Is This TikTok Trend Helpful or Harmful?

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People have become far too comfortable filming random people in public, but sometimes it's with good intentions, such as exposing a cheater. The internet is divided on this story, and I want to see what you all think.
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@Mrs_Mama_MFT
@Mrs_Mama_MFT 3 ай бұрын
My husband called me while on a work trip to tell me how disgusted he was with his coworker, who was married but hitting on all the girls and bragging about his conquests. That’s the kind of response you want your husband to have.
@Lost_n_Found_1
@Lost_n_Found_1 3 ай бұрын
Amen! Praise Jesus!
@Mrs_Mama_MFT
@Mrs_Mama_MFT 3 ай бұрын
@@Lost_n_Found_1 he wears ties with pics of the kids. Gets a new one every year with the latest pics. I think even if he wanted to try anything, his coworkers would knock him up the head.
@kfirdrake8711
@kfirdrake8711 3 ай бұрын
He sounds like a keeper! Well done 👏
@unc1221
@unc1221 3 ай бұрын
@@Mrs_Mama_MFTHe’s married and you own him now. Did graceful of him telling you everything. He’s a weak man
@Wobble2007
@Wobble2007 3 ай бұрын
How about being a good friend to his co-worker and giving him a gentle slap, just to get some sense in him, it's not worth ruining your families lives over a roll about. Not to mention, you have to answer to God for the mess you cause.
@ashleyblake5672
@ashleyblake5672 2 ай бұрын
I’d rather find out my husband is cheating, even online, than to live in a blissful lie. I don’t agree, however, with people exposing his wife. Expose the cheater, not the victim.
@dreamstories3524
@dreamstories3524 3 ай бұрын
Tons of people caught STD's because their cheating partners were having unprotected sex behind their backs. So yeah, it's not ideal to learn it that way, but in my opinion it's better than not knowing and potentially putting yourself at risk.
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
yeah you have to pick your poison. I would expose.
@Lilmissmooo
@Lilmissmooo 3 ай бұрын
Yeah I agree
@annakelly7333
@annakelly7333 3 ай бұрын
Yup, health risk trumps etiquette. Her hurt feelings will heal faster if you can warn her *before* the lifelong STD tells her.
@Boags
@Boags 3 ай бұрын
How many tons?
@MissKateKatie
@MissKateKatie 3 ай бұрын
Been there! And lucky for me, it was treatable. But there are situations where it's not. It's not acceptable. Cheating affects a lot more than just people's feelings. It affects people's health too.
@skiggiez
@skiggiez 3 ай бұрын
cheating is evil, id rather find out online and publicly than to never find out and waste my life with someone who didnt love or respect me
@MakeB711
@MakeB711 3 ай бұрын
And people are saying that mob justice is wrong.. BUT don’t they understand that if a person is evil enough to cheat, they are probably evil enough to manipulate their partners into thinking it’s not a big deal and into forgiving them?! I think that having the entire internet tell the victim how bad the situation actually is, would have a hand in preventing that. Maybe having thousands of strangers telling the victim how much of a scumbag him / her truly is might prevent them for falling into the gaslight.
@NoShelfControl
@NoShelfControl 3 ай бұрын
@@skiggiez this! 💯
@MPblackpride6950
@MPblackpride6950 3 ай бұрын
Not everyone wants that kind of situation where their family matters are pasted out on social media. And the children might even be affected worse​@@MakeB711
@teroyselfhelpjourney3661
@teroyselfhelpjourney3661 2 ай бұрын
When you’re cheated on though…. It’s kind of obvious. It doesn’t just happen with someone who loves you. People always rationalize and talk themselves out of the possibility of their partner doing it, when it’s pretty obvious if you look at facts and red flags. 🚩 It’s hard to hide. If it happened to you, you’d probably know it… And we don’t know anything about this woman (the one with the family and unfaithful man). She could be on the brink of knowing…and now the whole internet knows! Sorry to be condescending, but you must be young. Experience and intuition will tell you when someone cares about you vs. when they don’t, and the relationship is fragile. Get what I mean?
@devanmol1202
@devanmol1202 2 ай бұрын
I know cheating is wrong but somebody following other person with a camera wishing to god if there was something wrong with former... Let's say it feels a bit iffy, sans that reasonable punishment for appropriate crime should follow.
@suzzeeq8693
@suzzeeq8693 3 ай бұрын
It took me over 8 months to catch my husband cheating.. I would have appreciated help from his co-workers because they knew. I would NOT want to be blasted over the Internet and especially not have my child blasted.
@Bobby-wn5yr
@Bobby-wn5yr 3 ай бұрын
Yeah tbh there’s absolutely nothing kind or meaning well in these intentions. It’s all about likes and content and exploiting the situation. These tik takers couldn’t give a shit that people are gonna doxyou or your kids, they just want the views. Cheating is wrong and yeah out cheaters… but let’s be honest that isn’t really what their motivations are in this. It’s one of those situations where just because what that person is doing is wrong doesn’t mean anything at all you do against it is automatically right. But yeah, sorry that happened, I hope you’re in a good place now with a better person who respects you.
@DDD11239
@DDD11239 2 ай бұрын
Leave your personal life away from your co-workers.
@Bobby-wn5yr
@Bobby-wn5yr 2 ай бұрын
@@mobiusraptor7 it’ll be very situational dependant for sure. Do they know the wife? What’s their relationship with the husband, what are their roles and work environment, etc. For example I worked for years in hospitality from maccas to pubs to hotels to clubs, etc in my 20’s and I can think of several times colleagues cheated on their partners on nights out or whatever and were given a ‘you need to tell them or I will’ in the break room the next day. We were all kinda equal, nobody had any power, we knew most of each other’s partners, etc. But then I think if it happened now at my work on a night out. Blowing up someone’s marriage would absolutely affect my work life for anyone I can think of. Someone under me? That’s a trip to HR for sure, someone above me? I’ll get shit canned at every promotion opportunity, someone on my level? They’re probably gonna try and destroy me, and we’re all in positions to fuck each other over if we really wanted & I don’t know any of their spouses other than what they’re called. No. I think if one of my colleagues cheated now I’d talk to them about it, I don’t think I’d reach out to their spouse. It’d have to be something so bad I felt I had to, and then I’d probably have to leave the company if I’m honest. Corporate life - we talk about our spouses and kids and such, but we’re not friends … well for most people. I have 2 friends from work it’d cause me major moral issues if they cheated, but I don’t think they would - that’s one of the reasons we’re friends
@thenameugaveme1540
@thenameugaveme1540 3 ай бұрын
Cheating shouldn’t be kept a secret; it’s never okay to cheat, even out of revenge.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 3 ай бұрын
As gross as cheating is, no. Getting involved in a situation that isn't criminal and doesn't involve you is fucking weird. And it's a slippery slope; some men who are simply talking to a woman in a non-sexual or non-romantic way (say a female co-worker at a mixer) are going to be falsely accused.
@Kevin.Costner.
