She was pregnant by someone else when she was married. I missed it.The comment section brought it up

[@J.Anita24]

I look at these shows to remind me to do right by my husband and to keep him close to me! Baby, these streets are tough and I would rather stay in the house! 🤣🤣🤣

[@daniellefennell3877]

Exactly

[@vickiiblue]

Yes! I'm going to go hug my husband right now and tell him I love him! It's brutal out here in these dating streets!🤔🤔🤔

[@kwiggs18]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Theerealprecious]

This‼️‼️‼️

[@synnstylist7732]

Literally I watch it to remind me my spouse ain’t bad at all because honey these streets dry up

[@jaycedavidblackwell9557]

Wants a dude with high morals... but got a buncha kids by different dudes that she didn't marry.🤣🤣🤣 HUGE red flag.

[@stackzdollaz9508]

And had kids from a man she didn’t even wanna be with 😂

[@yeahrightuhhhuh4931]

These women arent even half of what they be asking for . . . but then throw their list out the window for some swag. 🙄

[@johnmoore4714]

You can't make this stuff up 😃

[@professionalpookie]

​@@yeahrightuhhhuh4931 😂😂😂

[@chasehlee7197]

"He was narcissistic and controlling, but I made sure I got what I wanted out of it." um, so many things wrong with that. These are humans you are making and they are half the man that you don't want.

[@eddieelliott1496]

She got what she wanted which is twins and 18 years of child support. Don't be surprised if she's not pregnant at 50.😭

[@MrDb135i]

Child support payments until retirement age..gotta love it

[@terrelledwards1558]

So soon as she gets pregnant the relationship tanks, because once she gets a child then she is out and you best believe the child support bag is secured. Sounds like she is planning her retirement on the Men she has babies with?!?!

[@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981]

@@MrDb135i using kids for financial gain that is evil... This is why BW on the least desired statistically

[@ericpowell4350]

🎯🎯🎯

[@dmac5808]

She lost me when she talked about morals, having children with another man while still married. To watch her rationalize this was amazing.

[@JM-ev8wt]

Her mind is still stuck on her twenties.

[@noahknight4039]

And it’s her side only. I’m betting if we spoke to her husband he would probably say he divorced her because she cheated and got pregnant by another man.

[@eugenecaldwell9619]

They were already separated. So it's no big deal. I'm pretty sure you've never cheated in relationship. So you have plenty of room to judge other people.

[@BlackButterfly0218]

@@eugenecaldwell9619 sir, even though they were separated they were still married. She has committed adultery and is in danger of facing the lake of fire after she dies if she does not repent unto God and her husband.

[@dmac5808]

@@eugenecaldwell9619 Married / Divorced its simple. This woman said she is about morals. She is far from moral in her actions.

[@saucecastillo460]

She said she was traditional, but had kids with 3 men she wasn't married to. She said she was with the twins dad for 9yrs & broke up after they were born, which means it's likely they were together before the divorce process started. How TF can you co-parent well, with a narcissist?

[@caroljordt8045]

Bingo!

[@K-Rob-co5pp]

You're right. Nothin traditional about that woman. Delusional at a premium!

[@faythecombest7978]

I caught that too! Ain't nothing traditional about this female.

[@saje1988]

Because she's lying. He's not a narcissist. That term is heavily overused and misplaced. You have to be a licensed clinician to diagnose someone with that.

[@whisk3825]

Whyare judging her it isn't that serious.How many abortions you had.Are you a vergin.So what if she has kids.How many women here had multiple abortions.You lucky abortions are legal because you would be walking around with baby daddies too.Most women would walk around with baby daddies.HOPE AND PRAY ABORTIONS WILL BE ILLEGAL LETS SEE ALL THE BABY MAMAS.DONT WORRY AM SURE YOU WOULD GO TO THE UNDER GROUND RAIL ROAD TO GET IT DONE.yes she is TRADITIONAL LOL

[@MessiMathematician]

As a divorced mom of 2 I actually agree with the idea of a Childless Night. Only have singles on with no kids😀

[@MalevolentElephant]

Isn’t it incredible to y’all that we have an almost FIFTY year old woman still talking about “swag”. Unbelievable

[@deekay1747]

My jaw literally dropped when she said that with a straight face and sees nothing wrong with that mindset 😵‍💫.

[@lewis20002000]

FACTS

[@kevinlee9929]

But when men speak about women with this mindset. People swear up and down thats its not true. And that only teenagers have that mindset.

[@mikeyy425]

But we cant ask for a natural woman lol

[@colbybailey1983]

Yeah that blew me away....she should be looking for anyone crazy enough to sign up 🤪

[@DefiesAllStereotypes]

It's sad that the answer to the question, "Do all your kids have the same dad?" is: No they have different fathers, about 90% of the time.

[@db7234]

@ DefiesAllStereotypes yeah. Especially when you see the men who have 3 & 4 baby mamas. Yikes!

[@biblethumper8088]

I guess it knocks that theory of bw having children by the same man out the window.

[@tremainekennedy9417]

😢

[@KingR1P]

Even sadder when you realize nearly every woman over 30 has multiple baby daddies. This is why they shame men for wanting younger women. I wouldn't care if she was 31 or 21 as long as she's feminine, petite, and respects me with no kids. However, the chances of me running into a 31 year old that has no kids is the same chance I'll meet DeJ Loaf and she gives me head on sight. Nice fantasy but not reality.

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

The number isn't that damn high

[@myvalentine9590]

Kendra needs a “Childless Singles Night”… tired of seeing the stereotypical children with multiple BDs/BMs…

[@EASTCAMDEN4LIFE]

💯🤦🏾‍♂️

[@toricollins6516]

THIS!!!

[@MsPrice-pn2py]

won't be No damn show that night😂😂😂😂

[@ladyJMS01]

No lies told.💯

[@87883]

@@MsPrice-pn2py 😭😭😭

[@kingssportskonversation7351]

Would love to hear her ex’s side of the story. She seems manipulative AF.

