Shuler King - Ladies Be Honest

[@dazz9268]

A...I picture him singing NEVER TOO MUCH by Luther while he is in the kitchen fixing a bomb ass meal.

[@Shemashay]

Lmao

[@subrennaevans6504]

He kinda looks like Luther, or maybe a cousin perhaps?🤔

[@user-cc616]

😂😂😂

[@keannajefferson659]

I thought it was Luther 🤣🤣🤣

[@justintimemagddelow672]

Yes, indeed.

[@tspaulding3845]

A. We both can get in shape together, with no baby momma drama, while living in our own house, driving our own car minding our own business. Yes sir, A.

[@cherylleech785]

Sho nuff!

[@ladymilan9311]

You got that right, T Spaulding! 🙂

[@mamakat7176]

And no penicillin 👀ijs

[@twolefthooks]

!!!

[@tspaulding3845]

@R Coffee That's not what it said, so as we grow together in happiness long life together would be our goal.✌️

[@zerotolerance2026]

Option A and I have been married for almost 20 years. Best decision I ever made🥰

[@chillchill1711]

God bless sis 🙌🏻❤️

[@shellywilliams8499]

I had A at 25 years old 40 now and happy. As a matter of fact my A is handsome .

[@bigA-cy3he]

You not from the superficial Era of today

[@catmoore2443]

Same here.

[@karenmitchell8528]

A. Because weight can be lost and he has a nice face. I love to eat so he's good.

[@Kiyonce.Kartier]

Not saying my BD is A necessarily but he was a dork in high school. He wore suits and ties to school but he’s always been fine af. But since it was HS, nobody wanted a dude that wore suits n shit. Let’s be honest but I did. He’s now a very successful entrepreneur and my son will be set for life. Choose wisely ladies, your bloodline depends on it.

[@kodeh7931]

“My son”??? Don’t you mean “our son”? Was that a Freudian slip? Uh oh 😰

[@madmouse7989]

I had B and I was never more unhappy, miserably and stressed out in my life ladies. I now have A and couldn't be happier, but it's truly to each their own though. Not everyone finds happiness in the same ways and places. Some need B because they can't live without drama or whatever else, while others need stability and comfort 💁‍♂️.

[@ImUrZaddy]

Except B had all the fun, and A will never experience some of the things you have done with B

[@garrenturk4093]

@@ImUrZaddy yep cause you PAID for all that fun.....

[@AZARIA]

@@garrenturk4093 Ha!

[@Heavenzvoice]

As I posted… there are plenty of B who has and does everything A does. Depends on where you hang out. Been in fitness over 35 years… some serious men who have incredible jobs hang out at the gyms. That’s how they relieve stress. If you think you have to settle for A because you don’t know how to find and deal with B who has everything A has then you deserve your kinda chubby but can cook A dude. That being said, I have dated men who were not in shape…. Not sloppy fat but the gym wasn’t their thing… those relationships lasted a long time. Reason I don’t deal with B who has everything is they can be a little extra. I like to be human… they look good and pretty that’s the way they want you 24/7… I’m sorry too much pressure. You borderline have to be VAIN to date some of those guys. B’s who have a job etc… they can be needy but there are a few who are sweethearts.

[@angiesnipes7443]

@@Heavenzvoice you are right. I had B also and hard working and could cook his asa of and no kids and family oriented.

[@over50andfantabulous59]

If you find a good one, stick to him like glue. Real talk from Grandma.

[@ProximityOptics]

I’ve been married to A for 25 years and it just gets better with time♥️

[@DelowaJimjon]

Kudos... to you and you are smart 😃

[@Slow-Rolling]

Divorce rates say different

[@katodd2925]

@@Slow-Rolling nah, many ppl stay together forever

[@indiagray9884]

I'm 26 years in and going strong. Making retirement plans.

[@DelowaJimjon]

@@indiagray9884 God BLESS You both 💞

[@fight4rightz705]

momma said.. everything that glitters aint always gold.. and everything thats gold dont always glitter.. MESSAGE!!!!!!

[@Taisha12001]

Honestly, if they were my only two choices, I stay single. Seriously. I'm not going to waste my life away on a man that I'm not attracted to just because he makes a lot of money has no children and he's a good cook. I have own money and I know how to cook too. I'm DEFINITELY NOT choosing a man that's only eye candy with multiple children by multiple women with no job or means to support himself. He may look good but let's see how good he looks when the bills start piling up and all he got to give you is excuses.

[@ysmithriley]

@Taisha Mack Not only does he NOT support himself, he doesn't support the three children that he's fathered. A RESOUNDING "NO" in my book.

[@Taisha12001]

@@ysmithriley EXACTLY

[@kc8998]

Your response is the only response that I can respect. I love the way you think.. The others seem to be liars and has either been with B and had a bad experience or is still with B and wishing he had A qualities..

[@Taisha12001]

@@kc8998 thank you.

[@choogafantastic5946]

Looks fade one day you and whoever you are with will get older - are they useless at that point? Do you become useless at that point? Not accusing just curious

[@yvettet.caldwell7632]

I would definitely take man A totally he looks like he would definitely take care of his family ❤❤❤

[@nevercomplicated1901]

"A" is that type that will love her through the good and the bad!

[@General_Klytus]

You lying to yourself! 🤣

[@sg5720]

@@General_Klytus nope. Nope. Unlike a lot of men woman wants substance. Someone that is secure and loyal and can protect and provide. All the woman on here of course thinks B is sexy as hell- but sexy only goes so far and woman today know they require more than that. A- is stress free, while B is purely drama. B you play around with but never settle down with. Sounds familiar maybe? Or maybe not.?🤷🏽‍♀️

[@17thN.O]

@@General_Klytus Most will answer the question. Not "A" or "B", but yes. "A" will cry and wonder why she don't come home when she supposed to, wonder why she getting calls at night on the nights he gets off early from work. "B" will send her text or call her telling her to bring him some Antigravity to chief on and a couple of Popeyes Chicken Sandwiches and keep telling "bitch what's takin you so long" while she deliberatly picks a fight with "A" so she has an excuse to leave while slammin the door while holdin her hoe bag. While "A" is sitting at home watching Tyler Perry movie trying to figure out what he did wrong.

