Listen, you can’t be 23 with 3 baby dads AND have a attitude.
@wordym.3435 Жыл бұрын
That’s the thing… gotta be humble
@andred5555 Жыл бұрын
She’s being defensive because she’s embarrassed.
@jfelton3583 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that's the vast majority of single mothers. You must be new to the show 😂😂😂
@nathanlopez3918 Жыл бұрын
Yup, but that’s a lot of lower class black women for you. Their attitude is a madness
@jfelton3583 Жыл бұрын
@@nathanlopez3918exactly kids or no kids they stay with the attitude
@odog76543 Жыл бұрын
Having a baby by a one night stand is reckless as hell.
@mrxswagger Жыл бұрын
Reckless but common I have a theory that most women don’t know they baby daddy’s they are strangers don’t know middle and last names never lived together never been on a date knew each other less than 72 hours and smashing raw most babies don’t come from failed relationships but from raw one night stands
@Douglass10 Жыл бұрын
@@mrxswaggernah most people typically have kids with people they’ve only known for about 3 months.
@AhlSunnah1118 ай бұрын
🎯🎯🎯🎯
@Ev-rd2lw4 ай бұрын
THATS HER LIFE. U SEE UPSET
@Lolol7062 ай бұрын
Yes it is!
@raeforthepeople6081 Жыл бұрын
She can’t think of ANY flaws??? Babygirl your life is full of flaws
@Scam-ish Жыл бұрын
I think because the question overtly asks a person to shit on themselves so it’s easier to avoid that question Vs them freely telling their story and that telling all their obvious flaws
@raeforthepeople6081 Жыл бұрын
@@Scam-ish Lol i see what you mean
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
Her first name is Red last name is Flag 😂😂
@zari2662 Жыл бұрын
@@Scam-ishyeah this for sure. This is a "dating" show so most people don't want to share their flaws before even meeting someone.
@konye618 Жыл бұрын
She also said "3 falls would be" I knew she wouldn't have one. I don't think she knows what a flaw is
@Rocanala Жыл бұрын
She’s a child (mentally) with three children by three dads that are out of the picture completely. Thank you Kendra for putting something in her ear.
@candorsspot2775 Жыл бұрын
She's angry and rebellious. That's the only thing that's wrong for her.
@murieltillman9554 Жыл бұрын
This is the same thing I was thinking throughout this interview. She is a child with 3 children already! It's sad. I won't put negativity on her. I can't even clown her. She is a child.😢
@logicalcritik2144 Жыл бұрын
@@candorsspot2775promiscuous and did not listen to her parents
@childrenofthecorn3672 Жыл бұрын
She is NOT a child ‼️
@childrenofthecorn3672 Жыл бұрын
She’s a young lady that need help but definitely not a CHILD a 23 year old can’t be a child Ppl !!
@cookiecuteasapuppy1008 Жыл бұрын
Her Immaturity is at an all time high . It’s very telling 💯
@Gem-n-life Жыл бұрын
She’s giving something happened to her at an early age, and she’s unable to distinguish between the ‘act’ and love. She appears to think they’re synonymous.
@cookiecuteasapuppy1008 Жыл бұрын
@@Gem-n-life you’re so on point luv. Her childhood trauma has been pulled over into her adult life. I’m not saying she don’t deserve love or the man for her .. but she needs to work on healing journey. Focus on those 3 beautiful daughters of hers 💯
@cheechee5502 Жыл бұрын
Their grandmother might have had 10 or 15 kids but they were married and by the same man, and the man took care of the household and his wife!
@sonyadrake7843 Жыл бұрын
🎯💯👏🏾
@stinkreezy2791 Жыл бұрын
True
@devadii24 Жыл бұрын
💯
@56sonya Жыл бұрын
Yeah & they had another family on the on the other side of town.
@freethinkingMILF Жыл бұрын
Not my grandmother, she had three kids, divorced and got another husband and had 3 more kids.
@mobetta6408 Жыл бұрын
Having three kids with three different men and not communicating with the fathers is not a badge of honor or something to boast about.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
Imagine out of 3 men 1 of them will grow up and find himself and straighten himself out he going to come to her home and when he do he will want to be with his kid and if she have a man you have to make room for him hard deal to be honest
@paolaree8004 Жыл бұрын
@@GETBIG4WARDimagine if all 3 do that no man is signing up for this. They’re definitely not marrying her
@DebraMonae Жыл бұрын
I would be embarrassed to admit that because honey you’re dumb
@tyronehill1237 Жыл бұрын
She's a boss ɓîťćĥ 😂😂😂😂😂
@danielademide Жыл бұрын
@@GETBIG4WARD - What language is this?
@09irishpride Жыл бұрын
“I just happened to get pregnant” sis, that’s not how that works lmao
@Rocanala Жыл бұрын
I’ll give a one off ‘just happened’, but 3 with 3 different men!? At 23?!
@idubldairu8330 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@idubldairu8330 Жыл бұрын
@@Rocanalasame thing i said. It takes 9 months for a baby to be born. And she spent 27 of them giving birth. TO RANDOMS!!
@indigoGoddess7 Жыл бұрын
😕😣I had to pause and replay to make sure I heard properly 😂
@logicalcritik2144 Жыл бұрын
@@idubldairu8330ikr, the audacity
@Age_Of_Aquarius84 Жыл бұрын
This woman is exactly what I think of when I hear the words "baby mama". She has achieved every single stereotype of a black single mother at the tender age of 23. This is plain sad. I'm not gonna kick her when she's already down. She needs divine prayer and mentorship.
@dialac1 Жыл бұрын
She’s collected all the infinity stones
@shakie1971 Жыл бұрын
I hope fathers are watching 😢
@Simply_sankofa Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. It has saved me from making a comment in contradiction to this. You saving souls ❤
@AshleeGenae Жыл бұрын
Said it well
@awesomehigames Жыл бұрын
Only thing you missed in your assessment is that she achieved these stats at a younger age. She's been a single mom with 3 baby dads since before she could legally buy alcohol.
@Dynamic_JP Жыл бұрын
As a young mother, please protect your girls because there are some men that would talk to you to get to them. Protect them please. This world is crazy. I wish you the best!
@Gem-n-life Жыл бұрын
Especially putting herself out here on this show. I’m praying for those girls 🙏🏽
@jayo307410 ай бұрын
Stop blaming men.
@Dynamic_JP10 ай бұрын
@jayo3074 Why are you so pressed? Are you one of those men? Predators are real, and they can be male or female. You already know that, though.
@Lolol7062 ай бұрын
This is so true!!
