She Tested Him On Their First Date...Backfired Spectacularly | Hearit Stories

[@odysseus2656]

My little sister did this. The guy would show up to pick her up on the date and then she would decide to go and take a shower. She is a childless cat lady in her 60's today, I wonder why.

[@ronaldwinder5051]

Yes, gee, I wonder why too. I guarantee your sister is clueless about it.

[@CindyF1]

Lmao...awesome

[@odysseus2656]

@@ronaldwinder5051 She was and still is an attractive woman with a terrible personality.

[@illinoiscentralrailroadfan6015]

I feel sorry for her cat's

[@J.P_INC.]

How is giving the genuine emotion of anger to someone who is wasting your time makes someone unstable? She's a narcissist

[@gxr7777]

10 minutes and see ya wouldn't want to be ya.

[@J.P_INC.]

@gxr7777 facts lol. This chick told people I was scared of talking to her because I refuse to go chill with after she had me waiting for about 4 hours and I just talked to her friend. She ended the friendship because her friend got to chill with me. Stuff was actually funny

[@Racfguy]

@@J.P_INC. You waited for 4 hours? Really? Time to date her friend.

[@J.P_INC.]

@Racfguy hell no lol. She didn't respond for 4 hours but I was just waiting for her text but I was also talking to her friend at the same time and her friend came over to chill and we didn't get busy until the other girl texted saying she had to take care of something. I simply said ok and me and her friend went to my house drunk,high,and laughing 😆😆😆. Some dude who wanted her told her I slept with her friend which is how she found out because her friend didn't say anything and I kept my mouth shut

[@aaaqqwwqqddsw5509]

The system indeed works by eliminating herself from the dating pool😂

[@keybearer26]

I swear some women go on and on about this emotional intelligence b.s. not realizing how emotionally immature they are lol

[@kens32052]

She finishes her Martini and then heads home to her cats.

[@009AWB]

He did well and must now realize that they not only get older but paradoxically they get more desperate and meaner.

[@rjroy8143]

He needs to date younger.

[@superbirden57]

The meaness is camouflage to the desperate feelings as their SMV and fertility tanks.

[@blacksunday4231]

lol no, he waited way too long.

[@RonaldMayDMD-nt3fd]

Sounds like you guys are young ! I met my fourth wife when I was 68 and our relationship deepens with each passing day !! I’m an 84 year old retired Doctor whose life has never been finer. Keep trying but stick to your fundamental principles! Good luck👍👏

[@rjroy8143]

@@RonaldMayDMD-nt3fd "laughing" So, you're advice is that I let a woman take over half of everything at least 3 times and just keep going...

[@bertuslouw5156]

It’s a big red flag for someone who is unable to arrive on time for a date. For me it’s an indication that this person has serious psychological issues or doesn’t respect you as a person. It’s best to dump them and move on.

[@markymarknj]

If my date called me and informed me of a problem, say a bad traffic jam, I'd wait. I mean, shit happens, especially if you're from NJ like I am; If I had a dollar for every time the NJ Turnpike had jams going into NYC, I'd be rich. HOWEVER! However, if a woman didn't call to inform me that she'd be late and didn't have a good reason, I'd wait perhaps 5-10 minutes; after that, I'd bounce.

[@meatpopsicle1567]

Forever alone.

[@slshusker]

Been there...she tried it at her parents house. I walked away when she said it would be over an hour before she was ready for a suit and tie event.

[@TCMECH79]

This woman has no respect for anyone

[@randyoliva]

Not necessarily. She just wasted her youth riding the carousel and then she "decided" to get selective 😂

[@snidecommenter7117]

Possible sociopath?

[@Racfguy]

@@snidecommenter7117 Possible? LOL

[@Steve-h7m]

15 Minutes and I'm gone.

[@debelix]

You too good, I have 0 tolerance for being late, that means if she's not there on time I'm out.

[@williamj.dovejr.8613]

I used to do that...I would be 15 minutes early, then I realized why do this if she doesn't care about punctuality. Now when I show up,if she's not there by a minute after, I just leave. I block and move on.

[@Brown_Buffalo]

That woman is clueless she can’t see the ocean because there’s too much water in the way.

[@markymarknj]

If a woman called to inform me that she had a problem (e.g. traffic jam, car trouble, etc.) and would be late, I'd wait. However, if I didn't get a call, I'd leave after waiting 5-10 minutes. NFW am I waiting an hour for no reason.

[@alank9754]

Just shows how mature she really is. I will give her ten extra minutes, just because of traffic. After that I leave. No woman is worth waiting for

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

10 mins late and I'm gone

[@PatrickHolmes-co2zl]

Uh huh uh huh

[@winniethepoohandeeyore2]

I've walked away from business meetings due to them being late. So a casual meeting I do the exact same thing

[@surajmanickam8179]

She's delusional in her own world. ❌💯💔

[@floridashawn7317]

10 maybe 15 minutes. Especially on a first date. This woman is insane

[@rjroy8143]

Especially when she didn't answer his texts.

[@gxr7777]

Or better yet order the food, eat and when/if she shows up make sure it's 2 checks.

[@rjroy8143]

@@gxr7777 I like that.

[@gnomeheart1]

I see a great relationship with a Cat in this woman's future.

[@zerochance1958]

Now why would you do something so terrible to a cat? This arrogant narcissist deserves to be alone.

[@HarryDick-h7n]

and lotsa boxed wine

[@jimslancio]

Cats like to be fed on time.

[@joslynanderson4681]

AND 50 YEARS LATER AGED 87 I AM ON MY NEXT EXPERIMENT ,""BUT THIS TIME FROM THE CAREHOME I ENDED UP IN ?

