Single Mom of 4 Says She is The Full Package! Her New Man Can NOT Discipline Her Kids.

[@dcuthbertson5778]

5 jobs, 4 kids, 3 baby daddy’s, two turtle doves and a Partridge in a pear tree. 😂. Man it’s some struggle dating going on over here

[@jermaineburgess3767]

Bro it's the worst 😭

[@Curvygirl86]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@ericgilliam9902]

BHAHAHAHAHA😂🤣

[@randym8833]

You are so freaking funny. Made me spit out my dinner reading your comment lol.

[@godgift2earth]

Petty petty petty peeeettttttttyyyyyyyyy🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@thetenthltr]

Please tell me why a *21yr old* man would want to be a *step- father* to 12, 6, 4 & 5 year old boys with no involved dads. *DELUSIONAL!!*

[@TGA2010000]

Crazy right🤣🤣

[@Mr.Ming07]

Exactly I said no way she thinks a 21yr old child can handle such huge responsibility

[@fah232]

Right, I wouldn't even date him in this situation, it's really unfair to him but also he's not mature enough.

[@ilt1993]

Is anyone really ready to take on 4 kids by 3 different men and not have any of his own. Used car sell asking for brand new car prices???

[@MiamiPush2theLimit]

For a place to live 🤣😂

[@Deltachick91]

Don’t no 21 year old wanna be a step daddy to 4 kids….especially a 12 year old. They gon be fighting 🤣

[@deeluv6984]

ROTF

[@jamilahsyogaflowshakir1821]

As a mother of sons, I would ABSOLUTELY sabotage that relationship. Ijs 🤷🏾‍♀️ I would do everything in my power for this connection not to happen.

[@RXSVN_2]

LMFAO. Exactly, why is this even a topic? OMFG 😂

[@09irishpride]

4 boys with no father figure, that’s really sad.

[@jay-t1030]

With her job schedule, sounds like they don’t have a mother either.

[@Roccofan]

She’s raising dusties birthed from the seed of dusties so that other women can complain that all they get are dusties. Pathetic.

[@richthepup]

Breaking my heart. I hate that these adults are setting these kids up for failure

[@kevinknox1239]

I bet you they act just like her

[@michaeldasilva1752]

@@Roccofan women create the men they complain about

[@MrsCrandon]

She don't look 31 she look like she in her 40s

[@bigt5096]

Absolutely bro, good God she’s ran through

[@theerealatm]

@@bigt5096 my mother is 50 and way younger looking than her. Most single mothers look like they have a hard life. Aged all tf out.

[@rjules1083]

I think she’s lying about her age.

[@SoulforSale]

Don't forget she's bald

[@didokinney9173]

50

[@altinawashington-key5211]

She said people don’t believe in being with just one person these days but people believe in having several children by several different people these days….make it make sense 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@89426]

🤔🤯

[@Amm5489]

It doesnt but you don't have to stay with an unfaithful person just because you have a child by them. Just relationship or married. You never have to tolerate disrespect because you have a child with them

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

She has four kids with three different men, and she somehow thinks a 21 year old will have the maturity and wherewithal to handle and support four kids??? 🙄🤦🏻‍♂️ Her discretion and judgement are questionable, at best.

[@Citizen876ix]

Questionable? She nuts. Delusional AF. She would be lucky if she gets a man at all, Her energy is so masculine. Four kids and three deadbeat baby daddies, Hellll Nah. That would be a hard pass for me. She wants a man to come in her life to save her from dying alone and he won't be able to discipline those kids.

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Very questionable...

[@TheBigOxUchia]

Oh she knows that a 21 year old man will do whatever she says long as he gets his physical needs met. He is not emotionally mature enough to say no to her.

[@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet]

This woman is a clueless buffoon looking to add to the overwhelming tomfoolery in her already comical life.

[@Johvonna]

A 21 yr old is the only one foolish enough to entertain that situation...yikes

[@thuroB30]

For a 31 year old, this woman has been living a hard life. She’s the “full package” of EVERYTHING that a decent man doesn’t want. 😂

[@ryanvason6818]

Never is she 31

[@malikaustin9087]

31 goin on 46 😭😭😭

[@amandlaawethu1538]

I jus felt evil coming off her

[@efranklin755]

Lol

[@89cjenk]

I’m older than her and she looks older than me way way way older. Nonetheless I hope she finds her equal.

[@lawandadorsett6370]

She can’t be 31 and to go as young as 21, something is not right with her. She’s had a hard life.

[@sheilaconcitis8385]

She comes from what she saw growing up. It's going to get worse because these new girls are having many many kids.

[@briizyfbaby16]

I swear when she said 21 was old enough I said NOPE, u childish for sure 😂

[@latifahjohnson8475]

Sis said 21,oh NO if my son tells me about her

[@bellamonroe7322]

She’s not even 31 either she said she was married over 10 years since her 20s but how are you single for 4 years then the math ain’t mathing 😂😂😂😂

[@JGTVijep]

I actually do a deep sigh when Kendra asks “do you have kids” and “by how many men” because I’m always disgusted by the answers.

[@SeanK1684]

Ikr, 😩😩😩

[@Epsilon514]

Imagine being a man hearing this same thing and then the words "we're a package deal"🤦‍♂️

[@JGTVijep]

@@Epsilon514 I’m so sorry 😭😭😭

[@SELFCAREMODEL]

I can’t believe she kept the baby on the way out.

[@tramekn]

It’s so sad. We need to do better. We gotta rebuild our black families and go back to the traditional values we lived up to in the past.

