PART 2 of 3: Things Wives Wish Their Husbands Knew | New Makoti Edition

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[@sibahlekhumalo]

I agree with Siba , times have changed and it’s up to our husband to educate their parents because they don’t understand that helping your wife is a sign of love .

[@kuhlemndabe]

These are actually really serious and tough conversations. We are the generation that needs to change the status quo. That is not going to happen if our husbands are still scared or overly considerate of what the audience is going say. Both sides are valid and give rise for a need to have a common ground. We can agree that both parties will have to compromise at some point. Siba came in hard and I loved that.

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

True that.. will have to compromise ❤

[@ambeswamazwi3397]

Mandikuncede sis Siba, they need to show abazali ba "lomfazi elapha nje ndyamthanda ngoko ke fnek ndimncedise umntwana womntu angafi ngumsebenzi ndkhona as myeni wakhe". Thes someone I know he used to say "hay udiniwe ngoku masiyophumla" or uba uyolala ngeloxesha akazomshiya umkakhe. Abantu abangobhuti must not wait for abazali for approval yoba nyhani ungumfazi you can do everything awuyontsimbi.

[@namhlanamhla3981]

Sana uSbari is effortlessly funny 😂😂😂

[@nokwezitukwayo2813]

You are one of KZbin couple that i watch their videos without pause,bcz you are giving me what i want to watch.Thank you very much❤❤😂😂😂

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

We also thank you for this kind of support ❤❤❤

[@naturalhairtee]

You both are very reasonable people. May you remain united

[@sinoxolohashe7531]

I agree with Siba sana we need a changed mentality and way of doing things. I have always felt like amadoda ekhayeni can and should do better. Kancinci, let's do things differently for happy homes where we love and take care of each other and help each other out.

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

❤❤❤

[@abuleledyosi276]

I am new but sana I like the fact that anizenzisi you just your selves. As for u Sbari 👌 hayi yi Dyan sana

[@naturalhairtee]

I agree with Siba. Times have changed, we need to learn and unlearn somethings. Compromising, also very important.

[@zandilenondabula5372]

VERY TRUE!!! My husband introduced that in the 1st year we got married where he prepared dinner and served us all from uTatazala uyotsho koMncinci. Wes it was just a normal day akhange kuyiwe ndawo, ibizeza daily activities nje zasekhayeni wathi "Mkam kuzopheka mna isupper today" Haike wonke umntu was impressed with his cooking, kuthwa "kuvuya mna uphekelwayo Tatazala wakho must learn a thing or 2" LOL!

[@sanelisemgijima945]

Usis'Uyazi: "I am your wife!I am your wife! I am not your mfethu.". Gxininisa apho wena Siba😂😂❤❤❤ Makakuncedise nangoku!

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Loud and clear

[@nosiphiwomtembu]

My uncle used to not recognise his wife in front of the family and abantu belali. As a family we used to be confused, in fact he was told that was pure disrespect, if he was not ready to be married he shouldn’t have, because he was allowing people outside their marriage to have a say!

[@sinovuyoceenor9166]

Ngoku ndandiyalwa , uTatazala wayala nomyeni . .He told him ngoku utshatile xa ehamba uxelela mna, and akuhanjwa kutshone ilanga ngoku unomfazi .

[@lawukazintshanga4990]

No matter what, the husband should be visible and protect the wife. Gone are the days when the wife should work from the morning until night. What happens when you are not there 😕

[@ayandakhomo4244]

sis Uyaz being stern and standing on business !! I love it and totally agree with your points

[@limiselimise2136]

Soze akuxelele inyani usibari ubaleka elagama lithi nguvangomfazi

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Hahaha I agreee sana

[@avusiwejim4643]

Usbari is 100% a Xhosa dyani..... 😂😂😂

[@zikhonafeni6135]

Ewe yooh 😅

[@oliviamanamela3051]

We need part 3 where you come with a common denominator

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

😂😂😂 definitely coming after few holidays

[@oliviamanamela3051]

These videos are solving alot of problems 😂😂

[@mamawegirlz4309]

"Mama's boy"🤣🤣🤣

[@yivalwana9048]

Nizawgoduka nedwa shme Mr Tyesi nibhide umtyholi kahle

[@sibabalwesilanda5395]

😅😂🤣yhuuu andayihleka🤭

[@Jane_R_CH]

