She REFUSES to Serve Her Man! You Won't Believe Her Reason!

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[@alfredhayes6153]

He been with her 9 years and hasn’t married her? He knows she ain’t it.

[@smitht1988]

He’s quietly telling her to leave 😂😂😂

[@franklinwill22]

Bingo he is satisfied with what he gets from her but hasn't made the real commitment.

[@CashFlowBlack]

He in the wrong because he still with her.

[@smitht1988]

@@CashFlowBlackshe’s stupid because she’s still with him 😂😂

[@CashFlowBlack]

@@smitht1988 couldn't be because if she wasn't getting her needs met she would have left already. She is there becuz she wants to be

[@SifuFreeGamer1417]

Years ago i went over to my girlfriend house and her mother just cooked , and as she went to take out my food the mother said , he gkt hands he could take it out . I wasn't hungry anymore because it showed me my future .

[@shorts26]

If she doesn't want to serve me she doesn't deserve my provision or protection financially or otherwise..they take our sacrifices for our family and what we do for them to be more comfortable for granted and if you don't love and appreciate and respect me and show me the same love I'm showing and expect you don't deserve me

[@TheUpwardbound1]

These modern day entitled slores are ridiculous.

[@jim_doles410]

Jahiem lost his damn mind telling us to put women 1st

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

😂😂😂

[@msinna6433]

It was definitely different back then tho women knew how men wanted to be treated 😂😂😂

[@j.daniels1548]

Jaheim is driving for Uber now

[@axxelfoley3304]

Women want an unfair advantage this shows the selfishness in these modern women

[@TeeDaHotboi]

These chicks are clueless

[@CarltonPhillupBanx]

If GOOD FOR NOTHING was a female.

[@shorts26]

They aren't they know exactly what they're supposed to do they just don't want to do it for you but if they like you they will and they will always lie online to look good but in real life they do it all the time

[@jqight740]

No they are useless POS’s.

[@MelvinMartin-fv7hu]

All of the yelling isn't necessary

[@smitht1988]

And my response would be “She’s got the right to work, why should I provide and protect for her?”

[@hotepmoor]

"If you do not understand White Supremacy(Racism) - what it is , and how it works - everything else that you understand, will only confuse you." Neely Fuller Jr. [1971]

[@ericwhite4801]

fuk

[@coopersepulveda9872]

Neely Fuller also invented the whole "Black people can't be racist argument and has gotten ABSOLUTELY WASHED in debates on that topic several times. Fuller is a doofus in my book.

[@cornelldavis6703]

@@coopersepulveda9872Racism is a power dynamic has absolutely nothing to do with not liking someone because of them skin color!! That’s prejudice/ bigotry!! So what if some one cams me ninja just don’t stop me or bar me or deny me or deprive me of access to anything because of my skin color!!

[@hotepmoor]

@@coopersepulveda9872 - What is a black racist? What is not a black racist? Give an example of each.

[@axxelfoley3304]

These women are disingenuous let a man pay for everything as she stays home she will still have an issue about him thinking since he pays all the bills he's in charge and she wont like it one bit

[@ladellmimms]

😅They have a problem with everything,, she stay at home she’s going to get bored, she go to work she’ll complain, she pay any bills she think you not a real man, this is most nowadays, which why a lot relationships are not working

[@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001]

These folks don’t understand the system they live under

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Can you break it down for them

[@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001]

@@DailyRapUpCrew KZbin professor black truth and thank me later. If you prefer levity/laughter Tariq nasheed may be more your speed. For the ladies sister Shahzad Ali or sister soldier.

[@seyimax]

Forget black, white, etc… NY women are DIFFERENT 🤣

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

How are the women where you from

[@seyimax]

@@DailyRapUpCrew I'm Nigerian my bro. The West is definitely doing its rounds, but the "traditional" you guys talk about is standard over there. We understand everything is transactional, at the very least both men and women move accordingly and stick to roles. None of this men want to be women, vice versa. Trust me, bride price still exists for a reason.

[@taureantherealestategod5161]

VERY

[@SifuFreeGamer1417]

Why would i have to explain to a grown woman ,what leadership means ?

[@andredmoss]

Just combative for no reason and it’s understandable why things are the way that they are. Children also shouldn’t speak on their parents relationship because they don’t the know dynamics of the relationship.