[@henriettaparks586]

YES LORD, I'LL TAKE A EVERY DAY!!! HARD WORKING MAN, CAN COOK, THOSE OTHER ISSUES, CAN ALWAYS BE IMPROVED ON!! GET MY DRIFT!!

[@carmay3600]

Everyone is saying they would choose A and then help him lose weight. He has accomplished everything in life but physical health so what makes you think that you would be the magic bullet? What if he is just fine with being the size that he is? I get you sentiment but, “A” is not a project. He is a person and he might be just fine with being over weight.

[@uzo9887]

Right! Or only have little gym dedication which wouldn’t suffice the transformation they’re hoping for.

[@jashanestone]

That was my EXACT POINT. Everyone is talking like this some SIMS, like as if they can change humans overnight, like they just was born yesterday. They'll choose B on the low for them but they can't "KEEP IT 💯" Basically 🙄 Them the women you watch while in a "relationship" 👀👀👀 LIES 😂😂😂😂

[@louisfreeman9551]

💯

[@FoxxAddamz1]

@jashane stone 👉🛎 🛎 🛎Ding Ding Ding 👉💥✌

[@daughterofthemosthighgod1889]

🎯That part. It’s the 🧢 for me. Knowing damn well they would choose B even tho they know his situation. They’d be all outside fighting the other Baby Momma’s and all😂

[@judyledbetter3915]

Definitely A Give Him An A+ God Bless 💗🙏

[@ladym1755]

Hands down, "A". Momma always said, "everything that looks good and smells good, isn't good for you."😆

[@sunnydaze2359]

@AbsolutelyAndre you don’t know me & you ain’t been with me so I Say A because B it’s all for show & try too hard to look good are a turn off to me.

[@georgeduncan5178]

U rare most want B. ✌🏽

[@georgeduncan5178]

Lying 😭😭 most take B in a heartbeat IJS

[@DeeDe730]

Hands down for “A” I will take a Good cooking Man from a good Looking man Anyday☺️☺️☺️🔥

[@ladym1755]

@george duncan "Lying"? No, not at all. All women are not the same, just like all men are not the same.

[@gifrock0215]

Seems too often that women (especially black women) are made to feel like they only have these two types of options. That reinforces the worst stereotypes in our community. You don't have to compromise on looks to be a good person or compromise on your character to be physically attractive. There's a whole spectrum of personalities and attributes to choose from. You have more than 2 options.

[@catherinewhite8719]

Well said!

[@NeonHelix20]

Yes just another way to shame blk women for having the audacity to have standards like any other race of women But they make it seem like we have to settle Y cant i have a good man that i actually want to have sex with Thats not too much to ask. Unless ur a blk woman apparently

[@A-Thomas]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@divine1642]

Yeah but in real life it's 1 or the other & a strong possible ❤🤗

[@justwoke6322]

Exactly

[@SaronJoy]

I got an A and we turned ourselves into B's!😁

[@PoppyChild75]

Love this so much

[@barbaraissac5029]

😂😂😂👌👍

[@mayflower3946]

🔑

[@CloutGod_504]

🏳️‍🌈

[@shanedoughty6844]

Hey, why not

[@machkaya4108]

Same applies to women. Been with a B woman. It was fire sex but nothing else. Just drama and headache. Now with an A, so much better. Love her more each passing day

[@kimberlyblackmond2067]

I been married to A for 16 years and the love is what's up.....I would add a picture if I could ...fyi he sings too💗

[@cjjohnson4061]

Smart woman

[@hollyschofield8141]

Hands down, best decision ever!👌

[@lekeiag]

I'm married to an A for 6 year now been together for 8, I love this man more and more everyday. Hands down A!

[@LGibbs-sg8tz]

❤️😊❤️

[@chukc2012]

"Can cook his ass off" While holding a salad. 😂😂😂😂

[@OGKUSHOGKUSH]

Look like a Good salad though 😂😂😂😂

[@landydossou3079]

Leave him alone. He's trying to lose weight. Lol

[@imsodolo1361]

Dat part!!😆😆

[@biigdog2044]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@regford3572]

😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭

[@SoutherbBelle]

I would go with A. My body isn't perfect either, but being consistent with regular exercise and mindful eating can make a big difference.

[@whitneywilliams317]

Yeah right 😒

[@loveye]

Agreed

[@samantasammy6415]

Exactly

[@pastoryoda2789]

liar

[@peggyreid3926]

But most likely than not A wants someone with a perfect body

[@Yeahthisisme7]

A and let’s get in shape together … peace & happiness over looks & drama !

[@nisa1388]

Ain’t nothing like a big man to cuddle with. “A” all the way 🥰

[@forgoogletotrack7181]

Gimme that big boy any day.

[@bambamn8019]

Uh. I would like to volunteer for the cuddlin

[@latonialawrence4759]

I kno that's right...I'll take "A" for $100 Alex, all dayyy!!!

[@RTDavis0503]

Hey! Big men we the best

[@ritastarrgreen611]

I know that's right!!!

[@ms.marvel9197]

Don't be fooled..plenty of type "A" are Players too...use that house, car and good paying job to lure you in...but he ain't sharing none of that with anyone.

[@kelvinwilkes1050]

Sounds like a smart dude

[@ladybluelotus]

Facts! All guys think they're A, but in reality they have A's body and B's pocket-book and personality.