[@thuroB30]

Most of them are. 🤣

[@Ruckerpark98]

That what men need to start doing if they seriously trying get in a relationship with these 304s😂

[@bigger.1.bestrapperalive]

She definitely seems as if she uses her looks to her advantage

[@jackthegod9988]

@@thuroB30 all

[@vannielouis]

😂 i sense that too

[@sseeaahhaawwkkssrule975]

Seriously but you were pregnant with someone else's children while you were married but you want to talk about "high morals"?

[@momann1822]

Can't make this sh.t up. Women always moving the goal post -K.S

[@melanatedmantra6607]

@SSEAAHHAAWWKKSS RULE!!! 💯On point.

[@davidsistrunk7795]

LMFAO. She tried to pass it off like it's no big deal. "Die Alone".

[@YML256]

That’s not the worst part she was pregnant with the twins and she didn’t like the fathers attributes but because she wanted children before getting to old she kept the children 🤯 talk about the ultimate trap these women are dangerous protect yourself people

[@kuroe-chan5190]

But she had 2 grown kids. She already did the mama thing. So confused

[@corasbloom]

This triggered me so badly lol. She claimed to be traditional and used the word courting. Courting does not include sex. You are modern-day dating.

[@exclusive_mack5238]

Exactly.

[@Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD]

@CorasHarvest as an over half century plus a decade & years👵 may I ask you young people, is it okay to say...courting 2.0🤦‍♀️🤣

[@corasbloom]

@@Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD no. I believe we should leave courting as a sacred word.

[@Dr.Mahadrasjethwani_MD]

@@corasbloom Gotcha, was just asking. I'm married 31 year's have no idea what dating is like and at my age I hope to never have too. Thank you for your reply. 🙂

[@godsgirl7201]

Lol

[@petergriffinson1907]

There is no shortage of these kinda women. Kendra is set for life.

[@kevinlee9929]

😂😂😂

[@SuperTruthful]

There is no shortage of men that get women pregnant either.

[@EspritsFantomes]

😂😂😂

[@mmluon]

Kendra's patience is wearing thin. She's gonna snap hard on one of these women in the near future.

[@damiie81]

you never lied

[@rufushughes4331]

8:50 1994: 1st child, Baby daddy 1 1999: 2nd child, baby daddy 2 99-05: Dated, married, and separated her husband 05-14: Dated and broke up with Baby daddy 3 (a controlling narcissistic sperm donor since the beginning) 2014: Twins were born 2017: Divorced is finalized 2022: Smashed a dude a month ago but was not committed. Approximate timeline but it all looks bad. 4 kids, three fathers, and none by the husband.

[@MyNameIsCorey]

This is the best breakdown I gave up trying to figure out her mess after the 23 y/o....

[@richardtakyie2423]

Bro did the whole math. I was lost as hell😂😭

[@Rkelly91182]

Hold up now that you broke everything down, she was dating her soon to be husband while having a newborn? SMDH You can't make this shit up. I blame the ex husband too. Why marry a woman with a newborn and a 5 year old? That's pathetic Also she separated from her husband in 2005 but the divorce was finalized in 2017 WTF So she was still legally married the whole time And a man supposed to want to deal with all that. GTFOH

[@teewilliams4520]

She is a 🚩 🚩 🚩

[@Eman14128]

This is exactly what your meant to do when dealing with someone ,break things down when they say something

[@michaelkornegay4846]

Having kids BEFORE marriage is backwards. Period, full stop. The out of wedlock birth rate in 1965 was 4 percent. FOUR! Today it's 72. If the only thing we did for the next ten years was to concentrate all our energies into brining that number down, the black community as a whole would do a one-eighty in success.

[@kissmybeautie]

1000% agree

[@perdybirdie]

Agree

[@sherriew36]

What baffles me is how so many women are clueless about being married before you carry. Then they rack up a bunch of baby daddies, and then talk about how they want to be married. She was with a man for 9 years who left her after b e got pregnant with twins??? Very weird. She stayed for 9 years!!! Ridiculous. Women are 50% responsible.

[@michaelkornegay4846]

@@sherriew36 You're almost there. This is going to sound outdated and sexist but hear me out: How many men have watched their bodies change through pregnancy? How many men have had swollen ankles, bad backs and painful breasts? How many men have suffered from morning sickness? Finally, women can and still do die in childbirth (even in first world countries). How many men since the dawn of time have died in childbirth? 50% responsible? No. We have to stop this way of thinking. Without the ring, a guy can bounce three minutes after shooting up the club and disappear. These women have to understand the dire consequences to themselves (and to the children) of having babies before marriage. Think 100% responsibility and "equality" be damned.

[@savlosavage]

To be fair... out of wedlock doesnt necessarily mean every single kid doesnt have a 2 parent home

[@eq2092]

She keeps describing herself as "traditional". But traditional women don't have three baby daddies. They sure don't commit Adultery nor do they refer to father of children as a sperm donor.

[@kevinlee9929]

So you're saying that men aren't checking for a woman with a resume like that!? Lol

[@momann1822]

You missed her husband. Follow me she has three baby daddies and one husband. You can't make this sh.t up. Long live K.S. RIP

[@dailygrinders89]

Exactly she is modern alllllllll day 🫠

[@dailygrinders89]

@@momann1822 Godfather still undefeated 🫡

[@SuperTruthful]

@@momann1822 Naw, Ks was taken out by a non black- phat line backer ran thru 304 who he didn't know. Her coochie took his ass out. Ks was divorced and hadn't paid his child support yet-he made a living bashing bw for living their lives. No, you can't make this ish up.

[@tunde275]

Womanese: “We kinda dated, but we weren’t committed to each other” English Translation: I was a booty call !!

[@kevinlee9929]

😂😂

[@SuperTruthful]

He was her booty call..he can't have any unless she wants to give it up.