[@SheilaTrueLove]

Women like her need to FOCUS on raising her children, SPIRITUAL things, and her career saving lots of money. When you have several different baby daddies there's not too many men willing to sign up for that and I don't blame them. I WOULDN'T. She need a support network of women helping and supporting other women.

[@redsavage2141]

She need to forget about dating

[@shakamellow5224]

She is looking for a provider,she needs a man who can give her comfort lol. Men are supposed to give children discipline and structure. If she don't need that too bad. Most women are single because of their mine set,its not always the man's fault

[@jabbaweezy]

For the first time I agree with you.

[@kathleenking47]

However, her bota need decent mentors

[@mariaelena8710]

On point!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@changeisgoingtocome1985]

She’s a Medical Assistant, I took that training years ago and they certify you in all those areas. So she has one job with multiple duties under that umbrella.

[@be.youtiful4621]

Exactly 💯, I'm surprised Kendra didn't catch it.

[@supaflychik78]

So what she’s working..wtf!!!!

[@be.youtiful4621]

Nobody mentioned anything about her NOT working. She decided to separate each duty into multiple occupations when it's not needed. Her being a medical assistant is good enough.

[@davep2867]

Facts

[@234forte]

Exactly

[@taurus2473]

See, Kendra G is not doing a dating connection show. She exposing the raw truth of blk relationships and the outlandish expectations men and women burden each other with. Sneaky, sneaky Kendra... I see ya!

[@perdybirdie]

This is so damn sad to watch. And these people honestly think they are a catch too wtf

[@sharonprice05]

Total agreeTaurus behind every baby mama there is a baby daddy who should have stopped and thought about the whole situation can go for the women and men a man ding a Ling is his and a woman privates is hers and then they put them together without 🤔 protect but are at both at fault

[@nwatson2773]

I’m here for it!!

[@sloppygirlz]

Yep

[@inzo313]

Facts

[@ashielarry]

So she is 31, was married for 10 years and have 4 kids by 3 males. She is the red flag 🚩 she’s talking about.

[@Cheray_]

Numbers don't add up, she was with the most recent baby daddy for 6 yrs after the 10yr marriage, in her 20s🤦🏾‍♀️

[@monstar2746]

She seems older than 31.

[@fah232]

@@Cheray_ Sure don't 🤦‍♀️

[@sherell73]

Right! Not to mention the 4&5 y.o have the same father. And she was with him for 6 years, 3 years ago? Yet she has a 6 y.o by another man… must have been a break baby cause the math just ain’t mathing🚩🚩🚩

[@dangerwetikosclose2682]

🤣🤣😂

[@v12benji]

“ I wouldn’t say there is a better race, because people are people.” The smartest thing she said all night

[@kevinb3588]

Hell yeah

[@themoonbleu627]

❤

[@starchildofthe90s7]

Well some races are better fathers thats for sure. Its shows in the 75% single mother homes blk men help create.

[@NeeNee_B.]

​maybe the problem is also the single mothers that wont pick better, or demand more before opening their legs?why is the onus of the broken home ONLY on BM? @starchildofthe90s7

[@cevr7847]

Do these women not realize that when Kendra flashes that pearly grin, SHES THROWING SHADE

[@aleshapaustin4492]

You noticed that too 😂😂😂

[@daniella8400]

They don’t or they wouldn’t even bother coming in here!

[@queencharles3527]

lmbo!!!

[@Realliedoe]

Kendra don’t give a flying fuck about these broads dude! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@TyWerks]

facts lol

[@bigger.1.bestrapperalive]

I’m pretty decent at math. She’s 31 and had her first child at 19 right. Then she said she was married for ten years but has a 6, 5, and 4 year old by two different men. So she stepped out on her husband then? Crazy

[@teafoster5643]

No she's lying about her age. Simple.

[@Peace2dagawdz]

Lolololol

[@changes8386]

Keep doing that math, you're on point.

[@lindacantonlc]

U all caught that also 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@DiaAkin]

I said the same thing!

[@karenlewis3642]

You didn’t make them by yourself don’t be prideful get financial support for your children! It doesn’t matter if you were a Doctor & have 2 boutiques! Children need financial support!

[@xo1762]

From BOTH parents. Right.

[@InfraRedTV]

How TF did she get upset when the question was asked "How can I pay all of you bills, but can't discipline your kids?" The fuckery is REAL!

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

She was thinking physical discipline

[@peacefreedom4930]

She didn’t ask anyone to pay all the bills.

[@chalkkey433]

She also mentioned if the man is giving his last name and contributing to their future college etc, it would be a different story

[@Da1n901]

@@peacefreedom4930 so how about you get your strap on and date her

[@Dolo_fitness]

@@Da1n901 😂

[@HumptyMcFly]

In the words of that great philosopher, Randy Jackson “It’s gonna be a no for me, dawg.”

[@leewilliams3554]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@broca246]

🤣🤣🤣

[@thebabybopshops9798]

😭😭😭

[@freeindeed8416]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jamalfountenett1463]

😂 😂 😂

[@10_door_tycoon]

When Kendra says “what kind of man you want?” These women should be honest and say, “Kendra I need a sucker to help me raise my 4 kids.” 😂

[@deeluv6984]

ROTF LMAO

[@ahuman1082]

She believes in loyalty, is married for 10+ yrs since her 20s, is 31yrs old, her youngest are aged 4, 5 and 6? She needs a lesson in mathematics or how to construct better lies.

[@JustBree716]

😆😆😆I had to watch pbl channel to hear her commentary before I realized it didn't add up. I be listening but sometimes it's so crazy that you have to listen twice just to process the fuckery. Lol

[@Anne-pv9cb]

This is one of the best comedy channel on KZbin.