We need a safe space kwiLve for this topic 😅. I feel validated by the points you raised Siba

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

❤❤❤ heard you loud and clear sana sizofindisana

[@lindelihlentsele5441]

I agree with Siba especially if we always help each other in our house, why act differently when we are away?! Let's continue doing what we are used to❤❤❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Tjoo hayi iyajika pha emakhaya sana

[@mntunanizandiswa1411]

sana i love th way akuthethelela ngayo , injalo makungashiywana emcimbini

[@zeendlovu9641]

Uqinisile usbali kokunye they are trying to protect us ngoba kuzothiwa siba dlisile

[@lundikazimatinise8162]

Yhoo umcimbi wotyiswa kwaBayeni emakhaya ...akukho buConsiderate pha once umntu amcingele unkosikazi wakhe setyisiwe. Indeed mele sibabonise abantu abadala that we are a different generation and of course we will differ from how they Think and Do things. Love this content❤

[@zimkhithamyeki1997]

Lets watch Ads guys plss❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Thank you❤❤❤❤❤

[@user-ue7rk5rx4v]

Ooh ooh temu, iam watching the ad

[@yourgirl_oni]

yes nam mama bendifuna ukutsho, I think the best way to to genuinely show our love and support noko kuba sizibukele i'ads❤

[@paballopule9929]

You guys are touching very real conversations, we really can't go through what our mother's went through! Even if we dont see immediate changes but just having the conversations is half the battle won, siyabulela Siba❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

I agree… you welcome ❤

[@amandabolisi8320]

"Mama's man"😭🤣

[@simamkelencapayi5457]

😂😂😂ndiyihlekile ke le iPart

[@myladyb169]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@lulamagodongwana935]

Yhooo Uyazi,,,sbari is justifying everything 😅😅😅

[@yivalwana9048]

Oh mntasekaya ababayenii wetu masthandaze ngabo kakulu ngat bathandwa sithi sedwa kakulu singookoti

[@PhelokaziMbhukuqu]

My favourite people 😍❤️❤️umzi obiyelwe ngu thixo unje. May God continue kesana 😊

[@ziphiwodlabantu3935]

Ayiqhelekanga into yomyeni owenza it ekhayeni ayihambise abe umakoti ehleli phantsi😅.Hayi andiyiva lo point.I agree with Mr Tyesi

[@user-yw2bk4fr2c]

Molweni emacwerheni Siyonwaba nani bethuna❤

[@nosiphositeto6917]

Ndivumela no sbali kula point yoncediswa siba klk ezilalini Kuya respect(wa) and kukho abantu abadala abasoloko befika oko so imagine xa kungena umntu wakulomzi wena uhleli usbali esenza itea akuzuthethwa ngawe kothethwa nge family as a whole

[@ncebakazindikandika8777]

Xa enokwenza itea ube wena uhleli phantsi kungathiwa umgqibile🤣and xa ezama ucacisa kowabo uba in this day and age kuyancediswana kungaqala dislikes from in laws to umakoti ngoba bazothi liyeza kwa eli lithetha lonto😂😂 emzini ziqala kancinci iingxaki hence fneka wenze ngohlobo lwabo ekuthwa kwenziwa ngalo as long as it doesn't affect your health.. Enjoyed this vid thank you bantase❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Hahaha akanokwaz nocacisa😂😂😂

[@AyishaMatyo]

Why do you want to act single when you're at home? My answer as someone's sister in law, we want to know you as our sister/brother. I want my in laws to ask us question and for help from me too because you're our sister/brother and you're now my parents' child. It's nice ukunibona ngihleli nabanye nixoxa and comfortable.

[@thandiswamazokwana1019]

Thankx family we learn alot frm both episode,these are things we don't sit down and talk abt as married couples.wow bayasilibala xa bekumakwabo 🎉🎉❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Thanks for watching .. asi exist sana

[@Zeeiconoclastic]

Great conversation, nobabini nizibeke kakuhle iiconcerns zenu. Enkosini❤I am looking forward to more of such conversations. I am not a new makoti but I have observed all these things you guys addressed.

