PARAS KALNAWAT OPENS UP ABOUT HIS ABUSIVE RELATIONSHIP !!!! || SIMMY SAID WHATT?!

Love stories aren't always a bed of roses. 🌹 In this episode, I talk about its thorns with Paras Kalnawat. He has had his fair share of traumatic experiences when it came to love, but he still hasn't lost hope. ⭐️
If someone asked me to describe duality, this is the episode I'd share with them. 💯
Listener's Discretion Advised.
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[@aimanshah1879]

Finally....This is the guy all girls need . He is so sophisticated so decent and so serious in a relationship. For him girls are not toys... Respect to this guy...hats offf

[@anand45671]

She was not Toxic...he was a SIMP! Who gives a teddy bear EVERYDAY??? 🤣

[@GirishKumar-ns8wl]

​@Anand Rao, but she was f toxic, and he was just too sweet for her

[@anand45671]

@@GirishKumar-ns8wl Girls hate clingy guys who have no spine. He was just a Simp...who gives a teddy bear everyday?? LOL!!!!

[@bhumikasardana4705]

This guy seems too good to be true!We need to raise our standards girls!Find your Paras in this world full of chocolate :P

[@anshuman368]

Reality me aise ladke friendzoned hote h bec not every guy with a good heart has a good looking face

[@rohittkilatur9804]

@@anshuman368 Very true bro, these guys become so needy which majority of girls dont like

[@japnnetsingh4492]

That's some bars right there

[@wandineer5101]

Kuch nhi hskta tumhra asehi katti rhogi ladko ka jo tumhra chutia katenge unhe tum sab kuch dene k liye tyar rhogi aur jo tumhri care krnge unka tum chutia katigi

[@Bathroomsinger11]

@@anshuman368 facts

[@NusratJahan-lq6no]

He is the guy that every girl dreams of🙂💜

[@nehasinhaofficial5384]

Indeed

[@sk2763]

Really yaar mujhe pyar hi hogya bas mil jae esa looks with emotions dil se respect nikalegi ❤️

[@i.ankitmalviya1]

Still goes for shit

[@tusharkant6166]

No mam girl need this type of guy and after getting they getting bored

[@brucebanner2763]

BUT EVERY GIRL DON'T DESERVE HIM

[@uttkarsh_sanjay]

I felt like I was speaking for 46 minutes instead It was that heart touching and relatable Thanks simmy for this wonderful episode

[@Khushigupta0904]

Who are you man.. I mean is there really actual real human being who's having the same mentality as this guy paras..i mean i have lost all the hope for my expectations dude..i mean this guy has allll the mentalities even i have..and i am soo fed up with people surrounding me saying this kinda mentality is not even real..and i should just change it..and become NORNAL 😭

[@uttkarsh_sanjay]

@@Khushigupta0904 unfortunately we we exists

[@pankajtilwani0604]

@@Khushigupta0904 Simmi ne bola to ki koi ladka aata hai 2-3 line maarta hai aur hum flat ho jaate usmein hum jaise ladke reh jaate 😂

[@Khushigupta0904]

@@uttkarsh_sanjay broo..it's not unfortunate..gems ho tumlog🥲😂just wait for the right person.. Yhi sahanubhuti khud ko v deti hu mai😂

[@Khushigupta0904]

@@pankajtilwani0604 so sad..but heere to bheed me v chamakte hi hai..koi na koi deserving dhoond hi lega..

[@anweshabhattacharjee5968]

such a gentleman he is yr 😍...very sophisticated and a genuine one ...like his Character... it's really impressive in today's time 🙂....

[@debanikgoswami4834]

He is so similar to me😅.

[@srushtib5321]

HE TOTALLY DESERVES AN EPIC LOVE STORY, EXACTLY LIKE HE DREAMS OF!!! ❤didn't realise this episode would make me so happy! Just the way he spoke so respectfully about his extremely toxic relationship made my heart full..