[@stackzdollaz9508]

Facts

[@bla9ckcob5ra]

@@SuperTruthful it don’t work like that and u know it. She the one getting bent over not the one doing the bending. Permission comes from her but she’s the booty call after that.

[@brandonlongdikjones8117]

@@SuperTruthful right, but women keep blaming men for all these single moms ,but you just admitted women control sex ,so it's their fault for fking without a ring, exactly

[@haitiboijo]

Once they say he's a narcissist it's always a huge red flag. Almost every time I hear a woman say that, she turns out to be the real narcissist.

[@Secretelover12]

Relationships are reflective

[@yeahrightuhhhuh4931]

Whenever BW try to avoid accountability they will always say they left because he was a broke, toxic, narcissistic, controlling, mama's boy who was abusive . . .

[@mrs.w8193]

Same with men and all people who use the word narcissist. Most people don’t even know the meaning of that word and use it inappropriately

[@TheGr8-1]

💯

[@TheGr8-1]

@@mrs.w8193 men rarely say they left their woman because she’s a narcissist. That’s a 90% term women use. Stop trying to flip 💩 Men usually say ‘bitch was crazy’ lol. And she’s exhibit A

[@pwrhitterp]

“Very traditional “ ma’am you had 3 kids by men you never married 😂😂

[@LadyK007]

Right lol😂😂😂

[@PainoftheAncestors]

Home girl said she is looking for a man with “high moral standards”… 🤦🏾‍♂️ That disqualifies her instantaneously!

[@kirbyaugustine761]

A sign of true maturity is knowing yourself enough to understand that you’re too damaged to subject another person to your bulls**t.

[@RahYisrael99]

Amen

[@godsgirl7201]

True

[@52blocksfederation83]

Wow. She has made all these untraditional bad choices and is trying to come off with wisdom and demands. Please.

[@Camille4Real]

Fellas... this ain't it. She's a beautiful mess, lol. I try to support the ladies as best I can. However if my brother walked in with her on his arm at Thanksgiving, I'd be very worried and disappointed.

[@antwainhudson8196]

I really wish the word narcissist was never invented! This is almost every woman's scape goat word to why the relationship didn't work. Most of them don't even know what it means! It's just the new hot word that almost every woman uses now to not hold themselves accountable for anything!

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

Exactly! They use that word more than they use their own names. Very weird.

[@reejay2098]

Right!! Narcissistic are demon spawned...shouldn't be applied to your everyday jackass.

[@citi360]

Also the phrase "red flag". The guy could've tripped because he forgot to tie his shoe.... And omg that's a red flag! I hate that phrase now.

[@GETBIG4WARD]

Many women are narcissist

[@kourtneydouthard-becker1501]

LMBO

[@Roccofan]

“I’m at least going to get my children out of it.” WOW. We know they’re out there, but seeing this insane level of selfishness is breath taking.

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

@Mimi Why isn’t it natural instinct to have children with a man who you know you’ll be with? It sounds crazy to intentionally have children with a man who has the terrible traits this woman described and knowing they weren’t going to provide a loving environment/home, choose to bring 2 innocent lives into this world “to get something out of it.” That’s not natural loving, caring, nurturing instinct. That sounds more like “I wasted what e left of my child bearing years and I want more children so I’m going to use this situation to get what I want.” That just sounds selfish. I believe the woman knows it was selfish by the words she used to describe what happened. Of course your father is right! Men know where a woman will fit in his picture. This was not the case for the woman in the video.

[@Roccofan]

@Mimi How did you screw up the first sentence and get the rest right?

[@patrickcalvary8384]

@@Roccofan I was confused AF as well. She knows exactly how to keep a husband but wants to play into women making terrible decisions. Not even terrible because this woman blatantly said "I'm going to get my kids out of it". Extremely self centered. Didn't matter that the relationship wasn't going to work lol

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

You do realise Jerry Springer had over 20 seasons

[@Roccofan]

@Mimi Scorn? Ciara got lucky and I’m happy for her. Megan has shown she’s not wife material. I’m a very strong proponent of getting married and staying married. Who isn’t for women showing discernment in the men they choose to spend their time with and most importantly have babies with?

[@djkidas]

Tell your three baby daddies to buy you flower's. Traditional women don't have three baby daddies.

[@id.icebergslim]

thank you Kendra for keeping it a buck with the ladies, real men appreciate that!!

[@SuperTruthful]

Kendra, keeps it a buck with everyone. I love that.

[@lewis20002000]

Yeah, she's been holding more and more of these men and women's feet to the fire. It matters how many kids(if you're open to more) you have to any new relationship you're seeking, it matters if you're still dealing with your ex, and it matters how much you expect the new person to provide and if you have other financial obligations.

[@kayshawnsimmons6822]

Kendra keeps it real with everybody

[@GreyMann2]

She complimented Kendra on her blue eye shadow to distract her from the fact that she was "traditional" but had 4 kids out of wedlock. Somebody in the comments shed some light on her shenanigans.

[@fitnessfreak212]

I read this comment as soon as she did it. KG has a very low attention span and she played on that lol.

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

4 kids out of wedlock? Wasn't she married? Did I. Miss something?

[@Roccofan]

@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 she was technically married to another man she didn’t have kids with while she was pregnant.

[@carl5438]

@@Roccofan So she says. I don't believe her for one second.

[@perdybirdie]

Yup. Very manipulative

[@cristalcruzzin1756]

None of these women ever take accountability smh!!! It’s always “life happens” …. Trifilin asf

[@aponteaida913]

Not part of their vocabulary!

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

😂😂

[@adams8830]

I 100% agree.

[@bobbyschannel349]

Life does happened and then you learn from it. I mean yes you got a lot of baby daddies, but whoever kids are grown. Almost in their thirties, So obviously she was very young

[@acebutterfly2725]

What 38-year-old man of sound mind with goals is going to want to date this person seriously? I think it would be nice for Kendra to occasionally host episodes dedicated exclusively for childless singles.

