Sisters, Who TF Did *YOU* Marry? NIGERIAN WOMEN, WOULD NEVER LEAVE HIM...

[@withloveleemu]

My Dear Sis! Some of us have similar stories but won't share because of our children. I too was married to a similar guy but with a different name. My eyes opened and I've been divorced for almost 9 years. I still have trust issues, so I am single. Some days are good, and some days are lonely, but I will rather be lonely than to be in a manipulative, compulsively lying and cheating relationship again. Reesa Teesa girl! You are not alone.

[@DumebiLea]

Good job giving us a recap on the whole story. I watched it on tiktok and I was GLUED! Reesa is an impeccable story teller and I’m glad she came out of that situation. She recently gave an update saying that Legion’s real elder brother (the one he always pretended to be on a phone call with every morning) contacted her after finding out bout the series on tiktok, and he told her that Legion was diagnosed with schizophrenia and bipolar disorder when he was young and their parents tried to help him, he was placed on medication but he stopped taking them so I believe that was when his mental health got that bad. The brother also said he and the rest of the family are in support of her telling her story and exposing Legion and they have no issue with her.

[@quandraadams7583]

Thank you for this update. Schizophrenia is the only way this made sense and I hadn't heard about that piece of it.

[@healthymab]

It’s a red flag for a man to move into your house after marriage. He wanted shelter!!

[@thankgoditsjuma]

Tessa doesn't know how many lives she's touching, and could be saving by posting her story. I agree with everything you said in this video. Only God protects 🙏🏾

[@STILLCHIBS]

I think her “desperation” made her stay with that man. She mentioned how she wanted it to be her turn so badly. Thank God she got away with her life intact.

[@RDCFemmes]

She said herself

[@chrissylynnscloset5540]

I listened to the whole thing. I started on my vacation in Pennsylvania. I was only on part 18 when I got in the car to drive home. I was locked in and it took me all the way home to southern Maryland😂😂 Anywho this story has me questioning everything and everybody😂😂😂😂

[@nataliekangwa7221]

I have never been hooked on a story like Ressa Tessa's. Im glad she walked out and i hope more women recognise the liars they are with and can walk away from such relationships.

[@TobiMills-ou4sb]

I can’t believe that the ex husband really decided to come out and lie and gaslight her further. The other ex wife is also doing her own series and the step son is also speaking as well it’s the gift that keeps gifting Your skin is skinning 😍😍 Will we be getting a skin care routine update?

[@Lovelaceandlattes]

Please what’s their tik tok handles I want the other ex wife’s and step son’s side of the story

[@oluchiuzo4727]

Well explained Adaeze. Bikonu is his name 'Felix oliseke'. My elder sister is also a victim had 2kids sef for that bastard..they are in 9ja too oo. May God save us from this specie of pple. Shine your eyes and when you notice these fellows RUN!!!

[@Ummikirde]

You are making good points on the reasons why he managed to get away with the lies for so long. I love watching you, been watching since i was pregnant with my first child in 2020 😊

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Thank you. I appreciate that! 💕

[@alaoabigail]

You r right Adaeze! We have been lied lied to... NEVER ignore your intuition as women But some of us have come out of it, hallelujah!

[@PapyDon]

Adaeze you are a good analyst. I enjoyed every bit of your content ❤

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Thank you so much.

[@okeyoyinbbee]

Well said, it’s funny when you see people going through it come online to pull her down. Aunty we know but we are waiting for you to open up before we put mouth.

[@Daisy.Mohajane]

Soo true😄

[@faithemokpaire1751]

Straight bullet meet me😂😂. me na becos I no dey financially stable but am saving to exit

[@ngaatendwechikobvu]

I watched everything. It is such a sad and eye-opening story. People are really suffering o🙃

[@PapyDon]

She's not only trending on TikTok, She also trending on KZbin

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Yeah, it's crazy!