[@cebekhulusinenhlanhla6731]

Siyabonga booo hope abantu bazwile keh.most important thing asibambane as couples and try to figure things together cause owethu umshado not abantu,abantu bayohlezi bekhuluma nje.into ebalulekile for both partners to be happy ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Am with you there.. bazobe bengek xasekonakele

[@cebekhulusinenhlanhla6731]

Iqiniso keh ngalapho sisi

[@bomkazizuma6397]

Thank you so much for the vlog, is was so insightful

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@Lindy_Mthembu]

Loool sis Uyazi u didn’t come to play with 😂😂😂😂

[@thando_t1723]

5:46 I hear u Sbari😂😭❤️forever his answers

[@vivijewulani7847]

Baba ngaba ntwana nyani amadoda xabe semakwabo 😊

[@senelwaJolakaziNogenga]

Yhoo nyanisile cc Siba cz the reason why kuthwa badlisiwe its bcz they rarely take care yokusincedisa but the more they do it that's when our elders will be slowly realising ukuthi yenye yendlela zokusinakekela cz surely umntu odlisiwe noncedisa ngothando kuzoba ne difference

[@nonkumbulomnyaka1939]

Sbari is bringing dyan vibes ‘sininika iiponts😆..’ Yhoo

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Too much

[@nasiphiflatela5466]

Can you believe I’m catching up on every video I missed🤣❤️

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Welcome back!🥰🥰

[@ntombokhanyomadara8286]

Sana i Agree with Siba i remember umazala wam elapha ekapa umyeni endincedisa kwiWashing yhooo wambuza ukuba Haybo wamncedisa u Linomtha utheni uyagula, haybooo ndikuxelela mna sana akazange aphinde andincedise

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Tjooooo uyabona kengok into ezinjalo

[@mercymsezeni838]

I wish uMamaZala respected how you run your house. Akukhali esakhe iscathulo endlini yenu.

[@drawingwithayola9090]

"Sukundirhawula phambi kwamanye amadoda" hamba Sbali😂😂

[@thobelakwinana3994]

🤣🤣

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Tjo hayi sana

[@kungekahala2586]

Makenze SMS ethi ungandiboni ndingekho sibiziwe ekuthini ndizodlula ngawe or ube uhamba xa ugqibile or abize umntana if isms ayihambi makachaze kodwa

[@deborahnabukenya3070]

My favorite u tube couple ❤❤

[@Pamish_Pamela]

U sbari is a younger version of my husband sana unempendulo yento yonke ubucinga uyakhalaza Siba uzoba ne come back sana akucacisele ude nawe uqonde ja sure unyanisile umyeni wam 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sinazogusha7224]

Wouw sana if awumxeleli infront of umamake ba haibo buti zenzele ndibusy, cause nawe kaloku ungumntana omnye umzi chi, kutiwe ulambile umntanam, tgat time wena kange utye, chini akamdala umntana wouw

[@seipatimatli4405]

😂😂😂nika i-points. Cinga fast lechap

[@sinovuyomaxengana9082]

😂😂 “Ndiyohlala nomama mna?” Nguban kanti umntu ekufuneka ehleli nomama ? Mr Tyesi is effortlessly funny.

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

😂😂😂😂 ndim kucacile

[@kimkaytsulo703]

sisi uyazi 😂😂😂😂 imakoti uya phitizela xa efika emzini you cant expect him to make his own coffee

[@themebekelemaseko]

I'm happy to be hear ❤ngiyakuthanda Sthandwa keep on making us happy with your content

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Thank you, I will try my best♥️

[@AMZ_Manda]

You have represented us well mntase.

[@NoluvoBaba]

😂😂😂 And sana babango mama'sboy nyani

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Hahaha mama’s man you mean😂😂

[@NolubabaloCiko]

Yes Siba you need to standby me, and show them that she need assistance. She gets tired too.

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

❤❤ injalo

[@sinontyinks7341]

I understand u sbarr sana and Sis Uyazi I’m sure uyayazi indlela that men who assist their wives being judged ezilalin for assisting their wives showing love but abantu will say something about you as a wife and ezozinto azino hlala kamnandi xazifika kuwe

[@siphozwelibanzi5109]

Yhooo sbari uyakwazi ukuphendula😂😂.. big up 🎉

[@Mrs_ZethuN]

Unyanisile MaDlomo, ngelinye ixesha abayeni bethu abasimeli ngexesha isenzeka ngayo iconflict. Basibamba ecaleni mhlawumbi xa siyolala ube wena ubufuna akumele ngela xesha ibisenzeka ingxabano.