[@kevincrockett5155]

I had to reply. With many of the people on her show you've just got to wonder if they're serious. Then, when you find out that they are, all you can do is laugh. It's crazy.

[@sincerelyyours9246]

Lol true.

[@Fireandknives]

Exactly why I decided to subscribe.

[@Zebiven]

RIGHT

[@JoyT01]

BIG FACTS!!

[@RennLea]

She's a Patient Care Tech. I like how she put all three things like it's three different professions. Still kudos to that sister for making it happen for herself and I'm proud of her for that

[@observeandanalyze4591]

I said the same thing about how she put all these professions like they don't tie in together. Lol trying to seem important. It's still the bottom of the barrel at the hospital.

[@ChillandVersatile]

It would be easier if she had a man.

[@cindirella2328]

I thought the same thing about the position. I missed the beginning and I didn't find it mandatory to rewind... Lol

[@Leydo773]

I said the same thing. 🤦🏾‍♀️ it’s all the same job. CNAs are an important part of the healthcare team though.

[@Quinten4M]

I was CNA. I know the job of patients care tech. Ppl want to sound so important.

[@HumptyMcFly]

How does a single parent with children ages 4, 5, 6, and 12 and as many jobs (and nearly as many baby daddies) have so much free time to travel the world?

[@caldwmc]

Some people version of travel is going to the next state over

[@nellychild]

She’s exaggerating how many jobs she has. She simply works in a hospital and she’s has multiple certifications. She’s a medical assistant. I’ve done all the things she mentioned as a medical assistant.

[@emphasys9753]

@@nellychild yeah she definitely tried to stretch it out like she had all these different jobs. its like when a janitor says "I'mma sanitation engineer!"

[@SeanK1684]

@@caldwmc Facts

[@SeanK1684]

@@nellychild Same thing I said, cuz I was in the same field once as well

[@lewis20002000]

"She doesn't need a relationship she needs help ". All her baby daddies didn't have to be a provider, but the new guy has to be a provider & extra special for her to has a child with him.

[@b.goddess1940]

He can’t discipline to mold her children to be men…as if SHE can do better teaching them to be men, than an actual MAN.

[@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet]

@@b.goddess1940 households like hers don’t raise anything but the next generation of fuc boys bby daddy’s and bums that plague our community.

[@Lifedisabledd]

@@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet And THOTs

[@akilla214u2c]

But she got it all wrong.. Geez, these females. Why the fuk does she believe she can gives the goods to one dude and no requirements. Then, the next dude has to wait and go through all that mess. In the words of God Father KS, " Get a dog, and die alone". I'm 45, and have always made 150-175k per year, n i would never try to talk this caliber of a woman. I'd like Kendra to do 6, and 12 months follow ups to see or show nothing has changed with these goofy females.

[@nellinell5087]

Right

[@DeVontaePitts]

She may not be a catch for most men, but I respect the fact she didn't come on here asking for the rarest of men. Respect.

[@Amm5489]

I respect that as well she is realistic with the financial and expenditure aspect of it. Not the ages though.

[@TheLovelyAyo]

She don’t even qualify for the average Joe that she’s seeking out. A low value man would be more suitable.

[@PD-oj6uy]

I don’t believe that this woman is doing that well. I think it’s all cap. She is trying to make herself seem not as dysfunctional as she really is. To many kids several baby daddies her situation is clearly extremely dysfunctional

[@augustbaby8254]

It's basic math that she's struggling or have financial assistance from the government or family. She's working an entry level job at the hospital with 4 kids. Chances are slim the boutique yields profit.

[@theman9048]

@Marie Baker she lives in Pottstown which is a low income city.

[@theman9048]

@Marie Baker yeah it's a giant hood full of people from the ghettos of Philly looking to run away from the city. A lot of snitches love there.

[@Fabrizio7171]

Lmaoooo they’ll tell you that her aunty, sister , cousin got multiple baby daddies and they are doing ok so its normal smh

[@themeatspot5020]

💯

[@MRMORTONIII]

How Kendra don't laugh in these people's faces is astonishing!! True professional

[@faxxxovafeels]

Exceptional lol

[@geminimac613]

Facts

[@MrEherndon5]

Very professional

[@nisuperman]

She became jaded by listening to them.

[@AmberSeti]

It’s all in the face expressions she makes and she’s seriously professional. People wouldn’t want to call in if she laughed Lol

[@nacholuva_]

imagine growing up and you run across this highlight as an adult and it’s your mom saying you was an “accident”🥴

[@briasworld8]

No disrespect to her but I'm sure that out of aaaall of those Jobs she named... she's a damn CNA.

[@thetruesoulofanaquarius9302]

This tho 💯

[@BigBlackChevy]

She has a bunch of low skill entry level positions that she picked up probably from job hopping

[@taurus2473]

Lmao, she listed all those jobs like she's hustling. Nah, u work at a hospital and spread around different clinics. She's not being paid separately. Lol, stop the cap!

[@kimpearson496]

Nah she is a medical assistant

[@orrsangels2395]

She definitely is because they do all of that with a certification.

[@maia3420]

So 4 rugrats he has to pay for and raise instead of their fathers and cannot properly parent them. Some of these people are insane.

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Beyond ridiculous...

[@thegiftedseer6764]

Your "insight" falls flat when you insult innocent children 🙄

[@maia3420]

@@thegiftedseer6764 Rugrat wasn’t meant as an insult.

