She met a guy from my show and she wanted to share their experience. She’s looking for a new man.

[@Summerbaby247]

I don’t think she realized her encounter was a one night stand until this show 😂

[@yasmeen7875]

I said the same thing. You know that meme that says "this is the moment she realized she fucced up" 😂.

[@rayshaungates3702]

Facts!!!! 💯 😂😂😂

[@KNByam]

From the time she said he flew down to her I knew he just wanted sex.

[@KNByam]

If I tell a woman come see me and I pay for her flight she would be someone I see myself long term with.

[@giseleb7807]

Omg yesss 😂😂😂

[@afro_buddha4977]

He certainly switched up after they smashed. I don't think she wanted to hear what Kendra was spitting. He used the oldest trick in the book to be left alone, he stepped back by acting irritated so she could leave him alone

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

This video is a case study for how many woman have sex with men out of their league, and it makes them believe that those men are their level. Those men see women like her as an easy smash with a spot to sleep at. Maybe even a pair of Jordans. She talking about manifesting a man of his stature. She believes getting fked and chucked counts as dating him. She thinks she actually ever had a chance at a monogamous relationship with that man

[@Jame6999]

I switched up to after sex😅. Women like her are just good for a ride around the block

[@afro_buddha4977]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 your tag name is "supa pookie" come on, wrong messenger. For the record there is nothing wrong with how she looks, keep it cute.

[@gtsound12]

He probably really was irritated. When someone is on you and you don’t like them it is irritating

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

@afro_buddha4977 I didn't say it was anything "wrong" with her looks. This is another example of how a lot of you ladies don't listen. Comprehension be kicking yall ass. And my name is a compilation of all the wrong men you women pick. Not who I actually am genius.

[@cuzzitsmee]

Where she messed up at was having sex with him that quick. A man can tell you anything you have to sit back and watch his actions. He got what he wanted and that’s it. He probably in a whole relationship back at home 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kbthegoat824]

What difference does it make if it takes a month. The man will still leave if he wants to leave. It's more than just sex. At the end of the day men will still study your character, you make him wait, he will do just that and play that game. And Once he get it he gone.

[@LadyK007]

😂

[@cuzzitsmee]

@@kbthegoat824 A person can only fake for so long.

[@jayc5756]

​@@cuzzitsmeeExactly

[@majorenlightenment2291]

😅😅😅...i can't stop laughing... you said it !!!

[@DosesofVon]

Everytime somebody come on here with an update, ima need the other persons side of the story too. Cause mfs be lying lol

[@bboss7874]

😂facts

[@MsNeoVibeRadio]

Ditto

[@robinaaayyeee]

😂😂😂

[@kevinlee9929]

They put out the Director's Cut of the movie. With alot Deleted Scenes.

[@taleekjones6545]

Yep 😂😂😂

[@MICHELLE-cv8ss]

It’s ok Jaz..Next time take it easy and don’t be easily taken

[@thelessons3768]

Honestly asking if we may. Removing your female lens what options do you think she realistically has in the dating market comparatively speaking?

[@FaithandNova]

@@thelessons3768anything is possible. Not all men have the same preference, some men actually like bbw. There are billions of ppl on earth, do you guys realize that? 😂😂

[@thelessons3768]

@@FaithandNova Men: "Be realistic brother. Do better and don't be easily taken as a fool." Women: Don't worry boo there's 50 million people in the world you good. God going to send him.

[@jayc5756]

​@@FaithandNovaDuh

[@theeemnm]

I initially came to say I appreciate your kind comment especially after reading everyone else’s comments being so brutal. Unfortunately learning and growing up includes making mistakes. But omg then I read the other comments under your initial post, wow why are people so harsh nowadays. Does social media really have people thinking that everybody are all esthetically perfect.

[@lindasimmons6630]

This show has just created an easier route for men to meet desperate women with low self esteem, who will sleep with them without any strings attached.

[@Pressureddiamond]

I was thinking that

[@pmpdaddyt1218]

🤫🤫🤫🤫🤫... shhhhhh ... lol

[@sherlinewilliamson6600]

⁹9ok99k⁹88llp😅😅​@@pmpdaddyt1218

[@tommiedshow9211]

Agreed!

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Like every other app

[@craigjoyner9857]

Kendra: “Someone said you had a one-night stand.” Jazmine: “Sure, whatever.” Kendra: “How many times did you guys see each other in person?” Jasmine: “Ummmmmmm, just that one time. Just that one time.” This is unbelievable, that she doesn’t understand what has happened. She was there for all of it.

[@QueenSheba43]

😂😂😂😂

[@youcantmakethisshitup]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@giseleb7807]

LMAOOOO 😂😂😂

[@goddessrobinanderson]

God bless her.

