Single + Satisfied // Singleness // Rated R // Bianca Olthoff

[@andrewlarragoitiy9592]

“Until Jesus is enough for you, no thing or person ever will be.”

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

AMEN!

[@Anthony-yy3kc]

Come on though, do you honestly expect me to believe that every married couple became totally satisfied with Jesus before getting married?

[@infostylemeconfidence912]

Amen

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

Wow, powerful sermon! It hits close to home for me. I spent 10 years of my life living in lust, sexual immorality, and dating man after man in the same flesh. I felt so worthless and empty. When I was saved last year, I surrendered EVERY part of my life to the Lord including my love life. I’m single and satisfied in my relationship with Jesus! He is my first love. He is and will always be enough! 🕊🙏🏼❤️

[@joshuapurvee694]

I wish i could find a church like this very inspiring video unfortunatly marriage and kids is put on a huge pedistal in most churches and its probably i big reason i dont attend church snymore but would love to but i dont want to feel like im less of a person because im single.

[@naspricans]

Singleness and parenting is tough. I pray for a sermon on single parents

[@michellguzman2648]

Same!

[@flowconyoliz]

Yaaaas! Single and satisfied! I so had to learn this the hard way throughout my life. I was married by 18 for all the wrong reasons, then divorced at 22 and just five years later I was engaged to another man, but this time because I had met Jesus and knew Him at a new and intimate level, throughout prayer and community I had chosen to walk away from that engagement... I just turned 30 this January and it's been exactly 4 years since I called that engagement off and I can honestly say that these past 4 years of singleness (although hard at times) have been the most purposeful and satisfied years of my life. I fell in love with my Creator and Saviour, Jesus Christ, and through the new heart of flesh and renewed mind I live a satisfied single life and enjoy my career as a barber that often feels like a pastoral position and I love pouring into my clients in so many ways as well as writing blogs and enjoying my family..... God is so good! I pray for that husband still from time to time, but I know now that that man won't complete me then because I'm already complete.... Thank you Pastora Bianca for your heart, vulnerability, and for being so fearlessly YOU!!! ❤

[@Anthony-yy3kc]

FLOW CON YOLIZ How do you deal with the Christians who say you need to remarry your first husband or remain single for the rest of your life?

[@flowconyoliz]

@@Anthony-yy3kc Hi Anthony! I personally have never experienced anyone advising me to remarry my ex husband or to remain single. I do understand why this would happen though. Divorce is spoken about in so many areas of scripture and it’s something that was also used to trap Jesus as well during His time of ministry on earth. I don’t know the “right” answer to this honestly, but I do choose to receive God’s grace in this and do believe I am given the freedom to remarry eventually. I think most often than not, God is more interested in our hearts and our intentions to what we do yet, all of it matters. I didn’t know God then throughout my marriage the way that I know Him today. There was unfaithfulness in our marriage and we did try to work things out, but it didn’t work out for us. We’re not enemies though, we both learned from that experience and I know I’ve personally been healing from that relationship with God’s Grace throughout these past years…. I think it’s just something that we all need to work out with God by our side through prayer and learning to journey with Him as we invite Him to open our hearts and minds to Him.

[@Anthony-yy3kc]

I didn't mean to imply that I believe you should remarry your first spouse or stay single. It's just I see so many Christians saying this!

[@flowconyoliz]

@@Anthony-yy3kc oh no, I didn’t think you implied it at all, I promise. I just responded as if I would have or will in the future be asked this then maybe that’s what I’d respond.

[@karenmena6373]

amen , let me tell you god spoke to me and told me 'there is nothing wrong with me , his plans are perfect and being single is a beautiful thing .'

[@melaniemartin4319]

Jesus is enough...period!🤯🤯🤯

[@marjorymsuku9312]

"Celebrating our Singleness will help us live satisfied/sanctified lives."❤ Thank you for the elaboration/contextualisation of: "it is not good for man to be alone"; and "two are better than one." ❤❤🙏 So glad to have found a video where a married Pastor really undestands what was/is like to be single. May God continue to bless you and your ministry!🙌🙌

[@antoniatoneva7446]

This is probably the best sermon on singleness I've ever watched! Thank God for the gift of singleness! And thank you pastor B, it was fire!

[@mandieturner2156]

Watch Pastor Michael Todd ‘s Relationship Series. Pastor B is amazing and I love her!! Pastor Michael Todd, the same. God uses multitudes to help us learn and grow. If you want wisdom in relationships, watch both!!

