Size Matters and Here's Why (Gay Relationships) Patrick Marano

[@ak5659]

I've been saying this for years! "Size matters" is only true when everything else is equal.... which happens in the real world exactly never. 5" with a guy who knows what he's doing will be more fun than 8" with someone clueless.

[@PatrickMarano]

Amen

[@Tiqerboy]

I'm the 7.5" clueless guy. I'm straight, only reason I enjoy this channel because it gives me a good perspective of that lifestyle. Plus I have good friends who are gay so it helps me understand them better. On the surface a couple of them talk exactly like Patrick does in his other videos so it does make sense.

[@echospaw899]

Yes.

[@TheMCNemesisOnAmazonMusic]

@Tiqerboysure thing talkin bout your dk on a gay channel. Straightest thing I ever seen. Yessir

[@michaelm5601]

Thanks Patrick, You are giving some good advice to a lot of guys that are to shy to go to a bathhouse on their own. I tell my friend” Shy doesn’t get you laid, If you want something, you’ve got to go for it”

[@PatrickMarano]

True words!

[@DenSanAZ]

As a bottom, I'd rather have short and fat over long and skinny any day. It's not the length, it's the girth!

[@beaucandlewood9893]

What if you have both? Would you run from it?

[@michaelm5601]

I just subscribed, Patrick you are doing a great job with you site…. I’m kinda newly into the gay life style later in life…. But settled and getting things together. like house and marriage of 3 years..and very happy with my husband…… Glad to be subscribed…. I hope you get all the sponsors it takes to stick with it.. my best. Bmore Mike

[@PatrickMarano]

That's very sweet, thank you Mike! And... I'm so happy that you have finally come into your own. It must feel good to be able to be yourself! And congrats and your marriage!

[@k3grappler]

Let's face it, size matters, but it is far from a deal breaker. Physique, sexual aggressiveness, body touching, and above all kissing. Have you ever met a guy with a big one that refuses to kiss? A total turnoff.

[@PatrickMarano]

Agreed

[@peaceloveandhappiness1699]

Yes it does, size, and how to use it.💛

[@richardmossy5540]

I'm 9 and honestly, I prefer 5 which is the best size for me. I do not like dudes with one as big as mine.

[@Powhart]

Also knowing Your nature matters. Like - are You going to be hard for long enough or do You need something to help You out?

[@johniii8147]

ED is easily solved these days if that's an issue.

[@leonstevens1382]

I would say that extreme sizes matter, but somewhat less than average still works well for most men, or at least that’s been my experience with 200+ men.

[@johniii8147]

Haven't you been busy lol.

[@jerrylee8261]

Leon, you would have to be a least 150 yrs old to have been with that many men. I've only been with four.

[@leonstevens1382]

I’m 73 now and no longer sleep around. I did it for purposes of research. I never charged anybody.

[@johniii8147]

@@jerrylee8261 No he doesn't. I stoped counting at around 100 by 30. But slowed way way down after. It just got old. Maybe 5 post 30 and now happily married. It's so easy to get laid when you're young and hot its not hard to amass the numbers if that's your thing.

[@johniii8147]

@@leonstevens1382 LMAO of research purposes. A lot of us went though the young slut stage so not judgement here. I stopped counting around 100 and then it wasn't many afterwards as i got board with it and settled down. No regrets though. I was smart and didn't catch anything other than crabs and a UTI from a blow job.

[@joefranks4235]

Thickness and length.....oh yes. If it's that's large, perhaps frotting would be better?

[@georgerivera8834]

Yes size matters ❤

[@GIguy]

