Sista Feels Sad After Realizing Brothas Are Giving Up Dating Because Of Materialistic Women

Brothas are giving up because they're being priced out of dating. They have realized that they should no longer allow broke women to pressure them to spend money.

[@bigwill9421]

"Women can't function when You don't care." ~PATRICE O'NEAL

[@blkafrocentricusa8429]

That's the rule of the game which is to STOP CARING for these ungrateful heifers.

[@jaylove9484]

Absolutely factual

[@ray1amuro350]

Facts. RIP Patrice.

[@wtfsamusidk7574]

My happiness is paramount

[@Buckshott_54]

BM don’t fear ANYTHING! We just don’t give a DAMN !

[@abovebeyondandforever6571]

Facts!

[@bossplayermfs5972]

Say it louder the people in the back didn't hear you.

[@royalillness]

This is the part that they pretend that they dont get. Its Not Fear and Never Was.....It used to be Concern But Now It's Indifference.(Aka WE DONT CARE Anymore) The last stage of grieving from Death is Acceptance and I think collectively thats what Stage The BM finds himself in regarding "Black Love".

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Blk women are truly clueless, it's sad.

[@richardwilson6976]

Frankly my dear idont give a damm.

[@andre1987eph]

The internet allowed men to share notes.

[@83randaman]

That’s what swayed the scale .

[@keithjackson2035]

Exactly! Now the truth is out and minds are changed

[@Sociallydetached]

Facts

[@Themusicalhealer]

they trying to stop by banning redpill content.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

💯

[@joeo8215]

Me, I cannot tolerate a materialistic person because that person will leave you broke

[@kaze7521]

💯💯💯💯💯

[@justswitched8841]

Once you're broke they'll leave you too 😂

[@dukethadon6170]

Once they leave, they'll act like you did them wrong..

[@FierceLeo.]

Well, you might as will trysome foreign women in Central America, carribean or South America?

[@anubizz5956]

Nope...fugem all!!​@@FierceLeo.

[@TCR2025]

Yep we stopped wasting our time. And it’s always these below average ones who are the most demanding too.

[@cecilfletcher4404]

The sprinkle sprinkle chick comes to mind

[@Armyvet55]

😂😂😂😂😂facts

[@vernardc7579]

Facts 💯💯💯💯💯👊👊👊👊

[@kyrkwalters964]

Yep the 3s

[@moom8238]

Found love overseas and couldn't be happier

[@rickd438]

Where?

[@mlamont235]

Me too. I started dating in Africa and never looked back.

[@FierceLeo.]

I am happily single, stress free, at peace , no baby mamas for the last for 7 years. I plan on trying some South American women when I feel up to it.

[@WorkSmart-w4x]

@@mlamont235what area? How did ya do it? After my last relationship I’m no longer interested in the woman over here

[@mostunclean6619]

I’m 51 years in, I gave up over twenty years ago. I saw the writing on the wall but I never thought it would get this bad.

[@chv307]

Sorry!

[@wilfordgainer9134]

True. I'm older, Even older women are a mess. By myself right now and at peace. Might meet her, but I'm not pressed.

[@jlcarter04]

​Older women are the worst... bar none. I refuse to ever date an over 35 woman again. ​@@wilfordgainer9134

[@bruceellison9269]

If you’re older please get your passport ain’t no reason decent brothers should be alone Sysbm

[@mostunclean6619]

@@bruceellison9269 I retired in 2019 and acquired my passport in 2020. I’m not alone and not lonely. I’m enjoying the fruits of my labors. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when your primary focus isn’t running up behind some female.

[@NightwingBMV1]

I remember back in the 80s and 90s, boomer blacks (and in the black church) used to say, “The girls are doing great, it’s the boys who are the problem!” That statement didn’t age well. SMH…..

[@rastahill748]

Reminds me of the Simps.. Smh. Its always the men with them.

[@thedarkplague1475]

Now it’s the complete opposite. These women are beyond out of control now. SMH.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

@@thedarkplague1475 It was always this way. Blk men were never the issue. Statistics dating back to the 80's will show you the main problem was always the women. And that's not just in the blk community either. It's universal.

[@NightwingBMV1]

@@thelegacyofgaming2928 I remember the females doing all kinds of stuff in the 80s and 90s that nobody was calling them out for. Also do you have a source for those stats during that time period? I always had a feeling that the narratives about BM durning that time period were false.