[@Sibongile_Twani-Njiva]

Sana I see myself ku Siba😂 mandihoywe bethuna ndingumtshakazi

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Please sana

[@ziphiwodlabantu3935]

Sundirhawula😂😂😂.I agree and like that

[@noxolomenziwe5238]

Good I must take care of u ndiku brush noku brush apha endlin mane ndibuza lovey u ryt❤❤apha phambi komazala 😂

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Deep down ndifuna ukwenza lonto

[@kamvagetyengana805]

I swear yeyase Tsomo Cofimvaba lendoda... Nam ndinelolishwa lendoda yangaphaya.... Heeey ziziXosana but sobasathini... Ndiyakuva mna Siba

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

NgowaseCofimvaba😂

[@YanelisaNongena]

Ndakhe ndahlatyelwa uba umyenam evuke wahlamba izihlangu (sneakers) zam, nezakhe nezomntwana wethu. Zange ndimcele phofu. Kwathwa yhooo umenza lento nalapho basuka khona, mind you the previous day mna ndandivuke ndaxikixa zethu. My husband was helping me out nezihlangu.

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Tjooo hayi kodwa sana

[@kungekahala2586]

Banose bahlebe darly mna ndenza iwashing if kunethile kube kunodaka dibanisa zonke izihlangu uhlambe tatabo yiba nepicture yam ndihlamba amaquza wakhe ngenxa yoba ndoyika uhletywa

[@nwabisaseptember4243]

Another thing husband need to know kukuba we all work the whole year, then go home December and makoti still works so hard no time for ukuphumla and January you have to go back to work and you are expected to come back fresh. Couples need to plan on their December holidays to have time to come back early so the wife can also get a little bit time to relax before going back to work please yhoo

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

That point right there👌🏾👌🏾

[@user-sc1je1nt4y]

This is very important, we work the whole year, nathi we need to rest. Let's split the leave days in half. If it's two weeks, one week with the in laws, the other week at your house or where ever you have booked.

[@keat73]

“Mama ‘s man” 😂😂😂

[@mercymsezeni838]

What a valid point ❤.

[@Thulare_Ramokgopa]

Aiii our brother in-law….😂🤣🤣 I enjoyed watching🤍🤍

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Glad you enjoyed❤️

[@Indlovukazi_g]

Mna xeim i agree with uAbri xeim. And i believe we need part 3 apho u Sbari explains further eza points zakhe. Ngoba ngoku kule video akafumenanga enough time to. Explain and ucacisa kakuhle❤❤

[@sinazogusha7224]

Bawo I have a lot to say yazi about this but let me watch 3rd episode, osbari need to do it kuqala kukomawabo pa, nyhani if bona they don't start sobe ipele lento tu, chini kube nzima umntu utyisa usana lwake ngoku xa ekokwabo njani,

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Tjooo mntase soze iphele sana

[@wendyncobo1915]

Mna shem ndiyamthansa u Sbari. First video we laughed and and and, but this come back is very necessary, why am i saying so, is because ezizinto ziyenzeka emakhaya. Ndiyavumelana no Siba because ngoku ngu 2024/2025 going forward izinto zitshintshile. And awutyiswanga ngokuncedisa. Awutsalwa ngempumlo, awuso siyoyoyo. AND YES USEYINDODA akuzotshintsha.

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

And soze kuntshintshe😂😂

[@BRAOZA]

Me and my fiance ❤ love your vids ❤ we get ideas on how to maintain a soft and comfortable relationship so from me and my fiance we say Thank you for expressing how a marriage should be handled ❤❤❤🎉 keep it up don't stop 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

❤❤❤ siyabulela thank you❤

[@KhanyiswaKhanyiswa-oc9uj]

😂😂😂😂hayi jonga u Sbali wethu sana uyayifuna le homework please make part 3

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

😂😂😂

[@ZiziphoMbangi]

😂😂ndith ku Myenam makabukele 😂😂akasayigxininisi le ndawo ka sbari athi kothwa sidlisiwe

[@thandazadase9922]

Siyamfuna upart3 if its possible.... im happy yimpendulo kaSbari kulapart yokuba angasteppa in xa ebona ukuba noko lo umbuzo angamphendulela kungazukuthiwa urude umakoti❤❤❤❤❤

