Sierra Leone's Women: Sex Lives of Uncut Outcasts

In Sierra Leone, just two out of every ten women is uncircumcised. These women, the minority are labelled "gborka" and deemed "unclean" or "not woman enough". Make Sierra Leone Famous places the sex lives of uncut women in focus to discuss the power of pleasure, women's liberation, and orgasm equality. Special Guests: Umu Jalloh, MSW, and Leanne MaHota Rizk, MPH (Sexual and Reproductive Health Specialist).
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[@khadijahajasaidu1784]

Am glad we are now topics like is, cause it has always been a taboo in our society for women to have sexual discussion in public.Thanks to Vickie more love 💕

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for watching ❤️

[@PapaBashiru]

Thank you so much Vickie for putting this together.

[@VickieRemoe]

You are so welcome!

[@salimatujaffa9786]

Love the topic of discussion. So happy that we're having these conversations now. Our society needs it. 😊. Thank you Vickie 😊

[@VickieRemoe]

You are so welcome!

[@khrysrobb1485]

That you present the facts and allow discussion without censorship, and made the conversation around a very difficult topic approachable and (as a person with a penis) really understandable. Thanks Leanne, Umu (sorry for spelling) and Vickie! Y’all are MAKING Seirra Leon Famous.

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for watching

[@Thesacharlottec97]

Proud of you Umu . Thanks Vickie for such a podcast🎉

[@tex7.7]

I love to see my 🇸🇱 sister doing it on social media.

[@marianamariabangura8421]

Watching y’all discuss on this topic is really interesting. 🥰🥰

[@VickieRemoe]

Thank you 🤗

[@nadiasesay4783]

I like this topic and I think it’s an important topic that people don’t want to discuss about it. Because I had a very bad experience when they did that to me and I almost died in there. So I said to myself that none of my kids will ever go through that. Thank you for the discussion 🙏 . I hope people learn from it

[@VickieRemoe]

Thank you for sharing your story sis

[@joannitakoroma4713]

Thank u for such a lovely conversation it was really educating ...

[@VickieRemoe]

Glad you liked it

[@aminasmith1753]

Love this! Always educative topics. Good job ladies

[@VickieRemoe]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@princejacobmacauley]

Love the podcast darling but today am off for commenting, Vickie you’re doing so well for our nation.

[@VickieRemoe]

Thank you so much!

[@harvestmoonbeam2060]

Very good conversation with the other guests. Such an important topic that was needed to be discuss. Thank you!

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for listening

[@muhammadsahidkamara5470]

You never disappoint ❤️

[@bortehsillah6878]

Really appreciate you Ladies, very educative discussion, you start my day. Watching from Bo City

[@VickieRemoe]

So glad!

[@AFROKIOSK063]

Good morning Vicki Make sierra leone famous

[@joemcfatter1170]

I am an elderly white man in Texas USA. I love the diverse African cultures. I married a black American queen in 1971 and sadly she passed after we were together 25 yrs. Anyway, everyday I watch various channels about culture and politics etc in Africa, and am continually amazed at the diversity. Just in one country there can be dozens of tribal customs and languages. Wow. Commenting on this post, I really am surprised to see you openly discussing this on social media in your country, but certainly it should be discussed. I sort of identify with your "outcast" theme. I was not circumcised as a boy, and growing up I was always "different" from my friends, so became very self-conscious. I do not believe in male circumcision at all, and feel it is akin to FGM. Males who are circumcised lose so much of their organ's sensitivity. How all this began long ago is unknown, but I believe for males it was an attempt to mitigate masturbation when boys were young, and maybe to minimized problems a man can have as an adult when his foreskin doesn't retract. idk. With girls I think it was driven by the male notion of owning the daughters and removing all their potential for pleasure so they would be less likely to fool around before marriage. That's my theory. I believe any form of mutilation of the sex organs should be relegated to history, but sadly it is so embedded in "tradition."

[@leeannrizk9407]

Very good point sir. Thanks for watching

[@alphasidiebangura471]

Very smart Vickie Circumcision in sierra leone is part of culture within certain families because of thier belives

[@Joydarlon]

Great conversation!

