How to be the most confident & charismatic person in the room.

[@alexandraardnaxela4]

Ok, SSS Society member here. II just quickly wanted to stop by and express my gratitude to you. You have no idea how meaningful your videos are for me. The amount of work, energy and dedication you put in the work you share with us, both on KZbin and on the private community is insane. You inspire me to work harder on my goals and to be a better person. I truly hope you are aware of your impact because you have changed immensly the way I see and live my life. So just THANK YOU.

[@simonesimmons]

Wow, thank you!

[@janvis4879]

im convinced simone has telepathic thoughts she knows what to post WHEN we need that advice

[@louislemagicien]

She has a really really weird voice at when pronuncing some sounds. Same voice as the cloud in Adventure Time

[@theantihero27]

i've watched millions of confidence vids including this and i just hv to say, its a mindset..it honestly manifests itself because just yesterday was the last day of the term, and a guy literally walked all the way up to me and told me that i was the most confident person he knew..its just ur mind that gets in the way..believe u are worth sm more, and ppl will treat like that

[@jayadvice]

seriously needed this girl, ive started posting myself on tiktok and i needed to reassure myself that i should NOT care what people think of me and here you are ❤❤

[@Blue.clouds]

How is she so perfect 😭 Notes: - stop being insecure - confidence comes from the heart: don’t pretend - never one up someone - eye contact - make small wins of others a big deal - don’t brag - never feel threatened by others - be present (don’t think of past) - don’t hog conversations - have own sense of humour - be good at human psychology - how to become good at psychology : observe and understand yourself - confident people are humble & vulnerable Conclusion: I’m not insecure I’m just not confident. I give off “complain” vibes which I need to fix.

[@Blue.clouds]

Huge update: I no longer seem toxic to others . I no longer feel toxic. Which is great. I am to an extent toxic and still give off complain vibes but I am hoping it’ll go away too! I also really need to stop this whole pretend me era. I am not fake: but I pretend involuntarily I don’t want to.

[@Blue.clouds]

Big update: I’m no longer in a depressive episode thanks to Simone !! Update: still not depressed !

[@angelinasuch2081]

Thank you❤

[@ghostii1352]

Proud of you dudeeee!

[@majd_majd1195]

Charisma 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@mario125ww]

Simone you are so mature for your age. I'm 26 dude that watch your videos and often forget that you are younger due to your wisdom. Thanks for posting!

[@sonalitudu5353]

Your lipstick shade looks amazing on you 😭❤️

[@shaniquawells4445]

Simone, you are the queen of psychological terms and thoughts. Not only that, I saw a video of you talking about friendships and it really helped me. Thanks Simone. Continue posting.❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@urfavgiselle]

the timing on this is immaculate im not feeling how I used to feel but this helped 😩‼️

[@eternalshiv]

perfect timing perfect video ! exactly what i was looking for ! thankyou simone ❤❤

[@ananya9926]

The queen has posted!Love you lots😍

[@prishapandey7361]

OMG I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!! YOU'RE LITERALLY THE BEST BIG SISTER A GIRL COULD ASK FOR I just wanna say thank you for existing and god bless you

[@pilly3815]

your videos are always so comforting 🥺

[@whotf___]

She's so fucking gorgeous but as i watched her video i realised thats not her beauty that is attracting me but her CONFIDENCE the way she talk her attitude I dont wanna be u bcoz ofc i cant but surely u are influencing me in positive way and just wanna be as confident as you are ....love u 🎀

[@NatsuDragneel-ud4fi]

Girl you need to do an updated makeup tut it looks so good! Recs for fashion wud be nice too like stores and basics :) keep up the cool work!

[@theia1357]

I love your energy even if its low or down, its still charismatic

[@WiseGuy770]

Your videos are so insightful As someone who struggled with social skills in my early 20s These videos are very informative.

[@godlyjanina]

how does she know when i need her words ?! ily sm simone

[@jennifera.s9201]

I just love when simone laugh😭😭

[@hunteruccellini7531]

love when ppl around me all laugh cause the “gears aren’t turning” when i’m just depressed trying not to look like i hate them

[@neroda_]

Just when i need it. Thanks Simone❤

[@musewounded]

Your aura is different in this video … has your self concept improved Simone 😮❤congrats

[@simonesimmons]

no im depressed LMFAOOOOO

[@simonesimmons]

y'all fucking w my depressed aura?