@emonilee47876 күн бұрын
Amen to that
@Msdivaduh1 Жыл бұрын
You don’t need child support ? Chile please our taxes is paying for them 3 kids
@valpooh7532 Жыл бұрын
Right!!! Ima need to borrow some of her stamps I’m paying for so I can buy me a nice steak.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
She said “I don’t trip” 🤦🏿♂️
@Mmm_Feminist_tears Жыл бұрын
Lol, the type of dudes a lot chics have babies by you may need to conjure up a spell to get child support for them, I have a math question? What’s is 35% of ZERO? 😂😂
@deannac9566 Жыл бұрын
Okay! Tx wage at Walmart not covering much, and food stamps only help with food...not bills and clothes smh 🤦🏾 She needs to strive for a career . She hasn't even mentioned or given an attitude of TRYING to be a better 'woman'
@digigum5996 Жыл бұрын
This!!!!
@neoho6096 Жыл бұрын
Raw-dogging on a one night stand …… but we don’t judge 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
@thewinzerfam Жыл бұрын
Right and she sound like she was proud of conceiving a child out of a one night stand. That’s not a flex. 🙄
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
Shidddd😅😅😅😅some do judge it’s like a felony lol
@santelaneal5374 Жыл бұрын
Raw doggin on someone you not committed to at all 🤮🤮🤮
@logicalcritik2144 Жыл бұрын
@@santelaneal5374makes no damn sense! 😂😂
@logicalcritik2144 Жыл бұрын
@@thewinzerfamyeah, she was like 'oh well' sh,I,,t just happens. Bet she won't tell that child that part years from now when she'll be asking where her father is, because she will be asking!
@diamondandrus3717 Жыл бұрын
I always watch,never comment. I couldn't imagine having 3 kids and I'll be 23 in less than a week. I soooo want to cry for her. My father was never present, and my mother has 6 kids by 5 different men, I CHOSE to be better than the situation I've seen firsthand. I've never had anyone to look up to when it comes to what I WANT from relationships. I'm not perfect because I could damn well be in her shoes with some decisions I've made in life. I'm just trying to better myself; my career is JUST taking off. I'm learning how to be fiscally responsible and be self-sufficient because I want kids one day & I want to be a wife one day... At this point I'm thanking God for sparing me and letting me see the things I have that has led to this mindset that I have... this is extremely sad... I'm praying for those babies. Lord just continue protecting me and giving me your grace, this is really mind blowing.
@SunshineKK99 Жыл бұрын
Good for you sweetie. Keep it that way. Remember that YOU have the final say. Go by not what a man say but what he does. Pay attention to his actions. Hold him accountable right away if he doesn't. Don't waste your time if he says one thing and does another.
@NorthEastCapricorn Жыл бұрын
Keep goin,keeping God first always..hope&pray her girls also make diff life decisions than her
@QueenGail Жыл бұрын
I was married and when things got rough and we got divorced my ex signed up to have support taken out of his check weekly and before the paperwork processed he moved out state changed his ss# and d.o.b., that was waaay back in the day, now days I’ve heard of I know two males no 3 that deleted the seed they left behind. Blessings to you 💜💚
@Faye011 Жыл бұрын
I wanted to cry watching this too. She just don’t know how badly she screwed herself over for a night of passion. I’m glad God raised me with parents who put me up on game when I was growing up. I pray for those girls too. I want better for our black women. They need to protect themselves especially their womb. Keep protecting yourself and vet every man you want to be with!
@futurefunk88eddins96 Жыл бұрын
Bless your heart I can't see why or how a mother could conduct themselves in that behavior.
@NubianP6 Жыл бұрын
For every single mother who proudly proclaims that they take care of their own children, and *“don’t need any help”* from the father(s), Kendra should start asking them: *So, do you already have a college or trade school fund set up for each of your children”?* This isn’t a pride thing, nor is solo-support a badge to pin to your chest for being a “strong, courageous” woman, who chose not to pursue the father for child support. Your feelings are truly IRRELEVANT. This is about the future of your children. Aside from all of that, it takes two people to make a child for a reason, and fathers have a lot to contribute to the lives of their kids, both boys, AND girls, so please stop thinking that you look like some kind of a hero if you choose to go it alone, because in some people’s eyes, you just look foolish.
@Mr.Boring_Man Жыл бұрын
🎤 Drop!
@A-Thomas Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@nadia4999 Жыл бұрын
Of course they need help. Their heart is already bruised and disappointed that some joker would leave them or do their own seeds like that. Not saying it is right, but that’s their way of saying they will be alright. But we all know the struggle is real, and she knows too.
@jamdoll8660 Жыл бұрын
Oh, stop pandering to the weak egos of men. How is it foolish to stay and raise your kids! Foolish is being a deadbeat and not contributing an ounce of support to your children because you're a selfish individual. Nobody's making men abandon their children in devastating numbers. Why do the made up parenting rules change for single moms to uplift heathens who aren't parents, let alone heroes in the lives of their children. Plain hypocrisy and hate. Then, some of the worst people I know have two, dysfunctional ass parents.
@kishaquiller505 Жыл бұрын
How is she supporting three kids off Walmart?? She is lying she is getting tax payers to support her kids instead of the men. Guarantee she is on WIC Medicaid EBT and probably section 8 or some type of subsidized housing. You can’t support one person off Walmart how you supporting 4 people stop the cap
@char3365 Жыл бұрын
“I’m not with the 4 year old dad because he’s a h*e”. Says the person who had a baby with a one night stand. Make it make sense. 🤣
@yulanngup Жыл бұрын
Maybe he's (The one night stand) is the one she's referring to.
@Tiredttttttt Жыл бұрын
I was 23, 3 years ago can’t imagine being this unaware of reality, may God be with her
@buffalo.blackk Жыл бұрын
Alhamdullilah.
@vegannn7178 Жыл бұрын
Chileee I’m 20 and can’t imagine being this unaware but I definitely understand because I used to have “friends” who have now turned out to be just like her
@Melissamy5 Жыл бұрын
There’s too much information before you procreate it’s well over 30 birth control methods and where the condoms?… self awareness is important.
@LoveAfterPookie Жыл бұрын
I'm 23 and I feel so bad for her
@buffalo.blackk Жыл бұрын
@@LoveAfterPookie Typical female. Society is trash because women no longer criticize other women. Women no longer hold one another accountable for poor behavior. Women just say I feel bad for her, don’t criticize her. A society can rise no higher than the moral character of its women. And black women have no standards for other women, just sympathy. So these types of things keep happening because there’s no criticism beforehand. A proper society, the women would’ve criticized her so she stops after 1 kid. But you can’t tell a black woman anything. So she’s gonna keep on going. Even Kendra wouldn’t check this promiscuous female. Just, “awww, poor baby.” As them kids end up in prison or on the stripper pole or on OnlyFans or dead. I want no parts of American black culture. I’m about to be a passport bro.
