Silver Linings Podcast - EP044 Continued trial questions from Saturday's Live

[@tadams7093]

I have been listening to you guys since your first pod cast on KZbin. I rarely comment, but just wanted you guys to know keep doing what's best for you!! The people that need and want to be here will show up. Unfortunately, keeping this place safe is going to be difficult. There are a lot of sick harmful people on the KZbin platform. I would block them, don't address it, and move forward. I have seen such a transformation in Adam since the beginning, and I am thankful this podcast and group of people with the love from Rex has been healing! ❤

[@victoriagodwin3071]

I totally agree ❣️

[@JCluvsdogs]

I have seen the same with Adam and even with Rex. Keep going, guys - what you're doing is fantastic! It is helping so many of us!

[@jewelgazer]

Yes, allow your moderators to watch and kick out trolls! Also have written guidelines at the top of chat to remind people to be respectful of each other. Same with the comment section.

[@victoriagodwin3071]

@@jewelgazer Exactly you are told before you start to comment. Be respectful to others !

[@ShirleyJohnson-xd9vj]

I am an optimist, I am subscribed to you. I LOVE LISTENING TO YOU, and I could shout that from the rooftops

[@Stefanie_Thompson_Fithian]

While waiting for the verdict I was bouncing from one channel to the next. Checking out all the live chats. What I noticed most is how kind this entire community is. Even in disagreements people were still showing respect. I feel this global community was brought together for these victims. Humanity can be beautiful when we want to be.

[@mrsk4343]

Rex, Adam, do not EVER feel the need to answer for your actions. You have done NOTHING wrong. You have put yourself on the line, answered every question. Those who know, would never ask you anything that would make you feel attacked. God bless.

[@ClaudiaYorkPetruny-bc8pg]

Old Indian adage: Dont judge a man till u walk a mile in his moccasins. I dont even know how u face each day. U two are marvelous. Ur podcast is so helpful! ❤️

[@kimtopp5984]

😂🤣😂nah

[@DrCalamityJan]

You two are such a joy! Keep spreading your special brand of love. It's one of the truly wonderful things to come out of this whole sorry mess. Lots of love from Newcastle Australia. ❤

[@brendalang597]

Hi from South Africa, love you guys, pray justice will be served 🤗 JJ, Tylee, Tammy, Charles 💜

[@rosem3967]

Adam, it is a darn shame that some think you don’t care as much because you aren’t in court. Court would be emotionally draining for any family member going through this. I am glad you are doing what is best for you. Justice is coming for Charles, Tylee & JJ ( Tammy too).

[@GenXBAMomma]

Thank you for bringing up that many of us have criminals in our family. It's complicated and it comes with a lot of judgment. I appreciate the safe space to be with others who have experienced this. Criminals in your family breeds destruction on so many levels and not everyone understands how you can still love those that chose that path. Not to mention the loneliness that occurs when your family is behind bars.

[@nanceb4him]

So sorry you've gone through all of this..

[@GenXBAMomma]

@@nanceb4him Thank you.

[@nanceb4him]

@menelomie74 yw, I am glad you found a safe place to share. It must be so hard to live with the judgements. People can be so cruel at times.

[@GenXBAMomma]

@@nanceb4him Yes, people forget that life isn't a Hallmark movie.

[@stephaniewood6133]

I adore both of you. Period. I cannot fathom the layers of pain and emotion and grieving with both of you. Sending you love! So grateful for this podcast!

[@caramason1095]

Thank you so very much for being there for me and so many others. I come from from a place where trauma is all I know. This is so important to me at this time. I need support and and understanding to heal and get back to my inner self again and get on my journey. I have so much to say. I love you the way you you you make me feel understood and safe and want to learn and heal. You are both are amazing people and you came in my life at the right time ❤❤❤❤❤❤ and I ❤❤ 7:13

[@Biggirl4life.]