@Kevin.Costner. 3 ай бұрын
@@pinkkfloydd You sound a not worried there bud, simply don’t cheat and wont have to worry about all that💀
@fisherman08123
@fisherman08123 3 ай бұрын
​@@Kevin.Costner.his worry comes from him not wanting innocent people to be filmed. Not him being caught cheating
@brianmurphy6480
@brianmurphy6480 3 ай бұрын
Yeah? And if it's an otherwise happy marriage, who wants to explain to the kids why they're now growing up without a mother (or father) in the house? Making small problems into big blowups is all about the person doing the swaggering; all of y'all so eager to step up and take the Likes for your self-righteous BS, but you'll skitter under the fridge like a cockroach when it comes to taking responsibility for the result. 🤷‍♂️
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@Kevin.Costner.okay new Headmistress Umbridge. “You have nothing to fear… if you have nothing to hide.” Do you know where that line of thinking normally ends up at a societal level?
@meleebrawler6462
@meleebrawler6462 3 ай бұрын
Man, I hate cheaters. Especially the ones who get exposed and try to cover it up after the fact.
@SCrEenNaMe-i9h
@SCrEenNaMe-i9h 3 ай бұрын
All actors and actresses cheat they just justify it because it’s a job 😂
@ronyerke9250
@ronyerke9250 3 ай бұрын
Rip the bandage off. Get it over with.
@mekhi_morris
@mekhi_morris 3 ай бұрын
Don’t hate people. Just pray for the cheater and person who was cheated on.
@Kevin.Costner.
@Kevin.Costner. 3 ай бұрын
i call them the O.J cheaters, The cheater is still haunting me in my city💀
@paigeheadley2115
@paigeheadley2115 3 ай бұрын
I totally agree- the only downfall is when you expose the cheater on such a public post, you reveal the cheated on. Which is devastating for them… it’s sad
@UnbanMeNowOfficial
@UnbanMeNowOfficial 3 ай бұрын
It's a grey area when it comes to exposing wrongdoings. Privacy invasion vs. the unraveling of truth, which one do we prioritize? The internet indeed has become a powerful tool, but it's essential to consider the long-term implications and possible harm it could bring to innocent parties.
@blaznskais2048
@blaznskais2048 2 ай бұрын
I have always opposed cheating, for any reason. But I also believe it’s much better to DM the SO privately with receipts than blast that stuff on social media for your own personal gain. It’s scummy to exploit people like that. Especially because with how online kids are they might see that or their peers might see that and bully them for it. There’s unintended consequences to putting people on blast online that these creators aren’t considering.
@lydiasullivan9204
@lydiasullivan9204 3 ай бұрын
I’ve been cheated on and it’s humiliating and devastating no matter how you find out. But I’d rather know. No matter how I found out. It’s more embarrassing and devastating to live a lie with someone who supposedly loves you.
@Sarah27H
@Sarah27H 3 ай бұрын
My opinion: 1) I have been cheated on, and told anonymously. It was an absolute shock, and an awful experience. I am so very, very grateful that a stranger stepped in to intervene. That experience is temporary, and relieving oneself of a cheater will only open the door to a better future. The means of how you learn is really nothing in the end, because the act is what mattered. 2) marriage is not a private thing. It is public domain. Why? Because that public are the witnesses to your union. They hold you accountable, they respect your bond. So public violations of the marriage oath are absolutely valid for public scrutiny. 3) the only place where things went wrong was in the spreading of the wife and daughter's names. That was absolutely too far, even if it was in support. 4) there is no legitimate reason for a married man or woman to be with anyone other than their spouse, despite the depraved "agreements" some couples will come up with.
@jakubjohnson6741
@jakubjohnson6741 3 ай бұрын
Well Said Mam
@RojinDrawsStuff
@RojinDrawsStuff 3 ай бұрын
Exactly! Couldn't have said it better myself!
@darkgalaxy5548
@darkgalaxy5548 3 ай бұрын
What about minding you own business & keeping your nose out of other people's affairs?
@adriennepieper1138
@adriennepieper1138 2 ай бұрын
💯
@DDD11239
@DDD11239 2 ай бұрын
​@@darkgalaxy5548 Agreed. Why put myself in potential danger?
@Voltaic_Fire
@Voltaic_Fire 3 ай бұрын
Cheating is the ultimate act of betrayal, those guilty of it deserve no sympathy.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
But having strangers invoked is the macro issue here.
@blackknight6768
@blackknight6768 3 ай бұрын
@slyrd261good point
@saigyl9149
@saigyl9149 3 ай бұрын
@slyrd261 i get that you grew up in the age of tiktok where no one filters what they share with people anymore, but it used to be very common that people kept things from their life private
@firelily77
@firelily77 3 ай бұрын
Glad you're not the final judge. No sympathy for cheating...lets go through your closet and see what sins are just waiting to be exposed. ..
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@slyrd261 I would never like you to be involved in strangers lives period. Unless we bringing back public dueling to the deat *h again nation wide also becomes a thing. Then involve yourself all you want with your ID attached to the exposure.
@overcomingthat2728
@overcomingthat2728 3 ай бұрын
Leaving the victim and the children anonymous is definitely a must. In an "open relationship" case they are never shy about letting the world know. So exposing those cheaters is less of a big deal. But cheaters definitely deserve all the shame.
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to 3 ай бұрын
You are so wrong about open relationships. The vast majority are behind closed doors. This isn’t a new thing.
@danielvindas91
@danielvindas91 3 ай бұрын
Deserve? Yes but who are we to play God? Are we wise enough to know what’s best for strangers? Are we fully considering the repercussions of our actions when trying to play the hero? Taking everyone into consideration? No.
@annakelly7333
@annakelly7333 3 ай бұрын
I knew a poly couple who was high up in their church... VERY secretive about it. I'd gone to church all my life, but got a weird feeling about that one. They ended up SA'ing me (not... all the way, but most of the way) - I had no proof and plenty of reasons to keep quiet, but I shouldn't have. Their next victim was an 11-12yr old girl. So, they are in prison for being "PDF Files." I always wonder if I could have prevented that somehow - Maybe by reporting my experience (even without proof)... 🤷‍♀️
@oriongear2499
@oriongear2499 3 ай бұрын
"Leaving the victim and the children anonymous is definitely a must. " No it isn't.
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to 3 ай бұрын
@@oriongear2499 So are you just a sadistic that enjoys watching people in pain?
@jude9393
@jude9393 3 ай бұрын
Your take is exactly how I feel. Cheaters need exposed but know when to stop. There is no reason to put the wife’s and kids pictures all over social media. It left a bad taste in my mouth
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
That's true. The victim's privacy should be respected.
@darkgalaxy5548
@darkgalaxy5548 3 ай бұрын
So let's all of us cast the first stone?
@Verander369
@Verander369 3 ай бұрын
Agreed. The kids and wife shouldn’t have to deal with the same embarrassment as the cheater should, otherwise that just hurts them as well.
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry
@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry 3 ай бұрын
@@darkgalaxy5548 They should be exposed privately because their partner has the right to know but I don't agree with people who call for worse than that.
@darkgalaxy5548
@darkgalaxy5548 3 ай бұрын
@@WithoutliesShlimShlamdie-rc9ry Some might say it's best to mind your own business & keep your nose out of other people's bedrooms.