Okay, I have to say it, speaking as a guy who is a heck of a lot bigger than almost every other guy, size matters all right, and I am definitely always willing to be out very active participant, I hate guys that are starfish, they just lay there spread eagle expecting you to do everything for them, that’s not me, but having what I have between my legs?…..it’s a curse. Everyone wants to look at it, touch it, play with it, but when it comes down to business, most of them take one look, tell me it’s way too big, that there’s no way they could handle it, and takeoff. That is a huge misconception, I know what I’m doing, I even took special classes to learn how to be an effective top, using a lot of relaxation techniques, a lot of lubrication, a lot of foreplay, and respecting one thing, no means no. W single guy who let me go all the way always tell me they had a great time and that it didn’t hurt, but so many guys won’t even let me try, it gets extremely frustrating. The ironic thing is I’m a size queen, the bigger the better! There’s no such thing as too big for me, but it is true a lot of guys really don’t know what they’re doing, you don’t just stick it in, there’s a heck of a lot more to it than that. Every time I go to the nude beach here in Toronto, I don’t think anyone notices that I have a body, I’m just a big penis walking past them! I don’t mind the attention, but once in a while I wouldn’t mind if someone actually talk to me, not my penis! I didn’t choose to be this big, and to be honest if I had a choice, I would’ve chosen something quite a bit smaller. Since you’re all probably dying to know and I’m not shy when talking about it, when erect I’m 10 1/2 inches, and much thicker than a beer can, I can’t get my hand around it, but nevertheless, I know how to use it. foreplay is half the fun, but usually that’s about as far as most guys are willing to go, and when I want to keep going, dammit it gets so frustrating! Thank God for online porn and my right hand! That’s just one of the problems, try finding clothing that actually fit properly, because the eggs Match the sausage in size, so it’s not like I can hide it very easily, I have to buy tailor-made underwear, boxers or something I could never wear, because I’d probably be arrested for being mistaken walking around with an erection, which isn’t true, but a lot of people think that’s the case because it’s pretty big even soft, so they assume I’m getting over excited in public, even with my tailor-made briefs, it’s still hard to hide it, I hate wearing baggy clothes, it’s just so uncomfortable, so the hell with it, I wear what I want to wear, if people want to stare they can. It’s the perverts that drive me crazy, the people that pretend to be on their cell phones when I know full well they’re trying to take sneaky pictures of my crotch when I’m out in public, especially if I’m on public transit. I actually bought a car for that very reason, so I don’t have to be stared at like a circus freak every time I get on the subway. Anyways, size does matter, for me personally, but I totally respect people who don’t think so. So far I haven’t been with a guy bigger than me, because I can’t find one, and I try not to make a big deal out of it, but word spreads real fast in the community, and being a nymphomaniac doesn’t help! But as long as I know what I’m doing, I’ve never once had a complaint from any guy who’s let me go all the way with them, in fact most of them always come back for more and more, problem is I want a relationship, not just casual sex, but none of the guys I’ve met want a relationship, just casual sex. Know if I can just find a guy he’s not afraid when I takeoff my pants, and actually wants to be in a relationship, and if somebody that I quick with, I’d be all set!

[@jackgross6133]

We should really meat, im on the flip side of your dissertation,...im your opposite equal, if there is a god, it will happen.

[@GIguy]

@@jackgross6133 now, you tell me! About two months after I posted this, I met a guy that I’ve been dating ever since, and it’s going really well. But, we are still in the honeymoon phase, and I’ve been down this road before, it can go either way. I will definitely remember you if things don’t work out if you’re still interested…. I have a feeling you’ll still be interested!(I am such a tease). The one thing about me, when I commit to somebody, I don’t cheat, ever. I don’t because a lot of guys have cheated on me, and I hated being on the receiving end of that, so I refuse to be the one causing it. When I’m single, I’m a complete slut, but a safe one, I always play safe, and get tested every three months just to be on the safe side. If it doesn’t work out with this guy, we are definitely going to be getting together, and I promise you, you are going to have the time of your life, and from the sound of it, I will too! xo

[@isaiasramosgarcia9771]

i haved! it smal, 12.5, now, with 18.5, its prety big

[@civilizedsatyr]

I'm on the smaller size of average and my junk is much smaller than my stocky body. However...my bottoms usually come back for seconds! It just sucks to have someone look at you in the gym or whatever and think you're broken goods.

[@PatrickMarano]

Thank you for sharing

[@jerrylee8261]

Chris is wiser than Patrick.😊

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha

[@a.a.p3254]

Cute

[@rakeshpersaud5885]

Size does matter....just go with a black guy.....especially a skinny one....lol

[@Scifi4life]

Black men are the same size of everyone else on average.

[@lovemyself6441]

I am just 5 inch and in gay community no one would date a 5 inch boy😔

[@PatrickMarano]

NO! That's not true. These guys are all talk. The ones that are obsessed with size are ABSOLUTELY NOT the guys you want to date anyway! You are wayyyy more than the size of your penis. If someone can't see that then forget them. I've been with guys of all sizes and when it comes to knowing what they're doing and chemistry there is NO size restriction on that. Please don't let people put you down for something so vain. Those people that do reject you are sad individuals who will never be happy because they are chasing something they think they want, but in the end none of it matters. xo

[@rscottlogan9471]

That is total bullshit

[@lovemyself6441]

@@rscottlogan9471 it's true dude

[@johniii8147]

That's not true. My thing has always been having a great ass. That's what really gets me going. I've only run into one guy that i was kinda shocked out just how small he was. Maybe 3 at most.

