This guy is 100% blue pill. Leading with his wallet, telling her within three weeks he’s seeing other women, asking Rich if he should get serious with a single mom within three weeks of dating her. Damn, dude!
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
I didn’t tell her I have a high net worth I was telling Richard to give him context of my situation.
@JordanKolberg2 жыл бұрын
@@divemanred read the book read the book read the book
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
@@JordanKolberg I did and had the woman read it as well 🤷♂️
@ms.camillewarrenempress312 жыл бұрын
Yeah he not following his path and purpose
@spinningchurro2 жыл бұрын
When the fuck is it the right time to tell her he’s seeing other women? Patrice O’Neal said never lie, what’s the disadvantage of telling her that as compared to later, when she will inevitably think they were more serious and see it as a betrayal?
@jumhed9942 жыл бұрын
I'm a single dad who dates a single mother. We've been together for 5 years and don't live together. It's going well.
@tiredbutgrindin72482 жыл бұрын
Not living together is the key
@jumhed9942 жыл бұрын
@@tiredbutgrindin7248 Yeah, I agree with that. There were times when we were going to, but thankfully we've kept our living arrangements separate.
@brendenmoldy2 жыл бұрын
dang, good tip Jum. Something to consider!
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
Like Aaron Clary (Cappy) says live in 2 separate homes
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
Why don't y'all live together
@biancap15492 жыл бұрын
As a childfree single woman, I wouldn't date a single dad, but they seem to keep pursuing me once they find out I'm childfree. To put it bluntly, I'm not dealing with your mistakes and I'm not dealing with your ex. If you guys don't want to date single moms, then you should probably remain single. Stop trying to pull others into your mess
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
I agree I’m the same as you. I avoid single dads because they don’t offer the same things I can in a relationship. They come with lots of baggage and drama and expect a maid and baby sitter for their kids.
@adayah67722 жыл бұрын
🤣
@biancap15492 жыл бұрын
@@adayah6772??
@bossladypvd2 жыл бұрын
Agreed. The hypocrisy is hilarious. Women don't want to raise another in woman's children or invest their resources into another woman's family either
@callanc39252 жыл бұрын
Theyre allowed to try pull women in if they want damn. You live your life he lives his. Not his fault if a grown woman doesnt share your view point and wouldnt mind dating a single dad
@annetteniebelski75132 жыл бұрын
He's a single dad. What makes him think women without children want to deal with a single dad? He made his ex a single mom!!! Talk about the pot calling the kettle black.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
I agree. Successful childfree women want men with no kids. All these single dads thinking they are special is delusional.
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
Jokes on you the mother and I never dated…. Alpha seed sweetheart
@annetteniebelski75132 жыл бұрын
@@divemanred why is the joke on me? I am not a single mother and don't want to date the train wreck of men out there who are creating single moms (single dads)
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
@@annetteniebelski7513 “creating single mothers” 🤦♂️ because women can’t be held accountable for their own actions….
@arianalushtaku43292 жыл бұрын
True. Typical man lol
@GardenerEarthGuy2 жыл бұрын
I'm a solo father and I don't allow anyone I'm dating around my child, or know where I live. If a scorned woman wants to attack you it will be through your child- that's why you don't let them know where you live or meet your child. You can date someone- but I'd give it a minimum of a year of your boundaries being respected before you even consider allowing your child to meet them. As parents we protect our children, nurture them- and know that as solo fathers our choice of women may not be the best, so we do right for our children and keep things separated.
@unstoppableplayz69482 жыл бұрын
No doubt..not enough do.👍💯
@nightowl68112 жыл бұрын
100% correct ! 5 ex gfs couldn’t handle I had a son so they took off, all said to me that I give more attention and time to my son that I only had on weekends every weekend. Since he was born and now he 18. Now all those women are divorced sick unhappy crying looking for me 😂. Now I can start dating again if I want, since my son now 18 and working. Guys, stay single until the kids 18! Stop being desperate for sex and companionship! Don’t be weak sheep 🐑
@johnnycash85672 жыл бұрын
No women who seriously is in love with u is gonna wait a year to meet your kids bro, she’s gonna think you’re hiding something. U dudes need to get out of these cartoon character creations of women, it’s not healthy
@c.braley99152 жыл бұрын
Averages and outliers. I would just say if you have lived enough life and are a decent judge of character it would depend on the relationship you are seeking and the lady you are dating. No casual hookup needs to meet your kids. But, if she has lots of green flags and a LTR is what you both want a slow introduction seems more appropriate. Maybe a casual outing introducing her as a friend. Being mindful of the child(ren) and the pros and cons.
@GardenerEarthGuy2 жыл бұрын
@@c.braley9915 A parent does everything to protect them from adult issues they aren't equipped to handle. If having a happy, well adjusted child in a solo parent household- means some woman is upset that she can can only be part of my life, and not my entire life- my child comes first and always will- that's called boundaries that are to be respected in any relationship.
@Miikri2 жыл бұрын
Isn't it hypocritical? Most men here are saying that they don't want to put up with another's man child. But why should a childless young woman but up with your children?
@lauramelissa28092 жыл бұрын
I was trying to figure out the same thing lol I’m a young women and I’d never settle for a man with kids especially if I don’t have any myself sorry not sorry
@Burt10382 жыл бұрын
You need to disabuse yourself of that egalitarian mindset. A childless woman marrying a single dad is NOTHING like a single mom marrying a childless man. It's a completely different dynamic. For one, in both cases the man is carrying the bulk of the financial load most of the time. For two, being a mother comes naturally to women whereas men usually only take on a parental role if its in their own interest. That's why childless women get a bunch of cats but single dudes don't do that. We are simply built differently. Last, when it comes to discipline, men are simply more fair and objective whereas women will almost always be biased in favor of her own children. Again, it's just how we're built as a species. I cast no judgments but you cannot deny the consequences.
@Miikri2 жыл бұрын
Every situation is different. I have dated two single dads (first one was when I had no children and second one when I had one child). I can tell that It's no easier for women to date a single dad (baby mama drama, child acting bad and you should just shut your mouth about that etc). All childless women should go for childless men. Don't ruin young woman's life thinking that you're better than single moms (you're not).
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@Burt1038 Have you ever met a happy step mom? Most women don’t prefer a single as an option, they only Tolerate it. Raising another woman’s children and dealing with a ex isn’t a walk in the park either.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@Miikri I agree. Alot of single dads have a lot of baggage. Childless women are better suited to being with men with no kids. Kids and exes add alot of stress to a relationship.
@lauramelissa28092 жыл бұрын
I don’t believe it will be easy for a young women who has no kids to settle with a man who has kids cause at the end of the day his kid will always come first lol what women wants to deal with that ?