[@ayemiksenoj5254]

@@ladybluelotus, Right!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@ayemiksenoj5254]

I keep trying to tell women there's no such thing as a "nice guy". They all look at me like I'm crazy and then wanna argue.. Smh.. If option A looked different trust and believe he probably wouldn't be nice or considered so called nice.

[@MrMeech76]

@@ayemiksenoj5254 same goes for universally attractive women. Those usually aren't the "nice" ones

[@1limited669]

"3 Baby Momma's".....Means he probably has a (4th) baby momma, And a child that's Grown, that even his own parents don't know about! 😂😂

[@MsJoyce31202]

Wow.

[@ashleybennae8655]

Facts. In actuality 3 kids with 3 different women = 6 possible kids with 6 possible baby mommas

[@uniquematerial2441]

😆😂🤷‍♂️🌠

[@jamespulliam3672]

Quit now 😆 🤣 😂 😹 😆

[@m.h6858]

And let's not forget the ones HE don't even know about yet!😩😩😩 The ones waiting on him to find a good, stable woman like YOU, to help support them!!!

[@fortheloveofdrip3224]

No cap I’m choosing A with no grand scheme to have him lose weight. He is literally perfect as he is.....a provider

[@1rperry68]

Say it again!

[@phil5301]

Meanwhile, Two of Option B’s baby mommas tryna be “friends” with Option A right now. 😂

[@lamar5429]

😂😂😂

[@laryanryan9170]

IKR! 😂😂😂😂

[@nw7481]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣

[@Phoenixishot]

Haaa! Yep

[@HazelGreen64]

B is just for fun and done. Unfortunately some women fall for their charm and become a single mother. These dudes are just for play not to stay. Never cared for B types. I exclusively dated married and an A.

[@synthiasimms4608]

I'll get Luther with the salad bowl!Not someone who will likely be cocky or over confident!

[@notperfect2440]

'A' for me because we can whip each other into shape.😂

[@ceefaka]

A - I was raised to value the beauty of a persons heart, actions, and words. Everything else is just a bonus. Looks don’t matter.

[@iamme2399]

If option "A" keeps eating those salads....better than option "B" he'll be.

[@markied2873]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nikkirockznikkirockz8551]

.. Yeah, women lovE a "project" they can work on anyways-smart ones know that with the right nutritionist, they can have the Entire package!! 😄

[@conniepinkston5951]

Hey option A is the shit

[@reginabologo248]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bagchasasociety]

Dats y MOST women will NEVER find a good man r get married because dey got da 'GOOD LOOKS' syndrome...😞😞😞

[@DD-mg4mr]

I was a good cook,enjoy yard work and had good credit with a 30,000 job. Love cleaning and iron. Plus 6"3 210lbs up to the age of 30 built like B . Always respected and kind to everyone . I was every woman last pick for a date. My first girlfriend became my wife. Happy and being together 20 years with little of no problems that we can't fix.

[@sharronhankins7722]

Awesome!

[@labelledujour5855]

Love it ✊👏

[@18missmm]

God was just saving you for your sweet wife!💓

[@feetfunkerson1312]

✊🏾✊🏾

[@barbrabennett4061]

As you get older and wiser, you learn to make better relationships choices. In all honesty, I wouldn’t pick either one. I wouldn’t pick A because despite all that he’s capable of doing I’m not physically attracted to him and that could lead to issues and problems and unnecessary inflicted hurt. I definitely wouldn’t pick B because based on the information given about him, he’s not physically or financially stable let alone emotionally ready to be in a relationship. Not only that he’s been in 3 unsuccessful relationship with kids that he may not be taking care of. So, his character as a man is called into question and this is NOT the type of man I want leading me anywhere.

[@ericwarr9088]

Appreciate that answer 👍

[@Eleventyeleventh]

B will come looking like he has the stability of A but in reality, he is still B. Because people look better/good, we tend to assume they're doing better/good. I guess all this post is saying is, based on what you might be after in relationships, don't rush to judge a book by its cover. This was just a general example with some basic criteria such as looks and income. At the end of the day, we all come in different flavors, so yeah, the message is basically don't be quick to judge.

[@tbee1575]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@brianaalbritton7939]

Yes’mam, thank you for this 🙏🏽 Said it best !

[@therealdeal3820]

Well said, ITA! 💯 When I was a younger teen , I only dated real good looking people ( my friends were the same). But grew older and got with a soul mate who didn't necessarily really fit that level of looks that I went for in the past. There's a lot more involved than just looks and money.

[@chrisisslick]

You hit the nail on the head "not the place to tell the truth " 😆. Don't listen to what women say.

[@mayaa2880]

To be honest I had a choice between A and B few years ago. I chose B, but I came to my sense quickly because I couldn’t image a decent future with him. I am a hardworking woman with good degrees, own my house and make good money. Obviously I didn’t need the materialistic advantages of A. But I wanted a family and responsable dad. So fast forward, a few months later I met an other A : I didn’t hesitate too long lol. We are now happily married and he is a wonderful man and a fantastic Dad.

[@Proteanlife]

😑

[@michaelabrakson2919]

@Tony Allen great question 🤔 even though it would be logical, she ain't mention nothing about a being sexy at all

[@ebonyr.b.1216]

@@michaelabrakson2919 sometimes being a wonderful man and a good dad (or knowing he has those qualities) IS sexy … and ain’t worth the cheat opportunity

[@its_taps]

What degrees do have and still can't spell?? Image ... imagine* Responsable ... responsible*

[@mayaa2880]

@@its_taps sorry French is my first language. I also speak my native language and spanish too. Thanks for your corrections.

[@eldermarty7526]

They want "A" but they always end up falling for "B". Be real with me.

[@glorialynnjackson]

👊🤣

[@frostyperma4789]

Sad but true

[@jasonkaramo5216]

Sadly "most" are "incapable" of being real!

