Sifting Through the Rubble | My Cup is Full w/ Tacarra Williams | Ep. 2

[@MyCupIsFullPodcast]

11/29 & 11/30 Sydney Castillo: Live in Ft. Worth Texas Tickets fortworth.blcomedy.com/shows/sydney-castillo-live-in-fort-worth

[@gideoninc8687]

Tacarra should be permanent, she's entertaining, enjoyable, funny, and absolutely GORGEOUS

[@Lawchick1000]

So many unresolved mental health stories. She needs help.

[@deanchristie7723]

When a woman calls another woman "Raggedy" you know that shit real

[@Allthequeenzhorses]

Facts

[@ameliajohnson4454]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 R

[@pUkkademps]

Raggedy and absolute user . That woman used Sydney by playing victim and being manipulative.

[@RozCannistraro-zd9do]

It was like red siren blaring to me for Borderline and Narcissistic personality disorder .

[@MyStrosWorld]

Just make Tacarra the permanent co-host!! Perfect duo

[@lipsey47]

I TOTALLY AGREE 💯

[@Jokeisha2010]

Facts I love everything about her. She so real and that's what makes her so funny.

[@stupidrules1000]

And make that dress the uniform

[@ednabarbosa7368]

PLEASE!!! You guys need to stay together at this podcast forever!!! You two has a really good vibe and it’s helping each other and us! Shout out to you 🎉 stay together as co-host Tacara! Good Job for talking about your feelings Sydney!

[@heevestenry5384]

Nah he needs to rotate guests just for different reactions and perspectives. He will eventually run out of stories and his guests can help solve that issue.

[@Daizy10231023]

​@@heevestenry5384 agree but she needs a reoccurring segment lmao

[@heevestenry5384]

@@Daizy10231023 For sure. She has to come back or we riot. Her energy and perspective were amazing.

[@TheEndisAlmostHere]

I concur

[@ameliajohnson4454]

🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤ I agree. The balance each other.

[@anthonymurrell9927]

KEEP TACCARRA AS A CO HOST. Your chemistry is A1.

[@Heartcoachtalk]

#thatpart ❤

[@kaurispinkney2354]

🎉🎉

[@kaurispinkney2354]

Yaaaass

[@xquisitelyfyne]

This lady has the potential to hurt so many people if she doesn't get her mental health under control....that's scary and sad...

[@jerrell242009]

Sydney is the calmest man on the planet! This is wild 😮

[@Egun_esin]

I thought I was until I seen this. Lol

[@hdeen4610]

This duo is perfect. Ticarra needs to be a returning guest

[@NeneFavors]

“You can’t save everybody…” Tacarra spoke to my SOUL on that one.

[@terrycrews1760]

If this is your first time hearing that then I’m willing to guess you’ve been extremely naive your whole life.

[@melrwill]

Tacarra been shooting her shot for two videos now!!!! I know you see it 🤣😂

[@stryfetc1471]

I would've been hit already!...I can't dodge well!...I would've took her out!😂

[@kingwizzy2802]

I peeped that too. They both been through stuff and matured. Might be a match. You never know.

[@ksingle8706]

..its the same day.. and thats how she jokes around. She's Iike this with everyone

[@dareonmillar8610]

Mannnnn they look good together fr

[@jus10dillard]

He know better. He know she just as crazy. She just hides it better than others. She admitted in one of her bits she was the problem. If you can't make it with a relationship coach...🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾 Now I don't know if her fiance was fucked up. Cause that's absolutely possible, but if therapists are any indicator on how accountable women aren't to their bullshit...🤷🏾🤷🏾‍♂️ I could be wrong though.

[@simplysupremephotography2246]

co host of the year Tacarra ! no other guests needed

[@djharris8491]

Never click 2nd episode so fast!!

[@ebonyharbut7641]

Right 😅😅😅😅

[@icjonezbutgod]

Facts! 😅

[@lesley5380]

I hit the like straight away 👍🏽

[@britinijones8398]

Big facts! 😂

[@Pimpabutterfly]

Get to your FREEDOM! That’s the quote of the year for me and my brothers

[@tbronner8634]

As a mother with 2 sons. This is the message!! Get to your freedom.

[@Benjamin_A_White_Music]

The Strawberry letter has NOTHING on this. This was great and hats off to you bro for how you handled this.

[@Allinmyworld]

NOTHING

[@shonindy8634]

Tacarra nails it with her points. Men need to have a woman as a best friend in their life at all times. A woman will pinpoint all the negatives of women! I love Tacarra she gets it!

