if you're miserable you're going to pass that energy on to the ppl around you. You have to learn that not everybody is going to like you and you have to be okay with that. You don't have to constantly "check" females. You can still be a good person. You just have to let it be known that you value yourself enough to walk away at the first sign of disrespect or being taken advantage of. I had a woman recently that was kind of dismissing me during the talking stage and not making me a priority so when she disappeared for a couple of days and came back with a bs excuse I didn't even bother to respond I simply walked away. And she continued to blow my phone up for weeks after that trying to get a response from me. A lot of times saying nothing to a woman is way more powerful than any quick witted comeback or overly aggressive display of masculinity could ever be. Showing that you can just simply walk away and leave her behind without a second thought is going to make her question her value as a person. She'll be like hold up this guy that I thought I was better than just rejected me how tf did that happen?
@betawolfhd
@betawolfhd 6 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, both you.
@7ookee
@7ookee 6 ай бұрын
Drama queens are a headache. They love the drama and actively seek it out. If your nature is to naturally be chilled these kind of women are toxic
@thesupervisor3270
@thesupervisor3270 6 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@saintreem
@saintreem 6 ай бұрын
Well she loves her some Kountry Wayne so what do you expect. 😅😂
@sabrinaneves-demps9496
@sabrinaneves-demps9496 6 ай бұрын
I'm 64 & I think it's a damn shame a man had to be controlling & not be nice. Modern women have it twisted! Being toxic is what they want, being Loved & handled with Care is Simp? That's crazy!
@terrancecooley3165
@terrancecooley3165 6 ай бұрын
I"m 40 and never even heard of this mess before this new generation have everything twisted and backwards I don't won't no part of this new era....
@ferrysetiawan6640
@ferrysetiawan6640 6 ай бұрын
Controlling doesn't mean not loving, not caring. But men must set the rules, the guidelines in relationship. Don't let women be influenced by social media
@Laoriginal718
@Laoriginal718 6 ай бұрын
True. But men are no different. They don’t want good women they want loose women.
@JLRJ
@JLRJ 6 ай бұрын
I'm 68 and have been nice all my life but a woman isn't going to run over me. If she tries then I'm gone. Simple as that! I'm not arguing,fighting or separating until it cools off! I know what I bring to the table and even at my age I'm not putting up with any nonsense,Period!💯
@lolo50198
@lolo50198 6 ай бұрын
I'm a late 70's early 80 baby. I can tell you things are different black women and men are going through their era of "free love" which wasn't free the end of that movement came with lots of people catching a disease "HIV/AIDS" that killed a lot of people, people date their environment
@Cynnas
@Cynnas 6 ай бұрын
Nice does not mean you're ok with being walked over. Nice is not in anyway a pushover. I married a nice guy who knows how and when to stand up for himself and be upfront and honest with me. He's a nice guy but never a pushover.
@bigboi0000
@bigboi0000 6 ай бұрын
If I have to put a supposed grown woman in her place I know then I am not dealing with a grown woman I am dealing with a child. Sincerely, The nice guy.
@Boosted454
@Boosted454 3 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿
@boycottactivision
@boycottactivision 6 ай бұрын
She unknowingly promoted Red Pill Men
@josephwhite3486
@josephwhite3486 6 ай бұрын
Stop simping fellas.
@knightrider1545
@knightrider1545 6 ай бұрын
I hear what you say but problem is, its a switch that Keeps comin back on, you can resist but urges you feel but it comes again and again it's not easy to ignore it every time you see a woman in the real world or online.
@WarlockX4
@WarlockX4 6 ай бұрын
​@@knightrider1545 you need more life experience and practice my friend. Once you turn it off for good it will never come back on.
@bxi1547
@bxi1547 6 ай бұрын
@@knightrider1545If you’re that desperate with no self control I don’t know what to tell you. Women will see your desperation as a weakness and use it against you.
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 5 ай бұрын
"But my single mommy told me women like simps🤓"
@knightrider1545
@knightrider1545 4 ай бұрын
@@bxi1547 how many years it too to get to where your at now?
@biggcebo
@biggcebo 6 ай бұрын
I think all of you are confused what nice means. Some how yall think Nice means weak... Yall got it twisted.
