If you marry an insecure husband you are finish. He will not let you flourish .
@israelajayi_o8 ай бұрын
This rhymes no be for here o😃... GOD pls help we your children o 🙏🏻
@kutlo_m8 ай бұрын
Eish true.
@DaughterofGod_28 ай бұрын
You are absolutely correct!!
@simbaevans.33018 ай бұрын
The opposite is true
@theshenanigans5458 ай бұрын
@@simbaevans.3301women always want their husbands to be successful because men are natural providers, which woman wants a broke man? Even in the Bible
@nompumelelomdodana38678 ай бұрын
As much as he is insecure, he is also very jealous of her and her success.
@afolashadeusman53618 ай бұрын
Insecure people are usually jealous of you and your strength. Mostly envious and rude people
@rochellesymonette79918 ай бұрын
I think the counselor should have tried to get her to safety first, then have this conversation. Sometimes as believers we spend time going over the past and then people get hurt or may turn completely away from the Lord. Also, we have to pray and ask God how to approach certain situations so that he can give us his wisdom to handle the matter. We must remember that all of us have sinned and fallen short of God's glory. No path we ever take surprises the Lord and no matter how far we have moved from him, he still provides a way of escape for us out of every temptation. Dealing with an abused person is a ministry in itself. Reminding them that they were advised not to go into a relationship or marriage can sometimes make matters worse because they feel more ashamed and sometimes they withdraw completely and suffer alone or end up dead. Pray for God's wisdom and guidance before dealing with them. Very informative
@emmanuellatutuwaaappiah-af71278 ай бұрын
Mmm “when a man’s words and his actions don’t sync, it is a proof that he is not the suitable for you!”🔥🔥
@emmanuellatutuwaaappiah-af71278 ай бұрын
“Love without wisdom destroys and wisdom is never old in its school”🔥🔥 Word!!
@SuccessOgbeide-rt6lh8 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯 my sister
@esuobu7 ай бұрын
Yess 🔥🔥🔥
@Debbie_obasi8 ай бұрын
Is it the same man that said "I will promote your music to the world" and "your music stops today". Insecure partners are dangerous. Thanks Winlos.
@reychellbrooks62768 ай бұрын
He not only insecure, he is also narcissistic and jealous of his own wife
@laughoncomedy29238 ай бұрын
Yes exactly dear a narcissistic partner that's how they are family friends neighbors they all act the same way.
@justineroxana81188 ай бұрын
Run for your life if you are in abusive relationship! God’s children are not to be slaves to satan’s children
@kayemcwilly38568 ай бұрын
This is the story of our late Sis Osinachi. Now, no one talks much of her anymore.
@Mariobbn8 ай бұрын
😢😢yh
@kutlo_m8 ай бұрын
Thankful to be seeing these things before i get married. i will marry and i will marry well!
@EdenHaven8 ай бұрын
Amen
@olajumokeadebayo72268 ай бұрын
Amen
@nanagahtetteh61398 ай бұрын
Amen!!!
@storytimewithsamaritanwoman7 ай бұрын
Amen
@SobanjoAjibola4 ай бұрын
Amen. God will give you a husband that will love you as Christ loves the church ❤
@Honey_oyin8 ай бұрын
This is what I experienced in my past Marraige, the same language this man used was his ringtone, you can’t prosper if I don’t ( this was before marriage and after Marriage language.) and guess what a day to me going to record my song in studio he beats me like a child publicly, I still went on to recon the tracks sege pro max marriage and he was the all nice looking handsome caring guy to people, but a day came God saved me. Sister never ignore the red flags. Never ignore Old School Godly teachings, they are divine directions for you. My Gen zee generation don’t be moved by tongues and Gift, give way for the fruits of the Holyspirit… I thank the Lord I’m restored now. God bless you.
@graceoludammy8 ай бұрын
Thank God for saving you
@MaryP-r7g7 ай бұрын
Me too its the same story, the guy was so insecure,who could beat me just like a child, he could not allow to associate with people .hooo it was he'll but thank God I survived 🙏
@gracedeulogizer77823 ай бұрын
Hmmmm
@marthaspeaks8 ай бұрын
There is nothing as terrible as being with an insecure partner. Huge red flag!!!
@adakuo63558 ай бұрын
Very dangerous oo!😠
@crownjefferson8 ай бұрын
❤
@wamboieverlynewanjiru2408 ай бұрын
The statement, "I want the best for you" in such a situation is likely guilt tripping leading to manipulation.😢
@anniefundi82833 ай бұрын
You can say that again. Once he says 'I want the best for you' run for your dear life. 😢
@Meckni12828 ай бұрын
The unsecured person is the most difficult personality to keep around. You can't manage them in any capacity -Boss,Lover,Friend,name it. Even when you praise them, they see offense in it. Easily -offended & almost non entreatable.