[@jdolo4670]

😂😂😂😂😂😂💀💀💀💀💀😂😂😂😂😂

[@scottrogue946]

I don’t understand. If he was combative and argumentative why are you still friends with him and why do you “like him as a person”? 😅 🧐

[@bippityboppityboo2u]

🍆

[@Jaiunsolicited]

And let him hit 😅

[@kevinlee9929]

Because her attraction to him trumps all of that

[@jetskipapi6193]

She letting him know the door is open for future encounters if he is interested

[@paymentspace2968]

leaving the door open, the attention (even sparingly) is a dopamine hit, and she got attached. I hope she finds her person

[@k3isha3o54]

I always wonder if people regret going on the show or even going on the show and releasing so much information

[@WordsMatter1982]

Attention is a drug, so no they don't regret it.

[@KNByam]

Now ever man will contact her for sex. She's an idiot.

[@mkmeabeliever]

NO! They don't regret it because these days they took SHAME out the game. 🤔🤣🤔🤣

[@theeemnm]

@@WordsMatter1982I never thought about it like this. Good point. Not necessarily even referring to the young lady in this interview but in general you made a good point regarding that some people will look for attention rather good or bad.

[@gennibee]

Yes, that’s why Kendra has the disclaimer at the beginning of the show that NO videos will be taken down. People have serious regrets and feel stupid because they made themselves look bad. Not everyone recognizes that they made themselves look bad/cheap/desperate/dishonest, etc. Unfortunately I don’t think that Jasmine is very self aware and doesn’t have anyone who’s willing to be honest with her and can tell her that this was not her finest look. I’d love to see Jasmine go on Kevin Samuels (if her were still alive, may he RIP) and he would have set her straight.

[@nikkilove9301]

How he fly out for 5 days and you only seen him for one day....suspicious 🤔

[@dctrucker534]

You miss understood what she was saying

[@nmmboy]

Once you make it known you’ll smash the first meet up, you’ll less likely get dudes with good intentions 😮‍💨🤷🏽‍♂️

[@lkeyz09]

*plays First Night by Monica* 😂

[@rororidley5829]

Her DMs finna be poppin!!! She has demonstrated she has no discernment and poor judgment so the 😺 is ready for the picking. Poor thing she believes she’s in control and can’t see she is not. I hope she gets therapy. She seems sweet but lacks true self-awareness.

[@royalheritage9254]

This young lady was completely off her rocker. They spent a lot of time getting to know each other on the phone.. is she delayed? Something ain’t right

[@SH-mw1er]

Definitely delayed and low maintenance.

[@Pressureddiamond]

This is the typical young lady that's y I laugh when men say us older women are ran through 😂she has sex with a man after 24 hours

[@ilovesports5468]

She did all this talking around the world about nothing just to end up saying he smashed and left her looking stupid. Only met one time in the five days he was there? Chile….

[@EboneeDebrah]

I did not take it that way. It sounded like she meant that one visit (which lasted 5 days) was the only time she met him in person.

[@Gem-n-life]

@@EboneeDebrah-She said they spent 24 hours together.

[@mzrizz680]

😂😂😂😂😂❤

[@safia9536]

Ikr that's what I was thinking.. he was there 5 days and you got one day?? Now, at least in retrospect she must know he was planning a trip there anyway and he set up some prospective booty for the trip. And got it. Whew I wouldn't have given that update..

[@10_door_tycoon]

As a man I’m not mad at her. A man on the phone with her for 2-3 hours a day already put in more work than I am. I got too much to do to be on the phone with any woman for 3 hours a day. 🤷🏽‍♂️

[@PoliSciGuy]

You know she made that up right

[@10_door_tycoon]

@@PoliSciGuy I considered that but I’m not shocked that certain types of guys would do that to smash.

[@nadia4999]

Right. She was on the phone for 3 hours talking while his phone was probably laying something while he yelled “bet” and “ for real” every 12 to 15 minutes.

[@ZenAscent]

​@@nadia4999😂

[@itzjess88]

I've had men want to text or talk or chill ALL day! Like damn I have things to do. Then they get an attitude because I don't want to talk or be around them.

[@nmmboy]

From the way she told her story, it never sounded like he had any interest in her besides sexually. He definitely stepped back when she tried to be more serious. 9/10 We know why someone steps back, but she’s just acting oblivious lol 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Milan26202]

EXACTLY and that's not his fault. He just was not interested (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° ) 💕 😛 💋 ❥¸¸.•*¨*•♫♪♫ ღ ☆* ♡ ℒℴѵℯ 💕 (͡° ͜ʖ ͡° )

[@R.Yvette.X.]

He already got what he wanted. She played her trump card way too early.

[@elizabethclarke4981]

What's even more hilarious is that kendra is debuting her app soon, so we should hear more stories like this soon enough 😂

[@nmmboy]

@@R.Yvette.X. Yeah I actually think they even discussed having sex way before even meeting up, and now she’s acting oblivious. She understands she not doing it the right way but she don’t care lol

[@nmmboy]

@@elizabethclarke4981It’s gonna be Tinder 2.0 😂😂

[@ZacharyEvansStarTrekfan]

She wants an african man to be vulnerable with his feelings. PLEASE SOMEONE TELL HER🙄

[@jay4341]

😂

[@eke.D]

Lol everything Kendra said went from one ear and out the other. She'll get pumped and dumped by the new guy 😂.