Came back in for a 3rd comment. I'm thinking of you after a guilty verdict! This is a monumental day. An emotional day. There is so much loss here. So many lives forever changed, and for what?... I appreciate your mission. If you help one person on this 🌎 that's a miracle, and you've helped me! Thank you! My heart goes out to you and yours 💜💯

[@Stephanie-hl8jo]

I'm a teacher and these last couple weeks of school are exhausting and anxiety inducing. Just listening to you both is helping tremendously. You're amazing people. I love your channel. I don't comment a lot but I've followed you from the start.

[@adamcox44]

Thank you Stephanie.

[@Stephanie-hl8jo]

@@adamcox44 😄

[@victoriagodwin3071]

Hi Adam & Rex. Yes I think the idea of having a safe place to ask questions and listen to ideas of healing and growth, how others have dealt with loosing family members or even friends through crime. I live in Australia and my older brother was beaten to death a few years back. The perpetrators were never found. It is a hard thing to begin to heal because of the sadness and anger But with time you start to heal. Keep up the fantastic discussions. I am very appreciative. Love & Light to all. Victoria ❤

[@Nolly1960]

Praying for you and your family.. who ever did this might not be caught , but know they always get it in the end…🙏

[@victoriagodwin3071]

@@Nolly1960 Thank you 🙏

[@nanceb4him]

So sorry for your loss. 💝

[@victoriagodwin3071]

@@nanceb4him Thank You I appreciate that very much 🙏

[@lyndaczika6327]

Guys, this was one of your best podcasts!! Keep up the excellent work!!! Adam, always praying for strength for you. I can’t begin to imagine how much you have yet to even process. My heart is with you as you both always. ❤❤

[@gingerreed9349]

❤ADAM & REX getting to know you has been my silver lining!❤

[@tabathabrown6508]

Yes!

[@rOnda88]

Awww! What an awesome comment!! 🏆👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😃

[@kathrynpesa854]

Amen 🙏

[@charliebarrow7086]

Nate Eaton and Justin Lum are both extremely professional reporters. If it weren't for them, things would have taken so much longer. Also, Justin Lum produced a brilliant documentary just before Chad's trial started. There are many documentaries out there but he managed to explain the story and all the protagonists in a way that even a newcomer to the case could understand the plot quickly and follow the trial of serial killer Chad Daybell.

[@RobertaAshleyBarber]

whats the name of it? I'd love to watch it!

[@charliebarrow7086]

@@RobertaAshleyBarber It is called "No remorse".

[@Biggirl4life.]

I need people to understand that it takes time and love to heal. I was assaulted by 2 men, 20 years ago, and I am still healing. The pain comes in waves and its hard to communicate what I'm going through when it happens. Thank you for creating a safe space gentlemen!!

[@nanceb4him]

So sorry you've gone through this. 💝

[@jeanetteuptain9961]

Sense of humor is so important in this life. laughter is important and GOOD. Keep up the laughter and the great work.

[@jeanetteuptain9961]

i love both of your smiles.

[@tinacorinn]

LOVE you two. ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@BuffyLynn]

We don’t mind long shows. Those tiny 30 min ones were just a teaser 😂Seriously though, I think anytime we get to hear from you both we appreciate it. ❤❤❤😊

[@nanceb4him]

I love many things, reading other posts and knowing there are many compassionate and encouraging people still in the world. Either like minded or people to learn from. I love encouragers. Those without judgement, who've probably had trials in their own life or family and have learned some things from it. We love you guys because we see the same in the both of you. You are the Optimist who've together helped lift one another out of being stuck in ruts that can be just negative. We have these thoughts and feelings, but we can't make it our address. We live to learn and move forward, figuring it all out, surrounded by love and non-judgemental people who haven't yet been tested. All comes down to becoming bitter or better. It's the work worth every effort to continue in love and not hate. ❤ Thank you both for sharing your story and being a blessing to everyone!

