Sista Says She Receives More Attention From Men By Dressing Classy

[@dj4080]

100% correct. Leave us something to our imagination. We respect women that respect themselves.

[@adaezeokafor4331]

Thanks

[@relaxing_white_noises_by_j1980]

Yes indeed!

[@captainkeyboard1007]

That is the right thing to do. Bad appearance attracts misbehavior, even sexual misconduct. Also, it makes the person lose all their necessary confidence the woman would want to have.

[@Zoloft77]

We are what we attract. Look and act classy usually atteacts classy mature men.

[@xteec1]

Exactly!!!!!💯

[@CharlesThomas-vs8ir]

Nothing better than a Classy woman.

[@SmokeOnTheWater108]

Exactly! The attitudes need to be in alignment with the classy attire, though. If the ladies could bring the pleasant attitudes back, that would change so many things around😎

[@calvinaddison2316]

POINT ON THANKS TO THAT LADY FOR BEING REAL

[@Carter-je9kb]

Dressin with glass no flash your azz .

[@captainkeyboard1007]

That lady is right.

[@angelakennebrew6565]

She’s right

[@cedricjackson7521]

Women who dress with respect and present themselves with respect, will always be respected and defended by men with the upmost integrity and respect

[@trainelavalais6280]

THANK YOU!! Women who dress with class get my utmost respect.

[@tracyr173]

True. Men respect classy women as well. They will openend doors for you. The younger men in the neighborhood will say yes ma'am and no ma'am and if one curses they will say. Oops I am sorry I didn't mean to say that. You do get treated differently than say a woman who shows it all.

[@gmoney9729]

It's just like the "dress for the job you want" rule. Dress for the man you want to attract.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Very interesting! I like your comment because it makes absolute sense.👌

[@AndreaPortley]

She a beautiful young lady and I can confirm wearing classy and covered dresses draw a lot of attention!!! My great aunt used to say, “the less a man see, the more he want”! Has lived with me since the age of 13!!!

[@carolharrison6718]

I agree 💯 percent. Men like mystery.

[@AndreaPortley]

@@carolharrison6718 as late Black Jack Bouvier aka Jackie Kennedy Onassis father quoted, mystery is woman’s greatest caché.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

And this works wonders for you, as it did for Great-Auntie.

[@mrfrederickA]

Best auntie ever! Love ❤️ it!

[@nawal10]

No one cares what these fools want stop it

[@moniquehamblin4381]

I Hate Tattoos…Period

[@lovefood4eva1983]

The good part is that she realize that dressing classy will get you the right attention and respect. Real sexy women can be sexy without revealing everything. Nobody is saying that you cannot be sexy, you can be sexy without looking like a pornstar/prostittute. When these women, women you see on tv, come out basically butt naked, where you literally can see everything, that is not sexy, that is trashy, no respectful man is going to want to been seen with her but only at night. Don't let these modern corrupt celebrity women have you thinking its ok to wear certain things, they all sold their souls and all they are doing is bringing you down and will cause nothing but a downfall in your life. Classy women will also be on top no matter what this society says.. You can show skin without showing everything. That a difference. It's all about how you do

[@Frugal637]

This guy didn't ask for her number although she was single. I bet he will ask for thotiana’s number though.

[@brandonpotter4915]

Amen 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@jasondawson92]

Also the neck tattoos be killing me all inked up

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Tattoos on women is ALWAYS a red flag. Always for recreational use only. Gotta have clear skin to be taken seriously.

[@NerdSplash5555]

I've got 21 tattoos and a husband of 14yrs😜😂 no kids and we own a house...the internet is a interesting place...✌I forgot to mention Jesus loves me and has chosen me to be a part of his kingdom✌

[@quantumsolace5864]

Since when did she figured this out ; although we have been telling them this for decades?! Women who dresses modestly will turn heads from dudes more than your 304 see all hyenas. Even more ; they will be respected more by men as well, offering our protection and help in a time of trouble..

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

They're not the brightest group. Plenty of degrees though...

[@illrizzocgg1009]

The both turn heads, the difference is the type of attention they attract.

[@Glassessss]

​@@thelegacyofgaming2928 Coming from the group that wear their pants around their ankles I wouldn't talk Ray Ray. Probably don't even know how to tie a windsor knot or have ever worn a 3 piece suit but have the nerve to have a standard on clothing for women.

[@vpack7623]

🎯💯💥👏

[@quantumsolace5864]

@@Glassessss you assume too much!