@crazyDayz27 Жыл бұрын
Girl aint nobody spoiling yo ass. 😂😂😂😂😂
@valpooh7532 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
If anyone need to be spoiled it’s her 3 kids
@jayo3074 Жыл бұрын
Lol exactly
@yougotgamesonyourphone6947 Жыл бұрын
LMFAOOOOOOOOO THIS COMMENT
@Theonenottoplaywith Жыл бұрын
You know what I’m saying 😂😂😂❤ lier
@TheQueenrevolution Жыл бұрын
The fact that ppl still call into this show to tell all of thier business is proof of the current intellect we are dealing with in American society. I wish her and her children luck.
@ethanm3323 Жыл бұрын
No this is limited to Black people. Black people are degenerate and tell all their business in TV.
@A-Thomas Жыл бұрын
She didn’t tell all of it. She left out how is tax payers take care of her children. I’m so tired of these baby mamas lying and saying they take care of their children knowing damned well they are on welfare.
@fortunatemd3253 Жыл бұрын
@@A-Thomaslmao. U already know those are food stamps kids
@Fabrizio7171 Жыл бұрын
@@fortunatemd3253some women actually do. Don’t box the 3 job and a hustle on the side having women to the ones who suck dick to survive.
@lomaxlomax6152 Жыл бұрын
Cause ain’t no way if I was in her situation I would call in looking for love! Nope I would just have to meet prospects at the job or something, nope love would not be that important to me. Would not want the world knowing my business.
@sheambitious29lachelle17 Жыл бұрын
Babygirl you have so much to learn in this life.. I wish you and your children the absolute best!
@mrxswagger Жыл бұрын
Them kids got born into 18 yrs of hell
@LLJTHEMUA Жыл бұрын
I got sad watching this! At the end she seemed like she was on the verge of tears. Hopefully she learned something today that can help her take care of her girls. I pray that she gets some guidance soon.
@bernishagarner9547 Жыл бұрын
I agree her tone of voice had changed and the comments were definitely weighing in on her
@LLJTHEMUA Жыл бұрын
@@bernishagarner9547 Right, very sad! I just feel like she needed more guidance and uplifting rather than being torn down.
@ebonybelle Жыл бұрын
All her children have their own dad? Ghetto. Trifling and irresponsible! Whos son is she trying to bring this BS too? BYEEEEEEE
@Readyplayer8 Жыл бұрын
😅😢😒
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
If you have a son your son or if your friends have sons them 🤦🏿♂️
@kevinlee9929 Жыл бұрын
Any person's son crazy enough to sign up for this.
@Cali4life818 Жыл бұрын
Girl my grandma had 2 children. She was progressive hustler, school, income property, land and a juke joint. She stress a woman must take care of herself. Don’t have bunch babies. But, you keep thinking that Wally position is financially supporting you.
@nadia4999 Жыл бұрын
You would think out of the 3 she did end up with that at least 1 of them would be half way decent right? Who is raising these boys? Why are they okay with having wild relations with a woman, and okay with her raising their daughter alone? Again, who are the parents?
@neoho6096 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂Kendra said “What’s going on baby girl?” Looking all shocked that she’s 23. Stress is a mfer.
@TheeMrsChampion Жыл бұрын
Life is life-ing!!!! Bad decisions will have you looking older than you should. I hope she turns her life around, if not for herself for her children. Come on baby girl let’s get it together now chile.
@spencejoy Жыл бұрын
She was shocked that she has 3 kids at 23 and one of them is a 7 year old!
@indianajones443 Жыл бұрын
She was shocked all her kids had they own daddies!.
@logicalcritik2144 Жыл бұрын
This is severe; this woman needs therapy!
@coolieward3255 Жыл бұрын
She wants a man 30 & up cuz she wants help but she's not seeking financial help from non of her baby daddies just stupid she wasn't raised at home with her real father having a baby off a 1 nite stand!!!!
@Readyplayer8 Жыл бұрын
I lost it when Kendra asked 'Why would a man be lucky to be with you?' 😅😢
@MsNebraska Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@tatijas Жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂., so he can eat off of her children’s food stamps 👀😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂
@lovelyluchiano9493 Жыл бұрын
@@tatijas😭😭😭😭😭
@childrenofthecorn3672 Жыл бұрын
Someman will lol believe it or not she’s still young 😂 she has time to get it together
@BeRealChamp Жыл бұрын
@@BossaNovaSamba😂😂 it was a trick question
@naturallove6615 Жыл бұрын
23? On a dating show smh when I was 23 I was in community college, working full time at target. But also outside hanging with my friends, going to the roller rink, house parties. I feel bad she didn’t even get to enjoy her early twenties as a young adult. This is sad really but there’s many more girls like her unfortunately
@cutlyfe Жыл бұрын
Girl… when I was 23 I was traveling, going out, working full time in security (still am) and in college (still am as well but I’m taking my time). But at the same time I was focused on important thing in life but at I’m starting to reach my peak just a little bit.
@mrxswagger Жыл бұрын
They could start a damn club frfr da sad mommas 😂
@texasaggieinorlando2396 Жыл бұрын
Same here. When I was 23, I was too worried about finishing my school. My weekends were staying home just to get some sleep.
@afro_buddha4977 Жыл бұрын
I am 34 years old and I can't even imagine having one child let alone being a single mom with 3 children at 23 ...
@marimarielove Жыл бұрын
I was a 23 year old house wife with 3 children, divorced at 25...she can get it together it's just going to take a lot of work. I went to college, had 2 degrees at 29, I met my now husband at 26...when we got married my children were 7,8,9. So I'll tell any woman they make all kinds of men. But I will also say when I met my husband I wasn't looking for a man, I was working on getting myself together and he saw that I wasn't focused on him and worked hard to prove that he meant me and my children well. Long story short, my children are now 19, 20, 21. My husband and I have an empty house and life is great. So I'm a witness to the fact she can have her happily ever after, she's just going to have to take the focus of a man and put it on herself and her children
@love_reka_8877 Жыл бұрын
@@marimarielove🙏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 congratulations and thanks for your story. Sounds like you had a lot of family and support as well. Definitely can’t go back to school with 3 small kids and graduate without the support of family & friends.
@marimarielove Жыл бұрын
@love_reka_777 you're absolutely right, I always had a babysitter when I needed to go to class, study or just needed a break. I couldn't have done it without them
@love_reka_8877 Жыл бұрын
@@marimarielove I love that for you. Thanks for sharing. There truly is hope & not everyone is doomed just bcuz they have kids like ppl try to make it seem
@Douglass10 Жыл бұрын
@@marimarielovedifferent day in age. I’m 24. Me and my boys been talking about avoiding these chicks since college back when we were 19-20. My generation especially dudes with degrees, single and no children are not getting with these women. They’re actively shaming them and talking bad about them in private, in public and online. I’ve walked in a ross and heard a 14yr old talk about avoiding single mothers. Dudes ain’t being clean up men anymore
@cuzzitsmee Жыл бұрын
I definitely think a relationship is the last thing she needs right now she needs to take some time to herself and focus on herself and her kids and wait until they get a little older and also get some therapy
@sistrenyogigal3813 Жыл бұрын
THE LAST THING … I swear
@devadii24 Жыл бұрын
Kendra, you handled this one like a big sister and truly wanted to help her… my heart broke for her despite her poor choices😢 You can tell she reflected a bit when she said it was all her 😢 You gave her some good advice 💕
@meloran2571 Жыл бұрын
i doubt kendra told her anything her parents didn't tell her
@elonjoanwilliams614 Жыл бұрын
@@meloran2571theses females never have nearly the same level of empathy when it comes to the men who are in her position. But when’s it woman they put the their kid gloves on.