[@MrsFefe32]

@@thegiftedseer6764 rugrat is not an insult there was a whole cartoon called rugrats lol

[@joec3703]

@@thegiftedseer6764 Fuck them kids

[@every8hours382]

Tax bracket as a PCT with 4 kids???!!! So embarrassing! This show is starting to bother me. Our community is trash.

[@autumnsmith9091]

😢😢😢

[@sonnyqsoul7123]

5 jobs, 4 kids, 3 baby daddies...she doesn't have time for a relationship or dating...Terrible taste in males, make-up, and wigs as well...

[@deejai1173]

Sonny; I thought you guys love makeup and wigs… 😳 Lol

[@sonnyqsoul7123]

@@deejai1173 LMFAO fuck no...but the issue here is how badly she did both and hopped on camera like it's okay. If she can't make sure she's tight before showing herself to hundreds of people, I don't wanna know what her place looks like...

[@HautePinQ]

You know it’s bad when the men are pointing it out😂

[@taurus2473]

Most of those jobs can be rolled up into weekly duties at a hospital. She's not being paid separately for each position.... Plus, a busy wmn is not attractive offer.

[@tawannasteele4534]

She is a patient care assistant. I work at my local hospital 🏥 n dats wut I do.

[@cf9815]

She looks 10-15 years older than what she is!!!

[@ivanjuarez1160]

That’s because she lying about her age

[@leelee5593]

Or she needs to hit the gym and change her diet not to be funny

[@Cheray_]

Time def doesn't add up to 31! Was with last baby daddy 6 yrs after being "married 10 plus years...cause I married in my 20s!"🤔👌🏾

[@bryannelson3989]

Facts

[@wardiya3arbiya]

I think she has a hard life. All those kids and single must be hard and little sleep.

[@leklekjasmine416]

REQUIRE MARRIAGE before kids… That will end this NONSENSE

[@RealsNappyRooTs]

This woman has a lot of issues. She sounds rough, tough, rugged jaded. She sounds like she smokes cigarettes. She has unrealistic expectations. She sounds desperate, too, because she’s willing to date someone that’s 21 years old. Many boys that age don’t even know themselves, let alone know what they want in life, so she’s ready to make another mistake which means she hasn’t learned anything. She comes across as put together, but her life is in shambles all over the place. She’s a jack of all trades but a master of none. She needs to humble herself and have some humility. It starts there with self-reflection. She's too stuck in her ways to get out of her way. She's a Lost cause shell end up used and abused probably has another child before 40. Unfortunately, this is the typical scenario in the black community. It's a part of the reason why sisters keep making so-called mistakes because there looking for men based on what they want but know not what they need, so in reality you'll keep meeting Pookie and ray ray and but and put all the blame on the men but not looking at how she shows up and Doesn’t acknowledge the part that she played. She lacks accountability she doesn’t realize that she is the protagonist in her own story.

[@mzcain1521]

That nervous laughter is very telling …… and that ashy make up is a mess

[@missbcritiques9209]

True!! I picked up on that to

[@babygirl3849]

That☝

[@Wanderer25]

Facts on facts

[@freegame9499]

You broke it down 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🎯

[@beautiful_wonderfullymade]

Did she slap herself with a bag of flour like Flex Alexander did for the Michael Jackson movie 🥴

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

😂😂😂

[@amaj_lex]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Girl, you were reading my mind... That foundation looks horrible, she needs to take a hard look in the mirror...

[@melmcdonald4142]

Omg i was thinking the same. Like did she set her makeup with chalk

[@sherell73]

Looks like she’s also rocking the same wig Flex wore 😂

[@brownsugako7772]

I will say this, in my 44 years I've seen a few women in my city that had 4-6 kids marry a man that wasn't any of their fathers. One woman I know got married, they created a great life, bought a home, and kids are now grown and out the home. It's definitely a unicorn situation, but what she want can happen. Just hope she's realistic about it all, because a 21 year old is way too young. Blessings, sis!

[@JoyT01]

Well said & agreed!!

[@MotherDaughterGaming5157]

Yes! I know females like that …. What’s for you will be for you…. I’m tired of this narrative that Single moms never getting married.

[@hatboyBR]

Thats the exception and not the rule. Women have to pick better men and require marriage before giving birth

[@mguapo5]

Can happen for sure, but this man is most likely a mature man.

[@devinebeaut]

Right. She is going to find someone but the 21 year old is all she needs to change. But other than that she's not asking for too much.

[@kenken7534]

Can't discipline but can pay for everything. My, my, my kids. Guys run!

[@TheMoonDejesus]

She didn’t say that. Why is the whole comment section lying on this woman.

[@mercedes5206]

No you don’t need to discipline your not their father nor are you her husband find someone without children save your money for your future wife or husband

[@Jojo-pv3uf]

@@mercedes5206 you also don’t need to provide for kids you can’t discipline fair?

[@Caram3l_Bombsh3ll]

When you expect a man to be a provider, it should come with expectation that he will have respect and order in the household. If you choose wisely, discipline of the kids doesn’t mean he will be abusing them.

[@malikaustin9087]

EGG.ZACK.LEE but end of the day she is just asking for a Genie riding on a unicorn with that attitude

[@kamosebeats6494]

Exactly

[@Ghragle-]

When you expect provision understand the man supports what’s an asset to him. Ur kids from another man will never be an asset. She’s literally telling her potential husband “ I had kids for bums, now you can spend the rest of your life taking care of them. 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@King-ns7it]

@@Ghragle- facts!!!!!!!!!!

[@King-ns7it]

This lady has never "dated" outside her race. Has she been paid to do somethings with other races? More than likely. Stop the Cap

[@katrina7213]

What she described doesn’t say she has many different jobs but she may perform multiple tasks within her role. And if she thinks $18/ hr is $45k/yr, I would question just how well she’s really doing because her math isn’t adding up.

