Episode 27 | Fikile Memela On Being A Mule ,Prison , Swollen Intestines ,Nigerian Churches

[@pearl3035]

I feel like she thoroughly made us understand the horror and trauma these women go through. Thank you for such an eye opening interview

[@sbongisenimbelu6487]

1:07:01

[@Nonitikana]

I cried! being poor is the most hurtful thing in life. This a huge "but God why?' moment

[@manyoland]

Aish yah neh life😢

[@Sponchmakhekhe1989]

😔

[@lentshomakola1451]

This lady was protected by God himself. To God be the glory.

[@ncedosogiba4608]

The same God who got her into that place

[@Big_hyyt]

​@ncedosogiba4608 wow. There's something called free will

[@Big_hyyt]

​@@ncedosogiba4608God doesn't force people to do anything they don't want to do

[@peacemanthegreatest5574]

😢😢

[@sinethembamaseko5901]

@@ncedosogiba4608then you clearly dont know god

[@TebohoRakhale]

This lady’s story needs to be turned into a movie.

[@lwazibhuda298]

Honestly

[@linalinny]

And if you watch banged up abroad these stories are there and more scary ones

[@bonisilekhuzwayo2470]

True

[@phindilemazibuko7508]

Definitely

[@mmeme5861]

Of course

[@lebogang7600]

The way she narrates the story you will laugh but it's actually sad we only laugh because of how free spirited she is

[@Mtshalidumi]

⁰

[@mangakathokoane5025]

❤❤p0

[@ncedosogiba4608]

Ewe 😂😂 I'm laughing through tears

[@busisiwemazibuko7158]

True hey

[@xolileposwa4924]

😂😂😂

[@MCMC764]

Heard her story about 10 years ago on thobela FM, I can't believe I'm watching her today sharing that again. What a brave woman. A live miracle❤

[@Tonti7]

Oh my God this woman has been through a lot🙆🏽‍♀️. I thank God for restoring her life because clearly he still has a purpose for her life. Tjooo this episode has taught me to be grateful.

[@thamindhlazi758]

She has hey😢

[@thamindhlazi758]

Ek se Bra Themba and Bra Solly siyabonga bafowethu for this life line that you have given not only to x-cons but even to us....we can certainly apply the learnings from the speakers in our everyday lives...not forgetting that they are also human beings and let us not loose site of that. Keep on keeping on!!!

[@mpumi8669]

I was weeping watching this , God is amazing 🙏

[@ntokozondhlovu1710]

As South African what can we do to protect our young sister and mothers to those Nigeria churches?? 😢😢

[@MoreroMollen]

Experience is the best teacher

[@ntomboxolojabe2064]

Yhooo mama I'm sorry you had to go through that 💔 but thank God he gave you a second chance👏

[@unathimkupa]

Let them watch these podcast

[@mcec_ptyltd]

At some point I took myself out for a nice meal. Saw three south Africans girls with a joloff...at a prestige restaurant. Wish they are safe now...

[@sfundo9760]

Unfortunately we can't do much... Because abanye they have but sometimes they want more than what they have already.

[@NoxoloMhlanga]

Yoh😭😭😭😭yabona it’s so painful when you’re poor and thinking you’re getting help from someone kanti they’re sending you straight to hell😭😭😭I’m so sorry mama may you find healing in everything you went through..❤️

[@lawrencevusi5423]

Ubuntu omnyama yooo mama 😢

[@ntombifuthimthabela5670]

I watched this episode for the third time. It's very painfull

[@NoxoloMhlanga]

@@lawrencevusi5423 it’s so sad😞

[@NoxoloMhlanga]

@@ntombifuthimthabela5670 I’ve already repeated the episode it’s so so painful😭😭😭😭

[@mongezikona7294]

Nigerians have no Mercy shame

[@lesegomakhalemele]

Lord i thank you for preserving this lady life😥🙏🙏🙏

[@bettynukie8147]

I listened to this lady story before some where, i cried. Im hear listening again. We thank God for your life

[@Jackson11326]

She has been through the most , I am glad she’s still here with us ❤

[@nozizwenuku8905]

This story never gets easier to hear and I've heard it sooo many times . Lo Mama has been through so much

[@anitadyakala1886]

😢Still can't finish

[@tp999wrld9]

I had the privilege to be in the presence of mom Nokwazi while working for Moja Love. This lady has a warm heart and very heartwarming story.