@M2161
@M2161 2 ай бұрын
As immoral as cheating is, too many people feel the need and way too comfortable to get into strangers’ business. We do not have a social responsibility to police how other people function in their personal lives unless there is criminal act or someone is in danger. Finding out your spouse cheated is humiliating and emotionally taxing enough, but to know hundreds of thousands maybe millions are now involved in your personal business is even more humiliating. This is a gateway to people overstepping boundaries with no end.
@davagevorriose8046
@davagevorriose8046 3 ай бұрын
Gossip used to be limited to all the people you knew in the small town, and they'd all know you as a gossip. Now, gossip limited to everyone with an internet connection, and can be done without social blowback because no one knows who the gossip is.
@Patrioticmonkie
@Patrioticmonkie 3 ай бұрын
TikTok is the cesspool of the Internet.
@FloydRunner2049
@FloydRunner2049 3 ай бұрын
It’s “content”. Outside the front door isn’t “consent”. Double standards again! Trend meets the law. But standards. Yours? Mine? The Comments section or TikTok addiction
@Johnny_Utah
@Johnny_Utah 3 ай бұрын
Like with 4chan, once you get the internet hate machine rolling it doesn’t stop. It will inevitably go too far
@GoldEmberMage
@GoldEmberMage 3 ай бұрын
Hmmm. Reddit and 4chan would like to have a word.
@hrdkorebp
@hrdkorebp 3 ай бұрын
Brett cannot get out of that cesspool
@djaeger-k5m
@djaeger-k5m 3 ай бұрын
@@GoldEmberMageI think it’s all occupied by the same folks
@cmdub97
@cmdub97 3 ай бұрын
As someone whose husband did cheat, I'm thankful we could handle it privately and have our raw and open discussions. We went from on the verge of divorce to reevaluating our marriage and coming out stronger. I still struggle with trust, but he's very sympathetic to that and while it's very embarrassing to be the scorned wife, I can only imagine the embarrassment if it were public. The wife deserves to know, but the internet does not.
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
the last line is very true but unfortunately sometimes the two cannot be mutually exclusive. The only way to reach the wife is through the internet. Tricky situation.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@alyzak.8997not true literally at all.
@maylonieldridge5658
@maylonieldridge5658 3 ай бұрын
@thekatherinewolff well considering they wouldn’t know any social media handles she may have they wouldn’t be able to go directly to her DMs to do that. However, after she was found they shouldn’t be posting these things. Finding the wife is one thing. Making the situation your situation is another.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@thekatherinewolffthis person thinks all the worst possible takes as reasonable.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Cmdub97 you have a solid take.
@NoShelfControl
@NoShelfControl 3 ай бұрын
Yes, cheaters should be exposed if the person cheated on wants them exposed. The person being cheated on should always be informed if they are not aware.
@prot07ype87
@prot07ype87 3 ай бұрын
Exactly. Not only should cheaters be exposed, cheating should be deemed illegal. It's time to bring shaming back into society.
@brawndothethirstmutilator9848
@brawndothethirstmutilator9848 3 ай бұрын
If they are someone you know personally, sure speak up. Not strangers though. Too many opportunities for you not to know the details of their relationship or misconstrue what is actually happening.
@djaeger-k5m
@djaeger-k5m 3 ай бұрын
@@prot07ype87the thing is with society being where it’s at, it’ll still let the fems go free while males will have their lives uprooted… so as much as I detest cheaters (my biggest boundary for ppl) I don’t think making it public is a good thing… we need to be logical and not emotional
@MissTaelus
@MissTaelus 3 ай бұрын
Not like this, though. The destruction of this family was turned into a spectacle event for entertainment. Notice how everyone is chiming in in a way that sounds like they are taking this story personally? That's because they are, and it's self-serving. They don't care how badly this messes with the wife and kids- so long as they get to watch this guy burn for an injustice that he didn't even commit against the commenting spectator.
@miantgv
@miantgv 3 ай бұрын
I don't think that answers the question about if it is right to expose a cheater like that so that the cheated person can find out, BEFORE we know if the cheated person would be ok with that or not (or how much trauma would that cause).
@TheProtonSpinner
@TheProtonSpinner 3 ай бұрын
I'm all for excoriating cheaters, public shaming / humiliation for being a terrible person should make a comeback. Crawling the internet and attacking the unknowing spouse goes way over the line. If I knew the person being cheated on, I'd give an oblique heads-up, otherwise it's none of my beeswax.
@Camlling
@Camlling 3 ай бұрын
Cheating during your bachelor/bachelorette party is a different kind of low
@milo_thatch_incarnate
@milo_thatch_incarnate 3 ай бұрын
I’m torn. On the one hand, I absolutely think that public shaming should fully come back as a method of keeping order and peace and decency and civilization. On the other, I can’t stand nosy gossip women. What to do.
@emmanueleka6836
@emmanueleka6836 3 ай бұрын
Honestly same. Both options still seem like a loss
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
It comes down to intentions. If you genuinely mean well, it comes through in your actions. If you're just being a goody two shoes, that energy bleeds into your behavior too. People can distinguish between the two. Do the former. Badabing badaboom
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to 3 ай бұрын
In this situation, you can’t shame the cheater without also dragging the victim down too. They have to deal with the cheating and having their personal business spread all over the internet. The victim gets the worst of it here.
@houseofhas9355
@houseofhas9355 3 ай бұрын
Stand against mob justice. Because when not if when. They get it wrong. The wrong people can get hurt and they can self delete from the public shaming and hate. It's private. Let the person in a relationship with them handle it, not the MOB. Don't cause an innocent person to self delete because the mob will take it too far.
@milo_thatch_incarnate
@milo_thatch_incarnate 3 ай бұрын
@@alyzak.8997 - True!
@OpiumDenProductions
@OpiumDenProductions 3 ай бұрын
You have no reasonable expectation of privacy in public. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 3 ай бұрын
As gross as cheating is, no. Getting involved in a situation that isn't criminal and doesn't involve you is fucking weird. And it's a slippery slope; some men who are simply talking to a woman in a non-sexual or non-romantic way (say a female co-worker at a mixer) are going to be falsely accused.
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
@@pinkkfloydd cheating is criminal in my book xD
@LeahBreHappy
@LeahBreHappy 3 ай бұрын
@@alyzak.8997good thing you aren't the government
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@LeahBreHappybased
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@alyzak.8997is a authoritarian spokesmen/spokeswoman
@kingsinix8570
@kingsinix8570 3 ай бұрын
I mind my own business…but people would rather record someone fall down, than ask if they’re OK.
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
how can you ask the wife if you don't know her?
@SuperBartles
@SuperBartles 3 ай бұрын
Yes Brett quite rightly talked about this idea that it's OK to point a camera at anyone without their consent... It's obviously rude. And many people behind a camera/phone seem to think they're not part of the situation they're taking a video of - hence the behaviour you reference: getting the best picture & not doing a damn thing to help anyone
@m3po22
@m3po22 3 ай бұрын
No need for a comma
@horsebreath
@horsebreath 3 ай бұрын
Just don't get married. Chivalry is dead.