[@1luvleemama]

They want A after B done screwed up they life.

[@ampollard7041]

@@jasonkaramo5216 Not me. My REAL choice is neither of them. And yes, I do like men (before u ask Lol)

[@christansdad]

Women would be in a "relationship" with A and string him along for as long as he will pay to support her lifestyle. Meanwhile, she will be dating B, become baby's momma #4, and try to pin the baby on A.

[@kingjamez2643]

Fact'z not Fiction!!🤣

[@Bjames5150]

Preach (RIP DOLPH) The truth will set you free.. THESE IS FACTS

[@MzBAnthony]

Yep

[@MzBAnthony]

@Angela Cleveland yes i can do for me..but who gon blow diz back out??? Not A

[@MzBAnthony]

@@Bjames5150 shit crazy..i found out days later

[@psychshell4644]

I'm going with Guy A. He's probably an absolute sweetheart and a gentleman ❤

[@kingfedrick4698]

r u going to cheat with guy B? 🧐

[@psychshell4644]

@ATF Why would I do something like that? My boyfriend is more like guy A and treats me well.

[@ZMCarsandMore]

Advice for all guys in "A". If she doesn't want you the first time, and comes back later after "B", say an absolute NO. Never gets old. 😂 Makes sure she likes you for you and not just what you can provide. That is what gets a lot of "A" guys caught up in messy situations. Don't be ignorant.

[@thomastaylor1217]

BIG FACTS

[@mrsbigmamayas3765]

👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@errolm8313]

Amen!

[@errolm8313]

Not to mention she done already had a kid by him too

[@cha9165]

Same goes for men. When a guy don't want you then leaves then comes back after the failed relationship and has kids with the crazy b*tch then comes back and says they want a good woman...say no. To all, say NO! LOL

[@spartacusnetwork19]

😂😂😂😂 He stays with his cousin 😂😂😂 that took me out 😂😂😂

[@t.p.anderson1833]

My mom always told me, "everything that LOOK good ain't good for you."

[@jacquelinehoffenden7211]

Say it girl

[@phyllisyovone8961]

Everything that looks bad to you ain't good to you either. Just go for what you want. I WILL GO WITH B. What if I choose A because he is not appealing to me and he turns out to be a looser too!

[@haydenmary4849]

That goes for pretty printed words that describe a person too; there are plenty overweight men with women; what's wrong with him with all those great credentials?

[@sihletenjwa7761]

@@phyllisyovone8961 lol you bout ta be baby mama 4 right away

[@myrnadavis2409]

Alright now🤣

[@secret-garden]

Shuler always tells the truth

[@Troy211]

Y'all still don't get it, talking bout "I'll take A and make him look like B", NO! It's just A or B and you can't change nothing. What you see is what you get stop trying to change the rules!

[@blackcatlady2172]

I agree. I showed this to some female relatives, and lo and behold -- they were already putting guy "A" on a diet and in the gym. What some of these women want are his benefits -- what he can do for them -- but don't really want HIM. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ojm1226]

Excellent point well said 👏

[@MrsNicolas]

I'll take be " flaws" and all. I don't care if he ever goes to the gym, changes his 90's haircut and clothes. He can keep all of that and I'll be as happy as a clam.

[@HazelGreen64]

I married an A. With motivation, love, and fatherhood he lost the weight. We know what we are talking about. A it is. B is for fun nothing serious.

[@blackcatlady2172]

I think what's tripping me out about these comments is how many of the ladies want all of what "A" has to offer, but want to change his physical looks -- supposedly out of "concern" for his health. (🙄) Meanwhile, as for guy "B," the reality is that some of these same types of women have dated a guy like that -- liked his looks, his body, but tried (with futility) to change his undesirable _ways._ Ain't folks a trip?? 🤔😒

[@leeslove1999]

Everything that glitters ani't always gold!

[@tyannaist]

Tell It !!!! Words of wisdom 💯

[@TASconfidential]

Most women would choose “B”, get worn out, used and played, and then will accept “A”, after learning a series of life lessons. This is the real truth.

[@kgreenmusicofficial]

Ding, ding, ding

[@s.lemonaideforall]

Not necessarily you got to know the game

[@kareemb.muhammad1471]

@@s.lemonaideforall he said Most not all

[@chrism.728]

Facts

[@troypage5994]

Exactly and .my brothers would choose a stripper with a big azz and multiple baby daddies without ever being a wife over Oprah!

[@moniquebrown7437]

There are some of us who really would prefer A, but people are always thinking carnally and fixing their lips to say that we’re lying because we didn’t make the choice that was expected of us. I really do like and desire a good Godly Yahweh man that loves me and treats me well❤️

[@lollydavis8816]

“A chair is still a chair….even when there’s no one sitting there”

[@drippedtipz]

😂😂😂

[@caprid9937]

😂😂😂😂 that's right

[@merryjane7186]

Luther😂

[@lilbuddy7574]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maryzakaria4667]

What you mean 🤔

[@dyoung2739]

Was this a trick question? “A” all day everyday. Most folks would pick “B” because he’s eye candy but they’re crazy. B can’t even buy you a candy bar. Nope,B can drag that wagon on down that road to the next victim.

[@laineypooh3171]

Eye candy is all look but don't touch.

[@mellifluous479]

''Most,'' well one does not know most. Many is okay but it's still opinion and not actual or factual. 😌 Objection sustained.

[@moniquejones6482]

Yeah A because B is just a play toy. If I wanted to I can have A workout.

[@dyoung2739]

@@moniquejones6482 Exactly

[@dyoung2739]

@@laineypooh3171 Exactly, can pass a mirror without looking at himself

[@cellyjohnson]

Actually neither of these guys is appealing to me. I appreciate that A appears to be responsible, but I do not find him physically attractive. That would serve as a hindrance towards physical intimacy and connection. B on the other hand, while physically fit, is irresponsible. That makes him unattractive to me. It’s a hard pass on both.