[@Cahluvca]

Gynocentric mindset...ridiculous but reality

[@gomab.ing4]

You can’t fix someone who doesn’t think they are broken. You will break yourself 💯

[@MisterE1976]

I agree wholeheartedly!

[@Mr.Edwards233]

☑☑☑ I learned this the very hard way

[@a.okoronkwo311]

🎼 to my ears.

[@guevealbino5432]

Too many Broke Women want something from a man that they can't afford. 😮😮😮

[@cblack350z]

10,000 % FACTS!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@daishawilliams8301]

Men checked out of the dating world because of the modern day 304 culture and unrealistic expectations us as women have on men and now wonder why drizzle drizzle movement happened.🤦

[@HollowNoFace]

Honestly as a man I feel like a target is on my back and I'm at war. I can't even think about love anymore

[@kev2263]

​@HollowNoFace Facts you took the words right out my mouth, couldn't say it any better!

[@jasoncody1537]

Love and relationships aren't worth it anymore and haven't been for a long time

[@49ers_red_and_gold2]

Sorry for you.

[@jasoncody1537]

@@49ers_red_and_gold2 honestly I just don't care anymore..... But thank you

[@offcamtv]

💯

[@sbolden123]

😂 women, the chickens have come home 🏡 to roost!

[@RTA6226]

😅😂🤣Yes! They didn't put that burden on themselves!!! Sounds like some more lazy ass women.

[@keeppressing1760]

Exactly 💯 it's over for them... sprinkle sprinkle 😂

[@jjmcg9184]

Not just materialistic but they play too many games with guys who are genuinely interested in them.

[@offcamtv]

💯💯💯💯

[@jamesw22185]

I’m a single man who would want a good woman the problem is it’s way too much mentally, emotionally, and physically energy to put into someone who may cheat on you

[@breal1266]

🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯

[@Mr.Edwards233]

Or simply say: I'm not feeling the vibe. After all that time Wasted

[@deetaylor2202]

Facts

[@nicholasnorman4179]

Women want to run my pockets. I'm about to run their pockets in a lot more

[@PrivateMail-c8m]

Yesses, Drizzle Drizzle

[@edt4080]

Yes use women

[@obtryce7070]

Fellas, prepare for your future not theirs. It's always about them and not you, they bring nothing to you but want everything from you.

[@offcamtv]

💯💯💯💯

[@matrice03]

Wow! The women really shot themselves in the foot with this madness. Me and my boyfriend (now husband) used to do the dollar show and White Castle and been together since 17 (in our 40’s now). He said he loved me cause I wasn’t materialistic and cared about him as a person. Now we’ve built a lovely life together and he told me because of love, respect, and appreciation of him, he spoils me. Been loving him since he worked at McDonald’s for minimum wage🖤

[@12261962808]

Blessings and long, healthy, prosperous lives to you both.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

You moved correctly and stayed with 1 man from a young age. However, you are in your 40's, you're from a completely different generation than the degenerate one we have now.

[@PrivateMail-c8m]

You are a Fantastic! Woman. . . That is what true love is all about. It's rough trying to find down to earth real woman like you. It's a needle in a haystack. . . Congratulations on your life with your Husband.

[@Armyvet55]

😊😊😊😊😊great story 👏

[@haquanwright7559]

Bah-dah-dah-dah-daaaah, I'm lovin' it ❤😂😂

[@mrjj-nm1ej]

Men are not in fear of womens standards....don't be fooled by that sister...

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

The only one she's fooling is herself. The women who are smart enough will understand the real reason men are ditching them for better options overseas.

[@offcamtv]

💯💯💯

[@TonyMac1]

Fellas way late! I stopped almost a decade ago. It’s cheaper to pay to play directly or indirectly vs these women wanting a man to buy this and that to be in a relationship. They just want to use men the same way you have a group of men who wanted to use women for sex only. The problem is people who have true intentions both men and women, end up getting screwed over

[@tennesseesyndicate5337]

Fear? We arent scared we just not STUPID

[@ezragilliam9647]

Don’t get me wrong. I love my sisters, but they’re too far gone. I don’t have time to be sitting around, trying to heal somebody’s trauma. And until they get their act together, you really have no choice but to venture out somewhere else

[@Cahluvca]

America, dominant society let feminism get out of hand and all other communities feel the after effects.