@JJGosling
@JJGosling 3 ай бұрын
I don't mind that she filmed the guys douchebag behaviour, but instead of taking the time and effort of find this guy's ID herself and contacting the wife directly, she posts a TikTok and most likely bought herself a latte for being so virtuous.
@thebestdavidpeters
@thebestdavidpeters 3 ай бұрын
It's why the law says recording is legal, because there is "no expectation of privacy" when you're out in public. Anyone can photograph or video anyone if it is out in public. That doesn't allow someone to telephoto into a bathroom or bedroom window/peak over a fence, because there is an expectation of privacy, but anywhere out and about is fair game aside from some Federal buildings.
@StrumVogel
@StrumVogel 3 ай бұрын
I hate cheaters. They should be exposed for the terrible human being they are.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Level 1 thinking ppl should be forced out of America.
@williammccormick2894
@williammccormick2894 3 ай бұрын
Absolutely. If someone's SO is acting a scumbag they should be exposed. It's a terrible feeling being cheated on
@judekiv
@judekiv 3 ай бұрын
Mob justice is never a good idea, that's how innocent people get hurt. This guys a scumbag but this type of stuff shouldn't be encouraged because of how wrong it can go.
@anonymous134y
@anonymous134y 3 ай бұрын
This is dumb because you don't know the situation. What if the guy/wife is wear a wedding ring from his recently dead wife/husband? what if the relationship isn't monogamous? What if they are currently going through a divorce but it hasn't settled? or imagine being the person getting cheated on employers, coworkers, friends, family know before you do? If online wasn't full of trolls looking to destroy everyone's lives it wouldn't matter but the amount of harassment people receive is really defamation. 90% of people on tiktok shouldn't be allowed to have an acc.... It's a platform for the braindead that shouldn't be allowed to reproduce.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 3 ай бұрын
Don't get involved in a situation that doesn't involve you. And you're advocating for something that is going to lead to a very dangerous slippery slope.
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to
@FirstNameLastName-wt5to 3 ай бұрын
You know what’s worse for the victim? Having it all play out for the world to see.
@gamergal8220
@gamergal8220 3 ай бұрын
Previous comments must from homewreckers or cheaters 😂 of course y’all don’t want it exposed.
@unburningflame
@unburningflame 3 ай бұрын
Yes, expose cheaters. No privacy lawsuits, no nothing. Get caught, get shamed, stop ripping men and women's heart in two. Betrayal is the worst 💔
@houseofhas9355
@houseofhas9355 3 ай бұрын
And when they get it wrong and innocent people get caught up in this MOB justice. What happens when an innocent person self deletes from all this social outcasting? Or public pressure/ doxxing, and threats from angry people online. This can also cause the Tiktok dumbdetective to get deleted. People will and have delete people for love. They will blame them and go wild. This is why saving face is a thing outside the west. Saving facing is a real thing. If you put someone in that public or blast, you can get seriously hurt or worse 💀 It's up to the person in a relationship with them to determine if they are a cheater not strangers. Also this whole thing is gendered. Do you really think women would expose women cheaters. I don't think so. So this whole thing is very much over the line and can cause some serious problems in gender relations if this becomes mainstream.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 3 ай бұрын
As gross as cheating is, no. Getting involved in a situation that isn't criminal and doesn't involve you is fucking weird. And it's a slippery slope; some men who are simply talking to a woman in a non-sexual or non-romantic way (say a female co-worker at a mixer) are going to be falsely accused.
@strawberrymilk418
@strawberrymilk418 3 ай бұрын
I’ve been cheated on and it hurts, but I don’t think people who cheated should be scrutinized for the rest of their life. People can change and grow.
@xKapnKrunch
@xKapnKrunch 3 ай бұрын
​@@houseofhas9355unfortunately the only people that would self delete because of comments online are already at risk for it.
@jeremyramirez1016
@jeremyramirez1016 3 ай бұрын
Getting shamed is not just for the one that is cheating but also the one that is getting cheated on just for the reason finding out fron the internet. And if you shame the cheater then people tend to bring the family along and it becomes more of shaming the family and thats embarrassing
@tysoncrosby3915
@tysoncrosby3915 2 ай бұрын
As someone who's wife cheated on him and a good friend knew for MONTHS and kept silent because his wife was friends with my ex, put em on blast. They need to know.
@WestRonin75
@WestRonin75 3 ай бұрын
I’m in the “mind your own damn business” camp. If you don’t know the person and/or the person they are being unfaithful with and can’t be discrete about it, stay out of it.
@anitafetters1816
@anitafetters1816 3 ай бұрын
Even when others don't know you were cheated on,it's humiliating . When those around you know it's Even more humiliating. When the entire internet knows.....I cant imagine.
@Desertfox201
@Desertfox201 3 ай бұрын
Being in public is like being on the internet, if you don't want it for the world to see then don't do it on the internet or in public.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Boo
@KyleCanSuckMyBalls
@KyleCanSuckMyBalls 3 ай бұрын
agreed
@attecker
@attecker 3 ай бұрын
Lol that is such a dumb take. If I can creppely film you and follow you around then take pics of ur groin and ass and post them online then?
@shikamaru281281
@shikamaru281281 2 ай бұрын
@@napoleondynamite6993 It's not Halloween, dummy.
@dafunkmonster
@dafunkmonster 2 ай бұрын
I don't want some nosy busybody on an airplane to mishear my conversation, jump to conclusions, make some shit up without evidence to spice up the story, and ruin my life.
@boseakingbasote7369
@boseakingbasote7369 3 ай бұрын
Ngl I don't get the point of bachelor's and Bachelorette parties 😅....just have cute gathering with all ur friends..that's okay 👌
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
yeah the sexual debauchery is just disgusting
@גקדןרק
@גקדןרק 3 ай бұрын
Fr especially at bachelorette parties, the things I've heard that went down in those are disgusting​@@alyzak.8997
@high-captain-BaLrog
@high-captain-BaLrog 3 ай бұрын
Gregory House explained it well: you need to be a wanton pig to test your restraint otherwise it is just flaccid words
@Lizsparkles
@Lizsparkles 2 ай бұрын
This tiktok stuck with me for days!! All I could feel is the embarrassment for the wife, the pain of breaking up the beautiful family. I kept thinking of how her life must have flipped up side down. I just felt awful for her!
@BranimalsTruth
@BranimalsTruth 3 ай бұрын
A person who cheats is disgusting. There's so much harm that comes from it. My dad cheated on my mom so much. When we found out, even as an adult. It made me feel worthless, dirty, and ashamed. Not to mention destroyed my mother. When you cheat, you are attacking your spouse to their foundation. You are teaching your kid that they are non-important enough to keep their household safe. You are breaking their heart as well as their moms or dads. No matter the hurdles I face as a married man, I will always be true to my wife. Look at the shame he brought to his family publicly. When you live right you don't have to look over your shoulder. Sorry for the ramble, my father wished me dead recently. This brings up so much for me mentally.
@oriongear2499
@oriongear2499 3 ай бұрын
What if your mother was being a POS to your father?
@annakelly7333
@annakelly7333 3 ай бұрын
​@@oriongear2499Bruh, read the room... Low EQ to be pulling that "ackshually" and "what if"ing type stuff under this comment...
