She Wants You to Pursue Her If . . .

[@Noways_world]

Some girls want you to pursue them for their selfish desires or if they want your attention and nothing more and then leave you or just waste your time. Have God with you at all times and he will help you through anything!🙏🏽 A woman who wants to be with you will definitely do what was said in this video. If it’s something out of your control then leave it in Gods hands and keep moving. You can’t change people who dont want to change and if you keep trying after ignoring the signs God gives you then it will lead down a very bumpy road that you dont need to take.Pray for those type of people to become better versions of themselves and forgive them. God does not and will not ever forsake, condemn, or confuse you❤️

[@MrHecksTraining]

Very true. Some women want orbiters because they gain a sense of false self-value from the attention they get. Which is sad.

[@RetroCaptain]

They leave to (in their minds) "upgrade away from you". I've had this and even from church girls unfortunately. Even had it happen in the middle of an already scheduled date. "You know your barking up the wrong tree when this happens". Lose their number and run.

[@Noways_world]

@@MrHecksTraining it is sad indeed but take it as a learning experience if you ever run into those typa people. Dont lose focus on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will understand the situations better and then come back better than ever🙏🏽 people who aren’t meant for you will only stay if you let them so let them go and dont let God go❤️

[@Noways_world]

@@RetroCaptain MAN ME TOO!!!! Even if the woman is Christian sometimes they aren’t who they portray themselves to be and they let their past consume them which makes then treat people wrong. If they truly want to change they will have faith in Jesus 100% and let him take all their worries away. Pray for their healing, forgive them and find another lady. Its no use in trying to pursue that type of lady no matter what she believes in if her actions do prove what she says.

[@RetroCaptain]

@@Noways_world If I could keep them as friends after, "maybe" but so far it's never happened.

[@thomashopkins20]

These examples are what one would call genuine desire and are what a man should look for in a woman he is interested in. It is much easier than trying to "win someone over."

[@fivebooks8498]

Yep. Wife cheated on me and she did all these things to the other guy. She’s now trying to say she never wanted him at all. She’s a liar

[@RetroCaptain]

I completely agree with this! I've had one woman doing exactly this. Wrote me actual pen and paper letters in the mail. Gifts and paid for one date as well at a fancy restaurant. Unfortunately she wasn't a believer so things fizzled between us. I can definitely say this - Do not think by your going after her (trying to get het attention etc in whatever way) That stuff worked perfectly 70 years ago, but not now! I've always been taken advantage of after finally getting a yes. If she isn't giving you bright smiles and daily attention she is daydreaming about some other guy. Girls INSTANTLY know you are nearby and looking at her. One (church girl) I knew said this about guys - "Oh, great, not again"! "I hate this"! I've run into this time after time. Don't fret it's a guarantee there IS a girl wanting your attention just not the one you are daydreaming about.

[@SkyBlue-qn8me]

Speaking of women and birthdays, don't fall for that line when a woman says "I don't need a present, you just being there is enough". Trust me, if you don't bring her a birthday present, she's not bringing you a present when your birthday comes around, LOL!

[@sanmateo633]

1. Gives you a birthday present. (Indirect way to tell you she likes you or thinks of you) 2. Communicates with you more than other men. (She is interested enough to get to know you and see if there might be a chance of a romantic relationship with you) 3. Makes time for you. ( if you text her or invite her out) if she doesn't she doesn't like you. 4. Her friends let you know you should pursue her. (Her friends know she likes you) 5. If she says yes when you pursue her. 👍🏻

[@jihyepark9473]

You're right, Mark. You seem to understand us women better than we do ourselves. I once bought a birthday gift for a guy I liked though I care little for my own birthday. Thank you always for what you do both men and women.

[@soccerlube]

6. She doesn't play childish immature games such as "Play Hard to get"

[@Idkjustyet]

Very true!

[@BecamePneuma]

Good channel brother. God Bless

[@agwformen]

So glad you enjoy it, God bless you too!

[@NateChillinShow]

Most of the advice is good but I am not sold on the birthday gift as an invitation to pursue a woman. In my experience, women who buy gifts for one man do so for other men just as easily. I thought they liked me and they didn't. They just liked giving gifts as a personal expression to show value to others and others told me so. Whenever a woman has been interested in me they give me a hard focused look as if studying for an exam. Ask me serious relationship questions and we aren't dating...oh but I guess we are now 😂 Of course I attract bold women as my type so men need to know their type of women and how such women show interest as their methods are different thus there is no reason to know what All women do when interested because the answer is different. They don't all do the same thing.

[@karinafoster6974]

Great points Mark. I also watch this channel. Gives me more info on men and what they are looking for. As a woman trying to join the dating scene, it can be confusing. In your videos, you talk about inviting a man to pursue me. There have been men at church I have been interested in, that don't wear wedding rings. Who I find out later on, that they are married and have kids. Do you have any tips on trying to figure out, how to tell if a man is married without wearing a ring? Makes it more challenging for me to invite a man to pursue me.