@terrancecooley3165
@terrancecooley3165 6 ай бұрын
Well spoken sir being humble is a sign of strength this new era is backwards....
@biggcebo
@biggcebo 6 ай бұрын
@@terrancecooley3165 I figured it out when a woman in the video separated the nice man from the good man. You cant separate them they are the same and exist in one man.
@Laoriginal718
@Laoriginal718 6 ай бұрын
Love should be mutual. It should be balanced. If the person loves you more than you love them leave them alone. And if you love them more than they love you leave them alone.
@varickwilliams5121
@varickwilliams5121 6 ай бұрын
Men are just frustrated that women make relationships soo damn difficult and complex. Too many women out here for man to lose his mind over just one of them.
@JamesLee-nw8kz
@JamesLee-nw8kz 6 ай бұрын
Fellas.. That means go full blown Ike Turner on these 304's..😂
@deniseeugene1852
@deniseeugene1852 6 ай бұрын
No it doesn’t
@anthonyabraham8534
@anthonyabraham8534 6 ай бұрын
Ya ass gon go straight tuh jail! Don’t listen to this person! Lol
@just2cool4u100
@just2cool4u100 6 ай бұрын
​@@deniseeugene1852For a lot of women, that is the only thing they will respect and respond to. That is a hard truth to accept.
@Laoriginal718
@Laoriginal718 6 ай бұрын
So find a woman who doesn’t need to be handled like an animal.
@verbalasswhooping
@verbalasswhooping 6 ай бұрын
😂...don't hit em...but make sure they know you will put your foot down and check $hit!
@SheritaLee-er4sp
@SheritaLee-er4sp 6 ай бұрын
Never beg anyone you lose all respect for yourself and that person you are begging, loses all respect for you as well.
@KakashiHatake008
@KakashiHatake008 6 ай бұрын
It's a balancing act, in today's world you can't be too much of either side or you're labeled as "too nice" or too "masculine". However what you said towards the end of the video when it's the guy she really wants all those supposed standards and rules go right out the window
@donoyster5309
@donoyster5309 4 ай бұрын
Yep, Either its "simping" or "toxic masculinity"
@dragonfly4494
@dragonfly4494 6 ай бұрын
Yeah,been there done that. The same women that are saying they want a hard man are the same ones crying that you are not emotionally available or vulnerable. You are too controlling . Women are never satisfied and will always complain.
@radley3519
@radley3519 6 ай бұрын
I love nice guys/ kind guys .. she deserves what she gets. Spiritual behavior is important-- they are on one.. i love a mild kind loving guy.. modern girls n3ed and love dominant men good luvk with that!
@harmonygritz2839
@harmonygritz2839 6 ай бұрын
So she is saying: dog me! because that's the only thing I respect!
@Orgizo08
@Orgizo08 6 ай бұрын
That’s not what she’s saying.
@jalensephus5395
@jalensephus5395 6 ай бұрын
@@Orgizo08she said “put her in her place.” That is method of dealing with children, not a full grown woman
@harmonygritz2839
@harmonygritz2839 6 ай бұрын
@Orgizo08 no, you're right : it's what I'm saying, that's how I would treat her
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 6 ай бұрын
Yes it is, unless your the clown the jumps into her ever changing frame. Lol, she dont want a good man either because hes "boring" and act "too much like an adult and is responsible".@@Orgizo08
@cezz1105
@cezz1105 6 ай бұрын
Yep! And most of the time, those kind of women are not wife material. Just fun girls!
@eagledefenseusa4799
@eagledefenseusa4799 6 ай бұрын
Yet Pookie and Ray Ray can still smash these 304s with no restrictions.
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 5 ай бұрын
Pookie is their Preference
@HarryClipzFilmz
@HarryClipzFilmz 6 ай бұрын
You just have to be assertive, call the shots, stand on business, be a guy who's ambitious or can hustle (it doesn't have to be drugs) have good hygiene, have some sense of style whether it be a suit, or wearing a fresh t and jeans, (mix it up) good cologne, have some form of game to speak to women and you will win. Practice your approach it's ok to get rejected with practice you will tighten up and be successful never settle to fail.