[@Carma2010]

Thank you for posting a comment I can agree with!

[@msindymusic]

Honesty

[@FierceOnAllDays]

For me I'm looking pass the looks, I'm securing the bag. He's getting 60 an hour. He only needs guidance to a gym membership. Butter him up with sweet talks, I guarantee he'll be closer to B in no time. 🤷‍♀️😂💰

[@michaelabrakson2919]

That's a great answer.

[@michaelabrakson2919]

@@FierceOnAllDays explain "butter him up" what does that mean...

[@kimberlygatewood7980]

I LOVE 2 eat and I LOVE stability plain & simple Drama free is just a Blessing.

[@ivyroldan2872]

$60.00 an hour? Home, cook, car, no kids? I can get use to the big guy. Speak the truth Shuler King 👑

[@alisonb3019]

Exactly me to B can't do nothing for me.

[@erehistruth2356]

@@alisonb3019 I'm saying. Looks are overrated. A woman needs a loving, humble FAITHFUL man with security.

[@alisonb3019]

@@erehistruth2356 exactly.

[@MrsNicolas]

I didn't hear nothing else after $60 an hour. Sign me up. 😏

[@grumpyazzkatt9969]

@@MrsNicolas 😂

[@maritzamolina5927]

I pick "A" anytime because that's long term. Even though "B" looks good he's a floater 🤣

[@mellifluous479]

"He's a floater." 😂 Eye candy only.

[@bluegemini91]

Exactly

[@gzoe247]

Lol

[@kevinshockey1836]

Now you're lying you might marry a but you would definitely cheat on him with b

[@pastoryoda2789]

@@kevinshockey1836 Damn right Kevin lol

[@tkelly2546]

It just depends what the woman is trying to do🤣😂. On vacation out of a long term relationship B. Looking to settle down, raise a family A. Shuler knows what he's saying🤣

[@fkhowyoufeelaboutit]

And that's why the more a man has to have is a indication of very low attraction or none at all. Cuz if you her type she will pick u up and dust you off. But if you ain't her type then u need to make $100k or better 😂😂😂😂😂

[@harlstbarkley3227]

Why not both?? 😂😁

[@youngshellthegoat5886]

LOL the man has 3 baby mamas he's not trying to settle down no time soon

[@shaqlady321]

I choose A being honest

[@cityguy412]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/fF6Xk2SAf82Bmbs 🤣

[@jazzyjay9417]

Definitely A for me. And that's the truth!!!!

[@nancydean8260]

Here's the catch, B is stuck on himself. He only loves himself, he don't give a hoot about a woman. The other choice is A, a guy that knows how to take care of home😊

[@apriljohnson7447]

Yep

[@theonly1258]

B willhave a 4th baby on you

[@handleyobusiness]

Option A is forever in your friend zone 🤣

[@KindTiffany]

"The catch" is his entire description. No money, 3 kids, 3 bms. Enough said 🤣

[@ampollard7041]

Hell, "A" gone cheat too. In 5 yrs he will leave u for his personal trainer after losing weight. Now "A" looks like "B"..... and the cycle continues!!

[@cynthiabrown7537]

I've been with a " B ", not worth it. They cheat and do not like to commit. I've also been with an " A ", all they want to be is accepted and loved for who they are. Totally worth it.😘😘

[@justintimemagddelow672]

Nothing but truth Cynthia, I know what you mean.

[@hrrspaul4]

And now your with!?! 🤣🤣🤣

[@auntienancy7787]

It's a case by case thing. There are a LOT of A's out there that will behave/treat you like B's.

[@kelgreen99]

I wish I could find an A. 😒

[@cynthiabrown7537]

@@auntienancy7787 True

[@sherieanderson6554]

I’m going with A, because it’s obvious B thinks he’s Gods gift to women. So yes I’m sticking with A

[@lindagithaiga1974]

🤣🤣🤣

[@solodolo2758]

@R Coffee ikr?! he ain't said a word 🤣

[@bigleaux2285]

That guy B actually is a husband & father and rich.....

[@kingjamez2643]

I don't know you & I don't believe you... Every black woman would go for B, which is why most black women are single with a bunch of badass kids because of B, not A... Fact'z not Fiction!!😁

[@melissawilliams1095]

And b ain't shit

[@edwardreese976]

Shuler bruh, you had me tripping on this one man. The look in your eyes and slick sarcasm at those woman who say A but secretly lust for B had me rolling. Keep it coming fam...raw, uncut and x rated. Word!

[@hazel2387]

I Love a Man who can cook, and A looks like a neat freak, and I LOVE that EVEN more. I'll take "A" for the daily double Alex!!

[@laryanryan9170]

And as soon as you run into B and A is not around if B has game it's a wrap and you know it. 😂😂😂

[@HazelGreen64]

All the ones claiming you’re lying or say you’ll cheat with B are the B guy. 9 kids, 7 mothers, and no job. 😂😂

[@louisjackson1128]

@@laryanryan9170 damn abd that's a 80% but if real woman sees she can fucc up things God's blessings for her life

[@kingjamez2643]

Please, you've been chasing B ya whole life & which is why your probably somebody/somebody's baby mom anyway, ain't??🤷🏾‍♂️

[@hazel2387]

@@kingjamez2643 LMAO. No Thanks! Less is More, Never Been into the B type of guy but you probably know all about the B type of Girl. Smh. #IWishCommonSenseWasMoreCommon

[@twdjt6245]

If “A”is also a kind gentleman, doesn’t take himself too seriously, and I have things in common with him/he can keep good conversation, I’d 100% choose him. I’m usually with you Shuler, but a lot of us women, yes even the young ones (mid 20s here) care more about ones personality than looks. A responsible person who isn’t full of himself and can make you laugh can keep you happy forever if you treat him right and things work out. Good looks lose their novelty after a very short amount of time, even if you could miraculously get him to keep his eyes on you for that long. I know and have met “average” or even below average looking people with good personalities that I’ve found 10x more attractive after you get to know them a bit (and some of them don’t even have their shit together like that, they were/are just kind and pleasant to be around people) . Same way I’ve met some “10”s who look ugly to me after you get to know them. B is looking for a breeding mare and a good time. A is more likely to be looking for a partner, and has a good head on his shoulders.

