Shirley Ju Joins Jesse! (Ep. 306)

On this week's episode of TheFallenState TV, host Jesse Lee Peterson is joined by Shirley Ju- She is a journalist, on-camera media personality, and host of the new KZbin show 'Shirley’s Temple'. Raised in the Bay Area, Shirley is known for her extensive hip-hop journalism and in-depth interviews featuring today's most popular hip-hop artists. She joins Jesse to discuss her career, mental health, upbringing, family, anger, forgiveness, and much more! Tune in on Friday at 12 Noon Pacific Time / 3:00 PM Eastern Time to catch our Premiere!
How to find Shirley - @shirju :
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00:00 Start
00:24 Guest Intro
01:32 Welcome to The Fallen State!
01:58 Shirley Ju
02:15 Shirley’s Temple
02:47 Shirley mainly interviews entertainers
03:29 Life as a freelance journalist
05:18 Shirley interviewed Amber Rose
05:45 The Slutwalk
06:51 Would Shirley ever attend a slutwalk?
07:12 Shirley is 32
08:37 Shirley is afraid of getting old
09:37 Do you want to get married?
10:12 “No human being is good”
10:50 Shirley talks about her current relationship
11:42 Shirley has never dated an Asian man
12:05 Shirley had a tough childhood
13:02 What does acid feel like?
14:40 Shirley has her own strain of marijuana
15:17 Do you obey your boyfriend? 😂
16:22 Are men and women equal?
16:53 “An emotional person is a weak person”
17:45 What is mental health?
18:58 Shirley blames her environment for her mental illness
19:37 Have your parents met your boyfriend?
20:36 Shirley’s relationship is rocky
22:09 Why are so many young people mentally ill?
22:58 Will Shirley invite her parents to her wedding?
23:36 Shirley is working on forgiving her parents
24:46 If Shirley forgives her mother she will no longer have mental illness
25:55 JLP talks about his kids
26:10 Its not mental illness it’s spiritual illness
26:56 Shirley went to a Christian high school
27:40 Shirley doesn’t believe in miracles
28:18 Shirley believes in the Universe
29:00 Men and women being equal
30:21 Should men participate in women’s sports?
32:08 Shirley believes men are more aggressive than women
32:34 Should a man protect himself from a woman’s attack?
34:45 Are black women jealous of Shirley’s black boyfriend?
35:10 Does therapy work?
35:52 “People with degrees are dumb”
37:00 Does Shirley help her guests overcome their mental health?
37:50 Do you create thoughts?
39:00 So who creates thoughts?
39:31 What’s important to you?
40:29 Shirley does not like politics
41:35 JLP was a democrat when he was into his blackness
41:45 What’s wrong with the black community?
42:20 Does racism exist?
42:50 Shirley gives an example of racism
44:08 JLP’s interpretation of slavery
45:26 What is Shirley’s life like?
46:07 Do you have fear?
47:32 Is America the best country on this side of heaven?
49:43 Should a man ever marry an educated woman?
50:50 Shirley believes raising kids is a job for both parents
52:43 Do women have love?
53:32 🔥 THE HOT SEAT 🔥
55:37 How to find Shirley’s work
56:41 Credits
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[@vitin6039]

Did she said she is a mental health counselor? The blind are leading the blind, Lord have mercy!

[@evroypowell]

Yeah 😂🤣

[@olchrystel1]

😂😂😂... True 🤦🏼‍♀️😂😂

[@timeflowEqualquin]

😂😂😂

[@freemanbeing1904]

😂😂😂😂

[@Nobodydefinitelynotsomebody]

She is a cool person.

[@Sevenlilies]

I love how Jesse jokes around and instantly goes into “Do you obey your man?”

[@shirju]

i was soooooo thrown off

[@veganskeletons4131]

@@shirju watch his first episode with the black lesbian 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jimmyjamessac7171]

​@shirju hi Shir much respect......is Alvin your bro

[@jabrockobiden9434]

The future is doomed with people like her reaching their 40s

[@TheHappinessOfThePursuit]

That’s what they said about us. Oh… crap.