@asdfdc1946
@asdfdc1946 6 ай бұрын
bad argument. you can do all that & still be nice to people. the dudes that walk around trying to look hard be the softest.
@HarryClipzFilmz
@HarryClipzFilmz 6 ай бұрын
@@asdfdc1946 I said nothing about being hard bro. Reading is fundamental
@asdfdc1946
@asdfdc1946 6 ай бұрын
@@HarryClipzFilmz follow your own advice. reading is fundamental. you skipped over the part where i said you can do all that & sill be kind. the two things are no mutually exclusive. also i never said you said that, but you very much IMPLIED that you can't be nice AND do the things you listed at the same time. whats the opposite of being nice? being not nice. whats the analog to being not nice? acting hard. reading is fundamental. but also reading COMPREHENSION is a big part of it too which you seem to not have a firm handle of smh.
@HarryClipzFilmz
@HarryClipzFilmz 6 ай бұрын
@@asdfdc1946 You're right.......
@thedon0516
@thedon0516 5 ай бұрын
​@@asdfdc1946 How do you try to look hard?? What are examples of that??
@Aggie4life77
@Aggie4life77 6 ай бұрын
Bottom line is if she comes into the relationship and sees you as a nice guy from jump, she will never have respect for you! I don’t care what you do! You can be a nice /good guy and stand up for yourself and know when to check a chick her when she comes with some BS. It doesn’t matter if she doesn’t respect it from the beginning. Stay away from chicks that don’t respect you off the rip! Women that do this are typically very masculine of that use to dating a specific type of guy!
@deetaylor2202
@deetaylor2202 6 ай бұрын
And we shall not give a damn about it either 😂
@Mors2377
@Mors2377 6 ай бұрын
I tried being nice even though it went against what my OGs told me. Ive learned many lessons and knew during those times, my experiment wasnt giving me results that benefited me AT ALL.
@MsGGHisGirl24
@MsGGHisGirl24 6 ай бұрын
A real woman wants a real man. We don't want no pushover we need that guy that stands in his masculinity. We don't want a "yes" man. We don't respect the guy that we can get over on all the time. We need to hear "NO" for us to respect you. Start out as a man and always be one. A lot of women won't admit this but it's true. I'm a bit older and this may not be a popular opinion, but if a woman is honest with herself....what I've said will resonate.
@KH-qs1di
@KH-qs1di 6 ай бұрын
Women need to operate in their femininity. Start there first before commanding a man be in his masculinity. In terms of getting over on a guy all of the time, many women are sneaky when getting over, so a man will not have an idea of what she's doing.
@taharqa332
@taharqa332 6 ай бұрын
Your explanation makes far more sense that what she said in the clip.
@THEREALLORDJ
@THEREALLORDJ 6 ай бұрын
😴
@try8042
@try8042 6 ай бұрын
I heard a therapist say nice people are trying to please everyone without considering themself. They get burned out and used. Kind people consider their needs, and the needs of others, and come to a solution that takes into consideration everyone's needs while respecting their boundaries or capabilities. This changed my outlook and I also keep this in mind when I approach my partner for help.
@asdfdc1946
@asdfdc1946 6 ай бұрын
"I heard a therapist say nice people are trying to please everyone without considering themself." --- this is stupid. thats like saying all black people steal or all white people kiss their dogs in the mouth. its a generalization & its very dumb. not all people who are kind are people pleasers or pushovers. its odd that this difference needs to be explained to black women but not women of other races.
@rasjahson6261
@rasjahson6261 6 ай бұрын
Ask them have they ever been married with that attitude. Not with that attitude.
@pfeenxh
@pfeenxh 6 ай бұрын
Nice guys are what I call "get along to belong" guys
@user-ve6vw8zv9x
@user-ve6vw8zv9x 6 ай бұрын
Don't be a nice guy , the word nice means stupid
@donaldkkearse3986
@donaldkkearse3986 6 ай бұрын
This is true I learned from my father You don't have to carry a big club and drag your woman around by the hair. Because my dad was soft, spoken, and easygoing. Until the moment my mother felt like she could wear a Jack strapped.as well...🤨
@terrancecooley3165
@terrancecooley3165 6 ай бұрын
Easygoing doesn't mean you're a weak person you just see life as smooth sailing.....