[@Melissa-xb1vf]

You are both the family of the victims AND the perpetrators. While some of us here may fall into one or the other category, no one who doesn't fall into both could even begin to fathom what the grief process, and life in general, is like for those in your shoes. ❤

[@Soh583]

We are all responsible for our own physical/ mental/ emotional well being. It’s hard enough to deal with such disaster happening in one’s family without any fault of one and people siting in their comfort judging others. You don’t need to justify your life, good on you looking after yourself to function .👍

[@lisagreenleaf3859]

I don't have a question but I want to tell you I pray for you guys often. I'm usually the one that doesn't comment. I love you guys and pray God will bless your videos and families. You help so many by having this interaction with those who need it comfort and someone who can connect... Thank you. Have a blessed day 🌞

[@GenuinelyGena]

Love seeing how much the KZbin community and Facebook community have grown with more optimists worldwide! I remember when there were only 300 on the Facebook page! Touching to see Rex's raw emotions/feelings that he shared and hope that others are mindful of what Adam had to endure by living in fear of being targeted by some of his family members. It's admirable that they both are now sharing their story and have created this community on their journey of healing which is now helping others to help others. Also, great seeing Lisa who looks beautiful as always! Continued prayers for justice for Tylee, JJ, Tammy and Charles.

[@valerieetter5013]

I also am touched and drawn into this podcast as of yesterday morning by your message of acceptance, peace and unconditional love.

[@lindadroy7323]

YOU GUYS ARE DOING GREAT , JUST KNOWING YOUR HELPING PEOPLE HEALING THROUGH THIS LET ALONE U GUYS . ❤

[@caramason1095]

You have brought me to tears and I can’t even imagine how you must feel. I’m so sorry for your pain and loss and sadness and strength. Logically and emotionally and mentally extremely sad.

[@Soh583]

Oh Adam, I’m sorry you had to go through that and still do. Good on you being positive and a good person ❤

[@dr.lynnfaith2330]

You all are my first true crime podcast. I have really enjoyed listening and feel a part of the community. I think that is because of your transparency and positivity. Keep up the good work!

[@adamcox44]

Thank you!

[@PrimetimeKCL]

Insightful episode! Thank you both for answering all of these questions!! 💛 #JusticeforJJTyleeTammyCharles

[@Lajusticiasepuede]

That is why we need you every day

[@janelsara6404]

Laughter is the best medicine! We can't change the horror of what happened! But we can heal and laughter is part of that process!

[@angelhugs4954]

Question: has anybody considered that Alex might have bought burner phones for Chad? Maybe Alex wasn’t everywhere they thought, maybe it was Chad.

[@JCluvsdogs]

Good thought!

[@Pixie2589]

Smart input.

[@richdenisevangessel1999]

Very possible. Great thought.

[@becfromthegould4754]

Good thinking, but I think the FBI have texts, GPS data, along with receipts and CC TV that corroborated the fact it was indeed Alex.

[@Biggirl4life.]

Wow! Great point!

[@caramason1095]

I have been in therapy for 30 years and I stopped going and I got lost back to confusing and trauma is back and I stuck and feel so alone and confused and depressed and sad. Have what the case from the beginning and feel like I know know you., feel safe and don’t know how to begin again. I hope that this this channel will help help me heal. I got to the point where I knew myself and loved my self but I have gone back to not having control and don’t feel safe to the extent I my depression has me confined to my house and head and health issues doesn’t help. I seriously send you all my love and support and compassion.

[@Biggirl4life.]

Y'all are the best! My heart goes out to you and yours. Your lives have been turned upside down, yet you continue to help others! Thank you so much!

[@judyroberts8538]

Thank you both from uk

[@GenuinelyGena]

Love the advice of "let your conscience be your guide." Your conscience (aka, gut feeling, common sense) never and/or rarely lies....

[@joannecarter2041]

I'm not religious but you guys make me hope for the future, in Australia we are not a religious community. Not like America and the bible belt..That's weird to us!!! Thank you for explaining what you can

[@valerieetter5013]

I am coming to this late this afternoon. As a behavioral specialist, I have worked with family members of those who have committed moderate to severe crimes. It's really important to be inclusive and accepting of families in those circumstances. There tends to be a lot of shame in certain family systems such as these and to welcome them into the fold is meaningful for them.

[@TerryJewell-z5e]

Heather Daybell is a star.