[@jasonv1806]

Agreed. I feel bad my generation failed these children. So sad

[@shirju]

tell me more

[@butthatsnottrue.]

​​​@@shirju there's just alot of people in government right now who are setting us up to fail and people haven't caught on to the deception yet so we are not as strong as we need to be for the youth to have a good chance at success. Keep in mind Shirley most people saying this about you are likely also of the same way or worse and prefer to criticize you before they would face there own evil.

[@foreverwood1963]

@@TheHappinessOfThePursuit LOL good one

[@TheRealestIdealist]

"WHAT'S WRONG WITH THE BLACKS???" 😂 I'm crying lmaooooo

[@princev1bes166]

This girl got a glimpse of the light- I wish her well.

[@fredrickhorn6374]

A fading light...

[@shirju]

lmfao

[@preston9135]

We are in a fallen state father help us jessie you are AMAZIN keep teaching the truth

[@OLong-fv8vq]

This is one of my favorite JP interviews. I also feel that Shirley is being sincere in most of her "I don't knows." Instead of trying to fake it or be a know-it-all, It seems like she will think about things further or really doesn't have knowledge in that area. Would love to have her back in a year or two. Favorite quotes" " ...cause your viewpoints are wild sir."

[@shirju]

thank you! 🫶🏼

[@WhyiLikeLife]

​@@shirju I really enjoyed this interview and getting to know you better. You handled yourself with honesty without putting up a bunch of walls! I can tell you have a real genuine desire to see the truth in yourself and in the world. I hope you keep searching and find what you are supposed to find. Thanks for being on the show.

[@timeflowEqualquin]

@@shirjudid you forgive your mother yet ?

[@timeflowEqualquin]

@@shirjuyou have 69 k followers nice

[@beachtrash]

This Man is changing my life for the better against my will, daily, without fail. Blessings and Gratitude, Sir.

[@dathip]

Jesse struggling to say konnichiwa! Absolutely dying!! 43:07

[@shirju]

lmao smh

[@johnsmith9476]

😂😂😂😂 kiwichiwa

[@christopherjones6778]

Great effort on Jesses part. He did his best to draw out this sad and very narrowly focused young woman. She’s carrying a lot of baggage. I wish her the best. Go forgive yo’ mamma.

[@gottliebdee263]

Jesse is a religious nut job.

[@samhopper]

GetAJob needs to make an “I don’t know” compilation from this interview. It’ll be 20 minutes long.

[@shirju]

lmfao fax😂

[@wess-cp7vd]

She's open and honest as she can be. .more than a lot I've seen. God speed..

[@starvedbaby2510]

😂😂

[@shirju]

thank u love!

[@Holmeholmeholme]

God speed what? God speed is only granted to those who love him and obey his commandments.

[@wess-cp7vd]

@@Holmeholmeholme I'm guessing you're not a Christian.😔

[@Holmeholmeholme]

@@wess-cp7vd do u even get what I have said? And yes. I’m a Christian

[@Toasted_Buttons]

Jesse just over here showing errybody just how surface level her kinds of shows are vs how authentic and deep shows like his are.

[@albertkabongaj8951]

Misled but willing to learn, Great interview Jesse and Ju.. Amazing!

[@Prodigal_Son78]

We are all misled and need to find ourselves.

[@TheHappinessOfThePursuit]

She’s right where the world wants her to be. I was there too once, identical acid munching mindset, afraid of everything good in the world. What a MESS. Betas!❤😂🐐🤗🐍

[@TheHappinessOfThePursuit]

She don’t smack. The smackers are nuts. The big ones are dangerous.

[@daltonwade7908]

BAYTUH

[@smalliver365]

Where are u now

[@shirju]

lmfao i am a mess ! #help

[@0g_str8up20]

@@shirju sheeee for the streetssssss

[@andresalvarez1585]

Bless her heart

[@williamhaska1703]

Jesse you are AMAZING!!!