@oriongear2499
@oriongear2499 3 ай бұрын
@@annakelly7333 It's mostly women who initiate divorce cases, just so you know...
@xAgirlfriend
@xAgirlfriend 3 ай бұрын
My dad cheated on my mom to but it's not the end of the world. I would definitely mind my business and so should you.
@annakelly7333
@annakelly7333 3 ай бұрын
@@xAgirlfriend Honestly, when you're the one getting cheated on, it may not *be* the end of the world, but it can sure feel like it. And breaking a home can feel like a death.
@adamfillman9020
@adamfillman9020 3 ай бұрын
They should face more than just embarrassment in my opinion
@Ninguin
@Ninguin 3 ай бұрын
What more? I’m curious on that.
@jeremyramirez1016
@jeremyramirez1016 3 ай бұрын
The embarrassment is not for the one that is cheating. The embarrassment is the one getting cheated on. I rather find out for myself than the whole world telling me because that is embarrassing.
@AMS-tothepm
@AMS-tothepm 3 ай бұрын
I’m gonna be honest most of the people on the Internet act like they’re a judge, the jury and the executioner at the same time. And it’s not quite surprising to find somebody now through the use of digital media After all, we all have a digital footprint . At the end of the day, it is up to that person she wants to divorce because of adultery/ cheating. But going down hunting the person’s family and like posting social media is honestly an outrage. That truly is embarrassing. But at the same time, if you wanna keep your account private or something like that, I think you can do it just to have family or friends just seeing your post instead billions of random people.
@vedinthorn
@vedinthorn 3 ай бұрын
In some countries adultery is punishable by prison... As it should be.
@MrsPippert
@MrsPippert 3 ай бұрын
This is the internet and it's forever. This will have effects not only on the spouse but also on the kids.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
And society destroying privacy even further.
@forsythejones2130
@forsythejones2130 3 ай бұрын
Notice you left out the piece of shit who betrayed his wife and family.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 2 ай бұрын
@@mobiusraptor7 it’s there forever
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687
@real-ishstraighttruthnocha1687 3 ай бұрын
I would expose people who cheat on my friends, but I won't worry about strangers. Sometimes, you have to let people do what they do. All things done in the dark come to light sooner or later.
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
If I know for sure, I would expose the cheater even if they are a stranger.
@NateO123
@NateO123 2 ай бұрын
I feel like if you know and especially are friends with involved parties that's different than this. I'm just hesitant to encourage people from trying to put people they don't know on blast without knowing the context and for clicks, like where does it end? Should we be a society of snitches constantly trying to catch people doing something wrong?
@watman5
@watman5 2 ай бұрын
​@@alyzak.8997Makes you just as bad as them. Mind your own business.
@VitalGear775
@VitalGear775 3 ай бұрын
You publicly humiliated this poor woman. Yeah you got the cheater, but you blasted his wife's name and picture all over there internet. Its hard enough getting cheated on, but to post it for thousands to see?? Talk about heart breaking.
@natnat_o3
@natnat_o3 3 ай бұрын
Yea
@nlivlavie3108
@nlivlavie3108 3 ай бұрын
I have heard of doctors who were sued for telling a partner in a marriage that their spouse got an STD. I can see this escalating into a lawsuit. And to be honest, for the emotional damages to the family, it should be justificable.
@Nameless-lk8ld
@Nameless-lk8ld 3 ай бұрын
I’m surprised at the lawsuit because you have to treat both partners for the STD or it’s continuing re infection. Or worse.
@nlivlavie3108
@nlivlavie3108 3 ай бұрын
@@Nameless-lk8ld the law suit is bc the doctor disclosed the std to a partner that wasn’t aware the other was cheating. You can google it. The patient who the lawsuit in at least one case due to HIPPA violation and damages And for the record, sometime married people don’t have sex for years, especially the older ones. So it isn’t crazy to think that one spouse doesn’t know if the other didn’t spread it to them…. And wasn’t treating the problem behind their back. There are people who go to Mexico to buy antibiotics for things like syphilis BTW. Or anything else that is bacterial, just saying
@ontheraggedy
@ontheraggedy 3 ай бұрын
It’s def more embarrassing for the cheater; the whole world now knows they can’t be trusted
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
There’s the issue that you don’t grasp tho. The whole world in someone’s personal business.
@sheabilladeau1392
@sheabilladeau1392 3 ай бұрын
Crazy part is that the side-chick knew he had a wife and kids. Exposing him won't dissuade those girls from still desiring this man.
@pooksmagoo6521
@pooksmagoo6521 3 ай бұрын
I completely disagree. I think it’s way more embarrassing for the wife. 😂
@ontheraggedy
@ontheraggedy 3 ай бұрын
@@pooksmagoo6521 how?
@pooksmagoo6521
@pooksmagoo6521 3 ай бұрын
@@ontheraggedy I am an extremely private person, and if somebody exposed that my husband was cheating on me via the Internet, and everybody knew I would die of mortification. I wouldn’t want one of the worst things that happened to me. One of the biggest betrayals of my life put out for the public to see and comment on. It’s been humiliated in public for nothing that you even did wrong.
@SomeoneSomewhere1984
@SomeoneSomewhere1984 3 ай бұрын
Neither the allegedly cheating dad or the woman posting this stopped to think of the little girl in the story.
@UGotSomeFood
@UGotSomeFood 3 ай бұрын
People on this platform are better at detective work than the actual detectives. sometimes thats a good thing, other times...eh
@anonymous134y
@anonymous134y 3 ай бұрын
because they are people that hate their lives and spend hours on tiktok
@indiaandrews6996
@indiaandrews6996 3 ай бұрын
A married man asking a single woman for a drink is immediately suspect. I had a man ask me recently. I told him no. He said I was the one who would be missing out on a new experience. I’m not young and naive any longer so I don’t feel like I missed out on anything. I know where he was going and I wasn’t interested.
@simonwinn8757
@simonwinn8757 3 ай бұрын
Trust me, you're not missing anything.
@prot07ype87
@prot07ype87 3 ай бұрын
*Not only should cheaters be exposed, cheating should be deemed illegal.* It's time to bring shaming back into society.
@203babyy
@203babyy 3 ай бұрын
They should make a black mirror episode about this.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
lol you’re being ironic here right? 😂 but also crazy how black mirror just preps us for 5 years in the future.
@Knlght0fZero
@Knlght0fZero 3 ай бұрын
Yes, bad people should be exposed. NON VIOLENTLY.
@basedkaiser5352
@basedkaiser5352 3 ай бұрын
Remove the "non"
@Knlght0fZero
@Knlght0fZero 3 ай бұрын
@@basedkaiser5352 You know who thinks like that? Woke liberals....
@high-captain-BaLrog
@high-captain-BaLrog 3 ай бұрын
Love the profile picture of that poorly reconstructed lion
@Knlght0fZero
@Knlght0fZero 3 ай бұрын
@@high-captain-BaLrog It's great.