[@atlasmaluleke4532]

God has proven himself through this lady 😢😢😢

[@thatolewane5858]

So true it's only God's grace 😢

[@nhlanhlam121]

God’s grace through and through 😢

[@Ahava222]

Ya that's the perfect sentence

[@NaletsanaPeniel]

After hearing this woman's story all I can say is God is real. 😢

[@ogomoditsekeitirile]

Amen 🙏

[@phumlanimncwango7686]

But why would God allow an innocent woman who joined a church because she was desperate to go through all of this horror in the first place?

[@langutamacheke2412]

Shem usis Fikile went through a lot. I hope South Africans learn about Nigerian churches. If God's grace was a person.

[@FikileMoshoeshoe]

Yoooooo.cc.fikile.hayi.cc.ubuya.ebu. nzimeni.cc😢😮😊

[@zannymeldube8524]

Mum Fikile weaves her painful story,spicing it up with humour that will have you rolling on the floor.This is epic my mentor @Skeem GP🔥🔥👌❤️

[@zukozuko9690]

I concur

[@nonoliciousnoah115]

This is so sad ,bt the way she narrates her story makes me glued to the screen I don't even wanna move till she finishes

[@bongeka.pretty.4045]

I once watched a show years are go where this lady was telling her story. She wanted to confess to her kids and some family member ukuthi bekakuphi for the past years. I'm happy she is still alive and she looks better than the last time I saw her on TV ❤

[@SirFrantzKrzysztof]

Correct, I recognize her voice from some radio stations years back, she was telling her story. So sad. 😢😢😢

[@thuogabankhalele4637]

Yea,Ithink it was on my big secret on BET or something like that

[@andisapaul4047]

Me too i still remember her on TV

[@mthemburosemary498]

WHERE IS NIGERIANS HERE TO COMMENT ON THIS EPISODE

[@sinazomakileni3938]

​@@mthemburosemary498nowhere to be found,im sure mabevela they will cry xenophobia

[@ayandambuthu4170]

I don’t know how many “Yoh!” I have said whilst watching this. Thanks Ma for sharing your story and I’ve learnt a lot that I didn’t know as well!

[@DawnMngomezulu-eq6ki]

It has been hard for you Mrs Memela rejection from the society is too much sometyms.

[@official_priscy]

Ooohhh Mama...your story really touched me.....I'm typing this in tears......God really proven HIMSELF through you, may God bless you mama.....I am really sorry to what happened to you...imagine a whole church members doing this to a innocent mother who is just trying to put a bread in the table for her kids.....agggg mahn this world is so cruel!!! May you fully recover from all this pain and trauma....sending Love & Light🤍❤‍🩹

[@matebellomakhetha2342]

And we are expected to treat these Asians/ Iranians with love in our country. Sis Fikile thank you for your story. I wish that these slay queens can wake up and stop the quick buck scheme and learn from these stories Themba

[@thobemcwango6914]

Futhi ngoba ethi Asians yamaMuslim countries uqinisile ..MaPakistan nje ngoba ekhululekile egqoka imjova yawo abandlululana kabi

[@vuyaniben5154]

And we treat them with respect and care lezinja 😡😡

[@lamoola9279]

Just like you treat Nigerians terribly In this country because you think they are criminals....but nonetheless, what happened to this lady is heartbreaking

[@EnosMbongwe]

The lady disseve to write a book she's so inteligent more than well educated people's gift✍️📖

[@angieblazing]

This woman has been through a lot my God. They should make a movie out of her life

[@zazimazi9265]

Nothing is for free to jollof boys hope SA girls are listening

[@ziphozinhledube7123]

They're listening or Watching but they won't learn. As long as there's Pressure around us .

[@mmjmbanze]

What a story 🤯. Lord bless you Mama Fikile

[@simplycapped1309]

We have become so insensitive about jail because of how sensationalised jail stories are. Thank God that he kept you to tell your story. Mama your pain was not in vain. Groetman please open up a donation thing so we can contribute what we can. Not only to just watch and laugh. umama is a great story teller there's no way you can keep a straight face. Re a leboga, keep up the great work

[@rodwellmhaso939]

Thanks

[@rachealpalesamotaung2466]

Psalm 46:1🤍 What a powerful testimony😭 May you live long Mama!

[@VioletThetsane]

❤❤❤❤she is my cologue and am very proud of her😊😊😊

[@mlenzecele2262]

Colleague ohh thank God she is working

[@LoyceBango]

Please hug her for me,I love her❤❤❤

[@nomvulandlovukazi9045]

She narrated her own autobiography so vividly that i was imagining all the scenes in her biopic! What an experience!

