As a married woman of 34 years Shuler truer words can’t be said.
@Juspeachy13Ай бұрын
LMFAO I started hollering as soon as Shuler said "Regular-life-having ass". I needed that laugh.
@TMYPiscesSunandMoonRising5548Ай бұрын
Yup 💯
@courtneypalmer53Ай бұрын
Shooooooot....😝😁
@donnah5378Ай бұрын
When I was a child my mom used to try to look pretty for my dad when he got home. My foolish father said she was dressed up because she was having an affair. 😢. Some men just don’t appreciate stuff…smh
@PraiseAlways777Ай бұрын
Oblivious as hell😂😂
@dtyler4307Ай бұрын
Maybe she was having affair u foolish not to think so
@TuRantheManАй бұрын
It’s not all men don’t appreciate, but some men really believe it’s just too too good to be true due to unappreciated women
@dtyler4307Ай бұрын
@@donnah5378 she was definitely having one
@sheneyquamercan1699Ай бұрын
Ikr, he didn't appreciate her.
@adim00lahАй бұрын
Glad you brought this up! Ri has A LOT of help. She probably has a chef, maid, nanny for the kids / house and she has a make up artist, and hair dresser to do her hair as well as a stylist to put together fits for her. The average woman ain't got all that.
@sweetbeloved623Ай бұрын
😊👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@oldmanjesus9855Ай бұрын
Well, the average man doesn't care about all that. Anything you put together that tells us that we're wanted, is enough for us, trust me.
@PraiseAlways777Ай бұрын
HEAR! HEAR!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You're right about it Shuler!!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💕
@sweetbeloved623Ай бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏻
@PraiseAlways777Ай бұрын
Hygiene and grooming will be on point but I most definitely will not be in full makeup glam.
@Corporate_CarolynАй бұрын
As a woman who has been married for 33 years, I realize men are visual, so I like to look good for my husband and for ME! 😂
@Destroyer-Grizzly-BIHАй бұрын
Lol, people do be trying to base their regular lives around everything that celebrities be doing.
@sweetbeloved623Ай бұрын
Yeah, for Shuler speaking the truth, everybody's ways of living aren't the same .👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@EEsmallsАй бұрын
I don't do makeup at all ever, but I do make sure I'm dressed and clean and smelling nice when my man comes home. I may be all day in my jammies doing my house work and whatever, but I make sure I get dressed and brush my hair and get a little spritz of perfume by the time he's coming home. He doesn't ask me to do that, and probably wouldn't care if I didn't, but I like feeling and looking my best for him after a long day at work.
@m.hunter2351Ай бұрын
I agree. And I like that "he doesn't ask". My husband doesn't either but we do that for each other, I do more though ...lol !
@charlenebakayoko2440Ай бұрын
Thank you for reminding these men that our lives are totally different
@misstunes1765Ай бұрын
I approve this message! 'Nough said!
@tamelaculp57Ай бұрын
Thank you for this TED Talk. ☺👍
@lalalama4591Ай бұрын
I love you Shulerking! Thank you for keeping it real.
@mztweety1374Ай бұрын
It’s been 30 years he’s lucky I get dressed at all
@florieriddle1082Ай бұрын
Lol😅
@yvetteokeke257Ай бұрын
Shuler I have loved you from day one but today I stan ❤❤❤
@videoettaceo8900Ай бұрын
Thank you for the PSA! ❤️ 💕
@rubydeeeyesАй бұрын
My mom did this. Not to Rhianna's extent I'm sure, but she would stop what she was doing and go freshen up. Washed face and combed hair at a minimum. And a little spray of perfume. I thought it was kinda cute once I got old enough to understand it. And I think it helped her to flip a switch after a long day. All of sudden she was lighter and brighter.
@Corporate_CarolynАй бұрын
My mother-in-law gave me this advice when I stayed home with my first son, and I’m really glad I decided to listen to her because it is a nice touch just to show that you care. My husband did appreciate it. 🤗
@i.s.winninАй бұрын
Thank you, Shuler. You just spoke a word.❤
@mariabrown8873Ай бұрын
Thank you well said
@elanmackey7892Ай бұрын
Im sure he treats her with the utmost respect so she wants to do that for him!
@mik7564Ай бұрын
I understand where she's coming from. I love to look good for someone I love. You don't have to spend a bunch of money or always buy new things to take care of yourself.
@mdjwalkerАй бұрын
Exactly!!
@Shansia-i6wАй бұрын
Riri is a celebrity, she has to look good for everybody all the time.
@adaada62693Ай бұрын
THANK YOU SHULER!! You getvit and thank you!!!👏🏽👏🏽❤️
@liliagarcia1241Ай бұрын
Not only are you funny but you're also so wise 😊. Thats why i love your videos
@WandaRobinson-hk2pjАй бұрын
PREACH SHULER!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@JoJo.714Ай бұрын
You right! Don’t expect it from over here 😂😂😂
@josna8428Ай бұрын
❤
@anthonytksАй бұрын
Well said 👏
@justjsimoneАй бұрын
Man i be trying but hell these kids won't let me be for more than 3 minutes 😂
@CripleoАй бұрын
Facts.