[@elijahfensham3842]

In shadows dark, where secrets lie, Two souls conspired beneath the sky. Chad and Lori, bound by fate, Wove a tale of love and hate. Whispers carried on the breeze, A twisted path through ancient trees. In Idaho, the land stood still, As truth revealed its bitter chill. Children lost, their voices gone, Innocence shattered by the dawn. A prophecy of doom and dread, Led them to where angels tread. Graves concealed in silent earth, Bore witness to a haunting birth. Of lies and schemes, a tangled web, In lives where hope and joy had ebbed. A courtroom's light, harsh and bright, Exposed the darkness of the night. Justice sought for hearts betrayed, For spirits lost and lives waylaid. Yet in the end, the truth stands tall, Above the whispers' mournful call. For though the night is cold and long, The dawn will rise, with justice strong.

[@ElaineR.]

Nicely done!

[@justsamantha1833]

Wow, great job. Beautiful written

[@lindastewart6537]

I love the...great poetry !

[@lindastewart6537]

Adamfenshaw wrote a beautiful poem at the start of the blog this morning. Please try to read it to yourself at least.

[@missyholden9722]

This poem is beautiful ❤ Thank you so much for sharing with us

[@kathrynpesa854]

Love you guys thank you for all you have shared. This is a safe place😊 I ❤the Facebook community too. Helps to not feel so alone. You I’ve brought so many teaching tools to this podcast. Keep going you’re doing a great job.

[@Sabine_Handley]

I think that Prior's problem is that Chad is way too guilty to be defended. Everything backfires on him.

[@Lifewithpersians]

Prior also has too much of an ego and doesn’t comprehend that less is more sometimes. His cross examinations hurt him many times. Calling Emma and Garth as witnesses was also a huge fail!

[@dianasimplifies]

​@@Lifewithpersianshe definitely doesn't know how to read a room!!

[@rOnda88]

Yes, CD’s kids may be “good at keeping secrets,” & also lying, at least Emma is. But poor Garth just gets confused, probably because his conscience bothers him. I can hear it in the 911 call- CD takes the phone after he sees Garth gets rattled & gives up on the script, “…I don’t know.” & on the stand he even admits to Prior, “I think I’m confused…” when he’s asked about the primary driver, whether it was his mom or his dad. IMO, he may as well have said, “Wait, can we go over again what it is I’m supposed to say?! This is all very stressful.”

[@jewelgazer]

I think it’s funny how he looks at the jury as he questions a witness because he’s trying to look like Perry Mason lol

[@reneepruitt1012]

I have to wonder if Prior will retire after this case. His name and reputation will forever be tied to Chad.

[@Mamaof7monsters]

I love you guys ! You are both in my thoughts and prayers !

[@elijahfensham3842]

Shout out from South Africa

[@rOnda88]

I’d so love to travel there! 😁

[@marytorbert5212]

I’m watching this Tuesday evening. Many questions no doubt from everyone. We will be on verdict watch probably Wednesday afternoon.

[@janelsara6404]

Shalom and God bless Rex, Adam and everyone here. May justice prevail for Charles, Tylee, JJ and Tammy ~

[@aussie_chick]

We lost the court case for our loved one, due to reasonable doubt. It was a cruel outcome. You are all in my thoughts. Stay strong.

[@TerryJewell-z5e]

From Northern Ontario, 🇨🇦

[@deborahcunningham9958]

Whoot! Whoot! Guilty on all counts! Hallelujah !! ❤❤love from Canada Nan!! Whoot!

[@debbieswitzer6577]

Thank you for sharing. It certainly changed my perception of why your family is not in court. I’m truly sorry you are going through this.

[@jewelgazer]

Sometimes I think that if Janice and Summer had not done that TV interview, the Cox family would have not needed to deal with the general public as much.

