She's Not Being Bad ~ Paying It Forward

[@GlistenUpp]

I don't know why but the fact that six cars paid that forward honestly made me cry. It really does only take one person. I know you have made me think about being a little more giving, and I thank you for that. :)

[@ashlynngitzel1970]

I got to say, when it’s peanut butter jelly time, Isaiah gets really into it😂

[@yootyler]

Ashlynn Gitzel lol

[@rae7864]

Hilarious hahaha

[@blbunger311]

I got to give a couple bags of dog food I didn’t need to a homeless man and his pup the other day and it literally made my day! I was on my way somewhere else but luckily had just enough time to swing into a parking lot close to the corner they were standing on, a first the pup was protective of her owner but when she smelled the food I handed him she got so excited! The mans attitude of genuine appreciation and thankfulness just does the heart good. For him and me both! #maasssquadcares

[@yaminogame7805]

You guys are a big part of my youtube relaxation time :) I look forward to having fatheringautism videos.

[@thatgirl7337]

Yami Chan we all do lol

[@sfie9388]

I love that you guys paid for the car behind you, that’s such a selfless and caring act!! Other people should most definitely look up to you guys and go by your example!! My parents spend a big part of their life teaching my siblings and I and how to be selfless and if you have the money to pay for things for the person before or behind you, because you never know in what (financial) situation the people around you are, and I am so grateful for having parents that took the time to teach us such things!

[@kassidieperdue7460]

Edit: Seeing the part in the video about paying for someone else is amazing! i wish there were more good people in the world like yall! we have a similar drive through light show like that near me but its $35 on non prime days and $45 on prime days... and being a broke family we just cant spend that kind of money. it was great watching this video and getting a somewhat experience of what it might be like

[@erinedwards5514]

kassidie perdue it's such a shame to charge people for Christmas Light Displays to me it feels like a mockery of the season. We too have displays that charge but they are places that charge for any display (ie: Longwood Gardens in Longwood, Pennsylvania) but we have an absolutely beautiful and amazing display of Christmas Lights that are and as far as I know always have been completely free and they started doing this almost 30 years ago. I'm trying to find the best "address" to go to for the best video and hoping to pass it along to the whole "Fathering Autism" crew (if that's allowed) so keep an eye out on this video's comments if allowed it'll be under MamaKitty0630 I'm presently not on my own phone.

[@millimoi4559]

I speak for me but I’m sure many others will agree, it doesn’t feel like taking time out of the day to watch you all, you are the KZbin channel I talk most about. I am autistic as well as having multiple other conditions including an eating disorder but seeing Abbie happy really brightens my day and reminds me why I loved helping my additional support department when I was at high school and hope to do more in the future. As for King, if you read these comments you are an amazing guy, keep fighting, I’m thinking about you :)

[@LaynieFingers]

I am blown away by how much she's grown and improved since I started watching! I know there are times when you're exhausted, but you guys (Asa, Priscilla, and Isaiah all of you!) are so, so good with her. It makes me feel good to know there are parents like you! Edit: my family and I volunteer at the local animal shelter. We talk about it as much as we can, to bring attention to the shelter and to let people know that volunteering there is an option! Several times people didn't realize it was even an option, and so we talk about ways people can get involved and help their community! #maassquadcares

[@alexishamilton8609]

No I don’t TAKE the time out to watch. I MAKE time to watch. These videos literally make my day!

[@carolgillis8634]

We need more pay it forward in our lives these days.. Such a beautiful family.... Love from Canada girl xoxoc

[@B4BYJ4Yxo]

This is my favourite family! I love the energy Isaiah has, what a old soul! I would love to hang out with you guys! Merry Christmas and happy holidays.

[@rcpetty16]

You guys are so patient with her. I really don't think I could do what you guys do. Your so loving. I praise you.

[@lkonik]

Ah! Ernie at the end leading the toy gang made my entire day! I’ve been collecting Ernies, vintage and new, since I was a kid and my dad got me my first one at birth. Im so happy Abbie has an Ernie too! You guys are awesome and I’m so glad you laugh instead of stress about daily life. Love from Columbus, Oh. P.s. it’s 27 degrees out up here right now!