[@lindleydaniels1273]

You know when Jesse makes the inverted comma with his fingers, it's a banger😂😂😂

[@noloking]

This guest is one of the most charming NPC I have ever witnessed

[@timeflowEqualquin]

NPC is wild 😂😂

[@CoolPapaJMagik]

Finally catching one of these on time.

[@jeffwhalen1978]

I was the closest I've ever been. 15 minutes behind. Maybe next time. LUYA JESSE, YOU crazy sob

[@shangrila73eldorado]

I like how Jesse gets these folks to explain their ideas, which often they can't!

[@michaelsinanan88]

The best

This was one of the best episodes so far she’s pretty chill and tried to answer everything honestly

[@ronsmith9251]

She’s trying so hard to stick to the talking points she was given.

[@shirju]

what talking points?? i’m the one being interviewed

[@blappichulo9015]

I honestly think she’s just not on the same page and hadn’t thought about the questions deeply. “Women shouldn’t compete in men’s sports” because she doesn’t want “women to get hurt by men” yet in the same breath says men pretending to be women should be allowed to partake in women’s sports - thereby allowing men to hurt women. Typical non-committal attitude we see with modern women and their aversion to offend or alienate any ‘marginalized’ group. Ironically, this answer (along with several other answers) perfectly illustrate why women shouldn’t be in political power. A 50min case study that embodies the easy process by which female leaders have, as JLP said, brought on hell in a handbasket. Not to say women are “inferior” to men. The 2 sexes are simply different. Women are caring and compassionate, which is GREAT for maternal roles. Wherein they care for their children.. family… local community. Not when crafting policy for 331million strangers, from wildly different cultures, with different values, and with different behavioral tendencies… tendencies which are unknown and foreign to said women - meaning they end up extending the compassion (compassion that their children deserve) to degenerate freaks and violent sociopaths.

[@Prodigal_Son78]

@@shirju Don’t sweat these idiots I like your vibe and energy!

[@shaneshrimp6519]

The one thing she said that made any sense is " I don't know shit about anything " , Bingo !

[@truittadams6019]

Ugh, this one was brutal. I'm SO GLAD I'm in my 40's and not in her age bracket. Bless the 30+ y/o Men out there that have women like this to choose from as a partner.

[@everythingisfake7555]

What a stupid comment.

[@TruthSeeker19908]

Yup it’s crazy out here.

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

This woman is a typical evil western woman. Women are out of control and so disobedient these days.

[@Mrs.CGraves]

🤢🤮😂

[@Mrs.CGraves]

@@ZennyReacts go younger. Meet a woman in College and train her up to be the Woman you need in your life. It’s how it’s always been done and will continue to be in all productive places in the World. The West has fallen and gone crazy upside down, it’s regressive and a mess.

[@daltonwade7908]

She’s emotionally stunted and seems really nice

[@shirju]

thank you love🫶🏼 assuming it’s a compliment lmao

[@jerryx2000]

@@shirju Simps always fall for this ;-). I respected you till you started speaking crap at 05:55...... Self hate 11:40. 15:15 not worthy of marriage.. Here is your answer to obedience 23:43

[@candorsspot2775]

She's very emotional, not emotionally stunted. I sense someone who is definitely a feeler, empath or whatever term is en vogue to describe that ability.

[@ulyssessterling8659]

Just love how endearing Jesse is, he genuinely believes what he’s saying and you can tell he really cares.

[@anaphylastiks]

Most women are afraid of getting old, but we all get old and ugly, so make sure the spirit is beautiful.

[@shirju]

love that!

[@anaphylastiks]

@@shirju It's true though. Even the best looking person can become ugly if they have an ugly heart, but a beautiful heart doesn't get old and ugly, it actually can make an ugly person beautiful. There's a big push for women to either stay young or earn lots of money and pretend power. Smile for real and find your peace. Take care.

[@curtislarue2748]

Love this young lady. Great spirit to her

[@kennethjohnson5179]

Great interview Jesse. I wish she could’ve answered more of the questions.

