Situationship Wala Trauma By Swastika Rajput | Hindi Storytelling | The Storytellers 2023

When Swastika moved to Mumbai, she experienced something she had no idea about, a SITUATIONSHIP! Something she did not sign up for.
A story of a traumatic birthday, the day when it all came crashing down for her. She shared this one with us at the Storytellers Show, in Delhi, and surely there were some water works happening on both sides, on stage and off stage.
Video Edited by: Shannon Maben
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[@anuragbhalekar4315]

“bichadna hamesha do logon ki kami hai, kisi ek ki zimmedari nahi” Well said.

[@भूमिकर्माधिकार]

Duniya fir bhi bichhadne degi aascharya dekhne Manoranjan ke liye

[@Nitinvasu4444]

For the first time in my life I have seen an alive person at 1.5x speed. 😄... I liked the rawness of this piece. Keep it up Swastika.👏👏👏

[@sagarera5924]

The emotions we can see in her tone and eye's ❤️‍🩹

[@sushiladevi9138]

I agree😊

[@vickymedgan]

Yes and i hope she will find the man who fills this gap in her life what she deserves

[@princejindal8595]

It takes too much courage to express your emotions specially in public without fear of being judged.

[@varunkumar5003]

Atleast she have friends with whom she can share her pain ,but some of them dont have anyone to share.

[@shreya3087]

Exactly 💯

[@JPSir]

It happens with everyone, literally everyone. So accept it and move on. Spoke her heart out beautifully!!

[@toogoodtobetrue1795]

Fr❤

[@nityarai5977]

How she seems innocent little one with joy and cheerfulness but deep down her words the way she’s describing her situationship it’s sharp enough to pierce the heart of the one who has been through it. Like mine I would say rn because one who has gone through it can only relate to each of her lines. ❤❤ for her

[@archana2449]

Tumhari situationship ki kahani sun kar muze meri situationship yaad aa gai, or aasu aa gaye tumne kaise control kar li? You are amazing ❤❤

[@kaviyajain4446]

Can't explain in words... your last line has made me feel soo better that " tumhare log tumhe waise hi apnaaenge jaise tum ho." You know this has happened to me last evening i was going through this trauma, but your smile and the situation ( I can 100% relate this, same thing happed with me ) has made me feel so much better. after listening this I can confidently say that " I am what I am " .

[@aayushipawar3411]

pyaar aur dosti ke bich mein ek najuk si line hoti hai, ye line kabhic ross nahi honi chahiye. Kyuki tabhi aap uss rishte ko zindagi bhar nibha sakte ho, bass yahi sunna tha, thankyou!!

[@DeepikaBiswal-yb7ix]

Situationship, relationship, casual relationship pata nahi kitna nam hai par sab timepass hota hai commitment kisiko nahi dena tha

[@ChetaNLegenD]

Yr tum itana achha kaise bol leti ho, pyar ho jata hai tumhari baaton se... Waise tumse se to pahle se hai😂😂❤❤

[@NikitaKasana-f9l]

Broo😂😂😂yaha bhi suru ho gye aap,

[@aryan3601]

Kyuki voh khush rehti hai

[@ChetaNLegenD]

@@NikitaKasana-f9l adat se majboor 😎

[@ChetaNLegenD]

@@aryan3601 sach kaha bhai, dil me tufan lekar chehre pr smile krna sabhi ke bs ki baat nhi hai👍👍

[@jiya14325]

@swastikaarajput If you would have controlled ur so-called "over reaction" & said Thank You once, then he would have said that ur response is not enough bcz he called you despite being busy and u only said a mere thank you. Thus things would have ended in either way, bcz he had already decided to end it. It was not your fault & don't blame urself. He lost You, you did not lose him!! You deserve someone much better! I can feel u, sis!! ❤️

[@himani0907]

True

[@Jazajaza-b8o]

There is a difference between reacting and responding. Only emotionally intelligent people can respond instead of reacting, and it is not to please anyone or to be fit in. It is just for the sake of one's own well-being. Emotional intelligence brings success in every aspect of life.