@Kii_J2 жыл бұрын
Yet Men w/ no kids get shamed when we don’t want to date single moms? The hypocrisy
@wyleecoyotee42522 жыл бұрын
@@Kii_J It's hypocrisy for men to expect single women to date single dads when men don't want single moms
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@Kii_J If you’re single with no kids it’s understandable. However single dads chasing childless women is selfish. Most childless women don’t want to date single dads.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
Correct. No young childless women shouldn’t be dating single dads. It’s alot of stress and baggage to deal with.
@indigobricks74422 жыл бұрын
If a single father’s child “will always come first”, then he is a lesser, inadequate partner. Point blank period. Any marriage counselor, family counselor, or pastor will tell you that the partner/spouse must come first to present a healthy example of relationships for the children and to ensure appropriate order within a household. Teaching children that the world revolves around their wishes and needs is crippling them, putting them at a disadvantage when it comes to being prepared for the real world, and failing to teach them how to self-soothe. Single parents thing that clingy, codependent mess with their kids is cute; it works to the detriment of the child’s growth and their chance at a real partnership.
@MCC8762 жыл бұрын
Most kids don’t want a new dad/mom in their home, and this is not a temporary feeling. This is Mother Nature talking. Brandon and the other woman need to have long talks with their kids.
@standoutpunching29362 жыл бұрын
"Most kids don't want"? Since when do kids run the family?
@indigobricks74422 жыл бұрын
@@standoutpunching2936 Many single parents present the idea that their family is ran by their child’s emotions and desires to compensate the guilt they feel for cheating them out of the family they would have chosen. It’s a gross, taxing burden on the new partner.
@standoutpunching29362 жыл бұрын
@@indigobricks7442 Sounds like a pretty dang good additional reason for H&D those baggage burdened single 304s 😎
@jucyjay83982 жыл бұрын
I guess I was one of the most that didn't care.
@alwaysyouramanda2 жыл бұрын
Right? Kids want to feel like they’re enough and it’s already bad enough that they feel they weren’t to the other parent. Going out and dating is just telling your kid that they aren’t enough for either of you. It’s pretty sick/sad when dating (as we are animals) is about procreation and here you are ignoring your spawn to go on and HAVE ANOTHER GO. Get a best friend if you’re lonely. This isn’t about loneliness. It’s animalistic and gross.
@Simon-talks2 жыл бұрын
"I've had tons of experience and I know what i'm doing with women.....even though i'm asking advice and i've only been seeing this woman for 2 weeks...." lol
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
So I take it you aren’t wise enough to ask for council from others 🤦♂️
@RS-qo1rb2 жыл бұрын
@@divemanred yes 👏🏻 advice should always be asked for. Nothing wrong with that my brother.
@Slayavcados2 жыл бұрын
Beta bucks
@sanchezadame64756 ай бұрын
I don't date single dads, no me, no my problems
@mle38572 жыл бұрын
This guy is a tantrum away from getting married to a single mom after three fu%"ing weeks. Most likely the prenup was a way to let his gaurd down, she probably knows from a prior marriage they dont stand up in court if they aren't signed by both parties often as asset's grow. By his last remark he just came back from the jewelry store at the mall. Rest in pieces.
@othienoburton54322 жыл бұрын
For real
@yaboy_jesus2 жыл бұрын
Rest in pieces 🤣
@russellgentile47192 жыл бұрын
A lot of bad advice in comments all around but when I heard three weeks only I was floored. He's talking the way he's talking after only after three weeks? That putang (She gave up quickly and often) must be really good for him to do all he did. I feel for him though because maybe she's doing the same thing with other guys? I also doubt the way he's talking he seeing other women or told her so. Just my gut feelings but I could be wrong.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
Broken pieces!
@gailainsley69392 жыл бұрын
And why not? His a single father himself. They are both well suited
@togodbethegloryjohn14642 жыл бұрын
This is different advice to hear.. Single parents seem to deserve each other....never understood why most of them paint themselves as eligible and equal to single, childless people.
@zhen862 жыл бұрын
Reason: Single mum are 99% just looking for a ATM for her child if her kids is a child. Most single dads are good guys as males have to fight hard to get the custody of the child, and knows that Single mum (at least most of them) won't treat his child good, and if dad try discipline her child, a 911 call is there and off to jail he goes.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
Because a single father holds the same smv as a man without kids a single mother's sexual market value diminishes once she has kids.
@jiminswriter4209 Жыл бұрын
@@blacklyfe5543That’s not true.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
@jiminswriter4209 that is true Kevin Samuel explains this on his channel.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
@jiminswriter4209 Men who have kids are way more attractive than women without kids. And yes men with kids are more attractive than men without kids.
@reddwarf30462 жыл бұрын
The child will never accept you as their parent so stay out of it. The woman sees the child as hers, so never discipline “her” child. This all equals trouble. Don’t be desperate. Find a single woman even if it takes a long time. Alone is okay.
@gailainsley69392 жыл бұрын
Why would a childless single woman deal with him when she has none of her own? Single fathers need to stick with single mothers. Stop robbing the single childless folks from having their firsts.
@reddwarf30462 жыл бұрын
@@gailainsley6939 In the scenario you’re describing, you’re asking why a woman without children should deal with a man with children. In this different scenario, the woman won’t have to deal with drama from the ex wife and she is getting the resources from him to have her own children. As women are Hypergamous, obviously you won’t date a man who doesn’t have the resources for you to have children anyway. No such requirement for resources is required of the woman.
@gailainsley69392 жыл бұрын
@@reddwarf3046 But that resource is being spread in more ways than one. Not to mention dealing with the other mother. But If he is very rich. Then yes, I will understand. Otherwise, it’s better to be with childless man.
@reddwarf30462 жыл бұрын
@@gailainsley6939 I’m not going to argue your emotions versus facts. I am done with this thread.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@reddwarf3046 There’s plenty of men with no kids and who are successful to choose from. Most women want to start their own families from a clean slate. Dealing with single dads is constant stress and drama. The ex woman will always start drama and manipulate her kid to hate the new woman.
@tonymaiorano27493 ай бұрын
I was a widower, she was divorced. From the beginning, I expressed that my sons were my responsibilty, and her children were her responsibility. We were not going to marry, so the kids came first. It worked out for us. We stayed together for 22 years until cancer took her.
@ThatBoyPause8 ай бұрын
The fact that he even posed the questions shows that he looks down on single mothers. It’s ironic because he is a single dad.
@mwanzafitalpha98272 жыл бұрын
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@antoniobrasse71572 жыл бұрын
A lot of the comments are real dumb in here. If you're a single father you absolutely can consider being serious with a single mom. You're kind of both in the same headspace. It's a bit hypocritical for a single father to automatically disregard a woman just because she's a single mom. A single parent period comes with potential red flags that need to be evaluated, regardless of whether it's a man or woman. There might be a crazy baby mamma around the corner when dealing with single dads just like there could be a crazy baby daddy around the corner when dealing with single moms. Unless a single dad is incredibly successful, he ain't landing a single high value woman that doesn't have kids in toe and should stick to his lane of dating single moms.