@donaldkkearse3986
@donaldkkearse3986 6 ай бұрын
@terrancecooley3165 Right, I don't have time to react every little thing
@cezz1105
@cezz1105 6 ай бұрын
She'll be one of those women who get in they 40's,and single. Making tik tok videos, talking about there's no good men🙄
@Luke973T
@Luke973T 6 ай бұрын
Nice doesn't mean good. It just means that you're likely to pander to feelings and have a hard time telling people no.
@deetaylor2202
@deetaylor2202 6 ай бұрын
Ahhhh it never fails 🤣
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 5 ай бұрын
Pookie baby mama's number 9
@servinwetdik3455
@servinwetdik3455 6 ай бұрын
These women are actually correct. I've been saying this since 2007, "I'm a good man, not a nice one". There is a fundamental difference.
@Snake-eyes1980
@Snake-eyes1980 6 ай бұрын
Right after she said who she would sleep If she had the chance I would've told her your chance now I'm out and walked away.
@gerardmcmillan8591
@gerardmcmillan8591 6 ай бұрын
There is a difference between being nice and being a push over. That is with anyone in life.
@VEGASBIGDOGDASHERS
@VEGASBIGDOGDASHERS 6 ай бұрын
WORDS OF WISDOM LADIES IF YOU HAVE TO BE CHECKED BE PREPARED WITH WHAT COMES WITH THAT YOU WONT LIKE IT!! SO ADVICE BE RESPECTFULL TO THE NICE GUY INSTEAD YOU WONT GET ABUSED YOU WILL GET LOVED!
@1stthink236
@1stthink236 6 ай бұрын
Fellas bust it down and keep it moving..a woman who thinks this way will remember they F'd up later.
@trusno7751
@trusno7751 6 ай бұрын
Damn..I'm glad I come from an era, where you had to actually talk to a woman face to face, & you could be yourself without tryna pretend to be someone else that you are not...Men, make yourselves more valuable and resourceful, & the woman that's for you will show up in your life! These women today aren't looking for men that they can build with, they want someone to pay bills, & finance a lifestyle that they can't afford for themselves!🤞🏿💪🏿💯 And that last dude, with the woman telling him what she would do, hust confirmed what I was saying...I would've named every woman I could think of, when she said that bullshhh!
@kennymiles1481
@kennymiles1481 6 ай бұрын
Most nice guys aren't very attractive dudes or guys that struggle to get women to begin with which is why act the way they do! Any man with options would put a woman in her place easily.
@terrancecooley3165
@terrancecooley3165 6 ай бұрын
Wow smh that is some very discouraging news. I guess that is the one reason why females rather choose Lil pookie and Lil ray ray over a nice guy. I see why this world is so backwards and you new generation are definitely the problem.
@RickyMoss
@RickyMoss 6 ай бұрын
Yep Even a female said that oh you live. She broke it down, said his based on the man's level of attractive ness.. She stated she don't care if the man is nice if he isn't attractive A guy she's attractive to don't have to spend alot on her to keep her and he can get away with a lot more.. The guy that is taking care of her providing that she isn't finding attractive. She will only stay for the benefits in slide off with the guy she attracted to behind his back
@patpat4233
@patpat4233 6 ай бұрын
I tend to agree though i have a couple of very handsome friends who got their ladies walking all over them because too soft
@terrancecooley3165
@terrancecooley3165 6 ай бұрын
@@patpat4233 so she is saying the more the attractive the man is the less he got to spend money on her and the unattractive guy got to spend more money on her. At this point it's not even worth a try to approach a female nowadays.
@kennymiles1481
@kennymiles1481 6 ай бұрын
@@patpat4233 It could be an attractive guy that is lacking financially foe example so the woman is the head of the pack
@livelaughlove1259
@livelaughlove1259 6 ай бұрын
Lol because my husband is an extremely nice guy. And trust me I’m very vocal but I don’t play any games with my husband. Just one look and my mouth is closed😂
@MrKavonne
@MrKavonne 6 ай бұрын
She does make valid points and I'm a nice guy.