[@johniii8147]

It's not just the length that matters, probably even more important is the girth. I had a brief fuck bud that truly beer can thick as they say.. Somewhere in the 5ish length range(never took out a tape measure, that would have been rude) but hugely thick. He'd just climb all up in there with it. Sore asshole for a couple of days after taking that.

[@YelloLibra83]

Yes it does. I need someone big enough to feel but not so large you can do real damage. 5 to 7 is sufficient.

[@johniii8147]

Yeah there is definitely a such thing as too big. My husband is that way. Fortunately he's mostly a btm. Tops maybe two or three times a year and he knows to get me a bit drunk when he's in that mood. LOL. Oh he's unprompted binging me a cocktail he must in that MOOD! I was quite surprised the first time i pulled it out hard. Now this is going to be a challenge.

[@paulthor6255]

The kiss is what really matters. And his eyes... Heart and soul. Touch of skin. The way he holds you. Like pure poetry. 🖤

[@Jordi7174]

"If you wanna know if he loves you so, it's in his kiss" Cher. 🎵🎵🎵

[@echospaw899]

I agree with you 100%. There are many factors that make a huge difference. And if a guy with a larger that average dick doesn't, or doesn't know how to include the spice in the heat of passion... it's gonna be a bore.

[@beaucandlewood9893]

I can say this on size: it's always funny to me to get underestimated because I'm not very tall, or to have a guy run because he realizes I was telling the truth regarding the size that I am which is not exactly proportionate. So many assume because you aren't tall that you are small downstairs, but trust me, that is not always the case!

[@BJCMXY]

Most porn stars are average or a bit larger than average in that department, but actually are shorter than average... Which makes them Look bigger than they are. If you actually look up the full body measurements for a lot of them, you'll find that they're not that tall, and that the supposedly 8+ is more of a 6ish at most. Those that are actually as blessed as reported are actually pretty rare.

[@beaucandlewood9893]

@@BJCMXY That would explain the looks I get. I've met lots of guys who say they want a large one, but when we get down to it they realize they were fooling themselves. Scared of what they don't know but as a bigger guy you just learn to take more time and be more patient with prep and aftercare. It's all good in the end.

[@BJCMXY]

@@beaucandlewood9893 If you were to look at the Body stats for the Brents...you would find out that while they're bigger than average, they're not all that tall...but if you look at what the producers of the time were claiming for their size...yeah.🤣 I know for a fact I'm bigger than my second oldest brother...never saw it hard, but I did manage to gather the gumption to ask him one day...and out of the blue, much later, he told me 😂 It was shocking since if it weren't for the fact that his parents (don't ask) are incredibly kind and open-minded people...he was raised under extremely strict rules, because that's what he needed...and as a result he would almost seem like a republican... until you start talking to him...for a time we had a competition for who could do whatever first or better with my cousin who falls between us in age, at about 6 months older than me... halfheartedly competing...the end result of that competition was he had to keep up with my incredible learning capacity, and reading capacity... however he did admit that I was actually better than him at circumventing every concept he came up with...it was fun, because we used to talk about arms races...and I was always finding ways to defeat his weapons without relying on weapons myself... though my last idea was technically a combination of both a weapon and a Shield...and I have since found the physics necessary to actually begin to create it ironically...

[@BJCMXY]

Really got off track there.🤣 Anyways I have about an entire inch on my older brother, and he has an inch or more on our useless father... according to my mother...also, her father wasn't small...I had an uncomfortable accidental full frontal at one point... I luckily wasn't wearing my glasses so yay for natural censoring effects..I don't know about any of the other males related to me through Matrilineal heritage though...which isn't to say I wouldn't mind knowing just for the sake of knowing it.😂 I have another older brother, and two unaccounted for cousins for, with such Data... If you're wondering why I'm interested, I read somewhere that size was actually passed on through the mother, from their father...so...if you ever have a child, and want to ensure he's well endowed, look to the mother's father for your point of reference.🤣 Now, just imagine that becoming something people look at when doing the surrogacy & egg donor research.🤔 *Surrogate/Donor Profile:* Father had an 9 inch length, 7 inch girth, and (insert some unusually large testicular size here)...(and whatever else normally goes on such things goes here) I actually don't know about testicle size but you get the point. Genetics are weird.

[@beaucandlewood9893]

@@BJCMXY Dunno about either of my grandfathers as one was killed while my ma was still little and never say my paternal grandfather's. I do know that I'm much bigger than my dad was so maybe you're right about inheriting from mom's side. I'm just glad that I am!