[@DevSingh-zg5gj]

The guys is a LOSER! Most girls wont be able to handle his clinginess and needy behavior. He is more of a pushover which is something no girl likes. These types just try to act extra extra sweet and romantic to impress girls!

[@shriyadeshmukh9931]

I love this guy! Even I am in the healing process right now and I am in the zone wherein I had given up thinking true love exist but listing to this guy’s views I felt the ray of hope and I could meet a guy like him , he is exactly I have always wanted ya! ❤

[@SachkiratSinghCanada]

I hope you're doing better now.

[@exotic_soul728]

Every girl want a boy like him.. i don't know why I got so many good vibes from him. A guy like you every girl dream of❤️

[@aastha9863]

Paras is a true Gem!❤ He is the guy, every girl needs. Soo true and honest💗

[@shwetaghosh6193]

This guy, and the entire conversation, this really made me happy💙

[@vivekjasrotia5906]

But he is not a giirl type material....he is just rich that's why he get some girls

[@anonymousfk]

@@vivekjasrotia5906 he wasnt born rich bro , he did hardwork and now he's rich . he's a genuine one

[@iieneyy]

Same here 😌🤗

[@shwetaghosh6193]

@@vivekjasrotia5906 I disagree with you.

[@vivekjasrotia5906]

@@shwetaghosh6193 people love there belives not reality

[@lydiadarla7543]

People always tell me, "I don't deserve you" i used to feel so left out with this statement but after watching this video I know there are people like me out here

[@VrushtiRohit24]

I relate to him so much. I feel like Everything he has quoted so far. Especially "there are sometimes you feel like you do a lot for others but what are others doing for you" Is so true!

[@sakshivani9832]

Simmy di asking his zodiac sign out of nowhere was the highlight of the whole podcast 😂😭

[@Energyofuniverse5]

Paras you are my male version. I hate abusive language so I have no friend who abuses.I am also a very simple girl not materialistic and even I have no greed of any type .I was also looking for my soulmate but luckily I got him and We are going to married in the future as soon as possible but he is 80% like me , this thing is amazing for me ....but tumko bhi tumhari wali zarur milegi cz you are a gem man ❤️😘

[@marianaeem1948]

Huge respect for him. I hardly seen a person like him in the era

[@jaandedenge6817]

As a man there is so much to learn from this man ✌️

[@shivamcreatz5847]

True bro

[@SachkiratSinghCanada]

I can so much relate to Paras. From being the guy who tries to see "forever" in girls, getting attracted to simplicity, to respecting everyone, I could see myself in him. Thank you so much for sharing your story and making me realise that I'm not the only such boy out there. :)

[@SudhanshuSinghMusic]

This man's thought is sooo relatable to mine! Forever thing, respect and comparatively much less abuse, etc.. bro you are literally my mirror image or I'm urs.. idk.. so good episode. Absolutely love it! 😊

[@narenshetty1541]

35:47 for all of you who want to listen to the poem he wrote... BEAUTIFUL ❤️

[@aditisharma1485]

why is nobody talking about how soothing and calming his voice is like omg

[@vaibhavsaxena4249]

Thank you Paras!! You are strong who came out so nicely.

[@NusratJahan-lq6no]

I can relate to him in so many levels bro🙂🖤 I thought I'm the only one in this world who has these kinda requirements 🙂

[@sachinkumar7298]

I relate myself with him.Is there any girl who can be my girlfriend

[@strm3197]

@@sachinkumar7298 aa gya bheekh mangne

[@sachinkumar7298]

@@strm3197 teri kyon jali 🤣

[@strm3197]

@@sachinkumar7298 jalegi or vo bhi terese, teri tarah low value man nhi hu main jo KZbin comment section me bheekh mangta hai girls se

[@Themystery321]

@@sachinkumar7298 youtube Comment dekh ke ladki pat jati hai bhai ekdm sahi dimag lagaya

[@twilight2747]

I used to wonder is there a guy on this planet who doesn't abuse and who doesn't like foul language and here's our starrr🥺💝

[@DevSingh-zg5gj]

The guy is a LOSER! Most girls wont be able to handle his clinginess and needy behavior. He is more of a pushover. These types just try to act extra extra sweet and romantic to impress girls!!!