@herecomesdatrain
@herecomesdatrain 6 ай бұрын
She's right BUT why is she checking her phone
@ThatGuy-xx1mq
@ThatGuy-xx1mq 6 ай бұрын
You have to stop being a nice guy. Read this book to help you break the habit; Not Nice by Dr. Aziz Gazipura
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 6 ай бұрын
Good men dont get chosen either, this is that i dont like nice guy but good men fake argument because they typically choose Pookie, she likes good men because her idea of one would love her regardless of her past.
@terrancecooley3165
@terrancecooley3165 6 ай бұрын
​@@poindextersheelturn436exactly 💯
@davidmoody4671
@davidmoody4671 6 ай бұрын
Thank you for that. It really makes me think!🤔
@darrylherman916
@darrylherman916 6 ай бұрын
Nice doesn't mean Good; and Good doesn't mean being Nice All the time. People want to know what the boundaries are - this way they can set their own boundaries because they see a model example that works for someone else. A woman doesn't want to be put in her place technically; because she is her own sovereign being - however she does look to a man who can aspire, and be devoted to that aspiration, and will Cut anything loose that doesn't serve that Aspiration - The same goes for a woman. You don't have to be an A-hole to have respect; just be free in your own power of knowing the truth of your divinity - you don't need to please but we need to find a balance between showing love and over-giving.
@poindextersheelturn436
@poindextersheelturn436 6 ай бұрын
That makes no sense, women just want an everlasting atm that doesnt want sex in return. Like a child going on a everlasting shopping spree in toys r us with no time limit. The thing is she dont want a good man either, only and up until shes has had Pookies 5 chidlren then its time for a good man to take care of her and those bastard children. I wish men who bind over backwards trying to justify her comments would see this.
@SuperTabbat
@SuperTabbat 6 ай бұрын
@@poindextersheelturn436So you don’t know how to leave them gold diggers alone yet?
@Nom_AnorVSJedi
@Nom_AnorVSJedi 6 ай бұрын
Women like being ‘put in their place’? What happened to feminism? Does they violate #MeToo ??
@gail242
@gail242 6 ай бұрын
#metoo means you have been SA before. It has nothing to do with feminism. It was made to show other women they aren’t alone.
@robertsoto5713
@robertsoto5713 6 ай бұрын
The nice guy thing is so dumb. Now it’s an insult. So whenever a girl tells ya that. Just say that’s cuz I’m not interested in you u can a be a friend maybe.
@lrussell4079
@lrussell4079 6 ай бұрын
My man only puts me in my place when it comes to others.
@mr6foot687
@mr6foot687 6 ай бұрын
She said "Strong women".........🤔💪🏾😒😂
@Kyronetta
@Kyronetta 6 ай бұрын
I agree with her about nice guys.
@mydude8731
@mydude8731 6 ай бұрын
Blind leading blind kyronetta smh cheating ahh
@codylewis6829
@codylewis6829 6 ай бұрын
I agree too
@rjules1083
@rjules1083 6 ай бұрын
There’s a difference between nice and overly sensitive or a pushover. A man is desirable when he has firm healthy boundaries. Everyone should try their best to be nice to their partners
@Kyronetta
@Kyronetta 6 ай бұрын
@@rjules1083 absolutely. I don’t mind nice but it’s the overly nice and the fact they don’t stick up for themselves
@Kyronetta
@Kyronetta 6 ай бұрын
@@mydude8731 what you mean? I’m just saying when they are so nice that they let others walk over them. That’s what I don’t like or it’s not attractive.
@delreal1000
@delreal1000 6 ай бұрын
I m learning this more and more getting more firmer natural I always been that nice now I find myself more stern with prop in general guess age and things u go through make u look at people diffrent and more tougher
@aestheticmarc
@aestheticmarc 6 ай бұрын
They will toy with the nice guy but They will leave the good man also . Structure is boring when they can just ride around smoking with no standards
@Kyronetta
@Kyronetta 6 ай бұрын
And this is what some men are telling other men.
@onlooker4564
@onlooker4564 6 ай бұрын
It is possible to have a nice guy that is able to lead and keep his woman in her place...