[@perfectlyimperfect2368]

I wrote a comment before I read yours but it's very similar and I agree 100% with what you said! Looks don't mean shit!

[@charlesbutler4588]

Bullshit!

[@alisonb3019]

Agreed 100%

[@theyseeu1983]

Ummm sorry I agree and disagree.... looks isn't everything but there MUST be an attraction !!!!!! Other wise sex is going to be terrible. Any girl that falls for the other guy has issues herself and that's why she would be okay with putting up with that type of drama

[@apriljohnson7447]

Shuler goes for the obvious joke... But women are less likely to go for the eye candy than men... That's a fact, plus many of us with experience have learned the hard way, that the eye candy is usually just that... Pleasing to the eye, and the eye alone... Many of them are lacking between the legs which leads to a host of other problems, like the three baby mamas... And much more. Plus the one with money can always pay for help in that department, if it's even needed.. Ole steroid abusers probably is the one, on the short side, if you get my meaning. Happens all the time.

[@silkytsunami]

I believe the deal was to tell the truth ladies. Y’all keep saying (A) knowing damn well you wouldn’t even give this man the time a day to even know what type of person he is. Be real with yourselves first and foremost.

[@allispossible8447]

Exactly! I’m sticking to my white guys.

[@vivelavidalivelife3617]

He can cook im definitely getting that bomb ass food.

[@nanettewhite8269]

I will always give a good decent man the time of day.

[@MsAggie78]

I wouldn't. He's not physically attractive at all. Why am I just "supposed" to want to fuck an unattractive man?🙄🙄 Men want an attractive woman, but women are "shallow" for wanting an attractive man.🙄🙄

[@deonjones4973]

Facts on God they be like hell naw get away from me 🤣🤣🤣🤣 and fw B and be the 4th bm

[@lisibigmama8016]

A all the way!!!! So responsible.

[@smoke2668]

They're gonna live with A, and see B on the side. 😂😂😂😂

[@erb082580]

Thank you 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯💯💯💯💯💯😄😄😄😄😄

[@reginabologo248]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@hornetbrown]

Got damn freaks know what they like.

[@mellifluous479]

Smoke: You didn't! 😂😂 Tell it!

[@FoxxAddamz1]

@Smoke Damn I ain't wanna go there... but that sounds about accurate. But lemme go back to mindin' my business... lol🚶😎

[@racqueldillon3560]

I'll pass on both. I dont see any description of each man's character. These days the A's and B's have the possibility of being trash in terms of how they value and treat women.

[@mandy9775]

You said it. Apparently personalities don't matter to women 🙄

[@TheBLACKboard65]

👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@brendabooker1488]

That is so true . He could be a hard - working a --- h--le .

[@candicebrooks3831]

Thank you! I was thinking the same thing. All of A's tangible attributes/accomplishments are listed but none of his character attributes. I know several women who were married to men like A and were going through hell behind closed doors.

[@TheBLACKboard65]

@@candicebrooks3831- They also never talk about how some start out As but become Bs in short order - but without the looks.

[@fatimahtorres8105]

We all know B is the winner. Come on or we wouldn't have all these broken homes with no daddy's out here

[@redzoom7857]

Tell the truth and shame the devil! Cause some women aren’t keeping it real in the comments! Cause like you said, he wouldn’t have all those kids and baby mamas in the first place if women weren’t picking him (B) over and over. Too many broken homes indeed.

[@tgreenwood3193]

Men would fall for the dragging wagon too

[@turbo6598]

Your Absolutely right As a man I'm( A )Lost my wife of 25yrs To a guy that's like B .

[@fatimahtorres8105]

@@turbo6598 it's usually the other way around. I am sorry

[@mizal215]

@@turbo6598 Sad to say pimp you never had your lady if it happened that easy. Just keep ya head up my guy love em with ya mind not your heart n you will be kool.

[@kentfarmer2911]

Tell it brother. Facts. Amen

[@awakenedbeauti4977]

This is a setup. I'm choosing neither, I'll stay happily single 😂.

[@SDot2385]

Right! We don’t know nothing about A’s personality or if he’s kind. He could be trash AND a doughboy! PASS!! 😂

[@danitahill9845]

A is playing for the other team

[@alimuh007]

Awe poor baby

[@deenad3562]

@@danitahill9845 ding ding ding ding ding! 🔔 🛎

[@Miss_1981]

@@danitahill9845 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@kidwonder3616]

I’m appalled by the amount of women up here telling a god damn lie 😂😂😂

[@sweettee6827]

A DAMN LIE 😂😂😂

[@bridgettem9]

So am i!!! 🙄🤦🏾‍♀️

[@HazelGreen64]

I married an A. Being a father and husband motivated him to lose a lot of weight. No need to lie. Women want stability and it’s a lie to claim all women are attracted to B 1st. Studies have reported most women don’t like B types.

[@jashanestone]

🤣🤣🤣

[@user-kpkxgtj]

@@HazelGreen64 people desperately need to believe that their assumptions about women are valid at all times and for all women.