[@toricollins6516]

I have been wondering the same thing. I don't have kids, either. So many of her guests have kids.

[@mochalite10]

She is 48 not 38. And in real life, people with kids still have options believe it or not.

[@acebutterfly2725]

@@mochalite10 3:53 Her AGE preference men 38 to 55. Agreed, everyone has options, but what are the QUALITY of the options, at this point?

[@mikolowiskamikolowiska4993]

@@mochalite10 nobody said they don't. Just not delusional options

[@kayemendi4501]

Kendra has a show featuring people that have been chosen at random. She doubled down on this by telling people NOT to superchat in order to be chosen. I suppose she can dedicate certain shows to childless people, but then it wouldn’t really be a real dating show. She’s operating as a live dating website. I have never used a dating website, but based on what my single friends say, Kendra’s show is true to what people will find on a dating website.

[@Rieka.Chanel]

Her reasoning for having kids with the narcissist shows that she isn’t a healthy minded adult. Stay single and fix your mindset first.

[@SuperTruthful]

Actually, she explained why she got pregnant if you'd listened to her.

[@ceemeemo7658]

no concern for who she's mixing genes with smh

[@uncensored6177]

@@SuperTruthful and like dude basically said, her explanation behind having kids with the "narc" was terrible

[@nettaterrestrial86]

💯🚩🚩🚩

[@SuperTruthful]

@@uncensored6177 she put it out there and dude can write whatever he wants to write just like you did.

[@chiefrocka9159]

This is what I've been saying for years. Why have children in your 40s with a man that you're not married to? Especially, when your two oldest were leaving the nest to fulfill their dreams. It's kind of backwards. Then, you wonder at what point in that relationship did the 💡of birthing more children come up. So, the eight year relationship begins to fizzle out and then there's a pregnancy. So, the twins were born when she was 40? Again, the sister chose to be a Baby Mama at "40". You can't make this up. This is an educated Black Woman, not a 16 - 18 year-old high school girl whose boyfriend didn't pull out quick enough. Further, I believe the sister did divulge that if at anything, she got her "babies" out of the situation and would have had more. If the sister is reading this, please correct me if I'm wrong. Who knows. Maybe she told that brother that she was on birth control and would not trap him. So, what happened between the time they started dating up until the point when she got pregnant. Was her ex a victim of reproductive coercion? Y'all check out Mr. Palmer's videos about "reproductive coercion". Better Bachelor did one as well. In recent news, Boosie's son almost got caught up. We know about Drake and "Hot Sauce Gate". This is a warning to any man that is on the dating scene, or living a free agent lifestyle (Big up CGA), wear condoms and Dispose dispose of them yourself.

[@yettiluch1]

Vasectomy playa. Got mine at 24. Took a lot to get him to do it bacc then though. I'm 37 now. Still one of the best decisions I've made thus far.

[@chiefrocka9159]

@@yettiluch1 - c/o 2009 for me. I was 36. With regard to your statement, no lies detected! 💯

[@eddieelliott1496]

She needed to be in a man's pocket for da next 18 yrs. She can go from child support to social security. Women think so far ahead of us yet they are so far behind 🤔

[@chiefrocka9159]

@@eddieelliott1496 - Facts. That's the hustle. Women have been doing this for decades. It's just that social media presents it to the public and it is socially acceptable. Women applaud one another when their girlfriends tell them that they got pregnant by a professional athlete, career military man, skilled tradesman with good health/dental benefits, or businessman. Look at that Drake Hot Sauce Gate situation. Then, you have the situation that just jumped off with Boosie's son. Oh, the young NBA baller for the Miami Heat just got up to. I guess it's their way of "leveling up".

[@nanciatnyte]

Why do men speak on giving birth to whole humans - when they don’t have the ability to. You guys glorify the most transient of things. And with all your “wisdom” cannot remove yourselves from subjugation. Talk about ‘you can’t make this up.’ You can’t bring humans into the world-be glad someone was silly enough to let you come into the world through her body.

[@Reminisce212]

Girls flowers ain't no 100, take ya ass to Kroger's, Publix or the local market. Get you flowers and card for 20.00

[@kevinmokumobi9684]

Yup Kendra bougie.lol

[@OkieDoke405]

I can tell she’s been fine for a long time and it’s been to her own detriment. If your antennas aren’t up, you might fall into the pretty trap she sets with her words and personality. She knows what to say at all times bc she’s had plenty practice.

[@godsgirl7201]

True

[@corystube]

Lol she has been misusing and abusing her pretty privilege unchecked for far too long 🤣

[@RochellB46]

Yeap

[@jaelee6390]

"IM A PHD" lol on Kevin Samuels 👊😆💯"you can't make this shit up"

[@lb6902]

It's sad when you have to go around quoting is dishonest man

[@andredmoss]

48 yr old with the mentality of an 18 yr old but has the ability to clinically diagnose someone? Why would anyone voluntarily want to be involved with this.

[@deekay1747]

You may have misunderstood. She’s getting a DOCTORATE in Business Management/Administration or something along those lines….how does that give her license to clinically diagnose anyone?….

[@andredmoss]

@@deekay1747 she said her twins father was controlling and a narcissist. That’s what I’m talking about

[@jaelee6390]

@@deekay1747 "I'm a PHD" 😆💯 RIP KS

[@stackzdollaz9508]

@@andredmoss 😂 facts.

[@kevinhaynes7528]

@@deekay1747 any one could have degrees of they're committed to that. The problem is seduction wasn't committed to the relationships she got herself into

[@brielax4441]

I’m left confused after this interview 😂😂😂 She has a lot going on between the timeline of the kids and relationships.

[@kenallen8213]

She conveniently left out those details on purpose. She tried to spin her story to make herself look good. She got pregnant while she was still married. She didn't want to be judged.