[@JayClearman411]

Nah a sister, wxmxxn can be fickle friends but, family will ride for you.

[@LeopardKayla]

This story just kept getting crazier! Tacarra is such a treasure and am so glad you brought her on to open the show.

[@CaramelBeauty091]

Never let anyone poison your peace and then guilt trip you for being fed up. I hope you realize it is okay to set boundaries and not tolerate those boundaries being crossed.

[@claudiapolio2975]

Tecarra is asking the real questions. I love her man!

[@PrydeWater901]

That woman’s family is not just tired. They have assessed the costs of having her around and decided to NOT have her around any longer. They’ve cut their losses. That’s why she’s homeless in the first place. It’s one thing not to benefit anyone around you, but it’s much worse when you become a burden.

[@KylePVincent]

Yup. Family dumped her for any unknowing man to take care of her. Disgusting. Mental health is serious, and they never took care of that woman. As T said. Enabler

[@smarti1144]

At some point, if you have a family member that is this disturbed and destructive who is 43 and you have your own children and health to take care of, where do you draw the line? They should have told him what it was the first time he called. Friends and family should have told him she was mentally unstable and capable of such behavior. They KNEW. That is where I fault them. But they are not responsible for her. They didn't want to be bothered and he should have taken that information in and moved accordingly. He should have called the police immediately and his lawyer right after and a witness. You can't talk to a crazy person expecting sanity. That's a word Tacarra spoke. She needs medical intervention. Neurotic episode in your place and you didn't want to call the police.

[@Eramaeis]

Tacarra speakin the truth, ain't nobody hold that girl accountable for her own actions, she said that whole family need an ass whoopin 😂😂😂...from the bottom of my heart too Sydney I'm so glad you're okay and still of sound body and mind!! Get yo freedom!! ❤

[@sandyj2062]

Tacarra's not wrong. The family is tired. Also... kudos to you taking a level of accountability, Syd.

[@yudeen979]

You part a the family, aintcha😏

[@PoeticallyPetty]

This is good Sydney. Love this space. Sidenote every man needs a Tacarra as a friend.

[@jalissamoses115]

Tacarra explained it perfectly. Sidney was reliving it as he told the story

[@kibayi]

This story is absolutely batshit nuts 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫 God is truly with you Sydney, keep shining that light

[@Blaqbudafly]

She had nothing to loose. That type of person is dangerous. 😢 Glad you made it out Syd!

[@bernniebabyyy]

The video of it is WILD!! And 127 calls is MAD!!

[@celesteperry4929]

Sidney is a good man. I pray he gets the peace you truly deserve. ❤😍

[@victoriacoghill7285]

I'm so slow with social media and what not so I'm just finding you guys. First can I just say I want to give Sydney a hug right now. Sir, I am so sorry you had to experience a situation like that. Grateful that men like you live in this world. You represent the balance that's needed. Secondly... Taccara!!!!!! I love you girl!!! One of the realest women I've never met, but I appreciate what you give to the world. I feel you sis.... Somebody needs to knock a tooth out one time and she'll cut that bullsh!t out.

[@egoldie22]

I completely agree with what Tarcara says…”there has to be some consequence to your action.”!!! Real talk! now it’s about PRINCIPLE!! Grown adults don’t behave like that period. And if you do you should be dealt with just like a child who tears up their parents things they’re going to have some consequences…

[@Soulfullnsight]

Sydney, this is groundbreaking. Speaking truth and integrity with shear transparency. Syd… no one speaks up like this! You’re amazing! FINALLY, someone who isn’t afraid to talk about holding people accountable!❤

[@flowzinfinite6596]

I don't comment much on anyone's podcast but you and Tacarra need to team up and do at least a weekly segment. You both are underrated and I appreciate both of your comedic talents and conversations about what a lot of us men go thru. And yal funny as shit too 😂

[@0330abarrett]

Also so sorry you had to go through this Syd, and what’s sad, is that these situations mess it up when you REALLY meet a great woman, you may run, or self sabotage it because of these experiences that you went through 😢 I pray you get the proper healing ❤️‍🩹 in totality, so you can attract AND Love a good woman correctly!! 🫶🏽❤️

[@grannationalboy]

We gon need that name bruh.......Did You Miss Me fans need to know 😂😂😂😂

[@fayewyatt8913]

Seriously tho, I need to kno

[@unusuallyflyy]

...I know EXACTLY who he's talking about...lol...even before tacarra accidentally threw out a hint...lol...