[@Cathyntn]

Hello Adam and Rex. I like listening to your podcast. I followed the whole Lori, Chad case off & on. , it’s such a tragedy. All the lost lives for nothing. I listened to some of Chad’s trial, it was emotionally draining.. Adam, you’re looking sooo tired., and it seems it has taken too much out of you. I pray you find peace and strength again. Im happy you have Rex in your life and you both have this avenue of helping so many people as well as yourselves. I will be praying for your comfort and peace. 🤍

[@nataliecassidy4298]

You go Adam! Nothing you are doing is wrong we all have different ways of dealing with things! Nobody should be angry at you Adam or Uncle Rex you guys didn't do any of these horrible things! The guilty are usually the ones that come after the innocent people who never had anything to do with situation! Just know you guys are loved! God Bless you both and your family's! Love ❤❤❤from AKRON, OHIO 😊😊😊

[@Mindea-b9o]

Good for the family's and generational value. Good work gentlemen

[@cassandra3862]

Unless you are testifying there is no reason for family members/victims to be in Court. Victims should not be re-victimised by having to hear terrible details of the crimes. Unless you have been in this position you cannot understand how traumatic it is for those affected. There is also no need to justify the decision not to attend. Wishing you peace, strength and hope.

[@momandithrivingwithbrandis29]

I definitely agree having a safe space and someone to talk to is major!

[@michellebohart6662]

You & your family members are victims of these crimes & their reach had they continued under the radar! God bless you for creating a positive community from your loss & trauma. Unfortunately social media is completely antisocial & people just spew nonsense which only perpetuates negativity in our world! Thank you for putting yourselves out there for positivity in our world! ✨🙏🏼✨

[@deanna106]

I do not think that any of Chad's kids told the truth.

[@lindadarnell2250]

Chad's kids are victims of him too it's obvious he is controlling them too sad

[@rOnda88]

Agreed. I spent the last 4-5 years giving them the benefit of the doubt on every negative count I heard & saw about them, even EDM’s childish tongue display for TV cameras. However, nothing excuses lying - under oath - in a court of law. Those 2 are adults. They are educators, & after EDM’s admission to being a part of her dad’s teachings, I believe she should be charged, not only for perjury, but also as an accessory to conspiring with her dad in her mother’s murder, or at the very least, covering for him. She claimed she was the one who did the wind/ weather direction search- just after saying that she “doesn’t know directions.” So, in taking responsibility for that search, obviously she thought she was helping her dad (by lying). However, she actually admitted to conspiracy.

[@melaniemeadows102]

I don’t believe either are in a good place. They are not free of their upbringing and they are sadly without their mother’s wisdom. Right wrong or indifferent leave them in peace

[@Stefanie_Thompson_Fithian]

I’m shocked their pants didn’t go up in flames 🔥 right there on the stand. They aren’t even good at it. If you’re going to lie at least be decent. They had 5 years to practice.

[@ZeldaZelda-RichesToRags]

@@Stefanie_Thompson_Fithianshameless liars who despised their murdered mother who was only loving and caring to all of them… But they are going to regret this big time and they will never forgive themselves as they will believe that their moms angry spirit will come back to haunt & torture them until they do something drastic like unalive themselves? Gosh I pray not but they are going to be suffering the consequences of their actions and their hatred towards their mother for the sole purpose of getting their daddy from the evil deeds that he committed just because he wanted hot sox from a hot blonde that was loaded.. ha ha! Only thing that is loaded is the BS and crazy train inside her mind!

[@byingtonbyington3798]

Don't know what the question is but laughter is the answer!!! Still think you 2 are adorable...I'm old I can say that!! Lol

[@nataliecassidy4298]

Again Adam and Uncle Rex I say that we have to have humor to some extent even in the middle of a crisis, all depression and anxiety, negativity only makes things worse I feel! Love to you both ❤❤from AKRON, OHIO

[@Christineatheart]

Rex, you are the Jiminy Cricket of our generation!

[@cheryltorrie558]

Thank you for your time knowledge and grace.

[@carrie4d117]

Great podcast

[@candicemaritz3609]

I send the most love and best wishes to both of you. I respect your decision on not going to court. I think for me, I would not want the person to get off easy, it will probably be more of a relief to them if the direct love ones are not there in court. I would want to be there looking him or her in the eye as the verdict is read out and they are carried away.