[@brielax4441]

@@kenallen8213 right, and when I’m confused I leave the person and issue alone. I can’t stand confusion.

[@sacoope1]

Trinidad is a small island in the Caribbean and it is popular on this show. 🤣

[@antoniotula262]

Shoutout to all Trini in dee house nuh!🇹🇹

[@tamunosakiwestscott-bloack2229]

She had the audacity to want a man 10 years younger while she is a 49 year old with 4 kids by 3 baby daddies. 😀 She expected someone to want to marry her and take all that on? And not have any children of his own with her?

[@RahYisrael99]

Yes. But she wants swag right.... silly broad

[@fitzgeraldsemelfort3938]

Selfish!

[@Eklectic_Afro]

Is it the norm for women to have 2-3 baby daddies? I am clutching my pearls over here. Wow Ladies ....

[@iriemo721]

Yes. In America it is, because men don’t ask women to marry, and women don’t demand marriage before having kids.

[@evaphillips2102]

Unfortunately it’s a flex…4-5 is fairly common

[@dentreveal3820]

Why 95% of these women are always babymamas?

[@MrEherndon5]

Because who would call a show for advice other than older ladies and and ladies with kids. Certainly not young and attractive and childless.

[@PlayaflyJoe27]

Right!

[@kxo1038]

@@MrEherndon5 They are on SheRaSevens channel learning game and giving testimonials of winning 🤣

[@chiefrocka9159]

It's by choice and if you noticed the trend over the past 20 years, the women are in their 30s and 40s. Also, they get that Baby Fever somewhere in their 30s, have no serious suitors who want to marry them, and are approaching an age where that biological ⏰ is ticking. So, regardless if the dude is a professional, skilled tradesman, tall, short, hood, street, not so appealing looking, handsome looking, financially well off, or just broke - you as a man will become that woman's Baby Daddy, which = a man who was a victim of reproductive coercion. Vasectomies and Magnums fellas.

[@MrEherndon5]

@@kxo1038 cool. I haven’t seen that but that’s good

[@jubernardi23]

She said that she is Family oriented, has values and morals and was pregnant by another man while she was married and also she has 3 baby dad, she was 9 years with a man that she said that was narcis and controlling but had kids with him, has never was married to them and now want the prince charm younger than 55 and she is 49?! 🙄🙄😂😂😳😳 She suffer from Cognitive dissonance and lake of accountability like most of people nowadays😬🤓🧐😳 Oh Lord, this is so crazy and unbelievable! 😳😳😳🧐🧐🧐

[@kxo1038]

She has her socialmedia game face on.

[@greatness2work818]

Rip Godfather Kevin Samuels , can’t make this shh up

[@mizzmolly7649]

@@greatness2work818 Yes, KS, speaking of having no morals.

[@chiefrocka9159]

Blackistan. But, the sisterhood and the ⛪ hat mafia would say that nothing was wrong with what she got herself into. To each its own. It's her life.

[@Yobachi2007]

Just a whole mess. She's a disaster. She's a Pookierina with good diction and poise.

[@j4trojanboi81]

She got some nerve to want a man with a “high moral ground” smh 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@jubernardi23]

😂😂😂😳😳

[@kxo1038]

They want that man to stand for something I guess

[@Only1Dizzle]

lmao

[@thegworlsarefighting]

Bitter party of 1

[@logic9869]

50 years old with 3 kids in the house and looking for a husband😂

[@Eddy-my3zf]

6:25 - "I'm very traditional" How are you traditional when you had four kids by three different people? The logic doesn't make sense to me

[@officialbrothernu]

She’s 50 years old with 3 baby daddies and she wants someone to court her 😭😭😭😭😭 Nah Aunt you don’t get that type of treatment with those stats.

[@karenb2873]

Just curious. What about 46 never married with 19/20 yr olds by same man?

[@officialbrothernu]

@@karenb2873 you must not have listening to the whole show . She got 3 baby daddies and she’s old and she’s looking to have a 4th baby daddy because she wants more kids. She has the mindset of a 21 year old. She was married to one man and prego with another man’s kids . She too old to be soo raggedy.

[@deefoxx8796]

@@karenb2873 You're joking right? Why ask for approval from someone who does not matter? Sounds like you need to work on your confidence and heal before you consider dating again.

[@melanatedwanderlust4057]

This statement is so dumb.

[@wendell7173]

Student loan debt too, going for a BA or doctorate I think she said.

[@kingba111]

She wants him on his game while her whole situation is a dumpster fire. Hell to the naw. 🤣🤣🤣

[@Eagles757]

Straight facts bro💯

[@FaithandNova]

Not a dumpster 😩😩

[@id.icebergslim]

facts

[@kevinlee9929]

Alot of the women that talk to KG wants a guy to help clean up their mess. They just can't say it though lol

[@SoundScientist1]

@KingBa. 😅😅😅

[@tekit2dworld]

The truth finally came out, but she's here talking about she wants a man that's honest, has the legendary Kevin Samuels said "you can't make this sh*t up"

[@sherienichol1580]

Your daddy is dead 💀😂get over it !

[@chiefrocka9159]

Hold on. Did she state that because the brother was "playing games" with her life, she got her babies out of the deal? Wow. That was a trap.

[@SuperTruthful]

How was it a trap when he had sex without a condom? explain that!

[@therealaba]

@Mimi we dont even want sex from them anymore yall can have them.

[@ElitePhysiqquesAndForm15]

these women don't care about black children having fathers, then wonder why our race is so screwed up🙄 Bw have disappointed me with this show, disgusting behavior 😒

[@mdotbeedot]

@Mimi Black men are more married than Black women (30 versus 25 percent). There's also half of us like myself that's childless. That leaves a pool of less than 20 percent that's Futures and Da Baby's you choose to make babies with as your first, and sometimes second choice. Choose better and get better results instead of putting that on those of us being responsible with our seed

[@mdotbeedot]

@Mimi First off, thanks for being marriage minded which is a credit to the community. That said, still putting you in the "Y'all" simply for putting that on us and yes the statistics are consistent from CDC to the Census. Even anecdotally we all know of a Future or Shawn Kemp with multiple baby mommas and more of the women that sign up for that deal. Dating with intention is sound advice, but do spread that to the ladies in the Church, especially those in college who could secure a union early with a suitable future provider.