[@tammaras.8253]

😂😂😂

[@destro73]

So a man is second to her already made family of 4 and she doesn't actually want to give the man a child of his own. Terrible deal for any man.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Especially a 21 year old. Raise my bad ass kids but you can't discipline them or have your own

[@peaceispriceless6051]

BEST Comment 👌🏾💯💯

[@slinkiegirl2001]

that is why they should get there passports

[@RockyMaiviaMiami]

It always kills me when women want to spend 20-25 years in the streets(booty calls and all), then want loyalty from a dude that’s spent 20 years grinding to get to the place that makes them desirable. It’s a just interesting thought process.

[@augustbaby8254]

💯

[@whatyousaywhatihear9858]

First the children, then the provider.

[@TheMoonDejesus]

She’s not asking for that guy. She’s asking for a regular guy.

[@xtrey19x]

I think we should call it the I can have it all syndrome.

[@teachertx]

@YoungAndSuccessful LMAO 🤣😂😆...somebody has women issues.

[@johngarza2276]

I want a black man that can teach my black sons what they nee to know.....then...I don't need help parenting.....you can't make this up! The requirements that this lady has the audacity to have are absolutely ridiculous. I would love to be able to see how many men have hit her up after this interview

[@cecisessence694]

Oh alot I'm sure everyone desperate on this world that's why women choose deadbeats and men choose $!uts nobody really has morals or standards just look around ...plus everyone us so hig on sex so a person a act all high and mighty until they need to bust one then it's all out the door

[@tdagbo]

She’s outta her damn mind 😂

[@aleshapaustin4492]

She sounds ridiculous & sad...

[@jamesgibson3716]

Too bad she don't realize this!!!!! LOL

[@pajdesign]

…and she doesn’t even realize 😱😱😱

[@ericgilliam9902]

2:00 Those list of jobs she named are task, she just should have said she was a medical assistant 😂😂😂😂! She is trying to make her self sound more important than she is!

[@HautePinQ]

I was coming here to say that😂

[@aleshapaustin4492]

I noticed that too...

[@MrsFefe32]

I was looking for this comment

[@taurus2473]

Agreed, I was hoping others noticed that! All those jobs can be rolled up into a busy week at a hospital. Lmao, silly rabbit tricks are for kids!

[@jamnj515h7]

Exactly. My ex was a medical assistant. Those were all task as part of her job.

[@CC-cv3xk]

“Red flags???” Somebody call her and have a serious conversation. Also, you have 4 children and you want a 21 year young guy! 🤔🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@shannontrice3404]

First of all a 21 year old around all your boys 😩

[@natem7046]

3 baby daddies and people don’t believe in monogamy?🙄 And she’s cautious of red flags! Girl bye!

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

SHE is one big ass red ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ flag all over the place

[@cevr7847]

It’s easiest for these women to accept that men are intimidated by them, than to accept that ain’t nobody want dem

[@meloran2571]

The question after that statement should always be, "so why not get a man who makes more money than you since you're such a great catch?"

[@queenbbeaute2654]

Delusional is the best description 😂

[@blaque301]

💯💯💯💯

[@emphasys9753]

@@meloran2571 Bing Bong!

[@Dolo_fitness]

Pass

[@JesusisKing03]

I have 4 kids and I'm 33, when people find out I have 4 kids by my husband (14 years) they give me a weird look because I guess they expect me to have several BDs. This world is so twisted that people always expect the worse 😕.

[@slinkiegirl2001]

in the FBA community only 33 percent of BW are married, 77 percent of black kids are born out if wedlock, no wonder people look at you funny

[@officialbrothernu]

This level of disfunction , you can’t make this ish up 🤯🤯

[@sarakeller1585]

😂😂 And I thought things were bad in South Africa...

[@yunikfoundation]

She's 31 with 4 kids by 3 fathers, but was married for 10 years... something not adding up! (13:30) Telling lies with confidence does not make a lie the "truth"... This "My Truth" era is destructive! I believe there is someone out there for everyone but you will never find them pretending your weaknesses are your strengths!

[@tashlaine]

Her math isn't adding either because $18hr is NOT $45,000 a year

[@Yaadgyal09]

She's lying about her age

[@destination1luv853]

Married in her 20s. Married for 10 plus years. 🤔🤔🤔🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@johngarza2276]

Not requiring a man to, at the very least, pay child support, says so much about the mother...you just let them get away with not being responsible and means that the mother, and whoever is dumb enough to date her, have to pick up the financial slack. It's a very bad decision to let these men off the hook...good luck, sis.

[@debrajackson9424]

Thank you👏👏👏👏

[@anthonywise1535]

The Force is Stroooong With this one.

[@ashielarry]

She must unlearn what she has learnt - Yoda

[@lizettemuna3234]

More like may the force be with her.

[@nitajourney23]

It’s so unfortunate that she said she live to be on this show instead of sitting still and taking a inventory of herself and see that she is the common denominator.. I know it’s a hard pill to swallow because I had to swallow it and I have one child and was married n divorce. However I couldn’t keep blaming the men… The best thing she can do for herself and her children is sit still and be with herself get some healing going on and give that love to herself and them children. 🙏🙏 for your sis..

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Well put...