[@thatolewane5858]

I'm axactly crying 😢because I've been through that but I thank God for his protection over my life 💔😪

[@mandisahlabisa7705]

Hawuuuu tell cc wgat happened?

[@mongezikona7294]

May I please interview you, I'll pay you

[@faithmakena6013]

🫂

[@tedtlyhlatswayo403]

This will always be such a painful story 💔 but her humour makes it better, im happy she's looking so much better than when she first came out with her sad life story. God restored her life 🙏

[@nonhlethwala2212]

"oh hhay ngiyzwili pain xem" i felt that 💔 😊😢😢

[@MateMate25]

This is one of the best, interesting, intriguing and fascinating episodes on any podcast. Nice Work Guys. She went through a lot. Hope the future is saved from her lessons. God Bless 🙏🏾

[@Skeemgp_sa]

Thanks for listening

[@tsholofelompati1182]

Was worried the year will end without a awesome episode. Dankie groetman e le mjojo 🙌🏽

[@BONG101-x5u]

Skeem has improved greately as an interviewer.

[@khanyakgoshi4574]

This is the best episode I have watched.Im watching it for the fourth time.we must be grateful for the little things we have joo.This was very educative

[@PhozisaMnyande]

This podcast is fire , love the drug stories I’m learning a lot

[@malumekgatla4577]

Eiiiish mfethu iyashisa

[@brazhnervnix3844]

I'm glad it was the Zimbabwean embassy that responded to this lady while she was in Iran !!!

[@atashyamokheth495]

This Lady has been through hell and back... thanks God for Restoring her life 🙏

[@CbosEasyRecipes7]

Mama there's a purpose for your life on this earth, you were supposed to be gone but GOD fought for you. I hope you have found it ❤️❤️❤️

[@tunuagnes2607]

How can we get her communicate with her so that we can invite her to our events to teach our kids

[@CbosEasyRecipes7]

@@tunuagnes2607 Check the Description Box for her contact numbers or the host number. I think they are working together now. The Description box is under the video where it says more or an arrow pointing downwards and read until the end

[@nokuthuladlamini9477]

What a beautiful story ❤️. I can never judge her .I know circumstances led her to be where she is. God bless you abundantly ❤😢

[@NomsaSkosana-t4d]

Thanks for bringing u sis Fikile,i love this channel, keep it up Themba

[@Skeemgp_sa]

Thanks for watching

[@maekajacob630]

I once heard her story in an interview a while back, every time I hear her story I become more angry on Nigerian men, funny part our South African young ladies fall for their nonsense and they become victims. I hope and wish this podcast can reach our young South African ladies

[@PortiaSelane]

You can say that again

[@J1991-u6t]

Problem with women is trusting these Nigerian

[@savannasibutha4221]

If we stopped tolerating them then they won’t have power. Our females are there ones who need to be content with what they have

[@nomangesi_]

Heartless people ever... for money is the root of all evils

[@movementmathebula828]

Evil people

[@Moola_Plug]

Let's not force English. The story gets lost In the language... let the guest speak comfortably... the story will find its way to the people

[@tedtlyhlatswayo403]

💯

[@boniswantsangani5335]

And it’s unnecessary🤦🏾‍♀️

[@ntomboxolojabe2064]

But atleast she's trying shame, English yakhe is not so bad uyazama shame

[@Zonke18]

We are not English why do you have to speak foreign language in your own country

[@Prism446]

Being overseas for me is harder even ungekho ejele .I am working very hard to raise money ngizibuyelele emva.Ngise Europe and kunzima ukuba mnyama

[@desintuli7071]

I'm sorry my love, life is hard we go through a lot for greener pastures.. Take care

[@movementmathebula828]

Shwele.....comeback if it doesn't work for you

[@ZintleFlorance]

Siyafana bbe im in italy kunzima being in south africa is a privillage so nje kunzima i also feel like im in prison coz i miss home,the food and just being able to do watever whenever

[@rebeccamosuoe326]

Yoh😢😢😢😢

[@zandilempulo3608]

​@rkkkebeccamosuoe326

[@thamibokaba7090]

This is such a heart wrenching story. 💔 💔💔 May the Almighty continue to give her strength, and many more blessings to her. 🫂

[@Winterflowers1]

Love to see the channel growing 100K here we come🎉❤

[@Skeemgp_sa]

I hope so too!

[@MrsHarry.]

