She Got Drunk At Her Wedding So I Brought Him Anyway & Her Fiancé Saw This Crazy Woman's True Colors

[@lydiahunter7650]

From one mother to another who has sons on the A.D.S. YOU ROCK!!! I can't tell you how happy it made me to hear how you stood up for your child.

[@aminahal-zarqah9269]

Having a few autistic grandchildren I have learned that just like, "normal" children you judge each one on what they can handle, most of my grandchildren are high functioning so taking them to a gathering, wedding etc ... would normally not be a problem. Just remember, to have backup help handy just in case. Unfortunately I have one grandchild that is very much like old shows would show autistic children. Rocking, humming to herself, when in a bad spell she will even beat her head against the wall. I love them all the same and when I am around them, I remember to talk softly, and calmly. Remember, they have feelings also. Always love them. A proud Grandmom

[@valeriewilleto5583]

Holy double styx, how can anyone, especially an auntie, treat her nephew so badly? Breaks my heart!❤😢

[@rathorclemenger6125]

I don’t blame OP for doing what she did. The sister was something else.

[@bayoustgirl]

Her sister was a piece of work. Good for you Op.

[@lindadobranetski6302]

I have three grandsons and the youngest too are autistic the youngest non verbal. I would never change any of them, I love them the way they are.

[@SuperGrandmother3]

she did the right thing & evidently his sister didnt know that her brother ran an foundation like that or just didnt care. also op could have said something about her sister's alcoholism & her just bailing her out again the night before. OP's son is such a treasure.

[@sheliawaymon9023]

The world is made up of different kinds of people. But that's what makes the world go round!!! My grandson has autism and he is very intelligent and I love him dearly.

[@metalmouth0413]

OP'S sister was wrong. She is ashamed of her nephew. OP was right for protecting her son, and she reaped what she sowed.

[@Laceycurls]

OP did everything with class and grace. I applaud her Myself I probably wouldn’t have went to the wedding. I like the way she played it. I’m glad her fiancé seen her true superficial self.

[@nimisilverbird1239]

Nta. Sister should have been honest. She is a nasty lying bridezilla

[@sandhermit3665]

Love the stocking cap with the wedding dress.

[@daishawilliams8301]

Op did the right thing by protecting her son and the sister's husband finally saw her true colors and dropped her.😂😂

[@karenbaldwin2867]

Damn, I have to say that woman is more toxic than nuclear waste!! She should do everybody a favor and wear biohazard yellow with black stripes. Everybody deserves a fair warning about her personality especially her soon not to be husband.

[@TehAnshiTunes]

OP saved Fredrick from years of abuse. Good on her.

[@danavalenzuela1885]

I work in family services, and autistic. Kids are my absolute favorite.

[@robertx8020]

The kids are all vampires? (looking at their teeths) ' but they can survive in the daylight? Amazing 🤣 Sorry, couldn't help myself

[@rossconnelly6660]

My Grandson suffers from autism and adhd ,but he is also very clever and loving and can interact with others and will never have him mistreated or excluded from any events.

[@sammyparson9641]

i don't suffer from autism.

[@davidleeroth1968]

op lost me the minute she walked away without saying a word hearing her sister say those things about her son…any half decent parent would’ve exploded and unleashed hell on earth had it been said about their child…chronic victim

[@paulajeanhaigh-nr1oy]

I would have protected my daughter the same way. My daughter is 21 years old now & she's autistic. I tell you family members can be worse towards an autistic child more than strangers. My narcissistic mother she said to me I won't ever look after your daughter I couldn't handle it. My mother also said she needs to stop yelling & screaming you need to make her stop it & you need to make her sleep properly at night time. My daughter's yelling & screaming isn't a tantrum it's out frustration & sometimes sensory overloads but my mother wasn't interested in hearing that. My narcissistic mother even said to me you just want her to be autistic so you can get $6000 for her. I said to her I don't know what you're talking about as I honestly didn't know. Then my mother said to me you're meant to get $6000 for a child under 6 years old of they are autistic I know because I googled it. I said really well if you paid a speck of attention to my daughter(your granddaughter) newsflash she's 10 years old she's not under 6 years old. That made my mother shut up. I never got any kind of money for my daughter. Even when my daughter was officially diagnosed with ASD(autism spectrum disorder) at 14 years & 6 months of age we still got no money. Now she's 21 years old we still don't get any big lump sums of money. So whatever my mother is on about she needs to go do more research. My mother is the money hungry one not me. I still only get the normal $650 one week & $145 week two. That's it. To support my daughter so where & what big lump sums of money. It's the same amount from when she was a little kid.