@Burt10382 жыл бұрын
You're right about considering being serious, but you are mistaken with your egalitarian rhetoric. It most definitely isn't the same both ways, and there are WAY more risks for a man dating a single mom vs a woman dating a single dad. And it absolutely is not true that childless women won't get with a single dad unless he's rich; there are plenty of attractive women who like the prospect of finding a ready-made family without the burden of child-bearing, especially if she is unable or has great difficulty bearing children herself.
@heatherfeather99512 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@heatherfeather99512 жыл бұрын
@@Burt1038 Lol, the delusions. A perfectly happy single woman with no worries dreams of suddenly taking on the full-time role and obligations of being a mom. Every woman dreams of waiting hand and foot on children that are not even her own. 😂
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@Burt1038 You’re not a woman so how would you know what we want ? Successful childless women want men with no kids as a first option. No Woman wants to waste her youth and money raising another woman’s children. Delusional !
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
@@MelaniaRose I think you’re attitude is more of a the make ideology than female
@cherylmassey15752 жыл бұрын
Once a brandy bunch family joins together, it is very important for the adults to prioritize each other over the children. If the couple cannot do this, then there will be a lot of problems, if a strong hard line is drawn that the marriage is first, the kids will accept it. In generations past, people did this. Society has changed somewhat to allow kids to disrupt the marriage bond/union and that is not good
@cameronscott4440Ай бұрын
That is so wrong and leads to rifts with the children. Absolutely do not do this guys
@repurposeyou2 жыл бұрын
I know a few guys who were single dads and married single moms. Somehow they made it work. Idk if it'll last in the long run but I'm sure there's MANY compromises made and that goes unspoken. It's probably one of those "all about the children" things but eventually the marriage will suffer. Luckily all the kids were around 8 and younger so it's the timing too.
@PatriarchalCompass2 жыл бұрын
I've also heard older step brothers abusing younger step sisters
@repurposeyou2 жыл бұрын
@@PatriarchalCompass Rich brings that up often as a red flag as well.
@finallyfriday.2 жыл бұрын
Back in the Brady Bunch days it could work but huge longshot today.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
Just be one Happy Family! (The Brady Bunch)
@gailainsley69392 жыл бұрын
Single dads and single mothers together is the way that it should be. Leave the other groups alone. They need to start their own. Its selfish
@gregharn12 жыл бұрын
Dated a single mom once since I'm a single dad. Never. Again. They're looking for the Capt, not a partner & they damn sure don't want to play step mom to your kids. If I have to remain single til my kids are grown, I'm ok with that. A flight to Vegas is cheaper than that headache.
@annetteniebelski75132 жыл бұрын
@Greg Harn. I have no kids and have dated single dads. Never again. Its usually the woman who ends a relationship. There is a reason women dump all these single dads besides you being too irresponsible to use a condom and unable to make her happy and a lot of times just unable to commit. You are the chumps out there making single moms. Not always, half the time she wasn't crazy until she met you and your drama that drove her over the edge. What ever kind of nuts you say your ex is, you still chose her and got her pregnant, which shows you make poor choices.
@gregharn12 жыл бұрын
@@annetteniebelski7513 you want a gold star for dating someone with kids while you have none? My comment was referring to my exgf, not the mother of my children. She's a whole nother level of fuckery. Destroyed her family for the chance to chase happiness. Didn't have to work, I paid everything. 10 years in, decides she doesn't want a husband or kids. I got with the exgf after much therapy & figured I'd be sporting. Both presented themselves well as in, they were healthy individuals. Took less than a year to put the lie to the exgf. Great kids, but they're going to grow into shitheads b/c of their mom. I no longer excuse red flags trying to see the good in others. If your here, then you should get familiar with the information presented on this channel.
@nightowl68112 жыл бұрын
@@gregharn1 that’s why she has no kids, 😂! She’s an angry woman. No man wants her type, and why is she dating single dads then ? More than 1? She chasing $ and house.
@NubiaBlake2 жыл бұрын
@@annetteniebelski7513 I have never dated and never will date a single father either.
@annetteniebelski75132 жыл бұрын
@@nightowl6811- aw, you think you're so smart about why I don't have kids. I don't have kids because I can't have them. Due to an endocrine disorder my ovaries don't work. I have been married before and engaged a few times so there are men who want me. I am not chasing a house or money. I am pretty content where I am right now seeing who I am seeing. I came across this channel when it popped up in my youtube feed and started watching it out of curiosity.
@TheMrBirddog2 жыл бұрын
A prenup is just one legal doc supposedly negating another legal doc (marriage license). Just don’t ever sign a marriage license or live in a state with common law marriage. All she would have to do to negate a prenup is to say she *felt* pressured into signing it. Her lawyer will coach her to do that.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
A prenup is no guarantee. What's a guarantee? Don't marry or live with a woman. Here come the Judge!
@flip14092 жыл бұрын
Living in a dream world if he thinks the girls will get along just because they are the same age. His daughter will hate the stepmom because she's always going to be out numbered in a disagreement with the stepsister. Nightmare scenario.
@NAprincess3242 жыл бұрын
Well that can happen too but as a single mom myself kids of the same gender can bump heads as well some kids have been through trauma and can influence the other child in a bad way
@rullangaar2 жыл бұрын
Single dad, dated a single mom for a couple of years. She was a great person in many ways and had her own money but her Achille’s heel was that she just couldn’t instill any discipline whatsoever in her kids. That’s what eventually made us go separate ways. Luckily we never shacked up together. That would have been a disaster.
@ShermSuite7 ай бұрын
Single dad here. I’m probably going to remain single until my child is grown.
@alwaysyouramanda2 жыл бұрын
I’m of the opinion that single parents had their run, made their babies, and should consider that it’s no longer their time. Give your kid everything they need, and that’s attention and resources- affection.. if you weren’t ready to do it on your own, you’re not ready to bring another person into the picture and potentially breed out even MORE into the problem.
@alwaysyouramanda2 жыл бұрын
These people are gross and selfish and shouldn’t have even HAD kids. You’re just exposing them to danger when you date with kids. Male or female, you are giving their attention away. You’re spending time with someone other than them- and they might not even want to bug you with it- but you’re making them feel like they aren’t enough. They weren’t enough to keep you two together and now, they aren’t enough to keep you home. That’s a life of hell.
@NAprincess3242 жыл бұрын
@@alwaysyouramanda that’a not nearly the case. Parents deserve me time and to enjoy themselves too being overly involved with your kids and not having a life outside if them isn’t healthy. The idea is to not be neglectful
@peterlightning92352 жыл бұрын
As a high value man, it should just be assumed that you're spinning plates. No high vale guy needs to declare "I'm going to go spin plates" to a woman he's seeing. Because he is the prize. He just calls up the next girl, whatever.
@lagoonlane2 жыл бұрын
If you're a single dad you should be willing to date a single mom. Helping raise my step kids was one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. You just have to set the frame. Yes I did discipline them and set the tone and their mom backs me or the relationship is over. Very simple.