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Could you have a combative partner

[@andredmoss]

@@DailyRapUpCrew never it will eventually become unbearable

[@kenyattathompson6685]

Facts

[@franklinwill22]

Reason 10017 why not to get married in the US. They should've explained plainly why men require submissive women, she may have just argued either way.

[@Kozo_Hoshino_]

This was completely awful 😞. The amount of personal attacks instead of debating the topic, loud raised voices (louder doesn't mean you are winning it means you lack the discipline to articulate your points without losing control) the whole thing was just a mess. Fellas y'all need to maintain control of yourself and the platform, letting a guest get out of hand, loud, combative and uncouth hurts the quality of the show. It also reflects poorly on yourselves as a whole, please strive to do better. When guests get out of hand as they did here, it's on y'all to reign them in or if they refuse and continue to hurt the platform be kicked off if needs be.

[@joshuajackson7050]

The black girl in all white should have been kicked off very disrespectful.

[@enigmashukur2102]

It’s crazy that people really expect entertainers to make an impact on the world as far as politics and societal differences 🤦🏿‍♂️ we need more corporate billionaires and businesses in order to make a real impact

[@JK-jt8so]

Lastly, thank y’all at the Daily Wrap Up Crew for speaking up for Black Americans. In the past y’all used to let out Carribean and African cousins talk crazy about us unchallenged.

[@489Bloodmoney]

Facts ,glad that they finally standing up for black Americans

[@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001]

The delineation continues

[@JK-jt8so]

@@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001 no need to delineate if we move with love and respect.

[@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001]

@@JK-jt8so I disagree. we can walk and chew gum. We are not a monolith we are not all the same we don’t all think the same and those of us who understand strategy aren’t interested in being united with the (off code) just because they are melanated. We are gatekeeping our culture and delineating who we are who we are not who are our allies and who are our enemies.

[@trollthumpermicnastywitit2001]

They not like us

[@Hov..]

That wildebeest doing the most. I can’t deal with somebody, that communicates like that for too long

[@17thN.O]

Look at her booted up, twisted up face.

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

I don’t blame you

[@synakareeves9069]

I appreciate her stating how everything is split. Working doesn’t mean contributing to finances, if we both work but my money is being used to pay everything then it’s not a partnership.

[@Stonecoldalston]

I hate how when it comes to men and black men in general their doing every thing they can to point out the BS but every time they bring up a women they give them a out or an excuse

[@raymondkemp3650]

Where do yall find these women

[@Uncutart47]

In a sewer

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

We had episode that recently drop with the fellas talking about that

[@The_Logician]

It's not just the Caribbean that separate themselves, even other Americans do it. Like when they watch the news you'll have New Yorkers differentiating themselves from ppl from Chicago or ppl from up north chastising ppl from down south.

[@489Bloodmoney]

That’s so incorrect . Only the immigrant tethers do

[@CornerStoreDeli]

Nah that’s literally Caribbean descendants doing it. You can barely find an all black American in New York like you use to and im a full black American. These kids love saying they not from America but literally fight their identity of wanting to be from NY

[@acr8615]

I blame the parents/ guardian and yourself for not understanding how to show appreciation to your partner. You have to be responsible for raising your kids, not others. You have to understand what you are trying to have in a relationship. If a person is important to you, you will ask questions to make it better. I serve my son and my man when I cook dinner. We cleaned the house together. They both do my yard, and sometimes, I will cut my own yard for exercise, I do clocking in on my from 8-5pm. Ladies, ask questions, and research it.❤

[@MoeSoNatural]

All I know is a good man will move a woman (the women with sense) to be his servant… and this isn’t demeaning… because she knows and has been shown that he loves and takes care of her

[@thembandaba9021]

She don't care😂

[@Azar_Rakem]

Do Dominicans, Cubans, and Puerto Ricans not realize they are black 🤔?

[@489Bloodmoney]

Only black Americans are black . Those ppl are NOT LIKE US ✊🏿🇺🇸

[@JK-jt8so]

It’s important to be specific when you all are talking. Black American men come from Matriarchal house holds. When these ladies complain about their mother “serving” their fathers that is not a typical dynamic in our homes. That is Carribean/African culture that is a reflect of your home country. Most of us can cook a couple of dishes, can clean ourselves, ect. Our sisters definitely weren’t acculturated to serve us and to be honest we don’t expect it. We simply want someone that won’t be aggressive or combative with us when we are trying to build. Tbh I couldn’t imagine having to live with someone fussing in my ear like this episode.