[@nmmboy]

Facts She definitely made it clear she loves her way of dating 😂😂

[@rayshaungates3702]

😂😂😂 fact’s 💯

[@Bananabuttah25]

She been getting pumped and dumped. This aint the 1st time and definently not the last if she doesn't change the mindset.

[@eke.D]

@@Bananabuttah25 agreed

[@intensepassion3382]

"pumped and dumped?" That's not a win for a man, but it is one for a boy. Males who pump dump , likely do this with other males. I believe that's the origin of the term.

[@DarthFurie]

I can't believe she still doesn't understand what really happened. This was sad to watch

[@KNByam]

She's delusional.

[@And1one757]

They know but when thats the best commitment or attention they can get from a man is handing out coochie for a night they'll settle for what they can get... its either that or nothing judging by what she offering

[@Scam-ish]

I got married too early lmao the game is too easy now a days 😂 no women require relationships for sex no more

[@Tiredttttttt]

@@Scam-ishyour wife should be embarrassed to be married to someone who thinks like you

[@Douglass10]

@@Scam-ishno bro stay married. This is coming from a 24yr old man that’s engaged. Most of these chicks are not worth a penny, getting the buns is super easy but finding a woman that’s not glued to social media, wants to be a wife and cook/clean and nice is hard to find.

[@KG-ho1iu]

Oblivious and no real standards. She will end up in the same situation.

[@InsertAliasHere1154]

Imagine sharing this type of story and letting everyone know you hand out coochie coupons for next to nothing and thinking someone will take you seriously.

[@shadowman2276]

Some times you got to take a few L's before you catch a W. Let that woman live her life. Yall preserve the coochie and still cant find a decent man lol. We not gone pretend like women dont want sex just as much as men do. As long as she's protecting her self and not having kids with strangers, she'll be just fine.

[@1fattgirlmah1]

​​@shadowman2276 I am a Muslim woman & you ain't never lied. Lol and women want sex more than men. But will still hold out lol

[@LadyK007]

😂

[@neisci]

​@@shadowman2276thank you 😂. Women enjoy sex too. 100% on protection and babies other than that, sex the coochie free.

[@matthewdolton8654]

@@shadowman2276 Can you hear yourself? You sound crazy. By your logic, she should have sex with every man that hits her up until she settles down with one.

[@jamalobama6340]

Vulnerable? He's a man, not your gay friend.

[@scottrogue946]

Men can be vulnerable. Y’all are crazy and weird af.

[@JustBree716]

​@@scottrogue946what does she even mean by that. I doubt that she even knows😅. And women tend to say they want alot of things and when they get it they dont respect it. Hence her coming on her the first time looking for a "relationship" only to give up the box 24 hours later. Now she's back and instead of saying she wants a fruck buddy she's back on here playing. If a woman really wants a serious relationship she would have said that better yet sais she wants a husband so its quite obvious

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Not vulnerable as in when she asks questions he's cold and distant. He gives surface answers because HE DOESN'T WANT TO TALK TO HER. Women be thinking men lack emotional intelligence when really they're just used to dealing with men that don't care to engage them beyond sex

[@yasmeen7875]

Men can be vulnerable. I've never seen a tear fall out of my husband's eye in th 25 years I've known him, but he can express when he is angry disappointed sad without crying or being overly emotional.

[@JustBree716]

@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 bingo. 🎯

[@JustBree716]

The problem with sleeping with men so quickly and when they dip on you or you don't require anything DO NOT be out here talking about men aint ish because AGAIN women give access to the box, men propose. And if she say communicative and vulnerable one mo time😅

[@nmmboy]

She was struggling with pronouncing communicative 😂😭🥴

[@IzzysDiaries97]

Another reason i love this show is it shows me how some men in this world think .. there are very rarely any positive comments for women from men in these comments.. even when there are good women or good women who just have to learn a bit more.. for sure I am so happy I am now aware of how some men think.. if I ever leave the relationship I am in now I will definitely be abstaining for some years cuz these men take pride in being grimy, lying and “finessing” a woman out of her treasure.. I personally just find it disgusting!

[@Gem-n-life]

Exactly this! I always encourage women to pay attention to the comment sections under this channel, women empowerment, and true crime channels. I also advise them, when dating someone new, follow them on social media.

[@IzzysDiaries97]

@@Gem-n-life Great Advice!

