Signs of victim mentality in covert narcissists

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@MikelAntonio-n6y 22 күн бұрын

Exciting video, A year ago I took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other

@MeganGood-n4f 22 күн бұрын

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have him back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.

@MikelAntonio-n6y 22 күн бұрын

I feel your pain sister , after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thought it was, but it worked wonders for me.

@MeganGood-n4f 22 күн бұрын

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

@MikelAntonio-n6y 22 күн бұрын

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

@MeganGood-n4f 21 күн бұрын

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

@davidhynd4435 24 күн бұрын

I was married to my Covert NPD wife for 32 years. There was not one single occasion during that time when she took accountability and genuinely admitted fault. Not one single time.

@linnnea8171 24 күн бұрын

Having a mother like this, I believe you. She also has not have one good day in her life, not one.

@DportSTV 24 күн бұрын

I was married for 6 and just like you said I can’t think of a single time they apologized or took accountability for anything. It’s amazing how we are conditioned to accept there nonsense.

@linnnea8171 24 күн бұрын

My mother is a victim in every situation but I was still a bit surprised when she managed to be victimized even by dad's sister's death. She made up that she did not know what kind of a flower bouquet to buy because dad had always gone to funerals alone and implying dad had refused to take her with him. Two lies, first of all dad had gone to maybe two funerals alone and both times mom had refused to go with him. Can you imagine how selfish a human being can bewhen she keeps talking about this and makes the whole thing about her and her victimhood, when her husband's sister is dead and she could not care less about his grief.

@seameology 24 күн бұрын

Classic. They run or refuse to help when you need them the most.

@Dj.D25 24 күн бұрын

I have wondered if those who cry victim to get their way when it comes to political or social issues, especially if they are a minority or college students are covert narcissists.

@Imnotyourdoormat 24 күн бұрын

*The Narcissist "plays" the victim while the Empath can't get the time of day ...*

@Hurkuhntreeks 24 күн бұрын

I’ve had several friends who were adopted. This sounds like them. One shot me in my sleep over a girl. The other stole a lot of money from my parents and me. Realtors have been really bad too. I’m over 60 now, I stay away from adopted people as I can. Unfortunately, I have to deal with realtors. It’s much better to be alone than around parasites who are jealous and envious❤

@seameology 24 күн бұрын

Never thought about that. Yes. I've seen some pretty messed up adopted people as well.

@petemoore8923 24 күн бұрын

A few times I had to physically leave and go drive around when we argued because it kept getting flipped back on me. After a while, I avoided arguments at all costs if possible. They still happened and… They always got flipped back on me. She would say stuff that I did and they ABSOLUTELY didn’t happen that way. And I could tell she really believed that they did.

@stargazer3887 24 күн бұрын

Amazingly said!

@budayjerang2195 24 күн бұрын

My covert narcissist elder sister tries to sexually abuse me. I told my siblings but no one believed me instead they branded me as delusional. So she started playing the victim and went on a smear campaign about me. I grey rock her and she couldn't take it. I'm enjoying the sight 😂. Covert narcissists are hard to detect when they are in a family.

@smokingcrab2290 24 күн бұрын

This is literally my ex wife. Literally everything we talked about was a reverse uno card from her. Even when she treated me like absolute crap I would say "don't do that to me" and she'd say "don't talk to me like that! I can't believe you! You need help! You're so outta line!" about every single issue. To her, she was a healthy angel that could do no wrong, but me, I was this broken maniacal monster from a "broken family" who "never knew how to love". And she used every single possible angle to beat me down at every turn. Even when I was extremely vulnerable with her and she'd tears telling her my deepest dear was being alone forever she showed no empathy or care. She looked at me as weak and stupid and broken and I'll never forget it. She turned her back on me so many times.

@tnmantn8938 24 күн бұрын

Yep, 100% correct…was married to a covert narc for 25 years…not once during that whole time did she ever apologize or initiate a makeup from a quarrel, not once…I would always ‘give in’ and initiate the makeup as it was stupid to me to be mad at my spouse whom I loved, over something silly…😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

@robertkeller5930 24 күн бұрын

I was married to that for almost 7 years. 4th stage lung cancer permanently ended it. Be a shame if my high radon house was the cause instead of her Virginia Slims.