@meloran2571 Жыл бұрын
@@elonjoanwilliams614 the never do and even when society is set up to prevent them from failing. A woman can be a 100% failure, be reckless with her body, and the government will find her a comfortable place to live "because of the child."
@shakinglikealoosewashingma675 Жыл бұрын
No shame nor accountability. Any man with common sense won't deal with this unless he has multiple kids by multiple women and even most of them will have the Audacity to demand to be with a woman with no kids. Lady, just raise your kids and stop chasing after poor choices of men and focus on those kids like you did the previous men to the point you have 3 of them before you end up with baby #4. Selfish and foolish. Prayers for the kids.
@jfelton3583 Жыл бұрын
She'll never stop entertaining men
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
Alot of men are not prizes themselves, they are broke eyesores with mental illness
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
@@jfelton3583how about start holding your fellow pookies accountable?
@jfelton3583 Жыл бұрын
@@winning3329 umm ma'am i have no kids out here running around and i do for myself and own my own stuff. I'm setting the example. I do not condone the behavior of the men who essentially fkd her and left but this is what's so crazy BW choose those types of men. When i see some man fkd up i say something in the comments unlike females who still find ways to blame men when this girl herself said her situation is her own fault. She owned it and yet you still want to blame men. She sneaking out her parents house finding her way into some man's lap hold her accountable. She's here!!! Be the change you want to see and hold this reckless female accountable
@angelinelegrand2414 Жыл бұрын
@@winning3329stupid pookie doesn't have a womb
@dishwithpatrish Жыл бұрын
This is a typical small, country town scenario where there's really nothing to do there but have children, drugs and work at the local Walmart. Very common in rural Texas.
@vincentvann7438 Жыл бұрын
Wow!
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
I can list about 10 more states like this put every southern state in this mix it’s a Subway Walmart chicken place and drugs and alcohol lol
@dishwithpatrish Жыл бұрын
@@GETBIG4WARD I forgot about the Subway! So true.
@neetea2 Жыл бұрын
Subway lol
@emembassey75745 ай бұрын
What about going back to school to better off yourself and your children and that way you would change yours and your children’s future and steer them away from making the same mistakes you made. Stay away from men for now and focus on improving yourself. Improve yourself and you would attract a different and better sets of men. Right now you are going in circles and if you don’t get a grip fast enough, you will end up with 7 children with different fathers. Your priority right now should not be on getting a man.
@afro_buddha4977 Жыл бұрын
So "they all have their own dad" but not one of them children have fathers ...it truly broke my heart.
@logicalcritik2144 Жыл бұрын
Well, it's worst because she's looking to bring a man into her situation and those 3 young daughters; that's a safety issue, if you ask me. She made her bed, she should just raise her children and seek out a new man after that youngest child is out of the house.
@ariamason9324 Жыл бұрын
She is immature and 100 percent unaware of what she's doing to her girls. She probably has no investments set aside for their education but out here looking for yet another man. It's really sad and her attitude to it all was even more sad. God have mercy and give her wisdom and understanding. Kendra was gentle with her because she saw the immaturity.
@Gem-n-life Жыл бұрын
@@logicalcritik2144-Exactly this 😒. Those baby girls need plenty of protection, because this is not what it’s supposed to look like.
@meloran2571 Жыл бұрын
@@ariamason9324 it kills me when women or girls like this say they don't need no man to take care of their kids. no way in hell a full time job on a walmart salary is comfortably taking care of 3 kids.
@RahYisrael99 Жыл бұрын
@@meloran2571I was confused. No way is she taking care of herself and three children working at walmart. Hopefully she gets reputable counseling and learns to love herself.
@TheMightyJ95 Жыл бұрын
She isn’t going to have more children until she gets married…All Cap!!! 🙄
@geminimac613 Жыл бұрын
You take her, you instantly become the butt of a lot of jokes…
@professionalpookie Жыл бұрын
You'll get some butt too!!
@slinkiegirl2001 Жыл бұрын
King of the all time simps
@Osunshoney409 Жыл бұрын
23, 3 kids, 3 baby daddies…. As hard as I go for my sistas, this here is indefensible.😢
@Stylez-J Жыл бұрын
I'm 33. I had empathy up until I was 23 24. When I realized it was normal for most. And most didn't care until later on. Just a bunch of lust babies being born.
@evaphillips2102 Жыл бұрын
Lack of parental involvement. Rich white teens are loose as well but their parents put them on birth control and outline their lives/who they will marry after they “have their fun.”
@tpoppy9303 Жыл бұрын
3 different men who played games and didnt want to wife her up. Her and ALOT of womens biggest problem is believing in the men they were dating or men in general. Most obviously arent about commitment. Ask most of the women
@olliwest7341 Жыл бұрын
@@tpoppy9303😂😂😂... Stop
@dialac1 Жыл бұрын
@@evaphillips2102FACTS!!! This right here is facts. My white female friends have more sex than most BW but they never ever have kids cos they are on the pill.
@mommymj9529 Жыл бұрын
She is right. My great grandma had 15 kids and grandma had 10 kids. All with their HUSBAND!!!! She left that part out.
@hydrangeas_loverАй бұрын
Now that's the tea. Same parents. My maternal grandmother was 1 of 13. She was the 5th girl. Same parents.
@SN-ty2rg Жыл бұрын
Her first flaw is having sex with different men and making babies. 2nd flaw is not to have your men around your daughters and 3rd flaw in need of therapy and exercise.
@lovelyjavid Жыл бұрын
She has a lot of growing up to do. She needs to learn more about herself.
@KidFromQueens Жыл бұрын
Nah, she needs to learn about the world, people n how she relates to it! Cause she don't get a lot of basic things about how things work.
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
She have 3 children if she isn’t grown then how and what is she going to teach them kids
@njpme Жыл бұрын
She need to stop fucking 😒
@Gfyre90 Жыл бұрын
This is sad, ladies why you shooting yourselves in the foot with all these kids by different men. No respectable man will sign up for this. You blew your chances with a man who has common sense
@childrenofthecorn3672 Жыл бұрын
Men need to keep they thang in pants and and vise versa 😂
@TheKing75691 Жыл бұрын
23 years old with three kids by three different men come on man
@bruceleeroy8302 Жыл бұрын
And looking for a new man. Say it with me now... *She's for the streets!*
@TheKing75691 Жыл бұрын
@@bruceleeroy8302 Yes Sir
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
Because most men are incapable of love. Any man who lays down with a woman he doesn't love is a broken man that should never be around women or children
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
@@bruceleeroy8302because she is looking for a man that is actually capable of loving and honesty not many men are capable of love.