[@thelogicsite8252]

Khud se nhi dete hai,situation ki zarurat hoti hai

[@tamannakatiriya5420]

Actually first time I felt that it's not paras, it's me. Paras's thinking process is just as me❤

[@ritikamittal5033]

He is such a gem yaar😳I mean itna sab kuch hoone ke baad bhi Banda smile krta h hamesha ❤️ I m his biggest fan and I respect him soo much but after knowing this aaj aur zaada respect badh gyi h ❤️.u r ♾️ sir we love u ❤️

[@sapna7708]

I remember watching paras as SP in Meri Durga and there he performed his character so well, I became a fan of his for life. Some of the scenes in that show really highlighted his acting prowess spectacularly.

[@narendraparihar3605]

i can relate to him i was literally in tears after watching this

[@Khushigupta0904]

Who are you man.. I mean is there really actual real human being who's having the same mentality as this guy paras..i mean i have lost all the hope for my expectations dude..i mean this guy has allll the mentalities even i have..and i am soo fed up with people surrounding me saying this kinda mentality is not even real..and i should just change it..and become NORNAL

[@lavanyaghai27]

I too relate this i am also go through so much toxicity what i deserve i never find one💔

[@narendraparihar3605]

@@lavanyaghai27 i wish you will over from this ❤

[@narendraparihar3605]

@@Khushigupta0904 nothing big in that im just a normal guy thats it 😅

[@maryamaltaf2002]

I'm exactly your female version and i can completely relate go you . I've been through same n I hope we both find someone exactly like us ❤️

[@shalinikumari-ef4es]

I m soo lucky to have a guy like him in my life💖

[@vartikabalain2306]

You go Paras❤ so so sooo proud of you !! Your parents raised you well ! More power to you

[@twilight2747]

Samarrrrrrr, anupama show is so incomplete without you. Well happy to see you here Paras💕

[@nikiitoshniwal]

Woaahh!!! Hats off!! 🙌 This is the best episode soo far!! Boys with such amazing mindset are rare to find nowadays! You are surely a keeper paras!❤ You have got a new fan now!

[@vivekjasrotia5906]

Reality mein kisi girl ko nahi chahiye aisa guy

[@SR-mv2mf]

We need to know why Paras felt the need to even be in that relationship. It stems from our childhood traumas. We accept the love we think we deserve

[@sapna7708]

I relate to this guy so much dude. Like the way he percieves the world is the same way I percieve the world.

[@sananaeem8025]

he is so simple ND brave person I must say..... he is Soooooo honest ND true 👍❣️

[@vartikashukla4693]

Paras I am big fan of your personality from the very beginning of anupama show....but never knew I would relate to your thoughts this much.... literally u are a male version of me....love uu bro...may lord Krishna bless u with happiness 🕉️❣️

[@secretgarg2212]

Le me:- who already listened on podcast😂 but still here to see the expression

[@Poojawhatisthisbehaviourr]

Us bro..

[@secretgarg2212]

@@Poojawhatisthisbehaviourr us moment bro😂🙌

[@adwitiyamanna206]

Us moment 😂

[@secretgarg2212]

@@adwitiyamanna206 yo bro😂🙌

[@saumyatiwari5929]

Takeaways from the videos 1.Try to know the person before getting involved in a serious relationship . 2. Never be insecure and don't compare yourself from the guy/girl s ex or from his/her male/female friends . Everybody is beautiful in their own way. 3.love ,respect , effort has to be given by both the partners ,a one sided relationship will not sustain in the long term. 4.Never ignore the red flags in the relationship , whenever you feel like something is going wrong say it upfront .Always have boundries in every kind of relationship. 5.Always be considerate about the partner feeling and other roles as a son ,daughter , working person ,birthdays /anniversaries can be celebrated later too . 6.Give space to the partner don't cage the partner.Trust your partner .