@NateO123
@NateO123 2 ай бұрын
What constitutes a bad person and who gets to decide? This isn't too different from the social justice crowd trying to cancel people for problematic memes or misgendering people. Cheating is a crappy thing to do sure but do you really want to green light people trying to morally police random strangers that they don't know? This is another issue that goes deeper than just the surface level anger we might feel because we don't like cheaters. Like if you have expired tags and I call the cops you'd prob think I was a jerk right, like it wasn't my place to hold you accountable for that? Not sure I want to encourage social media addicts to take up snitching on stuff that's none of their business for clicks.
@Life_Love_and_a_Lens
@Life_Love_and_a_Lens 3 ай бұрын
Yes, shame is a great learning tool
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 3 ай бұрын
As gross as cheating is, no. Getting involved in a situation that isn't criminal and doesn't involve you is fucking weird. And it's a slippery slope; some men who are simply talking to a woman in a non-sexual or non-romantic way (say a female co-worker at a mixer) are going to be falsely accused.
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro
@DannyDevitoOffical-TrustMeBro 3 ай бұрын
Yes, shame is a great tool for learning, but not when an innocent is caught in that shame. This poor woman has had her dirty laundry aired all over the internet with her face and her life out there for everyone to see, before she even knew what was happening. I like the motivation behind this, but not the execution. Too much collateral damage.
@Life_Love_and_a_Lens
@Life_Love_and_a_Lens 3 ай бұрын
@pinkkfloydd this man was not being innocent...also women cheat too. So don't make it about gender or the innocent
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
But it’s not your place to enforce it
@adamkelner5476
@adamkelner5476 3 ай бұрын
If they didn’t want to be caught, they shouldn’t have cheated in the first place
@Glanzern
@Glanzern 3 ай бұрын
This dude didn't cheat tho. He just talked to a girl on a plane.
@ga.almu12
@ga.almu12 3 ай бұрын
@@Glanzernthey were literally making out!!!!
@Glanzern
@Glanzern 3 ай бұрын
@@ga.almu12 I never saw anything saying that.
@ga.almu12
@ga.almu12 3 ай бұрын
@@Glanzern there were two videos posted, one of them just talking (the video shown here) and another one of them making out and then leaving to the bathroom together..
@Glanzern
@Glanzern 3 ай бұрын
@@ga.almu12 why do none of the people covering this show that?
@kates2469
@kates2469 3 ай бұрын
i love this channel because brett invites us to create our own opinions on these kinds of topics :) as a teenager, i’ve always had so many ideas pushed onto me and now that i’ve found this channel, it gives me a chance to actually think
@chewface
@chewface 3 ай бұрын
If more cheaters were exposed and openly shamed....society would be in a better place. I'd even go so far as to suggest cheaters should be fired from their jobs.
@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927
@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927 Ай бұрын
thank god, you ain’t in control. Who made you the moral arbiter?
@chewface
@chewface Ай бұрын
@@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927 Tell me you're a cheater without telling me you're a cheater ;)
@SheriMclaughlin-rz6oz
@SheriMclaughlin-rz6oz 3 ай бұрын
When it comes down to it, it ain't your business.
@NoShelfControl
@NoShelfControl 3 ай бұрын
If someone is willing to have a bachelor/Bachelorette party with strippers present, are they actually truly in love with the person they are planning to marry? If there is the risk of doing something with a stripper, would someone who is actually truly in love want to put themselves in a situation where something like that could happen?
@classicalrenaissancerebel
@classicalrenaissancerebel 3 ай бұрын
If I had a fiancé and he did something like that at his bachelor party, I would see that as a major red flag
@sirjamesysenkoucxv613
@sirjamesysenkoucxv613 3 ай бұрын
Literally though. If I was getting married and found out my fiance was doing that, we definitely wouldn't be getting married. I might even have male strippers steal me away at the altar..... lol there's an idea
@rasmusjensen6962
@rasmusjensen6962 3 ай бұрын
If I'm not wrong, isn't it the strippers meant as a test to ensure they are ready for marriage?
@napostrophen
@napostrophen 3 ай бұрын
I’ve read a couple of instances with bachelorette parties as an excuse for last minutes of “freedom,” which is heavily encouraged by the bridesmaids to giving male strippers bjs and to have sex.
@napostrophen
@napostrophen 3 ай бұрын
⁠@@rasmusjensen6962the goal is typically to do something with the stripper. Grinded on, bj, etc. In my eyes, you shouldn’t be going to a strip club period in a relationship. Huge red flag.
@MomOfThree_333
@MomOfThree_333 3 ай бұрын
Sometimes cheater are abusive and wives or husbands feel they cannot get away from the abuse until the world is pushing them to get out!
@Spacemonkey-ok5yf
@Spacemonkey-ok5yf 2 ай бұрын
I agree in exposing cheaters. It prevents further hurt.
@ScottLee-xw8vm
@ScottLee-xw8vm 2 ай бұрын
This is a prime example of humans having a great idea but the masses take it too far and ruin it for everyone.
@xKapnKrunch
@xKapnKrunch 3 ай бұрын
I'd rather find out....
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Then do your own discovery lazy person
@Talking_He4d
@Talking_He4d 3 ай бұрын
I think people should just mind their own business.
@ryansreaction
@ryansreaction 3 ай бұрын
no reasonable expectation of privacy in public. Dont do things in public you don’t want recorded.
@tavo7465
@tavo7465 3 ай бұрын
This is kind of crazy though. I don't have a problem having my picture taken or even passing by through someone's video but (outside of cheating) it's wild that someone can just record a private conversation/moment and it goes viral. Just something to think about.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@tavo7465I say bring back privacy in general.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Worst take yet.
@alexia6678
@alexia6678 3 ай бұрын
So if people do not like to get their photos to be taken by strangers, they should never get out of the house?
@tavo7465
@tavo7465 3 ай бұрын
@@napoleondynamite6993 I agree. It's just too much. Can't even get into a petty argument with someone in public without people posting it lol
@meararose3085
@meararose3085 2 ай бұрын
This kinda reminds me of the trolley problem; will you pull the lever and change the trajectory of what would have happened, or stay out of it and let it run its course.
@richbt45
@richbt45 3 ай бұрын
Remember when you film you're only filming 1 side of the story at the cost of their relationship
@theoriginalkrabbypatty
@theoriginalkrabbypatty 3 ай бұрын
They could be getting a divorce and he just wears the ring out of habit, they could be role playing, it could be anything!
@alexia6678
@alexia6678 3 ай бұрын
But what if they have children together? The kids will be suffered if they realize how many people know their family situation
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
or they won''t and will feel less alone.
@SuperBartles
@SuperBartles 3 ай бұрын
Exactly - people here are talking like there are no consequences to posting videos like this on TikTok... This could well mean a messy divorce, absolute hell for the kids AND the parents For all these idiots know, the mother could be having a fling as well
@SlashingCobra
@SlashingCobra 3 ай бұрын
@@SuperBartles My thoughts as well. Strangers should have no input in people's personal lives especially when there are many factors involved. It surprises me that people here are willing to violate other peoples personal lives including the victim just to virtue signal.