[@ilobekeme174]

First time hearing about this Lady, would check her out. Her story sounds familiar. You’re right Adaeze, some of us women are on this table, we believe everything we’re told, until they no longer make sense. I know someone that exhibited these characters which finally caught up with him.😅

[@taylortee8474]

To be honest Reesa is the champion for February or may be the champion of 2024 😂😂 from part 1 I could already tell the red flags

[@thecuriouscurlz]

Ok, but Madam…who laid your edges!??? Your hair looks soooo good! It’s so pretty 🤩

[@hey_winny1239]

Yo! Started last night, woke up and completed the series. What a man! I don’t know how he kept up with the lies. How was he so consistent? The step kids, the niece, the sisters, the grandparents! Guyyyyyyy!

[@tanyakadi3445]

That's how narcissistic people are. They are pathological liars.

[@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood]

It's their nature

[@hey_winny1239]

@@ItsWorkingTogetherForMyGood ‘their’ being?

[@damieo8139]

​@@hey_winny1239 People who are good at lying.

[@odytrice]

12:04 The mental note part is something I think we got from our Dad 😂 He will ask leading questions to make sure you cover all the exits with more lies. That way, you can’t escape when he eventually confronts you with evidence 😂

[@ihuomasindextv4255]

That is what we call kpichikùm!😂😂😂 No escape.

[@faithb4236]

I have been listening to her whilst cooking cleaning etc. she is good at narrating too

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Really good. Very calm but well detailed. 👌

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Really good. Very calm but well detailed. 👌

[@Dee___..]

Let me grab some Nandos to watch this. Brb😂

[@kelechiitiba7799]

Things are really happening oooo,thanks for bringing this story to us here

[@olusolapeojikutu675]

Your analysis is on point, loveeeéeeeeeet

[@xeelvya]

3 gbosa for Adaeze🎉🎉🎉

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Yayy Thank you ❤️

[@mideokun7351]

😂 if he was Nigerian it would be radio silent for Nigeria blogs Just seen as business as usual

[@user-tm4my4jb6d]

I am two minutes in and subscribing. I like you and I don't know why. :)

[@faithtemitope-babatunde9901]

I just love you Adaeze…. You are right.. they will still stay and you advising them will be like a fool.. you were smart to focus on yourself and not intrude in that friend’s relationship

[@msheather73]

I told someone he took the scammer playbook and added his lines. 😅

[@chinyerenwude8046]

I liked your analysis of the story.

[@giftysokpor596]

You are a good storyteller too😊

[@elohorziregbe3504]

All these things are making us wiser and to teach our children how to investigate properly before dating anyone !!! Its both gorls and boys too !!!

[@chiwantstea]

There is lying and there is diabolical lying. I’m glad she is free.

[@theresaebojoh203]

I watch the video from part 1 to 50 i believe her

[@ReenelT]

Adaeze, see there is only word for this, OMO !!! Because chai !!!😂😂

[@cmartin5903]

When it comes to men, make God your friend..not for friendship but for honest relationship, they will know that they can't hide. ❤God bless you!

[@Mo_momlife]

They said it’s up to 50 episodes

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Yes it is quite long but you will be glued!

[@Mo_momlife]

When u start hiding relationships from ur family members it mostly ends in tears,also covid made it worse.

[@RDCFemmes]

I think 52

[@egbekpaluclaret5938]

Honestly, while I feel reesa’s pain, my heart goes out to the guy coz He has spent his entire life living series of lies. Quite painful if you ask me. What a wasted time in earth. I genuinely believe he is sick and feel sorry from him.

[@aniekweesther5354]

Please ooo... I'm not on TikTok, is it on any other platform?... If yes, please, drop the link.

[@stainlessgladys]

You don't need to be on tick tok to watch sometimes I watch with chrome try it

[@realitycheckwithadaeze]

Sis, it is worth downloading Tiktok for. After watching, delete Tiktok🤣 But you can search on KZbin, I think people are compiling the whole thing and posting as one video.