[@Barlowh2o]

Yall won't be missed, there's other women in the world smfh

[@aubriellelucille1762]

@@Barlowh2onobody wants or asked for you

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

@@Gem-n-life I haven't seen one man co-signing shyting on this woman. Y'all are pathetic

[@nadia4999]

Why some women have not gotten the memo yet. Boo if you’re so called talking to a dude everyday and 3 hours a day, and once you drop those bloomers then you barely hear from him. How is that not embarrassing? How can one even fix their mouth to even tell the world this out loud.

[@nadia4999]

@user-sj5ju4jb7t that’s a problem, and shows not enough people are taking the time with these younger folks to help guide them into a better life.

[@letrice2892]

let me get this straight shes back here looking for another man to possibly date after revealing the last one

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

Possible sleep with smh

[@tiptip7]

In my personal opinion, unless it led to a healthy relationship or proposal/marriage, I don't see the point in sharing. It doesn't help them.

[@natashaallen3502]

Crazy right 😂😂

[@noncustody]

That last guy must have been desperate.

[@jay-t1030]

Shout out to the women with low body counts

[@LadyK007]

🙌🏾

[@brandonmoss7976]

You may need to define: "Low Body Count" 1, 2, 17😳, 122😅 So women may think Their low when they're High as hell😰😰😰😰

[@Heyitschy03]

& men

[@ShangHungxxx]

He just wanted to hit it..after smashing a few times he no longer wanted to waste time putting in work as she had nothing else to offer 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@candycrusher2024]

Shes 32 and makes good money, why not hire a trainer-nutritionist.

[@bkqcat]

Nope, Can't dip into the weave budget.

[@niarenee8318]

@@bkqcat it doesn’t even look like this woman is wearing any weave it looks like natural hair that is straightened

[@robbourne1950]

Friday Foster gets right to the point with Jaz a tall glass of water from Phoenix, Arizona, who was previously interviewed and returned to provide an update. Jaz embarked on a long-distance relationship with a man from West Africa with whom she spoke for many many MANY hours but only spent 24 hours together. Jaz describes the encounter and wonders why things changed after that. Friday tries to explain how things change dramatically when the fog lifts. Friday is almost ready to tell her viewers that marriage must come before sex, but perhaps that will come in the next episode. Special cameo from Jaz's wing girl who calls the whole thing a one night stand

[@beauphomasterpiece3795]

I’m beginning to look forward to your comments every post

[@robbourne1950]

@@beauphomasterpiece3795 awesome I’ll keep writing.

[@charlesbrown8879]

I appreciate and enjoy the synopsis. I wasn't sure I was gonna watch the entire video, but your comment motivated to wait til the end lol.

[@robbourne1950]

@@charlesbrown8879 that tickles me

[@lashaunx1000]

😂😂😂

[@rayshaungates3702]

She’s not that bad on the eyes if she can get herself in shape and stop giving up the box on the first date she might stand a chance 😂

[@corasbloom]

Lol

[@D20jackson]

Not about to happen at all

[@amaragrace94]

Right she's actually beautiful and she'll look even better when she hits those health/fitness goals consistently.

[@agadonk]

​@amaragrace94 yes, mental health and physical health. Once she get her mind right, everything else will fall in place

[@cmichole]

Whew Chile, not the judgmental face from Kendra lol. Myself and my ex ended up being intimate after our first official date. Sure, we had met in person already. But, it was totally unplanned. I felt very comfortable with him and I do not regret that decision at all. He asked me to be in a relationship with him 3 weeks later. Turned out to be one of the best relationships I've ever had. I don't think sex without a commitment is always an indicator that a man or woman isn't serious about wanting to find someone to be in a relationship with. I will say it's not usually the BEST idea but you have to trust your gut. In this situation, it sounds like this man was willing to invest his time and energy into speaking with her for 1.5 months and then actually flying out to see her. I know the 'kousins' are very critical of everyone but I like to give the benefit of doubt sometimes. Perhaps things changed when they met in person. Maybe he experienced something that turned him off and he didn't want to say. Who the heck really knows. All we can do is speculate. Sorry that happened. Better luck next time.

[@brwnserenity2351]

Why did things end between you and the mentioned ex? Maybe I'm reading it wrong but it sounds like it was a good situation?

[@larissawilliams7445]

My husband and I slept together on the second date 🤷🏽‍♀️ we have been together for 13 years. I really believe that it all depends on the maturity of the individuals 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@cmichole]

​@@brwnserenity2351 Long story short, he was dealing with personal issues that he felt were too overwhelming to tackle and maintain the relationship at the same time so we split. No bad feelings between us. We are still cool. If it's meant to be, we'll end up together again. I've actually never ended on bad terms with anyone I've dated.

[@godiswithus9355]

1. She’s a pretty young lady But she needs to change how she dates if she wants a real relationship. 2. She came to tell the world about the last guy communication skills after having sex within ONE month of texting/ FaceTime??? And the first time meeting in person. Now the next guy that she meets already knows she’s willing to have sex without commitment. 3. And when Kendra gave her advice it looked like it went from one ear to the other. The cycle will continue until she realizes how she’s moving will not get her the results she want. 4. Why is she still talking that man or love him as a person if he couldn’t be “vulnerable”?