[@lizmariposa1]

I'm glad that you two have decided to do this podcast. For many of us, even though we aren't family, this has been very traumatizing. I've been following this for so long... and in the beginning, all we thought was that this was just a custody case with a mom hiding her kids from other family, etc. I would have NEVER imagined all of this. Never, ever, in a million, billion, zillion years. The case became personal to me. The kids became like my family. The Woodcocks became like my family. Colby became a person I care about. So it was devastating to learn the outcome... and I'm not sure I'll ever recover. I guess now that so much info has come out, the closest I can come to in comparison to this, is Ervil LeBaron and his "Church of the Firstborn" stuff...

[@anniecarty]

Hello from Scotland and joined FB group on Sunday and feel so very welcomed already with genuine care so thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@Stefanie_Thompson_Fithian]

Laughter is the best medicine 💊 it’s how I deal with grief, at times. Btw I’m an optimist 😃

[@susierox]

Love you guys❤. This was such a positive and uplifting show 🫶. Thank you for it x

[@caliwm9860]

I have a friend that is LDS who has never heard of the Daybell Vallow trials, but she was telling me an LDS family she knows in CA have embraced Visions of Glory book, sold everything and moved to Rexburg ID. My fear is this will not end with Chad & Lori!!!

[@adamcox44]

Do you want to tell that story on the podcast? We want to dig a little further with the book visions of glory.

[@rosem3967]

I love this channel and this community. Rex, will you be going to Court when the Jury has a Verdict?

[@lindastewart6537]

I am an optimist. More so as I have gotten older. Also I try to go with the flow if it’s in a positive direction. Also a bit of a loner and homebody. Just got into following blogs. This horrible happening has just really resonated deep in my being.

[@vickisheetz5046]

My ex and I were AVOW members for 10 years. We attended many campouts and prepper conferences. I rarely read the dreams forum. I was focused on physical preps. I tossed my copy of Visions of Glory in the recycle bin along with my Daybell book. I read about half of VOG and none of the Daybell book.

[@denysemcalister3390]

Wish I could recommend some resources, but I have no idea. I don't fit into the categories that you mentioned, but I do like listening what you have to say from a victim's point of view. From a listener in Australia.

[@lindastuart3780]

Maybe you could share a bit about your situation so there could be some feedback about resources specific to your situation.

[@denysemcalister3390]

@@lindastuart3780 You sound lovely and kind. Thanks for your response. I'll have a think about what I want to say.

[@11Windermere]

My best friend married a con artist who is getting out soon after 12 years for money laundering/fraud. Their child was 2 years old when he went in, they have now lost parental rights and are long divorced. I think I can speak for her when I say that she needs a safe space where others can commiserate with her- she feels so embarrassed, she's disappointed in herself for letting her kid down, but SHE DIDN"T KNOW! Guilt is something that is hard to shake. Thanks for working on this guys!

[@Pixie2589]

I would like to see more healing e.g, Ben Connor’s input, other professionals’ input versus so much justification for what you are doing or not doing here.

[@michaelsimson8976]

I think family members who are victims of crime inflicted by other family members need to work out the source of the trauma. The mental illness is generally deep-seated and typically sourced during childhood and/or upbringing! I’m not trying to be critical, but I believe the person you are forgetting here is Lori. She did not suddenly go from being a “great person and mother” to commiting familicide overnight. There was something wrong with her all along and that needs to be worked through by the whole family. Good luck.

[@victoriagodwin3071]

Yes her illness had been festering for years until the inevitable happened

[@michaelsimson8976]

@@victoriagodwin3071 she said it herself on national tv “ticking time bomb”

[@victoriagodwin3071]

@@michaelsimson8976 She got that right

[@dreamonqt]

It's very odd to be so traumatized by someone elses story, but this story has shook me. I think hearing your story and your healing journey allows me to process and heal from the horrific details I've heard. It's healing to know the family is able to move forward and create some beauty out of this unbelievable life altering crime. I will continue to support and look forward to wherever we go as optimists!! ❤

[@SleutherStrode]

You guys just keep doing you, don’t let nasty people get you down. There are too many folks following this case who are sitting at the steps of the guillotine baying for blood. People seem to want to punish everybody including innocent family members like yourselves. Instead of placing the blame where it belongs.