[@VickieRemoe]

Thank you

[@christianasnell5701]

Very nice topic. You guys really made my day 😀😀😀

[@VickieRemoe]

Glad you enjoyed it!😁

[@MarvicoDeen]

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[@heroblaqofficial]

Make 🇸🇱 famous for all the right reasons ❤️✊

[@HassanJalloh-er6om]

Vickie ur unique on Topic ,,, so ep mek Sabi Issues,, As mentioned,, make Salone proud,,.

[@VickieRemoe]

Big up

[@luxthelight2389]

I think the end of this podcast is very educating ❤

[@VickieRemoe]

Thank you ❤️

[@kadieanna1748]

Very insightful and informative discussion.

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for watching

[@kendaddi5857]

Interesting discussion. Good topic. First I am excited to know that the Nigerian version of pidgin English is spoken in other West African countries. Nice to hear these women attempt pidgin English. Kudos girls😀 On the topic itself my comment is as follows. The female sexuality is actually complex. Though the clitoris is a true erectile organ and is seen as the centre of female eroticism, it’s importance can sometimes be exaggerated. I have seen uncircumcised women who don’t enjoy sex and I have seen circumcized women who enjoy sex so much that they are almost nymphos. Many things contribute to the female arousal. These include their mental state, spoken words from their partners, the way they are touched and they way they are loved. Also there are many other erotic spots that if well touched will get the correct results. These include the G- spot, the perineum, the nipples etc. Also very key is how well a partner spends on his woman. Women are very aroused when they are showered with material things. This is why some people say every woman has “ashawo” trait in them. Some women may not agree but men can prove it by buying their wives expensive gifts and see how the sex that night will be. I can assure you it will be different, not just in terms of her performance but in terms of her arousal heights. I’d also like to agree that many wives have had many children without ever experiencing orgasms. This is unfortunate. And it stems from husbands not recognizing some of these factors I mentioned above and addressing them. Foreplay is so key and it starts in the morning through text messages, and love calls before even the sex act in the night. And just before the sex itself foreplay needs to be patiently done. It’s very hard for a woman not to have orgasm if her husband takes his time to do cunnilingis and also knows the right amount of pressures and where to apply them. Oral sex as a foreplay hardly fails in all women. Women only resist it when their partners are poor at it or when they are unsure of their hygiene status. Women need to know that part of why men like cunnilingus is their peculiar aroma which is a well recognized aphrodisiac. No two women smell alike. So that peculiarity makes every woman special. About rough sex. 90% of women like rough sex. But the degree of roughness varies. A hubby needs to learn exactly how rough their wives want it. Read her well and apply. She will love it. Most women are subs and really love to be dominated or “manhandled” in bed. Well done ladies. Good job👍

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for your comment. We are not speaking Nigerian pidgin. Na Salone Krio wi day tok😁

[@kendaddi5857]

⁠Oh I see. They are very similar, just that the salone version appeared less robust so I was deceived into thinking you were attempting to speak the Nigerian Pidgin. Or perhaps you girls are not perfect at it. Whatever, my apologies for wrong assumption😊

[@EdnaWismanJaward]

Nice one Vickie and team

[@VickieRemoe]

Thank you!

[@GraceEmmaJones]

Make salone famous a great show 🎉😊🙌

[@VickieRemoe]

We will as long as you keep watching!❤️

[@DadsonMusa]

Vickie the subject at hand needs to be looked at with a cultural or traditional lens. Cutting of the clitoris has its health hazards. And government after government have found it hard to eradicate it even when the practice has proven to be harmful as recently some girls died while being cut.

[@ibrahimbio7243]

Educative we love to be part of one Day!!! On matters related to guys

[@johannesengland8864]

Very interesting conversation

[@VickieRemoe]

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[@tewohkarimu44]

Wow you guys are Amazing Thank you for your educative information.

[@VickieRemoe]

Our pleasure!

[@leahsalamatuturay6696]

D sisterhood is proud of you ❤

[@VickieRemoe]

Yaaay! Glad to hear it!

[@wizpauldumbuya3376]

This topic really important

[@VickieRemoe]

You’re right!

[@DadsonMusa]

So it is going to take time for our traditional women to accept putting a stop this practice with its attendant health hazards ❤

[@mariamasum4191]

You guys are amazing ❤

[@mariamasum4191]

What are their media handles for these 2 guests ?