[@sarakeith5480]

I always enjoy fun times with the Maas family!! You spread positivity and awareness!! Thank you!! Love seeing Sugarplum adventures too!!

[@toystorylover5257]

Wow! Love when you pay it forward! A lot of people can't afford to have Christmas or nice things so it's good to give back! I usually do the Angel Tree at the mall to buy for kids who don't have stuff! I like to do that because I like knowing that I made someone's Christmas better this year! Well thanks for sharing your day with us! P.S. Sugarplum is savage! Good job Sugarplum!

[@carolanngarcia9799]

I had done that same thing just today with a vehicle behind me with a car load of people and it was worth it. They drove past me after they left the drive thru and turned around to Thank me for my kindness. Just amazing how some people are so appreciative. Abbie done awesome at the drive around with the lights. Awesome job Cilla, you are so kind.

[@kimaguero3772]

This is amazing . One of my twins we are working on a diagnosis. I would get down and find it hard to even think what she will and wont be capable of. This just makes me hopeful. She seems to be a great kid and the sky is the limit. Thank you for sharing. What a great family.

[@megandmauiguidingpaws]

We actually try to purchase gifts that have meaning. So gifts that do funding for Autism and visually impairments. I love watching your channel. I have been watching it for awhile and only recently started posting because I am a bit timid. I just love your family. It reminds me a lot of mine. :)

[@guadalupepineda5954]

I do fell motivated to follow your example such a beautiful gesture! 💕 You all are bringing our little family a lot of joy! Thank you!!!

[@rebekahatchrimi241]

Awe y'all are so cute...loved the family dance party in the car. The Christmas lights were awesome too! Enjoying catching up on past vlogs that I missed.

[@kelligabaldon435]

Love your fam sooo much! Such a wonderful example of true genuine people , you make autism life a little easier... ❤

[@Izzy_Walker]

Oh my goodness! I wondered if y'all went to this. We are visiting Jacksonville right now and we went to this light show! I saw our vehicle in this video LOL. They gave our puppy a little Christmas treat bag along with our hot cocoa and candy canes. That was awesome for you to pay for others!

[@aalyssahhhhh]

Lucky I wanna see them

[@rake6065]

Thank you guys for spreading the kindness it truly is contagious.

[@JadenPlaysGeometryDash]

My two year old son was recently diagnosed with ASD. When he plays with his cars, nothing else can be on the surface where his cars are. If my hand gets in the way, he makes sure to take it off. He'll knock anything else out in the floor. If they're on the couch, he'll make me get up off the couch lol. Love watching you guys! ❤

[@lifeonlowbatteries8153]

Asa I love that you have so much fun with Sugarplum. Makes my day!

[@grayceunderfire7665]

Parenting and autism is certainly part of my life as well. It’s great to see how you all work as a unit in this thing known as family

[@mindyvanhorn3199]

I'm late to the party here, however I had to thank you for these vlogs! Paying it forward is addicting! It makes this world an amazing place!

[@xtinamarie6628]

I look forward to watching yall each and every day. Those lights are stunning and y'all are so festive!

[@johnjdrozdjr6556]

You all have great heart When it comes to helping other people.

[@kellymccallie2642]

We have a similar thing in my neighborhood but the proceeds go to The Hospice in our area. They work on donations only around here. I love watching your Vlogs. My life right now is in complete chaos so watching your vlogs gives me a reason to forget my troubles.

[@jenniferpennington6521]

We bought for a little girl who's parents are going through a hard time, it was so nice and fun to shop for her.

[@michellehorning2216]

Wouldn't miss you Maass family! Thank YOU for sharing your lives with us. It is an honour and privilege to have found you on KZbin. So hoping some day to meet you in real life. You make me smile every day, even on the worst days! Loved the family trip to see the lights. You can really see how engaged and happy Abbie was! Isaiah loved your dancin' in the car. Yes, Sugarplum! A knight in shining armour riding on your Unicorn!😁👍😊💖

[@natalijaparadiso7566]

Thank you for sharing your life with all of us and also to help other families, and people to understand about Autism love you all so much ❤❤❤ as far as paying forward my son and i have done it , last wk and that day 16 cars paid it forward it felt great 🎄