[@Kaycatherine411]

I am part of FB group and listen to you all here too. I am planning to follow on Patrion also and looked into Adam’s accountability program too. I have worked over 20 years in rehabilitation for criminally involved people and families. I am also the victim of crime. I don’t want to assert I know what others need. I think what we don’t need is a shorter list. We don’t need to respond to every critic. Especially the podcast that is available without a paywall. I don’t think there are any constructive criticism that occurs in this space. I think you have offered email addresses for constructive criticism. I would personally recommend directing comments to that avenue. If people take the effort to email, then you can take the time to consider their feedback. I also think you should have a volunteer screen those emails and pass along the ones that meet the parameters to address or consider. I would be happy to be that volunteer if needed. I value you both and your families. I don’t typically comment but I am listening and learning.

[@kimberly42923]

I can add some context: Emma and chads cop car convo wasn’t the first time they spoke that day. So if that convo seems weirdly devoid of emotion or questions, Emma was already aware of what was happening and they spoke prior to him getting in that car. So it’s just one part of their interaction that day.

[@jewelgazer]

I’m glad you brought this up!

[@GenuinelyGena123]

If I recall correctly, Chad said that he was at Emma’s house on his phone call to Lori. 😮

[@paulcash9282]

Thank you guys for helping me dealing with the death of my 43 year. Old son PC. I admire you both love from momma c

[@ndgrandma2124]

Sorry to hear of your loss and grief. Blessings to you and yours.

[@lindabradford9591]

My condolences for your loss

[@Paula-po9kx]

I’m so sorry you lost your son, it’s devastating. I lost my 49 yr old son last June, it’s a never ending heartbreak. On Facebook some people gave me some good support and I appreciate them so much. I pray for you and myself that we might find peace and comfort knowing our sons are in a better place.❤❤❤

[@Paula-po9kx]

@@lindabradford9591 thank you

[@paulcash9282]

@@lindabradford9591 Thank you Linda hugs!

[@kazmungovan117]

Yes!!!! They need a safe place to just be, breathe, vent and not judged… 🇦🇺🇦🇺🇦🇺 an avid Australian listener.

[@PearlMay-kb4gp]

Why am I here listening to this podcast? You have helped me find me again. For that I'm thankful . IMO why this horrific case has brought so many people together is we want to help you the direct victims of these crimes. We want to help you carry this burden by letting you know you are not alone. Through all the trials and court hearings we have been brought closer together and in God's plan, for those who believe in Him, know we are all family in faith and love. Trolls are people that are not secure in their own lives . They are only happy when they are making waves and trying to make others as miserable as they are. Darkness is their friend. We who feel true feelings and have compassion walk in light and love and want the best for everyone, even Chad and Lori . I have disgusting feelings for them both , being human , but I do hope that someday , someway they find their way back to reality. Thank you for sharing your feelings and for respecting those that can agree to disagree. Much love from Pennsylvania .

[@KathyMcDowell-ju9to]

One suggested future topic for resources would be concerning caregivers for needed support in many ways. They are warriors, but it is grueling; and they can’t, or don’t, seek self-care when taking care of others. Their own physical and mental health take a back seat, often for years. Financial setbacks also incur, as little assistance is available to them or to families (despite Biden’s efforts). They can suffer a unique anticipatory grief in cases of prolonged or terminal illness as well as the final loss of life. That grief can multiply with a tragic or unexpected end, which causes further trauma. There is much healing, in many ways, that is needed. Finally, there is a loss of identity once their service is over. Caregiving is an “onion” of its own, which I hope can be explored and which may affect many Optimists. Grief and depression, and loss and healing, are huge areas in many unique situations - including caregiving.

