Single Mom living w/family - Young woman lonely/friendless -Woman moves across country for boyfriend

[@CrystalJul3s]

What I noticed about us women…cut friends off quick and give men a million chances

[@Yespls888]

Yes! That's how a lot of women are and it's sad. I've always been the opposite 😂 except my husband (but he doesn't deserve to be cut off) Loyal, none male-centered women friends are rare

[@ILuvChanelBagz]

I stumbled upon one of Miss Ashley's videos two days ago and I've been hooked ever since. This woman is amazing and a breathe of fresh air. I really love how she uplifts ALL women. She is what the internet needs right now!

[@laurensvibe8464]

I discovered her yesterday!!! I’ve watched countless videos!!! 😂 I’m hooked.

[@coldblooded568]

She's giving him a whole EXTRA year and a half to propose? Like wtf?

[@Milahkay42]

She should definitely move out for a bit. I believe he will miss her and all the things she brings to the relationship and that will provide him with the clarity he needs.

[@daintyann1795]

💯💯💯💯

[@lg223]

She's doing way too much. He's getting everything that's making his life easy. "A man who finds a wife finds a good thing". Except, she is not a wife but he still has a good thing. She needs to pull all the way back. Don't act like a wife until you are a wife.

[@briannaje5419]

I would move out Erica. Free from shacking, fornication, and duties of a wife that are only reserved for your husband. I would love to hear Erica’s testimony in December!. I am a married Christian homemaker too and I love the lifestyle being able to stay home take care of my husband and our new baby and work on business on the side. the blessings of God are truly in marriage. Is it tough sometimes yes but with Christ as the foundation, you all could make it through anything if God has called you all to one another. If he’s not who God has for you and get married anyway, it could break you. Seek God girl. You have the character of a wife so you will have no problem having a great marriage.

[@richardbell1614]

Smh you got real lucky. If any man gets married nowadays with the laws as they are now is a idiot.

[@almondy1963]

Erica, he's not ready. He may NEVER be ready. A man who wants to get married will not hesitate to marry the woman he thinks is the right one. He's just telling you everything you want to hear. He hasn't even given you the ring yet. But don't force him, because it's not going to change his feelings. Girl, run 🏃🏽‍♀️

[@Miss_Kyra]

So happy to have always had examples of women who are fly, desirable and not allowing their age to deem their light. Continue to be inspired ladies!

[@Lmao10752]

Ashley you are truly the definition of class & grace. It’s so admirable 🩷. You are walking in your purpose and it’s a beautiful thing to witness.

[@ChanChan-tv1wp]

Bria sounds depressed. Sending you love & better days ❤

[@Habeshamorena8]

I'm sorry I want Christians to understand GOD IS BOUND BY HIS WORD. And as a hard core Christian HER first obligation is to GOD. Secondly what is the incentive for him to marry her ???? Baby look IF A MAN CAN AND HE DOESN'T IT IS BECAUSE HE DOES NOT WANT TO. SHE actually is delusional. When a man says I know its you that will be my wife...that means "if I were done scoutingbout my options and none compare to you then you will be my wife" #1. GOD is your God but he is not your LORD bc when he is LORD you will not compromise tour walk with HIM year after year. #2. A man knows and there is no hair makeup or silk robe or throwing it back will make him propose. #3. If you have to give a man an ultimatum to make you his wife THEN HE DOES NOT WANT TO MAKE YOU HIS WIFE. #4. IT is a fool who will juggle with his life. #5. YOUNG LADIES PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE understand this A MAN BEING YOUNG HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH IT; MEN who know KNOW. She is uncomfortable in sin as she should be. Often time BELIEVERS don't know how to pivot and God is trying to get her to pivot. It is in our ability to pivot that God is able to move and advance us

[@BellaKayeLLard]

Absolutely 💯 Amen 💕 🙏 💕 🙏 💕

[@AJ-yb4vp]

Ashley I love that you talked to Taylor about her dreams and going to school. That was so beautiful. I loved seeing that. Thank you for your patience and wisdom.

[@marianantionett-inspired24]

Great advice Ashley, the young lady needs to move out... and if they are meant to be together it will happen. Continuing to shack up only ALLOWS him to continue to receive all the benefits of marriage. Move out and let him experience the difference.

[@darabankole3805]

He’s proposing sooner than you think Erica, just continue to be the beautiful woman you are and God will do the rest 🥰

[@ShaniquaJwest]

I think so too! I think he knows she is his wife but is just not ready yet.

