Sibling Relationships

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I listen to you guys doing everything, driving, doing house chores, on walk and while doing groceries 😂😂😂

[@OKMomPodcast]

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[@overlyexcitedvegan]

Honestly same 😂

[@kanwalsaeed3724]

I always sit back and watch u on youtube cuz with non verbal communication its even better...love it❤

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[@Amii-mimo]

they're so relatable, my gosh.

[@natalieblackwood5351]

the fact that I've binge-watched you guys while waiting for a new episodes is insane dedication. love yall

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[@suhaahmed4771]

Sibling relationships are kind of weird, especially in a SA household. Some siblings aren't as close in their childhood and teen years but become closer in adult life, especially after marriage, and then there are some that used to be close but fall apart. As kids, my mom raised my brother and I to always be there for one another and to never leave each other ("ek dusre ko kabhi nahi chaurna"), especially because we did not have immediate family in the US, but I wonder whether, generally, SA parents teach this to their kids? Just like you ladies were discussing life after a sibling gets married, you truly acknowledge their presence at home and wish we could go back in time. I think the 'watta satta' marriage where two siblings marry siblings from the same family is not a good idea. No one in my family has done this, but I haven't heard much successful stories either. It truly can create differences, distance, and jealousy in a secure relationship when you least expect it. Kind of reminds me of a failed cousin marriage or marrying within the family that causes the family to turn against each other. Regarding the son moving out and guilt thrown by parents, they really need to understand that their son and his family need their own space. Moving close by or within the same vicinity is a great idea and gives both families privacy, space, accessibility, and much more. Most importantly, it helps to create less drama with in laws. I truly believe that distance does strengthen relationships and you get to spend more quality time when you see each other often. Plus, a great way for siblings to bond with one another without parents' presence. I think we all would agree that when you're with your siblings you can openly talk about or do things that you wouldn't be able to do in front of your parents (I'm not referring to any wrong actions). A spouse wanting to cut off your relationship with your sibling or abusing is a red flag! Would you want your sibling to be treated like this? Then, how dare you treat your sister or brother in law like that?? If you don't like that person then you can distance yourself from them, but it's definitely not right to abuse them or manipulate your spouse to cut ties. love your podcast, Hina and Uruje! I'm happy to see your YT family growing!

[@OKMomPodcast]

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[@Amani-yj7bh]

I’m a teacher and I watch this after school when my kids go and I’m re-setting my classrooms Amazing 💗

[@OKMomPodcast]

Thank you so much!

[@SaraHassan-04]

By the end of the video I bursted out crying so loud! I miss my siblings so much! It's so relatable about childhood and how things change with time. My siblings are my besties now and I know they will always be there. Alhamdulilah for that!

[@OKMomPodcast]

Good siblings are such a gift

[@alezandradavila2581]

@@OKMomPodcastmine were awful nothing in common

[@CinnamonMcG]

The way I KNEW you’d use “shining in the setting sun” as your example 😆👌🏽

[@OKMomPodcast]

😂😂😂

[@maryamx31]

omg i've been waiting for this topic!!

[@saima_iftikharr]

Sprite and dhoodh - it’s dhooda soda and add Rooh-Afza…. Gurrrrllll! You gotta tryyyy!! Fireee! 🙌

[@OKMomPodcast]

😂🙌🏼

[@blahblah1491]

real

[@arghhhhh100]

Punjabi card revoked for anyone who does not like lassi!

[@OKMomPodcast]

😂😂

[@whatthehell823]

i listen to you guys while doing my big girl job.👷‍♂️ love you guys ❤❤

[@OKMomPodcast]

🙌🏼 love this! Thank you

[@SanaSayed-je2lp]

I absolutely love how relatable your content is❤❤❤

[@OKMomPodcast]

Thank you!

[@minasid95]

13:03 its called doodh soda and its definitely a punjabi ramadan household thing. Lol

[@RS_Jane]

Omg as a Mexican we have something called a “tanda” where the ladies save money. So everyone pay 100 dollars each month or week idk remember but they also give the lump some to each person base on a number they pick. Sometimes up to 20 ppl are doing it. Also we have a blanket that it’s call “ San Marcos” a thick blanket that is so hot lol. It’s in every Mexican. Household.

[@OKMomPodcast]

Very similar 😂👌

[@guriea786]

Hahaha, I just joined my first committee yesterday! We just zelle the person, sadly no parties. Don't hate on doodh soda or "shining on the setting sun" 😂 his songs helped me through labor!

[@lostpancake]

Hey guys I love your content ❤️ a quick question, my spouse has an issue with me staying with my sister and her family. I have one daughter who’s a baby and I want her to spend 1:1 time with my sister and my neices/nephews. I live 150 miles away from my sister since getting married. My sister and I have always been really close and I don’t see any danger to my child if she and I stay with her for a weekend. But my husband doesn’t want me to because it’s my ‘brother in laws house’ and he doesn’t want our daughter staying in another man’s house. (I note my BIL is chill and has never done anything abusive to me or my daughter, he just stays in his routine of work etc and does his own thing) my sister is upset because I don’t stay over (she’s like a 2nd mum to me as my parents are abroad at the moment for a long time) and I can’t get my hubby to change his mind. I want to make my marriage work because we have a baby together. Other aspects of our marriage is fine but we don’t agree on the one topic of me staying over at my parents house or sister’s house- he insists we do regular visits instead. I did manage to stay 1 week with my parents when my baby was 3 months and for 4 days before my parents went abroad. I feel like I’m in such a sticky situation. Im quite gentle and find it hard to fight back when he won’t budge on his opinion. Any advice? :(

[@OKMomPodcast]

Thanks for sharing. Speaking to a therapist might help him understand your side and you understand his side. That way you both can get your points across with a mediator present. Hope it works out ❤️

[@zahiyahassan9068]

Pls also do podcast on sibling rivalry enjoy your stuff so much! Keep going best of luck! 💙💙💙

[@OKMomPodcast]

Great idea!

[@hibamohammed3226]

I listen to u guys during my work break

[@OKMomPodcast]

Thank you!

[@minakhan537]

Yall deserve way more subs than you have. 😂

[@OKMomPodcast]

Spread the word!! Thanks for supporting ❤️

[@minasid95]

56:22 as kids if you didnt fight fight, as adults youre not tight tight. 🤜🤛

[@OKMomPodcast]

Facts

[@rage8051]

Please let Uruje talk 😂

[@emantai8468]

Why can’t parents be alone? I think all the adults children should move out if the parents are healthy. That way everyone grows and establishes their relationships. Then when they get older and they need you you can be there.

[@alezandradavila2581]

Yep 👍

[@kanwalsaeed3724]

Fruit chaat is FRUIT chaat. Not normal chaat....just fruit plzZZZZZZ

[@OKMomPodcast]

👌

[@rage8051]

👇🏻 Sprite and dhood elitttteeeeeee button

[@zubiatariq8664]

We do not meet every month, I could not do that, we just put money in the account of the month. I love committee. I hate the floral kumbals. Lol

[@AaaaaaaaIiiii88]

Is henna single

[@mominaelahe]

No married😅 And she have two kids

[@Sab.86]

#doodsoda ❤❤❤❤

[@minasid95]

12:42 🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤🤤

[@rage8051]

And omg the weird people who mix sweet and savory like ewewewewewe 🫠

[@AaaaaaaaIiiii88]

Is henna single

[@Sab.86]

They are both married with children.