[@DeaconGoss]

Translation - he didn’t really want her.

[@Lovely-ff7uv]

"what are 3 flaws you need to work on for your next relationship?" This might be better suited to get answers that make sense and connect

[@Reminisce212]

She didn’t realized it was a fun weekend until the update smh

[@Nakiuh]

Women for some reason think that sex will keep a man interested. PSA 🗣️ A lot of men do not have to like you in order to sleep with you. 😂 Stop catching bodies while you’re trying to find a man who actually likes you beyond sex. It takes time to get to know people. Be patient. Everything you need to know will show in time. Discernment✨

[@b.r.wright911]

You are absolutely correct! My 3 brothers taught me that men's penises get hard when the wind blows by them. Men are visual creatures and can do it with a tree! 😂😂😂 I'm just passing on knowledge from 3 men.

[@TyWerks]

Women who do this don't realize they do themselves no favors no quality man will contact them after you admitted another dude hit

[@DB-vt1kk]

This new generation is weird. I’ve never flown out to see a potential date. If you aren’t in my area than we aren’t meeting. Are times this damn hard?

[@bippityboppityboo2u]

We did this in the 90s meeting up with people we met in aol chat rooms. It’s a modern world

[@candorsspot2775]

Seriously. Spent months talking and flew across the country for that? Things must be real rough in NY.

[@kbthegoat824]

You forgot the part he was there for 5 days and met her once...it's called vacation, he just got a quick cat while on it.

[@jayc5756]

Nothing wrong with that if you're open to long distance relationships.

[@jayc5756]

​@@candorsspot2775It is. I did the same from NY to Washington years ago.

[@phillipsimmons5586]

Why do they focus so much on the comments??! Not even present in the interview

[@Zikomo7]

Kendra you know most men are not committing before sex. Stop shaming these women.

[@brwnserenity2351]

I always think the same thing when she says that. I mean, I get where she's coming from, but that's not usually how it goes. Men want women to have standards and keep their legs closed until it comes to them. It's - a woman is playing games and using a man - if she doesn't sleep with him not too long after meeting, or she's a "304" if she does. At the end of the day, a man is either interested in you for a relationship or he's not.

[@Zikomo7]

@@brwnserenity2351 Exactly

[@agadonk]

If you're not in a happy committed relationship rn, it's worth a try.

[@calik7712]

I agree with this

[@ShannonsBibleStudy]

Women usually get dumped if they don't put out after a few dates.

[@NoName-nj4mw]

Talking on the phone isn't the same as dating. She messed up because she technically smashed on the first night. He was probably viewing her as casual sex and she wanted more.

[@SweetEssie]

If she was talking on the phone with him for 4 months consistently would that be the same as dating?

[@CK-wv5hg]

​@@SweetEssie No

[@SweetEssie]

@CK-wv5hg Hmm. Well, how do people date in long-distance relationships? What was she supposed to do?

[@CK-wv5hg]

@@SweetEssie You'd need to meet the person before it's official. People in serious long distance relationships would have already met.

[@sheambitious29lachelle17]

Unbelievable.. no shame girl seriously.. Ladies I beg you to STOP with this unlimited access to your body in exchange for a mans time and attention!!

[@kimjenkins7866]

Nice lady… if you want to be taken seriously delay the sexual encounter until you actually spend quality time getting to know someone… bottom line is that you GAVE yourself away to a complete stranger for nothing in return except a man trying to be angry just to get rid of you…. Slow it down my sister because you’re worth so much more than a one night stand with a man who meets and sleeps with multiple women on dating sites…

[@jayc5756]

A few min in...respect that. Move On from dude. My only thing is that you gotta Fully Move On from him ma. You still have ties to him and still communicate with him regularly...and still biggin him up. So yeah, get it together ma.

[@moniquew3603]

She was "laughing" at the comments, but you could see the hurt behind her eyes. I hope she takes Kendra's advice... stop giving men who dont want a relationship access to your body.

[@rs6104]

Baby girl met a whole scammer with several passports, he was giving attitude to bring his problems to you so you could💰help💰 him out🤣🤣🤣

[@kbthegoat824]

You're not very intelligent with this comment.

[@rs6104]

@@kbthegoat824 yet here you are responding with your limited vocabulary, must’ve struck a nerve🤣🤣 you’re probably the culprit

[@tiffanytabb3106]

🙄 I’m from Chicago but live in Phoenix these women here are NOT IT! ..Next

[@Ambitiousgirl22]

Ladies, please, the answers you seek are in the comments of these men. What they value and their pathology. Dont ignore it. Start to date openly until you & a great guy agree to be exclusive. He has to be active in his pursuits of you. Activate your standards, expectations, and boundaries. Women are sexual beings and that is our right. Have you a little yeah yeah for that on the side as you date. Use protection for body and spirit. Keep it moving. These men only soothe themselves and then criticize women for living their lives free of needing their validation. Kendra is right..sex with commitment is the way to go. Even the men are saying it. If they leave, let them!!