[@KezzyBoo]

I'm not gon' lie this one had me crosseyed. Best wishes to her on the PHD process and finding love. She presents herself evolved from past choices but this is where communication and probing questions would be needed fellas so that you can get to the meat and potatoes. That said, she's very pretty, imo. Note: I don't understand wanting to have kids with someone you consider a narcissist. This could have went bad. He could have left her a single parent or became even more erratic. Nah, sis. She lucky they coparent well 'cause hunny. 👀

[@ericpowell4350]

She's lying.

[@aguythatsrandom]

Would love to see how she looks without all that crap on her face. 'Very pretty' okay...

[@cyrahomega]

I’m a PhD

[@Musa_Supreme]

Beauty fades. It’s not the feather in the hat you think it is.

[@JohnJohnson-vi4ev]

Yo Kendra getting more information out of these people than the feds🤣🤣

[@trentdavis733]

Four kids with three different men and she wants more kids?? Exit stage right!!!

[@mikeyy425]

Super selfish, kids highly likely to come out with a disability, from that 1972 winnebago

[@drtruth5291]

“You bout to prove that men marry women w kids?” So now stepfathers don’t exist? Ok

[@MzSweetzTalk]

Exactly! 💯

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

I think she was saying that because her comments are saturated guys mostly saying #nosinglemothers “never waste your time with SM…etc” She was just saying that to show that single Moms do have a chance too.

[@SugedaBoss1]

@@ItsmeCR-g8j they do, just not with the man they want…

[@EricWeston]

Stepfathers are only stepping stones for broken families.

[@MzSweetzTalk]

@@EricWeston Does that apply to step moms too?

[@ckrigill3844]

I'm very traditional....3 kids 3 baby daddies 😂😂

[@mikeyy425]

4 kids!

[@Geneviev285]

She’s the opposite of traditional which is lanoitidart..😅😅

[@MIA25NYC14]

As a married man, men and women have the right to have expectations of what they want to have in a new relationship, however make sure you are able to live up to the expectations as well. Looks fade away overtime, however when you find a loyal wife such as I did, you will always find beauty in their significant other.

[@blackmystory]

Hey kendra,thanks for making Mr.Kevin Samuel's point and argument. I see the look of disgust on your face as some of these women discuss their toxic and confusing situations and expectations. These women aren't doing you a favor with their catastrophic circumstances. They're only proving how trifling they are. Unrealistic behavior and expectations. Then when youth has left them,they look for a "clean-up" man. Wow....

[@Briyonti]

Who cares about an unmarried, broke, DL man’s point?

[@msthrillingcommentary1343]

What is the responsibility of the men? There is one of her & 3 of them.

[@KesDDS]

There precautions she could of done yet, there is 3 of them and 1 of her. There contraceptives all day. Yes she became a single mother but she made herself a single mother 3x over. Accountability!!!!

[@lb6902]

PLEASE stop bringing a deceased man who was vile into this show.

[@kingbradarmy]

This lady got a lot of stuff going on.💯💯💯💯

[@Camille4Real]

Absolutely insane! 🤣😂🤣 Lol!

[@kingbradarmy]

@@Camille4Real 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@moneyman8777]

A lot of women do this. They know he isn’t good long term, but still make baby with them because she wants a child.

[@EricWeston]

*She isn't good long-term.

[@ulquiorra3104]

She wasted her youth and now grasping at straws. She's pretty imagine her at 25. The world's her oyster and she played herself. Now she's looking for a sperm donor. That's why you don't date nor have sex with older women without kids cause they WILL TRAP YOU. Seen it on KS and on KG channel.

[@antoniotula262]

Oh yeah, and the option to go for child support.

[@No_Handle1]

That’s a sad truth. It’s too many women who don’t feel enough love for themselves and get love from others that they’ll opt to have a child to fill in that void. That’s 😢 sad.

[@dailygrinders89]

The lack of accountability women hold to other women if this was a man Kendra you would have ripped him a new one.

[@kevinlee9929]

Because when women get criticized on here. People run in crying about people being "Judgmental".

[@dailygrinders89]

@@kevinlee9929 crazy times we are in smh

[@dbug0325]

Nobody is going to take her serious. Baggage.

[@SnickersBarJamal]

8:43 Her personality was all bubbly til she got called out.. her whole attitude changed.. she TIGHT 😭

[@thankthelord4536]

I could never understand how these ppl can selfishly bring children in the world w/o working things out with the dads. It's like a never ending cycle of men and kids. Never any stability with one relationship. Something is mentally wrong with these bad choices.

[@kevinlee9929]

Someone is going to say you're being "Judgmental".

[@juniorleslie4804]

You are expecting too much from modern women. Their logic is quite amazing. Isn't it. Lol How can you be a traditional women, with four kids out of wedlock from multiple men? Am I missing something or does she know what traditions are?

[@Roccofan]

Exactly. They raise children that follow their example and then everyone complains about not being able to find suitable mates.

[@bornwithclass2365]

I’ll never understand it

[@aponteaida913]

They are just Selfish and perpetuating the cycle of broken black families, kids on gun violence, stereotype of black teens in foster homes or jail, the list goes on. So reckless

[@sjones2195]

Is @Kendra really taking notes as the person speaks, bc she constantly repeats the questions. I know she pays attention for the most part but it looks like she’s not really into the convo when that happens.. imo

[@cygnevara8400]

ya'll really be going in too hard on her! golly!