[@deemtime1007]

LMAFO she tryna diagnose him and speak on her mom relationship when she don’t know what they got going on from a child’s place😂😂😂she traumatized ain’t never been a war 😂😂😂 the flagrant misuse of this word is disgusting her relationship ain’t gonna last long she just arguing to be lazy

[@Buddy_Boi74]

The yelling is crazy

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Pray for us

[@raharmonnelson7537]

The only leadership they care about is who is paying the bills..... 25:40

[@Uncutart47]

Why are these bxxxxs yelling for?

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Sad truth how does that make you feel

[@raharmonnelson7537]

@@DailyRapUpCrew no kind of way.... it's just who they are... but you should know how to deal with someone like that... so overall I'm blessed to know that...

[@eastbaltimoresbabyboy7904]

East Coast women are insufferable.I move down south years ago and when I say everything is literally better

[@kenyattathompson6685]

Stop the cap It’s the same just a different way You still in America

[@moddymoddy1]

I would never date a New Yorker.

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Where you from

[@Advic77]

It's so unfortunate that fixing a plate is such a big deal for some people. They miss the point totally. Not knowing the ace card of "cooking and serving" is really disappointing. Husbands have been snatched with soft energy of cooking and serving. Just the way a husband is buying something for himself and buys something he sees that will look good on his wife. Its not necessary however it does help in solidifying the relationship.

[@vanity5389]

The comment when he said that’s why black men go to other women completely contradicts previous points he was making.

[@melohopkins5480]

The fact she’s in a long term relationship openly saying she’s traumatized from her parents relationship and putting that on him instead of seeking the help to fix and work on the trauma so she can view her relationship with a clean heart is insane

[@nephewd8818]

My thoughts exactly. I'm jus like damn she jus putting ALL her trauma from her parents on her dude for no reason. Like do she not realize her dude ain't like her father, therefore she won't be subject to the same experience as her mother? Her IQ is in the gutter lol

[@King0fS0RR0W9]

Black men tend to like lighter skin women and Black women tend to like dark skin man. So why it is bad for a Black men to like lighter skin women?

[@meandepiphany]

I haven't heard or seen it that way in real life, only on TV.

[@nebriancoleman4704]

The blacker the berry the sweeter the juice. They didn't make that phrase for light skin women

[@DarkDarkXIV]

I'm dark skin and I like dark skin women. I even have to tell black women stop believing everything on TV.

[@AJ-ex7iz]

I’m honored to make my man’s, my dad and my brothers plates 😊

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Greatly appreciated

[@percelbrown7563]

Failure….. SMH

[@meecebabii]

I love the idea of talking about things it's just I wish that this show had a way to allow everyone to speak without being interrupted. There were a lot of great points being made but There are a lot of people speaking on top of one another and it could appear as an argument and make it hard to even understand what is being said. No shade, this is all out of respect and Love!!

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Appreciate you taking out the time to express that to us

[@lanellewitcher5604]

Can we have healthy dialogue between healed men and women for comprehension of our differences and understanding of self?

[@Stonecoldalston]

5:24 it’s funny they do this when it comes to the negative but they have no problem jumping on the bandwagon with all of the great stuff we accomplished

[@Oreal1234]

1. I don’t serve plates, he can get it himself. 2. I only eat first when I’m really hungry 3. I only didn’t serve him like that one time. As he said, many questionable red flags were tossed onto the field while you spoke. Also, shouts to shorty who feels that people think she’s black. Pardon us, we’re not sure why anyone would assume that of you. Peace be upon you though queen!

[@CoachChef]

Why is this panel so misinformed this young lady talked about education and books being put into school system which is not at all factually true don't let the news once again misinterpret facts

[@AJ-ex7iz]

I was taught to be honored to make the men’s plates but our family dynamics are set as women there are things we do not worry about and that’s a great existence

[@jordanglasper1064]