[@TinaMoore-uj5nj]

U r so right! Family will hurt u more than strangers will! Especially with an us having an autistic child! I have a 21 yr old autistic daughter!! But theez r the same ppl that always hollered about familyyyyyyyyyyy! F them my child is Always a Blessing in this world

[@delorescannon455]

@@TinaMoore-uj5nj Amen to that

[@ericoxner326]

I guess this proves that all people are shallow.And now because of her cruelty.Shes is all alone even her own parents wants nothing to do with her.Will she change or end up all alone.Who knows I think she's gonna grow old bitter.

[@cliffordhall6379]

Why does the sister always wear a hat ,even in her wedding dress 🤣🤣🤣

[@foryahallums5557]

He can’t come I don’t come🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@JP-eh4ee]

I hope Aida is also exposed

[@aleksandarvil5718]

Evan = BASED CHAD MVP 💯🤩👍

[@Mama_Bear_of_3]

While I 100% agree with that the sister was wrong in not inviting her nephew because he autistic, i do have to say that depending on the level of ASD, a wedding would be overestimating for some autistic kids. All 3 of my kids are on the spectrum. While my 2 youngest at that age would have handled it fine, my youngest would have been a mess. A parent knows what their autistic child can handle, and sister should have let OP decide wheter her son would be ok at the wedding or not.

[@torgiebride8558]

I completely agree, they could've even had some sort of civil discussion about maybe some sort of more calming accommodation. I know my husband as a grown man has issues with large crowds at times. Even at family events I'll find him kinda huddled in a corner, breathing heavy, being quiet. That's his way of telling me he needs some help, and some extra support. 🤷‍♀️

[@laurabenevelli6783]

I have known / know people on the spectrum. It’s a matter of knowing your child / family member. There are some people on the spectrum that can’t even handle if company comes over to their home. There are others who, with support, can go to a large wedding or event without to much of an issue as long as they know their support is there for them.

[@lindadobranetski6302]

I agree my youngest grandson is nonverbal autistic and gets overwhelmed while my middle grandson is ok.

[@lindadobranetski6302]

I agree

[@heatherbeau4759]

Not one of us is perfect. Ever. If you can't see that you are blind where it counts.

[@rashadthompson3073]

If my son isn't welcome neither am I.

[@georgegarvey7338]

Oh yes, revenge is so sweet.

[@CeliseJefferson-pn3er]

It was Her wedding. If you were bothered by it, you should have stayed at home. You are entitled! People are shallow, but you are not entitled!

[@beckyp2165]

This oP is just as horrible a person as the sister She decided to go and bring her son that was not invited The boy shouldn’t have been there and then for revenge you had the child make a big spectacle to expose the sister. You had him go on stage and give her a gift You as the OP planned event performance to get back at your sister. You even went to the bachelorette party hoping to confront her. It is her wedding her decision to make, you had your wedding and did what you wanted You are the AH You are just as horrible human as your sister! How can you criticize her when you are worse None of your wishes and feelings should be considered ( and I am Not a hateful person/ I will treat all the same / I am very involved I. A child’s life who has higher end Autism. I will fight for any child to make sure they are not mistreated BUT you didn’t care about your child you wanted everyone to know your sister didn’t invite him to the wedding And had Your Son go on stage. You knew what was going to happen.

[@lelandsmith4809]

Why does the boy have cannibal like teeth

[@arealone7863]

Op said sh didn't want to expose her while the update b4 said did i try to expose her to the wrong ppl l😂😂

[@ladyhellfire75]

I have to wonder if the sister isn't on some slight level of being on the spectrum herself

[@titolieb2689]

ESH, OP should’ve just refuse to go to the wedding once she ban her son. Taking Evan to give her a gift when he was banned from the party was an AH move, she deserved it? Probably, but even if she deserved it you still ruined her wedding and exposed her. OP had her revenge, but she clearly didn’t handle it in a mature way, she was petty. She should’ve reject the invitation, and when everyone wonders why she is not going the truth would’ve come out anyways.