@Sam-zr3ly Жыл бұрын
@@winning3329 You are right. Only few real men that can meet her standards. She knows what she want
@sashab5173 Жыл бұрын
Love hearing Kendra giving us advice. It’s so helpful for me , hope it’s helpful to this young lady as well.
@buffalo.blackk Жыл бұрын
Typical female. Society is trash because women no longer criticize other women. Women no longer hold one another accountable for poor behavior. Women just say I feel bad for her, don’t criticize her. A society can rise no higher than the moral character of its women. And black women have no standards for other women, just sympathy. So these types of things keep happening because there’s no criticism beforehand. A proper society, the women would’ve criticized her so she stops after 1 kid. But you can’t tell a black woman anything. So she’s gonna keep on going. Even Kendra wouldn’t check this promiscuous female. Just, “awww, poor baby.” As them kids end up in prison or on the stripper pole or on OnlyFans or dead. I want no parts of American black culture. I’m about to be a passport bro.
@ahhbee8298 Жыл бұрын
Basically she looking for a father not a man
@abdoumassah Жыл бұрын
Great advice from a single woman loll
@rosegoldbanks4842 Жыл бұрын
@@abdoumassahadvice can come from anyone who has experience and common sense
@dialac1 Жыл бұрын
@@rosegoldbanks4842not really. Kendra gives some of the worst advice. Most women won’t understand because women do not know or understand who men are
@shaneesampson7478 Жыл бұрын
I’m convinced, after aimlessly scrolling through Facebook and IG. Kendra’s show makes me feel better about myself all the time
@altairolp1557 Жыл бұрын
She said she likes to be spoiled. Do your baby daddies who ran away from their responsibility spoil you? Why have children with men who didn't want a family with you? 3 different fathers to 3 different children? Why not value your womb? Seems she never learned from her mistakes after the first child. Why not require protection from him and have some for yourself? This is sad, these types of BW come on Kendra's show daily. Notice at 1:00 Kendra's tone started to quickly change, which tells it all.
@luvoshun Жыл бұрын
They won’t even spoil or even take care of their kids so nope…
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
These men probably did spoil her In the beginning, but their intentions were bad
@angelinelegrand2414 Жыл бұрын
@@winning3329keep lying to yourself dummy
@kmiller6587 Жыл бұрын
They probably spoiled her when things were just fun, and their intentions were made know when responsibilities popped in.
@r.r911 Жыл бұрын
I agree with you 100%. How women devalue their womb is beside me. There's diseases (AIDS) and unwanted pregnancies....such a sad girl. Too many black women honestly don't value themselves. Smh.
@Imjustheretomakeyouthink Жыл бұрын
How nice of her to provide each child with its own pookie 😭
@lin5683-d4m Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@RS4LLLMM Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@peterhester9306 Жыл бұрын
Ikr 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@monicasunshine26 Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@shakinglikealoosewashingma675 Жыл бұрын
She's so giving, isn't she?😂😂😂😂
@Jessakaybits Жыл бұрын
It’s the lack of self awareness for me 😂
@brooklynforever1990 Жыл бұрын
A lot of people walk around like this
@hydrangeas_loverАй бұрын
Whew chile!🥴
@akalixa Жыл бұрын
I’m convinced people just come on the show to tell their business not for an actual relationship 🤣
@MegTelevised Жыл бұрын
youre not too far off base with this comment. some people enjoy talking about their misery
@Gem-n-life Жыл бұрын
I shouldn’t have laughed, because this situation is sad, but I couldn’t help it with this comment 🤣
@akalixa Жыл бұрын
@@Gem-n-life sorry 😂 it just seems like an advice show at this point lol
@Faye011 Жыл бұрын
23 with 3 kids and 3 baby daddies is wild!! I’m 25 no kids and can’t even imagine! I hope she learns not to keep giving her body away RAW! That one-night stand should not have happened. She really put herself in a bad situation so young smh.
@njpme Жыл бұрын
I feel like #4 coming up. She talk the good talk on here, but a leopard doesn't change its spots
@A_Well_Traveled_Man Жыл бұрын
Yeah that this is a very hard one because she doesn't really bring a whole lot to the table... And her life really is pretty much over at such a young age... Because she's 23 now with a 3-year-old so she's going to be 40 years old before she can really live and do any of her real ambitions that she would like to do... And of course at that age it's a little bit harder to party and do things that she wants to do..
@joycec6222 Жыл бұрын
Listen! Anytime you decide to have a child whether you are a man, woman, or whatever you identify as, you have to be ready on all levels to take care of that child on your own in the case of any life events. People die, go to jail, leave, etc… but for her to do that 3 times is crazy! I will never understand how people struggle with 1 kid then decide to have more without no significant improvement in their situation. I know that 7yo is tired…
@godc1109 Жыл бұрын
I did it 3 times. What’s ur point? It’s all up to the person having the kids. Where are u mentally & do u hv a great support system. Long as she has goals and reach them, she will be fine.
@joycec6222 Жыл бұрын
@@godc1109 a hit dog will holler. Good luck to you both!
@njpme Жыл бұрын
@@godc1109you got hit like a dog 😂
@godc1109 Жыл бұрын
@@joycec6222 Sure was 23 at the time with 3 kids & fathers. you’re definitely a low vibrational human. Good thing, I had a relationship with them all. Got engaged to my son (my last) father and we stayed together almost 20 yrs. We just split 2yrs ago. So cry me a river. On top of that, I was a stay at home mom, kept a PRN position. Thru it all boo boo kitty, I have my CNA, MA, Pharmacy Tech, Went to hair school, dropped out 6mo before grad due to passing the Nursing test, went an graduated Nursing school, abt to launch 3 businesses, get my CDL & launch that owner business. Not what u do, it’s how u do it, and what goals u have. Stop trying judge others an being smart.
@dwatson1976dw Жыл бұрын
The 7 yr old was probably watching the kids while she was outside. Like he said tired
@PoshDiva1122 Жыл бұрын
Yooooooo, this was hard to watch….. she grew up with parents who were married and STILL ended up with 3 children by 3 different men at ONLY 23, DAMN.
@logicalcritik2144 Жыл бұрын
She put herself out of the game real fast!
@PoshDiva1122 Жыл бұрын
@@logicalcritik2144 yes, I agree!! That’s too much responsibility for a 23 year old single mother.
@childrenofthecorn3672 Жыл бұрын
It’s life ! Idk why y’all be acting so surprised about situations like this 😂 this world is wicked !
@devadii24 Жыл бұрын
I wonder if it had to do with self esteem or the crowd she ran in?