@YR13-520
@YR13-520 3 ай бұрын
To be safe and not cause a drift in people's families if you are wrong, make sure you are 100% certain that one of them is cheating, but otherwise its a dangerous power that you can't control, cause if there wasn't any cheating and they were just friends, you may have ruined something that could've been special in the future
@lau6438
@lau6438 3 ай бұрын
This. If you're not certain, then don't say anything.
@alyzak.8997
@alyzak.8997 3 ай бұрын
I agree. Unless you feel like you have sufficient evidence, don't get involved. But if you do then HELL YEAH xD
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Easier solution.. don’t involve yourself with a strangers personal life.
@tinapriest857
@tinapriest857 3 ай бұрын
Cheaters should be put in a national database for everybody to know they're a cheater
@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927
@indiasupportstrumpwwg1wga927 Ай бұрын
that’s scary… you are deranged.
@inhale1
@inhale1 3 ай бұрын
I've also heard of guys putting on a fake wedding ring to dupe women into thinking they're fooling around with a married guy. Apparently some women have no problem having fun with another woman's man...
@matthewpatrick7263
@matthewpatrick7263 3 ай бұрын
Many women find a man more attractive if he's already involved with another woman.
@high-captain-BaLrog
@high-captain-BaLrog 3 ай бұрын
pre-selection phenomena
@KyleCanSuckMyBalls
@KyleCanSuckMyBalls 3 ай бұрын
@@matthewpatrick7263 Most women have enough of a moral compass not to mess around with someone else's man
@jorgerivas4587
@jorgerivas4587 2 ай бұрын
It's called MIND YA BUSINESS! These people recording are way to comfortable recording/exposing without any consequences.
@VeerVKrishna
@VeerVKrishna 3 ай бұрын
YES! Don’t cheat if you don’t want to be called a cheater.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Don’t live in America if you don’t believe in American independence and rights to privacy.
@forsythejones2130
@forsythejones2130 3 ай бұрын
@@napoleondynamite6993 Betraying your spouse was never a right nor a foundational principle of the republic, dumb-dumb.
@victoriabryer4710
@victoriabryer4710 3 ай бұрын
"No married man kisses his wife like that" - Loki ( from the movie Dogma)
@ChrisSurdak-v2r
@ChrisSurdak-v2r 3 ай бұрын
"No married woman blows her husband like that." - Every man who has been married for more than a month.
@Glanzern
@Glanzern 3 ай бұрын
To her? 😂😂😂
@ashleytaylor235
@ashleytaylor235 3 ай бұрын
Expose them. If they are stupid enough to do it, and publicly, there is no privacy in public spaces.
@lenkabojanova4902
@lenkabojanova4902 3 ай бұрын
Agree. I would like to find out if my husband is cheating. It's his embarrassment, not mine, if it's revealed so publicly.
@austinlastname
@austinlastname 3 ай бұрын
If you cheat, I don't want you, and neither does anyone else with dignity. Air them out.
@Anna133199
@Anna133199 3 ай бұрын
Problem is when they're strangers to you, you don't whether they're actually cheating or whether this is with agreement of the partner.
@watman5
@watman5 2 ай бұрын
​@@Anna133199People need to mind their own business.
@brandih8972
@brandih8972 3 ай бұрын
Really, the problem is the cheater who doesn't think for a second that they may end up devastating their spouse and children, up to and including humiliating them on a public platform. I blame the cheater for the humiliation more than the people recording and posting.
@zayinseven7923
@zayinseven7923 2 ай бұрын
Exactly. I'm with you on blaming the cheater more than the person recording.
@ilgiallo0
@ilgiallo0 2 ай бұрын
I blame both, the recording one is just there for dirty content , and the slap a "cheater" tag on it . If you know this person you should give the video to the partner not tik tok .
@beckyorton8312
@beckyorton8312 3 ай бұрын
Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
@oteliadavid7507
@oteliadavid7507 3 ай бұрын
Love your creativity, it's inspiring!
@Nameless-lk8ld
@Nameless-lk8ld 3 ай бұрын
Ahhh…the irritating never drunk coffee is absent 😂 Thank you ☺️
@Cimlite
@Cimlite 2 ай бұрын
So the logic here is if someone has kids, it's better to ignore known, public, cheating, so that the kid isn't affected? Basically that seems to be what's said here, and it makes no sense. If the person hadn't posted the story online, the wife might never have known - and no, ignorance isn't a choice, and it isn't bliss. The guy doing this is the only to blame for what happened, and _only the guy._
@SamBrockmann
@SamBrockmann 3 ай бұрын
TikTok should be banned. Yes, cheating is bad. No, don't use TikTok. Period.
@MichaelG5500
@MichaelG5500 3 ай бұрын
Everyone needs to mind their own business.
@inhale1
@inhale1 3 ай бұрын
And this "Katie", "Katy" - whatever, receives ZERO shame for being totally fine with fooling around with a married man. Ahh the double standard lives on, and lives strong! PS - Yes, internet, I also believe the dude is a piece of garbage for fooling around with another woman.
@Master0fHyrule
@Master0fHyrule 3 ай бұрын
No. Keep your personal issues off the internet or else they can become much worse.
@scoot5342
@scoot5342 3 ай бұрын
Mind your own business if you can't do anything about it without posting it online. The cheater will get caught eventually. Karma is a b*tch. For cheaters and for the social media wannabe detectives looking for clicks. Thanks Brett. Keep shining
@hikari9433
@hikari9433 3 ай бұрын
Cheaters thrive in privacy and secrecy.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
So does freedom and democracy and liberty and everything non-authoritarian. But go ahead and invoke everyone in everyone’s personal lives. Just don’t wonder why we land in a dystopian society 5 years later.
@hikari9433
@hikari9433 3 ай бұрын
@@napoleondynamite6993 Did you miss the "secrecy" part ? Also, you don't necessarily have to expose to the whole world, exposing to people in their private circle (spouses, family or even close friends) is often enough to hold cheaters accountable. The more people keep their cheating a secret, the more likely they are to cheat again.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@hikari9433 those words are similes and both needed for AMERICAN Liberties. And my stance is still don’t involve yourself in strangers private lives. That leads always to Illiberal and non-free societies were people say things like Umbridge from Harry Potter “You have nothing to fear… If you have nothing to hide.” I thought you ppl on the right cared about freedom? Seems you’re no better than far left communists in this sickened country.
@dreamsstories9250
@dreamsstories9250 3 ай бұрын
@@napoleondynamite6993 Freedom and liberty isn't about being allowed to deceive and hurt your loved ones without consequences. Plus, this guy was literally cheating in public so he is the one who exposed his personal life to the world.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@dreamsstories9250 it literally is tho. It’s about keeping the good, bad and ugly out of lime lights of social justice warriors and by extension the government. You should learn about Na zi Germany 1940’s and how they viewed privacy and secrecy. Then you’ll see where your types belong with this mentality.
@jaqen7122
@jaqen7122 2 ай бұрын
Just so people know, i am against people who cheat, but i for one think this should be kept privately. Shaming someone on the internet and exposing them can have incredible bad consequences on the person. From depression, self harm, rage against ex partner... Just because somebody does something wrong, doesn't mean cyberbullying is ok!