[@user-ld2ik5jj3v]

him wearing a travis scott shirt talking the way he is just isn’t adding up 😂

[@JD-je1sw]

Yeah even I was thinking the same ... this is all made up

[@Doctorsings]

Yeah 😒

[@programmer9364]

@c Can u explain?

[@gayatridash-0807]

Paras and me = same old school guys and we all want someone like him 🥺❤️

[@jklivesrock1261]

I am female Paras ....I can't use abusive words....And I find all people beautiful....Faces are never ugly, only minds are

[@akshitasingh2755]

Hey simmy you are such an inspiration to me. I've been following you from so long. Lots of love to you ♥️ **But the irony here is I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with your cousin from past 5 years and I've been recovering from that by watching you and your videos.** Thank you for being the amazing person you are ♥️🧚

[@antaradas6012]

Your cousin means simmy's cousin ?!

[@hihello9518]

Huh?!?!? You were in a relationship with simmy's cousin?? Then why are you appreciating her. Your comment is very confusing

[@akshitasingh2755]

@@antaradas6012 yeah

[@akshitasingh2755]

@@hihello9518 yeah cuz her podcasts are helping me recover

[@aishwaryarajawat3657]

Okay I've rejected myself based on language 🤣🤣

[@tanishaghanty3840]

Me too 😂😂😂

[@daryn2930]

This guy is literally me... I wish I could have a one on one conversation with him... I'd really like his advice on a number of things!

[@meghabhojgi8126]

He is so calm n positive 😍😍

[@asmitanalavade3306]

This guy is very geniune with his feelings ❤️

[@juhimalhotra7786]

Loved the conversation . He is such a sweet person.

[@point618trader]

one of the best episode of SSW....😊 totally relatable

[@mehwishyasir5220]

He is the most cute, handsome and loving guy I have ever seen in my life. lots of love for paras❤️

[@1shikadedha]

he is such a simple guy!!! I love!!

[@ananyatripathy15]

He totally seems like my boyfriend.. His thoughts are totally similar to him❤

[@shivanidixit7792]

I'm in really great awe by watching this interview. Paras is really different!!!!! Now a huge fan of u:)

[@partharanjanmondal5643]

I want a gentleman like him in my life 😘😍❤️☺️

[@apoorvatiwari6475]

This guy is awesome...he is a gem kind of person...❣️

[@rashmichakraborty9]

Hard relate to the fell-out-of-love reason that is given while breaking up. 🤣 Loved this episode! 😇

[@priyankamistry3727]

the fact this frst gf ws Urfi Javed.

[@ishikakukreja2565]

Paras = Rishi singh shekhavat in real ❤️🥹

[@samriddharoychowdhury9579]

seriously

[@shrishtistraveldiaries76]

It's hilarious when Simmy asks him about his skin care routine 🤣 LOL

[@inayaaaa.d]

Bro, this guy is what most of the girls want. I respect this guy. He is best dudee.

[@Grey-td3vv]

Listening to paras I feel like yes man there's someone like me exist as well..Guys like us exists who see yaar true love exists..We want peace in our life we want one girl for forever... These era is of competition of toxic masculinity,toxic feminism.. hooking up , fooling around which is so tiring man.. We need just peace with our one girl who will be us with forever...But then again I think there's no girl like that who exist..they all want thrill suspence etc etc..while all we want is love and care..

[@anaghashashidhara459]

Paras seems like a sweet person, and a hopeless romantic 😄

[@sarmi0021]

I can completely understand.. I don't drink don't party don't smoke.. don't take any relation for granted.. always feel empathy for everyone.. and each person I meet think at first I'm fake.. I still think there's no one actually who'd be like me.. ever ... May be god made me like this so that I end up alone...it's too depressing.. it's not about being all sati Savitri but this is how I am.. I feel I should change but it'll be too much to take.. I feel lost.. and love feels like .. delusional.