[@IAmRetiredSoon]

You dont have to say I love my sisters. I am sick reading this. They are not showing the same love towards us. Time to wakeup.

[@ezragilliam9647]

@@IAmRetiredSoon I say it for disclaimer purposes. And I can attest that not all are bad from experience. But they still gotta do the work and until they do venture somewhere else.

[@IAmRetiredSoon]

@@ezragilliam9647 You are free brother i have removed your chains. Go forth and bask in your Freedom. No more disclaimers! Comprende?

[@ezragilliam9647]

@@NoMoneyOut no doubt

[@adeona5202]

I never tried to date anyway and I don't stress about any of this. I never even aproach women. I simply play the proximity game. Every where I go: a class I take, a job etc.. there is always at least 1 cutie that's interested and I just take advantage and have a good time for as long as it lasts. I usually get the interests of the ones I like. So I can't complain! IJS

[@direwolf1977]

We just became economically smart!

[@fotosbyduane]

A leopard can’t change its spots. The next generation will need to recover from this materialistic mindset.

[@FredrickMeredith-k2c]

1:50 Because they're selling Box it ain't about finding good men.

[@bigwill9421]

This is why DRIZZLE DRIZZLE is heavily trending.

[@Alazar654]

Yup! Drizzle, drizzle!!!

[@theoriginal668]

Nope I am good by myself. I'm loving my peace

[@Mr.Edwards233]

Yep...ALOT

[@Alazar654]

live on, mgtow!!!!!

[@Wood490]

Naw Ma, good brothers haven't given up on love. We have decided to give up dealing with shallow, materialist, self absorbed, vain women. During the last 5 years many of us have discovered there's a whole nother world of beautiful women eager for our attention.

[@UrbanSipfly]

I don't see American men giving up on love, but, what I do see is American men who try to deal with today's modern materialistic American women involving romance has reinvested in himself to explore his other dating options. Hello Europe, Asia, and Mexico, Central and So. America! 😊

[@mostunclean6619]

At my age peace of mind, overall health and financial stability are paramount. Modern women are not worth the risk of losing what I acquired thru blood, sweat and tears.

[@Attah57]

As for me personally,..any woman with higher standards simply doesn't concern me at all,...becuz standard or no standard....is none of my gat dayum business. Women's standards only give headaches to men who contemplate whether they can afford it or not

[@AlhakeemMoore]

Ain't nobody losing no sleep, but jazabel

[@larrybolton9982]

It wasn't like this in the 70's and 80's

[@isaacsgeorge1775]

Modern Western women did it to themselves........... Good working class men value peace of mind, including financial maters like not being in debt, paying the bills in full on time and not living beyond their means. Facts.

[@bigwill9421]

As a female influencer calls this behavior "304 ADJACENT."

[@chosenone4631]

Ungrateful, me walking away 🚶

[@markrodrigue6913]

Amen brother!! Many good points made... one.. no man wants a materialistic gold digger... and a woman waking in a relationship and expecting financial help without earning her keep

[@coreyondavis6032]

Well women did choose the bear. Its a win for everyone when you think about it. The women are safe and the men can find peace being alone

[@ModernWomenWhatsThat]

Passport...........CHECK!

[@gotti400082]

A soundtrack to a modern woman's Life :"hey Wine n Dine me :The guy does exactly that Results: she brought a doggie bag home to Pookie that doesn't even love her and eating off your expense 🤦 How these sista be claiming they want God to be at the center of the relationship when they keep fooling themselves into thinking a material relationship is Love Make that make sense🤔

[@hleland4546]

I'm about ready to throw in the towel!

[@jjmcg9184]

I pretty much did myself. Im at a point where if a woman isnt attracted to me without spending a dime then im ghosting her.

[@Kaiannag]

There’s this young man who I work with who know is a great man in the making and even as he is now! and when I tell yall I put him on to game quick as he opened up to me about a girl he was dating and harassing him. He’s studying to be an engineer, no children and so responsible and takes care of himself. I’m Always telling him don’t date X, Y and Z. And protect yourself from these kind of woman. Always have receipts and cover yourself! I’m a woman that’s giving up on dating myself but I’m not gonna let my young friend be corrupt by these new age woman. I tell him often he’s doing so much better than he thinks. 🙏🏾

[@Kaiannag]

@@Itellthetruthhere wow crazy you say that especially as he opened up to me about the relationship with his mother not being the greatest. 🥺 I Pray God allows me to give him wisdom that will benefit him truly. 🙏🏾

[@rack_9]

Honestly its their fault and the attitudes to go along with it 😂.