[@himani0907]

Exactly

[@salonimittal7457]

love everything about this! idk but i cried through the entire video and felt so many emotions swastika - you are amazing

[@sohimade2005]

And a drop of tear came down at the last line❤️‍🩹

[@muzammilshaikh20]

Its very fresh for her, She is soo strong.. The last 1 minute...

[@anxiousambivert9946]

I felt exactly same way she talking about… there is girl I loves a lot but that one sided since my clg 5 years back … I got to know that she has a BF now and my heart felt so heavy and that day her b’day … I called her at the end of the day 11:55 and wish her the last wish and she said why you don’t call me whole day and said ohh okay you showing me attitude then get lost and don’t show me your face don’t try to reach out….. but she don’t that how I going this situation totally emotionally shattered I cried whole day that she don’t even tell me and not consider me frnd but SOMETIME PEOPLE DONT KNOW YOUR SITUATION THEY REACT ACCORDINGLY THERE MOOD still I’m healing❤

[@missincredible4546]

I can totally relate bro.Now it has been 3 years no reply to any of my message and got blocked everywhere😂😂😅😅 and that's what life all about still finding "tumhare wale log😂😂😂😂"

[@shemaring2867]

I hv been in a situation ship and he did like me but he was hot and cold with me. Nd kept me hanging. So after we came back to our respective places I moved on. And he was the one who used to tell me “a guy in love will do anything for his girl,” so I realized that he was not so much into me. Then when I was so done and not looking for anything I met someone.

[@khushisrivastava4592]

"Bichadna 2 logon ki kami h..ek ki zimmedari nhi h!"🔥♥️♥️

[@simran1382]

Been there ...this thing really sucks. Swastika ❤you nailed it!

[@rajanmaurya1713]

Yes, I also love my "Immaturity" ❤😊 Not to so called "mature people" bcz maximum of them living double standard life, fake life and saying themselves "Mature"

[@annvisingh7744]

Just wow

[@shekharpandey844]

this is the most honest and straight from the heart

[@TanishaMishra-]

It touches my heart deeply 🌜

[@Im_akshansh]

After 5 years of togetherness... On 30th I'll be celebrating my birthday alone..

[@shubhammane61]

Happy birthday

[@Im_akshansh]

@@shubhammane61 thanks man

[@shuvekshatamang929]

Relationship is lost because of greed, ego. I can feel your emotion. I feel it's my story

[@AnkitKumar-qc1wv]

Thank dee for explain your situation in your prity words,same to you...

[@oum0]

It was so raw

[@alishasingh129]

situationship trauma ek sath hi kiyon....3 saal ho gye aaj tak bhulna mushkil hotta hai though mei ek relationship mei hoon aur voh janta hai usske baare mei jiske sath mei ab hoon voh iss duniya ka sbse aacha ldka hai jo meri yeh baate yeh rona bhi dekh leta hai bina yeh dekhe ki baate ussse kitna hurt kr rhyi hai

[@atuldwivedi3959]

Aap mediation karna start kar do guided mediation....aap believe nahi karoge but aap ek month karke dekh lo dheere dheere aap heal hona start kar do...shuruwat ke ek hafte lagega kya bakwas kar rhi hoon but aapko kuch na kuch mehsoos hona start ho jeyega...

[@alishasingh129]

@@atuldwivedi3959 ji zarrur mei krungi

[@gaurigoyal7238]

Amazingggg..this raw narration touched the heart❤🙌

[@amishakumari8488]

Every line of yours touches the heart. Pata ni kyu.. 🙂

[@Vaani_7]

Finally I found words to express my thoughts, feelings 😅

[@AnkheFuture]

Yaar di aap itna achha bolte hai ki kya hi bataye aap bahot achhe ho aur jitni lines bolte ho yesa lagta hai sab kuch Same yesa hi huaa ho ham sab ke sath

[@mithileshkothari]

Every freakin word is relatable....more power to u swastika

[@poojachouhan05]

Exactly jo hmare log honge vo hme hm jese h vese hi accept kr lenge❤

[@brokenfeelings1059]

One day they will realize, ki wo overreacting ladki sahi thi. Bohot zayada care krti thi isliye pgl ho jati thi mere aawaz sunke hi. ❤🌈