[@ry-daprophet.b1461]

You don't need a image consultant to know how to dress. These women, and men know what casual respectable attire is, because if they go to a job interview they know exactly how to dress.

[@Maasai-El]

I have two daughters. I tell them all the time to keep their bodies fully covered. My explanation to them is when a woman wears any clothes that reveals her body the message she is sending is that she has no boundaries.

[@cblack350z]

CLASSY NOT TRASHY💯💯

[@marlonmoore3969]

Imma say this again This is my quote: Get You A Woman That Represents You not A Woman that Represents the Streets 🔥💯

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Well mentioned!

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Thank you.

[@Silversiren-d1b]

Provocative gets you noticed, while elegant is appreciated. It was nice to see a woman covered in the video and still look beautiful. It was refreshing to see a woman embracing her natural beauty instead of relying on makeup or fashion. Her confidence and poise were the key elements of elegance. It was a powerful message to send to society. This woman was sending a strong message that women can be both provocative and elegant without having to rely on makeup or fashion. She was saying, "I can be beautiful without all that, because I'm confident in who I am." It was a message of strength and empowerment, and it was inspiring.

[@samuelc.6402]

Facts! Less is more. We MEN like to imagine women when they are covered up. It's really attractive when a woman dresses classy and when she's covered up dressing less revealing. 💯‼️✔️

[@G.U.P.]

Everybody, I just discovered that water is wet! Come and join me in this groundbreaking historical event!

[@jamesknight3992]

🤣😂🤣😂

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

This needs to be pinned. These women slow asl 😂

[@seanwright8786]

She is absolutely right. She's also a very beautiful looking sister. The combination of beauty and modesty are irresistible for men.

[@bamaboi6845]

She's beautiful

[@enlightened7430]

Yes she is. Very beautiful

[@clockehvac1240]

THERE'S HOPE. HOLY COW GUYS THERE'S HOPE. GLOCKTAVIOUS POOKIE DOOKEY PAN PAN AIN'T GOT EM ALL YET

[@blacknight88]

Glocktavious lol

[@sonflower-xt9th]

😂😂😂

[@Drell-en7yo]

Lol what if she still got a baby by glocktavious ? 😂 stay focused bro we still got work to do

[@clockehvac1240]

​@@Drell-en7yomy bad fam. Sir Yes Sir 😂😂😂😂😂

[@deshaun2191]

In the words of Martin Lawrence: " I like my women classy, not showing all the assy." 😂😂😂

[@JohnDoe-pd4jo]

And then they act like they hate male attention. Confused creatures smh

[@alwayssomething8344]

My great-grandmother ALWAYS told my cousins and I that we don’t have to do anything extra for a boy to notice us( she started telling us that when we were kids) and as we got older she would still say that we don’t have to flounce around, wear tacky clothes, talk loud for men to notice us. She would tell us that they see you without doing lot of extra just be yourself, keep yourself up and be quiet 🤫 like don’t be all loud and stuff. Yes she told us that

[@jahkarimirza7286]

You know things are bad out here when women have discovered that water is wet with this dressing properly topic. Like do these women think men are playing when they tell you not to where this and that because it makes you look like a streetwalker? SMH

[@MsRenaissance]

So what are you arguing about? She doesn't sound like she needed correction to her dressing she was just sharing her story of being appreciated. It's not like she used to dress trashy and then discovered something new.

[@Frugal637]

I honestly am trying to figure out why she just discovered this and it's so shocking that she ran to social media. What type of places does she usually go to? This was no revelation to me .

[@phephe43]

100% correct!! I never had to bare all of my skin!

[@nonyabiz12]

Women that were actually raised to be ladies understand this. It's the 304s that don't.

[@nourahrmumeenslave]

men have always stopped cussing whenever I pass by, nod and say hello ma'am (or queen or sister), opened doors for me and treated me like a fragile piece of crystal😊 even pookie and rayray😂

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Keep it up!

[@Frugal637]

Yes and I noticed wearing a dress gets this reaction too.

[@kingleo393]

That’s cause you have feminine energy

[@sunflowerthegoddess1737]

I was in the grocery store one time . And some of these young sistah's . Were dressed in that out on the track attire . And I just kept thinking . This stuff used to be considered . Nightclub attire ! And some of this stuff is so revealing . It might even be too much for the clubs ! It was more like something appropriate for a swinger's club .

[@mikesercanto9149]

Class never goes out of style.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

I have hoped that top class will remain in style, but I am disappointed that good manners, clean speech, and pleasant attitude have gone out of style.