[@candorsspot2775]

What is yeah yeah on the side? 🤔

[@rororidley5829]

These ladies better learn from Sprinkle Sprinkle and Pastor P the Queen Maker

[@originaldelta]

@@candorsspot2775 side dude for smashing only.

[@ladytosha15]

@@RicardoSilvas-uq6wntarot card reader no everyone business but there own an plus it’s not real

[@IzzysDiaries97]

@@rororidley5829loveee them

[@aleciagrant1355]

I’m just here for the comments 😊

[@RahYisrael99]

6:09 She said the guy was in town for 5 days but they spent 24 hours together. I dont think he flew to Phoenix just to see her.

[@rororidley5829]

These ladies better learn from Sprinkle Sprinkle and Pastor P the Queen Maker. Kendra be trying to tell them but they CANT hear her 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@emg.9246]

FACTS!!

[@amilllion1]

So talking on the phone for a month means you know him enough to give your kitty! But then you find out you don’t like his attitude, so you didn’t know him!

[@FaithandNova]

😂😂😂 exactly

[@True-Lies41]

Kitty ain't worth nothing 😂

[@seatosea1925]

She's a very pretty young lady. I hope she finds a guy perfect for her.

[@thelessons3768]

All women are pretty on the Internet to other women.

[@Aceboogie83]

Shut up and stop lying

[@originaldelta]

@@thelessons3768 lmao

[@WordsMatter1982]

​@@thelessons3768a woman has to look like Refrigerator Perry in a wig for other women to not call them pretty .

[@ProspectNY11211]

​@@WordsMatter1982Damn not the fridge 😭

[@soulistic87]

Yikes putting it out there that your easy and expect a serious relationship. Girl gather your life.

[@Trexset0323]

Kendra said, “Were y’all in a relationship?” Response was an emphatic no. Kendra: “Well Ion care about that then.” I LIVE!!! 😊😅💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️💁🏽‍♂️

[@mariecharles9758]

Wow, she actually thinks this guys wanted her. Goodness, you can't be this gullible. He contacted you, talk to you, had sex with you, then start acting up so you can just leave. Men are not that complicated. Wow, at 32 yo, how can you not see what just took place.

[@CyberWorld999]

I keep telling people that you CAN'T GET TO KNOW ANYBODY ON THE PHONE , FACETIME, TEXT ETC. In person activities that exclude sexx and movie watching are the more sensible wats to get to know people. This needs to be done for an extended time period and specific behaviors observed

[@MsEllaHamilton]

Parents must have difficult discussions with their daughters about "game" - how to recognize it and avoid getting caught up in it. This particular woman hasn't experienced genuine love, attention, joy, or acceptance, which may contribute to her lack of understanding about what it feels like to be truly valued. When women use this platform, they must be aware that they are presenting from a place of desperation, and that the men who contact them are operating from that perspective. Ladies, it's important to be cautious and keep your eyes and mind open, as disappointment is always a possibility. It's not that men "don't" know what they want, it's that they DON'T WANT YOU! I think that single women can really benefit from some intense therapy and coaching. The issue isn't that there aren't any men. The issue is that they are "unattractive mentally, emotionally, and spiritually."

[@amaragrace94]

Facts on facts on facts

[@brwnserenity2351]

I strongly agree. I've learned so much from the males in my family. Some male associates have helped as well, but family is much better at it.

[@ShannonsBibleStudy]

Parents need to raise their sons to not be users.

[@kiesha2k11]

Some things are just better left unsaid.

[@vanceliagarrett7402]

She does not explain herself well, basically he was not into her

[@auntrayjones39]

And you let him run through you with no commitment. Yeah manifesting 😂

[@CorettaCaldwell-jl3rn]

He'll be lucky to be with her because he ll get some the first time they meet.

[@freethinkingMILF]

I would not have came back to share that story.

[@poetryinmotion1708]

"She called it a one night stand.....SURE WHATEVER "🙄🙄. she clueless😊

[@jameswiley3311]

This is a modern woman who is a 304 and she ride the carousel she knows her value is low so she get in when she fit in

[@maggien222]

All the STD alphabets have left the chat...😂😮

[@whatthehellizgoingon]

she needs a whole new direction when it comes to dating

[@asdfghj13579fly]

She needs to loose weight first and foremost.

[@Itsyogurt444]

She need a diet

[@nmmboy]

Yeah facts, her mindset is terrible for someone looking for something serious.

[@whatthehellizgoingon]

how come i can't see all of the replies???

[@nmmboy]

@@whatthehellizgoingon Either they deleted their comment or KZbin flagged them for using inappropriate words.