@souldrum86
@souldrum86 3 ай бұрын
Not something that should be made public. The people who record this arent doing this to be a hero. Its for clout. And it's embarrassing for the family. Cheaters will always get caught. No need for this tik tok exposing.
@melba5337
@melba5337 3 ай бұрын
Agree. It's aweful not just for the mom but the kids as well.
@Mich_G
@Mich_G 3 ай бұрын
Since this story has garnered "millions upon millions" of views, hopefully its detrimental effects deter current and future cheaters somewhat by showing them the dire potential consequences of cheating in this tick-tock era. Hopefully this sad situation was a worthy sacrifice. Can only hope.
@ReformationRamblings
@ReformationRamblings 2 ай бұрын
What if the victim wants to forgive the cheater, but since this has been turned into a public spectacle, that kind of restoration becomes way more difficult than it needs to be. Maybe they have been faithfully married for decades, then there was one slip up, but the cheater desperately wants to make it right.
@Mich_G
@Mich_G 3 ай бұрын
In our country it's illegal to record audio or video of anyone without their consent, except for purposes of a criminal investigation. I consider a cheating spouse a criminal because he is violating his vows/contract. It's a crime to break any other other legal contract anyway.
@singularity3017
@singularity3017 3 ай бұрын
Imagine if this guy is divorced, or in an open relationship. Even though it is for exposing, who the F are you to film strangers and put their private life on the internet without the context. And how much confident are you that you heard everything properly, like if he was showing pictures of his wife or ex-wife?
@yanise1625
@yanise1625 3 ай бұрын
That is NOBODY'S business to publish, especially random strangers. It is terrible for the victims involved. How would you feel if you were the wife or that was your father? All of the sudden your classmates know your father cheated on your mother on a plane. Disgusting! The people who do this are not trying to help, they are trying to get attention. The only case where exposure is allowed in my view is if you are a related party to the situation, other than that I would stay away. None of my business.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
Based take
@nicoleterry5105
@nicoleterry5105 3 ай бұрын
There are also ways to expose the cheater as a cheater to the wife or loved ones of the wife without exposing who he is or who his family is, and I think if that’s how it’s done that’s fine. But exposing him exposes his family. He’s already created a bad situation, inviting the entire internet in on the distraction of his family so you can get clicks is really disgusting.
@cyndellcreger5500
@cyndellcreger5500 3 ай бұрын
Can we all agree that Brett is amazing at the smooth transitions into her ads?
@blakelevi4006
@blakelevi4006 2 ай бұрын
I‘ll take the truth over living gaslit, unloved and feeling crazy for years.
@Mrs_Mama_MFT
@Mrs_Mama_MFT 3 ай бұрын
“Play stupid games, get stupid prizes.”
@Sikraj
@Sikraj 3 ай бұрын
I do understand where you are coming from and I do respect your feelings on this, but I do disagree with public shaming. There have already been people who were "exposed" for cheating who weren't actually cheating. How would you feel if you were trying to escape an abusive relationship and decided to stay at a gay friend's house for safety, only to be "exposed for cheating", by some stranger who didn't know the full story and then was pursued by a violent husband who found out through social media what you were trying to do? If that sounds oddly specific, it is because that actually happened. Yes, cheating is a horrible thing to do, but because the public only cares about drama, there are innocent people that get falsely accused and in some cases, get put in actual danger.
@Mrs_Mama_MFT
@Mrs_Mama_MFT 3 ай бұрын
@@Sikraj I do feel bad about his family. They don’t deserve this.
@Sikraj
@Sikraj 3 ай бұрын
@@Mrs_Mama_MFT I re-read my comment to you and I did sound condescending. Sorry about that. Anyways, you take care and hope you enjoy the weekend
@Mrs_Mama_MFT
@Mrs_Mama_MFT 3 ай бұрын
@@Sikraj that’s sweet of you. BTW: my husband has a similar name as you so he can’t be all bad. 😉
@keylasharp8281
@keylasharp8281 3 ай бұрын
I'm all for this 😂 cheaters should be exposed 🤷 they took it way to far tho.
@pinkkfloydd
@pinkkfloydd 3 ай бұрын
As gross as cheating is, no. Getting involved in a situation that isn't criminal and doesn't involve you is fucking weird. And it's a slippery slope; some men who are simply talking to a woman in a non-sexual or non-romantic way (say a female co-worker at a mixer) are going to be falsely accused.
@napoleondynamite6993
@napoleondynamite6993 3 ай бұрын
@@pinkkfloyddbased
@nukiesduke6868
@nukiesduke6868 3 ай бұрын
The lack of shaming today is one of the main reasons there's been a societal decay across the board. Bring back shaming.
@TrueMr.Quinn1
@TrueMr.Quinn1 3 ай бұрын
Idk what life and world you are living in but as of the last 5 years, their has been absolutely nothing but shaming in todays culture and society. Get a clue
@UndrState
@UndrState 3 ай бұрын
Underrated reply All these mind-your-own-business people out here acting like we don't have to live in the same societies as these degenerates , that they don't spread disease and psychological baggage . All the cases of paternity fraud . How often do the cheated on and abused then become abusers and so misery spreads across cities ?
@nukiesduke6868
@nukiesduke6868 3 ай бұрын
@@TrueMr.Quinn1 There's shaming. It's just not correctly used against the correct people. The people getting shamed are the normal ones whilst the insane ones aren't and are doing the shaming. So it's basically just been flipped. A woman reporting to a manager that there's a male in the girl's locker room is the one getting shamed. Not the man, nor the manager that kicked her out.
@TrueMr.Quinn1
@TrueMr.Quinn1 3 ай бұрын
@@nukiesduke6868 but you do realize what you are saying is subjective right? You say that the wrong people are getting shamed, but to someone else, it’s the right person. Same way it’s subjective if I tell you that you are wrong about your statement. Either way, it doesn’t change my statement, we have been living in a culture and life that publicly encourages the shaming of people.
@oriongear2499
@oriongear2499 3 ай бұрын
Okay, but who do we shame? Those who do legitimate bad in the world or those who spend a lot of time in their room playing video games, watching anime, building Lego Sets etc.?
@MPA2172
@MPA2172 2 ай бұрын
If it were my spouse, I’d want to know. If my children were dragged into it by complete strangers, I would turn rabid. Protect kids at all cost!
@4RILDIGITAL
@4RILDIGITAL 3 ай бұрын
This is such a complex issue. Everyone involved in these situations pays a high price, especially when children are dragged into it.
@IambigC
@IambigC 3 ай бұрын
expose cheaters just give situation backdrop
@ravynwoods5902
@ravynwoods5902 3 ай бұрын
They weren’t trying to help, they were trying to get content.
@shaughnamccann
@shaughnamccann 3 ай бұрын
Ofc if you’re going to cheat you better not be mad for being exposed
@rich4783
@rich4783 3 ай бұрын
She should mind her own business
@roniqueasia
@roniqueasia 2 ай бұрын
I’d definitely want the internet to lmk if my man was cheating on me. Yes, it’s embarrassing but that’s his causing
@impossibleagent3663
@impossibleagent3663 3 ай бұрын
Cheaters exposed has a huge benefit for society. We’re all alerted to their behavior and are less likely to fall prey to it.
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