[@NatalieB9413]

Y’all are such amazing people! Thank you for brightening everyone’s days! ❤️ and coffee all the way!! 😘

[@amytunnell410]

My brother Noah has autism he is on the spectrum as wel I am his older sister I watch you guys and you guys,give me soo much inspiration and how to do better as a sis bc I look after him when pearnts are working and I’m still a teen mum and dad give me Time away to spend with my friends but I love spending time with my brother as he is just adorable

[@kleinekaeferin]

I'm having a really rough time this winter caused by depressions, anxiety and an eating-disorder which i've been fighting against for 11 years. This winter it's one of the harder times again. A lot of the problems I've already overcome are back in my life which is hard to deal with. But I had a smile on my face today. Because of your video. I love watching your videos all the time, but the end of this video, just made me laugh. Thanks for bringing a little bit of joy into my life! Sending you a lot of love and I wish you're family a great christmas time. From far away in Germany, Marie. :)

[@DoABarellJo]

Hi Marie, I'm Jojo. I understand how you feel. I don't struggle with an eating disorder, but I have been battling mental illness (severe anxiety) for more than 10 years myself. Some days are better than others, some years are better than others. But I'm so glad that we both have this channel and the Maass Squad family to bring some holiday joy and cheer! I hope things get better for you. We are here to listen.

[@graceliebowitz2184]

He’s such a good brother it’s amazing to watch he’s a really good kid seeing Abby happy is also so nice

[@anniek4681]

Love the shout out. Hugs and love for King.

[@catherinelinton3444]

Asa, you are really getting serious with this elf on the shelf filming stuff. Its turning out pretty cool! Hope you are feeling better!

[@All-Parts-Of-ME]

It is Beautyfull To hear about that pay it forward! i'm a big fan of that system myselve. :-) . ill burn a candle tonight for King. that was a tutching storie. and i loved the lights! hugs xxx

[@angelagrayson222]

How have I never heard of this "Elf on a Shelf" Christmas Tradition until these videos???! Im 28 years old! I've lived my whole life in the deep south (Chattanooga TN), but somehow I've never heard of this tradition. I feel like I've missed out on a part of my childhood now hahaha. My parents have some 'splainin' to do!

[@tracycardy6424]

Thank you so much for taking us on your journey to see the Christmas lights. I've never seen anywhere in the UK near us that does a drive around and my son doesn't do crowds, so to sit and watch not only you guys but to have a treat like that too was brilliant, so thank you. I had to giggle when Abbie wasn't bothered in the snowball fight. It was as if she was saying, please, I'm busy. Lol. ❤❤

[@jenniferpennington6521]

I've had a rough day but seeing you guys lifted my spirits

[@Theycallmemar]

I am crying cuz of kings sister and king himself wow RIP

[@jamielatham5422]

My absolute favorite family thank you so much for making my day better.

[@sarajedi1237]

Happy Birthday King God Bless you and your family Way to go Abbie you loved Christmas lights love this

[@parrotlove30]

Hi just got turned to this channel and wanted to introduce myself and hearing kings shout out gave me a bit of courage to do it as i can be shy... I'm 32 and was diagnosed with Asperger's at 15 and diagnosed with Chronic Migraines in my mid 20s as well as other issues, due to mental/physical health and other issues I live with my mum still. Four years ago we lost my dad's mum to bone cancer and pneumonia and earlier this year my mum's mum was diagnosed with terminal pancreatic cancer. This year has been the hardest yet for us as we also lost my dad at the end of November to septic shock due to a UTI, he had also been living with familial spastic parapalegia for about 12 years or so and had to be placed in a nursing home 6 years ago as our health wouldnt let us tend his needs. Please just keep us in your prayers if you can. Thanks!

[@KatTheTruth]

My nephew has autism and is very, very OCD. He is always moving things to where he thinks they belong. He visits us and moves things all over the place because I guess the way I have them doesn’t feel right to him. I have diagnosed OCD myself so it drives me nuts and I end up getting angry because it messes w my OCD for him to move things, but I slow myself down and tell myself “he just cannot help himself”. I know how awful it is to have obsessions and kids with autism probably have an even harder time stopping themselves from doing them. He also hates having things on the table near him and pushes them away. It seems behavioral but it really isn’t at all. They just feel compelled. Thank you for this reminder. I love that you paid for the people behind you in the line. I love doing things like that!!!