@Andrea-tx5ucАй бұрын
Nuff said! Thank you for that Schuler! 😂
@karlaheron4766Ай бұрын
Big facts
@amiethompson4443Ай бұрын
Facts on facts
@gapeach14Ай бұрын
The right man makes you feel good about yourself and want to keep yourself looking good. Women submit to men who deserve to be submitted too. 🤷🏽♀️
@KhumboPhiri-qo5jxАй бұрын
Preach man preach AMEN 🙏
@cynthiarodgers3896Ай бұрын
Thanks Sir🙏🏽
@bonniejohnson981Ай бұрын
100% correct!
@kathymccowan973Ай бұрын
Absolutely true!
@clove1471Ай бұрын
MUCH RESPECT 😉 TO HER
@bruceleeroy4258Ай бұрын
Yo the truth has been spoken
@reneelb7Ай бұрын
Facts!!!💯
@barbaracartwright468Ай бұрын
Preach!!!
@hoso2268Ай бұрын
Thank you my brother, thank you, tell those at the back!
@AliciaAfuyeАй бұрын
Preach It Mr. King 🙏...😂
@jaymac7349Ай бұрын
You keep em how you got em
@yishyabyard6898Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 word
@hittrennathompson8286Ай бұрын
kudos🎉😊
@user-np3zc1ps9wАй бұрын
😂 tell em
@DHall_onYTАй бұрын
Rihanna has her own skincare and line of beauty products.
@DatboibpoppinАй бұрын
I want you to have no makeup sweat pants and hair tied. There is beauty in that in my opinion, u don't gotta look "cute" for me all the time. Something about a woman u like or love no matter how they look they still loo good 💯💯
@mareneali4246Ай бұрын
Preach!!!!!!!! 🙏🏽
@tameikasmith2672Ай бұрын
I approve this message....I mean you can get special treatment like this every now and then but not every time you walk through the house... who you think you got... you lucky a woman roll over and give you some at the end of every night.
@Robert-rt4uyАй бұрын
Even when she looks bad ...she looks good.....
@courtneypalmer53Ай бұрын
Rhi-Rhi is a natural beauty. 😊 She does not even have to wear makeup.
@stephanie8202Ай бұрын
What's the big deal? You have non celebrities that do the same for their significant other. 💕
@harlowgreen6916Ай бұрын
That men fine ass hell I would too
@awesomeblossom9401Ай бұрын
Facts
@Monstafy3Ай бұрын
Shuler does not miss, I swear! 😂
@vicanova005Ай бұрын
I’ll start doing what Rihanna is doing when he starts doing for me what ASAP rocky is doing for Rihanna…..mansions, sports cars, jewelry, maids, chefs, etc 😅
@CCP.01Ай бұрын
This was the realist thing I have heard in a while. The same as normal women what their normal **s guy to provide a celebrity lifestyle.
@JanetM05Ай бұрын
No Shuler…..we all can do that… and men need to understand everything we go through I use to look good for my husband when he came home and if there were times when I had a rag around my head…. He best would have understood 😇
@marianaya5824Ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 facts!
@shewhomindsherbusinessАй бұрын
I know regular women who swear by staying pretty at home… especially older women… They still put on perfume in the morning and a little makeup and a nice outfit… at night, it’s a night gown with satin or lace with a feminine robe and slippers… And these women have children and a whole household to run… I really admire women who still want to be girlish even if it’s hard for them to do!!
@ladytamara1503Ай бұрын
A whole household with HELP
@susannpatton2893Ай бұрын
@@shewhomindsherbusiness facts.
@susannpatton2893Ай бұрын
Sleep like a star, spray some of your favorite perfume over the bed before you go to sleep. I swear it's a luxury
@m.hunter2351Ай бұрын
I've been married a long time. I still love to look fabulous for my husband, but also for myself.And if on the days I choose not to do anything, special (happens a lot), I'm comfortable with looking, good!. BTW, those Savage Fenty lounge wear, looks great on him, and me🙂
@eyquionettelatin350Ай бұрын
You better school them😅😂. Thank you for that!
@inmydesiredrealityАй бұрын
It’s Rihanna. All she needs is moisturizer to look good. 🤷🏾♀️
@diesel8878Ай бұрын
They're still regular people they just have more money than most 😅😅😅😅😅😅
@patriciayankaway5565Ай бұрын
What you said!!! Ima give you the good the bad and the damn UGLY hell
@DianeMinani-t7wАй бұрын
Speak on it!!!
@indigoGoddess7Ай бұрын
Its a form of self care and the late Zsa Zsa Gabor said it best: “Any woman who slaps around the house all of the time with grease on her face and curlers in her hair in front of her husband is a dumb woman and so is the husband if he allows it” (men don’t get too comfortable either - still do your best too) Nobody is saying that you have to be run model ready. But be decent, presentable at least well groomed. It shows that you care about yourself and that you’re still trying in the relationship. And for the ladies, just because you’re a mother doesn’t mean that you can’t continue taking time for yourself. You can’t pour from an empty cup and it’s not cool when you’re projecting your insecurities onto other women who do make time.