Eish I wanted her to go deep with the “what what glass magic & the sea saga & the pastors involved ” & you cut her 😂😭

[@thabi-1397]

The pain in her eyes 🥹this story is so so sad 💔💔💔

[@Blackmoses2]

Its the first thing I noticed too. She has seen a lot.The queen she has seen a lot but still standing.God bless her.

[@J1991-u6t]

I pray God bless her she needs a miracle 🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@PhumsTest]

Another reason why South Africa needs to take control of the foreign nationals situation. Government does not want to put South Africans first otherwise this will continue to happen.

[@chiporeid]

Are we really so evil? Especially the African ones?

[@Waltermabasa1737]

Thank you Skeem for bringing usis Memela.....

[@tshiamomahape292]

Thank you for sharing, very educative and eye opening. This things are there we need to be aware of our surroundings

[@innocentiahadebe4138]

Part 3 please Skeem thank you for this sensitive story 😮😮

[@nuttyynyce1206]

Why SA still have nigerians why 😡 this lady story needs to be published on SABC

[@pietmongwe9383]

Aczatly

[@MbalenhleQwabe]

It was, I remember I was young when I heard about this lady on the SABC news... I remember how shocked and devastated my mom was💔

[@mahlogonololucky9261]

Our own brave mother.my brother please come up with an organization that looks into building our people.

[@rejoicemate5485]

So this interview starts in English and I grab my popcorn and get comfy, and about 20 minutes in, the lady switches up...to say I'm crushed is an understatement.

[@entertainmentfolloworgomis3169]

I feel for you. She went through the most, she is the living proof that God exist and he will never forsake you.

[@andisaluvalo923]

🙆🏾‍♀️🙆🏾‍♀️😳🫢Wow!!!… I’m lost for words!! This needs an episode two! And documentary or movie because wow!!

[@Goofyandgoofyer]

Wow....our God is a Forgiving God xem. The lady been to hell and back. Mat God Continue restoring your life Miss Fikile

[@bridgettemoshapo3508]

Painful 😢story indeed Mama, 😢😢😢😢8ta daar Skeem and your awesome Team for bringing news to us

[@livingabroadthepodcast2021]

Watching from Scotland ..love you guys happy new year ❤❤❤

[@Skeemgp_sa]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@sammamakwa3242]

Since I saw you in most wanted, I made sure that I never miss a single episode. am enjoying your podcast sessions brother because am learning new things almost on every session, your work is beautiful, keep it up brother

[@ThelmaManyisa]

Lord Jesus you are greatful thank for protecting mam fikile for everything she's been through.....

[@Nokuthula_14]

Great story heartbreaking 😭 I hope God blesses mama she finds happiness ♥️

[@merciampembe6054]

To God be the glory, I love this woman ❤

[@MichelleMo.]

i enjoyed her story as she told it in the most real way ,,,, sad story but told well ... detailed fully .... people go trough a lot , thanks for these lessons

[@mananammalegae]

Im speechless ❤💔 What an incredible incredible life story. I hope Sis Fikile is well ❤🙏🏾🤯

[@rastaricavillage2022]

South African international relations do very little for prisoners abroad. I have personslly dealt with the department regarding human trafficking that gets called drug trafficking

[@zeeelove9259]

The pastor who send you there will never see heaven 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

[@matshepomathumba6850]

Yooooo ..... I was teary-eyed listening to this....😢

[@zannymeldube8524]

Big up to my country 's embassy (The Zim Embassy).Despite everything they showed up at your most needy hour and became your to-go- to platform.This proves that after everything is said and done,we are one people. We love you Mum Fikile❤️❤️❤️

[@dollymsimanga1529]

Her story is sad 😭😭😭 let’s be careful on who we trust 😭😭

[@masentlejiyane6021]

God was ur advocate my sister 🙏

[@thembashabangu4352]

Skeem this is best episode and is teaching us a lot . I like the way she narrates the story this women must come again

[@anastasiakhumalo6985]

where has this channel been all my life? I enjoy your interviewing skills unanezwi elimnandi, lol. Thanks for recognizing MC Menzisto, I dont think a day goes by without me watching him or listening in the background. I now have a variety of prison diaries. YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAASAH!!!!!! Keep up the good work.

[@moropengsydney16]

This woman went through alot😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@mapaseka1633]

I enjoyed this interview, she is a good story teller

[@preciousnene3446]

Miss Fikile you are a living testimony. Also you story is true and real because you are telling the same story in different channels or shows ❤💪💪💪

[@ncedosogiba4608]

Why would God put her through that in the first place? She also got into this because she went to church...hayi sometimes .....