[@imSushree]

The points Simmy mentioned about being charmed by some cute boys on dating apps are sooo truee and relatable which till date i thought happens only wid me n ultimately i m the fool 😂😂 Good to know m Not the only 1 🤭

[@wandineer5101]

Bhaut achi cheez h kya ye encouragement milni chhie tumhe..Waah

[@ayushka1850]

I found the male version of myself... The same thought process about relationships and marriage👍

[@shreyayadav_]

That's it!!! He is the the guy of my dreams!!! ❤️❤️😭😭

[@amitkulkarni5564]

​@Khyalo Ki Duniya qAb nnn

[@amitkulkarni5564]

bbbABbb

[@sudhasrivastava150]

Dude felt like I was talking there for 46 min, so relatable.

[@gauritiwari743]

Just one line for him... It's too tough to handle your cuteness.....❤😘

[@proudindian9896]

I am actually just same as paras like my thought process about relationship and love is so similar to his.. I am such an introvert girl with that old school love vibes and I am happy that i have a beautiful guy in my life who is just perfect for me I just love him so much 🐻❤

[@Laibaa_rafiq]

He's the most nicest person I've ever seen 🥺😭♥

[@jyukti2124]

I really hope this relationship works . I know right now you are in a pretty serious relationship and like I genuinely feel this might work . Much love 🌸

[@M_Aaliyan]

I just can't express in words how much i was relating to him while watching this video!

[@shivsharma4256]

I just wonder these kind of guys do exist, seriously keep it up dude ur simplicity is ossum 🥳😂

[@doktor_mario]

Jesus i feel like I was watching MYSELF being interviewed, I've been through the exact same experience it's almost uncanny, the resemblance some people's minds and thoughts can have and the question on skincare is also smth i always get asked when I'm with people 🤠 like bruh i just washed my face *_touches wood_* its so hard to believe but refreshing to see apne jaise log 🙃 Paras my dude you're my twin ✨

[@arelmurmu3361]

Yeah.. Same..

[@cosmixeditz505]

Damn...after seeing this I've realised how much similarities I and paras have...shit...I'm really happy and surprised by seeing someone with the same mentality I've...now I know I'm not the only one... :) Edit-: I'm a guy...nit a girl who's relating

[@_Rachna_Kumari_]

is he really that kind of a person he is saying about himself like for me this is really very hard to believe that someone like him (as he said) exist in this world......😶‍🌫️

[@shriyamchaturvedi9370]

As a girl I know this feeling but i never thought that there are guys who have this kind of thought process or such kind soul ... really

[@vanshitapal9645]

I want to be like this guy so simplifed and thoughtful .......just fell in love with how he is so generous ❤

[@sigmafemale3954]

My heart is not in my mouth and I’m not screaming 😊

[@nidhisatheesh18]

I don't understand this cycle. Good people ending up with a toxic partner. I honestly don't know this guy. I have not seen his work. He sure is a good looking person but with this video, if every work that he said is true, I am in awe. His way of talking, his nature, the way he is brought up. I wish we had such guys around us and less of these toxic men! 🥲 You'll find a good person bud! ❤️

[@nidhisatheesh18]

Word*

[@drshahmina6412]

Pisces and scorpion are hella same 😅 Intense, passionate,dreamy, sophisticated,giver

[@shivamcreatz5847]

Self respect and clarity is something we all need♥️👍

[@Ms_Vai]

I meet Paras and we Sanskarians are very proud that he was x student of our school..but he not forgot his school he had come to meet in our school

[@eshwarb3370]

Being a scorpion, totally can relate to that tooo much love wala part!! Thankyou so much for this episode!!