[@musewounded]

@@simonesimmons girl somebody evil eyed you pls do a cleanse !! They hate 2 see a girlboss winning

[@soumyajitdas2701]

ahhhhhh i love her , i really want to feel her energy in person !!!!

[@i_smoll]

this really open my eyes, like everything makes so much sense. thank you so much

[@asterialumin_2030]

hii simone! hope you're well! your videos have helped me, immensely!! and this video is litr posted at the right time!! youre amazing!!!

[@shravanik91]

YOUR HAIR LOOKS SO GOOD SIMONE

[@magic_girlll]

first lovee the video and second girl did you jump outta twilight cause ur makeup is a little vampyy and im here for ittt

[@Loveandpeace20]

I love how transparent this was ❤

[@luchiakim3100]

YOUR HAIR!!! YOU LOOK SO GOODDDD

[@t9xh6]

people!!! ASSEMBLE! THE QUEEN JUST POSTED

[@affys_world]

You are never going to be the most confident person in the room if you are not comfortable in your own skin, which means you're actually insecure. 💯❤ Love yourself first fully and accept the way you are. 💖

[@Trix-STORMY444]

Much love towards you, Simone! And take care of yourself You will come out of this depressive state slowly and surely. 👍🏻😘

[@AsheHey]

just when i decided that my goal for this year would be to be more charismatic, is EXACTLY WHEN SIMONE POSTS

[@Lalala-j3j]

All these things remind me of those kids who take AP classes who put others down and are condescending. If there is one thing that people need to start doing in school, it’s just being happy for their friends successes instead of putting them down

[@wisdomfromprystinetheempress]

A lot of truths in this video. Highly appreciate it! The initial reason for me to watch this video was not the feeling that I would be insecure but thought you gave some tips on how to position yourself in highly professional environments, like being among multi-millionaires or billionaires at an event for example. I am charismatic & highly confident (and have fluctuation in that of course, everybody has, as you said too!) but what people do not understand that we are collectively learned how to be insecure about ourselves because of the false social programming. People would not feel insecure or learn how to be insecure if societal norms didn't suppress their authenticity and genuine personality...just like your innocent joke for example. You did not mean harm but people don't get that we are all individual universes and have our own way of expressing ourselves. She got insecure by your joke. And that made you feel unfit in some ways. It was just a joke. It is a ripple effect to the misunderstanding of each other based on false projecting onto one another. Embracing the totality of yourself (good and bad) projects you within your energy as embracing towards others too. Indeed. That is the trick! From the inside out not from the outside in!

[@Angell_Lee]

Your energy is so pretty! :D

[@simonesimmons]

Oh thank you!

[@ShyamkrishnanNair]

Absolutely agree! It's all about authenticity-confidence and charisma can't come from insecurity. I've felt the difference when I'm genuinely engaged versus when I'm just trying to impress others. Humor can be tricky; sometimes our jokes miss the mark, but that’s part of the fun! I’ve been working on my skills through the Sense of Humor Improvement Program by Habit10x, which really emphasizes connecting with others through laughter. Remember, the more we embrace ourselves, the more we lift each other up. Keep shining!

[@monimon-ee3zc]

hello simone!! thank you for the amazing video^^ and also for sharing how you feeling at the moment with us. hoping you'd start feeling better soon🩵

[@apol_lonia]

Thanks to the introduction I’ve understood why I didn’t like your channel when I found it some time ago, but now I’m enjoying your newest videos. I agree with everything you’ve been saying but I wasn’t convinced to your persona - vibe wasn’t vibing. So remember guys, energy thing is real. If your energy is off then everything else will be off as well.

[@qvarinofficial]

GOSH I LOVE YOU AND YOUR CONTENT SM!♡

[@MirabelleFaris]

I’m half Australian now I know why no one gets my humor

[@saveingyt0]

OMG SIMONWE YOUVE CHANGED MY LIFE ILYSM

[@CraizaYacac]

Oh my gosh. This is so much in time. Thank you so much, Simone. You really help me a lot. Hoping to meet you soon. Loveyah❤❤❤

[@iamhereforyou4772]

love you simone! thank you alwayss🥺❤🧡

[@hickorysocks2628]

To put it simply, go into a place and make people feel loved

[@ilovespringrolls]

simone is blessing us with her content atp

[@misbakhanum9023]

You're energy is magnetic.... I was so hurt for you when I saw you upset on previous video...lov u 😘

[@J33SS]

even if ur insecure or have mental health issues u can start taking that position of focusing on the other person more, listening and asking questions, i’m sure with practice it’ll become more natural so fake it till u make can work here too

[@simonesimmons]

energy doesn't lie

[@Trix-STORMY444]

It's really hard when you are actually struggling from mental health issues.