[@Racfguy]

LOL

[@eddycorvino9246]

I'm old school. 20 minutes is goodbye. 10 to 15 minutes if she calls with a good excuse but 20 is game over. That's disrespect.

[@Left-2-stray]

15-20 minutes

[@frankconley6321]

Men, tolerate no disrespect or games from a woman. Just move on as it will never get better with her. 10-15 minutes and then dip. Ghost and let her find a desperate simp. Women desire a man who don't put up with their BS and will move on without hesitation to another woman.

[@Mrwillie95]

tom is so lucky that he move from this toxic lady before things got serious and he would be stuck in a drama filled relationship

[@jimslancio]

He didn’t fail the test. She did.

[@Left-2-stray]

Truth

[@LeviP34]

I’m tapping out at 15 minutes, unless she has a legit reason

[@JamesSmith-vv3ys]

She is looking for a Simp but would not be happy with him.

[@danielbain3613]

I was to meet for a first date, 9pm sif I remember correctly. At 9:03 I left. She texted me "where are you?" I said "you were a no show, and no communication, have a good evening."

[@robertstudley282]

There is zero chance I'd want anything to do with someone playing these kinds of games.… the only unstable one is this lady that thinks this is ok

[@davidmoss4095]

10 mins waiting on a first date, and it's over.😅

[@MrModamanReviews]

I might have waited longer if this wasn't a first date. But, this guy was acting pretty dumb.

[@Solitaire001]

It seems like she demands what she considers to be a perfect man. The problem is the only "person" who could meet her standards of perfection is a robot. However, I doubt that she would happy with a robot since it wouldn't actually be able to care for her.

[@charless8641]

I would have left or ordered and had dinner, she never called or texted to explain why she was late. Play stupid games and win stupid prizes.

[@user-ch9ty2bo1z]

Girl you are going to STAY Single for the rest of your life and you will deserve it.

[@JasonKritikos]

She discuss her methods a few years later to her cats and empty containers of Boxed wine.

[@infojunkieworld]

15 minutes and I'm done!

[@Paul_ythandle]

I don't mind waiting a bit but the strategizing part.... its like beginning something with distrust. Sounds constipated.

[@DavidMcClanahan-us9ih]

I’d have been gone at the 30 minute mark; and no texts.

[@Left-2-stray]

15-20 minutes

[@Solitaire001]

@@Left-2-stray I think the reason that he waited for her was that this was the final test...for her. She failed. Due to what she did, he decided it was finally time to end their relationship and he wanted to end it with her face to face.

[@gxr7777]

Just modern women playing games, this is what they learn in college instead of real world skills. It's not like the same BS isn't being taught is public schools. Looks like people and parents are seeing the truth and taking action.

[@TravisWilson-r3w]

That's not what college teaches that's what social media does

[@gxr7777]

@@TravisWilson-r3w These are college courses and degrees- Gender studies, Fashion, Tree climbing, Getting Dressed, South Park and Contemporary Social Issues, How to Watch Television, Westworld/Our World, The Art of Walking, The Game of Thrones, Cryptozoology, The Physics of Star Trek, Fashion History, and the list goes on and on.

[@gxr7777]

They teach BS stuff in college just search worthless degrees and worthless courses. Underwater basket weaving.

[@vinnyissmart]

Waste of oxygen

[@gnomeheart1]

Just Imaging trying to date at 59 years old and being a widower 😢That usually shuts the door before the Money Career conversations.

[@BetaRayBill-yx9eb]

What a quick way to stay single forever

[@workoutmusic2112]

For those wondering, and I understand, it can get confusing with all the overly used buzz words in an online world of pop psychology, but this is actually a very close example of narcissistic tendencies. Unfortunately for the internet "experts" and most single women, narcissistic disorder only affects less than 2% for the global human population, male and female. Regardless, you'll hear countless women and "relationship coaches" prattle on about narcissists, and how every ex they had is one. They aren't. Narcissists are super extremely rare. On to point two. Emotional intelligence is another super popular buzzword out there and, again, if you believe the mass confusion delusion, women, at large, will espouse their overwhelming magnitude of emotional intelligence. This is predominantly false, but unsurprising as most people don't understand what emotional intelligence is. For the sake of time, emotional intelligence presents profoundly similar as stoicism. Think of most people you know and how they react to rapidly developing negative situations. Are they cool, calm, and collected? No? Low emotional intelligence, which is overwhelmingly common. Most people have very underdeveloped emotional intelligence. Especially women, whom systemically are more emotive than logic driven.

[@balltonge79]

She will soon be working to differentiate a Maine from a Burmese. Future cat lady.

[@andrekerrison3367]

Ugh.. im so sick of these stories where people dont learn anything.

[@josephreber525]

Little girls 🎱🪦

[@michaelreifenstein]

testers deserve zero

[@brentmiller3951]

On time is late for me so if you can't get there on time you will not be compatible with me she would be gone.

[@nate9392]

Guess she will be join LeftOverWomen Club soon if she keep up😂😂😂😂😂

[@Left-2-stray]

Cats, & box wine

[@Left-2-stray]

Happy New Year's 2025 To everybody🍺😎🤘

[@Corbzer]

ok 1 you arrive early not bad but can be seen as a bit too eager 2 waited a bloody hour for a date? sorry but if she aint there in 5-10 mins after you arrive ((at the time agreed upon)) Id walk otu the door unless she gives a valid reason like traffice or emergency came up. good on the man for walkign out after hearign her explaination on why she was late/