[@sphiwesimelane4719]

❤❤Sisi Uyazi naSbari natsi laSwatini siyanitsandza🇸🇿

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

❤️❤️❤️ thank you mntase.. siyakutsandza nathi🥰

[@tabelamaliwa8935]

Yhoo Siba ndakhe ndathi ndipaint pha emzinam umyeni wam livila ke ukholwa kuqesha umamazala uthi kum ndipheke ndave ndathi yi turn yomyeni wam. Wathi hayibo uyapheka naye ndathi yhoo mama akho nge 70s ngoku ndidiniwe nam

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Tjoooo bingase ndibone reaction😂

[@MissWheels]

Amadoda sana azosgqagqanisela😂😂😂😂😂 First question seyekuqhatha, ungabiza abantu wenze utsiki kanti usabhida umtyoli???? Like uyaziwa yilali uba uchatile so why bhida the mtyol? Ndisaqhubeleka nokumamamela.....

[@taniaduba8235]

Siba cela QnA of Scenarios ezenzekayo ezilalini or emzini and then you and USbari can respond to how you want the matter to be dealt with by your spouse

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Yheee I love this idea🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 this could be part 3

[@Yamza_kaMbali]

😂😂😂 Yhuuuu oko ndihleka buya Sbari buya...

[@siphumlesiphumle5702]

But Communication is very important because awukwaz ubenamandla ekuxheleni but xa ubuya uleli plati atleast help to show that niyancedisana❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

I agree❤❤

[@Kuhle_96]

My man used to say akanoma nam entla kukho omamakhe, ewe xasiskbabini ndizakuncedisa ndiyamva uSbari kule first point

[@andisiwemasiza8306]

Sowunento efunek ndizazi ufika😂😂😂. Subanje sbari

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

🤣🤣🤣

[@Zamaqwathintaka]

I love Sbali's answers ....❤❤

[@nwabisapbodlo3246]

Yesssss!!!! Perfect points!

[@xolelwabucwa2899]

Part 3 plz❤

[@siwemaphasa5921]

You guys are so kind❤

[@Maasi_sistern]

To more weekly long videos please I love your authentic content 🎉 😅❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

🥂🥂 to that

[@vuyokazimagoloza8405]

Mama's man😂😂😂😂

[@AviweAmadlomo]

Kwa Tyesi. Been waiting ❤

[@Zia-Ngolo]

Yhuu Siba undim Sana mandicheckishwe every now and then umntu xandikowabo even though I'm not married.And mandincediswe😅 We love you guys❤

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

😅😅

[@ZintleSodlamba]

I enjoyed from beginning to end😂🤗❤️

[@seiighmbusi]

Sisi😊😂Hayi unoMyeni shame yhoo☺️😂❤️❤️❤️love you guys so much🤗❤️

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Thank you mntase❤❤

[@sithabisomthethwa7383]

Mama's man 😂😂😂😂😂 I die

[@sizekasizeka5596]

Bayafuna uthandwa xa besemakhaya, kodwa bona abafuni ukusithanda bona xa sisemakhaya ..yey abaBhuti

[@phumelelenomcebobiancadlam6724]

Hello Siba 😊. I am a new subbie and I love you guys so much. May God bless what you have with your husband because we love seeing such love ❤️ ️

[@SibabaloNoludwe]

Thank you so much 🤗

[@nosiphositeto6917]

Yhoo sbari sana you have all the answers 😂

[@sibusiwengqwemesa9024]

Sbary we country 😂😂😂😂

[@sizaniaphiwe2417]

Great start to a Saturday❤

[@sibusiwengqwemesa9024]

Ndayihleka ndisaqala ubukela 😂😂😂❤❤❤ hello guys

[@noluthandontloya5414]

no Siba andivumelani nawe tu Sbari uryt coz uyakuprotector nale yoba kothiwa ukutyisile imagine indoda isenzela abantu itea kokwayo

[@zandilenondabula5372]

LOL

[@kungekahala2586]

My dad uyayenza itea if kungene umelwane umama wam ehlamba engekazuphuma afike bephunga so long

[@asanelequmbelo-ni8dm]

😂Siba dear, I like your questions and I got to understand why betefa. But what about when ninomzi wenu umamazala engahlali nani, why uqhubeka utefa?