@truebengalsfan Жыл бұрын
New generation of kids are lost no matter what
@andred5555 Жыл бұрын
23 with three children, she has a rough life ahead of her.
@Calikaye Жыл бұрын
With none of the fathers to help her, that's sad
@andred5555 Жыл бұрын
@@Calikaye And then she has the nerve to say she doesn’t need child support.
@Calikaye Жыл бұрын
@@andred5555 she's misguided obviously. When does she have time to figure things out if men keep manipulating, pumping and dumping her?
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
@@Calikayeshe is looking for another man right now too it’s sad
@Calikaye Жыл бұрын
@@GETBIG4WARD again, she's misguided, I guess more irresponsible men will continue the cycle. Atleast be in the kids life, maybe the daughter won't grow up as fcked up
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
9:53 I call my daughter a “Suburban Princess”. She’s spoiled and sheltered, but she was also, raised properly by a married mother and father that weren’t ghetto. Having a two parent household is a great thing, but I’ve seen two parent households in my nice little suburb and both parents are ghetto AF.
@jessss333 Жыл бұрын
Damn I’m only 3 years older than her w/ 0 kids and i can’t even imagine being in a situation like that. I hope she’s able to heal and be in a better mental space before another man comes into her life. I wish her the best.
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
0:58 Oh boy, that look on Kendra’s face….hurt, disappointment, sadness, pity, disgust, shame, and empathy all in the span of two seconds. One day Kendra is going to snap and let it all out on one of these women. Shameful.
@Iamgroot377 Жыл бұрын
when asked "what kinda man are you looking for sweatheart?" Her answer should've been: "any man that is willing to save me from my past bad decisions and choices" 🤷🏿♂️
@publik3n3me Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kendra for the advice. Please keep doing the Great job you are doing to Educate and Elevate!
@mdlooker__ Жыл бұрын
She's going to angry at life for many years to come. Every turn, she's defensive and she's losing more confidence in life with each interaction she encounters. #therapy
@DJ-vj4vi Жыл бұрын
This is a perfect example of having a father in the home doesn’t make you a good person.
@angelinelegrand2414 Жыл бұрын
Have a father that's fathering his child properly will not give us this outcome. Stop deflecting.
@chocalechevux804 Жыл бұрын
Well she’s probably not a bad person, just bad at some of her choices in life
@keshaunthompson8294 Жыл бұрын
@@chocalechevux804exactly!
@MarvelousJP Жыл бұрын
@@angelinelegrand2414you’d be surprised. In 2023 being an active father isn’t a guarantee. Last year, in Louisiana a father moved his family into a different neighborhood because he didn’t like that one of his daughters was caught up with a street dude around the way. After they moved, the daughter gave the boy her new address and snuck him inside the house. Her dad found out, the boy and the dad got into an altercation, the boy had a gun on him and killed the dad. A dad died trying to protect his daughter yet she consistently disobeyed her dad which led to his death
@WordsMatter1982 Жыл бұрын
@@chocalechevux804"some choices". Not all choices are equal, nor do they carry equal weight. Being bad at "some choices" is forgetting to put your shopping cart in the cart return, or not putting the cap back on the tooth paste tube. Having multiple children out of wedlock by different men weighs far more.
@tanyaucoaching Жыл бұрын
I would be terrified to date at that age with 3 kids. There are men who target these situations with the worst of intentions. It's ok to focus on your education, career & mental well-being while temporarily opting out of the dating scene. The development & safety of the kids takes priority over our sometimes selfish needs. I wish her & the kids all the best.
@jullanarwilliams249 Жыл бұрын
Especially since she had 3 little girls and seems desperate for a man...
@jayo3074 Жыл бұрын
Let's be honest no guy is gonna take her seriously
@Gem-n-life Жыл бұрын
@@jayo3074-Ummm, this comment is not about a man taking HER seriously, it’s about her protecting her children from zoo animals.
@jayo3074 Жыл бұрын
@@Gem-n-life well unfortunately only zoo animals are gonna try to get with her because better higher quality men would want nothing to do with her...that's the point.
@CDot300 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for giving her real advice Kendra we need to start advicing these girls
@chico5817 Жыл бұрын
This woman demonstrates how stupid some black women can be in regards to “child” support, not “baby mama “ support. I lived the perfect example. While my parents were married for over 50 years, as a child me and my brothers demonstrated talents my parents could not afford to enrich. Of my two younger brothers, one had a talent in art and the other in computers. I had an interest in becoming a cardiologist. My parents could not afford private lessons or send me to a medical internship in high school. Fortunately, the schools were offering entry for low/middle income families. NOW, my brother in the art is an architecture engineer; my computer brother is a director at LinkedIn and I’m a legal consultant in the area of labor and employment. Women, child support is not yours. If you baby daddies refuse to pay, their asses belong in jail and whatever assets they have seized. Life is nothing to play with, especially when it’s your child’s life.
@candorsspot2775 Жыл бұрын
I notice that women, and this is articulated clearly by white women, tend to want a society with men who are breeders and men who work to provide for them. This is what socialism and communal living is all about. Men are obligated to provide for women who they are not with. In fact, that is what they have already with welfare. The men that bred with them, are off doing who knows what, while the worker slaves, provide for her and her kids. That's the feminist/socialist fantasy.
@luvoshun Жыл бұрын
This! They’re already at a disadvantage and she wants to make it harder on them by not requiring they be supported.
@candorsspot2775 Жыл бұрын
@@luvoshun She cannot require anything. The govt can, and the govt can only collect if they are making money on the books. That's why she should have waited and gotten married to a legally employed man. It's just easier for her to steal taxpayer money than rely on these men.
@ladytosha15 Жыл бұрын
@@candorsspot2775u know what u talk a lot but I gotta give it to u brotha u ain’t lying 😂😂😂
@yesterdayseyes4 ай бұрын
So none if you needed private lessons or to be in an internship in high school. You all turned out great, yet you're still crying like a victim. Pathetic clown.
@corasbloom Жыл бұрын
Only the Lord can fix it ! 🙏🏾 You can't take care of three kids on a Walmart paycheck without using the government period so stop say you take care of them. WE all take care of you kids sis. 👋🏾
@steelysam7189 Жыл бұрын
🙌
@majorflavor Жыл бұрын
The amount of struggle in this video is epic 😂
@dayciajtalk88 Жыл бұрын
This young lady need to focus on getting a better job or college degree or trade! I’m 35, with 2 kids 17 and 6. I have been single for 4 years took the time to work on myself when to therapy, and went back to college!!!
@thewinzerfam Жыл бұрын
So u ain’t no better then her u had your first young as hell. Unwed . And u think going to school debunks your bad choices??😂 naw hush.