[@daytonmoreland3790]

Pokkie and ray rays like bootie shorts and cardi b and stallions , real mean like class

[@Breezy11harvard]

I can attest to this! A very proud moment for me was when my dad told me he admired how I've always dressed modestly.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

May the young women, even some older women, of today look and learn from you.

[@Breezy11harvard]

@@captainkeyboard1007, that's very kind. Thank you. This is the importance of young women having positive male figures in their lives. I think men can teach young women this lesson a bit better than other women.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

@@Breezy11harvardYou are welcome and you are a very bright and intelligent lady of a woman. I believe that young women need Christian mommies, as in loving mothers to teach them the feminine virtues. The men who have Christian characters would be needed to teach the young women how to be treated like ladies, more like your own self. Like the safety rules worked for me during my bicycling tenure until 2006, proper words and fine manners, including the social graces, still work well for me, both personally and corporately. Just hope that those men who are to be teachers to the young women act like gentlemen. Thank you for typing to me.

[@Breezy11harvard]

@@captainkeyboard1007, thank you. And, absolutely, very true- women raise women. My thoughts are that women who are interested in dating men, would more likely listen to a male’s perspective on this than they would a woman’s perspective. But, definitely agree with you.

[@cjsteward4250]

Damn, how surprising that someone actually cover up gets more results than not… almost like we haven’t been telling our women to dress better to see better results. Congrats to her 🎉

[@Frugal637]

I'm not sure why she was shocked but I don't get why he didn't ask for her number either.

[@TheMeloman79]

She was real class- her attire and her mannerism. Hats off lady.

[@AbdulaliMuhammad-bs7jt]

Always said that women look better with all their clothes on.

[@Jasmine12467]

I respect all wemon that dress classy I agree 💯 that means you have respect for yourself and for others

[@maryfields877]

Pinterest is a wonderful resource for classy outfit ideas.

[@Sherrylee50]

Absolutely Right Phillip💯 Shout out to those guys and to the young lady for speaking truth

[@captainkeyboard1007]

Disrespect can wreck.

[@mwilson7097]

That's all we brothers are looking for feminine cooperative fit and body Covered! And not all tattooed up like an NBA player! This beautiful young sister is exactly what we are looking for!

[@SarahEvansCunningham23]

😂😂😂not tatted up like a NBA player. I dont have a single tattoo

[@saonedixon5476]

Dam she's gorgeous 🥰

[@saonedixon5476]

We love classy mature women so yeah she will get more attention from us legit brothers.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

Mature mentally, not age wise.

[@AaronOlafson]

That's what I'm talking about. Classy is Classic & Timeless. Simplicity & Sexy.

[@khayeel634]

I’m confused why they don’t know this already! But, hopefully this will set a new standard!

[@Tim832-ig6pt]

I agree because you have to leave something to our imagination, and some things need to remain sacred,if you're a sexy woman it'll show without walking naked

[@Yahfirstinme]

Thank you for this video. I'm so tired of seeing camel toes even as a woman!!!! I was just telling my son if I see one more I'm gonna explode!!! And as an older woman I can't say this to the younger ones because they'll just say I'm being jealous. I wear nothing but caftans and have gotten so much attention from young men in their 20s but I'm not a cougar or MILF so I can't see them as anything but sons. So I hope more young women get the message.

[@houseofhas9355]

Suprised! That not dressing like a woman of the night gets you more attention. 😂😂 you can't make this up. These women are suprised by that.

[@robertjackson5079]

Yes a beautifully dressed classy woman speaks volumes to a man vs a hoochie mama!

[@jimhills1920]

Classy on the outside gets our attention. Classy on the inside keeps our attention.

[@jmos005]

I only like nice,clean and traditional women who dresses classy and appropriate.

[@SP.4]

Shy from Philly 🌺 Hello Phil and the diaspora family ❣️ Your character is what stands out. Women who dresses appropriately are showing good character❣️ That's what men want and need in their life ❣️

[@captainkeyboard1007]

You make honest-to-good sense.

[@EL418_]

Common sense ain’t common no more

[@sotosotoa8120]

Notice how she responded to the brotha, and you see how she described them. I used to hear older women tell younger women to - leave something for the imagination. That's how u keep our interest.

[@jaydub8596]

dress with class and most important behave with class.

[@MrK.A]

Less is certainly more. I love a woman that is like a brand new book that feels like it was meant for me instead of a library book that's been passed around for countless years.