[@Sograciousanna]

Ashley you are so beautiful inside and out! You are a real inspiration you are the sister, the mother, the auntie that every girl/woman needs. If someone says anything negative about you that are jealous of your gift. God made you unique and powerful! I’m so happy I came across your page you have helped me in my journey as a woman! You are that girl and you are blessing other women to be that girl! I can’t wait to see you grow more than what you are! You are an ICON next to BEYONCÉ no cap!

[@ashleyldalton]

Thank you so much Anna! I appreciate it beauty!! God bless you

[@Sograciousanna]

No problem sis keep doing you boo!

[@ajohonly3721]

Erica M is going to come back with that ring 💍 ok . We will be here to celebrate 🎉 her soft fine self.

[@Scorpiolinlin]

Men don’t need deadlines to do what they know they want to do and feel they should do.

[@optimusprime251]

Hi ashley this girl that moved from Florida to Cali looks amazing. I would marry her in a heartbeat.she don't have to put up with this guys bullcrap.any man would scoop her up.shes a keeper.

[@Jaslyfe828]

The reality is a lot of black women growing up in fatherless homes don’t meet their husbands until their 30s & up due to trial and error … social media is giving these young girls the game at a much earlier age

[@missfavoured]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@gin376]

Her first mistake was playing wife before she got the ring! Now she wants to pressure him into marriage…..

[@user-ml9up2xf2b]

But he takes care of her as if she’s his wife. I think it goes both ways.

[@tmcurly]

Tanaka is a beautiful name . My childhood best friend’s name. Meaning of Tanaka is - ~ We are blessed ~😍 Or ~We are good~

[@LaLa-gk6rd]

Zaria’s features are so pretty and doll like.

[@Prevail3-p4x]

Prayers to Taneka 🙏🙏🙏. I hope and pray that she gets a dwelling of her own

[@ciciIBe]

Idk how I stumbled across this channel but I LOVE IT! Ashley you’re Gorgeous, Honest, & Funny!! Much Love and Success to You 🙏🏾❤️

[@oliviagilbride9789]

Appreciate all you do for the girls 🙏

[@floramercury]

The algorithm brought me here so better late than never and age is nothing but a number. You’re giving me Cynthia Bailey from ATL housewives in the looks department

[@Morrisneuro83]

Ashley you are so honest and real…and did I say flawless

[@faith1614]

Omg i love this channel. You’re consistently dropping facts. I subscribed 💖

[@aquafina6544]

Amen Ashley, I'm one of those women who didn't have anyone male or female in my life to tell me. I'm one of those women who's in late 50s alone and lonely

[@paigeonpurpose2062]

prayers beautiful, hoping it gets better. focus on the good!

[@briannaje5419]

I like the football game advice. That was a gem for single ladies. You couldn’t miss.

[@journeywithjasmine_]

Gaby, I feel sad for her. She seems eager to be chosen and places men on a pedastool and she hasn’t taken the time to heal. She shouldn’t have moved across country for this man as a gf and not a wife. It seems like the boyfriend has gotten bored and there’s no ring coming. He liked the chase and idea but he’s not for real. I hope she takes a break from dating to know who she is and build that self esteem. She deserves all the affection in the world.

[@starrjohnson1327]

That almost happened to me. My ex just got out of the Navy. He wanted me to move in with him. He relocated twice during our relationship. I wasn't willing to move without a ring💍!

[@journeywithjasmine_]

@@starrjohnson1327 smart girl

[@lili.dior223]

I love Mercy girl you’re beautiful and you’re doing great ❤️

[@Ebony.jonelle]

I think giving a guy the dads number can still be risky because alot of guys will call me infront of me and actually wait to see my phone ring. 😭😭 However I do love your advice !

[@cupidluvzmatch2253]

Ashley I did a research on my body and come to conclusion that I look younger when I’m thin than thick.

[@kb51422]

You have Taylor such amazing advice Ashley, you’ll find friends in those work environments as well.

[@genovasquez8361]

Jobs working with kids 1. Teacher assistance or substitute teacher (if you got credit hours in college). 2. Work at a day care 3. Work at Gym in the child care center 4. Work at summer camp with children 5. Work at the pool But as for Taylor, she gonna have to limited options in female friends, She has two options. She can get with women her age who sees her as not on their level in looks department she needs to find female friends who think they look better than her. If they are on her level or below they gonna be jealous. So her finding girls her age who actually dont see her as a threat is gonna be hard. Either its gonna have to be the few women who look as good as she do or she has to find women who are totally delusional an see themselves above her, She needs to be friends with older women like 30s. who dont see her as a threat because they think the only men she want is early 20s. So those women who have men over 30 will feel secure she is not checking for them, because she is not interested in older men. But her making female friends will be hard for her because she is too attractive facially. It dont look like she even has make up on.