The Goddess in the middle gets it. That’s why she barely said a word. Attractive feminine submissive willing to serve and has leadership qualities. It’s sad to say but that white woman right next to her is going to be married happily before the goddesses on the outer left and right. She has the same qualities that the goddess next to her both of them to White Woman and Goddess are in the middle they have the same type of mindset which is humble loving submissive attractive and loving and nurturing. The sad part to this is the Doris on the left side outer left side, that lives in Goddess, she watched her to parent household her mother struggle religiously. And it sounds like her father not a deadbeat but he only did the requirement not much more than that. And within this week family structure because he sounded like a weak minded God. It built up a hatred and resentment within her. Any goddess who has a hatred for God cannot and will not submit onto our God even if he is literally an angel. Because he’s being in a relationship with somebody who you hate not somebody you love. That being in a relationship with your enemy. It’s not only a single parent household that produces that it is an in balance household. The light skin Goddess on the outer left, and the dark skin Kaaris on out right are both operating in the highest level or should I say the lowest frequency of the trauma of the hatred of their fear of God. Because there is no love there is no trust from its core there is no respect. How can I be in a relationship with somebody they don’t love they don’t trust they don’t respect? That’s why there’s such a pushback that’s why they’re such a vitriol a hatred. Listen to the energy listen to the tone this is how they feel about God. That’s crazy they’re never going to win, because they ain’t right, within. Shout out to the Goddess Lauryn Hill

[@Stonecoldalston]

7:03 him and ju definitely made a point the media definitely play a big part in this Like I just seen a story of a young black girl from Jersey getting accepted to Harvard I seen another story of a young man graduating high school and college at the same time and another of a girl that graduated high school at like 14 but these aren’t the stories that get pushed to the front they would rather portray black people as criminals

[@mehkidanielevans9682]

Pink vest was jss listening I like that 😂she truly trying yo understand

[@thembandaba9021]

She do look a little younger than the rest... Maybe she taking notes or whatever

[@paragon7934]

Yo, my man snapped. It was beautiful😢

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Which part

[@infinitymfg5397]

Would she have this same perspective if they were out on a date and he didn't open the door? She's fully capable of opening a door, so what's the big deal?

[@Stonecoldalston]

8:50 that’s BS too go look at Rick Ross 50 cent killer Mike bun b 2chainz Nipsey there’s many rappers literally doing the same thing but it’s not as validated when it comes from us for whatever reason

[@aktivebaby]

entertainers dont have as much money as they pretend to have, they frontin

[@marrsmann5922]

This was a great conversation. Unfortunately, you left out the colorism that women display. Women all wanted the Christopher Williams/Al B. Sure types and NOBODY calls them out for this. Everyone always talks about the men.

[@GrChuks]

Entertainment and news are literally both sides of the coin. I'd argue entertainment is even more influential today bc most ppl don't watch the news or they get their news from entertainment sources/entertainers.

[@mehkidanielevans9682]

23:05 is when I almost stopped watching

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Lmaooo why

[@PipNPensPublishing]

These chicks just want to argue SMH

[@Outta12]

Who has a mansion with 14 rooms? Thats only one or two people.

[@Stonecoldalston]

20:46 but she just said her man helps around the house This attitude definitely not attractive

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Yea some dudes like it

[@zaliahxmlt246]

I'm over here folding clothes and all I hear is yelling and screaming. This episode was really chaotic. 😒

[@moe0078]

Sad asf, she doesn't see that the trauma is generational and she's basically gonna pass it to her kids

[@alfredhayes6153]

Can’t argue with fools

[@MojoMicah]

"I'm going to love you even when i am tired" Conversation over These chicks only loves when it's convenient for them Also, this hard love from American women ain't it. I didn't know what i was missing till one day i met this Moroccan lady; she held onto my arm as we crossed the street, full undivided attention and wasn't looking through her phone, she bought me lunch, so many things i can say but i don't want to write a massive paragraph; i just met the lady that day and bu the days end she had me rethinking entirely what i should accept from women. I'd say this girl's man is probably similar to the former me, he's accepting what he's getting now, but only because he's ignorant to how good it can actually be

[@swatkins67]

Why yall don’t teach Hispanics and black what race is ?

[@ahamilton1189]

Arguing with a woman about being "submissive", making plates, insert domestic task is wild....like if she makes that much an issue and it means that much, just leave her ass

[@Stonecoldalston]

12:07 that’s not true we tried to push a lot of stuff but we don’t have the power we present a lot of things but it get shut down when it comes to the law makers

[@advanceperception3748]

There is nothing wrong with "sometimes." When "Sometimes" turns into "All The Time, " that's a problem.

[@brucewallagainsttheodds1740]

It’s crazy how the two in the middle seem to get it but the two on the outside got very defensive once the group started talking about leadership

[@Wiseguy00]

Why put someone in the middle if you don’t have a mic for them…..