[@toogoodtobetrue1795]

hope❤

[@parteet]

Emotions personified ❤️........ Great going idol...... Keep slaying 🔥🔥🔥

[@shivangipandey4775]

What's make you rich the answer is experiences i totally relate your situation ❤🎉😊

[@adarsh_mishra451]

Aapke sath bhi hua situationship

[@rajnandani648]

Same situations with me frndship or pyaar ke bich ek bahot hi nazuk si line hoti h ese kvi Cross nhi krni chaiye 💯 . Hone ke baad na to frndship rheti h or na hi pyaar

[@IRshayri_writer_1049]

अपनो की नजरो में जो हमारा नजर किरदार आता है, वो चाह कर भी किसी और की नजरो में कभी नजर नहीं आ सकता 😊

[@Nikita-pk7nc]

This is so matching with my real life story ❤😢

[@milkhasingh7253]

You deserve better girl! We are in the same boat. Happened with me too

[@Arfa246]

Just loved it your eyes were saying your true story 🥺

[@tarunkaundal1265]

Just Beautifully Narrated a Masterpiece.... Well Done 👏👏

[@PratibhaSubedi]

Perfectly said🙂

[@nityadhaybhai]

I could feel her in each line said by her, it’s sad that u can’t do anything bout it, uk that there would be no commitment but u still have that small hope everyday tho from inside uk the person is not gonna act how u want him. U think that that u will ghost the person and focus on yourself but there is always the memories and ofc the hopes of him coming back and saying ‘i need u’. Even if the person if being nonchalant, and using u and not being clear, blaming u, u will have feelings and can’t love anyone else. u still wait for their message even tho deep down uk they won’t come back if u don’t put efforts, everything is one sided. U can’t forget him, u just think what if the person would be here rn and the just distract yourself by being busy. Smtms u feel like they never met you. Everytime you share your emotions with them or complain about their behaviour, they either blame you or don’t care bout it. But if u even slightly hurt them, they get offended and u like give your 100% to calm them and still they make u feel that u are good for nothing. They don’t clear the things, they just don’t want to get out of option so they love bomb you Smtms to let the things be going with flow and u think that the good part only. But after all the disrespect, disappointment, rude behaviour and then being nonchalant, sadly u still love them. They know it well but they don’t even make anything clear because they don’t want to get out of option. U are just not happy when they are with u or when they leave you. U are just getting into new relationships and hurting someone else so that u can move on from them. And this cycle goes on, then u are numb and dk what to do. (Future me will come back after years and update the current situation after sm months)

[@PrinceRathour713]

Yes it's true sister ❤❤😊

[@saurabh8955]

Sooo relatable 🥺🥺 Main kaise batau use I love him uska rejection hamari friendship bhi khatam kar dega Ohh god 🥺

[@pragyasagar9273]

Bheed me wo mera haath pakad leta tha toh lagta tha mujhe khoyi hui pehchan mil gayi ❤

[@Fatema-r7y]

I can see ur pain in ur eyes and i am going through it too

[@snehaha04]

Emotions over hi feel hote...how relatable 🥹❤️

[@Unfiltered_natures]

I like your way of taking. I'm biggest fan your poetry ✨️.

[@anjalikadgi]

This made me cry!!🥺❤️

[@archanarathore3890]

It feels like you're telling about me...yes I'm overreacting person. But how can I control my emotions kyuki Dil pr to kisi k jor nhi chalta n😔...and wo 10min. Exactly 💯 wahi 10min. Sb kuch khrab kr dete hain kyuki log smjhte nhi or fir hn situationship k shikar ho jate hain 🥺🥺🥺 What a performance ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@motivationdiaries123]

Agar wo tumse sach me pyar karta hota na to wo tum jasi thi, wesa accept karta....agr relationships ke koi rule hain, aur sabko unhi ke according chlna hota h, it means every relationship is same, sirf chehre alag hain, kahani same h.....😒😒😒😒 I hate these relationship rules!! 😒😒

[@aparnapaliya6591]

Too mch relatable ... ❤

[@agnivapal1353]

So soulfully beautiful

[@Jeel31]

