Siab Phem Thiaj Tsis Tau Zoo Siab Puag~03/13/2023~

Hmong Sad Story: The story of a handicapped woman and what she goes thru with her husband, After her passing, things get worse for her husband.

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

This abuse should have been reported. Anyone that knows about it but didn't raise a hand to do anything is responsible for the abuse of this mother, aunt and mother-in-law.

[@pavue1992]

Shame on everyone who knew what was going on but did nothing to help her out of that house, especially her kids. And that guy deserved that ending. The 2nd wife will meet karma one day too.

[@leejmuam1]

So sad. All your life, your savings, your hard works, one day when you die or is in a condition like this lady, your spouse will give to another person. The betrayal is too painful.

[@seechang7321]

Wow y’all could’ve save her from being abuse by the husband but you guys didn’t. You guys are horrible. Especially the kids don’t even come check up on their own mother Smfh.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

Yes it Hmong people. They only like to talk but don’t want to help

[@nkaujntsuab3594]

Cas yuav pab tu siab ua luaj li os 😢

[@mayas08]

Why didn't anybody report the abuse? That's what's wrong with this story. The husband and the caretaker should have been in jail. Everyone in this story, including the person sharing the story, just stood by and watched her suffer literally to death... So F**kup...

[@thaoloreena]

This story made me so mad! No one helped this auntie when she was neglected. She was hurting and she was suffering…

[@jadeyonthao5789]

Here in Merica, it's the responsibility of everyone to report abuse. But instead of reporting, saving your face and not being burden by your Auntie is more important. You all failed to protect her. That's truly sad!

[@user-vb9xw7rt3k]

Agree 💯

[@ShouaTojsiab]

You all should’ve reported them for neglect while you’re aunt was still alive. I hope your aunt haunts him til the end. So sad.

[@_MS_X]

Why even tell your story when you didn't do anything to help your poor aunt?!? You saw the condition that she was in and you didn't even bother to report it!!!! Why??? But yet you yelled at the DIL who they didn't even like. Ruam ua luaj li os! You could've saved your aunt from living that miserable life!

[@kouxiong143]

So sad. People always think, "Oh, it's not my place or not my business" and they don't get help 😒 If you see or feel something is wrong or not right, you need to speak up. Shame on her kids. They have failed their mom.

[@mosmimtsimuajxeem318]

Cas es zaj neej neeg no piav tau chim siab ua luaj li nas..tsi muaj ib tug neeg care or stand up rau tus me phauj no li nas...not even you or her children....nim coj lo piav rau neeg Mloog tabsi koj twb tsi hlub koj tus phauj li thiab nes...

[@evabhmongocadventure9831]

This niece should call the social worker to report the abuse.

[@hmoobxwb7119]

Txivneej Hmoob siabPhem heev

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

This story makes my blood boil!!! Why are all of you so ruam ruam na?!!! She was so helpless and asked you for help, but all of you failed her!!! Karma to all of you that didn't care for her!!! 😭

[@mayas08]

agree 👍

[@BUTTERFLY75ful]

Oh wow, I agreed with you. All of you guys failed your auntie!! I am super angry about this story!!

[@ellysavaj5656]

Frankly I’d feel too guilty and too ashamed to tell this story if I was you. This poor woman must’ve gone through hell.

[@perrfectlee1775]

Siab phem thiag2 li os.. txiv neej thaum yuav tuag poj Niam thiaj hlub thiaj zov xwb txog yua ces lawd yuav tus tshiab tsi ncaj ncees rau cov poj Niam …😢😢😢😢

[@denamoua7262]

Everyone has a responsible for reporting abuse.the niece and the daughter inlaw

[@MsBliaYang]

You reap what you sow

[@sombunman5551]

Tus mob zoo li no tsis muaj neeg hlub li os tu siab kawg , ua siab tuag mus zoo dua os lawv aw ! Txaus hlub hwv ....

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

So sad. 😥 I'm happy the husband and 2nd wife got served.

[@genuanneli]

What an evil husband!! The niece and all children in this story are equally evil to have neglected the poor mothers' struggle to get help.

[@Zeb1245]

Why didn’t you and the ppl that saw her being soiled and neglected report to social services?! Shame on you guys!

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

It’s Hmong people. They don’t want to report because it will be the person who report fault

[@MissLuvleeshadow]

Because Hmong people don’t want the backlash

[@greentortoise4629]

Some Hmong people don’t know how to report it. Also Hmong People love drama and cursing others. So, sometimes the non dramatic people stay away.

[@xayxiong1061]

Exactly! If you loved her like you claimed.