[@treutable]

You can’t tell someone how to spend the money that they earned through hard work and dedication

[@Stonecoldalston]

15:27 you have many rappers that talk about this in their music but that music don’t get the support that some of the bs music get

[@raharmonnelson7537]

They don't want to do shit for you... she cooked because she was hungry .... putting on a plate would only benefit him... 22:43

[@VyCityMusic]

Were the only group of people who are systemically placed at a disadvantage regarding the history of the U.S. and are fully expected to escape our circumstances and OBLIGATE ourselves to rescue everyone involved in the design specifically made to keep us in bondage . We think trying to single handedly save our family led by a single mother is the norm for our teenage brain . This isn’t something that is mandatory for our white counterparts , so let’s stop making that comparison. THEY don’t have to give back to their community , because their community is doing just fine.

[@Stonecoldalston]

21:40 I’m sorry this girl is a bird brain

[@mafiooato7233]

Every woman i have dated cook for me, i will not even go on any date if you dont cook. My 3rd question of talking to any woman is, do you cook ?.

[@mysticstrikeforce5957]

Its like having pets in the house yet you wont feed it and help clean youre pet. Its just there

[@shottabreez9428]

It’s definitely normal for me to fix food when we cook and do homework with the kids

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

I don’t know why it would be hard for anyone else to

[@Stonecoldalston]

14:32 exactly like let’s cut the bs when it’s a black business we be feeling entitled

[@kenyattathompson6685]

THERAPY is the word for the episode

[@joshuajackson7050]

😂 these women arguing over fixing a damn plate, hell I would do what I would have to do you by yourself you would have to do it all alone at least it lightens the load.

[@Stonecoldalston]

8:37 the same can be said for the male rappers it’s not just all black rappers

[@Stonecoldalston]

10:48 she trippin parents got more power as a whole then a entertainer on the ground level if all the parents around the country got together and really took a stand things would be changed

[@terrelbrown9904]

Immigrants get loans and don’t have to pay taxes for opening businesses in black communities but we can’t get one

[@ShawBoogey]

30:51 Bring em a plate 😂😂😂

[@namkebanyanklariti]

Can't keep listening to the deflecting and argumentativeness from these panelists...exhausting. im out.

[@rahnbm]

Juu got in his bag lmao yeah Brody

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Appreciate that

[@KyleLindsay-ru9ou]

BBL's is not black culture grey hoodie that is ppl wit money culture dont do that

[@adim00lah]

She just makes herself a plate, and starts chowing down, tf? Me and wife say grace with our meals and eat together, so if I only make myself a plate, I have to wait for her to go get hers, and sit down, then we say grace together, then we eat. It's actually quicker for me to get her plate for us to start eating. I'm like Jeuu, I do most of the cooking, and 99% of the time I make my wife a plate, she trippin. My wife does most of the cleaning, so that's how we balance things out. I'm better at cooking, she better at cleaning.

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Respect to you and yours

[@raharmonnelson7537]

Yes money is the key.... come to terms with it 24:24

[@Stonecoldalston]

18:06 I guess if it works for them cool but will she accept from him that I’m blue taking the trash out because I’m tired or I’m not paying the bills this month because … insert excuse like come on it take less then a min to make a plate but again if he okay with it cool I guess

[@Dhab055]

no liquor store in white communities? what white communities have they been to?

[@raharmonnelson7537]

She knows damn well she won't 30:12

[@72beegee]

Young generation……. Wow ……. We in trouble

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Besides pink vest they in their 30”s

[@michaelpowell2266]

I bet these 304's never read the comment section lol

[@jqight740]

Nor do they have the capacity to care.

[@raharmonnelson7537]

Dude getting shitted on and don't even know it 29:54

[@Stonecoldalston]

19:18 I see what you tried to do that Eli don’t try to put that on blank women she’s around that’s no different then your friends grandma blaming you for his behavior

[@Gymrat187]

Cold world in the USA

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

Freezing not even cold

[@Stonecoldalston]

7:46 that’s no fair at all rappers are a small percentage of the community and that’s certain demographic of rappers you have plenty rappers like a j Cole Kendrick chance Andre 3K killer Mike tre the truth that’s unproblematic on social mediamedia and promote a lot of positive stuff but that stuff get overlooked for the bs

[@Stonecoldalston]

11:47 and what is a rapper gonna do about that?

[@KH-qs1di]

Leave black women alone.

[@DailyRapUpCrew]

It’s some good ones out there man

[@jqight740]

@@DailyRapUpCrewnot according to a KZbinr Accountability Commentary. He thinks all are bad. I don’t think so but a lot of western women are just as bad of other colors as BW.