[@joshuaram100]

@@rack_9 is that your excuse for dipping in transformers?

[@warriorj8658]

Because we can lose everything we worked for dealing with them

[@alhassangangu4357]

“Destruction of the soul is vanity “ B M. Brothers, don’t waste your time on these 304s.

[@darylfields]

I'm 37 and I've been in a relationship but glad because these women and their ridiculous high standards to date them

[@nole8796]

She one of the good ones!! Praises to her!!!

[@richdevaysolid1]

I don't think they really care.

[@CEOJAY2]

Whenever a female says my man better buy me this or that… I tell them ask your daddy! Cause I’m not your daddy, plus she gotta earn them things there’s no hands out with me.

[@michaelgodden7187]

Once again it's hard to argue with Phil. He is spot on with this.

[@Div-8739]

Relationship is a partnership, it's made for two people not one person so if you are a person who is very selfish then relationship is not for you.

[@zackerytoliver1832]

👍👍👍👍👍Brother's✈✈✈

[@calebhenderson6507]

Bro I did that and it was the best thing to happen to as far as dating.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

I haven't moved overseas, but traveling overseas has made me realize I was born in the wrong community and country.

[@Teddy42O]

Alot of brothas are going to Becky because of modern day materialistic sistas, Becky believes in fixing dudes & building

[@Deepthoughts67457]

Ain't Becky the one to start feminism? 😂😂🤣

[@DievestorsNeverLearn]

@@Deepthoughts67457 Brad is having the same problems with Becky.

[@ModernWomenWhatsThat]

EFF BECKY! if she's from America, she's not worth it!

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

@@Deepthoughts67457 Of course they did, but blk women decided to take it and run with it. Even the whyte women are smart enough to not wait at the finish line and instead seek out prospects early. 😂

[@FierceLeo.]

No thanks, not becky. I need melanin. I rather try some central americans or south american women.

[@bobbullethalf]

Passport Bros., hit the road it is a wonderful world out here.

[@SteveBell-ij3vk]

By the time they realize there ways it’ll be too late

[@donniewalker775]

Women always say what they want a man how for them, but they never say what they will do for a man, a relationship is a 2 way street not a one way or dead end, what you get going you should get coming.

[@thereapernest]

The juice ain't worth the squeeze

[@MsLotusBlooms]

Ladies, you are not quality if you are asking men to pay your bills. That is your responsibility as an adult. It is also your responsibility to pay for your own grooming. Stop expecting or asking men to do that. It is wrong!

[@cecilreid4634]

Let me get this straight, dude sends a chick, who he just met & wants to get to know, $30 for lunch! For her lunch, while she's AT work! He's not with her while she is AT work! And she disses him! Not just her! Her coworkers, along with chicks across social media, diss this guy. WTH! But these same gurls will hit up an inmate online because HIM got that LOOK. SMH.!! KS used to say... Dammit!! U can't make this sh*t up!!

[@mrc3226]

Dating is that what they call it these days

[@jaybrick8973]

I have given up for sure

[@Affiliate067]

Always choosing for the WRONG reasons. Men and women both do this.

[@IAmTh3M9th3rB9xx]

CHEAPER Without Then With

[@abihailhill6372]

These are all facts!! Period!

[@allhailzamasu69]

From my town I literally meet 5 girls that were all only interested in my cash app. I'm not even asking to come over I just want to see if you are fun and have the same hobbies

[@BookerT1]

Go where you have an advantage.

[@brianscott3503]

These modern women we think like this lack of”class”…if you only entertain women with class you will eliminate a lot of that nonsense…forget how fine she is, how much she makes, how many degrees she has only focus on the women with class and you will see how your perspective will change

[@jerryhall5759]

Modern women have their "P"s mixed up. I'm your partner not your papi

[@UNITY_225]

....I gave up on black love 💖 yrs ago, single 7 yrs now its no use in trying anymore majority of bw are really disappointing to say the least 🤷

[@PRWOMENHERE]

I completely agree with her

[@rigjuice3842]

New marital vows for 2024 run them pockets fool 🤣🤣📘+🛫 =😁

[@jjmcg9184]

Even pookie is starting to get tired of them as of late.