[@mrfrederickA]

This part

[@Everythingfreshandsassy]

This is soooooo TRUE! I refuse to go out the house wearing spandex (sport bra and girdle)! I am 60 and even the young men have the niceat things to say about how I am dressed! I appreciate it and so does my husband! He told me he appreciates that i am covered and not showing the cut of my c&&$$*+, the curve of my behind or the sway of my breast! I honor my husband and myself being dressed, covered and classy!

[@omegaman2767]

That was 💯!! Back in the day Black Woman read magazines like Essence, Ebony, Jet, & etc. Those mgazines showed class for both women & men, in the Black community! And watched Soul Train!

[@treshelljacksonmcclendon4178]

I used to always say I want a man to see me for me not for my body. I’m wanted my man to feel like it’s Xmas day once he gets to see me undressed

[@swint564]

I love seeing women fully dressed and man the look good as hell

[@michaelanderson2693]

I SUPPORT AND APPROVE THIS MESSAGE

[@kevinjackson3104]

Men love classy, respectful women, not 304s😊

[@jamestaylor7338]

Yes my lady! You sure will in more of a polite way that you would appreciate.

[@nickidrew5113]

It’s true I got to the gym completely covered and turn many heads. Other women go to the gym almost naked and men pay them dust lol

[@vmaultsby]

Class and decorum goes a long way ❤

[@enlightened7430]

Who is this woman. Man she is beautiful

[@kjshakurrn]

Word!!! That's what I be sayin!!! You can be fly without showing yo a$$

[@bertramattles1695]

The funny thing is men have always felt this way, when I worked in NYC in the 90´s there was nothing more sexy that seeing a woman with her power suit on with heels carrying her briefcase or purse. I use to love how we dressed back then. Women were proud to look good coming to the office. Now women dress like they are going to the gym when they come to work. Not even any fancy hair styles. Women would never come to work without a new hairdo. Women have never understood what men like that is the issue. We are more simple to please that you can imagine. Classy will always outshine Nasty its just Nasty is being promoted and the young ones think that is sexy and its not. I told a female once when you go up to your daughters school if you wore some slacks with a nice blouse and heels you would be taken more serious when you are talking about your child school work to the teacher. When you wear sweats and Crocs you are never ever taken serious even if the conversation seems to be so.

[@quantumsolace5864]

I would have slipped my number to this sista with the quickness. If she rejects it; I'll respect her wishes and keep it moving, it's best to try, then not try at all. It's definitely refreshing to see a enchanting woman of class and self-respect in herself; because in this day and time, it's a rarity. That 304 look is only reserved for men that chooses to flex in the club; I can respect that, because the setting is warranted for it. (Only referencing the strip joints) Seeing the 304 attire out in public on a daily basis has become soo mundane that I have become mentally numb to it. Every time I even see a sista morally dressed and classy out in public; which it's rare, her essence of presentation puts a smile on my face, geekin.😄

[@Martin199320]

It's best to try then not to try at all, keep telling yourself that. That don't apply to every women u find attractive that u see out in public, use your discretion which women u choose to approach regardless of how pretty they look to u. Don't fool yourself thinking it's manly to shoot your shot on every woman u find attractive.

[@Frugal637]

Nothing wrong with shooting your shot. Everybody won't say no. If I'm single I'm accepting applications period. I'll choose who gets hired later. I'm wondering why that man praised her so much but never asked for the number. He went out of his way to ask if she was single.

[@captainkeyboard1007]

A classy look is modest and very attractive. Simple clothes such as blouses, shirts, and skirts are so lovely that they are called "a lady's lovely colors." Simple and decent appearance has impressed me since I was in the seventh grade at junior high school.

[@bitokay147]

This woman is beautiful and its true I get more attention and more respect more amenities dressing classy and makeup simplistic. Its the way to go! High school sure we do dumb shieet and want to be sexy so hard but you grow up. Do not need skin to be sexy. Its the soul its the charm and style not the skin.

[@arthurj7602]

Nice clothes at thrift stores !!

[@ButterBiscuitGobbler]

I’ve experienced the opposite. When I was a woman of virtue, virgin, dressed classy, I couldn’t get a date to save my life and it did a number on my self esteem. Now as a worldly woman, I receive more attention than ever. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@lionessontherise2403]

I’ve seen this, I am not saying change to anything but I’ve seen that

[@tyeash7822]

You have to be around better men.