[@integrityminded5315]

To the women saying they would choose b for fun, you do not value your precious gift at all!! A real man doesn't want a woman who devalues herself! MEDITATE ON THAT

[@sorayaleblanc588]

THAT PART

[@mamakat7176]

And don't value their HEALTH either cause his medicine cabinet would probably make you repent, them muscles ain't fooling a real woman with good since

[@mbrown2776]

But he’s CLEARLY NOT! A real Man by any stretch of the imagination. Look at his profile. Typical BWOI PICKNEY, in a Mans body. And that my dear is about IT!! 🤔🤷🏽‍♀️🤷🏽‍♀️

[@Geniacat]

That's the line from The Five Heartbeats, love it

[@raphaeldelaghetto85]

Shuler King is wrong about one thing. In the reverse situation, Men will "pass time" with option B, but option A will be wifey. Women go wrong by falling in love with a bad decision. LOL

[@mecca3000]

One of the smartest and honest things I've ever read on the internet

[@sholovesholove4620]

That is a FACT! And then the option B women will be jealous and hate on the option A woman

[@MediaGoffTV]

All I can say is #Facts

[@latoniay.hendry4614]

This is a very good point!

[@patricehoward2344]

Facts BUT some "pass" too much time & lose A by playing with B a little too long or getting caught B. #ijs 💯

[@sierramilan7410]

The man that can cook & feed me got me🙏🏽👏🏿👏🏿

[@tstewart8698]

Here's the catch. Picture "A" and Picture "B" are the same person after a year of salads and working with a personal trainer. Choose wisely. 😆

[@Pineapple-zj3nx]

lmao 😅🤣😂😭 before i read the description i thought it was another weight loss transformation..m

[@underconstruction6432]

Damn!!

[@shonuf5152]

I thought it was before and after for a sec but two different people...in every way.

[@mcshalinda0215]

😆 🤣 😂 right!!

[@cherrylynn7173]

Plot twist lol

[@lovettewreh7157]

U are so right boo

[@jaylene.turner6524]

Some said B for bedroom activities, and A for the cooking. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@JazzyBlessed1]

I plead the 5th 😂😂😂

[@rancidbutter9669]

You can only choose one.

[@goose12k9]

who say A aint good in the bed?

[@rancidbutter9669]

@@goose12k9 he might be but as a big dude he might not have the stamina. He gotta use his stamina to maintain that house and car, plus cook.

[@beebeetee2926]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@markied2873]

All these women know damn well they ain't choosing A 🤣🤣🤣...

[@victoriousmuscle8632]

Especially when they look him up and find out who he really is .

[@logic9869]

Str8 🧢

[@shogun8dchosen172]

Some people just enjoy a good dose of daily drama😏

[@kabeblak3606]

Everything that glitters aint gold BUT you only live once AND tomorrow aint promised. So trust your instincts with boundaries.

[@debbiesmith3443]

Right away I'm going with the letter A, larger folks can really put their foot into a recipe.

[@LadiiBori]

Okkkkkkk

[@ms.understood9650]

So a relationship is all about eating? As long as he can cook you are game...chile please!

[@pastoryoda2789]

@@ms.understood9650 lol 😂 it’s personal preference most people go after people they have things in common like Debbie is a larger woman so she chose option A

[@debbiesmith3443]

@@ms.understood9650 at this moment it's about presentation, I don't want something that everybody else want.

[@underconstruction6432]

@@pastoryoda2789 Lmmfao damn lol

[@michellewade6274]

This man is too funny. I'm dying laughing here.

[@marcirobins5144]

B can’t even buy all his kids socks at the same time! A all day.

[@t.p.anderson1833]

😅😅😅😄😂😂

[@patriciaholiield5365]

Then after he and u using your toilet paper to wipe the after effects of sex. Then you hungry what you gonna do drive by McDonald's and show his six pack. Remember he ain't got no job

[@18missmm]

Damn!🤣😭😭😭😭💀

[@18missmm]

@@patriciaholiield5365 But you already know he don't eat McDonald's! So she gon' have to get her second wind and go COOK his high protein, low carb, no fat meal.😂

[@baldqueen2762]

B is in the mirror more than me. Honestly, I am looking for security, traveling, and no drama. A is the real winner. I am a home body and I love to cook and bake too. We would have some great memories in that kitchen.

[@Karen-pk3uv]

Truthfully, I'm going with option A. I have a feeling his personality and confidence make him tons more physically attractive in person. Some people just don't photograph well 🤷‍♀️ Option B just reminds me of ancient Greek and Roman statues. Every detail of his physical appearance is perfection, there are no misplaced lines or cuts. However, statues are cold, don't give you a soft place to land on a bad day, all they do is stand in one spot beimg admired, and they expect teams of people to care for them. While I love to look at various types of art and respect the work that goes into their creation; I refuse to be in another relationship with someone I can't count on to give me a hug on a bad day. I learned that lesson the hard way and I won't do it again.

[@rockiki4409]

That's wisdom My sister!!!

[@freewebb2974]

🧢

[@bellaboomz]

Well said 👌🏾

[@valenciasmith7175]

Come Thru & Preach Karen!!!! 👏👏

[@mzjamaica]

Coming truly from someone that has been there done that🙌🏽🥰

[@thecutter1983]

I’m picking A because, honestly, I can’t cook but I needs to eat. I have a love/hate relationship with the kitchen (lol).

[@tiffanywatkins3952]

A all day! Love a man that can cook and he's financially stable👍🏼

[@cranstonhunter2163]

"I know you I been with you" JT- Five Heartbeats

[@nevercomplicated1901]

I'm going with "A". No, Shuler, you don't know me. Every man I had dated ALWAYS has kids! It would be nice if I were to meet a man with no kids like myself!

[@erehistruth2356]

AMEN. DAMN IT. I AGREE.