[@grannationalboy]

@@unusuallyflyy who?

[@unusuallyflyy]

@grannationalboy ...if you're an avid add follower from waaay back, then it's H.H....I don't wanna give it away for everyone else...lol...

[@grannationalboy]

@@unusuallyflyy I thought about her too. That's crazy. Lol. Didn't think she was that old either

[@T_era_David]

Round 2 was even better than round 1 Syd!😃 Tacarra was so on point on all the levels. Especially that part about ol' girl striking 1st trying get in front of a situation that she created because she's afraid of being exposed and about you listening to yourself. This was really good Sydney!

[@yungfloet]

I RAN TO EPISODE 2!!!!!

[@queenbelove]

Everything Tacarra said was 💯. Sue her and she need her a** beat! *mic drop*

[@knowledge5106_]

10:58 Tacarra is correct. People can piss you off and treat you in ungodly ways. Very true. How you respond is totally on you.

[@keeshasmith3452]

They do have awesome chemistry. They should do this together from now on.

[@etherealE777]

This podcast is so healing to me. To hear that people have experienced the same things as me is just comforting.❤ Ohhh 13:41 this just made me mad! They always want to find a way to make themselves the victim. Ol raggedy B

[@eastomar]

I agree with Tacarra......there are many kind, lovely men who have difficulty setting boundaries.

[@Piasays]

“How old you want the kids to be?” Perfect retort! 😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@machet-t506]

"This chair is comfortable." 💯 I too have been sat down... several seats😅

[@bernniebabyyy]

Heavy on they tired!! I went no contact with my mother because the way she acts! That was on point!

[@menta226]

I felt that “I was being disobedient” comment. That was a whole word!!! God will put you through some lessons when you don’t listen to what he has told you. Just went through that myself.

[@jessicaavery6278]

Tacarra is 💯 right about everything…Sydney you’re a stand up man for walking away… material things you can get again…God taught you some things…lessons learned 😊

[@coreybrooks3951]

Sydney’s a great comic and I saw Tacarra in Louisville at Katt Williams tour and she stuck out. I’m really liking this podcast.

[@Yi_Tv_Sir]

I love the vibe of the podcast. Keep Tacara on all these episodes. She the perfect reaction to how calm Sydney story telling is.

[@Holachica48]

Wilding out in terminal 6 is crazyyy I love Tacarra 🤣🤣

[@yulnikita]

Cheating on someone is just as emotionally abusive as breaking their things.. Can't just be out here cheating on people and messing w their mental health. Podcast is a hit!

[@DanielleBryant-r7r]

Sidney I am you in female form, I went through similar situations with my ex and my so called best friend. When I got back to work because I took time off because my situation was that bad, then when I got back to work my so called best friend tried to destroy my character with everyone I worked with and like Tacarra said, ppl believed her because she was the first one to tell it. I now have PTSD and anxiety behind all of this, and yes I lost my job behind this , yes it's deep. I can't even tell everything it's too much but I want to write a book about it, even though it's been a lil time now so I have gotten better with it, but it almost destroyed me, and that's exactly what they tried to do but YAH knows and sees all!

[@mgeorge8322]

After two divorces myself I understand exactly what you’re saying Tacarra Listen to yourself! Ooh wee

[@Jbelovedson]

That woman was acting out a whole scene so that the neighbors would assume someone was in the apartment so when the cops come over they could say yeah we heard “this-and-that”. She’s done this before. Sir, you are blessed to have walked away from that women. Wow!🤯

[@williejones7642]

“She just in the airport?” sent me to the ancestral realm 😂😂😂

[@DivineDivaDee]

Sydney, thank you for telling your story. It was such a brave thing to show when you were at such a vulnerable point. You are a stand-up dude. Few would offer someone they are dating a place to stay, rent-free, without the expectation of monetary contribution. Let alone having someone there and a cleaner was coming. You were a blessing to someone who was so messed up that they weren't even grateful. I know right now it seems that the storm is still brewing, but I want you to know your blessing is coming. You go ahead and file that legal paperwork.

[@MegaRose1958]

Apologies don't mean anything. People know they shouldn't do what they do. I enjoyed watching part 1 and part 2 of this Podcast. I would add 1. Take your time when you meet someone! 2. Trust your instincts and have discernment . 3. Don't ignore the Red Flags I just subscribed to your Podcast. I could listen to you and Tacarra speak all day. Sydney take Tacarra up on sharing your maid and let her cook for you. I feel you could learn alot from her and just maybe avoid getting into another Toxic relationship.