[@leelee5593]

Sending prayers hugs and more strength to you

[@cassleahg487]

Absolutely right sis 👏🏾👌🏾💚

[@feliciagray5781]

I mean she seems very resolved in who she is and her background. She didn’t ask for anything unrealistic and honestly sounds like she just wants an average guy that can accept her and her sons, which I think most of y’all would say that’s ALL she deserves. Now she needs to pass up on the young dudes. Lol

[@Dolo_fitness]

@@feliciagray5781 she’s done , no man in his right mind would entertain her in a serious way

[@Noname-hc5uw]

Sista's math is wrong, $18 per hour does not equal to $45k per year, not even close! And she will entertain dating a 21 year old man!? Her decision making continues to be questionable!

[@HautePinQ]

The 3 men that shot up the club didn’t think that she was the full package

[@aleshapaustin4492]

I noticed that too, she's delusional...

[@dekaneinsane9569]

On behalf of all men its a no.

[@illmatiK4]

More like..hell no!

[@Amanda-sp4gy]

Wheeew im so glad I made it out my 20s without any kids. Thank you lordt

[@MrCnote1982]

Different woman, same o’l story. 4 kids, 3 deadbeat baby daddies. Gave her best years to Pookie & Ray-Ray. And now that she’s washed-up, ran-thru, and past her prime, she’s looking for a SIMP to come and clean up the mess. The story never changes; only the characters…..

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Excellent observation...

[@3hug3hug6]

Excellent analysis 👏

[@jimiboiSD]

Amen

[@kingconfidence20743]

FACTS!!!!!!! PREACH SOCIAL MEDIA AND INFLUENCE HAS THESE GOOFY BROADS DELUSIONAL AF💯

[@jimiboiSD]

@@kingconfidence20743 Amen and the real surge in delusion really all started with that Love and Hip Hop New York crap

[@seanmiddleton2932]

Don't gotta worry about disciplining her kids if you just pick a better woman in the first place, lol

[@aleshapaustin4492]

Dang😂😂😂

[@Desklamp22]

True

[@Secretelover12]

Bingo

[@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet]

Amen

[@amilllion1]

Damn

[@KingNez89]

You really can't make this shit up 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@erehistruth2356]

That's a hard 31. 🤯

[@emerysutton5430]

She looks Kendra age

[@RushBig0786]

There’s nothing wrong with being a confident woman. Idk how much she makes with her boutique but having 4 kids by 3 different men lowers the bar really low. She don’t realize that her energy and personality will only attract the kind of men she’s dealt with in the past. Good luck sista

[@hutch1693]

I like how you expressed your opinion yet wasn't disrespectful. Idk know this Sis but respect should still be given. Respect to u for that 🤗

[@dantheman1998]

There confidence, then there's undeserved overconfidence. I guess when you get think doing normal adult things is exceptional, you get a needlessly huge ego for it.

[@SoulforSale]

Plus she's bald

[@JoyT01]

Well said & agreed!!

[@kristalb6148]

Let your inner be better than your outer 💜

[@PiscesQueen8108]

I wish my 21-year-old son would.....

[@Da1n901]

Thank GOD A woman who doesn’t condone this fuckery

[@MiamiPush2theLimit]

He’d probably sleep with her. And if he doesn’t like using condoms, oh well, accidents happen 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@PiscesQueen8108]

@MiamiPush2theLimit He wouldn't. She had too many kids, and he could barely take care of himself. My son doesn't want any kids growing up 1 of 8.

[@bernardtalbert6729]

Four kids and three deadbeat baby daddies? That would be a hard pass for me. Not even worth a pump-and-dump.

[@aleshapaustin4492]

😂😂😂

[@sirrucesr.]

💯

[@dr.rhythm2886]

Facts. Sometimes baby daddies become concerned about the baby momma when she gets a new man.

[@efranklin755]

Ya'll are so mean in these comments 😭 🤣

[@charmichelle]

Not pump and dump🤣🤣🤣

[@waltdiesel]

Ain't no children going to respect a dude that has no power to discipline them. She wants a man that will do what he's told

[@EmpressChan77]

She said she got married in her 20’s and was married 10+years???? Hmmmm

[@Cheray_]

And with baby daddy #3 for 6yrs...caught that too🧐🙄

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

This is why I love y'all women ....Y'all are very DETAILED and investigative ....Now that you mentioned it I'm like .....HMMMMM...........The math ain't mathing

[@shannenlucky7900]

Right

[@an9513]

Just remember “you attract what you are, not what you want”.

[@Mrs.Terry17]

Pookies and ray rays this one for y'all 😂

[@mikeballer08]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Amm5489]

Dont do that. But the fact shes looking for 21 to 45 means shes looking for someone to possibly control because shes the breadwinner. If she wants someone so close to her kids age I don't see her respecting them as an adult

[@BroertjeSeverin]

😅😅😅😅

[@sleepy1760]

What decent Man of Value would want to Wife this? Like Seriously this shit is Sad. Full Package Smdh

[@seanmiddleton2932]

Them 4 kids going to take that man from 45k to -10k financially

[@BigShowDoG]

😂😂😂😂

[@khennimahmud4006]

She said she is willing to pay the bills.

[@seanmiddleton2932]

@@khennimahmud4006 o.....k

[@kev792]

@@khennimahmud4006 If a guy wants to be with her, live with her, and get married, what can he do????? He doesn’t really have to pay the bills since she has that covered, he can’t really teach them anything from a guy’s perspective because if they don’t like what he has to say, they’ll complain to mom, and he can’t really discipline the kids in terms of taking away internet privileges, games, time out, go to their rooms, etc. Has to go to the mom and ask for permission. This WHOLE situation is super emasculating. You’re basically a guest in the entire relationship involving this lady and her kids.