[@shirju]

me too!

[@ionutcristian9650]

She was so chill during this, i'm assuming she was high 🤣

[@lavitikis100]

This girl is actually pretty cool. Even tho her views are definitely not on my level. She was super nice and seems to keep a decently open mind. I can save her 😅

[@snobbishruk751]

Jesse is much smarter than he gets credit for.

[@a.d.9889]

she's open and not arrogant, misled but humble at least.

[@shirju]

misled how? 😂

[@a.d.9889]

@@shirju You haven't accepted Jesus as your Lord and Savior correct? You don't agree with the Biblical order of the family correct? You should spend some time, just you and the bible. Repent and believe the Truth. Jesus shed his blood on the cross that all that believe could have eternal life. You have to know who Jesus is to believe though. There's a lot of false prophets and false Christs out there. Especially the one created in the individuals stomachs. I really think you're a kind person that is a product of society. It's far better to be a kind person that's a product of God.

[@kwimms]

@@a.d.9889 Gee, you know all the answers eh? Here's another view... You don't need a Bible, you just need to know yourself and stay out of your thoughts. God is in your heart, you just need to be quiet and listen. No Jesus or Bible is needed.

[@a.d.9889]

@@kwimms He says know yourself and stay out of your thoughts in the same sentence. Sorry to tell you buddy but if you haven't received Jesus as your true Lord in Savior it's not God that's in your heart. Just lusts, personal desires, hate, and spirit (not the holy kind) driven influence. There may be a god in there but it's with a little g. Your suggestion makes you your own god. Funny part is the only thing you got right is that you shouldn't listen to your own thoughts. If you don't believe the Bible or Jesus, and you say to stay out of your thoughts, what's to govern the ship? Just like the Ouroboros it eats itself.

[@mariagabrielle6383]

Great interview! 👍

[@shirju]

thanks!

[@FreeThinker0]

I love the part when she's confused after she was told that educated woman is a bad woman and then revolt against the idea of being a traditional woman in the house. Well, that's educated woman for you, she is one.

[@shirju]

that part!!!

[@johnleckieWATP]

@@shirju That's the grammar point you pull him up on?

[@butthatsnottrue.]

@@johnleckieWATP shes very smart man. She was very honest in the interview. Most of the bears are liars tbh. Not that the bears are not one of the best communities out there because they are. 👍

[@FreeThinker0]

@@shirju Shirley, as a woman being a good worker just like a man is not the way to go. I'm not saying you gotta drop everything this instant but sooner or later you gotta accept and getting ready for the role of being a woman which is bearing a child and caring for the house and children while your man being a good worker. I also hope the man you are with right now is the one for you to rely on. God bless.

[@2Boios]

i have never laughed as hard as i did in this episode. thank you guys for making it free again

[@Gillz34]

Great interview great good for thought!

[@shirju]

thanks!

[@Richie_Alpha_Rabbit69]

Notice how she didn’t mention her boyfriend when asked what is important to her. Said her dog but not her man. Meanwhile most men woudl die for their woman to protect them because we have love.

[@baddude6102]

Amazing 👏

[@blappichulo9015]

Shirley says “Women shouldn’t compete in men’s sports” because she “doesn’t want women to get hurt by men” yet in the same breath says men pretending to be women should be allowed to partake in women’s sports - thus allowing men to hurt women. Non-committal attitude typical of modern women, embodying their aversion to alienating ‘marginalized’ groups. >>> Ironically, this answer (and several others) perfectly illustrate why women should NOT be in national politics. This interview is a case study on the simple process by which female leaders have, as JLP said, brought on hell in a handbasket.

[@blappichulo9015]

I see Shirley in the comments , so I wanna clarify that while Jesse says men are superior - I don’t agree with that. It’s fairer to say the 2 sexes are simply different. Women are caring and compassionate, which is GREAT for maternal roles. Wherein they care for their children.. family… local community. Not when crafting policy for 331million strangers, from wildly different cultures, with different values, and with different behavioral tendencies… tendencies which are unknown and foreign to said women - meaning they end up extending the compassion (compassion that their children deserve) to degenerate freaks and violent sociopaths.