[@brianntokozo8618]

This was one sad and inspiring conversation, not loosing hope and how situations can easily turn... wish her all the best in life

[@RefiloePortia-x8j]

Ths is a very painful story 😭😭 but with God mercy you have served it all

[@floydmyeza8872]

God and ancestors are powerfull this lady story is so amazing never doubt the power !

[@princessdiana9742]

A God that restores, Mma Memela God loves you, he Thus proved his existence through you Madam❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏🫶🫶 Your experience was terrible, but God came through for you!

[@tinyikondobe3377]

Beautiful content skeem. I'm a mshushisi but i like your content it educates especially young people to stay away from crime.

[@hlonimabaso7417]

Wow the dove story is absolutely incredible!!!

[@eugenemahaye625]

She was luckly to come from Islamic State country.

[@mongezikona7294]

Right?

[@sdeleligolide2585]

Lets keeping liking and commenting... this is the best channel 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@isabellamakhate3344]

Mam Fikile God never fails u have been through the most in life 😢u left the country not knowing wat u getting urself into all we can do now is give thanks to the most high power God kept u alive so that u can narrate ur story to us the youth n alert us about this fake pastors 😢thank u so much skeem Gp u are doing a great job ❤

[@lungilenkosi380]

ohhhh, Mam Fikile siyambonga Thixo ngawe

[@ncedosogiba4608]

She is such a good story teller but I'm in tears, she has been through a lot.

[@WendyZondo-yd2nq]

We thank God for your life my sister 🙏

[@ChazileNomfundoTsabedze-by8ln]

😢😢😢Yoooh...this is very sad, thanks for sharing sis Fikile

[@P.eaceworth85]

Apart from anything i think this is one of the best narrated stories 😂

[@spicefaith7419]

She really paints the picture, she’s good 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼

[@Azikhale_]

This really makes me angry what she went through and she's not the only one dragged into these foul things by foreigners. She's very lucky to be alive and she's very strong, I salute her🙏 Honestly though it seems like SA women are sometimes very naive, impressionable and are easily manipulated by these people, but when the good men in this country try to address this disgusting problem it's the women who call us broke and jealous of their nigerian boyfriends🤐 still something has to done here the rest of Africa can call us xenophobic tsek man!

[@CbosEasyRecipes7]

Ibuhlungu lento, my question is what happened to the foreigner/s who sent her overseees in terms of justice?

[@ntomboxolojabe2064]

1:05:52 Xa ulambile soze ungabinaive, it's not about SA women from my opinion losisi ebesokola nabantwana abayi5 and ngoluhlobo ezinigerian pastors lendlela eziziqhelanise ngayo kuye ebengenongathatheki and ebengonobathembi abapastor, okokuzala bamphathela amafood parcel every week and akhonto abayifunayo kuye in return like sleeping with her so yena wayecinga uba those Nigerian pastors are godsent 😊

[@Azikhale_]

@@ntomboxolojabe2064 baningi notata abasokolayo, do they run to drug dealing nigerian pastors? Expecting free favours from people you don't really know without paying a price is called being Naive. The story is proof mos kanti awuzwanga?

[@nobesuthungwenya6052]

Most painful and sad personal experience I have EVER heard. I was so captivated watching this, she tells it with a bit of humour you don't even shed a tear but you understand the pain. imagine being made a guinea pig????

[@mbusosiera1648]

The 1994 ANC dream brought pain to many South Africans, corrupt and unemployment is destroying this country

[@SILINDILENTOMBELA-n1l]

This story deserves a movie 🍿🎥

[@dorcramps6779d]

GUYS YOO HAI THIS IS PROOF THAT GOD IS GOD MAN ,IT WAS NOT HER TIME WOOW YERR

[@QueenOfSheba_]

Great show❤️ So this is the reason why Xolani from Sizokthola had to go. This thing is deeply rooted.I feel sorry for him. Thank you for allowing her to speak her language, sometimes iEnglish iyabhayizisa. Can we also speak about other types of crimes such shoplifting, murders, etc.

[@thobemcwango6914]

It is up to our votes

[@movementmathebula828]

​@@thobemcwango6914votes? Kanjan ?......votes will chase away Nigerians,Zimbabweans,Mozambicans,malawians,parkistan etc ?

[@zukozuko9690]

They lure ppl to church? Imagine

[@maropengcandy7423]

This is sad😢 shame but she is detailed n appreciate this eye opener.

[@leeannvuyelwaash]

Lord bless this lady and i hope people can help a go fund me for her.