Whoever is gonna call Shun toxic is speaking from a place of privilege. First of all: 1) his moves are defensive mechanism : Imagine being a baby or a kid who knows that no one will be there for him, and the only one who is going to protect him in this scary world is himself. Being an orphan is way harder than growing in bad environment.. he was alone in this world.. 2) He must have been surprised that some people fall in love at first sight. That's why he wanted to know if Dai was serious or if it was just a temporary feeling. He wanted to understand why Dai liked him. That's obviously because he never experienced unconditional love. He never experienced being cared for; he was abandoned. That's why, when Dai love-bombed him, he was uncomfortable and wanted space and to be just friends. It’s not his common sense-his common sense is fight or flight. 3) Shun made an incredible effort because, at first, Dai wasn't his type. (I’m pretty sure most of us have a type, and it's hard to give someone who isn't our type a chance.) He didn't want to give Dai hope that he would be with him or interested in him just because Dai had a crush on him. 4) He grew and became better. He was afraid because he knew that when he falls in love, he will fall hard. That's why he was stopping himself from falling in love with Dai, trying to find reasons to prove himself wrong-that he doesn't deserve love and that it was just a phase. That’s why he was testing him. 5) You can tell he is neurodivergent. For example, he gets overwhelmed by noise, which is expected because of where he grew up. Any way let's be kind and an understanding people because we have no right to judge a person we know nothing about him or about the demons in his head especially if that person is aware of his problems and is working on himself to be better 🤍🤍
@TheShipper_PH3 ай бұрын
Amazing words. Thank you for this.❤️❤️❤️
@bntshiabalaskhar37313 ай бұрын
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@valerieseveri56173 ай бұрын
Salut Très bien résumé. Je rajouterai que leur belle histoire est magnifique car shun malgré son passé a su s ouvrir et faire confiance comme quoi on espere tous a un genre de personne mais bien souvent c est l opposé de ton genre qui t attire et pour dai malgré son coup de cœur initial a respecte le choix de shun . Il a pris de la distance ce qui a amené shun à prendre conscience de beaucoup de choses. Résultat la patience, persévérance et l écoute de dai a paye et la prise de confiance et connaissance de shun qui c est métamorphose a donne cette magnifique relation. Bravo les garçons y se complètent à merveille que du bonheur ❤❤😊
@randomperson-kk9gx3 ай бұрын
I 100% agree with you
@lanidelprete77273 ай бұрын
Everything you said you said it all. You are 100% right. Shun was defensive and trying to guard his heart because I can tell through his body language and, his action and what it is in his mind. Because as soon as he will falling in love again he gives everything he got with all his heart ❤. Like in his past. Nothing wrong to be defensive and guarding your heart for being hurt again. When he is telling his story about his past relationship to Dai it was very toxic, I can tell because of his tears in his eyes and being an orphan that is really hard. So that time Dai he started to developed his feelings to him. If I can read Dai mind saying, don’t worry Shun I will take care of you, I will give you all the love that you never have . I will comfort you, I will shelter you. I am glad and I am happy that Dai chooses to be with him. All my best wishes to both of them and wish that their relationship live happily ever after forever and ever.❤❤ The key to a successful relationship and marriage are,communications, honesty,understanding,trust, respect and compromise. And you have to have always being romantic,affectionate,intimacy and passionate to each other. that’s all I can say.😊❤ Good luck to both of you.🙏
@Malrinka3 ай бұрын
Шун-милейшее создание по внешнему виду! Но Дай - лучший мужчина по своему характеру и стойкости)Поэтому желаю терпение Даю и спокойствие Шуну
@stanlleystanlley4415Ай бұрын
❤❤❤💯💯💯👌👌👌🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥Very nice and cute boys. OMG love ❤
@JustLove51583 ай бұрын
Happines cant lie ,love you both,,❤❤❤❤❤
@NashibaGunting-j2b3 ай бұрын
Shun choose dai ep1 until ep10 a lot of up side down but still they choose each other until now ❤❤❤ vice versa dai also choose shun since EP1-10
@radhika-il1vf3 ай бұрын
Love you shundai
@lourdesnunes57572 ай бұрын
Shun e o homem mais lindo Daí parece o menino são muito lindo os dois eu amo esses meninos lindos shun ele é homem maravilhoso Daí é criança muito fofo sejam muito felizes fiquem bem velhinho juntos ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@kuroneko70222 ай бұрын
Shun sure did control things. I felt so sorry for Dai, he was trying so hard to please Shun. I don’t know what he did so awful to make Shun behave like that towards him. I would have quit right then and there calling me, “that person” instead of my name! Ridiculous!
@ЛюбовьЩербак-ж4б2 ай бұрын
Похоже у Шуна что то произошло нехорошее для него в прошлых отношениях. Даю терпения.
@ioanamirunacibiBLlover3 ай бұрын
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@leilinhamimi2 ай бұрын
Acho que o relacionamento deles foi incrível, eles se completavam. Shun com a sua insegurança, por diversos motivos e Dai com a sua persistência. No final, o amor venceu. Uma personalidade importantíssima na casa, na minha opinião, foi o Alan queridíssimo. Uma pessoa leal, amiga e determinada. Amei os três!❤❤❤
@sueli9842 ай бұрын
Sim, concordo e também encaixou o Taeheon aí eu poderia colocar todos mais está duas pessoas foi essencial na hora na hora do sorriso pra mim foi assim!
@sueli9842 ай бұрын
DaiShun ❤ te amo muito é que Deus abençoe sempre
@sueli9842 ай бұрын
Eles nasceram pra ficar juntos ir foi através do reality show o namorado que o pude ver dois homens lindos e apaixonado e deu um trabalho até chorei pelos dois mas valeu há pena e vale apena DaiShun 🇧🇷❤️ te amo muito
@arlenerocha19233 ай бұрын
Fofos perfeitos
@Elsa5213 ай бұрын
Did you delete you previous two videos?
@TheShipper_PH3 ай бұрын
Actually it's 3 with a lot of views. Due to multiple copyright claims from songs owner 😞. I have a copy here in my phone.
@Elsa5213 ай бұрын
Oh, feel sad for you😢 I was looking for your videos as I liked them❤
@Caty_83 ай бұрын
Whose idea was it to crash Shun and Dai’s time on the coffee truck? Don’t tell me it was the Ikuo? Ryota was a better than him 😃at least he understood boundaries. Love isn’t a game of chess ikuo!
@mariadasdorescarvalho61272 ай бұрын
Nossa ñ tem opção de legenda no meu caso ñ vou curtir e nem escrever ñ entendo nada bay bay