@NikkisNature-m9n8 ай бұрын
Pray for me oooh I need help. My family is beating my baby and intimidating me
@laughoncomedy29238 ай бұрын
@@NikkisNature-m9nOh sorry it's obvious you are in a narcissistic family.
@DaughterofGod_28 ай бұрын
I’ve dealt with this type of individual before. It never ends well. If they steer you away from God and from your calling and purpose, leave them. Run the other way. Take heed to the warning signs. I thank God for getting me out of that situation!! Thank you Jesus!!
@laughoncomedy29238 ай бұрын
Thank God almighty for your life.
@oyeyemimodupe45038 ай бұрын
In relationships we see signs. But we choose to ignore them. After wedding you will now be shouting God why?
@funmilolaogundiya92188 ай бұрын
Exactly
@meeteyorose8 ай бұрын
Reminds me of late Osinachi 😢Kai it is well keep Resting Sister
@paulinemwangi87958 ай бұрын
True
@wandaanderson87798 ай бұрын
I immediately thought of her also
@justifiedmusic82098 ай бұрын
😢
@adeolasaba20008 ай бұрын
It is well but the story could have ended differently. Her children are on the road to recovery her family members would never be the same again
@barakasha28128 ай бұрын
Love is blind, but marriage is the eye-opener!
@love198958 ай бұрын
Love is not blind if it’s truly love.
@Mulenga_Pamba_028 ай бұрын
"Love without wisdom destroys. And wisdom is never old in it's school." ✍🏾
@chidinmaogbulie18828 ай бұрын
This screams Osinachi Nwachukwu!!!!!😢
@mooreoluwaosidipe2798 ай бұрын
May God give us eyes that see, minds that understand, and a heart of obedience. Amen 🙏
@estherezemkwere43448 ай бұрын
Amen
@oghonoghorchukwuemeka58858 ай бұрын
In Christ, all these have been provided. People need to realize and embrace them
@favourgodwin18598 ай бұрын
INSECURITY.... This is so scary 😢
@prosp34218 ай бұрын
Her husband could've chipped in ,"I'm still here oh" jokingly 😭😂
@salomebulus8 ай бұрын
Exactly 😂😂
@deborakoomson14478 ай бұрын
😂
@Creativeifi8 ай бұрын
Exactly 😂
@maryjaneofor29728 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂nahhh.. that last part, just why??😂😂
@lillylove67978 ай бұрын
@@maryjaneofor2972hmmm I was like eiiii 😂😂😂😂
@chikaokereke8 ай бұрын
There are lessons to learn here BUT I take God beg you, DO NOT CALL FOR HELP when the manipulator/narcissit is still close by. I beg you. It will more than just a slap, like they showed here. Run to a safe place. Leave immediately, I beg you.
@laughoncomedy29238 ай бұрын
My sister they are very wicked o it's also in women I have fellow corpers female o jealous of me and always try to put me down smearing my name typical narcissistic traits.
@preciousjohnson7408 ай бұрын
This is how the woman that sang Ekwume died, chaii make we no gree for any body ooo
@TrueGaming140.488 ай бұрын
do not marry in the flesh, do not marry outside the will of God.
@wandaanderson87798 ай бұрын
This lady missed ALL the RED FLAGS 😢😢😢
@ForMySoulSistas8 ай бұрын
@00:46 His face 😅When hubby wears a tshirt that says boss, there's already a problem @01:26 "Opening your teeth" how do you do that o😅 Not only he's blocking her light but he's keeping her from blessing other souls
@yolandapakade75288 ай бұрын
Ahh, it’s giving Osinachi Nwachukwu. I pray that God would open our eyes to see beyond the words of manipulative people in Jesus name.
@johnboateng1848 ай бұрын
I see, now I know why top Gospel singers in Ghana end up being divorced by their husbands. ❤
@israelajayi_o8 ай бұрын
If you came here with the speed of light say hi 😂
@idara-abasiiwok67948 ай бұрын
Hi 😂
@claudiachloeyt55258 ай бұрын
Hi
@diyallthings8 ай бұрын
Hi oh
@anitaadobea61138 ай бұрын
Hiii
@ritathomas4898 ай бұрын
Hi
@aniefunasopuluchukwu76328 ай бұрын
Words and actions must match. Love without wisdom destroys..All these people sha no dey hear word tor counselling, may we not have coconut head..Thank you Winlos.
@sonofzion798 ай бұрын
Wisdom in deed is never old school. Our single sisters and brothers, please be watchful of over jealous and overprotective friends. It could just be a sign of 'spirit of suffocation and suppression'. God bless you, The Winlos.
@jesussaves28228 ай бұрын
Her husband has narcissist vibes. Such people need strong prayers before they get married, even more, they should also have a desire to change. A narcissist doesn't want anything good to happen in someone else's life, they want all the good and all the glory. May God save them. Thank you Winlos for a good demonstration, God bless you all.