[@markwagner4909]

Oh yes it matters to me girth over length any time

[@johniii8147]

Girth can definitely be a challenge. Hubby is beer can thick, forntually he's mostly btm. I was like oh damn the first time I saw it hard.

[@Fitzwillyfl]

I’m like Goldilocks…. I’ve been with big d*cked guys and little d*cked guys but the “just right” is when there is an intimate connection. Thank GOD my hubby is just right!! 😂

[@ArthurBrinkman-c5z]

I'm a total top, I don't care how big, small you are makes no difference to me at all! I'm not huge and I'm not small but I've never been kicked out of bed. And no matter what size oral can always be a good time! A guy that knows how to kiss well is the best way to tell if anything will go any further. I can tell the first time I kiss a guy if things will progress from there. If the kiss leaves me cold nothing else is going to happen anyway.

[@PatrickMarano]

I agree

[@venezoom]

Absolutely 100 % true................... Nothing like a good kisser to get you going............I recently broke up with my partner of 15 years, he had a normal size dick, but he knew how to use it ........and he was a passionate lover and a great kisser.............God I miss him 😪.............he was a handsome man

[@alphatop7]

As a professional sexual health counsellor (...17+ years and counting), AND as a sex-positive, sexually experienced (!) gay, married man, I sincerely hope your channel is still active. CHEERS! for putting out some of the most direct and well-crafted sex-postive 'messaging' I've ever seen, and madewith such authenticity, peppered with your uniquely cheeky, yet self-assured way. Ps When appropriate, I'll be suggesting your videos to some of my clients from here on, so hope more's coming ;)

[@PatrickMarano]

This is one of the nicest comments, thank you so much. I flattered that you think this way. There are a lot more videos... so enjoy!

[@TXPeter]

I think size is relative when it comes to actual physical compatibility. My partner is in the above average range with a very healthy 8+ and substantially thick. He's a much bigger guy than myself. I'm about 5'4 though a decently muscled 164 lbs, he's 6ft, 200. Being smaller physically speaking, sex can be a struggle for a guy like me because of my stature with me being bottom -- even after being together for 12yrs. Now for another bottom guy that is 6ft or taller, it may not be an issue as his body overall is bigger and he may be able to accommodate bigger partners somewhat easier. Not that I'm complaining......just a theory.

[@PatrickMarano]

truth

[@robertcox433]

Choking or poking? Head size matters. Ability second. It’s a sliding scale from this point.

[@Cid-tr3du]

Definitely sliding.... in and out. LOL 😎

[@kechiotta5349]

Wow. You're absolutely right. I was one of those who thought size doesn't matter but you have quite good evidence that it actually does.

[@PatrickMarano]

I mean, just so you know how to use it and how people will perceive you. But certainly falling in love with someone doesn't depend on it, thanks for watching my videos! share them with your friends!

[@johniii8147]

It definitely matters for the positions you can pull off toping.Like he said you have to learn how to work with what you have. And either big or small you better be damn good at rimming.

[@erickz7433]

Tall, Grande, Venti and Trenta (which I had no idea existed) 🤣

[@PatrickMarano]

hahahaha

[@johncarsone1579]

Big "thing" is only the physical side of love. Call me a philosopher but I think there is more to love than that. If you are talking "hook up" the above does not apply.

[@vforsejrv7801]

It must go both ways. Not only the top that have to satisfy the bottom! A lot of big di… men don’t know how to use it. So better with a average that actually works👍🏻👍🏻😁

[@PatrickMarano]

Right on

[@johniii8147]

Absolutely you gotta take care of who your sticking it in so they are ready.

[@beaucandlewood9893]

Exactly what I say. Whether a bottom or top, small or big, you have to learn howe to be a good lover and that all starts with the willingness to learn and great communication between the two partners!

[@johniii8147]

@@beaucandlewood9893 It also all starts with being a good lover if you want to top better have great rimming skills. You can be all sweet and nice but if not you"r licking well forget it

[@Amenhotepish]

I love your vid. Now what size are you :-) Kidding, it matters what you do with it right? Thanks

[@PatrickMarano]

hahaha, that's right! there's a million things that go into having a great sexual experience with someone... size is a very small part of it. thanks for watching my videos!

[@marcosmoreno8445]

@@PatrickMaranowho would mind about your size When You have such a cute face 😀

[@seancasey6984]

This gave me life 😂

[@ericanderson7454]

You left something out of does size matters... just because he is hung does not mean he wants to be a top all the time. There is a such thing as a hung bottom... and a lot of big D guys have problems with guys wanting him tp be the top ALL the time. It is one of those things that only happens when having gay sex.