@zhen862 жыл бұрын
Is your single mom wife same value as you? and why is she a single mom?
@umberwyld Жыл бұрын
Good for you. You’re a good man.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
@@zhen86who cares
@tracyhunt4922 жыл бұрын
I’m in my late 20s with two kids. Am I limiting my options if I don’t date someone with kids? A girl literally told me she’s not interested because I have kids
@civildiscourse76262 жыл бұрын
If you’re desirable/ high value you will always have options
@LatimusChadimus2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it Seems like 80% of women over 20 have a kid(s) so that could mean there might be 50% of men that have a kid somewhere, or have multiple to the women with multiple children so how women think they can choose a depleting pool of men is beyond me. Like women ranking 3-10 want men 8-10, and 6ft tall when only 14.5% of men in the US are 6ft or taller, and 9% in the North American continent are 6ft or taller, so that's an even smaller pool to choose from. Surely women need to tighten their shopping list
@wyleecoyotee42522 жыл бұрын
It shouldn't be a surprise that women aren't interested in men with kids. What were you expecting?
@heatherfeather99512 жыл бұрын
Unless you somehow are making over 100k at your age, then a single guy with two mouths to feed before turning 30 is definitely a hard no from a lot of single women. If you're not a solid provider it means that she will have to cucked into raising your children.
@russellgentile47192 жыл бұрын
@@civildiscourse7626 meaning be their meal ticket. Yeah that sounds like fun.
@annetteniebelski75132 жыл бұрын
When I was dating a single dad he and his ex got into a fight over him not going to see his kids, he had moved out of state( to date a woman who ended up dying after surgery). He hadn't seen this kids in 2 years, so baby mama stopped allowing him to talk with them. I told him I would move with him back to his state or suggested the kids could come visit here. We lived together. He refused. His answer was too start drinking and acting depressed. I told him to get counseling he refused and instead got verbally abusive taking every thing out on me. Eventually I had to kick him out and our engagement ended. Another issue we had is we were trying to save up for a home which was way harder because $500 a month went to child support. Neither of us were rich. Another single dad his ex stole the car during our date, stranding us. She also gave me death threats because she wanted him back. One single dad I ended up supporting him because all his money went to child support. He also refused to let me see the kids - cause you know you're kids can meet every tom,dick and harry out in the rest of the world but god forbid they meet the person you're dating because you have to "protect them" Bottom line no more single dads. They are just as many problems as baby mamas
@MyThoughtsBelow2 жыл бұрын
Vet your men. Don't date people with obvious complications, it's honestly not that complicated. Let complicated people date other complicated people while you live free of stress.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
I get annoyed when men lie about having kids. Childless women and single dads are not compatible.
@pla48252 жыл бұрын
WELL SAID
@umberwyld Жыл бұрын
@Dacia Sandero guys Yes, her compassionate choice to date single dads. Imagine making a compromise to give a man with baggage a chance because you’re a good woman only to have to continue to compromise throughout the whole relationship.
@cheeseburns112 жыл бұрын
So he’s been following Rich for a few years but hasn’t read the book… Wants more kids and marriage with this single mum who he’s been seeing for 3 weeks. Wow.
@russellgentile47192 жыл бұрын
I know. All crazy.
@annetteniebelski75132 жыл бұрын
@SirToyou - its not wow. Single dads are just as screwed up as single moms.
@Laoriginal7182 жыл бұрын
Ppl with kids should date each other and leave childless ppl alone.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
No single dads should date Childless women
@Roquea.207 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@MelaniaRose Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏽
@DanielTiger2264 Жыл бұрын
I agree 👍 💯
@chrisw8838 Жыл бұрын
Totally disagree. I got trapped with kids. All the single mums I've met want to treat the man like another kid even if the woman/mum is immature and childish. What's wrong with me or any other man wanting a woman with nokids of her own who doesn't want her own or will forgo that to join me on my journey? If I'm expected to do all the man stuff protect provide etc why can't I have my own "terms" for the "deal/sexual market place". I don't expect a step mum and I don't want to be a step dad. As men we shouldn't be dragging other men down. Especially given that suicide is huge amongst divorced men. So many guys I met are no longer with us. Lift each other up guys!
@TerryWoodley-u2b3 ай бұрын
Stay away from single mom? So what is the solution for single moms then? Do they not date or find love?
@noneno28052 ай бұрын
Focus that energy on your kids, that’s what.
@noneno2805Ай бұрын
@ Sheesh that sounds really unfair. In a perfect world two emotionally mature, responsible ADULTS would choose to have children. But in your case it sounds like he’s still a man child and all you think about is yourself. So who’s taking care of the children?
@Roquea.207 Жыл бұрын
Personally don’t see why after I’m a grow man with a kid or more shouldn’t date a single momma if I get to be single , usually there’re lots of red flags but there would be exceptions out there, as long as she meters my frame and I like her physically and the thing goes in my favor giving me joy and peace sure thing But I’m child free so no fck way , just talking from a fairly tail imagination
@Fee-Nix2 жыл бұрын
Remember guys... When you settled down into a relationship ‘marriage’, the woman you marry will be the last women you’ll ever have s€x with. In the 21st century that can be a long time. Stay strong guys👍
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
If you’re not happy with that arrangement then let your wife have a side guy 🤣
@mlat31412 жыл бұрын
I dated a single mom. She had 2 teenagers. I had 5 year old. We got along great. Her kids were a minor issues. My son was a little unruly. It was great relationship. Her ex husband was a friend of man. He knew, but he didn't show that he was not happy. He referred to me as "The Cop." I saw future issues, so I left. For me, I wanted another child, and she was unable. But like always, her life fel. Apart, and now, her son is 34 and still living with mommy Mike
@miamitten11232 жыл бұрын
Teenagers vs a 5 year old is completely different.
@ms.camillewarrenempress312 жыл бұрын
@@miamitten1123 facts teenager are adults
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
@@ms.camillewarrenempress31 no they're not
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
@@blacklyfe5543 they do !!!Sound like you are simp beta male … either time a woman has a kids or a kid from a different man her sexual marker goes down … that why it’s important to stay a virgin because you can live forever
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
@@blacklyfe5543 either time a woman as children she not worth shit because she cannot provide another man nothing at all , if you are going to waste your time and energy or money that kids is not yours that called simping beta vibes As a woman you still need to learn woman nature
@23ofSeptember2 жыл бұрын
"Why are you telling her you are seeing other women?" Isn't that spinning plates Rich? Are you suggesting men lie that they are seeing other women Rich? Sometimes your advice is really confusing.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
Rich at heart, is an Entrepeneur. Nothing confusing about that.
@23ofSeptember2 жыл бұрын
@@mikebingham9700 Good point!