[@nararay]

All artists tend to be like that, you get used to being validated by people.. so you Highs are high but your lows are seriously low. She could be depressed @Qiyamah you need a hug and do not isolate

[@ChaleykiOnline]

Erica just go spend a week or two with your parents and make sure he doesn't know why you are doing it. If it doesn't work then escalate it. Go on vacation out of the state or country. If that doesn't work, escalate it.

[@GBBskincare]

He's not ready!! He may be one day, but then he may not. Every girl should have her own. I agree with Ms. Ashley, leave and be independent on your own, work on your goals and aspirations. Dont continue to do wifley duties without the benefits.

[@aquafina6544]

I had a rough upbringing i was on my own at 18, I'm didn't know any of this.. im was on a journey in my 40ish now im 50ish and i have no options. My husband to be died 3mos b4 we were married. He was 32. I had no option after this. Then at 50 i broke my back and i had 2 surgeries. I hurtonso .much. b4 this i was in the gym daily. I wany my life back but I don't know how. 😢😢

[@zalikadixon5041]

"Night time Ashley" is hilarious!

[@TBear02]

Tanaka should consider going to school. They will account for her parents income bc she is less than 24 but I think it's the easiest way to work on herself and secure housing

[@tayloralliease8013]

Lmaooo when Ashley said to wear a jersey , tight jeans and some boots at the football game 😂 . This is the same advice my aunt gave me and I told her u didn't like football 🏈 😅 huhhhh I'll do it

[@genovasquez8361]

women love skating, so i go skating an learn all the tricks, girls always approach men who can skate good

[@laetitia1763]

Interested in knowing the update about Erica

[@_laquiry_]

*#Mercy** is such a model babes*

[@gaudylady7]

Yes! Wish I could find her account, I would like to follow women with my features❤.

[@Yespls888]

I'm still watching, but Mercy is gorgeous! 💜😍

[@DesCoop]

I want a bf to pay my bills I’ll still work 😩

[@genovasquez8361]

i want 5 girl friends to give me money and sex every day. i only got two right now to do both.

[@MrTwonetwone]

Not with that face

[@leticiakalumba4523]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤😂❤ your prayers will be answered

[@shaybae111]

@@MrTwonetwonethat’s not very nice, beauty is in the eye of the beholder

[@AudaL]

I would love to see an update on Bria

[@CindyAlexius]

Is it just me or does sis sound like Nicky Minaj? Either way, Love this content.

[@daneaspeaks6499]

Yes!!!!! I always think that 😂❤️

[@Bellamysme]

Yes she does....

[@ShaniceL-py7qn]

Lol Girl She Just From New York. Nicki Is Too. She Sound Like Ashley.

[@afcosmetics8367]

It’s a New York thing lol

[@gemmaj8359]

@Erica I understand that you want to be a wife which is commendable but don’t pressure your boyfriend if you have given him the ultimatum until Dec 24 that’s more than a year away be patient and let him plan men like to feel like they are in control especially when it comes to engagement if he says you’re the one believe it I wish you well can’t wait to see how he prosposes ❤ blessings

[@genovasquez8361]

Ultimatums are great, it gives us men time to meet new women and find her replacement.

[@gemmaj8359]

@@genovasquez8361 that’s your opinion glad that works for you! Ultimatums are necessary for some and NOT for all if a man wants to marry a woman he won’t be triggered by that word like you were! 😎👋🏾

[@realshidd3062]

He’s just making sure he is making the right choice due to the simple fact of people can be reserving themselves like a chameleon and we see that a lot today men and women but it sounds like he’s already got it planned. He’s just saving up on the ring. I’ve been in his shoes although I got married at 22 and still is married 11 years this year, but don’t give him a deadline. He wants to do it on his own time with no reminders

[@ciciIBe]

Mercy is Beautiful 🥰

[@richardbell1614]

Usually, the vetting period for a man that got sense is at least 4 year's. This is not like it was 20 years ago when her parents got married. It is really really risky and dangerous, especially if a man makes good money.

[@TriciaBims]

Where’s the wig from though, I’m not on TikTok, and insta

[@rayskianno415]

its gonna be ok BRIA

[@StarC2233]

I hope Qiyāmah gets some therapy. She has so much light to share. Have to work on opening yourself up to receive.

[@missfavoured]

It never ages:”Why buying milk, when you got the cow in the house?!” Erica shouldn’t have moved into his house in the first place.