[@PatrickMarano]

Great point!

[@maskmaker1000]

Hey Buckwheat>Use "Dictate" in a sentence..Ok.Hey Darla, How does my Dictate"?

[@joecascone2189]

Very creative and logical content. What are your views on cut versus uncut?

[@PatrickMarano]

love both! depends on the member of course and if the guy keeps it clean

[@joecascone2189]

@@PatrickMarano Bravo! And which do you sport?

[@Tiqerboy]

@@joecascone2189 LOL.

[@Cid-tr3du]

@@joecascone2189 He sounds CUT, because INTACT guys don't use cleanliness stereotypes in conversations about foreskin preference ("U don't mind dirty circumcised guys, just intact ones?"). That shows ignorance.

[@michaelgrant7322]

☺ This is funny... Why?... Because just the subject itself assumes that whoever is "JUDGING" whether size matters or not, or which size matters and why... Is automatically flattering Themselves into thinking that whatever they are or have (their overall looks, body, dick size) is good enough to think they are in a position to decide what they want or need from someone else ... That in and of itself is delusional... Another words HOW CAN A GUY SAY 'DICK SIZE ON ANOTHER GUY I HOOK UP WITH MATTERS ALOT TO ME BEFORE I DECIDE IF I WANT TO BE WITH HIM'.... and the other guy is saying to himself 'That guy looking down at my bulge in my shorts is ugly and I wouldnt hook up with him if he asked me' 😅 See the problem?

[@PatrickMarano]

deep thoughts...

[@mrtunapie6653]

Yes, size matters. I am a bottom and have never said no to a guy because he was too big. Too small, on the other hand, is a different story. I dont want to fall asleep while he's doing it... LOL

[@andrewfoster4359]

all so true, but i think for the smaller guy (and there are sooooo many social media sites where this is discussed) they can feel inadequate and that impacts them more than anything - especially if they watch porn where everyone is HUGE (so not) and the feeling they have that they'll never satisfy a guy a 'fill' him enough plus being limited on positions. You are correct that being smaller isn't the most important thing but so many guys do feel it. Many 'average' guys also believe they are small too because too many other guys claiming all sorts of ridiculous sizes too - there is enough data available on the internet to say what the average size range is but still guys think that is small. what most forget is a) how to measure, you don't measure along the bottom of the shaft, you measure along the top at the horizontal plane and you don't wrap it over the end of your D, b) when you look at your own dick you're looking down at it mostly and it will look smaller from that angle and especially if you have a bit of tummy or a fat pad down there. When you look at another guy's dick you have a different view and your perspective is skewed and c) guys lie!! Bigger guys seem to have the most issues, i've known guys who were huge and couldn't get fully hard, were told 'no way' or even if guys tried that they couldn't take it all/for long/too deep/too energetically/etc so agree donkey dicks are not always the great asset other men believe they are 😞 And then you have the bottom guys - can be equally impacted by their dick size - for me so long as they are pretty and clean i'll play with them, but hey who doesn't like playing with a big dicked bottom guy🙂

[@PatrickMarano]

100%.. so it seems everyone has their own issues don't they?

[@lb4lov]

Lose Chris!

[@masterrichie9831]

if your thing is tiny you should let the thirsty know before the clothes come off so they won’t feel cheated/disappointed, and you won’t feel awkward/embarrassed.

[@winchangkou]

Of course

[@aaironparker2837]

7-9 is good enough for me

[@johngiltzow4764]

I like 7-8

[@jamesrobinson2175]

Thanks Patrick!!

[@dabolisa4049]

What would you say is "big"?

[@PatrickMarano]

That's gonna be totally subjective. Big for someone might not be big for someone else

[@timsmalley7432]

mmmm Vitamin D

[@PatrickMarano]

So good

[@marcathens2951]

7 to 8" 🤏 is always a good size. Nice tight fit is best. Anything below 7 throw it back not a keeper 👎❌

[@PatrickMarano]

hey, at least you know what you want! lol

[@marcathens2951]

@@PatrickMarano I do its just a matter of finding... 8 years single.. 😬

[@Capt-Intrepid]

That size is rare - in fact, porn star territory. So that makes you a size queen.

[@MethuselahHoneysuckle]

@@Capt-Intrepid It ain’t rare in LA lol

[@Not-Ap]

@@MethuselahHoneysuckle Just like monogamous relationships.