[@Trix-STORMY444]

Even if u want too u can't cuz lack of energy

[@Trix-STORMY444]

Been there on a depressive episode last year and it was hard to even continue my daily activities

[@bear3s]

Your hair's looking so good

[@khushi-dc2nt]

i clicked on the video and got mogged 😫💞 you look so beautiful simone!!!

[@PearlDeFloreOfficial]

Your skin looks perfect! cant wait to try them out

[@hickorysocks2628]

You may have bad energy but you give great good energy advice 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️

[@DaisyRockbell]

03:27 oh well I´m not insecure, I´m just autistic :D but you can still be charismatic and show people you are interested without constandly looking at them. I have learned that it´s more important to listen and make people feel good about themselves by genuinely being kind. It happens sometimes that people become insecure because of my confidence and thats when I try to show myself vulnerable and approachable to them so we are on the same level and no one is above or below, we are all worth of being seen and whenever I might feel insecure around people I ask myself why and what I´m missing in myself that makes me feel less worth or not good enough. But if you constandly feel insecure around specific people you shouldn´t engage with them and surround yourself with people where you can be yourself with and feel good without thinking about how you act. ✌🏼

[@Anonymous-ks1mk]

This gave me so much prospective. Thank you Simone!! Btw how did you meet that lovely couple? Asking for tips on networking lol

[@ricardo2383]

“Sow insecura” love that 😂

[@sunshine7.2]

Traits of successful people that are socially good to be around: confident eye to eye contact make others feel important introduce them to others in a good way humble kind of vulnerable (to build human connections) Bonus points Stop being insecure; being insecure makes us easier to be manipulated no one wants to talk to an insecure person who looks here are there and does not maintain firm eye contact work on yourself add humor that people are able to understand keep charming! :)

[@Taytayslove]

I hope you get better, i miss your fun energy

[@janhvi..6316]

Haven't been commenting latelyy Hiiiiiieee✨🥳 The energy in givviiinngg

[@Skysingh9872]

*How to be the most confident & charismatic person in the room?* * Confidence and Charisma doesn't stem from insecurity, energy don't lie, people can feel it. It has to come from heart, it should be who you are. * Stop being insecure. * Make people feel important when you meet them, see them eye to eye, be genuinely interested in them. Don't speak over them, don't let your ego speak, it will show you are not confident within. Be attentive while talking to them. * Be personable, when someone is talking, listen genuinely. * Don't feel inferior to other people, don't feel threatened, stay calm, lay back in confidence. * Be present, don't have your mind all over the place. Be fully present, take the moment to respond accordingly and appropriately. People * Don't hog conversations, let the people speak freely. * Look inward not outward, focus on yourself and not on people if they are looking at you or not. Everyone gets magnetised to you when you are being yourself and focused on yourself. * In order to achieve these states you need to work on your mental health and your confidence, your own security. * Be super warm, give someone's intro to other like they are really big personality. * Be funny, have your own way of sense of humour. * Be good in human psychology, should be able to read other people emotions, read signals if they are bored. To be good in psychology understand yourself more, collect your own data, observe people around you, collect data and learn from it. * Be humble, have this mindset that you don't have anything to prove. * Be vulnerable, don't shield everything that you are, human connections are built through vulnerability but off course have some boundaries with strangers. * Are you truly confident or are you actually insecure? * Fix yourself first, be confident in your own skin.

[@y4zzz]

I love this hair colour on you

[@happeacee]

So true Simmon I feel like something has changed about you and here is the reason you were a little bit depressed and now it is fine !

[@Akshara2512]

Waiting for you to upload , cause queen is so amazing.

[@pratigya8103]

bowing down to what Simone preaches...

[@nusrathossain9117]

Mother was calling so ofc I had to come immediately

[@tea4485]

oh my god, i just thought about it. like how to be confident and ur video just hit in right after i opened youtube

[@manyaagarwal2211]

such a queen

[@ruhani3436]

I'm cooked. Everything was going fine but suddenly I'm feeling insecure. Gonna rewatch all of her videos because she's daddy 🛐

[@enhaa0920]

I was really binge watching your videos but you delivered us with a new video🥺🫂🤍

[@aylin7716]

I watch how to be more attractive and these charismatic videos for 1. I like you Simone 😜 2. Why not? Why not find out a new secret to make me look even better or be more charismatic 🤪❤️

[@anyasour]

That title was so powerful I JUST HAD TO click, and that lip colour is gorgeous

[@zahrasistan8468]

I love her laugh ❤

[@NiniEras]

Doing a leg workout 🤝 watching simone, multitasking😌

[@anonymoush4671]

Haha I love sanne vanders ones you should try her leg workouts !