[@candorsspot2775]

A dude really talked to this woman for months and flew out to see her? WTF. Something wrong with a lot of these dudes out here.

[@kamieyonce]

Wait was he not supposed to see her in person?

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

​@kamieyonce he flew a below average chic out just to smash and ghost her. How horny you gotta be??

[@candorsspot2775]

​@@kamieyonceNot talk to her at all preferably, or at least have her fly in to see him. Dude wasted countless hours and spent hundreds, maybe thousands of dollars for that? Really?

[@candorsspot2775]

​@VoiceofReason778She got months of attention and he paid to go see her. They are not the same by that alone.

[@DJ-vj4vi]

How?? Women do the same thing we are grown adults and don’t need your approval

[@Pocahantes]

All this time she thought she was in control....sad

[@candorsspot2775]

African men. Setting the bar for these women even lower. 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@katrinawall7758]

She is a pretty girl. I hope everything works out for her.

[@johnjay3308]

Sisterhood...stop lying! Jeez😤

[@Aceboogie83]

Shut up

[@jonathancoleman6482]

No she is not

[@Ambitiousgirl22]

Agreed. She is pretty. No need to tear someone down. You don't like it, you don't like it.

[@Heyitschy03]

@@johnjay3308she is. you’re not. 😊

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

2023 women: I want something serious & I have standards Also 2023 women: *I let them fly in & hit on the first night*

[@MizzMeLSoCool]

A man will say anything! Don’t let him sleep with you the first time that’s crazy

[@ericswanson8894]

If he completely changed right after you smash...it definitely was a one night stand LOL

[@chelseajackson]

She is sooooo Beautiful! She is clearly intelligent and put together! Good luck to you SIS!

[@NFAD1992]

😂😂

[@tardust22]

I guarantee you he was looking for someone to help him get his green card. My kids father is from the Ivory Coast. He was married before him and I met. He married the lady before me only to maintain a green card. Getting involve with a man not from the U.S. is ok. Keep in mind that their intentions may not be genuine. They could be using you to achieve their goals.

[@MartiniStylezz]

She said he has a US passport …

[@TonyTarantula]

The man had a US passport. Apart from that, why hit it and quit it if he wanted a green card? Consider the possibility that she is not what he is looking for.

[@Regalieth9143]

Are you dumb? He’s naturalized, he has a fucking U.S passport. You don’t have to be married to maintain a Fucking Green card. God damn you americans be so ignorant sometimes I can’t make this shit up.

[@TheCakediva08]

Ladies stop sleeping with these men with no commitment! Get some standards! There is no problem with him.. he's just not that into you sis🤷🏾‍♀️simple and plain. On the phone means nothing! Time spent in person is the only way to know someone

[@stroNg2thaBoNe2thaMax]

Women get on my nerves and this woman is an example of why. And I'm a woman.

[@beewilliams8447]

😂

[@j.k.3]

😂😂😂😊

[@mrmoe110]

A dude really has to be down bad fr to prefer a woman across the country instead of a woman right where he's at. Think about it realistically. Why would a guy thats actually decent deal with the logistics of a long distance chick when theres tons of women right where he's at? Unless the distance is actually something he wants....

[@elizabethclarke4981]

Fr I'm not traveling all around for some man 😂 I live in Brooklyn it's enough men for that

[@candorsspot2775]

I don't get it. He obviously has a bit of money. Why would he do this to himself and men in general? This woman needs to be D less until she hits the gym, not have a man giving her months of attention and then flying in to see her. Wtf.

[@kbthegoat824]

Yall are clearly small minded. My friend married a chic from another country after a 4 year relationship that he met while she was visiting. And they're literally perfect for each other. Yes there are tons of women, but you never know where and how you'll actually meet the one compatible with you.

[@tsimpson9615]

He’s already got a gf where he lives so dealing with someone out of town is better lol he will never run into her at the gorcery store

[@mrmoe110]

@@tsimpson9615 exactly. If you’re a decent guy it’s not hard to attract women wherever you’re at. So a dude that wants a woman across the country is likely doing it because he wants 304s in different area codes lol

[@lashaunx1000]

How Y’all Screwing A stranger on the first night, then have the nerve to say that you Manifested this man??? Make it make sense😒

[@ivyunnanelson]

People that word manifest loosely these days 😂it was a one night stand

[@lashaunx1000]

@@ivyunnanelson It Really Was. I Don’t know why she didn’t see it as such🙄

[@TheDroShow]

I don’t think most people are built for long distance relationships. It seems like nowadays there’s more of a thrill to fly out or be flown out more than creating and sustaining a relationship and someone eventually having to relocate.

[@mrsevelync6900]

The fact is, even if you continued to talk everyday, it was still just a one night stand to him. I’m sure he wasn’t acting moody and irritated BEFORE the sex, so clearly, he changed completely and became disinterested afterwards. DESPITE still communicating with you everyday, he just went about an elongated way of cutting it off. You didn’t meet up again, you had sex and he cut it off before meeting up again so it was just a one night stand. There are literally people who have a child with a ‘one night stand’, they still have to communicate AFTERWARDS to raise a child but it doesn’t take away the fact that it was a one night stand.