[@maimoua1371]

Coz hmong people scared loose face then the suffering elderly . too sad

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

You know lady, you are a woman and a wife too. you don't even stick up for your aunt til the very end. You should have protected her and speak up to your uncle because the jewelry are still hers rather she is handicapp or not.

[@Lotus-og6if]

Blame the kids, they are so cruel to not even check up on their own birth mother and allow an outsider and their dad to abuse their mother in her most vulnerable state. It’s a waste having kids when she has to go through so much abuse and cruelty prior to dying. It’s stupid to put the responsibility on the daughter in law when the woman’s own birth son does not care. But she seems to trust her husband more by only allowing him and her to have access to their valuables and so that’s what happens. Lots of mistrust and lack of responsibility in the family.

[@chaituaher724]

Paab tu sab kawg. Ua caag es thaum has hab cawm 1 tug txuj sa ho tsi has es nub nua ho has es koj xaav tas koj yog tug zoo es lam tas luas yog tug phem nua lov, koj los yeej phem 1 yaam le yawg laus hab mas. From now on 'Hmong should learn to report to authority' ..

[@xeeyang5867]

Npam tiag2 li hog, thaum luag nyob saib g taus u tus mi zoo niam tsev ces luag hais li cas luag tuag lub cev xwb lub chim g tuag bawj

[@denamoua7262]

Yuav npam tus husband thiab gf

[@blongyang690]

Co hau los yog ncaw hau naj. Co hau yog tsis kam ho ncaw hau mas thiaj yog kom ua lis.

[@nancyvang2126]

It's a very sad story, the husband deserved to be curse...

[@pasaiy.8578]

This is so sad. YOU should have reported elderly abuse. YOU should have taken the gold and jewelry back and given it to her children and not let the witch have it. HMONG PEOPLE, don't turn a blind eye, speak up!

[@maylovang1880]

Haub yaub ua cas yuav ua tau raug siab ua luaj li os. Cov neeg siab phem li no c4s nyuam qhuav ntxim ntag lau hihihihi

[@ka_sailor672]

I feel so sad for this auntie why her kids don't help her any. Omg 😲

[@alexthao4118]

Karma will get the husband and the new wife

[@Thao22]

I get really upset when people/PCAs cheat on the system like this. Annoying!!

[@xayxiong1061]

Karma is real for evil doers like the txiv dev and maum dev no!

[@LymeeCha]

So no one even cared enough to report it? Smfh, she would've been better off in a nursing or assisted living home.

[@5tuglis573]

How sad......no one came to help her.

[@redangel3937]

Disappointed in you as a friend. You were supposed to be the voice for her but you choose to listen to her husband instead and continue to brush everything to the side.. everyone including her own kids let her suffered.. he turned the car to protect himself and let her suffer. Very tragic and very sad for her. May she rest in peace now. No more suffering.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

That's a pretty skirt and necklace, Mab.

[@missysmart8620]

Damn this thaub laus no. I hope tus mes niam tais no not only come after him and his current girlfriend/wife no but to every wife he married to kom nws tsis taus ib lub neej uas li. I bet if the table was turn, him and his people would expect for his wife to comit 100% to him. Tus siab heev lios 😢😢😢.

[@hlubyang4072]

Koj tu phauj mas xyuas tau lo siav tshaj plaws....ua neej nyob siab phem tsis tos kom luag tuag es thaum luag tuag ua dab mam lo tsim thiaj li pov khawv

[@cal3243]

I would still report them to the county for fraudulent regardless if she did just pass. The children didn’t love the mom and no one did. The husband and his new wife will rot in hell. Why wouldn’t anyone put a hidden camera in the home? You always know a man or woman can’t love a disabled person when money is involved. May she rest in peace. I’m sure husband and new wife killed her not she committed suicide.

[@Fromspam09]

So sad! Someone should have reported this. You all failed her as family and friends.

[@charlesher.9508]

Yog vim li cas yus los yog poj niam ib yam es g hlub luag tus niam yuav rua muag los yuav kiag g tas li tseem los siv niam loj cov saw kub nws tej khoom niam yau yeej g muaj cai los siv yog hnub twg nws tuag lm los tsuas muaj nws cov me nyuam thiaj siv tau cov khoom ntawv xwb. Nej ua rau nws mob siab tiag2 tsim nyog los pauj kev ntsib siab kawg nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb siab phem ob tug no .😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅

[@colleenchan9872]

Oh yog siab phem npaum no mas yog twb mus li koj tus phauj no mas yog kuv ntshe kuv tseem tsim tshaj no os kuv mas ntshe yuav muab nws niag kwv rho hos muab nws niag pojniam rho siav xwb lau!..