[@aniekweesther5354]

@@realitycheckwithadaeze Omo, for you to have said this, then it must be really interesting 😂... Anyways, thank you so much... I'll check it out. I enjoyed watching this video and I solidly agree with your thoughts and I feel that thing that happened to her could have happened to anybody cos like you said it seemed very normal at the beginning... I've also been through some things in life that has taught me never to judge someone in a situation or someone's decision whilst in a situation, until I am in such situation... After all they say, he who wears the shoe, knows where it hurts. Love ya!

[@wanjawandia1786]

Look up “who tf did I marry” there are people that are uploading the vids on KZbin.

[@aniekweesther5354]

@@wanjawandia1786 thank you sooo much

[@heyleighmikaila]

I hate this happened to her but the scary fact is, yep, it can happen to any of us. Hell, Beyoncé and Shakira made a whole song about a "Beautiful Liar". 😅😢 P.S. Sis, you are GORGEOUS! 😍

[@TalesbyAmara]

This is looking like tinder swindler

[@AquariusNation777]

New subscriber

[@madeidanimo8963]

I'm telling you the guy did the most cause I mean in my mind I'm like how far can this guy go to lie,why would someone go through the stress to make these lies,he pays bills o ,that was the butter to the whole lie,showed papers for certain things I meannnnnn 😅

[@sarivah_musicdiary]

The lie about arena football was pretty good, in my opinion 😅 I would have googled it, for sure, but after seeing that this obscure sport actually exists, or existed during the years he said he was playing it, I would not have investigated it further, just because sports in general don't interest me at all, much like computers 😄 So maybe Reesa Teesa also was not into sports and he knew that. He's not bad at making up stories 😁 The other lies, however, I don't think I would have let them go as far as they did. But it's certainly interesting, psychologically. Willful ignorance, I can't do that, but I do often let people get away with lying, just like you said, taking mental notes and not letting them know that I know they are lying... It's almost like I'm living a double life myself, pretending that everything's fine while doing my investigations in private and maybe even setting traps 😂

[@blackdiamond231]

One thing I wish is that I could be less upfront. If I know you're lying, I have to confront you on your bs right away.

[@rachelabayomi]

Are we sure the guy is not suffering from an ailment like bipolar or psychological disorder? Because why will you do all these? For what? And it’s not like he went with all her money.. well maybe I will understand better if I watched the video myself…my response was based on the narrative in this video

[@Actavella]

The family gave her permission to reveal his diagnosis he has had since childhood, Bipolar and Schizophrenia. Apparently, the father came out of retirement to pay for his meds but he refuses to take them. Very sad.

[@nneuche6821]

I was entertained with her story but my heart went out to the man at the end, the way she got rid of his things and called them to repose his car when she knows he lives in it, seems extremely harsh, he spent all his money paying her bills, house and car. I guess there is really a thin line between love and hate

[@passivepanda3656]

That’s what he gets for scamming. No pity

[@blackdiamond231]

Typical Nigerian response! You were "entertained" by the woman dealing with a man that put her through hell, but then your heart was filled with pity for the man. There was no line here bc he never loved her.

[@chiderapaschaline1303]

Awwwwn u can't help being a ppl pleaser can you?. "Oh how dare u get angry and serve me a dose of my own medicine when I literally scammed you.....that's so bad of u ..pls pity me ". Sometimes act with your brains not emotions

[@nneuche6821]

@@blackdiamond231 wow, what a I actually meant was a thin line between HER love. And yes my dear, the internet is mostly for entertainment. It’s not that deep!

[@nneuche6821]

@@blackdiamond231 wow now am an emotional people pleaser! This lady claimed to be a God fearing Christian and she didn’t have any problem forgiving him of his lies earlier in the relationship because he was paying her bills. Now he can’t provide anymore he is suddenly a pathological liar. Like l told the other throll it’s not that deep.

[@Tefera-hf8fw]

why so rude? ok ok ok ok ughhhh

[@sophiaoboh1365]

❤😂

[@ej2507]

He is a scammer

[@Whet-wb9jt]

Lol @ Chucky cheese 😂😂😂😂