[@melaniemartin4319]

@@mandieturner2156 🤩🤩🤩

[@rosacharles4804]

I love this. I been single for 4 and half years. I found God and my self. This year I pray for a godly man. You videos have helped me get ready. Thank you

[@StyloLive]

Amén

[@rachels.9602]

This is the best message I've heard on singleness... And trust me, I've heard a lot!! I wish more single and married people in the church would capture the heart of the beauty and purpose of single life!

[@israelsfusion4727]

This man I told that too called me a liar. People aren’t used to seeing people single and satisfied

[@vanessatorres4494]

Loving the Rated R series 🙌🏻. Gratitude Pastor Bianca Seasons of life that we need to accept, understand God’s timing and obey Him (it is not easy but we need to do it).. in all of the seasons we really need to be close/ to walk with Him, otherwise we will feel an empty space on a certain area of our life ..we will feel incomplete (only God can complete us 🙏🏻)

[@melaniemartin4319]

What were the scriptures?🏖🏖⛰🏔

[@theselflovebae]

@@melaniemartin4319 they are in the description I believe ☺️

[@nata5162]

Singleness is a gift! Thank you for this important message

[@StyloLive]

This message couldn’t have came at a better time. Celebrating our individual accomplishments is something I need to do more. Its good to finally love the self and not depend on anyone else but GOD for fulfillment. Thank you for this 🤲🏽

[@igbeci]

GOD IS SO FAITHFUL!!!

[@lilianamartinez738]

I love this! Thank you

[@TheJawn_G]

Thank you!

[@theselflovebae]

Yasss Pastor B! Been enjoying this series and this season of singleness!

[@andrealara4469]

So good! Thank you for this 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@tfh_oc]

Thank you for watching!

[@Anthony-yy3kc]

What's your story Andrea?

[@g.l.3124]

I love Bianca and her messages giving me hope and reassurance during my season.

[@SamBWinning]

I love pastor Bianca messages on dating love marriage and sex! She is the best when it comes to these topics no lie. She is raw and real. Thank you pastor Bianca for this message you made me feel better about my singleness I was feeling down and overlooked. Now I know it’s a beautiful gift from God. The right person will come in the meantime I will continue to grow as an individual in Christ!!

[@HeyKellyShea]

🔥🔥🔥 already

[@melaniemartin4319]

Singleness HURTS...period!🤓🤓🤓

[@phyllismbugua6857]

This was for y'all. Thank you Pastor B. I have faced so much rejection that I almost forgot that am choose by the Might one of Israel.

[@marjorymsuku9312]

Aaaw, she called it a Gift!... Singleness. 😊😊❤

[@chadc2896]

I thank you for speaking the way you do this hits my life in my story right now. I'm Focusing everything I have on God I'm trying to get myself right and put God 1st nothing else masters right now I focus only on Jesus.

[@rosemarievaliente9193]

Thank you so much

[@evaevesena9347]

It's. Was beautiful when Pastor Matt wAs looking at you God bless you both ❤️

[@arthan06]

Thank you for this! ❤️👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@tfh_oc]

Thank you for watching!

[@israelsfusion4727]

I love being single

[@emcladybug22]

This was so good!

[@chadc2896]

Yes

[@kp5870]

To answer the last question - Jesus cannot be the romantic love that I would have with an earthly person. He is my father and Lord, not the person I’d think of having sex with.

[@veronicad7366]

I am the daughter of the Most High God! I will slay my own dragons with the sword of the spirit! 🔥

[@evaevesena9347]

Hello pastor bianca from Pakistan

[@tfh_oc]

Hello and thank you for watching! We appreciate you!

[@terri646]

✋✋✋

[@patrickc3419]

Why is the social meeting club rebelling against the biblical qualifications for a pastor? (1 Timothy 3:1-7, Titus 1:5-9).

[@RachelNichols-writer]

If people are satisfied and single why keep calling it just "a season"? Why keep promising people "If you are just contented enough or delighted enough in Jesus, God will send the perfect spouse into your life"? No one who bubbles and perks this way really believes this stuff. 50-year-old Christian who has remained faithful and will stay that way. I know I'll die unwed and am only discontented with the amazingly stupid stuff married people keep saying. And when I try dating. I hate dating and prefer not to bother.

[@jilllingenfelter4682]

my little daschund corgi dog went home to Heaven in January 2022 And now I have a little 3 1/2 year old mini poodle puppy :) And she is my baby Rosy doll:)And God knew that I needed her :) And she is definitely a gift from God Himself and she was born during Covid :) And i’m 100% single :) and I have been single for 9-10 years @TFH_OC

[@melaniemartin4319]

Indeed!🧖‍♀️🧖‍♀️☂️☂️