[@dawntrenchfield7920]

Perfectly said Tacarra listen to ourselves.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Heartcoachtalk]

“They tired…😥” Tacarra is correct. Everything she’s said is accurate. Sydney you’re a great man. Trust God to bring you the woman that matches your desires🙏🏾❤️‍🩹♥️

[@Ernest20904]

She’s right. Her brother is tired!! He’s tired of having to intervene for that crazy sister.

[@TheBelleJanelle]

I hope tocarra is here to stay. Yall have great chemistry.

[@wyanemickens1828]

I must say this interview was incredible on so many levels! Syd, in so sorry you had to deal with that kind of situation. It’s never easy to meet someone and try to help them out and mental health getting the best of that situation. I hope you get the clarity and justice you need, even if you get an apology or not! Tacarra, I love your being and intellect and humor is beautiful and thank you for being there to listen, to ask the questions you’ve asked, be a soundboard and crack the jokes you have and offer the advice you gave was amazing! I love you!!!

[@TiRameeen]

Tacarra, I am with you. Why can't I find this? 😂

[@TeeDee79]

Loved it! In the beginning, Tacarra got on my nerves by not allowing Syd to finish his story before asking questions that she didn't give him a chance to get around to first ( 🤷🏽‍♀️ ) but then it was A1! 2 of my fav comedians... I'm forever supporting as long as you don't have KevonStage as a guest

[@Jokeisha2010]

I think it was a friendship thing. When you hear your friend has been hurt forget the rest of the story I want revenge cause my homie to nice to get you back.

[@happymonkeyoohoohahah]

Unabashedly curious (aka nosey 😊): What he (kevonstage) dooooooo?!

[@CreatedbyZyaire]

Immediately I googled “red head 43 year old comedian” lol

[@MyCupIsFullPodcast]

@@CreatedbyZyaire 😂😂😂😂

[@anthonystickmon3181]

I did also!😂

[@musicfanatic8593]

Same my guy .same

[@robbieross926]

Yo… is the Red Head Blonde now?

[@chanelsings83]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 I did too!

[@millademirands5877]

After this podcast I see you with different eyes. For me Sydney is a true King. It's very sad this women abuses and disrespected your kindness

[@allisonbriscoe5124]

This was excellent!!!!!The chemistry, conversation, the opinions expressed,the articulation 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯💯🔥🔥

[@tpwhite92]

Shoutout to Tacarra for that hair comment. It helped me figure out who it was and why she been mia on all def

[@fahn22]

I haven't been able to figure it out!! 🤔

[@rjfloyd325]

Who is it??

[@ecko90044]

Come on let us know who it is? 👀

[@jennismcdonald7701]

After that hair comment, I screamed like 😱😱😱

[@nia-mya8734]

don’t leave us hanging 😭

[@capicornboss]

I love when she say...Help Me! 😂🤣😂

[@AMGShivener]

Sydney is a classy guy! Hurts that he had to go through this! I love Tacarra so much, shes my number 1!

[@GL-pk5xd]

FRFR!!! Sydney!!! Sometimes the authorities are your buffer. Your sensitivity is being used against you! Luckily you have people that know your character. Thats the most important thing!!!

[@heevestenry5384]

This has already cracked the list of my fave podcasts.

[@ReallyHer2]

You're the definition of a DIVINE, love. Both videos: I was like Lord what is his test... you're growing through so you're beginning to understand. I respect you so much.! I initially started with her standups and this was next up. Grateful to have shared the moments with you. MS TACARRRRRRRRRRRAAAAAA if you're not me. Suga you did this one lol all of my responses were YOURS. That's a good balance. You understood the assignment 😂😂 but any who lol yall would look good together and if the offer hasn't been placed YALL NEED TO CO HOST lol (or more often) this was a worthwhile intro. I RESPECT YOU SO MUCH SID. ❤

[@Damon1023]

Lock this format in. You two need to co-host.

[@AlabamaPowell]

I agree when she says how God has His way of sitting you down. It's a process to prepare you for the next chapter. I heard God tell me to "be still". This is the first time I can say I heard God speak to me. You will see things moving around you. Great advice!

[@zaythemanager]

I love hearing my name being mentioned and it’s always good things. Shoutout to the Isaiah’s in the world being good friends and men in general.