[@myronbourne6937]

Lies. 😂 You couldn't get a date from top 10% men. There was plenty of decent average men giving you attention but you didn't want them. Now the top 10% give you attention because they think you're easy 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@Ptah1130]

See, no brick to the face, ladies!!

[@histreasure3189]

Well said...however, I think some modern-day women probably care more about dressing to impress/compete with other women without much consideration for what the men they desire what.

[@frankjames6232]

Well it's only how you dress, but the total presentation meaning? Having a nice smile great conversation, and definitely no loud mouth attitude ☺️

[@charliemac6126]

I'm over a lot. I need my people to be on some Thanos ish

[@gloriapurdie1199]

It's true I been dressings classy for years and still to this day, that's the best way to get attention and proposals.

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

LOL, I guess they're finally gaining common sense 😂

[@ladybear1274]

True 👍 ✔ 👍 yes🎉🎉 sister 👏 🙌 go girl🎉 with your beautiful🎉 self.🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@enlightened7430]

Look at the women in the Nation of Islam. Those women are classy and beautiful in their clothes and they are covered up too.

[@tmantman6896]

Yes these women are striving to be women of God .

[@enlightened7430]

@@tmantman6896 So true.

[@badbot4ever566]

Women know this. They just choose to ignore it and then act like the victim when things don’t go their way.

[@mrfrederickA]

This video is my top 3 favorites. Ladies, please know you are beautiful, COVERED.

[@sbolden123]

🙄💯🤷‍♂️ Duh! A classy lady will always get more attention; positive attention

[@Frugal637]

Yeah I don't get why she was shocked. It also depends where you hang out.

[@PlatPodMediaCEOSean]

DAMN she fine!

[@theoriginaldjskar]

I just had this talk with my twin daughters and they reviewed it well

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

WE RESPECT WOMEN THAT RESPECT THEMSELVES ... SALUTE 👍🏾💯 .. GREAT TALKING POINTS BROTHER PHIL AS USUAL SIR .. 💯👍🏾

[@moniquehamblin4381]

When You Dress Classy “Men” Notice Your Not Starving For Attention… And They Treat You Much Better… Thank You Mom… You Taught Me Well… Miss You…

[@empoweredselfishnesstv4102]

Me too! Men of all ethnicities run to open doors for me, offer to lift and put heavy cases of water in my trunk at the grocery store, etc. All men proper men respond to class.

[@yvonnenewson6668]

I loved what she said I'm always classy not trashy thank you something refreshing

[@nataliaphenice]

She is absolutely stunning!

[@maategypt1236]

Real men like women dress classy and carry themselves to allow the men to wonder what you look like..Men's back in the day are face and neck sexy

[@LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L]

A CLASSY DRESSED .. POLITE , PHYSICALLY FIT AND FRIENDLY WOMAN IS ALWAYS PLEASING TO THE EYE AND IS RARE NOWADAYS .. GREAT TALKING POINTS BROTHER PHIL .. SALUTE 👍🏾💯

[@lisalee3067]

I’ve always known that I always stand a apart with class which is why I have a good man and not a pookie.

[@SansM-g2r]

I've been looking for somewhere I can place my comment on this topic, I too dress quite modestly but with style and I also notice men admiring me and even younger ones (49 going 30 - people tell me 😊😇) and I think its refreshing for them. I've also grown in confidence compared to me in my 20s and getting even more attention and I'm enjoying every moment of it 😃. People have forgotten the beauty of a dress or skirt flowing on the body like in the 50s and its beautiful. We need to make use of clothing material to adorn ourselves! I wonder whether women wonder why women from higher society echelons including royalty dress modestly and look so smart. Its because its classy!

[@marvl6472]

Yeah , and do brothas receive attention more by dressing with class also vs pants sagging 😮

[@jasondawson92]

👍

[@thelegacyofgaming2928]

You said that as if most dudes are sagging. Ain't nobody sagging anymore unless they are hoodlums. Always someone trying to get off topic

[@martind1636]

Thanks for catching that indication.

[@differentmindset7924]

If black weman follow what the scriptures says. And that's for woman to dress in modest apparel fully covered with dresses and know tattoos like the sister did in the 40's and 50's they would get notice and a lot of attention.

[@rickmarcusthompson671]

HEAR HEAR!

[@simplyred9659]

He is so right 😊

[@BrianThaLion99]

Be carful guys. Just like soft girl era, these 304s will begin to dress classy as "classy girl era" but under the classy appearance will still be a 304. Stay woke.

[@hxycdsa576]

Act right and look right need more than just clothes. I'm not convinced but it's a start.