@laughoncomedy29236 ай бұрын
God bless you dear that's how evil they are very wicked and every child of God almighty must avoid them like a plague.
@jesuseunfolasire26918 ай бұрын
Never ignore red flags. Protection and insecurity are not the same, run when u can except he seeks genuine help Rest in peace Mrs Osinachi..
@charitynosakhare38138 ай бұрын
Very selfish and self centered man awesome message thanks for sharing
@gbemiolukolade54848 ай бұрын
Purely Osinachis story.....a word is enough fr d wise
@malvapudding879314 күн бұрын
And ur even 'opening your teeth' (smiling) to him? 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@johnsonemmanuel65978 ай бұрын
Wisdom is never old in it's school!
@ojotope23408 ай бұрын
Love, love, love,... love is not blind, love has eyes, love sees,...and these sights have eyes..
@favourajuora57478 ай бұрын
This clip is making me remember somebody, May Her soul rest in peace..
@ruthwanjeri49938 ай бұрын
Wisdom is never old in its school...🙌🏾 Thank you The Winlos...🙂 Always a Blessing...😇
@Mirabel-jg78 ай бұрын
Just when I was thinking about the insecurity of some men, Winlos came to post this ❤❤ God bless you Winlos
@AdrienneDMayfield8 ай бұрын
My EX HUSBAND almost sabotaged my career. 🥺
@iamtrinafreeman8 ай бұрын
This video came on time; certainly GOD confirming my current relationship situation to me through the "Winlos". It's literally what I am facing with my "Financé"; insecurities, manipulation,....!😢😢
@theWinlos8 ай бұрын
I’m glad you watched. RUN 🏃♂️
@iyabowaledaudu8 ай бұрын
You better run for your life
@theshenanigans5458 ай бұрын
Run
@Christos_martus8 ай бұрын
His countenance in the studio alone is a message. Reminds me of Cain countenance when God rejected his sacrifice. If Abel had noticed that look on his face he myt not av followed him on a walk that led to his death. Anointing without wisdom will not last. Love without wisdom will not last. Brother/Sisters open your eyes and observe well o.
@MsLakeri8 ай бұрын
Her strengths and success threatened his insecurities. Envy, jealousy and selfish ambition are sometimes disguised in 'someone wanting the best for you' whilst throttling your efforts to get ahead. Thank you the Winlos for this enlightenment. Watched from Uganda.
@akilahlink98618 ай бұрын
I dated an insecure man. I’m glad we are not together anymore.
@irenedontoh96928 ай бұрын
That last slap tho🤣🙆🏻♀️ Say no to domestic violence.
@martinspatricia30818 ай бұрын
Why is she crying naw, is she not new school again?? Wisdom is justified by her children!!!
@amyansah72758 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@amyansah72758 ай бұрын
Dam
@rebeccarafi29548 ай бұрын
The reasons of some much varieties of crying today is caused by the old school rejection syndrome 😢
@daveedawtstudios8 ай бұрын
A broken relationship is better than a failed marriage He's your fiance and you are not yet married! Run o, run 🏃🏃🏃
@love198958 ай бұрын
Even if you are married and he’s abusing you…you should still run and seek safety!
@JohnChapter178 ай бұрын
The way Mama Winlos counsels !!! So patient!!
@wiwojoanaidah4 ай бұрын
i tell u
@DarrylVick8 ай бұрын
This video really needed a Part 2.
@aillylerch80468 ай бұрын
Insecurity is a silent killer of destiny as it comourflages as all kinds of other things... It is not always easy to see it for what it is in the beginning and by the time you do it's too late... It's a destroyer and killer...dangerous... 😢😢😢
@yvonnemashego41238 ай бұрын
Love has eyes and see!!❤ Love is not blind
@ao.69168 ай бұрын
Hmmm, can relate. When you despise wisdom, understanding, love is an illusion
@abzkevproductions8 ай бұрын
This one be like Osinachi story
@KoKazTreatzKomanaKatangaTetteh8 ай бұрын
I’ve made many bad decisions in my life, but one of the best decisions I made was leaving someone who was exhibiting signs of abuse ( was already insecure and it was escalating)
@emasko88 ай бұрын
Many times When people are in love, their ears are closed to counsel; it's sad though in the end. May God help the youths who are about to be in love to seek counsel before they fall in love with wrong people
@thebestindewest8 ай бұрын
May we mindful of good biblical wise counsel and my brethren if you have no one to speak to ask God directly and He will speak and lead...be willing to trust and obey
@CoachIceman8 ай бұрын
The 3 most important requirements for marriage are: Wisdom Knowledge Understanding. If you don't have these 3 materials Please don't marry.