[@aukeshacherry1092]

Mental health is part of the issue but not an excuse for raggedy a$$ behavior. 💯 Tacarra is the right energy to balance this podcast, just saying. This is good, keep it going! ❤

[@VladImirCastor1989]

Syd you way better than me. You a stand up guy. Most men woulda went so many different directions dealing with her. Props to you bro.

[@SeanteBrown]

I GOTTA know who shorty is. I don’t even be nosey like this but this story is amazing and it hit close to home

[@BAWSE93]

Same. I'm trying to figure it out too.

[@barbarajbanks1283]

Sidney,so true, Retaliation is not in your Blessings! Agree with Tacarra to sue her for defamation of character. Glad that the police were called and there are pics of the damages as well as her destroying items that your Mother gave you…Tacarra you are right👍on,thanks for being there for your friend who knew to get to his FREEDOM, Indeed there has to be legal consequences for “her” actions.

[@khadijadiggs5540]

These first 2 episodes were SO good❗ Y'all's chemistry is 🔥 Should find a way to keep working together!

[@JihiTheMusicGeek]

Talking about the "What did you do??" Was SO vital to speak about... As a divorced man leaving an Abusive partner, this was asked a FEW times and it's triggering EVERY TIME.

[@kishadivine]

I ain't even got to say anything. Taccara said it all. Perfectly analyzed sis. Literally, my echo.

[@blessed4life578]

This needs to be a permanent thing!!!!

[@amazmakeup2905]

I’m so glad I found this 😂❤

[@auntynature2083]

Syd, when you were saying the takeway for you for your ownership in that scenario was you were being disobedient to (god? or your friends, intuition ) for not listening to the signs and ending it earlier is tough! And it comes down to prioritizing your self love/worth committing to your boundaries and not compromising your self respect to be in a relationship. You can be a solid dude and not be a people pleaser. That is so hard and it takes training to move with faith versus fear. And one another validating symbol to recognize when your compromising self. There will never be peace. It will always be stressful and chaos. Blessing to you. I hope you continue to heal through such betrayal. This podcast is a good step to go about it. 🙏🏽

[@Daddyj2007]

Man when I tell you this story just touched my soul cause I been through a VERY similar situation… now I’ve been shutting my ass down for 4 years now cause that shit fucked me up bad… yo I’m glad you got up out of that without losing your cool you definitely a real one for that 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

[@pusha21100]

You tic tac toe raggedy bruh I’m in tears 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@bernniebabyyy]

Tacarra is Spot on the entire conversation!! Gosh this is so GOOD!

[@SeaShellyBe]

Please keep Tacarra on so y'all can Co host! This energy is everything!

[@SunShinesBlessing]

Did Tacarra say her name? 1:57 😂 That Damn Tacarra!

[@TheMultib4eyedy]

I thought so but it seems Nichelle Murdock books talent/comic. So it’s likely she meant it as Nichelle was the promoter or host of the event and it was a showcase or event with comics there.

[@jocelynwatson5184]

Tacarra was on point! Her words of wisdom to Syd were powerful for him and for me, I love it! Can't wait to see the next episode.

[@bkbjorn3487]

Great real advice. Y’all are it!!!! I’m telling you. It works!! For the pod. 😳😂😂😂😂

[@SpkLfe]

I'm surprised I didn't see any guesses because I put mine in immediately! Just subscribed, glad you came across my page.

[@essmac3453]

This story is wild. That sounds like a manic episode. i am glad he wasn't in the place when this happened. Big red flag when you called her brother; sounds like this wasn't the first time.

[@carlettethomas5252]

Great podcast. 👍 Sydney we love ❤️ you and Tacarra. 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@tiffanymaberry9332]

The last five minutes is better than any therapy session I’ve ever had 😮❤

[@Babyyoshi_]

A visual of a dingaling in a zip lock is wild 😂😂 I forget how funny Tacarra is 😂. ❤love her and Sydney. I pray Sydney continues to heal.❤❤❤

[@rashidahutchison9250]

I love Tacarra when they going to stamp this type of stuff as chasing a$$ instead of class 😂😂😂 yall good together

[@KingJusTee]

First I’d like to say Syd, You and Tacarra have great chemistry!! You gotta keep her bro! And second, helluva story and oddly enough I can 100% relate to that story man.

[@TaNooNoo28]

I knew I love Tacarra. She spokes straight facts and felt it all