[@norajung4513]

Thank you for paying it forward. Cute snowball fight haha. Looked like fun.

[@lindafoster2141]

Rewatching vlogs, I love you guys, your so funny and awesome! You teach us and make it entertaining! Love from Indiana!

[@esthermiller2713]

Giving with a sincere heart, as your family does........because you care........is exactly what God commands us to do. There are people who don't feel loved. There are so many with constant serious struggles & challenges who feel like it's an uphill struggle all the time. They feel alone in their struggles. Giving people make them realize that they are indeed cared about & they're definitely not alone.

[@lorikiszkawoods9350]

Coffee! The lights were just beautiful! I loved the snowball fight after the beep. Great vlog as always.

[@vickystar5]

Found your page about 3 weeks ago. Absolutely love your vlogs! Slowly working through all of your videos :))) I’m an aba tutor from the UK. I work with children with severe autism. Your videos are helping me understand life with a child with autism a lot more!! Thank you xxx

[@RebeccaGomezToronto]

Wow thats so heartwarming about the people in line paying it forward :) thats so lovely!

[@abby4526]

The more videos i watch the more i love your family! Have a wonderful Christmas!

[@teala010]

So heartwarming... I Love it!!!! Props on the snowball fights, human and dolls alike! 💕

[@RKMWYO]

I love it when Abbie smiles. Her whole face lights up!

[@trishawalsh9102]

I love Abby’s little grin, she’s adorable. I think what you do, say, share is absolutely amazing. I don’t have an autistic child and came across your channel about 7/8 months ago by accident ( a fantastic accident by the way ) I watched 1 video and subscribe straight away, I was hooked on your channel. Thanks to you and your wonderful amazing family I have learnt so much about autism and the things that other families with an autistic child can do, what help they can get etc. It needed a family like yours who have gone through all the struggles and doors slamming on you and being told no you can’t have that, no we don’t offer that right at the beginning of Abby’s life but you were having none of it and fort for her rights, because of you other family’s who have an autistic child will not have to struggle alone or feel they have no idea where to get help, I truly don’t think you fully understand just how much help you have actually given to other family’s. You are an amazing family and I will be watching your channel right to the end. Thank you for teaching me about autism, you have made me a far better person in understanding some of the issues that you face daily. Have a fantastic Christmas guys. 💝 xxxx

[@jessejames1424]

Coffee.. DEFINITELY!! I'm just now tryin to catch up on the vlogs, been sick with my MS but I'm doing a lil better and I'm finally able to catch up!! Hope you all had a very Merry Christmas! Much love from Kentucky!

[@jamesroddy8637]

Oh my goodness!! You have no idea how much I laughed over the stuffed animal snow ball fight!!!! That was just too cool! Thank you for going to all that trouble! That was GREAT!!!

[@maryannesmith2529]

I think use are a thab family u all stick together no matter wat I have a disability i live in care I'm 42and been in care all my life use make me laugh all the Time

[@arabellasplace3823]

Thanks for sharing the beautiful Christmas light show. The snowball fight at the end was awesome.

[@helenmcclure4752]

So love the Elf!! Makes me laugh so hard every vlog!! 🤣🤣 Thank you. 🤣🤣

[@koc4787]

🤣🤣🤣 Grandma running... that was so cute. The lights were beautiful. I need to go tour the twin cities for lights and hopefully Duluth this season. My kids are all moved out and hubby works nights so it's not fun to do alone.

[@staceyruwoldt9158]

Christmas lights are the best!!!!! My greatest love in life!!! Just absolutely love going to look at Christmas lights!!!! 😁😀😄😊💕💕💕💕 The little skit at the end omg.. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂💜

[@PianoDisneygal10]

We need one of these drive around light up shows where I live. All we have is the ones you have to walk outside to see. It gets to be mighty cold here in Massachusetts!