[@teebull6015]

Dating is dead! Stick a folk in it! Period!

[@9577frasier]

Dont even interact, on any level

[@sydnitheromantictaylor112]

But these days dating is also hard on women because most men expect you to throw your legs up in the air within a few dates and if you don't, he decides to ghost.

[@bubbaquotes9682]

That is why you find a man of god. If you can’t find a good man, you are the problem, same goes for men.

[@frankstruthers7137]

No they getting on planes!😅

[@kalaklah4848]

No one is willing to properly address this but our culture and government policies have exacerbated this problem.

[@deus_david13]

This whole thing is hilarious. The video & the comments. Y'all dudes wild AF.

[@Alazar654]

So many great comments!' Live on, mgtow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@KoiStewart-r6d]

Well it don't make it no better when some of these women get on KZbin talking crazy about men and yes alot of the women see dollar signs it's like every time I get on KZbin it's the same thing they want fellas to look a certain way me I'm not trying to impress no body some women are just down right selfish . I'm single and from the various KZbin videos I watched I'll think I'll stay that way.

[@TheKrackCity]

That women was so well spoken I agree with her 1000000%

[@coreygreene9498]

This is only an issue in america!! I’m doing fine in Africa.

[@spidermanb1286]

Yep i dont date anymore because women expect u to approach them i dont like approaching women cause it makes u feel like its up to them to accept n choose naaaa no thank u women need to start approaching men

[@jjmcg9184]

I feel you. I basically only approach them on the wknds when i have a few drinks in me. Any other time, im not trying to risk being rejected in the nastiest way by these females.

[@dreday5578]

It's pointless dating in the west

[@theebonymaw]

also, she's somewhat off the mark. it's not only about what a man is, or can be, to you. it's also what can *you do for him*. that's half the problem right there. people looking for relationships for what they can get and not because they are looking to GIVE.

[@AaronOlafson]

The funny thing is this whole trend like any other trend is all online, not in the real world. Too funny people think most people are like what is posted online. These channels are for entertainment, such as toilet or watercooler talk time only. Blah blah blah

[@ggaston8096]

Men are not giving up dating...they are just going to other countries

[@elephantupper_1]

A lot of men like materialistic women if they like a beautiful women

[@anthonyrichardson5330]

Marrying and beautiful Colombia woman yall can have it

[@Donnell-m5x]

Im one of them uncle Phil because these women want too much and they are too unpredictable. You can put your all into her and as soon as she gets bored it's over. So unless you can really read their minds or you can really see the future before it happens dating is a crap shoot.

[@MisterE1976]

Excellent video! Enjoyed this very much!

[@dayveda3736]

Never a western woman ever again 🎉

[@Drebln893]

😎Bruh, I just live for my God and myself. It's over relationship wise. Enjoy your life, get your passport and travel.

[@ghostprime2000]

Yup that’s me I have given up, going to buy a cat

[@you_mustbeBrainwash]

Peace of mind is undefeated when will yaw get it bring peace or we good solo dolo

[@64charlie73]

You got 5 cents out here looking for a dime. Lyfe Jennings 😂

[@alanzo428]

I'm 5 foot nothing yet I do pretty well on dating apps bc of my extracurriculars however I've been so disappointed by the women I've really liked that now I've given up dating for almost 4 months and I have little intention of going back. But my landlord's are nosey as hell and they can hear everything I do. I'm sure they think I've gone gay so I'm at a situation where I have to bring over a girl just to have sex and appease them to get them off my back. There's tons of women at work to choose from but I Wana stay True to God and Not give in to pressure. My landlord's are super traditional and I gotta prove consistently that I haven't gone gay so I'm screwed right now bc I'm literally done dating women - 99% of women out here are absolute garbage

[@SYSBMNOW]

Sounds like you're still SIMPING!

[@root2davinerecords740]

If U looking 4 love in this world U are looking in the wrong place(look 4 it in the Word) the world can only offer LUST

[@chrismog286]

We don't care what black women think, we just go where we are celebrated. Get your passports gentlemen ✈️