[@agwformen]

it seems you did figure it out though :) They were not wearing wedding rings but now you know they are married. I would get to know a man before inviting him to pursue you rather than strangers. At church, you can mingle and get to know people where things like that would come out naturally. God bless

[@justsomeguy1671]

Try talking to them. Women already get every benefit in this country and all you do is sit there.... Most women are run through by the age of 20 and you expect to be chased? Lol. Ok you find out the guys married? Do you know this happens to men alllllllll the time! Many! women do this on purpose. Just toughen up. How can you put this expectation on us when the situation is not the same as it was in the 1950s? Grow some 'balls' and do something. Dont be a 'p*ssy' as you like to say. If you cant even reach out and risk being wrong by finding out hes taken, or risk being rejected then youre a coward. We men spend our lives doing it? Try hauling your own weight. God hates cowards so grow up.

[@justsomeguy1671]

Imagine how many times guys have gotten to know a woman then find out shes had like 15 boyfriends...yes this happens. If it was the 1950s id still approach but its like looking for a specific needle......in a fing needle stack......noooo enough is enough Mean used and abused women. Maybe youre not but its too much now to just expect to sit there and be asked? God made Adam? Yeah then he made him a HELPER not a princess. So get off youre behind and do some of the work.

[@brentheuer2548]

My late wife got me a present and invited me to eat out with her and her friends. I hope my future God ordained spouse is similar or might do something different. I am not with her so I will wait.

[@eponymous_graphics]

this was useful. thumbs up # 254

[@fatio6397]

I had a fellow sister in Christ, gave me a Christmas gift 🎁

[@Idkjustyet]

I’m talking to a guy & I thought about giving him a birthday present 😂

[@dhenderson1810]

I don't agree that the man should do the pursuing anymore. MeToo# exists now, and I know guys, especially Christian ones, who are afraid to pursue a girl because there might be miscommunication and they could be in trouble. Pursing can now look like stalking. Maybe the way around this is that the woman stop playing games, and they pursue each other. Don't wait for the other person. Each should chase the other if they really want something to happen.

[@jmp2105]

Mark, any specific advice for Christian college students looking to meet somebody?

[@christiegibson1315]

I'm not Mark, but I've watched relationships in the Church for a long time. I'd say when you are established and ready to take on a wife and maybe some kids. Find the wisest, kindest godliest old lady in your Church/life. Ask her of all the women she knows that are around your age, who she thinks would make a good godly wife. Even if she is "of ordinary appearance" (like Jesus was), look seriously into her suggestions. If you are not ready for the responsibility, get ready, pray, fast, and grow in courage and character. Spend your energy on building your home rather than looking for a woman who you should not yet marry.

[@jmp2105]

@@christiegibson1315 Thank You

[@DemonDavisK]

Do these happen still today? Im just curious how successful and accurate this is.

[@Strive1324L]

When you get red lights and barricades, stop pursuing 👍

[@karinafoster6974]

Giving a man a birthday present, never would of been a sign to me i like a guy.

[@brycecampbell4845]

There is No Woman worth pursuing. None that I have ever known. The Laws make women not Worth pursuing. The risks for a man are insane. 80% chance at least marriage will fail. And if it does the Man loses at least half of his net worth, pays for her attorney while he gets sued, alimony, Child Support, very little time with his own children, because she gets Custody, and he goes on destroyed and single and unhappy and depressed as he tries to put on a smile for a day or a few hours as he has a visit with his own kids, while she re marries and her new husband is your child's new "dad". Do you want that for your future? Then I suggest don't pursue women and as much as you can stay away from them altogether. Even in Genesis it says the woman wants control over the man, nevertheless the man will rule. The ONLY way I would even consider marriage and this is the financial part only that I speak of protecting, is with a well thought out pre-nup. And that only takes care of protecting assets. I'm not sure anything can be done about losing your kids?.. where have I missed it? That's marriage in America folks. That, is why 65% of American Males are choosing to stay single. Not even pursuing women for dates. And the women are growing older and older and more and more upset. But they have caused it. They want superiority over the male...completely Against God's Word. And now they are paying the price and so are we as males. Have I missed anything?....

[@matthiasryser6305]

Yes friend, you miss something: Jesus. For humans successfull marriage may be statistically unlikely, i agree. But for God all things are possible. So dont lean on your own understanding concerning this topic, just trust the Lord with it!

[@joshualeslie8485]

​@@matthiasryser6305Trust the Lord, yes...and definitely get a prenup!

[@brycecampbell4845]

@@matthiasryser6305 I do trust the Lord and I read the Word daily. God gives me wisdom. Wisdom warns me about marriage in the US. In fact Paul warns about it. What I'm saying is not anti-God. The Laws in our country are Anti God!