[@katiekawaii]

I am increasingly in love with Isaiah. He's awesome. P.S. remember when Abbie was sitting on the couch and, without even looking, grabbed an entire potted plant by the stems/trunk and handed it to you? I think laughter was a 100% appropriate response. It was hilarious. 😁

[@Amber12332]

I just love you all, such a great FAMILY .

[@jadalynn1994]

Shrines hospital and shriners helps a lot of children I had to have surgery at shriners hospital when I was 11 years old to put a rod in my back for my scoliosis .

[@97AshleyRose]

The Dream Crafter same I’ve stopped growing though so I don’t need surgery for it but have had surgery for other stuff

[@patriciahazen6150]

"Paying it Forward"...so important in this day and age and all that's going on in the world!

[@esthermiller2713]

Your talking about appreciation compels me to tell you that I myself so appreciate your willingness to share just a snippet of what your life is like........because I've always had an interest in finding out, in an unobtrusive way, how autism affects a person......& consequently a family. About twenty years ago close friends had their first child,......a beautiful baby girl, who they named Cassidy. At the age when babies are learning to walk, Cassidy wasn't showing any sign of trying. She also wasn't trying to say words. She did eventually do both,.....but was very late in doing so. I'm sure you've guessed.....yes......Cassidy was diagnosed with autism. Her condition didn't reach the severity that your daughter's did. I enjoy the proud look on Abigail's face, that looks like she knows she accomplished something. I feel happy for her as she obeys & is successful doing something good. She is such a treasure! It's extremely important that she understands that she's super important & highly valued! But I'm definitely not telling you something you don't already know! God trusted YOU, her loving caring parents, with this sweet precious girl! You are so very blessed to have God entrust YOU with her! God knew you were the EXACT RIGHT parents for her! Abigail, as an important valued member of society, deserves to be treated with respect at all times, & be given every right that everyone else has. Why can't EVERYONE see her this way??!! I'm so sorry that she is forced to tolerate the starers in public. If I could hug her, I would.

[@carlyelson7546]

I love to see them having fun together

[@Sneg404]

Snowball fight in the end! Epic! Thank you for the laughs!

[@shellyelders2383]

You have a beautiful family I love how yall are able to handle your baby girl.

[@RabbitTeaPot]

Omg...I just realised how long I’ve been watching you guys! I remember last years Christmas lights episode!

[@devynlooloo]

Your videos always brighten my mood 😊 thanks for being awesome!!

[@spitfirespilie7931]

I just watched this video even though it’s from Christmas but it was super funny. I especially like the idea of the fake snowball fight so need to do that with my kids. You had my 17 month old dancing with you.

[@GlistenUpp]

KING MERRY CHRISTMAS...you are loved and in our prayers.

[@nataliemira2073]

I agree do nice things for other people ,,, however ,, I feel it should be all the time ,, not just cuz it’s the holidays ,, your family is always giving and caring etc all threw the year ! That’s how it should be ,, majority of people just do it during the holidays but then again I guess anytime if better than no time at all ...thank you for being a inspiration

[@suzannehedderly1331]

The end was awesome! Well done!

[@edespenzero2199]

Loved your closing of this vlog. So funny. Love you guys. Merry Christmas!

[@kathyjones8656]

COFFEE for sure! We have a place similar to this. My favorite was a house all decked out and the house next to them had "DITTO" spelled out in front of house! 😂😂😂

[@duranelida1]

Dios los bendiga, los admiro desde el fondo de mi corazon, son muy fuertes. God bless you, you have no idea how much I admire you from the bottom of my heart. Your daughter is so gorgeous.

[@Cyperspiller]

1.05... omg. that family!!... ;D... I would love to have grown up in a family like that... There is SO much heart.

[@Autmazing]

Glad to see that Sugar Plum had back up today. 😂 Also really enjoyed hearing about all the cars paying it forward.

[@juliamartin4526]

She pulled the “whole full name” card ... you better go Abbie. 🤣🤣🤣

[@hayleyx2034]

I don’t know wether to be impressed or slightly concerned about how much effort you do everyday with Elfie for the vlogs 😆

[@itynotbity]

Your outtro every night is amazing! They keep me laughing!