If my EX decides to share her stories, it would be the same. I know I might be the wrong one in my relationship, but honestly, in the story you shared I can feel the perspective and feelings of that guy too

[@believer7589]

Ohh God, she felt so relatable ♥️

[@PuleenenduPattnaik]

I m seeing this title or am here bcz i also hav the guilt somewhere in me, i think at certain places or situation i should hav not reacted like this or i shud hav not spoken like this or i shud hav asked this, approached, or asked that, said yes or said no, I've become almost mad thinking that wat words should i use to talk to him, I've become picky in answers, just to ensure he doesnt leave or doesnt get hurt by me, it makes me think where i ve gone wrong or wat mistake i did or wat should hav gone wrong, wen and how. Then also think to make this thing work out, try to fix the bug but again n again got blamed, got hurt, experiencing pain (am very strong) i cry thinking abt us. I feel inside, i feel cry, i get ok, i cry again, i cry every night, wen i want commitment only theres no commitment, even though i plan n tell things in advance he cant make it, he has made somw rules as well, no calls, no calling, no priority, no response, no emotional support, no reaction, this person has nver agreed anything in my terms or plans, he has always said no, he never shows up for anything, even a friend in need is a friend in deed but he has not been there for me at times wen i needed him , never meeet outside, its one sided now, no respect was given to me when i confessed n told him i love u, he said "wat is all this new love and all" after sometime he told we ll be friends, before he was not secretive, not he is, more like a private person or the most busiest person on earth he acts like, he is never available, he calls or texts only wen he wants, he never changed for me but i ve changed a lot for him (as in within) i cant see anyone else ir think abt anyone else now, i feel this way but i cant text him right away orherwise he ll block me, everyday new set if rules, this that, am already blocked on insta by him, the only way i can talk to is thru watsapp, so i need to choose th right words not to annoy him or pester him or bother him or temper him. I m thinkinv abt his side, wat he will think what he will say, wat he will reply, wat if he does, what if he doesnt jus think think think but no right to share bcz no time for the other person to listen, or no this no that, he has told earlier. Earlier when? Wen i was a kid, wen i was a child or which book or where it is written that we can share things wen we want to share then we wipp psychological get affected rite, then i started writing in dairy wat i wanted to talk everyday, sometimes small things sometimes long talks, but am talking to a dairy or talking to me where there is no one to give reply or no answers to the questions arised in the mind, half mental case, questions get accumulated day by day, at night worse it is, sleep less nights for a heartless person who knows i love him but never ready to be even normal or ready to treat me like a human atleast, no humanity, he pushes himself back, then no talks to less talks, the problem is i remember his every words, i remember his every move, everything ive observed very closely but now i feel like a nightmare evry night, ive turned sad, dull, introvert, negative kind of a person, we live closeby he is showing his other face, arguing more for unnecessary small things, not giving time to e even in personal meet, no security no privacy to keep him bcz that level or right i do not hav he makes me realise something like this, never asked bcz this was casual in initial stage of us, from us its only me remaining now, i remember his promises, his words which maybe sounded sweet bcz i thot i was into him n he is also into me, but those words were not real i mean he did bcs he wanted me nd so he sugarcoated it, n always pulls my past small mistakes to prove me wrong as his defence tool to avoid answering or avoid listening or avoid telling, or avoid the question maybe. Then one day wen i called to tel something he overlaps me n tels me "i cant do this anymore" am sorry. Then again after a while he tells me "to look after my life and moveon" speech. We spoke again again and again but failed to understand that every ive been waiting but he just had been texting wen only he wanted to. I want my sleepless nights back can he give me back, can he give me back those things which i lost ? If yes then am ready to move on. As if evry is fixed or runs by his rules. I revolve aroud him, around his thoughts words answers. He has broken me several times but am still in this bcz i require answer, things take time to heal, or good things take time, or something but dont know where it leads. Im still in thi thinking that someday it will change or my love will change him or he ll be able to see my love for him but am dying every single day waiting, im dying inside, its killing me . I dont know why am not getting brainwashed by my own brains. Givin him chance agaij n again to heal me to change n get committed or to show love on me. I deserve it.