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
You should tell her your dating other women
@untoldname2 жыл бұрын
20 RedPill Quotes of All-Time Great: 1. ''If you let her, she WILL waste your time without remorse, like a blackhole.'' - Albert Einstein 2. ''Women don't build. They move in. Yet they ain't even loyal to any man or even my power at stake, but to themselves and their best options.'' - Julius Caesar 3. ''Just pump and dump.'' - Napoleon 4. ''If you treat her like a queen, she will treat you like a peasant.'' - Alexander the Great 5. ''If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan. Be like water.'' - Bruce Lee 6. ''Embrace her in her prime. Ghost her in her decline.'' - Sun Tzu, Art of War 7. ''Nations decline due to men's simping and women's entitlement.'' - George Washington 8. ''Single moms aren't looking for love. They are looking for HELP.'' - Charles Darwin 9. ''A woman is never single. Yet ironically if she has you, she'll appear single on meeting a bigger better deal.'' - Mother Teresa 10. ''Women don't care about men's struggles or past contributions. They hang out at the finish line and pick the new winner by disposing their faithful used-up man in their progressive seamless monkey-branching.'' - Beethoven 11. ''1% self-improvement/reflection and 99% parasitic-manipulation equals a 100% narcissist.'' - Thomas Edison 12. ''Men value love. Women love value; Men love idealistically. Women love opportunistically; Men love women for who they are. Women love men for what men can do for them. I think I'll never love again.'' - Plato 13. ''His money is her money, and her money is still her money.'' - Karl Marx 14. ''From the streets she emerged to the streets she shall return.'' - Leonardo da Vinci 15. ''The older↗ she is to date and/or wife up, the more proud↗ insatiable↗ unappreciative↗ disrespectful↗ disagreeable↗ combative↗ masculine↗ AND promiscuous↗ she is, the more suffering↗ HE gets. A redpill apple a day keeps a t.h.o.t away.'' - Issac Newton 16. ''Whoever needs the other less, has more power. If she makes rules instead of breaking rules for you, you're her beta. She sees you just like shopping while so many of you see her like a job interview or a Tesla needing electricity. Instead, you need to look like a brand new limited-edition Rolls-Royce in town for a short stay.'' - Tesla 17. ''You can either love or understand women. You can't do both; She can either get a beta or sleep with an alpha. She thinks she can do both.'' - Aristotle 18. ''She's not yours. It's just your turn. And if her look is 9 or 10, she's a community property.'' - Adam Smith 19. ''A woman wants a man who men want to be and women want to be with. But I just want peace or drama-free with women in my grinding and life.'' - Mozart 20. ''You'll lose money chasing women but you'll never lose women chasing money. Chase no women. Chase excellence like I do.'' - William Shakespeare
@daniellejacoby85722 жыл бұрын
you forgot Sokrates who said: when she has an only fans account remember always you cant make a wife out of a h*e
@fortunateson78522 жыл бұрын
Thats hilarious dude
@charlieallianz53622 жыл бұрын
All of the quotes are true.. But not sure about the author.. Anyway salute for your comment.
@MacLeethal_87 Жыл бұрын
Yooo this is epic 😂😂😂
@marz10542 жыл бұрын
I'm 33 yrs old, i make over six figures & have no kids. No way in hell i would commit to a single mom ever! That's like you eating a slice of pizza that's already been bitten. I'LL PASS!!
@SooDamGood2 жыл бұрын
I agree for the most part except were you spin plates but don’t disclose you’re sleeping with other women. Sounds like a problem about to burst. Honestly, better to say it straight up than always beating around the bush
@FreeSkillsStyle2 жыл бұрын
I'm a single dad and i'd rather die alone then to date a single mom
@redsavage21412 жыл бұрын
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@cmyah12 жыл бұрын
Same here! I would almost never, she would have to be 90% of what I want to even entertain her.
@amiblack82942 жыл бұрын
I married a man who, prior to my meeting him made a child with a truly deranged female. She purposely poisoned her son's mind from the beginning which meant I never had a shot with my stepson due to the actions of his idiot mother and the inaction of his father. I would NEVER advise a woman with no children to date a man with children.
@LK-qz7eh2 жыл бұрын
And most women would rather die alone than to date a single dad. Goes both ways!
@zhen862 жыл бұрын
@@LK-qz7eh not true. if the guy is rich as f, most will jump to the marriage.
@fauxbro19832 жыл бұрын
3 weeks is a bit early to discuss marriage. Men we tend to be more overt. Women are covert
@canopyfields2 жыл бұрын
This guy is too busy telling everyone he has many women, he's attractive, he has money, he has many girls, he has dated hot girls etc. He just needs to stay humble and stop bragging so much to cover up his insecurities.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
Maybe see a therapist, wouldn't hurt either.
@Bethany0303032 жыл бұрын
We both had kids from our previous marriages, which you would think would make us even on the “disadvantages” list. But my ex doesn’t steal half of my income every month only to be a terrible parent who toes the child protective services line and turns my kids against us. His ex does. Dating single dads is just as burdensome as dating single moms, if not more so since bio mom always calls the shots with our legal system.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
It's not the same
@Bethany030303 Жыл бұрын
@@blacklyfe5543 Right. Dating single dads is worse because your lives and finances will revolve around the woman he already got pregnant.
@Coyote-wm5op2 жыл бұрын
I dated one for two years and it was a disaster. I’ve tried to date others in the past and that was terrible too. Never again other than fwb.
@ms.camillewarrenempress312 жыл бұрын
as a woman with friend with benefits you still creating soul ties with the person dangerous
@rekartrustee2 жыл бұрын
Single moms are fine as plates but never an option to "settle down" with.. My 2 cents.
@LatimusChadimus2 жыл бұрын
2 late 1700s/ early 1800s pure copper cents (worth much more than $0.02)
@JD-qm1fj2 жыл бұрын
I am a single mom of an 18 y.o. I hang with single dads for convenience reasons, nothing more. I'd rather hit the gym, go shopping, travel, get my nails done than dealing with someone else's kids.
@wiseonwords2 жыл бұрын
J D- And so, single dads should NOT go near you with a ten-foot pole.
@biglaw242 жыл бұрын
@@wiseonwords exactly 😂
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@wiseonwords And childless women don’t want single dads either 😂
@bossladypvd2 жыл бұрын
@@MelaniaRose we sure as hell don't
@zhen862 жыл бұрын
@@MelaniaRose oh ya? then why so many rich single dads with a child have beautiful young wife?
@jiminswriter4209 Жыл бұрын
People are not groceries. If you are dating other people, you should let people know by the third date. This allows people to know what they are dealing with. Not telling them is just a way to string them along. If you are allowed to explore, then others should as well. The only reason you would not tell them is because you want to explore without allowing others to do so as well. If the woman finds out, she might change her mind, turned off by your dishonesty.
@dmerls85712 жыл бұрын
Please, single mothers should seek single dads primarily. Any single mom should consider it highly unlikely that a child-free man would want to get under her apron. Her household and priorities are already established, the child-free man becomes recessive to her. Single moms with single dads, that can work because they both have similar lifestyles and priorities.
