Single? Alone? What God wants you to know

[@MarleeDecember105]

I've been divorced and single for 15 years. I have been abstinent for 8 years (9 years in May 2024). I can honestly say that I also do not want to entertain nor be entertained by any man who is not my future husband.There have been men to approach me, but I never allow it to go beyond the first encounter just for the simple fact that the conversation tells me a lot about the men that have asked me out on a date. So for that reason, along with the fact that I'm waiting on God, I am comfortable in my singleness. I thank God that I've not felt lonely at all in the 15 years that I've been single. It could be due to the fact that I care for my dad full-time, it could be because I'm busy with work, or traveling, spending time with God, etc. Either way, I'm grateful that LONELY has not knocked on my door. There is definitely reasoning for our singleness. And in that time we are to enjoy life while also focusing on God. He is the only way. Thank you for sharing your story sister.

[@maryl8753]

I am so sorry that guy who is serving in the military did not have the courage to tell you that he was breaking off your relationship. Ghosting is very hurtful. You seem like a lovely person and I know God has the perfect person for you. I did not marry until I was 33. It's hard going through that time so I feel for you.

[@s.w.8074]

You and me both Sis, you and me both!

[@lynettenene9218]

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