@thapelonkane47467 ай бұрын
I see the man boiling ryt there, when the man was complimenting his wife.🙆🤣🤣
@TheH42G8 ай бұрын
So heartbreaking to witness. To think, some people are living this, it's disheartening! Lord Jesus help us to receive the Wise counsel you give us!
@MlokoleJuli8 ай бұрын
" love is not blind..." totally agree...God help me see!
@ruthmaina89198 ай бұрын
Actually this reminded me pf Osinachi... maybe this is exactly what she went through
@worshipwithmaggie48098 ай бұрын
Wow 👌 👏 😊😊 that was a very powerful message, i guess this one is specifically for me as a Gospel Music Singer, i pray may God showcase me on top and above all, give me a husband that will prayer with me through it all not one that wil be my prayer pont, Thank you Winlos for this great message, love you all dearly, and God bless
@adebolaakinwale35108 ай бұрын
Where's our sister who is ascending realms?😂😂
@NalediGoldinah8 ай бұрын
And she still says he is my World🙆♀️
@beforethedaygetsbusy8 ай бұрын
Come help me and deliver me from blindness and insensitivity while making marital choice. 😢
@michaelkinful19158 ай бұрын
It's scary how accurate this is. God have mercy on us all and grant us His discernment, and may we also obey the voice of Godly counsel,
@sarahbassi59338 ай бұрын
Old school indeed. You will understand old school is the best soon. Wisdom is profitable to direct
@njidekahelen54978 ай бұрын
Love sees...observe...hmmm..it is so true..thank you my winlow family
@Womenswell0228 ай бұрын
Run, baby run...
@joymwenya28868 ай бұрын
A good lesson for me who is single and still searching for a partner God help me choose a right partner you want for me 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 you are a blessing the winlos ❤️ to this generation God bless you ❤️
@Thetruth_lightt8 ай бұрын
Always beautiful and educative videos 😊
@WomenOfpower-qj6dm8 ай бұрын
Real life issues 💔 When choosing a partner , prayerfully discern if he genuinely aligns with your divine purpose. Your purpose is more important than the love you think you have for him, your purpose is your world, its more important than the marriage. May the King of Glory choose the best of His persons for we the singles in Jesus name.
@deborahidowu20568 ай бұрын
I am a music minister oo part of the reason I am still single ooo may God help us
@Womenswell0228 ай бұрын
The Lord will bring your Boaz, forget those sons of Belial...
@maryanneocheni70828 ай бұрын
God help me to choose wisely my spouse.🙏
@naturallyawesomefitness17388 ай бұрын
Thank you having her sing “Mercy Said No” by Greg Long, it’s one of my classic favorite songs!! 🎉🎉🎉😊
@chidaluben8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, the WINLOS. you have been an inspiration of change to me
@joeloseikwakye12378 ай бұрын
In the multitude of counsellors, there's safety✍🏾👌🏾. God richly bless you @the Winlos🙌🏾🙏🏾
@catecate908 ай бұрын
Imagine the way her wife is polite😢😢😢
@EruvwuObuaya8 ай бұрын
Anwuli's facial expressions are priceless! 😂😂😂 Thank you for another great upload. ❤
@angieenhle55278 ай бұрын
That was some great singing there❤
@mohotsi8 ай бұрын
No better way of putting it than this
@williamsfranklyn92758 ай бұрын
“Who he be wen we dey tell say we dey comot”😁
@lyndellemodeste24398 ай бұрын
Narcissism
@pastorgeeguezo8 ай бұрын
Hard to comment this one 😢 So many bad memories
@runwaytribe88278 ай бұрын
He can’t stand her light, And he’s intimidate her from journey he’s evil oh come to destroy.
@Serenity_Mhlongo8 ай бұрын
Mr Ohis is really a good actor❤. More grace man of God❤🔥.
@perpetualehimhen20498 ай бұрын
"Love without wisdom destroys"
@evansglobal18 ай бұрын
This is informative and timely. I was just thinking about this, then I saw this video. Thanks WINLOS!!!
@estherdalo60018 ай бұрын
Good one, the Winlos.❤❤❤❤
@jeffthiongo93568 ай бұрын
From kenya
@yudellezion96158 ай бұрын
You are too funny. I wasn't expecting the last beating 😂😂😂😂minutes WHAT! love, love, love.
@EmmanuelJohnson-vm8oe8 ай бұрын
Don't be blinded by love
@destinythe_psalmist98558 ай бұрын
Receive modern generation wisdom fists 🤜 those were claps for love😂😂😂😂😂❤
@Resurrected_with_Christ8 ай бұрын
The Winlos we need you here in Kigali 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@lindaigwemusic8 ай бұрын
Love is not blind… love sees
@freewalltv7 ай бұрын
Love without wisdom destroy's and wisdom is never old in its school 😉😊✍️