@zhen862 жыл бұрын
I agree with this if the single mum is not looking for ATM.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
No they never work out
@pla48252 ай бұрын
@@blacklyfe5543Dude your feelings must be hurt because your a Single Father who feel a sense of entitlement to be with Child Free women. But Child Free women is telling you to either date someone else who is also a single parent or don’t date at all and focus on raising your child
@LovelyMel992 жыл бұрын
So if you tell men to stay away from single moms who is the single moms suppose to date? It’s not only the single moms fault that they are single moms, so as a single mom who do I date ?
@dirostudios2 жыл бұрын
Try a more mature man.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
Start by dating a single dad and see how that works out.
@cha9165 Жыл бұрын
A single dad?
@symphony8596 Жыл бұрын
Damn good question so a single mom should be dated and just die alone is what I’m getting. But single dad have all these options and it is acceptable huh?
@zhen86 Жыл бұрын
@@symphony8596 Unless you women stop taking man as ATM to look after your child, you can have your options. Single mum when faced with the single dad child, she resent the child. Single mum can scold the single dad child, not vice versa
@mikeC-hr4ry2 жыл бұрын
Most women from my experience do not have control of they're kids behaviors and that is a major issue when dating. It seems to be women with teenage boys thats what I have seen every time I date someone with teen boys.
@dertythegrower2 жыл бұрын
The son mentally rebels and the women have no experience with men or boys... i think this is also why lots of single moms try to male their boy a transgirl these days.. feminist solutions are insane for most boys, and they will never admit it. If your female doesnt listen to father about boys, that is a mental issue on her side 🎯
@1simo935212 жыл бұрын
I'm a single dad divorced. I tried dating single mothers I realised I was going to be spending more time with another man's kid while not seeing my own much. So I'm with a woman with no kids so my kids always come first but if we split I would rather be on my own and keep stuff casual away from my kids.
@GardenerEarthGuy2 жыл бұрын
If you don't have your child full custody, you aren't a solo father... A solo father has full custody and raises their child.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@Markel Raya False. A single dad with multiple baby mamas isn’t attracting quality women. A single dad with baby mamas dating market isn’t attractive and it says alot about his character. most women would see it as a red flag 😂😂
@arianalushtaku43292 жыл бұрын
@Markel Raya stop trying to say that just because is in your favor. A man with 2 baby mammas is hell
@indigobricks74422 жыл бұрын
“My kids always come first.” is a disgusting concept to bring to a new, childless partner. You complicated your journey by choosing to reproduce with a non-life partner therefore it is on YOU to adjust, balance, and calibrate the aftereffect with all parties involved. Make a woman’s feelings, needs, and desires feel second or last all the time and she will grow to resent you and maybe even hate your child for being the source of her endless dissatisfaction.
@Jcrof2 жыл бұрын
@Markel Raya The only delusional one is you. You get mad at her so you bring up her race? As if lots of women don’t use emojis. She’s right so swallow the pill. A single father with multiple baby mommas is absolutely the lowest on any woman’s dating totem pole. Zero market value. Deal
@ashotofwhiskey2192 жыл бұрын
Not surprised, Rich gave bad advice. Not the single mom topic, but that the risk goes down if you both have a kid of the same age and gender. It won't make a fucking difference.
@Life_of_true_abundances2 жыл бұрын
I’m not sure why he mentioning his network with a women he known for 3 weeks. He’s tapping into her hypergamy nature already. I can’t allow myself to be involved with a single mother. It’s like playing another mans saved/ started game. Especially, with the drama/ red flags from the woman and her kids. You Imply you seeing other people… not verbally tell. She will know by your actions, availability, life style etc. it also, often draw women to you more when they know they not the only one competing for your time.
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
She didn’t/doesn’t know my net worth. That was said to Richard so that he knew my situation and give his honest opinion on how I should move forward. I wear workout cloths and drive a f-150, to her I’m just a normal joe.
@heatherfeather99512 жыл бұрын
Or if she really liked you she would be hurt and just ghost/freeze you out and she'll start seeing other men. If her SMV is the same as yours or higher she most definitely has other options, and she finds a better option, you'll never hear from her again.
@heatherfeather99512 жыл бұрын
@@divemanred A man's net worth is meaningless if the woman doesn't get to enjoy any of it. It's like dating a hot girl who tells you to wait for sex until marriage, would you go for that? Heck no, you move on to other women who allow you to enjoy their bodies.
@jedisentinel14992 жыл бұрын
Never, Never Never show your hand with your assets!!! Especially with a possibly impoverished single mom in this economy. None of her business nor anyone else’s for that matter. Stick to your guns. It’s you and children’s future on the line. ✌️
@AncientYouth642 жыл бұрын
This guy is blue disguised as red
@kaiserpuppydog71742 жыл бұрын
He comes off as a tough guy but just under the surface he needs someone's apron strings to hold onto and be validated by.
@andrewg.21652 жыл бұрын
You can tell this dude wanted a green light/permission to go for this woman…
@anthuanjm2 жыл бұрын
Yesss 2 Things.,,, Either he's Very Desperate and Lonely or she's a Very Hot Mama 🤷🏽♂️
@mikejohnson6992 жыл бұрын
What Rich is basically saying is stay away from all single moms
@samrapheal18282 жыл бұрын
Correctamundo 💯.....too much emotional calculus🎯
@LovelyMel992 жыл бұрын
What about single dads should single moms stay away from them too
@Jcrof2 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyMel99 They are being delusional on this channel. Unless a single dad is rich he is nothing but a single dad with low market value. Considering 95% of men aren’t rich they are just single dads with little options
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@Jcrof you are correct. Single dads target young childfree women to dump their baggage on. The worst ones are those who trap a Woman into liking them, then revealing they have kids.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
What if you have kids?
@lauramelissa28092 жыл бұрын
Lol so a single dad shouldn’t date a single mom? Lol this gotta be a joke 😂😂
@lauramelissa28092 жыл бұрын
@H EI lol most single dads u know I have the kid 3 to 4 days a week which is shared custody with the mom lol no single childless women wants to deal with that lol if however as u said the child is mostly with the mom then he’s a deadbeat dad and the women should be aware of that lol
@lauramelissa28092 жыл бұрын
@H EI ok we can’t care functional adults with animals lol they have no consciousness of what they are doing when in humans in fact we do I’m sorry but a young women has no business dealing with a single dad with a potential crazy ex wife of baby momma it’s not worth it and same for a single man dating a single mom
@lauramelissa28092 жыл бұрын
@H EI the kids will not respect the step mom and that women can never love those kids like her own tho
@heatherfeather99512 жыл бұрын
@H EI Lol everyone I know who had a stepmom endured severe physical abuse. Stepmoms are just as likely to abuse.