[@NiniEras]

@@anonymoush4671 really! I'll them out, thank you for sharing 🩷. Also one really good at home workout is from "Oceane Andreia", her most viewed video(standing inner leg workout) is my holy grail, it works so well, at least to me.

[@HopeDavis-jp8wd]

Queen has posted i love your videos🌹🌺

[@JeevensJam]

SHE DOES IT AGAIN 🙌

[@Qinspace]

Ilysm, Simone 🩷

[@Taytayslove]

Thank you so much!

[@AngeI.444]

This is literally what I’ve been thinking about throughout the entire day at school😭😭✋

[@faeirestintheland]

i don't feel like i need to say this but i'm just glad i'm able to have most of these qualities, will need to work out the other ones because i really do tend to look at people when i enter a room. i be wanting their attention so bad that i need to practice that it shouldn't be like that. gosh how embarrassing 😂

[@aaaalikethis]

luv yuh i miss youu simmoneeee

[@Mondscheinelfe]

Lip Color is looking absolutely fire

[@liefiscute]

I watch your vids so much that Ive developed an australian accent when I speak in english😭

[@Trix-STORMY444]

Same here 😂

[@Daevii_wbu]

The Opera singing is HILARIOUS! We joke like that in America😂

[@imthejokababy]

I’m feeling down too rn. U got this.

[@kritisaxena2006]

Queen posted ❤

[@beaurehm]

Was there a certain branch or focus of psychology you studied? I’m so inspired by all the videos you make and was wondering how I could get into something similar!

[@Maggietheebaddie1948]

Thanks for information I’m using it.

[@Clarice679]

your looks are serving so hard here

[@andriavinithalobo5813]

So pretty ❤

[@shriyamandavkar]

Love this point of view❤❤

[@huanwobi9179]

-they make others feel important -eye contact -they do not feel inferior to others! -don't prove anything to the world -being present - WORK ON MENTAL HEALTH

[@zk3uy]

Simone, i just got curious as you said we have to be nice to everyone, but won't that technically make us lowkey people pleaser (sorry if I'm saying something weird lol)

[@devon7826]

“Sorry if I am saying something weird” is a classic people pleasing line. You’re right, being nice to everyone isn’t possible. Just own your observations. I actually agree with you.

[@atiqasfilm]

black hair colour suits you so much

[@yassminefarhi-jr1lx]

Hi simmon , it's been a while since I'm watching your videos , I'de like if you can do one about how to be part of the group , because at school I really feel apart when I'm with my friends , and I actually started to notice that my friends doesn't really care about this , please can you help me...😌

[@somebody...2693]

Is Simone the best? Yes.

[@jaeminok8544]

My role model

[@shravanik91]

I loved this video.

[@silvij4416]

I'm early yeaaah and I get to eat my breakfast while watching your video (once again)

[@eternalshiv]

You look so pretty 😍

[@sakshisingh3731]

Will ever consider posting these as a podcast?? please

[@compulsiverambler1352]

But there are charismatic people who are obviously and even openly insecure and openly hate themselves. Enneagram Fours seem to have a charisma that does not go away entirely unless they are dealing with shyness in a stereotypically avoidant way. When they overcompensate instead, something special can shine through the bluster. When they drop the bluster and work on other methods of coping, their charisma increases with their mental health. But it is always there to some extent unless they are currently experiencing social anxiety disorder with the stereotypical quietness and avoidance of being noticed. Most people are drawn to them positively, some minority are repelled by them in some cases but they make an impression on everyone, their presence is felt strongly and they are memorable even at their most insecure. A tonne of rock musicians are like this. Russell Brand, love him or hate him, has always been like this, magnetic from his worst to his best mental health. They can have active addictions and eating disorders as what feel like empowering distractions and escapes from their emotional problems and trauma, and still have this charisma, the vulnerability can even increase their charisma because people are more drawn to people who seem impressive overall but are open about their flaws and vulnerabilities, it makes them relatable.