@cheechee5502 Жыл бұрын
Dam, 23 with 3 kids by 3 different baby daddies. She is definitely for the streets 🛣🛣🛣🛣🛣🛣🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑
@JustBree716 Жыл бұрын
I was a teen mom. Didn't have my next child for another 12 years. I didn't get pregnant until i wanted to. She must be allergic to con-dums, birth control and ACCOUNTABILITY 😮
@KirkBlackJr Жыл бұрын
Kendra was very good and calm with her. Great that she gave her some flaws that she clearly don’t think she has 🤷🏾♂️. She needs to grow up really fast like really really fast!
@Msdivaduh1 Жыл бұрын
This is sad 😔 lol sis is delusional and she has all girls smh 🤦🏾♀️
@RemIsNice Жыл бұрын
This was very sad. To hear that the latest was a one night stand made it even sadder.
@maraschino2070 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you tried with her Kendra, but may god bless her and her kids.
@jayo3074 Жыл бұрын
She's finished lol
@jayo3074 Жыл бұрын
@@JohnDoe-xi4il people are way too optimistic on here especially when you have to mention God 😂
@stellabellafontay9366 Жыл бұрын
This young woman is proof that being raised in a two parent home isn't always the key to a great life. Two parent homes can be filled with neglect, selfishness, forgetfulness, trauma, generational curses etc. 😢
@crystalphillip588 Жыл бұрын
Facts 💯
@Magnolia3720Slim Жыл бұрын
Nah, she was just rebellious. Can't blame that on her parents
@shakie1971 Жыл бұрын
@@Magnolia3720SlimI'll add that she knows it all and she's hard headed
@karmagivens6057 Жыл бұрын
I'm living proof of that. Also that doesn't mean mothers and fathers know how to be either or a woman or man so what they don't know or aware of can't be taught or generational curses can't be broken. I had to teach myself how to be a woman and mother. Also I had to learn what relationships and marriage is about although I had a two parent household whom are still married after forty plus years. Just because people know right from wrong doesn't mean they apply to their life, and it's hard to unlearn toxic behavior and traits passed down. SO PEOPLE REALLY NEED TO CHILL UNTIL THEY HAVE BEEN THROUGH SOME YO TEACH SOME!!!
@MrsRease2011 Жыл бұрын
@@Magnolia3720SlimAgreed!
@mspeaches7335 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Kendra for taking time to teach the young lady.
@salidathomas78 Жыл бұрын
And this is why my ex has our 2 children. He can afford them a life that I can not❤ Money is a huge factor when having children, that is true facts you are spitting Kendra!!!!
@MrsRease2011 Жыл бұрын
💜💜
@etuitivemillionaire Жыл бұрын
This is why you shouldn’t spoil your kids. My old man sent me to private school. That didn’t stop me from ending up flipping burgers 🍔 at 21. Real life is the best teacher. After learning the hard way I didn’t like minimum wage. I shaped up quickly. Some of us only learn the hard way.
@Scam-ish Жыл бұрын
Fellow former burger flipper here too!!! I turned it way Around as well, builds character for real
@karenb2873 Жыл бұрын
I have come to accept that regardless of what I taught them or prepared them for, my 2 kids will learn a lot of their life lessons the hard way. I just hope they triumphantly succeed regardless.
@etuitivemillionaire Жыл бұрын
@@karenb2873 No matter how much you want success for them. The secret is they have to want it for themselves. The soft life makes the kids soft. Hardship builds character.
@etuitivemillionaire Жыл бұрын
@@Scam-ish I was only able to tolerate a week. After that I dragged my dyslexic self back to get a GED. 😂😂😂 I’m happy you were able to turn things around.
@BeautifullyMade-ur6yc Жыл бұрын
Some children require different things. I was spoiled and I'm now doing extremely well as an adult. So I definitely depends on the child.
@King_D85 Жыл бұрын
Kendra sounds hurt AF after hearing this
@vegannn7178 Жыл бұрын
She really did, you heard it in her voice
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
That young lady doesn’t even know what type of boat she in by the next 5 years are going to run her in the ground
@slinkiegirl2001 Жыл бұрын
My girl was giving her facts
@nmmboy Жыл бұрын
Lmao Kendra with the Oprah shade. I felt that from here 😂😂😭😭
@valpooh7532 Жыл бұрын
She want 30 and up because she’s looking for a father figure for all of them. Yes… for her too. Plus 30 and up men can more likely take care of her and her fatherless children
@GETBIG4WARD Жыл бұрын
Ding ding ding 🛎️ you are the winner lol she think she slick most older men know what she seeking she can’t hide no matter how hard she try
@darnellrhodes6174 Жыл бұрын
No good quality men want women like this!
@theeagleslairchannelwithcoacht Жыл бұрын
Broke ppl who ain’t got nothin but babies have the BIGGEST DAMN EGO!! This is getting so old!
@itsstilljoose Жыл бұрын
I have to say, this woman is gorgeous in the face. I could never for the life of me understand why these women choose to get involved with pokie to the point of having kids. She said the father said he would quit his job before he paid for his child. That's Insane. How does it even get that far. This is crazy
@LOSTGPS Жыл бұрын
Baby mama culture circa 1970
@kamkam4571 Жыл бұрын
She’s involved with Pookie because she is a Pookiesha.
@terricaf4621 Жыл бұрын
Women be young and don’t know much better when they don’t have guidance…I’m glad I was raised right in 28 with 0
@jfelton3583 Жыл бұрын
I agree I find her face VERY attractive.... That's where it stops tho
@winning3329 Жыл бұрын
Because men will pretend to be everything a woman is looking for in a husband to get her to let her guard down. These men are trogen horses
@raeforthepeople6081 Жыл бұрын
Example of having a baby with everybody who gives you the time of day…sad…high school bf then toxic relationship then one night stand and they all got a kid from her…Lord help
@sonjiore386 Жыл бұрын
They had alot of kids, but they were also married....
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
10:42 “Young and dumb” might work for the first child, but two more within a few years speaks to much deeper issues.
@lynnelewis2145 Жыл бұрын
Yeah, my 4 grandparents had kids at 14 and 15 but they were also married 68 and 72 years so her read was stupid. Her standards are low. 1. it's the men's fault 2. she thinks she's completely finally sound working at Walmart. 3. She keeps picking the same man. 4. She keeps being the same woman. 5. Everything kendra said went right over her head because her focus is a male.
@BeautifulSamaria Жыл бұрын
Agreed!!
@jfelton3583 Жыл бұрын
When they out here fighting for pro choice I don't understand why so many are not taking advantage of it. Like wtf? Just be out here having babies like it's nothing. Is this not equally as traumatic if not worse??
@candorsspot2775 Жыл бұрын
Support for abortion is degeneracy. So it's no surprise that degeneracy begets more degeneracy. A society that supports abortion, supports sexual freedom and a lack of marriage.