[@kiwthebeauty]

Kendra I need to see a success story. Majority of these “updates” it’s literally an extension place for men I hate to say to get some easy sex! Sometimes these men who watch the show can’t get any in the town they are from - so they prey on women who are making announcements to meet a man, and these men are literally meeting to smash. Then the updates with these women are how it didn’t work and now they want to try again. Kendra you are right, they shouldn’t start meeting people and having sex immediately and then wonder why it didn’t work with a viewer from your show. They keep doing the same rinse and repeat step - not realizing the common denominator is giving up the sex early to a stranger. Whew…well these male viewers see some of these calls as a sex mating call and if a woman is truly looking for a relationship/marriage - stop being so quick to sleep with a stranger.

[@kbthegoat824]

Success story and this show doesn't match. Nobody in their right mind that wants something serious will be on this show.

[@candorsspot2775]

Prey or pray on women?

[@kiwthebeauty]

@@candorsspot2775 definitely prey. These men aren’t praying for these women.

[@tome321s]

yes I agree with you too... women do get easy sex also😮

[@marsournexthome]

So... more 'it's the men's fault' nonsense...

[@wisforwumbo6408]

Tall women especially have to be serious about their fitness. Your tallness already hurts you in the dating market. A lot of men do not want to be seen with a woman that’s taller and bigger than him.

[@jayc5756]

I cringe Every time Kendra talk about their booty when they do the Kendra Cam. SMDH! 🤦‍♂️

[@butterflyroho6470]

I hate it when they fixate on the comments. Just be present if you’re really serious about this.

[@drzpapi413]

Meeting people, getting to know them, and it not working out is part of the single life. So to come on the show to give an update of a failed encounter is asinine.

[@yellowbears1]

He got an attitude with her so she could get upset and leave him alone. He got what he wanted.

[@etuitivemillionaire]

Let me hit y’ll with some statistics 📈. Only 1% of women are at least 6 feet and only 3.9% of men are at least 6 feet 2 inches in USA.

[@yasmeen7875]

Wow. I didn't realize it was so rare. My first husband was 6'7. My boyfriend before I met my husband was 6'2. My current husband is 6'0 and that's tall for a Latino man. I've never been with man shorter than 6 feet. And tall men have never really been a preference for me.

[@etuitivemillionaire]

People like things that are rare. Diamonds 💎, Gold, and a Tallie

[@EPXPhotography]

The stat I goggled says about 14.5% of men are 6 feet or taller.

[@etuitivemillionaire]

@@EPXPhotography Only 14.5 percent of men in the U.S. are over 6 feet tall - 3.9 percent are 6'2 or taller. The research that I found says that 10 percent of men are 6 feet or taller in the world. If you are 6'2, you are taller than 94% of men in the world.

[@candycrusher2024]

Those tall people are the elite.

[@dialac1]

Knocking down big girls is like shooting fish in a barrel. I wish her good luck

[@LoveAlways1002]

Before I saw her name, I said she looks like my sister's friend jaszmine...it's not her but shocking that that's her name to 😂❤🤯

[@GlobalGreenBook]

Poor baby, she is really clueless. I hope she stop throwing her pearls onto these swine. She seems truly sweet.

[@mynotaryjourney9753]

Who has time to FaceTime 2 or 3 hours a day everyday. That's incredible

[@etuitivemillionaire]

If they thought you were possibly 'the one', they would not risk leaving you on the open market. After all, there is no such thing as being “exclusive friends”. Kevin Darné, Online Dating Avoid The Catfish!: How To Date Online Successfully

[@LadyK007]

🎯💯

[@Emma-pr2pr]

Those comments were eating at her. 😂😂😂😂 she kept it together though..

[@prettyperfectpagne6226]

I be taking these updates with a grain of 🧂 now 😂😂

[@Tiredttttttt]

In most African countries bigger women especially tall women are the beauty standard, she’s not morbidly obese, she’s got a similar body type to queen latifah and Jill Scott, that’s considered beautiful in most African countries particularly west Africa where this man was from so just because you guys don’t find her attractive doesn’t mean she isn’t attractive to other people, she’s also got very clear skin without an inch of makeup & her natural hair is also very pretty. The world doesn’t revolve around America, she still shouldn’t have slept with him & he likely didn’t pursue her further because of that, culturally in most countries if you sleep with someone right away they think you’re not wife material so next time she should wait until engagement of a serious relationship at least

[@marzi0574]

Women hold out . Someone who chats u up is Just a phone relationship. That's it thats All . In this case its an one night stand . She gave it up and his communication stopped.

[@surigirlify]

It's Kendra's smiling for me😂