[@alwaysright1283]

She's literally the average modern woman

[@mpumimaseko9793]

loved this!

[@thepaperstaggering]

She’s a space cadet. No deep thoughts at all. Like a pet chihuahua.

[@MistaJG]

She is such a pretty young woman and seems so polite, I hate to see her so infatuated with drugs.

[@shirju]

i’m not infatuated with drugs lmao

[@johnleckieWATP]

@@shirju You smoke high purity THC every night so you are always under the influence, which is obvious when observing you so you're infatuated whether you no it or not, try stopping tomorrow and see what you think in 6 weeks.

[@kwimms]

@@johnleckieWATP Why don't you start smoking and see what you think in 6 weeks. What do you know about THC? 99 percent of people are not "under the influence" and they are miserable and wearing masks. Get real.

[@JackWorkz]

@@shirju 😄

[@ButHearMeOutTho]

​@@shirju imma need you to tell your parents about the BF, you might not understand it now, we're the same age but tell them.

[@NatashasReality]

Dang.. 32??? Life has been hard for her

[@2Boios]

this was wild she really seemed to connect with some of the deep stuff Jesse said LOL

[@telecomgear]

56:01 right on. Truer words have never been spoken. Go and Forgive.

[@Lee-uw6wb]

My life at work got better after I began obeying my Husband. He hasn't failed me in the advice he's given me on how to deal with other Women, especially in the work place. Best decision I've ever made was to submit to my wonderful Husband. I make him a sandwich anytime he asks. ❤ Great interview Jesse!

[@guyarmon9410]

Thats a wild statement

[@willypal5431]

Her boyfriend is 100% beta. I hope she forgives her momma.

[@AG-ff9qv]

She is beautiful and pure inside and out.

[@shirju]

thank u🫶🏼

[@butthatsnottrue.]

Great interview

[@shirju]

thanks!

[@mattspy4316]

Jesse showing the way.

[@AVISIONMUSICTV]

She's super chill. Love it

[@voiceofreason1829]

Low IQ chill

[@NuCrowe]

It's like talking to a child.

[@peckerdecker]

nice guest. enjoyed this interview. thanks

[@mh_golfer]

Guys shouldn't hit woman because they are rougher, etc but it is fine for them to compete in women's sports. The type of critical thinking that has made this country such a mess.

[@shirju]

they should never hit women!!!

[@dr.dickgivens]

@@shirju nobody should hit anyone and everyone should protect themselves from anyone attacking them. But to say a man deserves to get hit by a woman is a “wild” view point

[@martingarcia3787]

I thought she was in her 40s already...amazing lol

[@smalliver365]

You can see so much pain in her face

[@starvedbaby2510]

I was thinking the same thing.

[@shirju]

where????

[@smalliver365]

@@shirju the drugs takin a toll. did u like the interview? God is the best man

[@mrkoolio4475]

Here we have a Asian person who probably went to college and probably speaks perfect English and is probably actually pretty smart and yeah she is attempting to speak Hood/trailer park English example, instead of saying I don’t think I want to have children.” Instead of that she says, “I ain’t trying to have none of that.”

[@me-fv5xb]

I was wondering why she talked like that then saw her videos. And oh...

[@offthehandlerepeats]

If you listened she rebelled against her asian culture. So she will unconsciously adopt other cultures. Americans aren't very good critical thinkers. But that's what you've been programmed to be.

[@butthatsnottrue.]

She's awesome 😎

[@shirju]

thanks!

[@butthatsnottrue.]