[@thebolb]

You weren't going hard. I noticed as well

[@EnubeeStyle]

😂

[@jetskipapi6193]

Nah...she just tries to make sense of this foolishness cause it sounds crazy

[@sjones2195]

@@cygnevara8400 I’m not going hard on her. I like Kendra and I support her platform.

[@iriemo721]

Who in their right mind starts over having kids at 40, when they youngest is 15? For what purpose?!? Is the dad rich and you want big child support?? Cuz otherwise there is no reason to mess up your life like that. She coulda been 48 and free, living her best life. Now she has 10 more years of plays, school activities, sports pickups. I’d Shooot myself.

[@xlaw6272]

Every (a lot) woman claims their ex is abusive…if they can’t prove physical then they jump to verbal/emotional…if they can’t prove that, then they jump to narcissist…it’s so predictable at this point that as soon as I hear the words “he was a narcissist”, I just tune them out. It’s never anything that they did… Fellas, avoid these women. Ask these questions and if they aren’t willing to take any blame for the failure of their relationships, back out gently if you have to, or RUN if you can. If a woman can’t at least say she’s been making poor choices in the men she chooses to partner with, it’s a huge red flag.

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

Same as toxic

[@Talkswithtee302]

Omg stop acting like a relationship guru! You don’t know this woman and stop judging! And being so miserable! I’ve never seen so many online hateful men that’s bitter! All the men I know never talk like you hateful men! This women is not asking for much! I can go on And on about black men! The stereotypes I add and say but I won’t because every man is different! I’m glad I’m happy and not judgmental! You do know people make mistakes in choosing the wrong relationships!

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

@@Talkswithtee302 no the problem is we stopped judging. See people with no judgment operate without regard to consequence. Look at the chaos manifested from this one woman. 3 men 4 kids one woman playing with all of their lives

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

@@Talkswithtee302 no the problem is we stopped judging. See people with no judgment operate without regard to consequence. Look at the chaos manifested from this one woman. 3 men 4 kids one woman playing with all of their lives

[@Talkswithtee302]

Umm okay! We can’t condemn everyone that makes mistakes! She made her choices and I’m sure she’s going to make better ones! Nothing is ever perfect! I’ve seen so many folks men or women in a relationship that was toxic and actually met a better partner! So let’s have positive thoughts and change the way we constantly think , especially when it comes to other peoples lives! You’re entitled yo your opinion! Listen to Sadhguru! ☺️

[@brownsense1]

The spirit of Kevin Samuels Lives on. Kendra... You have an opportunity to capitalize here interviewing these trash ass women that KS have been warning us about. I hope you become a trillionaire Kendra.

[@bigbuzin555]

She can be huge, because these women don’t want to hear this from men no matter how true it is. What they gon say now?

[@Execution88]

You got 3 baby daddies , the word traditional should not be mentioned here.

[@meloran2571]

not to mention 5 jobs, and getting a doctorate at 50.

[@reitum.9950]

All these baby moms to choose from, we are so lucky. RIP KS.

[@sherienichol1580]

Your daddy died broke 😂 his funeral was average at best😂 and you slurping all over a dead 💀 man’s D!!!😂😂😂

[@jaelee6390]

Speak for yourself, I date internationally lol jets and planes 🛩💨

[@reitum.9950]

Lol

[@takeoutthetrash6235]

@@jaelee6390 You reaching with the jets and planes though.

[@Chubby_auntie]

They’re having these kids with somebody… y’all aren’t blameless

[@ceasetheday87]

10:36 shouldn’t you AVOID having kids with someone who is narcissistic and controlling?

[@Only1Dizzle]

You should, but she thinks it's okay because she was approaching 40.

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

Since wanted kids she needed to act fast.

[@meloran2571]

@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 this guy could possibly hurt me one day. He seems dangerous. Let me have his babies. lol women logic. Oh I'm also PHD.

[@GoddessBlueYozakura7]

@@meloran2571 Well done Mel!!!! 👏 I'm proud of you even though I don't know you. That's quite the accomplishment! Btw I don't blame your suspicion. I can't even get with a guy that big. Like if he's 6"6' then everything is probably that big and imagine the size of his babies? That sounds like am ugly way to die. Ugg!

[@kiatalks555]

This actually happens a lot. People stay married/separated and have whole 20-plus year relationships and kids.

[@duandavis]

She should NEVER be in a relationship again. NEVER!!! 🙄

[@MrSuperPsymon]

Single women: "I'm an entrepreneur, I'm a scientist, I'm an artist, I play for the WNBA, I got a t-shirt business, I do hair and nails, and I just started my own lemonade stand.

[@tyronebrown5766]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Travel_is_therapy]

🤣😂🤣😂

[@djonesthe21]

you won the comment section

[@pammitchell1054]

Drop the mic!

[@D20jackson]

😂👏🏾🤣👏🏾😭👏🏾

[@reese4898]

That title is extremely wild😂😂

[@alexandrean6657]

Having 4 children all by different men…not married to any of them is not traditional. This woman knew she was with an emotionally abusive man and still had children with him while she was married to another man. Marriage and dating is off the table for Victoria. For life.

[@adrianrice6396]

This woman is 50 with 4 kids and said he has to be funny and have swag. She’s still running around getting pumped n dumped smfh.

[@EricWeston]

Marriage is too high of an expectation. It would take a super simp to court or commit to this 49-year-old leftover woman with two underage children. “I’m single by choice.” No, reality has escaped you. You aren’t worth it. You are a walking portrayal of your past relationships; disconnected.

[@PJ-fl3do]

Lol yikes but yeah see ya point

[@tajiri7]

There are plenty of super simps tho

[@greentruth89]

She a whole red flag 40+ and still fucking up out here

[@reese4898]

Dude married her with 2 kids didn't get any of his own and she had twins outside of the marriage man it's hard to feel bad for dudes who put themselves in this situation.