@MSLIONESS727Ай бұрын
Say it Shu! Lol 🤣
@ericapolanco9379Ай бұрын
😂😂😂why i gotta b regular🤨🤣im definitely not no riri but 25 years later and i still do that once in a while😏
@KahliaMooreLee-LeeАй бұрын
🤍🤍🤍I agree with Rhi-Rhi. But as a single woman, I like to be pretty fuh me! I'm a lipgloss fanatic! The right lipgloss, a fresh ST. Ives Apricot scrub, a part-in-the-middle-ponytail, my favorite (all black) house shirt, & I'm gwoot!🙋🏾♀️💯🤍🤍🤍🤍
@GINABULLOCK-y6wАй бұрын
Amen lol preach
@fontainelebrock345Ай бұрын
A rag on her head and some boy shorts on 😂😂😂😂
@janiceeasley9650Ай бұрын
Tell them 😂
@kaysea8125Ай бұрын
My mom does the same thing for my dad and has for years…LOL…she has it down to a science…he gets off work at this time, etc. LOL! But what I learned over the years is that it wasn’t because he required it…not at all!! It’s just how she wanted to show up. That’s the difference!😉
@SmartTalkViralАй бұрын
Shuler King, I always agree with you. In this case however…I was raised in Zimbabwe. I was raised to always look good for my husband so that he doesn’t think someone else is sexier than me because it’s a partriachy society…my mum be like When he drops you off at work. He should wonder about your day not the woman in his office…when he gets home…house, them kids, mum all did did…I am not saying it’s a good thing or bad thing…but it’s real advise woman to woman in certain societies…when you are married you got to look hot all the time!
@linellecameron3067Ай бұрын
It's a wonderful sentiment, however, those of us not in the same tax bracket might have to chill a day or two here or there. Just remember to keep that flame lit every chance you get.
@pouncy9429 күн бұрын
1:07 to the end 💯💯💯
@RobertSmith-ru1ckАй бұрын
Rihanna is dressed like Little Red Riding Hood and ASAP Rocky is the Big Bad Wolf that's gonna take her cookies.🍪🍑
@DarkKnight-ws3wxАй бұрын
My wife is naturally beautiful so I'm good she can have on just a damn bonnet and I'm happy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@CindySmith8913Ай бұрын
💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣🤣
@AnnointedxxАй бұрын
Yesss no red pill nonsense here 😂❤🎉
@AugustusAsgeirАй бұрын
Single dude here but if I do get inna relationship somehow ( don't see it happening rn / soon, i don't make enough yet & still in school) i wouldn't expect that from a lady. They celebs whole different class of folks
@leeslove1999Ай бұрын
You will never win trying to be a people pleaser , you'll end up being miserable .
@adellamiller6971Ай бұрын
Thank you for saying that Mr King, because these men and women get it twisted, and that's the problem take a nap from the lifestyles of the Rich and famous, expecting me to look like a Barbie doll every time you come in the room,
@starshine7005Ай бұрын
Lol shuler tell it as it is. I would say do things like your self care. It's important to try to invest in yourself. You have to find the balance with your relationship and yourself with the family. Rihanna got money she can look good for ASAP all day long.
@Greatness-k7kАй бұрын
I second that. I met this woman with 2kids and I work 3rd shift so I get the point she thought she supposed be like that when I get off I said girl when do u sleep then taken care of 2 kid😂😂I told her u already beautiful with out that stuff,and besides if she spent time getting pretty who cooking 😂 sidenote when u rich u can spend hours on make-up an hair.
@purplesoul9927Ай бұрын
Too late the negative Nancy's and Nathan's are already commenting 😂😂😂❤
@TheNo1mariahcareyАй бұрын
Never heard of Negative Nathans. I'm taking that one lol 😂
@brendadargan2555Ай бұрын
🤣Okkkkkk🤣
@alee7322Ай бұрын
That isn’t going to hold up. Men don’t try this. Says a woman who has been married 40yrs.
@shake9245Ай бұрын
She should though at least presentable not red carpet ready but damn no bonnets plz she can have a scarf on and still be cute
@michaelcorbin3720Ай бұрын
Facts 😂
@anissamoore4670Ай бұрын
😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭👀😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😭😭😭
@lXxRANSOMxXlАй бұрын
😂😂😂
@anniacopeland8321Ай бұрын
I 100% agree she can do way better
@olliwest7341Ай бұрын
🧢.... Stop giving lazy people a reason to be lazy. Look good for your partner. Period. It doesn't have to be EVERYTIME..... but it should be most
@crystalserrant5915Ай бұрын
😂🫶🏾💯
@monifat2766Ай бұрын
So basically asap lied about not having a nanny
@ohhyeahhbaby1Ай бұрын
He never said he didn’t lol that quote was fake. They definitely have help