@jfelton3583 Жыл бұрын
@@candorsspot2775 no, support for reckless pregnancy is degeneracy. You can say what the fk you want the black community is in shambles because females are allowing degenerates to impregnate them and then they go on to have the child who then becomes a degenerate just like his/her father. I have no kids running around because I have NOT found a female worthy of a commitment in marriage. So you can miss me with that talk. I'm no degenerate. We absolutely wouldn't be so fkd as a community if more took advantage since they CLEARLY won't stop fkn until marriage. I once dated a Pakistani girl in my 20s her father took her to get 2 abortions by the black degenerate that impregnated her twice. Not me the dude she dated before me. While me and her didn't last and her dad was ok with me dating her as long as i did right by her once me and her ended he went on to find her a man in the traditional way they do it in their country and while she wasn't a virgin she was an easy sell because she was pretty and had NO KIDS. Now she's married and lives in Manhattan NY with her rich husband and kids and that absolutely wouldn't have happened if she would have had the babies of the fkn degenerate she was dealing with in her younger years. Black women could have the same fkn L story instead of ending up like this poor soul which too many of them do. Because all the other successful races y'all praise and compare black men to THEIR FATHERS WITH TEARS IN HIS EYES WILL TAKE THEIR DAUGHTERS TO AN ABORTION CLINIC QUICK FAST AND IN A HURRY if she got pregnant by an unworthy man. How do i know? Because i fkn seen it.
@BB-fw7fn Жыл бұрын
I agree. Birth control is an effective option if people don’t believe in abortion.
@MegTelevised Жыл бұрын
$$ abortion costs money. but birth control pills is like $5 a month
@COG_In_His_Will Жыл бұрын
I notice when Kendra questions the women with multiple kids that have different fathers, they act like they don’t have any deal breakers or the frustrations show up on their face. As someone with no kids at 32, I empathize with them, but this is a perfect example of poor temporary decisions in your youth effecting the rest of your life. She’s still young, there may be a chance in life for her. Can’t count people out.
@jacubtscorpio5084 Жыл бұрын
3 baby daddies/ 1 for each kid is crazy?? I couldn’t even fathom that many men busting guns inside of me???
@alphonzowilliamsjr.179 Жыл бұрын
3kids, by 3 men. The last one came from a 1 night stand... Can't think of any flaws tho. Can't make this. Sh!+ up! And the new guy has to accept this. Noooo
@NITW215 Жыл бұрын
Bless her heart… I pray she finds peace and guidance while she’s young and realizes her value in the world.
@LOSTGPS Жыл бұрын
Our grandmothers were married though lmao
@bruceleeroy8302 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. They usually had them by the same man or at least married one of them. This is not the same thing as our grandmothers.
@childrenofthecorn3672 Жыл бұрын
What that mean ?? Married people get mistreated used and left with children allll the time ....let’s be real here now 😂 some of y’all be married and still have to hold the weight in doing everything on y’all own!!
@LOSTGPS Жыл бұрын
@@childrenofthecorn3672 If your grandma was a single mother just say that.
@childrenofthecorn3672 Жыл бұрын
@@LOSTGPS ummm mines was married to her childrens father sooo try again 😂. My point was why judge her y’all be acting like wives don’t get left with kids and end up single moms I see it all the time ... lmaoo y’all be so goofy in these KZbin streets ‼️😊
@LOSTGPS Жыл бұрын
@@childrenofthecorn3672 oh ok, If you're a single mother just say so.
@janl4805 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad Kendra brought up therapy. For some reason this one made me really sad. Low self worth, makes me wonder if she’s been violated or something. Idk, so young and she needs help 😞
@devadii24 Жыл бұрын
My heart broke for this woman too… it’s easy to judge but there is clearly something else going on here 😢
@SH-mw1er Жыл бұрын
I seriously think that some women don't force the issue with child support because its requires them to get a DNA first and a lot of these women don't really know who they kids fathers are. Its sad how sexually irresponsible people can be....its all fun and games until a baby or incurable STD comes.
@lomaxlomax6152 Жыл бұрын
Yep cause she said a me night stand, so that is iffy. Definitely a possibility that there are other father options
@Gem-n-life Жыл бұрын
I don’t think it’s a large percentage of the scenario you mentioned. I do believe it’s likely men who don’t have steady employment, or men that will have her family putting up Go-Fund-Mes on the news.
@AlexisGabriela4 ай бұрын
Soon as they say their kids are 3 by 3. I know it’s going to be chaotic 😢 Girl taxpayers are taking care of those babies 😂 us Kendra Kousins are taking care of her & her babies
@IdeastoIncome Жыл бұрын
Kendra your LA makeup has been flawless! It looks more natural and pretty.
@awesomehigames Жыл бұрын
"I was with him for 4 years but he was a cheater and a hoe" You got a 7 year old, 4 year old, and 3 year old all with separate fathers. If you were with the baby dad of the 4 year old for 4 years you overlapped somewhere.
@missvalisha Жыл бұрын
I was trying to do the math in my head as well, but then I gave up because reality and math clearly aren’t her strengths so it doesn’t even matter. 🤷🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
@SlymSexi Жыл бұрын
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@SlymSexi Жыл бұрын
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@SlymSexi Жыл бұрын
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@SlymSexi Жыл бұрын
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@joshuapeoples6795 Жыл бұрын
I dont regret getting my passport and dating looking at the majority in the states...😂😊
@noahknight4039 Жыл бұрын
She makes a disgusted face when talking about her 3 baby daddies and men she casually sleeping with. Any decent man that signs up for this is purposely wrecking his life. No good would come from marrying someone like this.
@Nobody4L Жыл бұрын
Grandmothers on back: 10+ kids all by her husband Her: 3kids by 3 different men that chose to not commit themselves to you. BIG DIFFERENCE
@kimscarlett5713 Жыл бұрын
I wish her well. She’s 23, still young, still making mistakes. I pray she gets the life she deserves.🙏🏽
@ricksanchez3501 Жыл бұрын
She doesn't deserve anything you earn it
@libraprime6838 Жыл бұрын
Yup, and most grandmas had a husband too!
@KidFromQueens Жыл бұрын
Yeah, i am def at the point of agreeing with the return of shame! Too many weak attitudes of "live ya life", n "that aint my business" has RUINED our community.🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️ Furthermore, Gma had a husband wit all them kids! And if she 23, im 5!🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
@JSouth23 Жыл бұрын
She's been the neighborhood jump off since high school.
@thelifeofanaspieblackwoman8018 Жыл бұрын
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@dmac5808 Жыл бұрын
This is ignorance at its finest. I would die if my sons brought home anything close to this kind of woman.
@Louma034 Жыл бұрын
I understand her, when you're a girl to sheltered by parents, that lock you at home can have this type of result. Just hope that she learns and grow from her experience to do better for her and her kids.🙏🏾
@dandrufflanddandruffland5489 Жыл бұрын
I can tell she wasnt really listening to the advice Kendra was trying to tell her
@Roccofan Жыл бұрын
Some people aren’t ready for the emotional avalanche that awaits them when they see the mess they’ve made of their lives.