@codecaine
@codecaine 6 ай бұрын
They really think guys would be hurt in the comments but it is the opposite. It is exactly the type of women we try to stay way from.😂
@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor
@CorneliusSmalleliterealtor 6 ай бұрын
Had this convo with my wife. Both of us would be considered good and nice, I said women give the players, thugs and controlling men full access for free no rules or regulations. Hoping they’ll change. Yet the good and nice guys are forced to wait, spend money and left out in the cold. it can be months if not a year(s) where it’s different women same script. And when they finally get 🍪 they’re out of practice. I said nice guys should just pretend to be naughty, get her to fall for him, then flip the script and start showing he cares. She didn’t like the idea. I said why? you’re both getting what you want. Her: it’s still a lie. Me: not if you’re ultimately getting what you both want. Most people we meet are the representative they want you to see. Reformed street people definitely don’t show they’re for the streets, Shouldn’t it be a happy surprise? Her: No, because if it fails it’s still another body. Me: it was going to be a body anyway from the bad guy or do women not count them? Her: it’s just not right, just don’t like the idea. Me: So the good guy should just continue to waste time and money on meaningless dates. Her: 🤷🏾‍♂️ I don’t know but don’t lie.
@motherofthreeb6337
@motherofthreeb6337 6 ай бұрын
I have a "nice guy" who leads our household. I'm not sure what she's talking about. We've been married 17 years at the end of this month! My husband's not a pushover, and I don't "walk all over him"! I respect him and his role as head of household.
@Iaaamkc
@Iaaamkc 6 ай бұрын
I’m not nice I’m kind there’s a difference.
@jasonarcovio6923
@jasonarcovio6923 6 ай бұрын
"The Way of Men", by Jack Donovan. He asks the question; "What does it mean to be a Good Man, versus being good at being a man"? Clearly defined!
@dingo1yongo
@dingo1yongo 6 ай бұрын
I you can show respect to a client who may be a total stranger, why wouldn't you respect someone that you have a relationship with. Why must you have your leash yanked like a dog before you can respect your man.
@VideoGamera
@VideoGamera 6 ай бұрын
Forget nice. Just use the term non-criminal.
@paulf144
@paulf144 6 ай бұрын
Second chick is right. You have to respect yourself and that means not letting a woman run over you or disrespect you.
@brandonholloman6835
@brandonholloman6835 6 ай бұрын
If there is one thing I have realized, woman respect a guy who cheats on them all the time 🤷
@Nehesi
@Nehesi 6 ай бұрын
Women generally hate being cheated on - they want a Man who is CAPABLE of cheating to choose not to.
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 5 ай бұрын
Nothing attracts women better than having other women this is why players are so successful with women
@MisterJackson-so9lo
@MisterJackson-so9lo 6 ай бұрын
Jesus I am so glad I am single. That toxicity got modern women gone with the wind.
@MCClark
@MCClark 6 ай бұрын
A nice guy is inherently nice and all he knows is to be nice, no matter what… As the woman said, nice guys finish last, and it’s not a bad thing, it’s just that being nice will get you used… A good guy, is in general a dangerous man… He didn’t begin as a nice guy, he’s done bad shit; been the bad guy, stepped on toes and may have even attempted to or has killed people… The good guy is now CHOOSING to be a good guy, not so much a nice guy because that danger is still within him, he just chooses to keep it at bay…
@sergioauguste9956
@sergioauguste9956 6 ай бұрын
These 304's are a epidemic to our society!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@deetaylor2202
@deetaylor2202 6 ай бұрын
And needs to be put on a leashes 🤣
@suzrmx250
@suzrmx250 6 ай бұрын
I don't want a woman who can't appreciate a nice guy . Nice guys those chick's aren't for you cut ties and move along qa
@dennisellis327
@dennisellis327 6 ай бұрын
It's sad how some women don't respect nice guys but will respect the opposite type of a nice guy. It's really nothing new . It's been going on since the beginning of the dating game and it is being more expose and seen on social media. I'm trying to figure out who get disrespected more between the two genders. Young black women and young black men are outta of control .. When one gets outta of hand between the two, the other refuses to put in check by the other. The nice guy gets nothing but harsh treatment from the woman he likes or has a crush on..
@JRWisdom
@JRWisdom 6 ай бұрын
Is this true?