@@shirju Shirley alot of people in Jesse's community have issues. That's why they hate on you. They want to love but don't understand it yet. You were really great 👍 I would love for you to try JLPs Silent Prayer 🤲

[@TheHappinessOfThePursuit]

This is mama Mia hola si senior!❤😂🎉🥩✨🔥🪶💀🌲😭🤣

[@thebenevolentpatriarch424]

😂😂😂😂

[@dathip]

hahah

[@Mike-ql7hl]

I like Jesse because he put people on the spot he tells it like it is and there's draws the line in the Sand and watch him squirm around

[@TerrelThomas]

That medication is REALLY working....This is one of Jesse's most patient and coolest guest.

[@clintwarwick2191]

Lord help her

[@ThursonJames]

“I wanted to ‘feel something’, so I did drugs. I’m a therapist.”

[@shirju]

lmao not the point

[@ThursonJames]

@@shirju of course not, because you’re a well-adjusted professional. Amazing.

[@ryanswartz4043]

Well I know she smoked a fat 1 after that interview lol. Amazin

[@seanmetro3496]

Before and after

[@shirju]

lmaooo

[@Darkforest127]

Theres something in the water. "What DO you think about?" Lol

[@cybercontroller7047]

What chance do these women have when they are 32 yrs old but think and act as if they are teenager . No reason or accountability. Amazin!

[@h9ooo]

I love how you pronounced her surname 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@shirju]

my what? lmao

[@Woodenduckk]

@@shirju last name juw

[@roshpinna6708]

Jesse has *shaken this guest brutality* she will not be the same after this interview. she is really in a *fragile mental health*

[@shirju]

fax i’m scarred

[@jessicarewvelasquez2664]

Authentic, pure, and open. Doesn't claim to be perfect, be a therapist, or have the answers, which makes her a great show host. For those sounding off in the comments, just curious, how is this audience's ideal woman supposed to be? -Subservient and uneducated, but also politically knowledgable? -Capable of nurturing and caring for others, while ignoring or not prioritizing their own mental stability (since "mental health" seems to be triggering terminology)? -And also, simultaneously, aware that they are incapable of original thoughts? Just trying to understand here.

[@kwimms]

Women are to be first guided by their fathers, then lead by their husbands. They need to obey their husbands in all things, yet be independent thinkers in all matters and educated to teach their children how to think and should stay home and raise them. Their "education" should be home making skills, medicinal herbs, food prep, baking, basic math, reading, also music, drawing, art, etc. to a high level. Anything more is a waste unless they have some special gift. Then they are the exception to the rule. No women at home, no home, no family. It's warfare. See it? God > Christ > Man > Women >Child.

[@mosesprops5754]

Lol when she got done with the interview whether she know or not she learned something to take with her she cool great interview Jesse.

[@TheBox69]

After Jessy laugh be ready for the level going to 1000 in a second. 😂

[@Jwebb-zh9gj]

This was actually fun to watch. Granted she is definitely confused about some things (and by some I mean a lot). Watching her do interviews on Vlad was painful. But here you can actually see her natural charm. She’s herself. I also think she has a good heart once you get beyond all the noise.

[@kandlglass77]

I just can't with these modern females. Wow!

[@josephgonzales8897]

Being 32 and not knowing a thing about politics is scary......she actually looks young but sounds even younger.

[@shirju]

i knowwww i don’t have time!!!

[@butthatsnottrue.]

​@@shirju not being involved in politics isn't always a bad thing but you do need to get to know yourself, pray and love from within.

[@johnmoore3953]

@Shirley's Temple it's nothing wrong with that. If u not into it then ur just not!

[@michaelsinanan88]

Jesse gained a new subscriber….her boyfriend lol

[@shirju]

nope

[@johnmoore3953]

@@shirju worst interviewer ever, he's terrible.

[@kwimms]

best interview ever, he's wonderful!

[@johnmartin650]

I like her

[@shirju]

thx love!

[@Mr.Dapper]

The wedding. 😂

[@skyclarking-123]

Who is she?

[@albertkabongaj8951]

She a nice girl who's been deceived by the world.. she's lost, Great interview.