@lauramelissa28092 жыл бұрын
@H EI lol no I have no kids and it doesn’t matter that child will never respect the stepmom and theirs a high chance that the baby momma or the ex wife is going to cause problems for the childless young women lol out of all the options that she has why would she settle for a single dad to put herself in unnecessary drama lol no thanks I would never
@jayr99482 жыл бұрын
The juice 🥤is not worth the squeeze . single mom's is a deed end road they tell you what you want to hear .
@WaheedAli-xx3cq2 жыл бұрын
I suggest check your lawyer and get prenuptial agreement Treat her as she treats you Very simple no need for complications
@packrcch2 жыл бұрын
it is also important to recognize that she has the same freedom to see other people at this point....and she may be doing it without telling him....(as you are advising him to do!) she may not be as dumb as you think....but don't presume the worst either. just be cool and take it one day at a time...and politely move on if things don't work out. things really don't have to be ugly... btw...don't overlook the father of her child. huge potential problems there....
@ActionJacksonForever2 жыл бұрын
I cringe every time a man says I’m looking for a wife, you’re not gonna find it in the western world my friend, not with today’s woman.
@anthuanjm2 жыл бұрын
This is So True, Plus Social media has Ruined all these women, there so desperate for Attention and Validation
@ActionJacksonForever2 жыл бұрын
@@anthuanjm Yup and now it’s so easily attainable but these low value losers I can see why it’s so addicting to them
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@tovah88412 жыл бұрын
Single mom here to one daughter & I just got married to my husband who is 18 years older then me, owns few properties, very successful & no prenup.. He raised my daughter & we have a beautiful life together living in coltsneck nj.. It’s possible..
@zhen862 жыл бұрын
So you found a ATM. if he has non of this" few properties, very successful & no prenu" , will you marry him?
@tovah88412 жыл бұрын
@@zhen86 I found a real man who took me & my daughter in.. He raised & adopt my daughter when she was only 6 months & I was only 22 years old.. I’ve been with him “married” for 10 years now..He gave us a beautiful luxury life & I gave him a peaceful wholesome life.. It’s possible.. & I was engaged with my daughters father at 20 but he was cheating & became addicted to gambling which caused him to become broke & dependent on his parents “we were around the same age” & I did love him but he decided cheating & gambling & partying was more important … So I decided to look for a better partner.. I’m sorry but I know my worth & god gave me an awesome husband that I fully submit to
@finallyfriday.2 жыл бұрын
Step daughters are booby traps. One day she wants something and will blackmail and destroy you. Happens always these days.
@LovelyMel992 жыл бұрын
So this Rich guy is basically saying avoid all single moms forever,") who does he think he is, terrible, but single men can just go on with life as normal, i actually cant believe this.
@zhen862 жыл бұрын
well, 911 is always a call away for the single moms who thinks that her child is not given the treatment she wants(aka not given all attention ) and resulting the single father child being abuse. Even fairy tales has warn us.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
Yes because he's smart
@MelaniaRose Жыл бұрын
@@blacklyfe5543 Smart? He’s selfish typical single dad. Childless women need to stay away from him 😂
@Taurean_SAMA2 жыл бұрын
Just be honest and vet her properly. If you both have kids i don't see the problem honestly. But still this is kinda soon after 3 weeks 😂.
@TeddyCuartas2 жыл бұрын
three weeks? Oh man. I stir away from girls with kids. That's a hard no for me, but we all like different things. I'm sure you got more options, dude! And don't mention your money. Good luck, bro! Sending you all the good vibes.
@redsavage21412 жыл бұрын
Very hard no
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
Better to asks these questions at 3 weeks instead of 3 years wouldnt you say?
@TeddyCuartas2 жыл бұрын
@@divemanred totally! Phew! :)
@vprez49252 жыл бұрын
In Gatineau, Quebec, most single dads share 50% of custody. It's actually very common here.
@w44472 жыл бұрын
bad idea. She has a kid there are plenty of 29 year olds out there without kids. And Moff is right. Stop telling her everything. Be mysterious. Women like a mystery.And honestly it's none of her fricken business anyway.
@biancap15492 жыл бұрын
Most childless women won't go for a single dad unless they're desperate
@w44472 жыл бұрын
@@biancap1549Even with shared custody? Please enlighten us
@biancap15492 жыл бұрын
@@w4447 we don't want baby mama drama. It's very simple actually. Once you have a kid with someone, that person will always be a part of your life.
@biancap15492 жыл бұрын
@@w4447 I don't want to be a maid and babysitter for some other woman's children unless I have adopted them
@w44472 жыл бұрын
@@biancap1549 no argument there at all.
@Cluedup239911 күн бұрын
Honestly guys if you're a single dad in your 30,s just get your shit together and date casually till your mid to late 40,s when all the kids on both sides are grown, speaking from experience.
@MCLBC2 жыл бұрын
1. Lose your wretched attitudes. 2. Realize you sit on the bottom of the dating pool. 3. You compete with gorgeous, young women who are kid free! 4. You have nothing to offer high value men. 5. Accept personal responsibility for failing to preserve the family you had. 6. To attract/keep a man, you need to do EVERYTHING better than your competitors (young hotties with no kids). 7. Lower your expectations. In reality, you have nothing to offer except another man's offspring.
@alex1242412 жыл бұрын
Sadly blended families have an even worse success rate compared to more traditional situations
@triggered577 Жыл бұрын
Of course ya’ll should. Childfree women don’t want that drama.
@brandonclark125311 ай бұрын
Never tell a woman, your net worth or income. This is a general sign of a weak man that leads with his wallet. Women would never respect you they’re just gonna use you. It’s a difference.
@wyleecoyotee42522 жыл бұрын
It's especially ironic when the single dads are 40yrs old with 8yr old kids and 60yr old with teenage kids.
@anthuanjm2 жыл бұрын
I Wanna Cry 😢
@joeroot91422 жыл бұрын
So
@booboolips60532 жыл бұрын
3 WEEKS! Let’s go Brandon, get with the program😳
@SonsofIssac2 жыл бұрын
Concerning single dads and single moms, I would say that 95 % of the time the only reason single dads are single is because of the mom, the only reason single moms are single is because of the mom. So no guys don’t try to Brady bunch it…
@biancap15492 жыл бұрын
Nah single moms are usually single because their men leave them out of wedlock. Single dads are usually that way from divorce
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
Look at the domestic violence rates and cheating amongst the single dads. Single dads shouldn’t place their baggage on young childless women either.
@pla48252 жыл бұрын
Seems like the problem with these single dads is no personal accountability ALL the blame is being placed on the single mothers
@michaelf70932 жыл бұрын
How much of the time do you have your kid? How much does she have hers? If it's even, that's a good position. But if his ex has his most of the time, and the new one has her most of the time, when you come to cohabit, you are going to be in the stepdad role, but the new one won't be in the stepmom role. Your parenting energy will be drained away for her kids benefit, at the cost of your own.