[@nicolesmith9359]

I’m speechless Kendra need start doing updates on these people who come on her show they are off the chain

[@whatyousaywhatihear9858]

As a man I am very confused by this he can't discipline MY children. Why does a man have to provide a home, food, transportation and protection for her children. Yet I can not discipline your children. If your children are playing with matches I am supposed to just sit there and watch? Your children are playing in the street, I am supposed to watch? Discipline comes in many forms. Corporal punishment is a different thing. She is looking for help, not love. The 3 fathers are not paying child support. Why does the next man have to more for your children than the man you bore children for?

[@whatyousaywhatihear9858]

@Day If he never met the children or never lived with her. How and why would he need to discipline children he never met?

[@whatyousaywhatihear9858]

@Day Actually it was brought up twice by Kendra G. The first time early in the video can a man discipline your children? The second time Kendra read a comment that asked how can a man lay all the bills and not ne able to discipline her children.

[@TheMoonDejesus]

I don’t understand she didn’t ask for a man to pay for her kids and she said if he did contribute to and provide then she would open him disciplining the children. She’s not asking for a lot. Why is everyone acting like she’s looking for some high value prize. She said she’s good with average to below average just be a good person and that’s too much?

[@mikeb2437]

@Day I guess you missed the part saying she needs a man to teach her sons. That sounds like she needs help to me.

[@TruthbTold777]

@@whatyousaywhatihear9858 so are you dead ignorant to where you don't realize that Kendra asked these questions to everybody just because Kendra asked them doesn't mean that that's what the person is going through the girl never mentioned discipline the kids she simply answered the question you really need to grow up

[@09irishpride]

The full package?? Ma’am…. Get real with yourself.

[@jimiboiSD]

Amen🙏🏿

[@nwatson2773]

Did she say she wanted to date 21 to 45 years old? If you have four children with three different fathers, and none of the men are in your life, the man that you date or marry should have the right to discipline your children if he’s providing for your household. No one is saying that he should be abusive but discipline doesn’t always have to be physical punishment.

[@1985themovement]

Kendra G, bless your heart honey. You have the patience of a saint with these people lol

[@3hug3hug6]

Here for the comments...this should be good 👍.

[@nitajourney23]

😂😂😂

[@johnbrowntheprophet]

😂😂😂

[@willhines1570]

I don't kno who thought her math. But $18 an hour ain't no 45k a year. More like 38k

[@jermaineburgess3767]

How does a woman with 4 kids get to travel this country is doomed 😳

[@amilllion1]

She said she travels, I never heard of countries.

[@bdjonx]

@@amilllion1 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@cali2468]

Dumb troll, dumb comment. 🤦🏿‍♂️

[@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164]

Its not hard simply hop in the car and drive, or save up for flights.... She probably travels with the kids in the summer

[@jermaineburgess3767]

@@mama2flythesidehustlequeen164 I guess a woman with no help from her 3 baby daddies 4 kids 2 that are young can just hop in a car and go I have 1 child I'm 41 he's 9 every time i turn around he needs something and he has 2 parents if the government would stop helping these people the problem would shrink

[@kalonb5101]

She's off on her income requirement. $45k is not an outrageous ask, but $18 an hour is only $37.5k per year.

[@Deltachick91]

And that’s before taxes

[@davep2867]

Exactly

[@WordsMatter1982]

@@Deltachick91 she has 4 kids, so thats 4 dependents. She gets a crazy refund every year. Plus she was getting extra stimulus checks for each of them.

[@SendFeedback1252012]

Her math ain’t mathing ..

[@marquittabaines6168]

She thinks she looks 31 that’s why she says that. She ain’t no damn 31 unless she had her older kids as a teenager

[@thegiftedseer6764]

Anybody insulting these innocent children calling them names like "snot boogers", "rugrats", etc., you're pathetic. It's not the children's fault on what the mom did or didn't do. I don't agree with half of what she said, but leave the kids out of it.

[@007-f3v]

Yeah, that's not cool.

[@Black_Samurai-fish]

So true.

[@bdjonx]

Agreed.

[@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403]

Those words are used to describe kids. Those ankles biting, crumbsnatching, carpet rats will be just fine. It's not personal

[@patriciarobinson484]

Her children are brats, rugrats, illegitimate humans. It is what it is so keep it moving

[@gemeaux2000]

If she had said from.the JUMP; " IM LOOKING FOR A STEPDAD " I would have not wasted 20 minutes of my priceless life..Brothas!!!! Please run run run run🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@derrickedmond6619]

Did she really say she the full package 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂gtfoh

[@itsmarcomarcel]

She proves KS right every time

[@SupaSayinSkitch]

@Anthony-charles: Bey yup same chick, ain't learn s#!t 🤣

[@SupaSayinSkitch]

@Anthony-charles: Bey bruh! My dad has been telling me to do that for a damn minute. Telling me to check out Trip to Thailand or some such channel and make travel plans lol Best of luck my man! And safe travels!

[@faith6575]

Black men prove the private prison system right every single time as well. We all have struggles Marco. These baby daddies she has have abandoned their responsibilities and accountability as fathers. Shame on all of them as well. These black men abandoned their sons. No greater shame than that. But we’re pointing fingers at single motherhood because black men have ZERO accountability.

[@itsmarcomarcel]

@@faith6575 women are responsible for who they have sex with. She knew the man wasn’t shit the whole time and still had babies with the man. If she knew her worth, she wouldn’t even let that man touch her. Men in Prison systems has nothing to do with a woman making life changing decisions. Stop trying to be right and accept the fact that she wasn’t being responsible to herself and the men that wasn’t responsible from the jump.