[@archanakumari1482]

Very beautiful

[@ritikrawat7514]

Tum wo Mt Banna jo tum nahi ho, Agr wo tumhara hota to smjh jata ki tumahri excitement ka reason bs uski awaj sunne se aagyai♥️🥀

[@simransahu6096]

So beautiful ❤💓💓💓💓💓💓💓🍁🙌🏼✨

[@mehulgosar1744]

Yaaaaaaarrrrrrr.. ❤

[@FaisalNawaz-gy6gp]

Your style your voice you face everything is very beautiful❤❤❤❤❤

[@md7677-t7h]

Han Yar, ho jate hyn hum itne hyper active.. tumhe dekh kar, tumhe sun kar... Kabhi tum bhi to hame smjha Karo... gale se apne lagaya karo, apne aap me hume basaya karo.. Pani men namak dal fir ghol na ise, jab ghul gaya namak to, namak bolana kise... Kash woh hame samjhi hoti... Na hum Shehar badal kar rahe hote na woh apne yaar... Kash... Bdw ammazing #SR ❤

[@akash_c]

Very deep

[@chandnisah2561]

It hurts when someone calls your excitement immaturity

[@renukapurohit5080]

Wowww✨

[@arohipatel258]

To ye apki story hai 😊 Lucknow mai apne apni dost ki story kaha tha 😅

[@theorganics5427]

Courageous ❤

[@StudyTime-t2b]

'Woh line cross ho gayi' 'nah pyar nah dosti' 😭💯

[@pragneshpatelvlogs]

💯 stroy relate ❤️

[@vaishalimishra9543]

❤

[@Riyasharma-1109]

love it❤

[@thakuradishi8924]

U are very strong ❤

[@justme-ei7sj]

WOW GIRL just wow youre too good !!

[@dipikakarmakar4069]

Same problem mere shath huya..90% same..or Mera birthday 2 months bad hai..but mere pass call ane se ,me phone receive nehi karungi...kiyuki mujhe mature Banna hai..mujhe or emotional weak nehi rehna hai..

[@MdMesba-g4s]

Beautiful 😍❤️

[@anitachauhan4457]

❤❤❤

[@dhritig2407]

❤true

[@hammadshaikh4278]

Great Story telling

[@princevivek5320]

Ek bar kisi se attachment hojaye r phir wo shaks Hume chod ke chala Jaye bohot mushkil ho jata he jeena

[@Improve9594]

Same story happen with me friend sa favourite person but misunderstanding kill our friendship it's my story also " my birthday on 24 march but she can't msg " I fail 😢

[@priyanshisrivastava3507]

"Tum mat banna jaisi tum nhi ho, tumhare log tumhe waise hi apnayenge jaisi tum ho."

[@sandykkr]

I feel you bro... ❤

[@SamataChaulagain]

That pain in her voice...

[@priyaraj9518]

So beautiful ❤❤

[@parvathykrishnan8179]

woww💜

[@Sagarfashionmenswearnanded1080]

Very nice video ❤😊

[@KavitaARajpurohit]

@swastika u are really too good

[@this_part_of_the_song]

Is she talking abt situationship with a girl???

[@pankita_sitapara]

Yes

[@this_part_of_the_song]

@@pankita_sitapara ohhkay

[@Komal.7779]

Be practical only... utna do kisi ko jitna usse need h behad hanikarak hota h chahe vo kuch b ho ..... kabi -2 gyan b kaam nhi aata vase vo situation hi essa hota h emotional log hainna 😢😢 practical logo k sath bhig jate h 😂😅

[@toogoodtobetrue1795]

Bday shit so relatable I'm dead

[@arkapravade7234]

Itna situationship katne ka time kiske pas hota hai?🙂. Mere relationship mein toh bohot kam time hota hai college life mein, dosto ka bhi same.

[@toogoodtobetrue1795]

Feels like you telling me my story

[@AnikaKhatun-xq9sx]

Check karliya kahi video ki speed 1.25x to nhi karrakha maine😅

[@akanshasingh2291]

Loved it ❤️

[@Enthusiastic_soul27]

When someone point out that being you is mistake then they are mistake