[@sydneyevan1333]

I wish her well

[@mkLexus]

Jesse is the great black hope

[@Greggatron]

Nice Lil Conversation

[@mrFutureNowhere]

A!mazin

[@opinionatorX]

I feel like I was watching an interview with trauma filled, drugged out, hippie. Stoned to the bone. I hope she finds the real Jesus. Pray for her.

[@shirju]

i was sober friend

[@opinionatorX]

@@shirju Aye! Okay my bad. It seemed that way. Jesse meant well. Lol! I hope you are good for real. Keep your spirits high.

[@crispycruiser4654]

You’re judging her left and right while you’re encouraging her to talk to an invisible magic man in the sky. You don’t see the irony in this?

[@opinionatorX]

@@crispycruiser4654 No irony. You are right. I am judging. But by exactly who she say she is and what she is into. If you saw the entire interview tell me where my judgment was wrong? Looks like someone's been snooping around with the magic man in the sky to even know about the idea of judging.

[@normanlouis3902]

She's a sarcastic lady. It's a coping mechanism for the pain

[@shirju]

how?

[@normanlouis3902]

@@shirju Hello Shirley how are you?

[@g-tv825]

@@shirju Hey, I want to thank you for your honesty and courage to be yourself and open minded. I was reading the comments. People judge a lot, especially religious people. God is great, God is acceptance. Btw what’s holding you back for telling your parents the man in your life is black? Except their mindset? You are a grown woman. You should not feel that shame, but joy if he is worth it. Much love!

[@butthatsnottrue.]

​@@g-tv825 you don't have Chinese parents hahah it can be hard.

[@g-tv825]

@@butthatsnottrue. wtf has my comment has to do with having Chinees parents? 😹 I’m lost here. And never said it was easy. Try to have African parents 💺😶‍🌫️. Have a nice day to you and me!

[@kosiekoos9408]

We clearly give women more credit than they deserve.

[@kawashima-yoshiko]

Who exactly? You give?

[@rudesword2852]

ABAZINN!!!

[@DavidRodriguez-ye7qd]

her brian is fried 😂

[@GangBangTCG]

These are always deeper then I expect

[@user-ek5nl1jc4b]

This ladies and gentlemen is what we call a "mindless air breather". They simply exist without thinking or having the ability to use logic or independent thought processes. They are the ones that cause the biggest negative impacts on society.

[@crispycruiser4654]

She’s humble enough to say she doesn’t know everything, unlike most of the other guests that come on this show and know everything by age 25

[@69sparker]

I bet her parents wished they never left China

[@shirju]

racist

[@dathip]

37:50 How do you create thoughts??? lol jesse these questions

[@shirju]

like what lmao

[@MistaJG]

“I want a good man with morals” but she high out of her mind and talking about tripping acid.

[@shirju]

lmao yll really love to judge

[@dr.dickgivens]

@@shirju please look up the word judge and then you can’t use it as a defense mechanism, when you’re cornered by the truth. We all judge everyday/all day. Stop using your mom as an excuse to be with black guys, us black guys know why you like us and we assume you’re good at oral sex

[@aguy8210]

“In touch with their sexuality”. Girls who flaunt their promiscuity and sexuality are allowed to do that. They just can’t be offended when majority of men won’t want them or view them poorly. It’s all free opinions and personal narrative. A big issue now is that some women want to “express their sexuality”/sleep around AND expect men to not view them differently.

[@outlawstar3311]

She definitely doesn't look 32 more like 42

[@shirju]

damn that’s harsh

[@gangstagamegangstagame4467]

@@shirju I’m 21 but look 60 😂

[@kofinineteen]

I feel sorry for her parents. They lost her to hip-hop and bee bee seas.😢

[@Tyweezy84]

Awww sounds like u hurt

[@Jwebb-zh9gj]

So it’s music and black peoples fault that she decided (and continues to decide at 30+ years of age) to rebel against her traditional Chinese immigrant parents while taking acid. Got it. Smh

[@autotops4158]

There is a spanish rhyme that says, "no oigo, no oigo soy de palo, tengo orejas de pescado". Seem fitting to describe this individuals attitude toward....