[@Ash2beauty]

Bruh KS was a detached father w/ 2 unsuccessful marriages that didn’t go any longer than 5 years combined. The man literally profited by giving out advice that he himself never followed. U can’t make this up lol

[@colecitaa]

It's funny because I've chosen to be single so I can take better care of myself, do some self inventory & self improvement. Exactly what this woman may need. But everyone around me & who meets me always tries to nail me to the cross for being single! Like asking what's wrong with me because I "haven't been chosen" by a man (even though this is my choice & I've been running from commitment), but ppl will turn around and condemn a woman like her for not wanting to remain single. Bottom line ppl are fickle af & will always go against whatever you're doing just to fuss 😩🙄

[@joec3703]

I promise you, nobody, and I mean NOBODY will condemn this woman for remaining single! I assure you, we are all wishing, hopeing and praying that God makes it so 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.

[@colecitaa]

@@joec3703 lol there's a couple of guys further in the comments saying she should & no one will want her etc etc

[@upsidedown584]

When I was running from commitment it was because something was wrong with me. It wasn’t until I got help that I realized that’s not normal.

[@thealchemist6355]

You are single and without kids, you are in a different predicament from her. Very few men will be willing to take on the responsibility of 4 boys that aren't his seed.

[@allinoneplace7267]

Running from commitment until u fuck up somewhere or gets too old for that then start hoping someone commits to you to save the day. Typical modern woman playbook.

[@noncustody]

Kevin Samuels would have told this woman that she doesn't deserve a man because she didn't hold her baby daddies accountable. Why does she expect another man to come in and clean up her mess?

[@nickhall7995]

Keep spreading the KS word. He spoke on the deep rooted issues in our communities.

[@lifestyleswithdia5852]

Wait, did she say she was married 10 years in her twenties but she have 4 kids with 3 different men and she is now 31 years old?

[@Cheray_]

🧐And with BD#3 for 6 yrs🤦🏾‍♀️🤷🏾‍♀️

[@esengomamonga9292]

lol She's straight up lying, come on!

[@upsidedown584]

She’s not 31. No way. She looks older.

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

She lying

[@brownsugako7772]

I caught that too. And if she knew salary, $18/hr is not $45k a year.

[@nextlevel6663]

The total package? 4 children at 31 with 3 Baby Daddies? Definitely the total package! Drama, expenses, masculine energy, wigs, make up....but nothing for a man except DEMANDS and SOMEONE ELSE'S SEEDS. Willing to travel? HOW? Who watching that 4 pack? She doesn't even know how she sounds.🤦🏿‍♂️ We good over here!

[@aleshapaustin4492]

That's the sad part...

[@daniella8400]

And none of the fathers involved in their children life!

[@lewis20002000]

LMAOOOOO

[@taurus2473]

Read between the lines... If neither of the fathers wanted nothing to do with her she cuts them off from the kids. It's sad!

[@nextlevel6663]

@@taurus2473 Per usual. And we'll never get the men's side of the story.

[@abanks7675]

How she get married in her 20s & was married for 10+ yrs but is 31 and her last relationship was 3yrs ago….Ain’t no way we’re in the same age group. She’s giving 35-38

[@thetenthltr]

Explain how *THREE DIFFERENT MEN* have the *EXACT SAME* ideas about *NOT WANTING THEIR SONS* if they can't have her. CAP to ♾️

[@mztisfeisty8024]

Exactly 😂😂🤣

[@SeanK1684]

Cap to Infinity 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Wanderer25]

Because somehow it's always the man's fault.

[@krbk26]

BC BM only like to insert pemis onto women and impregnate they don't Like to take responsibility for the creations they make with did penis send impregnation.

[@laurenlocd3180]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@carlcwms]

Fellas, don’t even risk becoming baby daddy number four. Run!

[@itsHappening-ry2ef]

The baby dads ran because she don’t want them for cheating on her ‼️ yeah black men big on leaving their kids if the mom don’t want them for disrespect 👀⚰️

[@maloishwilson]

Preach

[@3hug3hug6]

Get to the choppaaaa

[@adustygreasyandsweatybonnet]

@@itsHappening-ry2ef check that shit wench 80% of divorces in the blk community are filed by women.

[@RetrogradeBeats]

@@itsHappening-ry2ef english second language type sentences.

[@misterM718]

Damn she is a liar she just did another one with Kendra she said she had 2 baby fathers

[@destination1luv853]

😮😮😮😮

[@moe5415]

She needs to discipline that wig she’s wearing on her head.😂🤣😂🤣🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️🤦🏽‍♂️

[@missbcritiques9209]

Lmaoooo 😌😂😂😂😩🤦🏽‍♀️

[@suchafknladyyy5780]

This the one 😭💀

[@tezsgino]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Ya rough with the comments!!!

[@khennimahmud4006]

That damn wig looks good!! 🥴

[@ebbiero4429]

Yoooo I’m done with these comments after this!!!!! 🥴😂😩😂

[@sayless7936]

31 and 4 kids different baby fathers is all I needed to hear 🤮 ... No way !

[@Quinten4M]

Plus she cut off the father's! 5-10yr they could have turned there life around

[@Simplyme718]

How are these women with all these kids able to date someone long distance? Who takes care of your children?

[@RayRayAtl404]

I love her confidence being the full package.....I'll love to see who takes this deal

[@redsavage2141]

Plenty of fools will

[@magicworld3242]

Nobody, She's not going to financially support.

[@percyastronautstatus.8780]

NO ONE

[@pound4pound380]

She get a pookie more than likely. She already said she got a fuck friend. She'll get a fat broke man more than likely

[@AD-wv2ue]

👀