@Marchaund
@Marchaund 6 ай бұрын
Women love a self-centered (which means standing on his square) type guy. A bestial clean cut guy who treats himself like the King of his own world will end up treated that way by most people (men or women). Assertive, decisive, and self-determined even to the point of violence-----------> Equals sexy........PERIOD. That personal profile topped off with kindness (NOT IDOLATROUS SIMP BEHAVIOUR) is a no lose combination but we must remember a hard woodie makes a soft brain EVERYTIME.
@Cravenn5
@Cravenn5 4 ай бұрын
🤦🏽‍♀️ This is the modern women and why marriage rates are hella down. The disrespect is next level… A masculine man who is a nice guy is possible. ❤
@marissacs4349
@marissacs4349 6 ай бұрын
I have very suddenly see, intelligent women answering these.
@daimonmarioperez9501
@daimonmarioperez9501 6 ай бұрын
The first woman is Sarah from KW skits.
@jayval8ty4
@jayval8ty4 6 ай бұрын
Wait… she blamed him for not fixing her… she’s broken and basically looking for a man to deal with her bull shit. “He didn’t put me in my place” huh? How about not acting like a child.
@gcforTRUTH
@gcforTRUTH 6 ай бұрын
Never known that, but now I know. 😑
@taharqa332
@taharqa332 6 ай бұрын
So based on her comment; a good man will put himself before her in a relationship and stand 10 toes down for himself at all time....These women are crazy.
@winstonjwingo
@winstonjwingo 6 ай бұрын
I'm too old to be trying to put my woman in place. I don't have time for that. You can be confident and independent all you want, I don't want the extra stress and load management.
@TOMMY-LEE-PICKLEZ
@TOMMY-LEE-PICKLEZ 6 ай бұрын
Basically what I heard is they like violent an toxic..so we making toxicity acceptable now
@Nehesi
@Nehesi 6 ай бұрын
They like the CONFIDENCE toxic Men display. Confident Men make them feel safe to reside in their Feminity. The issue is they haven't learnt discernment to tell when a Man is toxic vs when a Man is merely confident. Pookie and Ray Ray are confident because they are not concerned with the outcome. Nice guys usually are, so they supplicate and placate, which turns most Women off.
@gilgamesh2007
@gilgamesh2007 6 ай бұрын
Women are not children if I gotta put you in your place something is wrong she should know her place and of she don't and I have to teach her I don't want her
@carolynr7291
@carolynr7291 6 ай бұрын
That's Sarah from Wayne's skits..
@doncnunez6231
@doncnunez6231 6 ай бұрын
Is the first girl Sarah from Kountry Wayne's skits?
@reggieeverett90
@reggieeverett90 6 ай бұрын
Looking at the comments. You can be a nice guy and still be strong. Be a man of conviction and don't put up with her shyt tests and walk away and mean it. If she comes back, great if not move on. If you have anything she values, she'll be back.
@Dru2maBoii
@Dru2maBoii 6 ай бұрын
A woman's existence is a contradiction
@msk7458
@msk7458 6 ай бұрын
This is how damaged people Operate not ‘women’. Stop generalization
@Nehesi
@Nehesi 6 ай бұрын
Most Women are damaged between Feminism, the Government, Single-Parenting and Capitalism telling Women "You don't need no Man"
@ronaldm.haynes6042
@ronaldm.haynes6042 5 ай бұрын
Isn’t that Sarah from the Wayne Skits?
@gian19791
@gian19791 6 ай бұрын
Stand in your masculine frame
@lolo50198
@lolo50198 6 ай бұрын
Their is a difference between being nice and knowing God anytime someone's wronged me they always lost more and had to come back then i become the man she wants when i reject her
@elliotsober7042
@elliotsober7042 6 ай бұрын
Got to hear this jsmh
@tadtires325
@tadtires325 6 ай бұрын
Always remember that a good quality woman does not have to be checked and a good quality man doesn't have to be checked or chased. Today's women are losing their quality and are becoming not worth the time for the men. Our men need to step up their games and just simply choose and do better!
@dianag.5652
@dianag.5652 6 ай бұрын
It's true, all of it.