[@karinafoster6974]

Sorry you feel this way. Maybe God wants you to be single for now. As a woman I know it can be hard for us to wait for a man to pursue us. As a man it is challenging for you as well. Basically I would say pray about being in a relationship before it happens. Ask God to guide you to who He wants you to be with. Unless you have gone through a divorce and have experienced it yourself with loosing the kids and other stuff to your wife. That is just someones experience with marriage. It isn't that way for everyone. Is the guy saying this a Christian? If he doesn't believe in God or put his trust in Him, then he doesn't have a relationship with the One who loves him most. Seek God and He will guide you

[@justsomeguy1671]

Growing older and older.... i think you mean more and more run through. Even my 'christian' ex. 30 dudes lol. Ya man its tough and majority of christians want to blame us young guys and say its our fault just man up. I was a virgin till 23. I think some men arent meant for it. Heres my tip: I feel like i dont want or need a woman when im out of shape, or not doing well enough in life. Or not following my dreams if you will. That can be helping out a church, stuff you know u should be doing. But when you look really good, all those women who ran out of the oil...of virginity and bent over for manipulators saving nothing for thier husbands but comparisons....they want you and you can brush them off adn THEY can be the ones longing. You dont deserve to be someones 5th best option my man. And at the end of wokring on yourself....pick yourself up a nice 18 year old and marry her and save her from the whoredom of america. Another little tidbit for you: Its a common(well, more common nowadays) practice of women to usurp men's authority in a rather sick way....I pondered and saw this one evening.... The usurp you by PURPOSELY FORNICATING BEFORE THEYVE EVEN MET YOU. In their heads they think if they can get the biggest best tallest 10/10 guy beofre meeting you? That they can bring it up to make their future spouse insecure as all hell because women crave power over men. A good woman wont but like the bible says in i believe ecclesiastes. They are hard to find. God bless you my dude. I hope for you. But another bit: Every dang time ive gotten happy with my own self....they come. They want that energy, or they want to get you after them becasue they dont want to see a free man. They want you to be smitten and enchained by desire for them. Dont ever look at them with desire. Just hold out for a nice 18 year old. Its an act these older non-virgins are playing. Super hard for them to forget the past lovers. Thats why i think theres barely a mention of male virginity in the bible. And many mentions of men with extra wives....ive had a lot of women unfortunatly theve been paid for....but i dont care how they looked or felt....women really do bro. they really do. stay away bro. Unless you feel God is leading you. Then of course. But its really close to the end, and i promise you you will feel so much better if your on top of what you need to do, and you are the one being chased(not like you will be enticing them i hope)

[@verohb79]

#6) She wants you to pursue her, however you need to show interest first, with consistent communication.

[@red4135]

It does not work. I and my friends already experience this and failed miserably. Funny thing is girls will chase bad boys who dont communicate often.

[@Arcticstar69]

She does nothing....and she thinks it is ok.😂

[@anosh88]

I appreciate the simplicity of these types of advice, but as usual, they're meaningless if they aren't empirically verified. In other words, it's useless to know this stuff which is intuitively true but in reality doesn't occur. The best thing to do is to be content with yourself, your friends and family, God, work, hobbies, school etc. Dating is usually a waste of time in today's era, including in the church. In order for Mark's advice to work, one has to presuppose a level of maturity that implies the person is above reproach and is a solid Christian with a moral compass. The question is, where do you find such women, and even individuals, regardless of sex? This is why I don't pursue a woman because women today, for the most part with few exceptions, are arrogant and have a low opinion of men as a collective. The ROI of investing in a woman today is nill or even negative, so therefore I will not respect an individual who doesn't respect themselves and refuses to align with their true God-given nature. It's either that or try the crap shoot in today's dating.

[@dhenderson1810]

Many women like that may be overly cautious because a man has hurt them in the past. They may feel the same way you do, afraid to trust because of past hurt. Someone needs to overcome that and make the first move.

[@dhenderson1810]

Maybe choose your partner better. Ask God for wisdom to bring you to a woman who won't do the wrong thing by you.

[@anosh88]

@@dhenderson1810 To say one needs to just simply "choose better" is extremely myopic because it overlooks the statistical likelihood of finding a decent woman, or even a decent person, in today's society. It's not like we have plenty of options at our finger tips and we just keep choosing wrong. If that was the case, then dating wouldn't be this difficult. We are facing a societal issue more than a personal one. I'm not saying that making better choices doesn't have its place, but it's not the only problem, not even by a long shot. The main problem is a societal shift in norms and what is considered desirable: toxic behaviors and characteristics, even in the church. I can't solve this issue by just simply choosing better.

[@anosh88]

@@dhenderson1810 This isn't the issue. The issue is lack of communication and openness. I agree with you that someone has to overcome that, but the burden is solely placed on men, which is unfair, especially given the social repercussions the average man can face if they guess wrong and end up getting accused of harassment, which is completely devastating since the law is mostly on the side of females than it is on males' side. One has to think statistically instead of move in this world by the power of one's ego.

[@Arcticwind-xw6qg]

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