[@angie-gz4yg]

everyone failed her. she was being neglected.

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

This is why I say, we shouldn't fully invest and love our husband because the moment you are like this auntie, they go and get a new woman to replace you like nothing. We should love ourself more then our husband. I agree you guys should have reported abuse, who cares about tu siab.

[@Loves_GodSR]

Oh this poor aunty. She was neglected. Her husband deserves to be haunted by her. So mean.

[@ncohluasnkauj8581]

I wonder is there any story stories at the weed place.

[@msmaix808]

Omg! Idk but boil up. It seems like your aunt's husband has a lot of secrets! He probably secretly dated the other woman for some time. There's no way she would just pop out of nowhere if they didn't keep in touch since the garden trip. Your aunt's accident is probably a foul play, and her husband is glad that she can't talk anymore. You must be slow! She told you things because she trusted you. Not so you go tell her husband. So sad for your aunt! Whatever her husband is doing is called abuse and neglect. Smh!

[@yangthao5242]

Please, what's wrong is wrong. Do something!!! Get the relatives, call HR, call the police; a person is in dire need, and they deserved real care and justice. And please see the disabled and the unfortunate. They have the same right as you and have all the same feelings of a person. Understand that their life is harder, and they need your compassion and empathy. Allow them to have the same integrity and dignity under their special challenges. Don't brush off your civic duties to some unknown, potentially justifiable, curse. It isn't true. If it was true, then there wouldn't be any "White" people left in this country for what they did to the "Blacks" in the slavery institution. Or, there wouldn't be any men left for what they have done to others. Just think, if one person passes and comes back to take just ten that was mean to them, and another and another does the same...well, you get the picture - no more human in a very short time. No curses, just do your humane responsibility and help you own kind to survive.

[@chouxiong206]

Neeg siab phem xav2 tau $ thiab tau qau cas ho tsis ua zoo tu hos yeej tim nej niag yawg laus dev thiab tus poj niam yus 1 txwm yuav yus ho tsis xav tu maj2 mus coj tais qub kua txob los quj rau luag saib ces ham tsis mob siab xwb mos yeej tim nej thiab twb paub tias 2 niag ntawv siab phem xwb los ho tsis report

[@maryly09]

Every one of you failed her.

[@saalienahvajj5506]

So sad she cried to you about her jewelry being gone and you just tell her it’s ok cus she can’t wear it no more?? Shame on all u guys 😢

[@michaelthao3858]

The law says you can’t tie a person no matter what This is abuse please people help report abuse to authorities You don’t have to tell them your name

[@kaxiong957]

You should of report the abuse to the police.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Why when hmoob elders need care, hmoob people go to the nyabs? The sons and daughters don’t even concern to care for their own mother/father, but they themselves and relatives guilt tripping that it’s the nyabs’ responsibilities. HO! That’s just ridiculously BS.

[@KMH0078]

Your pauj was being neglected and physically abused. But no one cared to look into her welfare. What a shame!!! Her husband was obviously having an affair with the supposed “care taker”.

[@Lh_76]

It is not possible to npo pa tuag she probably aspirated when they force fed her. They probably caused her to die.

[@amazinggrace8136]

She just can’t speak, otherwise she seems like she still there, why is everyone acting like they don’t know what she is saying with all that hand gestures.

[@kaylauj]

I'm so piss off at this story. You all failed her.

[@yeebntshachannel9254]

Koj Siab phem dhau lawm os Cas tsis CIA koj yog Tus raug tuag tes tuag taw es CIA NWS mus yuav ib tug txiv yau Los muab koj Cov teej Tug rau Tus txiv yau os, txawm yuav tuag tes tuag taw tas Los txhob muab NWS teej NWS tug rau tus Niam yau li koj muab rau koj Tus Niam yau li koj nawb, qhov NWS tuag los ntshe Twb yog neb muab NWS Tua xwb thiaj li tuag sai npaum li ko nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb txawm yuav Thov npaum li Cas los yeej tsis Tau li yuav tsum tsis pub neb Tau lub neej zoo ua kiag li os 🙏🙏

[@PhoHmooAmerica]

Very evil dude

[@kellyxiong8739]

Everyone, including you failed to report her abused. You're dumb for lecturing their DIL. She isn't their favorite. She can only do so much. You should have reported if you claimed as much as you loved her. All talk but no do.

[@boakuolor6662]

U witness abuse and did nothing