[@MrsNicolas]

Some guys I dated had kids while others didn't. The ones with kids didn't always look like B either. One in particular looked like A, and had 2 baby mamas and 4 kids. Majority of the time when they look like B, they have children. Which is probably why I dated more A types over the years, and was shocked at the one guy who looked like A but had multiple kids and baby mamas because they're usually the safe bet.

[@joskeyo4877]

How old are you? If you are over 36, you will not meet any age appropriate men (even good ones) without kids.

[@Cuffski]

Wait there are several of us still out here, from the hood with good jobs some without a college degree or multiple degrees, no kids, homeowners, but meeting sisters who enjoy drama more than anything else, and it is so corny.

[@Neatness62]

I would pick A as well. B has drama written all over him. 3 kids by 3 different woman that means all his money is going to child support and if you get with him that means so will yours. He is a stick and move kinda guy and if you think differently just ask the 3 ladies that came before you.

[@krissiew9508]

What money??? Lol

[@queencharles3527]

EXACTLY💯

[@deeptreatz]

C. stay single, keep grinding with GOD and let my vibe show up...cause A n B ain't an option 😛

[@justbeingme5425]

Exactly!!! Neither!!! People kill me and must admit physical attraction plays an important in a relationship

[@auntienancy7787]

^^^ Exactly. Dwelling, car, and job are just the "basics," having those does not necessarily guarantee a good "partner." And all adults should be able to cook a little bit for themselves - male or female. Folks kill me suggesting that men who perform the very basics of adulthood are a "prize" that all women should clamor for. Personality is important. Character is important. And attraction is just as important to women as it is to men. Nobody ever expects men to ignore attraction and simply settle for the basics. Nobody ever asks men "isn't she good enough?"

[@violetlollii]

Awww boo hoo go cry a river black men make the most baby mamas 😏☺️

[@anastasiashell1929]

I’m 💀with dragging wagon.. S. King you are the truth. I love your work. Keep doing what you do.

[@marisahall6741]

If I had to choose, definitely A. He can lose weight. You can't change a bum. But if I'm being honest. I would choose neither. I'm not into fat men and 2 B's body scares me and I don't do broke.

[@ZezeDouglas]

Amen sista!

[@yolly1746]

💯

[@chrismassey7563]

How does his body scare you?

[@tyannaist]

Amen. Romance without finance is a nuisance.💯

[@latimoreshenii3334]

@@chrismassey7563 prolly cuz he look like he's on steroids

[@joemomma3208]

If “Professor Klump” hit the gym for a bit he would look a lot like option B & have a lot more “options” 💯

[@lisebelgay9602]

Very much agree..!!

[@kingdeegalang]

You wouldn't say that about a female. Let big fella be

[@markied2873]

Hahahaha

[@patricesilva8004]

Facts

[@Heyu7her3]

@@kingdeegalang "males" (since we're doing that still) say that all the time

[@againstallodds1582]

Man all this capping on here. "A" is your average middle age co-worker who you been turning down.

[@kingconfidence20743]

FACTS SALUTE BIG HOMIE 💯✊🏽

[@kelvinwilkes1050]

Big FACTS

[@BeastHunter2121]

On the job romance could be tricky.js

[@sancraft1]

I'm taking number one. Pretty gets ugly fast when you hungry, the lights cut off and there's an eviction notice on the door.

[@missjasmine3366]

Nah. I pass on both. I won't mind being a cat lady for life! 😹

[@Crystal_curls85]

I agree with you. I'm picking me, myself and I.

[@blackcatlady2172]

I'm right there with ya, sis! 😂😂😹😹😹

[@missjasmine3366]

@@blackcatlady2172 😂😂😂😂

[@jashanestone]

Can a cat man join in? 👋😂😂😂✅💯

[@blackcatlady2172]

@@jashanestone Jump on in! 😺😺

[@AMoor891]

"I know you,...I been with you." That JT five heartbeats line is a dn classic 💀🤣💀🤣💀🤣💀🤣💀💀🤣💀

[@dianaperry1929]

I went for B and married him ….30 years on and he’s now A…love him to death….Yep to death…..lol❤️🇦🇺

[@jeffbezos4746]

He became overweight

[@IYHIGJ]

@@jeffbezos4746 🤔🤣

[@chamberlianferreira4578]

That dragging Wagon, get em every time 😆

[@lorremach5759]

Shuler hit the Heartbeat, "I been wit you." Lmao😂

[@ladyindaroom]

Didn’t Duck tell home girl her Truth 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Karamel0719]

It was the spot on Eddie Kane voice for me! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@dreamersunlimited8005]

Only die hards caught that reference! 🤣

[@BettyWhite2171]

Leave A with me for a year and I'll have him looking like B.

[@indiald3373]

Respect from Philly

[@ellingtonprep3726]

Absolutely 💯 💯 💯

[@Pedant_Patrol]

Are you Betty White from Golden Girls?

[@havanna3self420]

FACTS

[@jashanestone]

What if not? You'll leave? Just an honest question from the REAL WORLD.. Because not everyone is going to follow through like this some IG timeliness 👀👀👀 ✅✅✅💯😂😂😂

[@Simplicity_offgriding]

Schuler you can quote "Five heartbeats" all day long but it's "A" for me.

[@HM2FLY]

🧢

[@christopherparrish7037]

It's A, but you sneaking B in as soon as A goes to work.

[@mzsupathik84]

He can lose weight.

[@inspire734]

Damn well right.

[@lanellenglish2423]

Let’s be honest they would pick A and use him and cheat with B.

[@Skylarluvsgymnastics]

La Nell English I wouldn't cheat on him. He can cook his ass off and I love food 🤣

[@macmac4657]

That's exactly what I was thinking

[@stedye]

It often plays out like that !

[@macanthony1982]

instead, they should choose A, then work towards at becoming B together....