[@msblackberry09]

Even if he doesn’t propose to Erica by 12/31/2024 this will be a learning lesson. She’s young and was even younger when they met. She cheated on a previous bf to get with her current bf. She told this story on TikTok so I’m not making this up. She’s been running after this guy since college and now they’re finally together and that’s great, but she seems to have been overly available and ready to jump when it comes to him. I hope she gets what God has for her even if this guy isn’t the one.

[@shaybae111]

To see this live from the last one with Bria Ashley you said and did nothing wrong, her energy screams postpartum depression. She probably didn’t and wasn’t ready to have kids and now she’s stuck with one. It’s going to take her parents not doing EVERYTHING for her to truly get it together. She has to tell herself I’m a mother now, God trusted me with this…. I can’t disappoint him 1:36:10

[@princesscharles6303]

Gaby, that man has another woman because no way 😩

[@genovasquez8361]

under the age 35,,,is to young for a man to marry.

[@CreolePearls_]

Never play house with no man. Doing wifey duties and tasks without the security of holy matrimony 💍 ⛪️ she is right God is not pleased and she can literally lose a lot because she is shaking up. I know because I have lived it. She should move and get her own place and definitely give space. Even still she shouldn’t wait solely on him to propose but put all her effort and energy into her self.

[@aquafina6544]

Ms Ashley i did all that you said when i eas in my 20s and i met bball and football 🏈 guys and no one was interested in me.im dark chocolate and it was light skinned exotic season back then

[@bobcat8654]

You give good advice

[@ceciliaparker6291]

Yes Mamita!!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽💋💋💋

[@cupidluvzmatch2253]

It really is a job, I got hired but I think it’s about time to look for a new job Ashley.

[@jbroberts8807]

It’s December 2024…..is there an update

[@rachelo8294]

Erica is so pretty and smart

[@tai5819]

Gaby’s police boyfriend has changed his affection for her and shes excusing her police boyfriends behavior. Tips on military men, military men who become police officers etc. they cheat 🤷🏽‍♀️ they get bored easily, have boat wives (Navy), boat side chicks and still have an actual wife. Marines, same if not worde but slightly better (they mess around and find out when their cheifs take their pay for not supporting their families. Ive seen it, heard it so so many times. This sounds too familiar, Ive seen, heard, and lent shoulders to too many spouses/dependents, girlfriends…chileee.

[@starrjohnson1327]

I dated a guy from the Navy. I asked an older woman from the Navy about him. She gave me the run down. No more for me!

[@genovasquez8361]

men need to listen to this, so they can learn how to get more women to approach them. most of what you said helps men get girls to approach us, The gym, hairstyles, how we dress for the female gaze.

[@Morrisneuro83]

The African woman was stunning

[@Crystal_curls85]

She’s from Antarctica lol me too girl 🤣🤣🤣

[@em55527]

He not too young to shack up and play husband.

[@CSavengers]

She sounds like Nicki Minaj😂

[@mandissasarafina444]

Mercy is highly beautiful.

[@josephjohnson1057]

When it comes to marriage. Anything other than yes is a no.

[@truckerfitness8221]

A man’s fear is not only losing his family but his finances. A man has way more to lose in marriage.

[@erikarobinson3557]

Most men don’t even have finances TO LOSE. So how do THEY have more to lose?

[@Yespls888]

Men have things to lose and women have things to lose. Especially if she gets divorced when she's older or past childbearing age with no kids... many men are often throw it in women's faces when we age. While I believe it's a messed up mindset the whole "women devalue with age" Money is important of course but it's a resource that can be made back. There's no getting back TIME, having a pre-baby body, etc.

[@aishasno587]

The 30 year mark rant 😩😩😩

[@genovasquez8361]

why is age 30 a thing?

[@MrTwonetwone]

@@genovasquez8361the average life is 70-75 if your 30 you damn near half way out the door 😂 30 is a big deal

[@realshidd3062]

Them guys at the workplace like her, and want to know what she’s working with naturally without the beauty enhancements that’s all

[@bisnisldy1]

BRIA if you see this reach out!