@chrissre79352 жыл бұрын
Never say I'm seeing other women to a woman you just meet. You will seem either like bragging or player both negative red flag things to be open about. I maybe having 3 girls in rotation. Im not saying that to a girl I just meet because your running huge risk of getting rejected.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
You should because women want to date a man who other women want!
@MsCandyKush_YT10 ай бұрын
Single parents should date single parents
@blacklyfe68816 ай бұрын
No
@MelaniaRoseАй бұрын
@Chiefmane1 No. single parents have too much drama and baggage they need to stick to dating other single parents. No one wants a ready made family.
@MelaniaRoseАй бұрын
@@blacklyfe6881 Single dads aren’t compatible with childfree women.
@RedPilledJetiKnight2 жыл бұрын
This is where I’m at in your book, Chapter 5 talking about the consequences of dating a single mother. I wish I had this information in my late 20’s to early 30’s. It would’ve saved me tons of heads and not getting cucked (unfortunately)
@vblack1722 жыл бұрын
damn bro you got cucked
@amadeuss33412 жыл бұрын
Nope. Single mother is a choice. Single dad is a result, most of the time the result of determination and will.
@arianalushtaku43292 жыл бұрын
lol this man made his ex a single mother and now is dreaming about marrying a childless woman 😅 Any woman with self respect wouldn't settle for him never
@amadeuss33412 жыл бұрын
@@arianalushtaku4329 the women will rather date a married man who got his shit together, then date a looser who lives with his parents. Just keep it in mind.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
Single dads seem To have a lot of sad stories on why they became single dads.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
@MelaniaRose single mothers too idiotic isn't it
@emilymorris8957 Жыл бұрын
Tell the men that. They're the ones who are running after those younger childless women
@noneno28052 ай бұрын
@Chiefmane1pull them by what? Baiting and lying? Promising love but whoops half my income goes to my ex and my kids with her.
@MelaniaRoseАй бұрын
@Chiefmane1 Single dads need to leave childless women alone. Stop burdening women with lies, manipulation, baggage and drama with your ex and your kids.
@newolympiangod81342 жыл бұрын
He's 34 he looks 44 damn.
@justcallmejoe28112 жыл бұрын
"Let's go Brandon"
@JD-qm1fj2 жыл бұрын
Let's go Bengal !
@LatimusChadimus2 жыл бұрын
Let's go Brenda! (Karen has a little sister named Brenda who has a cackle like Kamala..)
@alanmeyer10342 жыл бұрын
The Brady Bunch Family doesn't work.
@samrapheal18282 жыл бұрын
Disney delusional 👸 mode.
@pla48252 ай бұрын
Well just be Single and don’t date then but Single Parents should leave Child Free people alone
@peterstoughton28722 жыл бұрын
Run forest run!!!
@selmonbhoi86562 жыл бұрын
I can feel Brandon's situation he is an honest men like I was but don't be honest about infront of women in the few dates rather take her psychology test and capacity to handle the burdens or your honest problem you have look how she reacts and at the same time find other single moms or women
@Slayavcados2 жыл бұрын
Dude is pure Blue Pill ; I hope he wakes up to realise his own value and realises he’s the prize. As of that video he’ll get manipulated from here to kingdom come… She might be a good person but a manipulative woman will work her way around a prenup easily. Basically, her proposing a prenup doesn’t mean shit if she lures him into spending a lot/most of it on the good life before she leaves.
@josec82972 жыл бұрын
If I was 36 and had decent money like this guy seems to have I would date women no older than 28 without kids. This guy has options.. Why commit to a single mom... I would hit it a few times and move on to the next one.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
Not as many options as you think. Most single childless women are turned off by single dads.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
@MelaniaRose no they're not! A man with kids is more attractive and most women want to date a man with kids you sound ignorant
@Chayim-Yahudah2 жыл бұрын
[Fulltime] Single dad here.... the answer is no. Date a woman with no kids... remember she must enter your frame.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
A lot of childfree single women aren’t looking for single dads, single dads have a lot of baggage and are limiting to date. A child free man is a better option.
@Chayim-Yahudah2 жыл бұрын
@@MelaniaRose troll
@indigobricks74422 жыл бұрын
Someone isn’t automatically a troll with invalid points just because they say something you don’t want to hear. Dating single parents is an extremely stressful, taxing experience for both genders. No new woman wants to come second to your child with someone else or feel we’re missing out on excess time, resources, memories, and availability because your kid is hogging it all.
@Chayim-Yahudah2 жыл бұрын
@@indigobricks7442 you're a winner
@Chayim-Yahudah2 жыл бұрын
@@indigobricks7442 bingo
@davidgardner47792 жыл бұрын
Dude. 3 weeks and she's talking about a pre-nup? Hummm...
@divemanred2 жыл бұрын
Rich btw read your book that night and had her read it as well!
@goldeneagle36382 жыл бұрын
He had many women but tells the current one that he sees other women. This guy didn't get it, that's why he also is attracted to single moms. His eyes will be opened soon I can tell.
@bereastical91022 жыл бұрын
It probably wouldn't be long before all 3 women joined forces against him. Find a single woman or wait till your daughter has grown up and left.
@pla48252 жыл бұрын
To be honest Grown Children can also cause problems for their parents when dating
@chadellett46962 жыл бұрын
Amen Rich, for helping men.
@clownshoes61372 жыл бұрын
I'm a single father and I would NEVER date a single mother. Is that hypocritical? No. What's the difference? I don't need any financial help with my kids. Most single mothers are looking for a wallet. That ain't me, bro.
@LovelyMel992 жыл бұрын
It is hypocritical, not everyone is looking for a wallet
@clownshoes61372 жыл бұрын
@@LovelyMel99 Good thing for me is, I'm not looking for anyone.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
Most single dads want a babysitter and maid for their kids. Childless women most likely have more financial income then a single dad on child support.
@clownshoes61372 жыл бұрын
@@MelaniaRose I don't want a damn thing. My kids are teenagers and even when I was married, I did 90% of the house work. On top of paying 100% of the bills. I literally don't need a woman for anything.
@MelaniaRose2 жыл бұрын
@@clownshoes6137 You still have baggage from your past. Be prepared for any childless women to reject you.
@ralphlaurensmascot36632 жыл бұрын
Being a single dad this is a good question. I couldn’t click play fast enough
@thechristianmale1292 жыл бұрын
Oh hell no The guy needs to master his biology. Rich Cooper won't advise that because he's trying to sell a book to weak men.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
Some of Rich's short videos resemble Infomercials, designed to push his book and products.
@mikebingham97002 жыл бұрын
As I said in an earlier comment. Rich is at heart, an Entrepeneur so sales of content/ products do come into play.
@thechristianmale1292 жыл бұрын
@@mikebingham9700 which is why I label him as a grifter
@AlexKunstar2 жыл бұрын
'let's go Brandon what's up?' bwahahahahaha, what a hilarious start.... No way was that coincidental 😆😆😆