@anybodycangetit-e1s
@anybodycangetit-e1s 6 ай бұрын
I would probably get canceled for this but if I was a younger man at this point as society is going trying to be in a relationship or marriage is absolutely pointless I mean other than sexual urges needing to be satisfied is the only purpose a woman would serve because you would never get peace and genuine love and respect from a woman
@Orgizo08
@Orgizo08 6 ай бұрын
She’s right. Nice guys aren’t actually nice either.
@terrancecooley3165
@terrancecooley3165 6 ай бұрын
How do you know that...
@Juug-Man-Jess.
@Juug-Man-Jess. 6 ай бұрын
Because they think that being nice to her is gonna get them closer to her puss and women can see that's and that's fake, thought about it and it's tru😂😂😂
@GoatHolyfield
@GoatHolyfield 5 ай бұрын
Pookie ain't nice either doesn't stop women from letting them hit🤷
@brooklynbred1460
@brooklynbred1460 6 ай бұрын
There's a KZbin site called twisted crimes. I imagine these women will be on it
@dennisellis327
@dennisellis327 6 ай бұрын
To certain extent point in life it makes you wonder does it really pays off to act and be nice toward some women in 2024!!
@Alphadog1174
@Alphadog1174 6 ай бұрын
1:00 no self worth.
@justthatsimpleamerika5256
@justthatsimpleamerika5256 6 ай бұрын
Before I finish this video. Men don't always know when to check they woman, nor do some men know when she does something that she should check
@Runndeep
@Runndeep 6 ай бұрын
When a woman comes into your life, you should ask yourself a question. Does she make me want to be a better man, if not let her go. Simple
@lolo50198
@lolo50198 6 ай бұрын
Like Cardi B said "Be careful with me", I'm God's child
@errolneal9789
@errolneal9789 6 ай бұрын
I would encourage young to focus on themselves and God. Make something of yourself and put your blinders on. You are bound to find someone who compliments and appreciates you and forgives your flaws while you walk that path.
@tropicvibe
@tropicvibe 6 ай бұрын
I don't think these women have any idea what a good or nice man is. A nice man won't disrespect, belittle, or insult a woman but can be quite capable of it if pushed. What they happen to be talking about is a chump, not a nice guy. A true nice guy may also be a good man that possesses mental, emotional, and spiritual qualities that does not allow himself to be preoccupied with the childish whims of the women that were commenting in this video.
@user-rh4od2wg3g
@user-rh4od2wg3g 6 ай бұрын
Maybe for her but, not all women are thinking in this manner, weather you put a label on men it's a mistake and can be dangerous, make up your mind, rather have a man respect me than to have him disrespect me, let's not label men good, nice or bad, women just get it together and make a decision on what will work for you and the man you would like to be with, never disrespect the man and the man never disrespect the women, just work together and forget about the label's we use to describe one another.
@VEGASBIGDOGDASHERS
@VEGASBIGDOGDASHERS 6 ай бұрын
This world is fucked up that a woman can not just be respectful that she needs a man to check her respect we control ourselves not to be disrespectful but females we have to do that too? Dont we do enough in this world!
@gian19791
@gian19791 6 ай бұрын
You can lead without being a bad boy never cross a line from the sand 😮😅
@LizEdwards
@LizEdwards 6 ай бұрын
Wait so good men are not nice? Are they suppose to be a-holes?
@labenbrittenum6934
@labenbrittenum6934 6 ай бұрын
MY GOD IT’S A WRAP!
@kiranholt3296
@kiranholt3296 6 ай бұрын
NOT ALL WOMEN THINK THE SAME!!!! DUDES NEED TO STOP BRAINWASHING EACHOTHER!!!!!
@Nehesi
@Nehesi 6 ай бұрын
"Not all Women" is technically correct. If you, however, are a Monkey and 10 Lions are coming towards you and, statistically speaking, ONE of them is Vegan, are you gonna stick around and HOPE you choose the right one?
@reginaldmagee3586
@reginaldmagee3586 6 ай бұрын
Has Atlanta become Oz???🥴😕
@18wheelzofsteel53
@18wheelzofsteel53 6 ай бұрын
Just get your money and stop trying to please these damaged women 😂. This all goes back to not growing up in a two parent household with no structure. All of what they described was them disrespecting men just because they feel they can do so. You don’t just try somebody just because. That can turnout to be dangerous for you.
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