[@leadrecruiter]

I realize is only online men don't want baby mamas

[@elijahshabazz1806]

@@leadrecruiter what? He's making a point that the guy that married her didn't even have kids of his own by her and he married her. Men don't have problems dating Moms, it's just harder to

[@PlayaflyJoe27]

@@leadrecruiter just cause men try to slam you in person don't mean they trying to commit to you. Pay attention to how the man treats you AFTER you smash. Nincompoop!

[@kxo1038]

Women don’t have to be scientists, just smarter than the average man.

[@leadrecruiter]

@@elijahshabazz1806 thats what i am saying. Online all men say they don't date single mothers, however in the real world, they are marrying them. If we get offline, we will find that the world is different. 🙂

[@tubeslats]

4 kids, 3 baby daddies, looking for a man with "swag". Another one for Pookie or Ray Ray.

[@theexperience9573]

I have yet to see a normal woman without so much dysfunction on this show 🤔 I’m convinced that dysfunction is the new normal in the black community since basic morality has completely gone out of the window.

[@campbell2179]

ALL TRUE 👍

[@afrobutterfly]

We've also seen some men call in from jail, or their current woman's house, typically having multiple kids. Most kids under 1 year old. Both sides are crazy on here. I've seen maybe two normal women and two normal men. Everyone else has been wildin

[@thegworlsarefighting]

Have u not seen the men on this show? Non of them were datable 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@thegworlsarefighting]

@@afrobutterfly they were dusty and incels. All of them

[@Roccofan]

Morality to her is giving discounts to her people. Smh

[@Mark-pz3lq]

I've always liked knowledge and education and it's beneficial to living in this world.I'm seeing so many blk women on social media with degrees but their moral compass is messed up. Dealing with a woman that doesn't have a degree but a decent moral compass it's way more satisfying. I believe this woman is a liar and will be very combative.

[@mrexcelsior1414]

Did she just say MORALS, TRADITIONAL?

[@jubernardi23]

The funniest thing that she said😂🙄😬🧐

[@stophavingkidsoutofwedlock2981]

@@jubernardi23 this delusional chick talk about some traditional and she fornicated with dudes are not her husband

[@1lebero]

Can we say DELUSIONAL???

[@shawnwillis6496]

Want a man with morals but she don't have any

[@SaRaGarvey2012]

Kevin Samuels ran so we could all fly 😂

[@Heyitschy03]

He ran into that grave

[@kirbyaugustine761]

“He’s a narcissist” translated means I refused to be under his authority, being a strong, independent woman, because he had standards, expectations and boundaries. He was too controlling.

[@TheCakediva08]

A narcissist has none of the things you mentioned

[@kirbyaugustine761]

@@TheCakediva08 Married to a narcissist for2 decades with a narcissistic father-in-law while doing enough research and study on the subject to have an honorary degree so I’d beg to differ. Peace and blessings.

[@donttalktomeyoureannoying8736]

@@kirbyaugustine761an imaginary honorary degree ≠ tangible degree

[@afro_buddha4977]

- whenever I finish an episode and I am confused, I know many lies were told, so the math is isn't mathing !

[@Dee--Jay]

This is what men have to choose from. The dating pool is tainted, its all trash. We all in competition to get the best available trash 😂

[@CDub-df2us]

Date other men

[@meloran2571]

@@CDub-df2us actually men do what they've been doing. Smash and send back to the streets.

[@takeoutthetrash6235]

@@meloran2571 lol create more baby mamas

[@meloran2571]

@@takeoutthetrash6235 that too lol.

[@mrs.w8193]

The dating pool is just as tainted with useless men that women;have to choose from. Thank God I’m happily married. Dating is trash in 2022

[@WarriorPrincess615]

I haven't finished watching but I just want to say I've noticed there seems to be a lot of wealthy, well educated black people in the DMV area and I'm here for it ❤

[@MsPrice-pn2py]

I might have to agree on this. I was at a bar yesterday. I'm married, but I brought two handsome brothers a drink they were truck drivers from DMV. Well spoken we almost had battle of who's paying the bill. Them the type of people I like😘

[@ItsmeCR-g8j]

This is correct. This is one of the reasons I relocated to the DMV. It’s full of “us” doing great things. Plethoras of potentials! I like it here.☺️

[@chanelanderson4968]

If I’m not mistaken, PG County has highest income among blacks in the country!

[@chiefrocka9159]

@@chanelanderson4968 It does. However, P G County has "pockets" just like Baltimore City, Baltimore County, Montgomery County, and D.C. Pockets meaning the good, the bad, and the ugly with regard to low/high income areas.

[@chanelanderson4968]

@@chiefrocka9159 got it!

[@merriemelodies7830]

A bright woman completely lacking the morals and standards she is seeking. I have to wonder if she realizes how much sense she doesn't make!

[@mr8girth]

50 years old and still moving like a 25 year old sad!!!!!! Stop the immature selfish bs you will be a grandmother soon!!!!!

[@chrissysocrazy9798]

That heaux is carrying 2 last names. She gave her social media handle and told more nonsense about herself with just that alone🤣

[@KingDTB]

Swag 😭😭ma’am your 50 wrong era to want a man with swag 😭😭women like this are walking 🚩🚩

[@richardthomas2957]

Maaaan they been throwing that word narcissist around a lot lately these days

[@mitchellbennett6937]

She very traditional…. But has 3 baby daddies. 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@tyquanhumphery]

Big ass red flag 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@tubeslats]

I checked out after "3 baby daddies".

[@charlesbreuss8592]

Is this the “NEW” traditional woman 🤔

[@orlandorobinson9369]

"High moral standards", but she got 4 children by 3 different men that she never married. LOL. You can't make this shit up.

[@blaqpho3nix142]

Do any of these people get relationships from this? Cause how? All I see is toxicity, trauma, red flags, manipulation, no accountability and high exaggerated expectations 😬😬😬

[@walliskyle6996]

A 48 year old woman talking about SWAG 😎😂 like she’s 15