[@richasharma7414]

same here

[@twinkle745]

Is he scorpio ☺️

[@Nidz-ge9st]

I'm also a Scorpio 😀

[@premlata3570]

I'm Bolero

[@anmolpreetkaur542]

GEM💎

[@nakshgoyal6589]

' He is the guy which every girl "wants"' But , The girl ends up friendzoning such guys...This is harsh reality ( Especially , you are too good vala thing )

[@pagra2000]

Some people just like only those people who tries to be oversweet in front of public not those who are straightforward and calls them fake. This is the comment. As people who know even 1% about him knows that what he's here is same everywhere and completely open and honest to his audience.

[@dr.ankita4336]

Totally agree

[@bikrampaul3885]

I used to think that I'm complex, I'm thinking too much, whats happening with me have no clue.... But this guy is completely me 🥹 He just washed out all the complexity... Almost 90% things are similar... I'm just perplexed...

[@samruddhee1206]

Seen very few guys like this.... Loved the episode ♥️

[@Storiesworld0601]

Really awesome mindset and I wish every person gets thinking like this celebrity

[@pagra2000]

I always respected him since the time I saw him, his ivs and followed him on instagram during his Anupamaa days. And I also noticed that he had to stop posting pics and reels with his same age co-actresses several times. And I'm a big time fan of his poetries. His poetry for his father was so heartfelt. He's that decent guy, friend and co-worker which his every co-actor and friends respect irrespective of their gender and calls him gem of a person. But today my respect for him increased much more. He's genuinely that kind of guy who has ben raised by dignified parents. And he deserves best. There's saying that only that person can actually relate to someone's pain if that person or his/her family had gone through the same phase. My cousin brother was in an abusive marriage and he and our whole family suffered a lot. That's why I can understand. And everything that Paras said was on point. People's mentality changes by knowing our status,our profession. And eing a girl still I'm saying that this women card thing is the bitter but biggest truth boon as well as bane for girls. And they can play it at wrong places for their own comfo own pleasure and can falsely accuse any innocent person using the same.

[@monica-nj5ec]

He is male version of me literally literally

[@xavi._06]

I do not really comment, but had to...This Guy is OH-SO Relatable..Felt Like my Older Version is guiding me what not to do in future as much as relationship is concerned. I too have a same kind of Preference like him but God Knows what is yet to unfold but so thanks to Simmy Di for this podcast..Much Love Paras Bhaiya ❤⭐

[@DD-ru2lw]

Some people don't love people they are in love with the idea of love.

[@thebakersedgebynikita]

I can relate to Paras story 💯 exact same thing happen with me 💯and also I am too Scorpion 💗 i can feel what Paras has gone through.

[@sujatadas9365]

I relate to him on a lot of things manh 😭❤️ may God protect him at all cost ❤️

[@jklivesrock1261]

Also, a lot of good looking guys say that they like simple girls but at the end of the day, simple girls only remain as friends and not their lovers. Simple girls are not treated with the same respect as good looking girls However, all men and women are beautiful.

[@jklivesrock1261]

@Khyalo Ki Duniya Monogamy or polygamy is an individual's choice. However, it should be discussed with the respective partners. Also, I agree that monogamy/polygamy is a social construct

[@jklivesrock1261]

@Khyalo Ki Duniya love without emotions is nothing more than an animal's instinct

[@umanisita7580]

Simmy di is being simmy di 😂😂"what is your skincare routine?" Even I was admiring his skin n lips(they are not pigmented ), why do guys have such amazing skin 🥲🥲

[@umachaudhary6009]

That second girl was a narcissistic partner for sure. They convince you they are the victim while you are the victim all along. They love it only until the time the world revolves around them. 💔

[@ruchikashekhawat6497]

He's a gem 💎

[@saranibhattacharya2849]

Paras is a gem 💎

[@bellahoor4158]

He is such a gentleman 😍

[@Doeeyedcatfaced]

His ex is literally insane...his relationship would've been such a terrifying nightmare