[@aleksandarvil5718]

OP = NTA OP’s _"sister"_ = KAREN 💯🔥💩

[@mikebrant97]

What's with the vampire teeth on the kids

[@trixmania]

The sister was afraid of the boy cos he might bite her and give her his germs 😂

[@bernardjohnson6747]

Y’all trippn that’s her wedding no matter how messed up she is! I wud have blocked her an not come he was gonna find out either way

[@Darzvar]

E

[@Cookingdairy98]

🍰

[@jeanninelockridge5235]

If I had gotten married it would have been child free. I've been to weddings were there are kids running everywhere and caring on during the ceremony. Not good.

[@sandhermit3665]

I like kids at a wedding. I come from a big family and the kids always behave and are appreciated.

[@oneuup2490]

I disagree with this story I disagree with what the op did. Yes he's her son and I will be disgusted with my sister for not inviting my child because of his issues. But that will only set a precedent for me to not go around my sister anymore I would cut her off I could care less about what her life ended up being because once you say that to me when my children are a part of my life, there is no more sister live on there's no family there's no blood there's nothing we are over with. But going in there and making a scene at someone's wedding because mind you, if it was any other reason besides her son being autistic and somebody being gay, you all would have been sitting here standing in ovation sand to this lady that is your sister's wedding, she can make calls. And that's one thing you don't realize it's not opie's wedding it's not her son's wedding it is her sisters and her sisters fiance wedding so however the decision she made and she don't want someone at her wedding she's more than welcome to have that decision but that doesn't necessarily mean that op can allow her to stay in her and her child's life.

[@TraceyBoyland]

Well said

[@LetsPatchItUp]

The O.P. was right to FeeL bad about the way her sister was behaving, however, she was Very wrong for her revenge behavior. This was her sister's day and she had no right to destroy it. She placed herself before the person who was supposed to be first in this situation. There are times and places where honest discussions should take place. Before the wedding she could have had the fiance meet the family without his family around, in a low pressure environment that would be comfortable for the child with autism also. I can't imagine how he reacted when his beloved Aunt slapped a gift away that he was giving her. She used her son like a pawn for her own righteous anger. That revenge wasn't for her son, because it's a hurtful thing to do to him and children need their illusions that family is love until they can understand WHY it sometimes isn't. It's absolutely cruel for an adult to use a child to be underhanded towards another adult. This was NOT OPs moment, it was her SISTER'S! It seems the relationship lasted years before they were married with a long period between proposal and wedding. There was more than plenty of time to work it out or opt out of attending. O.P. was wrong, no matter who else was also wrong. There's zero points for O.P.s behavior. Cruel to both her sister and her son. I believe making it right us always better than being right when the end result is understanding and love. This was devisive and broke and tore through all involved leaving hurt and destruction in its wake. She made the situation worse and resolved nothing Fixed nothing For nothing Everyone lost

[@lisaflowers8654]

OP was not "protecting" her son by bringing him to the wedding. Protecting him would have been to keep him away from the situation. Instead, OP used him to be vindictive, and he deserved better than that treatment. Her sister's behavior would have come out on its own, as it always does in situations like this.

[@BaxterAndLunala]

So you're telling me someone with autism shouldn't be at a family event all because of one person's own stupidity? I have autism, and what you said is offensive.

[@glitchyboi-nk1qv]

Her sister was leaving out her Som because she thinks people with autism are some creature rather than a person you could tell with how she spoke

[@antoinettebates244]

OP...Why did you lie to your Mother at the dinner? You should not have gone to the wedding. Excuses are all she could give. Drop it..DON'T GO!!

[@claytonrichardson3201]

“ I knew it was true love” lmaooooo no it’s true money, that’s all she cares about. The money and status of marrying into that family. Anyone who thinks otherwise is out of touch

[@pwstraw938]

THIS STORY WAS NICE 😂 LOVED IT.. EVERYONE GETS SHOWED TO OTHERS THERE TRUE COLORS. THAT SAD THE WAY PEOPLE ACT WHEN AROUND OTHERS ITS CALLED FRONTING!!KARMA ALLWAYS GETS YA IN THE END😊