[@ronaldgeorgestone9805]

Nice conversation ladies, one hopes our women folk really listen to your advice, especially your experiences and the activism of your mum that saved you from this barbaric act!!!!

[@fatubaibangura3873]

Make Salone Famous 😘❤

[@waterlootiti7771]

See me smiling as I'm watching 🥰🥰

[@joemcfatter1170]

I see the topic of female squirting is a thing in some African cultures (as it is in the West et al), so is female ejaculation understood there?

[@-Hajrie]

This is so beautiful to watch🌺

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks🙇🏾

[@-Hajrie]

I’d love to be part of this 😊

[@UmaruJalloh-pi7vg]

💯💪

[@abdulwahidbangura3584]

Wooow. Very interesting...

[@trunkrock23]

New Sub!

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for subbing!

[@fatmatabintabah6829]

Very educative...

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for watching

[@joemcfatter1170]

question: how do your lovers react to you being "natural"?

[@ibrahimsaccoh3512]

Una Dey try o,Truly❤❤😊

[@bobbyfijah]

Wow🎉

[@Iimaidrissa]

True. Na dat mek most woman dey use vibrator now because d man dem so oh inpatient #MakeSaloneFamous #Topfan

[@VickieRemoe]

True! Everyone should have pleasure.

[@rg3872]

It's my understanding that Krio women don't get circumcised. Is this because of their predominantly Christian beliefs?

[@VickieRemoe]

Both Christians and Muslims practice female circumcision in Sierra Leone but there are more circumcized Muslims because 2/3 Sierra Leoneans (70%) identify as Muslim. Krio women don't practice circumcision because it is not their custom, I don't think religion is the reason.

[@TWUMKWAME5]

Why is that? The men also goes through that? I think all the predominantly muslem country goes through this stupid stuff .

[@Flourish-od7cx]

Blood of John the Baptist 😂...

[@VickieRemoe]

😂😂😂😂

[@nancytheresakosia6432]

😂😂😂😂😂 interesting

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for watching

[@mariamasenesie5413]

❤❤❤❤

[@ronaldgeorgestone9805]

i am certain that your podcast would ruffle some feathers,however you know that you must continue speaking not only the phycological damage caused but the girls productive journey will have a turbulant journey into woman hood. one really wonders what the authorities are up to in fighting to change this menace

[@VickieRemoe]

We must speak the unspoken

[@ronaldgeorgestone9805]

@@VickieRemoe i am all for the discussion in an atmostphere of honest and objective basis where common sense prevails

[@sulaimansamklefkamara9237]

Cool

[@kaybee9909]

Kinda sad that they Laughed about it

[@lekuson]

I would enjoy this session more if u had a pure Sierra Leonian woman(born n bred whole life in the land) as part of the conversation.

[@VickieRemoe]

Why would the show have a Gambian woman when the show is about Sierra Leonean women

[@lekuson]

@@VickieRemoe my error. Rather a traditional african woman. Will be cool to get their undiluted perspective

[@VickieRemoe]

What is your definition of a traditional African woman?

[@lekuson]

@@VickieRemoe born n raise in Africa with traditional values

[@VickieRemoe]

Umu was born and raised in Sierra Leone and has lived there her entire life. She was married off at the age of 18. What is more “traditional” than that? Maybe you don't mean traditional.

[@jentulj9611]

Vickie, please stop flip flopping, you said earlier on that a man has 2 chances to meet your standard, if a man falls short you are gone.

[@alieurogers7057]

Woona too dry eye

[@VickieRemoe]

What’s wrong with being bold and open?

[@007ARM]

This wan 😅

[@VickieRemoe]

Wetin do am

[@007ARM]

Dis Episode sweet me

[@joemcfatter1170]

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[@Letfarmtogether]

It's our culture guys let not mislead by the western ideology....💚🤍💙

[@jemimaafriyie8965]

To circumcise a girl??? Is culture to harm or make us better???

[@VickieRemoe]

Good question

[@Letfarmtogether]

​@@jemimaafriyie8965 .... Circumcise Is good because it gives women Self sex control. Yu see da konk smol touch na big big problem business 😂 yu nor dey ever satisfy has a woman coz de konk just lek snail 🐌 sensitive smol touch na wahala 😅

[@assanatukassim885]

Very interesting conversation

[@VickieRemoe]

Thanks for watching!

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