[@coldblooded568]

I cant imagine actually wanting a man to marry me 😢😂 PLEASE don’t!! Stay over there!!! 😂😂

[@MrTwonetwone]

Go buy a dog and put peanut butter on your coochie 😂

[@user-ep6bo3in2z]

Baltimore ❤

[@Nature-ep5cu]

Erica u are already a "wife" to him by moving to his place and doing wifey duties so why should he be in a haste to propose to u to be a real wife when u are already providing wifey duties to him and sleeping with him. Big mistake is moving in with him and sagging. If u were homeless or in a desperate situation then yeah ok to move in with him

[@shaybae111]

A lot of y’all are depressed because y’all eat red meat and pork but that’s a different conversation 2:25:39

[@briaeulon]

I just feel like what I said was taken wrong by your viewers . I’m embarrassed at this point! Thanks for the advice though ❤

[@StarC2233]

Don't feel embarrassed. You asked Ashley for advice because you needed it. You're brave to come on a public platform to ask for advice. Time goes so quickly, think about "future you" and start creating the life you desire to live. You can do it!✨️✨️

[@briaeulon]

@@StarC2233 thank you. I just hate being judged 😩😩

[@ashleyldalton]

Bria! Don’t worry about what other people think. Everyone is here for help but you had the COURAGE to ask. We ALL have problems and you have the opportunity to move forward with clarity and guidance ❤ do exactly what I told you to do. Blessings queen!

[@AruAru101]

Please you have nothing to be embarrassed for. I'm sorry for what happened to your daughter 😢

[@realestatemrs7121]

I dont even know what the subject around this is...im still watching the video/live replay...nevertheless I see your comment of hating being judged...........the first thing is that anyone that is interested in seeing someone do better will give constructive critisisim which can "feel" like judgement but its really not...anything to better you is not always a feel good pill....others will put you down because thats where they are and hunni misery LOVES company...........but learn to be wise enough to know the difference and use EVERYTHING to help you because GOD uses everything to wake you up.....never theless....judgement doesnt have to be all bad❤

[@realestatemrs7121]

Gaby...are you putting yourself on him....I had a relationship where a man said I never came on to him he always had to do the work....BUT funnily I had a relationship some time before where my man said he didnt like for me to do that he wanted to initiate............so my question is are you learning him as in what makes him "look for you" within the relationship......we are not taught that....then for reason unknown to us things end or we thing we need to end it......annnnddd then yup just like Lady Ashley is saying we reach a age and regret our time.......stay spicy ladies❤

[@genovasquez8361]

powerful

[@miked7350]

Ashley, you're dead on again. Why buy the cow, when the milk is free. In his defense, marriage has become a no win situation for men in divorce court and family court. Something to keep in mind and address if he's a forward, long term thinker

[@danielleb1223]

Just say go Giants is funnyyyyy

[@None-gm4yk]

❤

[@prettiilexii672]

Men do not dream of marriage. If you was a full blown Christian, then you shouldn't have moved in with him first. Women want marriage but men do it once the feel established in their career and financially stable.

[@genovasquez8361]

The funny thing is i do some of stuff you mentioning to get girls to approach me. i be listening to what women say they like, i adapt it 1. im going out on the weekend to be seen by women, if i see a woman thats hot i look her up and down to her shoes, then look up to her lips gaze at her lips for about three seconds then look her in eyes for about 5 seconds. Alot of times it makes a woman walk up to me an approach me. 2. I gave up on dressing for the male gaze and what i liked, an started investing in dressing and the Grooming that turn women on. when i was young girls was like your hair would look so good if you grow it out up top and have a fade on the side, my hair is curly aka good hair, so i grew up added some activator gel and got a fade on the side. My lips are already big so keeping them moisiturize makes women approach me. i heard women say men with light eyes, so i got colored contacts, i dressed with suits and slacks, and khakis that show off my lower half of my body thighs, gluts and my print these things always made women approach me. Recently women be talking about they like hoochie daddy shorts so i wear this to show my body off.

[@Keisha_jones123]

Zaria is immature and don’t know what she wants…

[@bobcat8654]

Does the wig person have alopecia

[@fe7260]

Apologies - BUT how do women like these stop the man from leaving them when they get older??? Isn't this the problem that many Caucasian homemakers have, when their husbands then push for divorce later in life...

[@willjay1839]

Telling broke women to waste$$ to go to a football game to catch 🤞a actual player is so Lame & desperate a play will smell the baggage before even mistakenly crossing paths regardless 😢😬 very bad advice love is priceless 🙏

[@shaybae111]

She never told a broke women to spend her last dollar at a game 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@willjay1839]

So selfishly just get the sex & dont take serious because of scared of being 💔 😬

[@ericablanton9006]

Sorry you not hard core Christian and living eith a man unmarried

[@willjay1839]

Just weight hips & how the curves make women look mature dont mean should have an exaggerated attitude over yourself regardless

[@ericablanton9006]

There is no cure for ra