[@karenyoung2407]

Loving the Sugar Plum Chronicles!! Great job!

[@annegreenwood3624]

awesome video felt like i was there watching the lights love all the fun especially the dancing in the car

[@egg2579]

I am cracking up at this stuffed animal snowball fight!! I needed that!!

[@tracywarfel3419]

Omg,,, she walked away from the juice after you made her pick up the napkins. Love love love it. She is so stubborn just like my 12 year old stubborn to the bone.

[@joannecourchesne111]

I loved this video from start to finish! Well done Asa!.

[@Juwlz]

I love paying it forward and do it as often as I can. Recently my mom stopped at Burger King drive thru to grab my brother some food and the person in the car in front of her had paid for her meal. She thought it was so cool and told my 86 year old grandfather....who...clearly did not get the concept of this as a nice thing. Some things grandpa said: "But why would someone do that?" To be nice grandpa "I wouldn't trust that, that doesn't sound right. Id of asked some questions if I were you" no grandpa it's just a random act of kindness, people do this all the time "I wouldn't let them pay for my stuff. That's crazy. Something isn't right there. Id pay anyway" well grandpa you could just pay it forward and pay for the person behind you, "why would I do that?for all I know they have a $100 order. Plus they would think I was nuts, probably be scared I was gonna follow them home. " *tears all my hair out* yes grandpa the world is evil and everyone is out to get you.... And before anyone asks, he's not senile....he just likes to make me absolutely crazy. It delights him lol you should see our political discussions. One time me and my husband(boyfriend at the time we were maybe 20) were visiting my grandpa and there's a knock on the door. He goes to answer it and it's some sweet blonde young woman who tells him she is running for house of representatives in his area and she's a Democrat and he goes "oh, your a Democrat? Don't worry you'll grow out of it" and shuts the door. My husband was laughing from shock so hard and my grandpa comes into the room with this glimmer of mischievousness in his eye and a smile. I love him to pieces but he is going to drive me to the brink of insanity

[@Jenny_Pearson1994]

You know you have done something when your entire name gets called my a parent... mostly mom 😂

[@SelinaKyle2]

Praying for you King. Stay strong

[@leannsanford906]

I love you Maass Squad. Thank you 🤗

[@Dspalten]

You both are so amazingly patient and consistent. This is so very hard to do day in and day out. You both are such an inspiration and it’s the effort that you both put in to Abby that she does so well for having such extreme autism. It breaks up so many marriages and the child with autism is the biggest casualty of this. It takes a whole family team to raise a child with autism.

[@memeboyer5380]

Laughing so hard right now! Love you guys!

[@bfunnygirl21934]

I do for others year round. I don’t post it or tell anyone. I feel like it kinda says oh look what i did so i just do it. The people know and God knows so i’m good. 😊🎄

[@sandydog426]

Except you just posted it and told about it lol.

[@bfunnygirl21934]

sandydog426 I didn’t post what i did and all the details. And my reason for my comment was just to say that i personally feel by putting it out there on social media (for some people) is like trying to draw attention to themselves. that’s all.

[@amylukenash4048]

Brenda there is nothing wrong with posting a good deed. To each his own. A lady in Baltimore city got stabbed last week because she rolled down her window and handed a homeless mom some cash then a guy walked over and stabbed her and killed her. It won’t stop people from giving either. I give all year round too a lot and sometimes I tell people and sometimes I don’t. I would never tell someone they shouldn’t post a nice deed. And the way people are so down on eachother is truly disgusting. I find the good deed stories a better read than all the nasty political junk anyway. I love happy stories. And when people are nice and sweet I talk about it and share with others. It’s not to stick it in someone’s face or to get others to do the same. It’s just sharing beautiful stories. We need more of these stories. Why would u come on here and put down their happiness.

[@bfunnygirl21934]

Organized Minimalist Like you said to each their own. And what do you mean put down THIER happiness? I’m not even talking about anyone in particular. I was just saying i disagree about posting it. Which i can say that about myself. Please don’t put words in my mouth or assume anything. It’s not right. ty.

[@samiog5695]

I think people posting good deeds will encourage others to do it.....it spreads awareness in a way. Post or don’t post neither is wrong