[@lindaprice1306]

I think you both are doing a great job with the podcast 💯 and love and prayers for you and your family ❤️

[@LSChestersMom]

I am a survivor of serious abuse and have PTSD. I mention this because I know a FABULOUS trauma counselor who I a sure would come on the show to help give ideas and resources for healing. Her name is Nancy Loeb and you would love , LOVE HER! I have also spoken alongside her in schools and churches about what red flags to look for in kids in homes that are not safe. I have been here from the start and love your channel. Let me know if you would like me to connect you all. Nancy is a gem- very soecial- works with kids and adults for over 35 years. And she is funny and special like you folks. She is a true optimist! Your channel has helped me so much to feel a part of a community committed to healing and support. You honor Charles, Tammy, Tylee and JJ in all you do and say.

[@biancaprior]

Yes, come to Australia! We love you guys. Free accommodation when you get here😀😅Zac and Lisa welcome too of course!x

[@kazmungovan117]

Yes we would love to have you down here.🇦🇺…there are a few communities here made up of victims of crimes that I’m sure would love to have convos with.

[@adamcox44]

Thank you so much!

[@tabathabrown6508]

Good Morning! Listened on the way to work love the encouragement early this Tuesday morning Hope everyone has a great day 😎 @adam great pickleball weather, yes?

[@adamcox44]

Yes.. always great pickleball weather

[@psmith121]

Love this 👌

[@tjaaktje]

Hello from the Netherlands! My name is Tjaaktje, but you can call me T.J. or Jacky. I lived as an exchange student in Nebraska for one year, many years ago, in 1995. My host father was a prosecutor, and because of him, I became interested in law and following court cases. I learned about J.J., Tylee, Charles, and Tammy in February 2020 when they were still searching for the kids. I followed Lori’s case, and now I’m following Chad’s case. It’s perfect timing for me because I get out of work at 4:30 pm, which is 8:30 am in Idaho. I’ve been watching your Silver Linings podcast since you started during Lori’s trial. I appreciate your views on the case and on life in general. You did a great job helping me see things as more than just black and white / dark vs. light. You brought different shades to the whole story for me. Thank you. I wish my English were better so I could express myself more clearly. That’s why I never commented before. My receptive English is very good, but I always struggle to find the right way to say what I want to say. Best wishes to you and your family!

[@lightyearsfromhome1165]

Ah yes, the gateway to Europe.

[@TerryJewell-z5e]

Nothing wrong with your English . Cheers.😊

[@SarahMarie2023]

Hi Adam and Rex, Love you guys! My heart is with you all. My❓ is, if Chad gets acquitted (I don’t think this will happen and pray it doesn’t), what do you guys think would happen? ❤. Sarah from London Ontario Canada

[@backwoodsgeorgiagirl5594]

You could not have asked me a better question. I think Larry and Kay would agree with me. Grandparents need a way to be able to check on their grandkids when they have been shut out of their life

[@deborahcunningham9958]

Good morning men , happy to see you and I am always with you . I am praying that Chad gets what is deserved . Thank you for letting me have a place to say I love you tylie and jj❤️💔❤️💔🇨🇦Canada Nan

[@jillianraby7890]

One thing I respect about Lori is she didn't try to bring witnesses into her case. ..unlike Chad

[@ATChick]

As a woman who was almost smothered to death by an ex, and who was almost killed at JJ's age by her father, this trial means a lot to me. Seeing Larry in the courtroom every day reminds me that my grandfather and grandmother would have stood up for me had either of those people actually killed me.

[@mrsk4343]

I think all victims need a voice. They need to be heard. As Lisa said, a safe place. You truly offer that.

[@jewelgazer]

Wow thank you for sharing what happened to you. 💕💕💕 You are much loved here!

[@nanceb4him]

So sorry this has happened to you..💝

[@adamcox44]

We would love to hear your story if you ever want to share it on the podcast. If you think that will be helpful for you to heal.

[@diamonminer1803]

Gruncle Rex and Adam could do a podcast from Brisbane, Australia. Nate Eaton said he used to live in Brisbane, and has a following from there.

[@seaaashelll6390]

Goodmorning from Myrtle Beach SC 🏖️☀️🐚🌊

[@paulcash9282]

Momma C here....love you guys!❤